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Greater MarriageMarriage Isn't What You Expected? You're Not Alone.Did your relationship turn out differently than you imagined? You’re not alone—and you’re not failing. In this episode, we’re talking about what happens after the honeymoon phase fades and real life begins: the laundry piles up, the spark fizzles, and your once-charming spouse starts to drive you a little crazy.But here’s the truth: where you focus in marriage shapes everything. When we fixate on what’s frustrating, we miss the beauty that’s still there. Together, we’ll explore how to shift your perspective, retrain your thoughts, and use your words to br...2025-07-1535 minGreater MarriageHow to Keep Your Relationship Strong Through Hard TimesWhen life gets tough, your marriage doesn’t have to fall apart—it can grow stronger. In this episode of the Greater Marriage Podcast, we’re sharing how couples can stay connected, hopeful, and committed during life’s hardest seasons. From financial struggles to emotional distance, we explore how to lean into God, hold onto hope, fight for each other, and seek wise counsel when needed.With Scripture-based encouragement and practical insight, we’ll help you build a marriage that can weather any storm. Whether you’re in a tough season or want to prepare your relatio...2025-07-0835 minGreater MarriageWhat You Survived Might Be The Key To Your CallingHave you ever felt like your past pain or struggles were meaningless? God certainly didn’t cause them but what if those very experiences are the keys God is using to reveal your calling?In this episode, we explore the powerful story of Moses — a man who faced rejection, fear, and failure, yet God used every part of his journey to prepare him for a divine calling far greater than he imagined. Just like Moses, your past survival is not an accident; it’s a vital part of God’s plan for your purpose.If you’v...2025-07-0127 minGreater MarriageThe Friends Your Marriage NeedsHave you ever left a conversation with a friend more upset about your marriage than when you started? The voices around us matter—especially when our relationships are struggling.In this episode, we’re talking about the friendships that surround your marriage. Who are the people speaking into your most sacred relationship? Are they fanning the flames of frustration or guiding you toward grace and reconciliation?If your marriage matters to you, the people around it should too. Let’s learn how to protect our relationship by choosing friendships that love, refresh, encourage, and ch...2025-06-2433 minGreater MarriageWhat Your Spouse Needs to HearYour words hold more power than you think—especially in marriage. In this heartfelt episode, we dive into how simple, intentional words can either breathe life into your spouse or quietly tear down the connection you’re trying to build.You’ll hear biblical wisdom on why words shape the emotional climate of your home, what husbands and wives are secretly longing to hear, and how to use your voice to drown out the enemy’s lies.------------------FREE RESOURCES FROM GREATER MARRIAGE ⬇️https://greatermarriage.com/resources2025-06-1728 minGreater MarriageLittle Voices, Big Mirror: What Would Your Kids Say About Your Marriage?In our most unforgettable episode yet, we handed the mic to our three kids—and they did not hold back. From hilarious “parent fails” to heartfelt reflections on love, God, and what makes a strong family, this candid conversation with our 11, 9, and 6-year-old is as eye-opening as it is entertaining.They shared what they really see in our marriage, how they know we love each other, and what advice they’d give to couples getting married. It’s sweet, funny, honest—and surprisingly profound.This episode will make you laugh out loud, reflect deeply, and ma...2025-06-1025 minGreater MarriageWe Keep Arguing - Is That Normal?Do you and your spouse argue more than you expected? Do the same fights keep popping up, making you wonder if something’s wrong? In this episode, we’re getting real about conflict in marriage—and why it doesn’t mean your relationship is doomed.We’ll talk about why arguing is normal (yes, even for strong, God-centered couples), the difference between healthy and unhealthy conflict, and what your fights are really trying to tell you.Plus, we’ll give you five practical tools to fight better—not just fight less. From choosing the right time...2025-06-0330 minGreater Marriage5 Marriage Habits That Will Change Your LifeIn today’s episode, we’re diving into 5 simple yet powerful habits that can bring peace, joy, and deeper connection to your marriage. These aren’t complicated steps — they’re intentional rhythms, rooted in Scripture, that help you grow together day by day.TAKEAWAY:You don’t need a perfect marriage — just persistent, God-centered habits. Pick ONE habit today and commit to it with your spouse for the next 7 days. Small rhythms, done faithfully, will lead to big change.Drop a comment: Which habit are you starting this week?Tag us on Instagram @GreaterMarriag...2025-05-2723 minGreater MarriageI Feel Like a Single Parent, But I'm NotYou're married—but when it comes to parenting, it feels like you're doing it all alone. From late-night fevers to daily discipline, from spiritual guidance to school lunches, the weight is heavy…and it's mostly on your shoulders. If that’s your reality, this episode is for you.In today’s conversation, we’re naming the frustration many parents silently carry: feeling like the only one truly parenting. You are seen. You are not failing. And you’re not without hope.------------------FREE RESOURCES FROM GREATER MARRIAGE ⬇️https://greate...2025-05-2029 minGreater MarriageHow To Be Married to a Strong-Willed SpouseDoes your spouse have a fiery personality—full of passion, conviction, and strong opinions? Do you sometimes feel like you’re being steamrolled in your own marriage? You’re not alone—and you’re not without hope.In today’s episode, we’re diving into what it’s like to be married to a strong-willed spouse—and how God can use both your strengths to build something greater together. Whether you’re the peacekeeper or the powerhouse, this conversation offers biblical wisdom, honest encouragement, and practical tools to help you grow in grace, not frustration.Mentioned in t...2025-05-1332 minGreater MarriageWhen Forgiveness Seems ImpossibleIn this episode, we dive into one of the toughest yet most transformational aspects of marriage: forgiveness. What do you do when the hurt runs deep and forgetting feels impossible? You’ll learn why our brains are wired to remember hurt, how bitterness quietly poisons relationships, and what practical steps you can take when you're struggling to move forward. We’ll also share how forgiveness can become a muscle you strengthen, not just a one-time decision.Whether you’re in a season of healing or supporting someone who is, this episode offers encoura...2025-05-0633 minGreater MarriageThanks for the Unsolicited AdviceEver been hit with terrible marriage advice? From “If it’s hard, it’s not meant to be,” to “Just fake it till you make it,” this episode dives into the worst unsolicited advice couples often hear—and how to wisely respond. We explore the importance of guarding your marriage by being intentional about who you let speak into it. Using wisdom from Proverbs and real-life biblical examples, we uncover the difference between godly counsel and well-meaning noise.Learn how to discern advice, protect your relationship, and build a stronger, more intentional marriage by filtering voices through...2025-04-2930 minGreater MarriageYou Bug Me: How to Handle the Things that Drive You NutsLet’s be real—no matter how much you love your spouse, there’s something they do that drives you absolutely nuts. In this episode, we dive into the little (and not-so-little) things that can get under your skin in marriage—and how to keep those annoyances from driving a wedge between you.We’re sharing listener stories about what bugs them most, unpacking the psychology behind why you might stop noticing the good stuff, and giving practical, grace-filled tips for staying connected even when your partner leaves their socks everywhere. Whether you're newly married or decades in...2025-04-2226 minGreater MarriageI Heard God, But I Didn't Like What He SaidWhat do you do when God speaks... and you don’t like what He says?In this episode, we’re diving into the tension between hearing God clearly and wanting to run the other way. Just like Jonah in Jonah 1:1-3, we’ve all had a “Nineveh” moment — when God calls us to something uncomfortable, inconvenient, or downright scary.We unpack how fear, pride, or even resentment can block our obedience, and how that disobedience doesn’t just affect us — it impacts everyone connected to us. But here’s the truth: the blessing is often...2025-04-1540 minGreater MarriageThe Solution to Stupidity in MarriageIn this episode of the Greater Marriage Podcast, we tackle one of the toughest but most essential topics in building a lasting relationship: the importance of discipline. Just like how our health journey requires discipline to choose long-term well-being over instant gratification, so does a thriving marriage. If you want a great marriage, it's going to take more than just hoping for a perfect result—it takes the daily commitment to doing what’s right, not what feels good. It’s not about avoiding pain; it's about choosing the kind of pain that brings growth and rew...2025-04-0826 minGreater MarriageBut I'm Not in Love Anymore...What happens when the feelings fade? When the butterflies are gone, and you find yourself saying, “I’m not in love anymore”? In this episode of the Greater Marriage Podcast, we tackle the dangerous myth that love is just an emotion—something fleeting that comes and goes.Through the lens of Scripture, we redefine love as a choice, a commitment, and a daily act of selflessness. Drawing from 1 John 4:8, Romans 5:8, and 1 Corinthians 13, we uncover the truth: real love is work, sacrifice, and humility—not just a passing feeling.If you’ve ever questioned your love or...2025-04-0128 minGreater MarriageDoes Submission in Marriage Still Apply Today?In this episode of the Greater Marriage Podcast, we dive deep into a topic that often sparks confusion and debate—submission in marriage. Specifically, we tackle the question: Does submission still apply today?We begin by exploring the often misunderstood verse from Ephesians 5:22, “Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord.” But what does submission really mean? It's not about surrendering control—like some may think. We discuss the difference between surrender and submission.Join us as we discuss how we can apply this biblical principle in our modern marriage...2025-03-2528 minGreater MarriageThe Key to a Happy MarriageIn this episode, Dustyn and Heather dive into the essential role of humility in marriage. They explore how humility is the foundation for love, honor, integrity, and empathy—and why it isimpossible to have a healthy marriage without it.Through Scripture, personal stories, and real-life application, they discuss:What it truly means to be humble in marriageHow pride creates resistance, division, and even aligns us with the enemyBiblical examples of humility, including Jesus as the ultimate servant leaderThe role of men in leading their families with humility and trustPractical ways to overcome pride an...2025-03-1835 minGreater MarriageQuestions Every Woman Has About MarriageIn this episode, we dive deep into some of the most common questions women have about marriage. From handling arguments with grace to voicing unmet expectations, we discuss practical tips that strengthen your relationship and help create a healthy, supportive environment for both you and your spouse!We explore how to manage conflict, the power of prayer in your marriage, and how to protect your relationship from temptation. Plus, we offer advice on how to respect and honor your husband's leadership while maintaining a strong partnership. Whether it's about setting boundaries, building trust, or keeping...2025-03-1140 minGreater MarriageHow Should A Man Lead His Home?In this episode of the Greater Marriage Podcast, we dive into the essential role a man plays as the leader of his household. What does it truly mean to be the "head of the house," and how can men balance the responsibilities of providing, protecting, and pioneering for their families? From carving out time for God and spouse to staying connected with your kids, we discuss the importance of prioritizing relationships while managing life's demands.Learn how to be present and engaged, how to create meaningful conversations, and how to lead with discernment as the gatekeeper...2025-03-0446 minGreater MarriageWhat Are You Craving?In this episode, Dustyn and Heather Miller dive into the topic of sexual appetite, exploring what we crave and how it aligns with God's purpose for intimacy within marriage. They discuss how to navigate the tension between what the world offers and the healthy, God-ordained desires we should cultivate in our relationships. From the boundaries God has set to how we can realign our appetites with His Word, this conversation is filled with practical insights for both singles and married couples. Whether you're struggling with unhealthy cravings or seeking to reignite the passion in your m...2025-02-2532 minGreater MarriageHow Purity Culture Can Ruin Your Sex LifeIn today’s episode, we explore the complexities of purity culture and how it can impact your sex life—both before and after marriage.We discuss the core of purity culture—its emphasis on abstinence and sexual purity until marriage—highlighting how it often leaves us with feelings of shame, guilt, and confusion about healthy sexual desires. From the “True Love Waits” movement to the fear-based tactics that reinforce a narrow view of sex, we break down the unintended consequences this can have on intimacy, communication, and self-worth.------------------Chapters2025-02-1837 minGreater MarriageHow Can We Improve Our Sex Life?In this episode, we’re continuing our series all about creating a greater sex life in marriage. In today’s chat, we’re diving into the Biblical foundation of intimacy and sharing simple, real-life tips to boost your connection—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. From staying healthy to keeping the romance alive, we’ve got some fun and easy ideas to help you grow closer and keep things exciting!------------------Chapters00:00 The Sacredness of Sex in Marriage04:48 God's Intention for Intimacy10:03 Sex as Worship2025-02-1136 minGreater MarriageFinding Peace in the ChaosIn this episode, Dustyn and Heather dive into the true nature of peace—especially as it relates to marriage. The world often defines peace as a fleeting, emotional feeling, but biblical peace is something much more steadfast and immovable. Drawing from the story of Jesus calming the storm in Mark 4, the Millers explore how peace isn’t found in the absence of chaos, but in the presence of God. They unpack how peace functions as an anchor in life’s storms, keeping us grounded and steady even when everything around us is turbulent.They offer practi...2025-02-0428 minGreater MarriageLet's Talk About Sex BabyToday's episode is all about SEX—an essential and often misunderstood part of marriage. We’ll explore how sex is a gift from God, its physical, emotional, and spiritual benefits, and how it can strengthen your connection with your spouse. From avoiding temptation through intimacy to improving your health, we cover it all!We also get real about the dynamics of sexual relationships—how men and women approach intimacy differently, the importance of communication, and how to keep things exciting and fresh. Plus, we’ll offer actionable tips on how to make your marriage great today, with que...2025-01-2845 minGreater MarriageAre You Settling for Leftovers?Are you leaving your marriage with only the leftovers? 🍽️ In this episode of the Greater Marriage Podcast, Dustyn and Heather Miller dive deep into the idea of "leftovers" in relationships. While it may seem harmless to prioritize work, kids, or other obligations, what happens when your spouse only gets what’s left of your time, energy, and attention? Spoiler: leftovers never hit the mark.Join us as we explore:✨ Why "leftover syndrome" happens in marriage✨ The impact of busyness, ministry, and culture pressure to de-prioritize your relationship✨ How to honor your spouse by giving them your fir...2025-01-2123 minGreater MarriageI Don't Feel WantedIn this heartfelt episode, Dustyn & Heather tackle a deeply personal and common issue in marriage: feeling unwanted by your spouse. Life gets busy, routines become monotonous, and sometimes, it feels like the spark that once ignited your relationship fades into the background. We’ll discuss how to navigate the painful feeling of being overlooked, how to handle those emotions without letting them build resentment, and most importantly, how to win back your spouse and reignite the desire and connection in your marriage.We explore practical tips for making your spouse feel valued and wanted, even amidst the ch...2025-01-1435 minGreater MarriageYou Do NOT Complete MeIn this episode, Dustyn and Heather dive deep into the truth that marriage is not about finding someone to "complete" us, but about two whole, fully-formed individuals choosing to walk alongside each other in companionship. Too often, society feeds us the notion that we’re incomplete until we find our "other half," but the truth is, we are already complete in Christ.Dustyn and Heather explore the vital role of personal identity in marriage, the importance of each partner being rooted in who they are before entering into a lifelong commitment, and how our spouse’s role is n...2025-01-0719 minGreater MarriageYour Secrets Will Make You SickIn this powerful episode, Dustyn and Heather dive deep into the topic of transparency in marriage and the impact of keeping secrets. They explore how hidden truths, even small ones, can build emotional walls and create distance in relationships. With honesty and vulnerability, they discuss the importance of open communication, trust, and how uncovering secrets can lead to healing and deeper connection. Tune in for practical advice on fostering transparency in your own marriage and why living in the light is key to long-lasting intimacy and health in relationships.Don't miss this transformative conversation about the freedom...2024-12-3125 minGreater MarriageFirst Things First - How to Prioritize Your MarriageIn this podcast, Dustyn and Heather Miller share the powerful truth that when you put God first and your marriage second, everything else in life falls into place. With authenticity and a faith-driven perspective, they explore how prioritizing your marriage above all other relationships—family, work, and friends—creates a foundation of love, peace, and stability in the home.Through personal stories, biblical insights, and practical tips, Dustyn and Heather break down how aligning your marriage with God’s design leads to deeper connection, clearer communication, and a stronger partnership. They discuss how focusing on nurturing your marria...2024-12-2429 minGreater MarriageMeet the Millers - Widowhood, Unexpected Pregnancy & A Decade of Ministry LifeIn this podcast, Dustyn and Heather share their personal story—one of profound loss, miraculous healing, and the unwavering hope that comes from trusting God's timing. Through candid conversations, they open up about their story of widowhood, remarriage, parenting, and life in ministry. Whether you're navigating grief, searching for redemption, or just looking for some encouragement in your own relationships, this episode offers a powerful reminder that love, faith, and perseverance can transform even the hardest moments into something beautiful.Join us as we unpack the lessons learned from a decade of ministry life and the unshakable ho...2024-12-1838 minGreater MarriageMarriage Math: Can Two Really Become One?In this episode, Dustyn and Heather dive deep into God's original plan of TWO becoming ONE. They share candid conversations, personal experiences, and Biblical insight on how couples can navigate the challenges of building a life together. Dustyn and Heather explore how two individuals can come together, not just in love, but in purpose and partnership. Whether you’re newlyweds or have been married for years, this podcast offers practical advice, real-life stories, and a healthy dose of humor to help couples strengthen their bond and find greater unity. Can two really become one? Tune in to find out ho...2024-12-1025 min
Greater MarriageYou're NOT fighting enough!Join Dustyn & Heather as they talk about their first fight ever and how "fighting" more actually improved their communication and their marriage!2024-12-0228 min
Kirk Students5.27 // Communal Conversations: Dustyn MillerDustyn is husband to Heather, father to three beautiful children and leader of GYC (Guts Youth Church) in Tulsa, OK. Connect with Dustyn, GYC and buy his most recommended book on the necessity of "slowing down" at the links below:
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https://www.amazon.com/Ruthless-Elimination-Hurry-Emotionally-Spiritually/dp/05256530902021-05-2757 min