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Terribly UnobliviousIf Cats Have Demons, We’re Hiring An ExorcistSend us a textA quote from The Dark Knight, a detour through Heat, and suddenly we’re not just talking movies—we’re talking systems, stakes, and why “hope is not a plan.” We riff on chaos and anger with our running “Deuce Bruces” gag, but it all funnels into something real: how to design your life so it doesn’t fold when the first thing goes wrong. From tech jobs that used to implode to the “engineer bags” and weekly inventories that now keep us sane, we break down how a few small systems erase a lot of stress.
2026-01-1953 minTerribly UnobliviousEgg Gravy, Lingerie, And A Tree That Hangs From The CeilingSend us a textIf social pressure had a season, it would be December. We jump straight into the mess of timelines, labels, and expectations: how long should you wait to commit, and who gets to decide what “dating” even means? The joke about seven dates not being “dating” turns into a smarter question—are we aligned on language and outcomes, or hiding behind ambiguity to dodge responsibility?From there, we wade into the deep end of holiday logistics: merging family traditions without smothering the magic. Wrapped vs unwrapped gifts, Christmas Eve vs Christmas morning, and the th...
2026-01-121h 07Terribly UnobliviousStop Chasing Your “Best Self” And Start Liking Who You AreSend us a textA crackling fire, a quiet room, and a loud truth: sometimes “working on yourself” is just a clever way to avoid yourself. We pull on that thread and unravel the difference between meaningful growth and restless avoidance, from journaling and therapy binges to the seductive trap of endless prep with no action. If you’ve ever felt unworthy when you’re not producing or performing, this one hits close to home.We talk through holiday pressure, why December feels like a stress test for the soul, and how youth mental health stats ca...
2026-01-0554 minTerribly UnobliviousCut The Tape, Sharpen The DaySend us a textIf your days feel loud, scattered, and oddly fragile, this conversation hands you a calmer operating system. We start by redefining “sharpness” as the quiet power of preparedness: those small, boring habits that stack into confidence when things get messy. Think kitchens at peak service—labels aligned, green tape cut with scissors, everything in its place so execution can be fast, clean, and adaptable.We share what’s actually working: non‑negotiables that anchor a day, block time that protects creative flow, and morning routines that trade panic for presence. You’ll hear how...
2025-12-2941 minTerribly UnobliviousWe Tried To Plan A Race To Mongolia And All We Got Was Anxiety, Stoicism, And A Puke BidetSend us a textA song cue, a cult movie memory, and one reckless idea—drive a tiny car from Prague to Kazakhstan. That’s the spark. What follows is the real story: two friends stress-testing the line between adventure and responsibility, and discovering how journals, Stoicism, and honest conversation can keep both the engine and the mind running. We weigh the rush of open routes against the people who need us home, then explore the tools that make meaning possible when big trips aren’t.We dig into daily practices that actually help: one-line logs t...
2025-12-252h 18Terribly UnobliviousWe Try To Make Our Worlds Smaller And Accidentally Expose Why We Keep Making Them BiggerSend us a textA ten-year-old watches a Pearl Harbor montage and nails the logic of escalation better than most headlines—and that sparks a bigger conversation about cycles we can’t stop, stress we secretly crave, and the way small choices turn into big messes. We jump from history to heirlooms to the uneasy market for forbidden artifacts, and why some collectors quietly buy propaganda just to burn it. That leads to a different kind of pilgrimage: retracing family wartime routes as a way to turn grief into grit.From there, culture crashes the part...
2025-12-171h 08Terribly UnobliviousShitty Gear, Stronger YouSend us a textEver notice how the promise of “better gear” turns into a respectable way to procrastinate? We start with light banter and land in a deeper pocket: grief, loneliness, and the quiet work of rebuilding routines when life changes. That flows into a theme we kept circling—how durability and simplicity create momentum. A heavy, pink Schwinn becomes transport and training; old leather boots outlast the trend cycle; a ruck that’s beat to hell still gets you out the door. When your tools are reliable, you stop obsessing over them and finally focus on the d...
2025-12-011h 30Terribly UnobliviousTime is Your Most Valuable ResourceSend us a textHave you ever felt that heavy blanket of anxiety or depression weighing on your chest, making even breathing feel like a monumental task? This deeply personal episode takes you into the heart of what it means to struggle with self-worth and discover healthier pathways forward.Brad and Dylan share candid reflections on their mental health journeys, highlighting that breakthrough moment when you finally find a better approach to life but feel frustrated about all the time spent doing things the "wrong way." They explore how underlying many of our struggles is...
2025-07-251h 26Terribly UnobliviousThe Art of Finding Purpose in Dark PlacesSend us a textWhat drives someone to build a full-sized airplane in their basement? The same thing that makes us question insurance company CEOs, contemplate multiverses, or find reasons to stay alive during our darkest moments – the search for meaning.From the moment we descend into Dylan's basement workshop, surrounded by airplane parts and half-finished projects, this episode takes us on a journey through the things we build to outlast ourselves. Dylan's four-seater aircraft isn't just a hobby; it's a legacy he hopes his grandchildren will inherit (though he jokes they might use it to...
2025-03-312h 17Terribly UnobliviousMeditatively Unaware: Navigating Self-Deception and Personal ResilienceSend us a textHave you ever wondered if you're your own harshest critic or if you're blissfully oblivious like the rest of us? Join Brad and Dylan as they embark on a hilarious yet deeply introspective journey through the frosty landscapes of self-preservation and self-deception. With a blend of candid humor and genuine reflection, they tackle the intriguing concept of being "Meditatively Unaware," questioning whether it's preferable to remain politely detached from our truths. As we navigate this metaphorical tundra, you'll hear quotes and anecdotes that spark both laughter and contemplation on personal success and resilience.
2024-12-0648 minTerribly UnobliviousBathroom Antics, DIY Flamethrowers, and the Quest for BalanceSend us a textHave you ever wondered if a teenager's bathroom antics could lead to a slippery disaster, or if homemade flamethrowers were really a thing? In our latest episode of the Terribly Unoblivious Podcast, we kick things off with a lighthearted discussion on the cyclical nature of life's experiences, including the hilarity of a teenager named Phoenix who managed to transform a bathroom into a cologne-slicked hazard zone. From there, we wander into tales of youthful curiosity, recounting how body spray turned into an explosive tool for fun long before TikTok made DIY projects mainstream.
2024-10-2155 minTerribly UnobliviousHot Takes - Pinot Noir, Olympic Controversies, and Celebrity WhimsSend us a textIs the allure of a 2018 Pinot Noir from Gap's Crown Vineyard enough to spark a discussion on the complexities behind sports and academics? Our episode begins with a flavorful examination of wine, setting the stage for a spirited debate on scholarships, particularly the unique opportunities available for female athletes in Division II and III schools. Get ready for a shift in gears as we tackle the NCAA's latest actions against Jim Harbaugh, casting a spotlight on collegiate athletics' ethics and integrity. All of this while providing a quick peek into international politics and...
2024-10-1847 minTerribly UnobliviousRocking Nostalgia: Movies, Music, and Tattoos in a Journey of DiscoverySend us a textEver wondered how our favorite music videos and movies from the past still influence us today? Join us as we journey through some iconic pop culture moments, like Yellowcard's unforgettable MTV tribute to "The Breakfast Club" and Charlie Sheen's legendary cameo in "Ferris Bueller's Day Off." We reflect on the emotional power of the Foo Fighters' performance with Taylor Hawkins' son, and even entertain the idea of rocking a "November Rain" inspired wedding dress. Of course, we also couldn't help but feel a bit of concert FOMO over missing Adele in Munich.
2024-10-1455 minTerribly UnobliviousCravings, Conflicts, and Cantina TunesSend us a textEver wondered why certain songs make you crave tacos and margaritas instantly? Tune in as we chat about the powerful, almost Pavlovian response to summer jams like "Volver Volver" and our neighbor's relentless Spanish guitar practice. We humorously consider hiring him for his unique talents while pondering whether playing cantina music regularly could solve our Mexican food cravings. Plus, we laugh about our unpredictable podcast schedule—affectionately dubbed "seasonal"—and share heartwarming moments that highlight life's quirks and surprises.From Margaret Thatcher's legacy to Kurt Cobain's tragic end, our conversation takes unex...
2024-06-191h 03Terribly UnobliviousPlato's Cave: Enlightenment in the Age of Social MediaSend us a textEmbark on a captivating odyssey through the shadows of Plato's Allegory of the Cave with Brad and me, as we peel back the layers of reality, knowledge, and the blissful spark of enlightenment that beckons from beyond our digital screens. With wit as sharp as the flickering flames that cast those ancient shadows, we navigate the murky waters of social-media-induced delusions, all the while juxtaposing the profound wisdom of antiquity with the relentless buzz of modern trends. Prepare to be whisked away from the ephemeral 'fit check' fads and plunged into the depth...
2024-04-081h 02Terribly UnobliviousHot Takes - Tightropes, Prescriptions, and the Colorful Spectrum of EmotionSend us a textEver feel like you're walking a tightrope between affection and codependency, or find yourself questioning the authenticity of ADHD diagnoses? Strap in, because we are about to take you on a rollercoaster ride through these complex terrains. We'll share personal stories that might just mirror your own experiences and debate the stickiness of relationships, the intricacies of mental health prescriptions, and the colorful spectrum of our emotional lives.Dylan drops by with anecdotes and insights that'll either have you nodding along or sparking your own fiery opinions. Together, we crack open the...
2024-04-0541 minTerribly UnobliviousParenting in the Digital Age: Balancing Love, Authority, and GrowthSend us a textHave you ever considered the thin line where unconditional love could turn into something akin to Stockholm syndrome? This episode embarks on a journey to uncover the nuances of personal growth and relationships. We start by contemplating Elon Musk's capacity for emotional presence, despite the demands of his life—could the tech mogul also find success in the realms of fatherhood? We'll also tackle the Ship of Theseus paradox, revealing how life's transformations are mirrored in our mental and physical evolutions, especially through the community experiences like those found in CrossFit.Na...
2024-04-0152 minTerribly UnobliviousThe Ship that Theseus BuiltSend us a textEmbark on a philosophical adventure with us and our special guest Annie, as we peel back the layers of the Ship of Theseus puzzle. It's not just an ancient paradox; it's a lively debate about the very core of identity that still captures the imagination today. Throughout our episode, we trace the lines between the tangible and intangible, contemplating whether we, like the storied ship, remain 'us' amidst the ebb and flow of change. We're not just talking planks and nails here—this is about the essence of being, from the cars we dr...
2024-03-2659 minTerribly UnobliviousBad Therapy or Bad Insights?Send us a textWe love to start this episode grooving to Brad's "fucking theme song." With Abigail Shrier's bold claims on Joe Rogan's podcast about 'Bad Therapy' as our compass, we traverse the landscape of professional advice—questioning if today's therapists are indeed wrapping the next generation in cotton wool. The journey isn't without its potholes as we scrutinize the notion of 'never' in therapy and take a detour through the Schmugelsphere for a closer look at Shrier's media insights, finding ourselves both enlightened and a tad heartbroken by the revelations.Remember the days of th...
2024-03-1152 minTerribly UnobliviousHot Takes - Diving into Digital RealmsSend us a textEver found yourself questioning the very fabric of reality in our AI-infused world? That's the rabbit hole we're leaping headfirst into, as we spar with disinformation's dark arts and the genuine perplexity of artificial intelligence. Imagine a society where deep fakes make you double-take at your own memories and where the boundary between human essence and binary code is as blurred as a UFO sighting. We've rolled up our sleeves to debate these digital dilemmas, armed only with our sharpest wit and an unwavering belief in the power of critical thinking.Join...
2024-03-0845 minTerribly UnobliviousIt's Called PracticeSend us a text Discover how to push past the comfortable plateau of regular practice and into the realm of true expertise. Through laughter and lively banter, we'll share why Angela Duckworth's grit and the famed 10,000-hour rule are just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to achieving excellence, whether you're on the sports field, in the office, or tackling life's hurdles.Ever wondered how world-class athletes continue to raise the bar, or what separates a good TED Talk from a great one? It's not just about putting in the hours; it's about t...
2024-03-041h 18Terribly UnobliviousHot Takes - Swinging at Sports Myths and Visualizing the Mind's EyeSend us a textHey Truth-Seekers and Vibes-Catchers, it's Brad and Dylan taking you on a wild ride through the tangled web of sports myths and life's quirks! Ever been coached with well-meaning but misguided tips? We're swinging for the fences as we debunk common sports advice that's tripping up young athletes. Picture this: your little leaguer's coach yelling "Keep that back elbow up!" – we'll tell you why that's not always a home run. And for the golfers out there, we're putting the brakes on the "slow your swing" mantra. So, buckle up for a hilarious journey th...
2024-03-0131 minTerribly UnobliviousHot Takes - Morality, Monsters, and Musings with MartinSend us a textEver wonder why Ben Affleck seemed so fired up on Real Time with Bill Maher? We've got the tea. Our latest journey through the realms of opinion and debate brings you a no-holds-barred analysis of Affleck's fiery exchange and a respectful nod to Sam Harris's cool composure. We also navigate the charged waters surrounding the perception of Christianity and take a cheeky detour into Jordan Peterson's world, all while sharing a few chuckles about the prospect of Shawshank-style prison escapes. Grasping the essence of moral strength, we introduce our guest, Martin, f...
2024-02-2343 minTerribly UnobliviousNavigating the Echo ChambersSend us a textThis heartfelt episode is a mosaic of insights, from the challenges of finding balance amidst the relentless treadmill of adulthood to the sobering reminders of cherished movies like "Ferris Bueller's Day Off," urging us to savor life's fleeting joys. Tag along as we share personal milestones, the delicate equilibrium between life's demands and the practice of self-care, and how the profound lessons from the book "Grit" have become intertwined with my own experiences.The conversation takes a deeper dive as we peel back the layers of our therapeutic journeys, exploring the...
2024-02-191h 24Terribly UnobliviousHot Takes - Mirth Amidst the GravitasSend us a textEver found yourself questioning the essence of existence with a dose of humor to sweeten the existential dread? That's where we begin our latest episode, tiptoeing through the absurdities of life and the poignant reality of cancer's touch on us all. We trade quips and share heartfelt stories about coaching youth basketball, confronting the beast of cancer, and the therapeutic role laughter plays in the face of adversity. It's a genuine blend of levity and gravity, with anecdotes that'll have you nodding in agreement and chuckling at the ridiculousness we all navigate.
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