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Chatting With The LightkeeperS.4 Episode Eight: The Experience Gap“Are you experienced?" Jimi Hendrix asked decades ago and that is the question Edward tackles in this episode of Chatting with the Lightkeeper. Surprisingly, a recent poll revealed that while a majority of those newer to the lifestyle,nearly half would not consider an equal or less experienced partner. Why this apparent contradiction? Explore the expectations of newcomers, the hesitations of veterans who have seen a few rodeos, the potential pitfalls of the fake it until you make it mentality, and a crucial warning about predatory people fishing for those who have less experience. Could your ideal partner be a...
2025-04-1531 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.4 Episode Five: Gettin' WordyWords are powerful, from small words like “no” to those longwhat exactly do they mean words. When the conversation turns to BDSM, words can become the lyrics of pleasure, pleasurable pain, or just pain. Even words commonly associated with BDSM, submissive for example, can be defined differently, by different people. In this episode, join Edward as he explains why he is so “wordy” while wandering down the rabbit hole of lifestyle words that are pet peeves. So buckle up, sit back, and enjoy this audio adventure which just will make you look at some kinky words with a fresh point of...
2025-03-041h 05
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.3 Episode Thirteen: 2024 A BDSM Odyssey – From Shame to StrengthEmbark on a profound exploration of mental health and BDSM on Chatting With The Lightkeeper. This episode, 2024 A BDSM Odyssey – From Shame to Strength, delves into the therapeutic dimensions of BDSM, challenging societal misconceptions and stigma while highlighting its
potential for personal development and well-being.
Discover the significance of consent, communication, and safety within BDSM practices, and how they contribute to fostering healthier relationships and emotional resilience. From stress management to self-discovery, uncover the diverse psychological benefits BDSM offers.
Confronting societal stigma and addressing critical issues like boundary setting and risk management, From Shame to St...
2024-03-2639 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.3 Episode Twelve: 2024 A BDSM Odyssey – Bear Hugs & BondageIn this captivating episode of Chatting With The Lightkeeper titled 2024 A BDSM Odyssey – Bear Hugs & Bondage, delve into the crucial aspect of establishing a supportive BDSM community, drawing parallels to the personalized experience of "Build-A-Bear Workshops." Discover the profound significance of connecting with like-minded individuals who appreciate and honor your journey in BDSM, while exploring the psychological benefits of belonging to such a community. Explore the diverse online platforms tailored to the BDSM community, including FetLife, BDSM subreddits, and social media groups, leveraging their accessibility and anonymity. Uncover the enriching opportunities provided by in-person events such as munches, play pa...
2024-03-1943 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.3 Episode Eleven: 2024 A BDSM Odyssey - Controlling Love BugsIn this episode of Chatting With The Lightkeeper, the series 2024, A BDSM Odyssey continues by delving into the complexities of power exchange in BDSM, focusing on the distinctions between D/S and Master/slave (M/s) relationships. Examining the roles of dominant and submissive partners in each dynamic, emphasis is placed on negotiation, consent, and levels of control. Common misconceptions are addressed, and open communication is promoted to provide insight into the varied expressions of power exchange within the BDSM community, fostering
understanding and healthy relationship dynamics.
2024-03-1250 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.3 Episode Ten: 2024 A BDSM Odyssey – A Is For AftercareThis episode of Chatting With The Lightkeeper, titled 2024, A BDSM Odyssey – A Is For Aftercare, delves into the essential concept of aftercare within the realm of BDSM. It all begins by defining aftercare as the emotional, psychological, and sometimes physical support provided after engaging in BDSM activities, which varies from person to person and can include activities like cuddling or talking. Exploring why aftercare matters while addressing misconceptions and emphasizing its crucial role in emotional well-being alongside physical safety. The discussion covers various types of aftercare, such as physical comfort, emotional support, and hydration, stressing the importance of communication an...
2024-03-0542 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS. 3 Episode Nine: 2024 A BDSM Odyssey – The Sensory SymphonyIn this episode of Chatting With The Lightkeeper, the series 2024 A BDSM Odyssey continues with The Sensory Symphony. This episode delves into sensation play in BDSM, emphasizing communication and safety while exploring various types of sensory play and sharing tips for exploration, ensuring a fulfilling experience. Discover how to enjoy wax and ice play, along with blindfolds and tactile stimulation, more safely and thrillingly. Listen today for a concise yet informative journey through the Sensory Symphony of BDSM.
2024-02-2740 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS. 3 Episode Eight: 2024 A BDSM Odyssey – Paddle PowerIn this episode of 2024 A BDSM Odyssey titled Paddle Power, listeners will delve into the captivating realm of impact play, gaining insights into its definition, implements used, and the sensations experienced. Emphasizing safety considerations such as negotiation, communication, and boundary-setting, the segment provides valuable techniques and tips for execution while dispelling common myths. Addressing harmful advice, the importance of aftercare is underscored, with practical strategies for physical comfort, emotional support, and partner reconnection. Join me as we navigate this thrilling aspect of BDSM with expertise and care, optimizing your understanding and enjoyment of impact play.
2024-02-2052 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.3 Episode Seven: 2024, A BDSM Odyssey - Getting KnottyIn this sixth episode of the series, 2024 A BDSM Odyssey - Getting Knotty, delves into the world of bondage, focusing on safety, consent, and exploration. Explore the allure of bondage, uncovering reasons such as power dynamics and heightened sensory experiences, all while emphasizing the vital aspects of consent and
communication. Gain valuable tips for safe bondage play, including negotiation, selecting the right equipment, and understanding potential risks. Whether you are a beginner learning basic bondage positions or seeking to avoid common mistakes, join me on this journey as I share insights gained from personal experiences, including a memorable epic...
2024-02-1341 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.3 Episode Six: 2024 A BDSM Odyssey - Safe Words and Safety NetsEmbark on a profound exploration of BDSM safety on Chatting With The Lightkeeper. This episode delves into the importance of safe words, risk-aware consensual kinks, and personal responsibility for establishing secure and consensual experiences. Gain valuable insights into effective communication during play, and discover the guiding philosophies of SSC, RACK, PRICK, and The 4C’s. Whether you are a seasoned BDSM practitioner or a curious listener, tune in now for a compelling journey into the empowering dynamics of BDSM relationships in 2024.
2024-02-0658 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.3 Episode Five: 2024, A BDSM Odyssey – Rock’n RoleThis week on Chatting With The Lightkeeper, I am pleased to present the fourth episode of the series 2024, A BDSM Odyssey – Rock’n Role. Join me for an insightful exploration into the sophisticated world of lifestyle roles in BDSM. This episode delves into the profound significance of education, self-reflection, and the continual evolution of BDSM roles. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that not only offers fresh perspectives but also fosters a deeper understanding of the diverse and dynamic landscape of lifestyle roles in the BDSM community.
2024-01-3044 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.3 Episode Four: 2024 A BDSM Odyssey - Understanding ConsentWelcome to the third episode of 2024, A BDSM Odyssey. In this episode, I delve into a thought-provoking discussion on the nuanced aspects of consent within the realm of BDSM. Explore the importance of effective communication, boundary setting, and navigating consent in various scenarios. I address common misconceptions about BDSM and consent, introducing the FRIES methodology and providing additional valuable resources. Consent stands as the cornerstone of BDSM, influencing every aspect of this unique journey. Join me for an enlightening exploration of the profound connection between consent and the BDSM experience in this week's episode.
2024-01-2352 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.3 Episode Three: 2024 A BDSM Odyssey - Navigating FearsWelcome to the second episode of 2024, A BDSM Odyssey, focusing on fears in BDSM and delving into common concerns in exploration. Join me as we explore fears of judgment, safety, and communication challenges. Listen to unravel prevalent anxiety-causing issues, discover practical tips for overcoming them, and delve into the significance of communication and community support in the realm of BDSM. Embrace your desires, conquer fears, and become part of a supportive BDSM community for confident exploration.
2024-01-2342 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.3 Episode Two: 2024 A BDSM Odyssey - In The BeginningEmbark on an enlightening journey into the world of BDSM with the inaugural episode of the series 2024 A BDSM Odyssey, titled In The Beginning. Explore the intricacies of Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism. From the consensual art of bondage to psychological dynamics, delve into diverse activities and power dynamics within BDSM relationships.
Emphasizing consent, this episode navigates emotional facets and dispels myths, celebrating the diversity and safety in BDSM. Join me as we challenge misconceptions, promoting a healthy, consensual exploration of desires.
2024-01-1641 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.3 Episode One: Beyond the OasisEmbark on a captivating journey with Chatting With The Lightkeeper as it delves into the world of D/S, drawing inspiration from the hit film Ready Player One. In this episode, unravel the parallels between the virtual reality oasis in the movie and the intricacies of the D/S lifestyle. From avatar creation to navigating challenges and quests, discover how individuals express their desires and explore identities in a consensual and controlled environment. Join for a thought-provoking discussion on the unique sense of community, innovation, and the real-world impact of blending fantasy with reality in the D/S lifestyle...
2024-01-0222 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Sixty: Quartet of Poems, Queries, and a ReflectionEmbark on a unique journey with the final episode of the year as I step out of my comfort zone to unveil four unpublished D/S-themed poems. Delve into the intricacies of Dominance and Submission as I respond to four compelling listener questions, providing insights that resonate. To wrap up the year, I present a special D/S challenge, inviting you to reflect and set intentions for the upcoming year. Join me for a reflective and engaging episode, marking the conclusion of this year's podcasting adventures.
2023-12-2649 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Fifty-Nine: Woof, How Old Are You?Embark on a Journey into BDSM Realms with Edward on Chatting With the Lightkeeper! Explore the captivating worlds of age play, pet play, and brats in D/S. Wonder why these dynamics resonate within the vibrant BDSM community? Join us for diverse stories and experiences. Don't miss out. listen and follow today to uncover the unique corners of the BDSM experience. Dive into a world of discovery!
2023-12-2646 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Fifty-Eight: Confident Kink: Overcoming BDSM OverwhelmEmbark on a transformative journey with the latest episode of Chatting With The Lightkeeper, delving into common challenges in the BDSM lifestyle. From deciphering intricate terminology to navigating power dynamics, explore reasons individuals may feel overwhelmed. Tune in for practical insights, emphasizing the importance of education, open communication, and community engagement. Discover how to overcome challenges, making your BDSM journey rewarding. Whether you're a seasoned practitioner or new to the lifestyle, this episode provides valuable guidance for navigating the complexities of BDSM dynamics confidently. Follow now for illuminating conversations and transformative insights on 'Chatting With The Lightkeeper.
2023-12-1248 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Fifty-Seven: Collar Your ElfThe latest episode of the podcast, titled Collar Your Elf, explores the empowering concept of self-collaring within D/S. Delving into the dynamics of power exchange, unraveling how both dominants and submissives can harness the symbolism of self-collaring to achieve personal goals and discover newfound empowerment. This act of self-affirmation not only deepens one's connection to their role but also potentially enhances their appeal to future partners. Join in as the podcast navigates the intricacies of self-collaring, shedding light on its transformative potential in fostering self-discovery and empowerment, under the alluring umbrella of BDSM.
2023-12-0533 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Fifty-Six: The Cherry PEZ of BDSMWelcome to another episode of Chatting With The Lightkeeper with your host, Edward. In this week's episode titled "The Cherry Pez of BDSM," Edward delves into a thought-provoking exploration of the BDSM lifestyle. This week Edward focuses on a specific aspect of the community the role of "kink dispensers" and the potential harm they may inflict on dominants. Tune in as Edward navigates the intricacies of power dynamics within the BDSM world, shedding light on the complexities of relationships and the importance of communication and consent. It's a captivating discussion that unveils the nuances of this unique lifestyle and...
2023-11-2837 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Fifty-Five: Unveiling Empowerment Part TwoIn this episode, we tackle common myths surrounding dominants, dispelling misconceptions that often shroud this dynamic role in the D/S lifestyle. Host Edward explores how dominance goes beyond
stereotypes, debunking notions of aggression and empathetic disconnect. Real-life experiences illustrate the empowering truths that emerge once these myths are dismantled, showcasing the diverse and multifaceted nature of dominance. Join in "Unveiling Empowerment Part Two" as we celebrate the empowering realities of dominance, foster understanding, and encourage open dialogue within the D/S lifestyle. Whether you are a seasoned participant or a
curious listener, this episode provides a search engine-friendly...
2023-11-2842 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Fifty-Four: Unveiling Empowerment - Part OneIn this episode, we embark on a journey deep into the heart of Dominance and Submission (D/S), focusing on the empowering experiences of submissives. Whether engaged in D/S relationships or navigating the lifestyle unpartnered, submissives find strength and growth in unexpected places. From shaping power dynamics in relationships to forging identity on a solo path, we explore the myriad ways the D/S lifestyle empowers individuals.
For those unpartnered submissives seeking an empowering connection, we delve into key traits to be aware of when navigating the search for a dominant. What qualities make a dominant...
2023-11-1437 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Fifty-Three: Leaving My Erotic Comfort Zone (A Bonus Episode)In this special bonus episode, Edward takes a bold step outside the familiar realms of desire. Known for exploring the dynamics of Dominance and Submission (D/S), Edward delves into the concept
of pushing boundaries and embracing vulnerability within the D/S community.
Join Edward on an intimate journey as they share a captivating and personal piece of erotica titled The Princess And Peasant. In this
episode, Edward not only emphasizes the importance of stepping out of one's comfort zone in D/S relationships but leads by example, revealing a side rarely seen.
Tune in...
2023-11-1126 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Fifty-Two: From Sade to SafewordsIn this episode, From Sade to Safewords, we take a captivating journey through the annals of literary history, exploring the intriguing evolution of BDSM in literature from Marquis De Sade to contemporary authors. Delving into the distinction between erotica and literature unravels the delicate nuances that set these genres apart. Additionally, there are invaluable tips and insights for budding writers eager to navigate the sensual world of BDSM in their literary creations. Listen now for an illuminating discussion that unearths the hidden passions and creative potential within the written word.
2023-11-0735 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Fifty-One: Navigating CNC PlayThis episode delves into the intricate world of BDSM dynamics, focusing on the sometimes controversial but consensual practice of Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) play within Dominant/Submissive relationships. Exploring what CNC is, offering creative ideas for its implementation, while emphasizing the paramount importance of safety measures and the crucial aftercare rituals that ensure the
well-being of all participants. Join in and learn to navigate this complex and nuanced aspect of BDSM, shedding light on both the thrill and the responsibility that comes with CNC play in the world of power exchange dynamics.
2023-10-3157 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Fifty: How D/S Transforms Your Vanilla WorldThis week's podcast delves into the profound influence of the Dominance and Submission (D/S) lifestyle on our every day, non-kinky lives. The episode illuminated how the skills honed in negotiating a spanking scene can remarkably enhance our ability to negotiate a raise in the corporate world. Furthermore, it explored the powerful message of embracing diverse approaches within the
lifestyle, drawing parallels to the broader vanilla world, and demonstrating how it fosters a stronger sense of connection among individuals from all walks of life. Tune in and stay with us today to unveil the myriad ways in which this...
2023-10-2437 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Forty-Nine: The Punishing EpisodeThis compelling episode, aptly titled "The Punishing Episode," delves deep into the intricate world of D/S relationships, focusing on accountability and the subtle art of correction. Exploring the nuances of discipline within these dynamics offers valuable tips and ideas for ensuring that punishments align with the "crime." Furthermore, the discussion tackles the vital role of open communication, trust, and mutual respect in maintaining a healthy dynamic, while also addressing potential concerns and red flags that both dominants and submissives should be attuned to. Tune in for an enlightening and thought-provoking discussion on fostering growth, trust, and harmony in...
2023-10-1741 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Forty-Eight: Face Your Fears - Live Your DreamsIn this episode of "Chatting With The Lightkeeper" we delve into the transformative power of the D/S and kink world. Exploring how these lifestyles can serve as a unique and supportive framework to confront our deepest fears and anxieties, the episode highlights their potential to guide individuals towards personal growth and self-acceptance. By fostering a safe and consensual space for exploration, it showcases how D/S and kink not only help us face our innermost fears but also empower us to overcome them and flourish as more confident and self-aware individuals.
2023-10-1732 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Forty-Seven: Committed Yet DisagreedIn the latest episode of "Chatting With The Lightkeeper," the podcast delves into the intricate dynamics of D/S (dominant/submissive) relationships, specifically addressing the theme of "Committed Yet Disagreed." This episode provides insightful guidance on navigating disagreements within such relationships and emphasizes the paramount significance of unwavering commitment, even in the face of differing perspectives. Tune in to gain valuable advice on fostering understanding and harmony in the complex terrain of D/S dynamics.
2023-10-1037 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Forty-Six: Cuffing the ResponsibilityIn this enlightening episode of "Chatting With The Lightkeeper," we
delve deep into the intricate world of Dominance and Submission
dynamics. Join us as we explore the fascinating realm of accountability within these relationships, uncovering the complexities and responsibilities that come into play. Whether you're a seasoned practitioner or just curious about the subject, our insightful conversation will shed light on the importance of mutual trust and responsibility in fostering healthy D/S dynamics. Tune in and embark on a journey of understanding, growth, and connection.
2023-10-0337 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Forty-Five: Ready Player ThreeIn the latest episode of "Chatting With The Lightkeeper" titled "Ready Player Three," the podcast delves into a range of intriguing and thought-provoking topics within the context of Dominance and Submission (D/S) relationships. The episode primarily focuses on the themes of Daddy Dominants, age gap relationships, and the potential risks associated with lifestyle trainers.
Listeners are taken on a journey through the dynamics of Daddy Dominants, exploring the unique aspects and dynamics of these relationships within the D/S lifestyle. The podcast also delves into the complexities of age gap relationships, shedding light on the challenges...
2023-09-2635 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Forty-Four: Absolutely, Positively, PositiveThis episode of "Chatting With The Lightkeeper," hosted by Edward Volkl, explores the origins of negativity in the online lifestyle. Unveiling the veil of anonymity, we uncover how it enables the spread of negativity without accountability and Edward emphasizes our responsibility in curbing online negativity, urging listeners to be mindful of their online behavior and promote positivity, empathy, and understanding. In addition, this episode provides practical tips for handling negativity within your online "kinky" circle. Join Edward Volkl in this episode as we navigate the complexities of online life and strive to become beacons of light in the digital...
2023-09-1942 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Forty-Three: Bound, Spanked, And WaxedIn this episode of "Chatting With The Lightkeeper," the podcast
dives into the intricate world of D/S activities, focusing on the aspects of
bondage, spanking, and wax play. The goal is to provide valuable insights into engaging in these practices in a manner that prioritizes safety and consent.
Hosted by Edward, a seasoned practitioner and advocate for responsible BDSM activities, this episode is an enlightening journey into the realms of trust, communication, and exploration within the context of D/S dynamics. Throughout the episode, extensive knowledge and experiences are discussed to guide both novices and experienced...
2023-09-1245 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Forty-Two: Lifestyle Books: Fifty Shades of WTFIn this enlightening installment of "Chatting With The Lightkeeper," the podcast delves into the intricate realm of knowledge acquisition and intellectual exploration. Our host engages in a thought-provoking dialogue that meticulously dissects the contrasting domains of reading versus watching YouTube, underscores the significance of researching educational sources, and unveils a curated selection of D/S book recommendations.
Embarking on a journey of cognitive exploration, our host navigates the multifaceted world of information consumption, contemplating the age-old question: Why choose to read rather than indulge in the visually stimulating medium of YouTube? By meticulously analyzing the benefits and...
2023-09-0544 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Forty-One: Penises, Pillars, And FlagsIn this episode of "Chatting With The Lightkeeper," your host
Edward delves into a thought-provoking and informative discussion surrounding the sensitive topics of unsolicited explicit images, the fundamental principles of BDSM, and crucial red flags within the BDSM lifestyle. With a focus on maintaining a respectful and educational tone, Edward addresses these subjects with the intention of fostering understanding and promoting healthy communication.
The episode begins by addressing a contemporary concern in the digital age: the rise of unsolicited explicit pictures. Edward sheds light on the importance of consent, respect, and personal boundaries, emphasizing the significance of...
2023-08-2959 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Forty: What Does Being Dominant Mean To You?In this week's episode of "Chatting With The Lightkeeper," your host Edward takes center stage for a thought-provoking solo discussion on the multifaceted concept of dominance. Delving deep into his reflections, Edward invites listeners on a contemplative journey into the realms of power dynamics and control.
Setting a contemplative tone, Edward introduces the topic by addressing the question, "What does being dominant mean to you?" He shares his insights and experiences, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and open communication in understanding one's dominant tendencies. Throughout the episode, Edward provides relatable anecdotes and thought exercises that encourage listeners...
2023-08-221h 02
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Thirty-Nine: Let’s Play Twenty QuestionsIn this episode of "Chatting With The Lightkeeper," we dive into the world of Dominance and Submission (D/S) lifestyle, addressing the most common questions and concerns faced by beginners on their journey. Exploring the intricacies of consensual power exchange, the episode provides valuable insights into understanding the D/S lifestyle, finding a compatible partner, setting boundaries, and fostering open communication. With a focus on self-discovery, trust-building, and prioritizing safety and consent, this enlightening discussion guides newcomers toward a fulfilling and enriching experience within the realm of D/S relationships.
2023-08-1557 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Thirty-Eight: Unmasking The Dark Side (Part Two)In this enlightening finale of the episode Unmasking The Dark Side, Edward delves into the depths of BDSM relationship dynamics sharing 25 powerful ways to enhance and enrich these intimate connections. From exploring new kinks and roles to incorporating mindful BDSM practices and setting clear goals, listeners will gain invaluable insights to improve their D/S relationships. Edward's compassionate and knowledgeable approach illuminates the path toward a deeper understanding, trust, and growth between partners in the captivating world of BDSM.
2023-08-0846 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Thirty-Seven: Unmasking The Dark Side (Part One)In this illuminating two-part series of Chatting With The Lightkeeper, host Edward sheds light on the fascinating yet intricate world of BDSM. In part one of "Unmasking The Dark Side," Edward delves into the top twenty-five most common mistakes people make when exploring BDSM. From navigating consent and communication pitfalls to understanding the importance of emotional aftercare, this thought-provoking discussion offers valuable insights and guidance to ensure safe, consensual, and fulfilling experiences in the realm of BDSM. Whether you're a seasoned practitioner or new to the scene, join Edward as he unravels the secrets of this captivating world, emphasizing...
2023-08-0149 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS. 2 Episode Thirty-Six: Peppy Pet PeevesIn this jaw-dropping episode of Chatting With The Lightkeeper, host Edward bares it all with his uproarious yet poignant take on the top twenty-five pet peeves that drive him batty in the D/S lifestyle. Brace yourself for a rollercoaster ride of laughter and insights as Edward shares his quirky observations, sparing none of the details. Whether you're a seasoned veteran or new to the scene, you won't want to miss this thought-provoking dive into the world of dominance and submission!
2023-07-2552 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Thirty-Five: Navigating the Dungeon of ExperienceThis episode of "Chatting With The Lightkeeper” delves into the benefits and challenges of similar or varying D/S experience levels in kinktastic relationships. Throughout the episode, practical advice for dominants and submissives dealing with experience-level opportunities will be shared and discussed with an emphasis on setting clear boundaries, managing expectations, and prioritizing consent. If you've ever wondered what happens when experience levels in the D/S dynamic become an issue, this episode is for you, so do not miss out on the laughter and insights, tune in to "Chatting With The Lightkeeper" today.
2023-07-1851 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS. 2 Episode Thirty-Four: Daddy, How Did You Get Here?In this episode of "Chatting with the Lightkeeper," Edward explores the origins, psychological influences, and contemporary meaning of Daddy in the lifestyle. From a historical journey through literature, touching on notable works that contain elements relevant to BDSM with age play dynamics, the evolution in Daddy circa 1900, jazz age influences, mixed with the sexual revolution, underground publications, plugged into the internet revolution, right up to today.
Come join the conversation and discover the fascinating journey of how Daddy came to be.
2023-07-1140 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS. 2 Episode Thirty-Three: Whips, Chains, And Rental CarsIn this episode of Chatting With The Lightkeeper, host Edward Volkl dives into the intricacies of long-distance D/S relationships. He explores the unique challenges that couples face when physical proximity is limited, and offers practical tips and strategies for overcoming these obstacles.
Edward begins by acknowledging that maintaining a strong and healthy dynamic can be particularly demanding when partners are separated by distance. The absence of physical presence and tactile experiences can create emotional and psychological hurdles, but with open communication and proactive efforts, couples can bridge the gap and cultivate fulfilling relationships.
The...
2023-07-0456 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS. 2 Episode Thirty-Two: Nifty Novelty In NameologyIn this episode of Chatting with the Lightkeeper, we explore the significance of selecting a unique username when engaging the online D/S community. Discover expert tips on choosing an impactful user name that reflects your identity and desires while maintaining privacy and safety. Our host, the Lightkeeper, shares insights on striking the right balance between uniqueness and relevance, avoiding clichés, and aligning your name with your desired role. Dive into this episode to unlock the power of a well-chosen user name for enhanced connections and self-expression in D/s communities.
2023-06-2738 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS. 2 Episode Thirty-One: Filthy Flick Feelings Tied In Knots And NotsHold onto your handcuffs, folks! In this episode, the conversation dives deep into the tantalizing world of BDSM to unravel the secrets behind what makes a good or not-so-good partner. From the domineering dipstick who believes consent is just a fancy word for "whatever they want" to the amazing person who has a heart bigger than a super-sized flogger collection, this episode will help you navigate the sea of kink while exploring for the pot of gold that is quality people. Plus there is the bonus of conversation about the fictional kink shown on the silver screen. So butter up...
2023-06-2044 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Thirty: From Boundaries To Bondage - Nurturing Trust And Intimacy In The Realm Of BDSMIn this episode, we delve into the fascinating world of building trust and intimacy within BDSM and explore the crucial elements of this. We navigate the complexities of communication and consent while shedding light on how these elements form the foundation for a safe and fulfilling lifestyle relationship. This
episode aims to demystify BDSM by promoting understanding and emphasizing the significance of trust and intimacy in this unique and consensual exploration and lifestyle.
2023-06-1355 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Twenty-Nine: There’s A Surprise InsideIn this episode, we’ll be exploring what people are surprised by when they explore BDSM. Many people are surprised at the exploration they do into BDSM because they think it’s all about whips, chaings, and/or kinky sex. In reality, BDSM can be a fun and thrilling experience that focuses on consent, communication, and other forms of expression. We’ll discuss why people might be initially surprised by BDSM, and then talk through some of the unexpected revelations that commonly occur as people step outside the box of vanilla to explore their kinks and how it can be an...
2023-06-0639 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Twenty-Eight: Are You The Gatekeeper?Recently the cult classic Ghostbusters was on TV and in it the character of Louis Tully played by Rick Moranis bumbles around saying "I am Vinz, Vinz Clortho, Keymaster of Gozer. Volguus Zildrohar, Lord of the Sebouillia. Are you the Gatekeeper?" While there are no ghastly ghosts to bust in the lifestyle, there is gatekeeping within BDSM, and not all of it is for the best. So in this episode, the conversation will flow around how the lifestyle is unfortunately guarded as well as how to challenge this or, keeping the Ghostbusters reference going, how to become your own...
2023-05-3040 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Twenty-Seven: Finding Your Place In The Kink CommunityWelcome to this episode of Chatting With The Lightkeeper and this week we will chat about finding your place in the BDSM Community. Navigating the BDSM world can be intimidating and overwhelming - so we want to help you find your place in the community. In this episode, we'll be discussing the journey to connect with others, make real-life connections and how to make sure you’re being safe and responsibly. Also want that BDSM is a fun and exciting way to explore yourself, so don’t be afraid to take your time and find your way.
2023-05-2335 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Twenty-Six: Talking Taboo, Unpacking BDSM For Vanilla FolksIn this episode, we will be discussing the delicate topic of talking to a vanilla person or partner about BDSM. For those who are unfamiliar with the term, a vanilla person is someone who does not have any experience with BDSM or BDSM-related activities. Perhaps we have all had an experience where we met someone new to us, amazing, yet we needed to discover if they were kinky, kinky friendly, or open to things kinktastic but it can be a challenging conversation plus others have an existing amazing partner but would like to add the lifestyle to their relationships...
2023-05-1648 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Twenty-Five: Breaking the BDSM Stereotype: Challenging Media NarrativesIn this episode of Chatting With The Lightkeeper, we explore the intersection of media stereotypes and BDSM. Every day, we are bombarded with images of what it means to be a "normal" person, or what is considered socially acceptable. But what happens when you don't fit into these stereotypes? How do you express yourself and your sexuality without being judged? In this episode, we'll take a look at how media stereotypes can affect our understanding of BDSM, and how we can challenge these stereotypes and create a more inclusive culture for all.
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2023-05-0933 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS. 2 Episode Twenty-Four: Challenging the Narrative: Exploring BDSM Stereotypes and BeyondSadly there are many misconceptions, assumptions, and stereotypes about BDSM, and at some point, in our journey in the lifestyle, we will come in contact with them. So in this episode, the conversation will revolve around the most “popular” assumptions floating about in the vanilla world about the lifestyle as well as roles. While some of the stereotypes are good for a giggle, we must understand them so we can create a more inclusive and understanding environment for everyone, not just those in the BDSM community. So, join in as the conversation delves into misconceptions about the lifestyle and conf...
2023-05-0256 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Twenty-Three: WTF Sex LawsThe United States has some zany laws when it comes, or should it be cums, to sex. Curious as to what states allow women to have sex with live fish but not men perhaps the places that limit the number of dildos you can own or maybe where flirting is against the law? Well, this episode covers all those fun legalities while also talking about the serious side of the lifestyle and legalities. So pull up a chair while making sure the amount of sex toys you own is within the legal limits and enjoy the conversation about zany...
2023-04-2552 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Twenty-Two: It's Twue Really, Really TwueAfter seeing a slew of posts revolving around the concept that there is only one correct path in the lifestyle, it is time for a conversation about twue way mythology in the lifestyle. "Twue way" is a subjective concept and there is no single answer to this question. D/s relationships are highly personalized, and what constitutes a twue or true way will depend on the individual needs and desires of the people involved. Ultimately, it is up to each individual to decide what works best for them.
2023-04-1821 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Twenty-One: “Isms” In The LifestyleIt can be very challenging to have conversations about “isms” but within the lifestyle, there are two that occur far more often than any of us would like to admit. One of the lessons that Ferris Bueller shared was that “Isms in my opinion are not good”. While there are no days off involved in this recording, let’s have a conversation about the lifestyle and “isms”.
2023-04-1152 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Twenty: Sex Sells But Are You BuyingOne of the most well-known sayings about advertising is “sex sells”. This is certainly the case in the D/S lifestyle as many lifestyle sites use sexual imagery as click bait and then some share sensual photos to gain likes which is designed to gain followers which then will bring profit, so it can feel that those seeking more than kinky coitus, those wanting substance over sexuality can be left wanting. So in this episode, we will get it on and chat about the quest to connect with those who seek something deeper from the lifestyle.
2023-04-0430 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Nineteen: Going GreenWithin the D/S lifestyle there are many conversations, writings, blog posts, and so on about red flags, warnings, and things to be on the lookout for as these discussions are critically important but sometimes we can lose sight of what is good or those gorgeous green flags because we hyper-focus on what to watch out for. So this week the conversation is going to talk about all the great green flags D/S brings as well as lifestyle partners. So buckle up, it’s going to be a great go of goodness and going green in 3, 2, 1…
2023-03-2834 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Eighteen: How Did You Get Here?Everyone’s path to and in the lifestyle is unique but digging deeper, there are some amazing similarities in circumstances that brings people to explore and grow in D/S. While it is natural to feel a bit solitary as we start walking in the world of D/S, discovering that while our paths are unique, many commonalities link us, so this week’s conversation will flow around these common denominators that continue to bring amazing people into the lifestyle.
2023-03-2145 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Seventeen: That's Just The Way It IsWhen we are newer to anything from being the new person at work to being less experienced in the lifestyle, we often allow our inexperience to be the reason we do not ask questions or present our perspective. It is easy to say in our mind that because one is new it is best to stay quiet and think our thoughts silently. In the world of D/S, experience shows that people who enter the lifestyle often join with fresh outlooks that need to be shared and this week the conversation revolves around the importance of sharing new and...
2023-03-1437 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Sixteen: From Then To NowHave you ever wondered how the lifestyle came to be? Where did all these kinks come from? Did they all just appear and grow out of conversations on the internet?
This week, we will chat about the history of the lifestyle, and unlike history classes in your past, this is not going to put you to sleep. So let’s hop into our time machines and discover a bit of the history behind D/S.
2023-03-0749 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Fifteen: Mail TimeWelcome to this episode of Chatting With The Lightkeeper where the inbox is opened up, questions are asked and opinions are shared. Thank you to everyone who has asked a question and those who will be going forward.
As a lover of books and bookstores, here are the books discussed in this episode and linked to the host's favorite bookstore:
The Ethical Slut, Third Edition: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love By Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton
The New Topping Book By Janet W. Hardy...
2023-02-2849 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Fourteen: Taking The Next StepSo you have been exploring, learning, and growing in your journey into all things D/S online and you find yourself ready to possibly meet someone amazing for a relationship or perhaps curiosity is getting the best of you with wanting to feel what a flogger impact is like all the while wanting to stay as safe as possible. How do you meet others and build connections in real life? The answer is munches, classes, play parties, and conventions. In this episode, the conversation will break down what they are, how to find them as well as what to...
2023-02-2143 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Twelve And 1/2: Great Dominants Do ExistIt is common to hear single submissives complain about the lack of “good dominants” splendid submissives, the hard part is finding the right fit for you. The internet is filled with memes proclaiming what is or is not good dominance mixed with submissives sharing sad experiences so that devoted dominants can feel like a myth. So this conversation will be celebrating deserving d-types and some of the characteristics that make them amazing.
2023-02-141h 03
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Twelve: Quietly Rioting For A Healthier TomorrowS.2 Episode Twelve: Quietly Rioting For A Healthier Tomorrow
Discussing challenges we face in our physical well-being and how they impact our lives and D/S is much easier than talking about mental and behavioral health issues. For example, sharing that you are recovering from a broken leg is more comfortable than telling someone about your mental health. The lifestyle requires us to be open not only about the physical but the mental side too. In this episode, the conversation will discuss D/S, mental and behavioral health, and ending stigmas to create a brighter tomorrow.
2023-02-0754 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Eleven: There Is A Man In ItAn easy thing to forget is that behind every blog, social media post, meme, and podcast there is a living, breathing human. With that in mind, this episode tells a little about the guy behind the podcast who as you are reading this probably in line, waiting for coffee. Plus there is a vexing question asked and your help is needed to answer it.
2023-01-3135 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Ten: An Introduction To Poly RelationshipsBecause poly does not fit the traditional relationship methods most have been taught or experienced, it can easily be misunderstood thus making it challenging to explore with an open mind. In this episode, the conversation is about understanding a few basics about poly, the various styles/types of partnerships, terminology, and how even if one is not poly, the relationship skills positive poly partnerships possess can help monogamous relationships. So even if poly is not your cup of tea, there will be some coffee here to help your current or next relationship thrive.
2023-01-2448 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Nine: Where Rubber Meets The Road - Part Three Of Three On Real Life and D/SWork, school, kids, family, friends, hobbies plus everything else has a nasty way of upsetting the dynamic between dominant and submissive. When all of these pressures start to compress on a partnership, the relationship can have the D/S pillar kicked out from under it. This episode is devoted to finding ways to counter these demands and how to make choices that keep the lifestyle building blocks firmly entrenched.
2023-01-1743 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Eight: Consistantly Consistant Accountability - Part Two Of Three On Real Life and D/SAh, the vanilla world, what a pain the rump. It is always pressuring, pushing, and pulling away at D/S, especially in a relationship. One place, in particular, it can have a stinging impact, is on the accountability side of the lifestyle. In this episode, the conversation will revolve around how to uphold D/S responsibilities in the face of real-world pressures.
2023-01-1047 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Seven: The Most Asked Question In D/S - Part One Of Three On Real Life and D/SIn this episode, the conversation will revolve around the most asked question in D/S, no the questions isn’t going to be revealed in the summary here, you will need to listen to discover it, plus in the first of this three-part series, the conversation will be around the importance of “P” in the lifestyle. Before anyone gets any unique ideas about P, it is twofold, people and partners which are key to finding success in a real world lifestyle relationship.
2023-01-0348 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Six: When It’s Good To Be A PrickSafety and consent are two things that everyone must prioritize when engaging in D/S play. When it comes to play and how to do so in a safe manner, different acronyms describe the four main practices. In this episode, S.S.C., R.A.C.K., P.R.I.C.K., and the Four C’s are discussed and explained to help find which may be the right fit as well as to foster understanding of those who may engage in a manner differently than your choice.
2022-12-2037 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Five: Space The Final FrontierQueue up the theme from Star Trek, okay actually best to hold off on that since a copyright law or two would be sidestepped if a theremin was playing that tune here. Since there is no need to get lawyers involved, let’s chat about another kind of exploring in space that happens in the D/S lifestyle. In this episode of Chatting With The Lightkeeper, sub, as well as dom space, are on the menu so please join the conversation about these sensations as well as staying safer should one experience them.
2022-12-0631 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Four: UnscriptedLife comes at us all in unique ways and routinely does not follow the plan we have for it. It has an amazing way of doing what we least expect when it is least expected. One of the things I expect from myself is that I can think of a topic for a podcast episode however life colluded with my brain to leave me without ideas I was excited about, so I decided to try something unexpected for myself. I went unscripted. With no notes and no practice, I just sat down and started talking about a few lifestyle...
2022-11-0336 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Three: Who Is Your Favorite Little Rascal?Welcome to this exciting episode of Chatting With The Lightkeeper. Rarely do my podcast episodes have a topic that might arouse some passionate feelings but this one might do a little of that. This I believe is a good thing because there are a zillion and one paths to enjoy life while there are a few wrong ones too.
However, talking about our favorite Little Rascals, while it may involve some strong opinions, no one is incorrect.
So I want to invite you to join me as I share why Alfalfa makes me chuckle, why s...
2022-10-1139 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode Two: What’s On The Menu?Ever have one of those days where after work you are hungry, do not feel like cooking, and on the commute home are running through some of your favorite restaurant's menus in your mind trying to decide which one to stop at for dinner?
I was having one of those days and not only was I thinking about food but my latest podcast. My thoughts went from what to order to how we create a menu of what we will do, might do, or will not do in the lifestyle as well as how to do it s...
2022-09-1438 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperS.2 Episode One: Credible SourcesAs I was percolating on a podcast idea, the Winnie-the-Pooh quote popped into my brain, “I sometimes wonder if it’s true. That who is what and what is who.” While my head is not stuck in a honey jar, thankfully, Mr. Pooh’s words caused me to think about the well-meaning, yet misguided information floating around that may confuse someone newer to the lifestyle. Join me on this episode for a case study of well-intended but unsound advice along with how to avoid the pitfalls of guidance that misses the mark.
2022-08-3143 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode Twenty-Four: Date YourselfDating is never fun and is often a convoluted mess and when the lifestyle gets “shaken, not stirred” into the dating pool things become a convoluted hot mess.
In this episode, I chat about how when we are single and kinky we can date ourselves which will help us grow which in turn will help us be even more attractive or an even better ‘catch’ for our next prospective partner.
2022-05-2039 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode Twenty-Three: Newbie NotesIf Only I Had A TARDIS Or Time Machine but since fate has kept me from acquiring a means for time travel, (although I hear Stewie Griffin has one available, does anyone have his contact info?) thinking back to some of the questions I had when I was starting my lifestyle journey is a best a touch muddy. So I did what I think is the next best thing by reaching out for help to discover some of the questions that people who are newer to the lifestyle have rather than relying on my murky memory. I am so...
2022-05-131h 17
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode Twenty-Two: A Mother’s WisdomWith Mother’s Day fast approaching, my thoughts went to my Mom and some of her little words of wisdom. One of those phrases kept bubbling up again and again inside my mind coupled with a question I was asked about how to make real, quality connections/friendships within this lifestyle. These thoughts percolated up in my mind until they brewed up this episode of Chatting With The Lightkeeper. Happy Mother's Day and I hope a bit of my Mom's wisdom can help others as they build and grow connections and friendships within D/S.
2022-05-0738 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode Twenty-One: If I Knew Then...Sometimes when we look back at the start of a journey in life, it would have been helpful if our current self was able to travel back in time to impart the wisdom that we learned as we explored that path forward. Because of this, I wanted to chat about a few of the amazing lessons I have learned in my journey in D/S with the hope that the things I would share with my younger self at the beginning of my journey will help others on their explorations.
2022-04-1434 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode Twenty: Stay Safe, Avoid Flaming CarsIf you are in or around the lifestyle, there are constantly people reminding others to be safe, make good choices, and bad things can happen to good people. So many of these well-meaning bits of advice on keeping safe can almost feel like a lecture and who has not heard a few of these things and thought “It can't happen to me” or “I’m too smart to have something bad happen”. No matter how we phrased it to ourselves, we all have found our unique reasons to set aside safer choices to pursue something we wanted. Now, this might not...
2022-01-2142 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode Nineteen: That Last First SpankingWith the dawn of 2022, I have had a few friends proclaim that this year was going to be the year of their last first kiss or maybe a better way to say with more than a hint of lifestyle is a last first spanking. Since I have heard this phrase, it has stuck in my mind which caused me to think more about those who are looking for a lifestyle partner and how it can feel challenging to meet new people. So in this episode, I chat about some ideas on how to meet a perfectly imperfect lifestyle partner.
2022-01-0739 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode Eighteen: Fine, Whatever! Identifying And Addressing Passive-Aggressive Behaviors“Why Are You So Upset? I Was Only Joking!” Or “I’m not mad. Fine, Whatever!” These are phrases most of us have heard before and may recognize signs of passive-aggressive behavior. In this episode of Chatting With The Lightkeeper, I talk about identifying common examples, what to do when confronted with this behavior, as well as what it could mean if your partner is being passive-aggressive towards you.
2021-12-1745 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode Seventeen: Picking SidesWould You Like Soup, Salad, Submission, Or Dominance With Your Entree?
In this episode, I am going to chat about some of my thoughts on picking sides. I am not going to be offering advice on if soup or salad would complement your dinner but on the process of discovery that leads a person to call one side of the D/S slash home and how that decision may evolve. So grab your salad, soup, or both and join me in conversation about picking your side.
2021-12-1226 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode Sixteen: Let's CelebrateIt is the holiday season and so let’s celebrate. This episode is about celebrating the successes of a D/S partnership, rather than focusing on the consequences of flubs, dubs, and broken rules.
2021-12-0326 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode Fifteen: Learn From My MistakesPeople say that wisdom comes when a person embraces their biggest mistakes, so with that in mind, I chat about some of my missteps in the lifestyle with the hope that others will use my blunders to create wisdom for themselves.
2021-11-1625 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode Fourteen: Frenzied StateI understand that many were in a frenzy for my next podcast to drop so here it is and on this episode, I chat about being in a lifestyle frenzied state along with how to safely handle navigate things should you find yourself there.
2021-11-1114 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode Twelve And A Half: Building D/S Relationship SuccessIn this podcast, I chat about some of the things that I believe all D/S relationships need to have to create a successful partnership. So much of social media and lifestyle sites are filled with horror stories of relationships going wrong, I wanted to talk about positive ways to craft a thriving D/S partnership. Also, because I am a superstitious ice hockey goalie, I could not bring myself to use a number that shall not be said in the title, thus the reason this is episode 12.5 :-)
2021-10-2830 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode Twelve: If I Were King For A DayIn my twelfth installment, I want to chat about a few of the things I would change if I should ever be anointed king of kink, even for a day.
2021-09-1232 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode Eleven: The Danger Of Lifestyle TrainersWelcome to the eleventh installment of my D/S lifestyle-themed podcast. In this episode, I will be discussing the danger that dominant 'trainers' bring to new or newer submissives and how mentors are a much better path for lifestyle growth.
2021-08-2932 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode Ten: Let's PlayOn this episode, I chat about lifestyle play, consent, understanding yourself as well as the joys of toys, and the best part of all the lifestyle fun and games, aftercare.
2021-08-2431 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode Nine: Why Don’t They LastThe thoughts for this episode came out of a question about long term lifestyle partnerships and will touch on the pitfalls of lifestyle love which, spoiler alert, are not normally lifestyle issues.
2021-08-1718 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode Eight: Yes PleaseSo often all of us can get caught up in a sea of no. Often, saying no can be easier than yes but saying yes, especially in a D/S relationship has so many benefits. With that in mind, I chat about the power of saying yes.
2021-08-0413 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode Seven: Seeing Things DifferentlyWithin the D/S lifestyle it is so important to agree to disagree while learning from the journeys of others, even if we do not practice things the same way.
2021-07-2508 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode Six: Five Common MisstepsOn this episode of my podcast, I chat about what I think are the five most common mistakes people make when they are starting a new lifestyle relationship. I hope that sharing these mistakes will help others avoid these pitfalls.
2021-07-2023 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode Five: In ConversationI am joined by my friend Ali and we have a conversation about being Wordie, lighthouses, and of course the D/S lifestyle. To learn more about Ali, please head over to her blog, alibabe48.tumblr.com (You must be signed in on Tumblr).
2021-04-261h 04
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode Four: Waving A Red FlagWelcome to episode four of my podcast. On this episode, I chat about red flags and why these are things to be aware of, look out for, and to step away from.
2021-04-1136 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode Three: Comings and GoingsIn this episode (said in my dramatic TV voice), I chat about coming to and going away from the lifestyle and how it is a beacon of light, not darkness.
2021-03-2818 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode Two: It’s No Myth, I’m No Romeo In Black JeansIn this episode, I discuss some of the myths that compare the D/S lifestyle to vanilla relationships, my take on "Crime and Punishment" or better said rules and punishment and while I did not record this in black jeans, my mind was humming Michael Penn's No Myth while I was jotting notes down before recording.
Please enjoy episode two and I look forward to chatting with you again in two weeks. Until then please stay healthy and safe.
2021-03-1445 min
Chatting With The LightkeeperEpisode One: How Tacitus And Getting Lost In Search Of Tacos Changed My LifeExpanding my Lightkeeper's blog with the addition of a podcast. Since this is the first episode, I thought I would talk about where my journey started for me.
2021-02-2815 min
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