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I'm Not Like YouClearing Space and Following the FunIn this episode, Esther and Eileen have a special guest - Susan Cabral! Susan is a Feng Shui consultant and practitioner of Quantum Healing Hypnosis Therapy. Living her life by "following the fun," Susan has been a jewelry designer, artist, retail buyer and even does DJ sets!
Susan gives the two a deep dive into practical feng shiui for the home and a sneak peek into the world of Quantum Healing Hypnosis Technique. And of course, there are some TikTok trends for laughs!
Learn more about Susan and her...2024-05-2434 minI'm Not Like YouWe Did Human DesignOn this episode, Esther and Eileen are joined by Human Design Coach, Becca Davidson. Haven't heard of human design? We got you. This episode talks about how human design can shape the awareness of who you are, how you show up in relationships, and how to live better by leaning into your natural energy sources. The two talk (and laugh!) about how they're alike in their personal readings, which Becca shares, and oh so different too. This one was a true fuck yes for us.
Big thanks to Becca Davidson, who you can do...2024-04-1948 minI'm Not Like YouMidlife Musings Inspired by the GramIn this episode, Esther and Eileen do their favorite thing - unpack a list from the Gram to decide what they agree with and what they don't. This time it was Dan Go's 30 things no one tells you when you reach the age of 40. Check out @danfounder and this episode to see what the 2 think!2024-03-2935 minI'm Not Like YouGoodbye GirlbossIn this episode, Esther and Eileen discuss the early 2010s theme for the corporate ladder climibing woman, the "girlboss." According the founder of the term, Sophia Amoruso, the term has been cancelled. The two discuss their own experiences with the word and cancel culture at large!
Elle article referenced here2024-03-2228 minI'm Not Like YouHow To Order, Drink and Buy Wine with Special Guests from Tribeca Wine CollectiveOn this episode, Esther and Eileen do a triple date with none other than their husbands and the gorgeous winemakers, Matt and Alana, of Tribeca Wine Collective!
This episode has all the tips on how to order, buy and drink wine plus a POV on wine for the health conscious.
Thanks to Tribeca Wine Collective (and Nitzan and Simon!) for joining this week! For more on Alana and Matt's story, check out their website and give them a follow on IG (@tribecawineco).
If you...2024-03-0136 minI'm Not Like YouINLY's Self Care 101In this episode, Esther and Eileen talk about their self care rituals. From enjoying daily pleasures like a latte, to being intentional with the energy you surround yourself with, the two consider self care through a less traditional lens. We love a the obvious self care like a massage, but there's so much more to talk about on this topic!2024-02-2333 minI'm Not Like YouIs Self Love Selfish?In this episode, Esther and Eileen discuss the theme of the week - LOVE! Except the two discuss the complex subject of self love. Eileen hosted an experience recently where it became apparent that in a large group of women, very few actually practice self love. From exploring what it is, to exploring why it might be hard to offer it to ourselves, it's an interesting chat on empowering ourselves through loving ourselves better! Happy Valentine's Day INLY. XOXO2024-02-1630 minI'm Not Like YouAn Episode About NothingWell, not really nothing! On this episode, Esther and Eileen decided it would just be fun to catch up about what their current fuck yes and fuck no moments are!2024-02-1024 minI'm Not Like You2024 "In" and "Out" ListsHappy New Year (ok, a little belated), I'm Not Like You! We're back! And we're excited to start the year with our "in" and "out" lists for 2024 (because obviously we're going to start the year with a TikTok trend). You know we don't do resolutions! But we do like a little intentionality to set the tone for what we want more and less of this year. Can you guess whose "in" is gratitude and whose "out" is speed? The answers will surprise you! 2024-01-1927 minI'm Not Like YouOn Giving Up Needing Permission, Letting Go and Other 2023 ReflectionsIt's time for Esther and Eileen's 2023 Wrapped. The two did a top 5 of their greatest lessons of 2023! It was a big year of learning and of course, all the f*ck yes and f*ck no moments!
Happy New Year INLY. We LOVE YOU! x, E + E2023-12-2928 minI'm Not Like YouDo We Avoid Our Power?In this episode, Esther and Eileen talk about the complexities of women and power - from the traditional dynamic to the more modern take. The biggest question posed is whether or not women (we) are really willing to step into our power or if we choose to avoid it. It's a juicy one!2023-12-2229 minI'm Not Like YouGive Up Control to "Let Them"?In this episode, Esther and Eileen discuss the "let them theory." Inspired by the Mel Robbins podcast, the two took a deep dive into her take on the subject. Dubbed a "life-changing mindset hack," to "let them" is to give up trying to control the people in your life for the sake of more peace in your own. Where do they think it's a f*ck yes and where is it s f*ck no? Listen and find out!
Credit: Mel Robbins, "The Let Them Theory"2023-12-1526 minI'm Not Like YouA Little Delulu and A Little AngryIn this episode, Esther and Eileen explore the new TikTok trend - being delulu (or delusional) and... a less trendy but very important emotion - anger. Anger is often seen as a feeling that is unbecoming or one we want to avoid, but the two discover it's a very healthy emotion sometimes we just need to experience.2023-12-0821 minI'm Not Like YouOn Quitting Your Job and What Happens NextIn this episode, Eileen talks to Esther about her experience quitting her job earlier this fall. She discusses what drove her to make this unconventional decision, and what's next. She shares advice for those contemplating (or wanting to contemplate) a similar path and thoughts on life post the corporate world.2023-12-0131 minI'm Not Like YouOn Pleasure, Desire and FearIn this episode, Esther and Eileen chat with the founder of Liberate Your Energy, Gemma Parmar. Gemma is a coach and guide for those on a journey to discover pleasure, to connect to their mildest and wildest desires, and to work with fear to become more whole. Her ideas on facing grief, self-acceptance, and giving ourselves permission to experience joy and satisfaction are nothing short of wise, brilliant and a total fuck yes. 2023-11-2440 minI'm Not Like YouIf You've Ever Had a Gut Feeling, This May be WhyIn this episode, Esther and Eileen talk with special guest Meg Gerber, a functional dietitian and absolute GURU of gut health. Listen in for Meg's simple, accessible and low cost approach to optimizing your mood, regulating your stress, and JUJ'ing up your days with her approach to improving gut health for a happier and healthier life!
Follow Meg on IG @groundednourish or learn more here
Check out her Cookbook "How To Glow Glutten Free"
Get on the waitlist for JUJ dropping Black Friday
Try Breathwork with Meg here2023-11-1739 minI'm Not Like YouThe Secrets of Being Ageless from an ExpertOn this episode, Esther and Eileen host a very special guest - image consultant, stylist and energy worker, Eve Michaels. Eve is an author, motivational speaker and an absolute EXPERT on all things beauty from the inside and out. From her thoughts on the art and science of dressing well, to how the colors we wear compliment our confidence, this episode is an inspiration for how to live well at any age.
Check out Eve on IG @imagebyeve or on her website linked here. 2023-11-1040 minI'm Not Like YouThoughts on Thoughts: Listen if You Have a Busy MindIn this episode, Esther leaves the mic to Eileen while she's off in Paris buying all the Chanel (a true fuck oui). Thanks to all the amazing feedback from last week's episode, The Anti Meditation Meditation, the two hosts decided that while Eileen was flying solo, she should take the opportunity to actually share a meditation. She also shares ideas on how to work with a busy mind to help listeners ease into the practice (and maybe even life). Namaste and Au Revoir, INLY!2023-10-2727 minI'm Not Like YouThe Anti Meditation Meditation EpisodeIn this episdoe, Esther and Eileen talk about a different definition of meditation. While it can be a heady topic, they discuss the different forms to practice and how the overall idea of meditation can be limiting if not explored!2023-10-2021 minI'm Not Like YouAn Episode on the Verts (Introverts, Extroverts, and Ambiverts That Is)In this episode, Esther and Eileen unpack the IG meme trend to talk about extroverts and introverts. There are many categories of "the verts" and in this episode, we unpack them all!2023-10-1326 minI'm Not Like YouAre old friends the best friends?In this episode, Esther and Eileen discuss the value of old friendships in their lives. Are old friends better than new friends? Or do we need old and new friends to create balance what we need from these relationships. They explore how friendships stand the test of time (or don't) and the power of having female friendships in our lives. 2023-10-0622 minI'm Not Like YouIf It's Not a Fuck Yes, It's a Fuck No - One Year Later!In this episode, Esther and Eileen celebrate ONE YEAR of INLY! We go back to the beginning and revisit our favorite episodes and reflect on how we've changed (and how we've stayed the same), when it comes to how we live for more fuck yes moments.
A HUGE THANK YOU to the INLY audience, for supporting us! We LOVE this pod and all of you.
X, E + E2023-09-2926 minI'm Not Like YouIt's Time to Discuss BurnoutIn this episode, Esther and Eileen discuss the complex world of feeling burnt out. It's a common theme among women in middle age and it goes much further than just being exhausted by work (a common misconception). They consider how exploring their wildest desires could lead to understanding how to overcome these feelings, what happens when your "tools" don't work (and you turn to substances), and paths to reconsidering how we spend our time to live better.2023-09-2222 minI'm Not Like YouWe Have a SuperpowerIn this episode, Esther and Eileen discuss a superpower we can all use to super charge our relationships and our lives - the art of knowing when (and why) to STFU. 2023-09-1520 minI'm Not Like YouWork Friends - Love em or Leave em?In this episode, Esther and Eileen explore the tricky world of work friendships. Are they fake and contrived or a must have to combat day to day loneliness? An article published by the Harvard Business Review confirmed that close friendships increase workplace productivity. One host is on board, the other is more skeptical.
2023-09-0824 minI'm Not Like YouWomen and Money and Who Should Be in ChargeIn this episode, Esther and Eileen discuss their relationships with money, as women. Between gender constructs, the implication of what women give up to accumulate their own wealth, and the pressures of sharing your finances with partners - there's a lot to unpack. They talk about what it might look like to be more financially responsible and some simple idease to be more accountable with what they earn.
For more on the book referenced, the Soul of Money, click here.
If you want to explore this topic in more...2023-09-0125 minI'm Not Like YouB is for BoundariesIn this episode, Esther and Eileen talk about having boundaries (or not) with families, friends, work and more! 2023-08-2520 minI'm Not Like YouWeak Language - Fuck Yes or Fuck No?In this episode, Esther and Eileen explore whether or not they think using weak language can actually help women get ahead in the workplace. In response to the NYT opinion piece, written by Adam Grant, Women Know Exactly What They're Doing When They Use Weak Language, they debate how it could eventually be a pro but not without also debating it's definite cons too!2023-08-1823 minI'm Not Like YouIs It Possible to Give Less Fucks?In this episode, Esther and Eileen talk about their quests to care less about what people think of them. They wonder why they care about things that aren't worthy and whether or not age plays a role. Does freedom come with the journey of aging? Listen and find out!2023-08-1121 minI'm Not Like YouCan You Really Vacation With Kids?In this episode, Esther and Eileen contemplate taking vacations (or trips?) with their children. Can you actually get away with kids? Disney or Europe... listen to find out!2023-08-0424 minI'm Not Like YouWhy Don't We Know Our Value?In this episode, Esther and Eileen discuss the complexities of negotiating compensation... as women. They wonder if the all important 'ask' for the money during the offer phase of starting at a new company is formula-driven, or if it comes from the heart. As they researched the topic, they also learned about the term high value women (which comes from knowing your intrinsic value). Does that matter though? If you want some tips for your next negotiation, this is their first (but hopefully not only) attempt at understanding how women ask (specifically!) for what they're actually worth in the work...2023-07-2120 minI'm Not Like YouGrowing Up In Extremism (episodes now with video!)In this episode, Esther and Eileen talk about Esther's experience growing up in religious extremism, and how it has shaped her as an adult. She refers to herself has an anarchist (but you know, not the kind robbing people in the streets lol) at one point so clearly there's a LOT to unpack! See show notes below for the NYT opinion piece referenced.
Lots of Americans are Losing Their Religion, Are You?2023-07-1441 minI'm Not Like YouLet's Talk About Sex (and the City)In this episode, Esther and Eileen talk about sex... sort of. The discussion is based on a Vogue article celebrating the 25th anniversary of Sex and the City called, "Did Sex and the City Change the Way We Have Sex?" that both hosts read. They talk about their experience watching the show as teenagers, how it shaped their understanding of a woman's sexuality, how women are expected to age, the evolution of friendship and, of course, fashion.
Link to the Vogue article 2023-07-0721 minI'm Not Like YouIntergenerational FriendshipsIn this episode, Esther and Eileen contemplate the value of intergenerational friendships and how friendships that span the decades bring wisdom and inspiration.2023-06-3014 minI'm Not Like YouDo you give people permission to change?In this episode, Esther and Eileen explore our relationships with change, and more specifically, how we give others in our life permission to change. We consider where we struggle with this, and where others have created boxes to keep us in a place where they last maintained power over us. And we talk about why some relationships evolve with us and why others don't.
NY Times Article Referenced:
https://www.nytimes.com/2023/06/05/well/family/sibling-friends-relationship.html
“Sometimes there is a version of you that they remember... you have to allow pe...2023-06-2319 minI'm Not Like YouThis Episode is About Why Psychedelic Experiences Can Change Your LifeIn this episode, Esther and Eileen are joined by a very special guest, Chris Schembra. Chris is a Wall Street Journal bestselling author and the Founder and Chief Question Asker of a gratitude experience company, 7:47. Chris joins I'm Not Like You to share his perspective on working with psychedelics and plant medicine to deepen our relationships with ourselves. Chris believes we can use these experiences to go within, to fall in love with ourselves. Through the stories of his journey, he talks about using these tools to support everything from unblocking creativity, to results powerful enough to improve the...2023-06-1645 minI'm Not Like YouI Wish That I Knew What I Know Now, When I Was YoungerIn this episode, Esther and Eileen take a walk down memory lane and recall what they were like in their 20s and 30s. In their midlife moment (also known as their 40s), it's fun to hear what got them here, what they would have done differently, and what advice they would have given their younger (more naive) selves.2023-06-0931 minI'm Not Like YouA F*CK No to the Midlife CrisisIn this episode, Esther and Eileen discuss the midlife crisis for women. The stereotypes for men are not only endless, but seem like an upgrade. But the expected midlife crisis for women is less clear, they discover. Based on their research though, the portrayal of the female version isn't nearly as glam as it is for men. So they redefine the midlife crisis for women and it's inspiring... and hilarious.2023-05-2618 minI'm Not Like YouOn Hearing No - Rejection or Redirection?In this episode, Esther and Eileen debate how to react when others telll us 'no'. 2023-05-1921 minI'm Not Like YouOur First Episode on Psychedelic Experiences (Kinda)In this episode, Esther and Eileen attempt to talk about meditation, but get mostly distracted by a psychedelic breath work experience Eileen had. Can you get high on your own supply? Eileen will tell you why she thinks you can and Esther will tell you why she thinks it's crazy. There are a few meditation tips though. And a lot of laughing.2023-05-1226 minI'm Not Like YouThis Episode Will Make You a Better CommunicatorIn this episode, Esther and Eileen invite their first special guest, Eduardo Placer, to share the INLY stage to talk about how we can become more effective and confident communicators. Whether you're a public speaker, trying to understand insecurities around what you say and how you say it, or looking to improve how you advocate for yourself in relationships, Eduardo's advice and approach to being a fearLESS communicator is brilliant.
Special thanks to Eduardo for being a guest on this podcast and for sharing his wisdom with us and our community. For more on...2023-05-0555 minI'm Not Like YouOur Situationship with FearIn this episode, Esther and Eileen talk about what they fear and share some thoughts on how to manage it, with a sprinkle of discussion about athleisure (naturally). 2023-04-2820 minI'm Not Like YouIf You've Been Wondering About Ozempic...In this episode, Esther and Eileen talk about the era of Ozempic, one co-host's personal journey with the drug, and their own unique POVs on the culture of skinny.2023-04-2125 minI'm Not Like YouSHOULD You? Or shouldn't you.In this episode, Esther and Eileen debate the power of the word "should". It's the perfect INLY convo, as we see one co-host who is a rule follower and loves the rules of "should" and one who doesn't. 2023-04-1423 minI'm Not Like YouShe Was Feeling Some Kind of WayIn this episode, Esther and Eileen talk about whether or not feelings are our friends, by exploring one co-host's DEEP dive into her own. 2023-04-0726 minI'm Not Like YouBonus Drop: What We're Talking About RNIf you've been following along, you know how much Esther and Eileen like to keep up with trends by watching TikTok. But, of course, what they're watching is completely INLY! This is a special bonus episode where we talk about what's on our TikTok FYP - from scandoval, to ChatGPT, to spring sneaker trends.2023-04-0221 minI'm Not Like YouAdvice for Giving AdviceIn this episode, Esther and Eileen talk about a topic a friend recently asked them to cover - how to give good advice. They discuss some of the best advice they've been given about giving advice, the best advice they've been given from their favorite TikTok'ers (of course), and they debate how they can both be better at giving and receiving advice.2023-03-3118 minI'm Not Like YouHot Take on ConfidenceIn this episode, Esther and Eileen talk about the myths around being confident women. We expose some insecurities, offer some hacks and challenge each other (and ourselves) to be more honest about where (and why) we're actually confident and where we're faking it.2023-03-2419 minI'm Not Like YouIf you think we're judging you, it's because we are.In this episode, Esther and Eileen wonder why we're all so judgmental, what's normal and what's next level, and how we can try to do better.2023-03-1719 minI'm Not Like YouZillenialsIn this episode, Esther and Eileen laugh about being wanna be TIkTokers, how we're actually zillenials, why it hurts to laugh when you just got filler, and how we are challenged everyday by not letting our age limit how we live.2023-03-1020 minI'm Not Like YouMy Name Is (INLY HOST): And I am a people pleaser.In this episode, Esther and Eileen talk about their bad behavior as people pleasers, why this shows up for them, and how you can detect some of the other saboteurs that might be holding you back.
(And if you're interested in the assessment referenced in our chat: check it out here!)2023-03-0317 minI'm Not Like YouINLY POV: Do You Know How to Behave?In this episode, Eileen and Esther review some of the best and worst of NY Mag's 194 new etiquette rules, from the recent article "Do You Know How to Behave? Are You Sure? How to text, tip, ghost, host, and generally exist in polite society today". We loved, we hated, we laughed...you'll love our thoughts on this how to behave guide for post-pandemic modern society. Link to the article here!2023-02-2424 minI'm Not Like YouVibe Check: And What Yours Is AttractingIn this episode, Esther and Eileen talk about how to take ownership for what their vibes attract - the good, the f*cked up, and everything in between.2023-02-1717 minI'm Not Like YouBefore Memes: The 5 OG Love LanguagesHappy Valentine's Day, Boo 2023-02-1016 minI'm Not Like YouFYP Check: Luckiest Girl SyndromeIn this episode, Esther teaches Eileen about the latest trend to hit her TikTok feed - Luckiest Girl Syndrome. The two hosts are shook by what they learn about each other's POV on this one! 2023-02-0319 minI'm Not Like YouBest Friend AND Therapist, Best Friend OR TherapistIn this episode, Esther and Eileen talk about talk about whether or not we need therapists AND besties. 2023-01-2718 minI'm Not Like YouDry January... Brut or Total Detox?In this episode, Esther and Eileen contemplate if dry January is a fuck yes or a fuck no. (And if it's a fuck yes, why and how to make it through).2023-01-2016 minI'm Not Like YouIntentionally or Wrecklessly, this Episode on How To Manifest Has It All.In this episode, Eileen CAN NOT BELIEVE she got Esther to do a show on manifesting. It's another week of new year, new you and your INLY hosts are here to give you all the ways to bring what you want (or what you need?) to life. 2023-01-1318 minI'm Not Like YouHNY! Resolutions aren't for us, investing in ourselves is.In this episode, Esther and Eileen continue their new year, new you series and talk about how they invest in themselves in ways that are nothing like the other. 2023-01-0618 minI'm Not Like YouDear Diary, It's Us.In this episode, Esther and Eileen consider the benefits of journaling, what's fair game and what's off limits when it comes to reading other's private thoughts, and why we might be afraid to write.
AND, this is the first episode of our New Year, New You series! 2022-12-3021 minI'm Not Like YouDecisions, decisions - how to make the right ones.In this episode, Esther and Eileen share their perspectives on how they make decisions (outside their incredibly complex framework - is it a fuck yes, or a fuck no, of course). Per usual, our hosts have two different perspectives, but one host in particular has a very unconventional approach.
PS We're extra excited about this one because it's the FIRST time we've taken a topic from an IG follower and friend of INLY (if you aren't following us on th socials, you can find us on IG and TikTok @imnotlikeyoupodcast to follow our stories and share feedback on...2022-12-2316 minI'm Not Like YouHow to Be (or Find) a Great MentorIn this episode, Esther and Eileen consider how their career paths were shaped by mentors and what makes a great leader.2022-12-1620 minI'm Not Like YouGummy infused perspective on defining how you show upIn this episode, Esther and Eileen bring two different perspectives to the topic of how we show up for ourselves and others. 2022-12-0915 minI'm Not Like YouWe on the top shelf drinking cheap champagne (literally).In this episode, Esther and Eileen talk about style IN (and definitely not FOR) your 40s. Per usual, we will challenge the status quo, talk about the TikTok trends we binge and laugh at ourselves.
Disclaimer: This episode title is a song lyric. Credit: The Revivalists (Who Esther has never heard of, and would likely hate ; ).2022-12-0219 minI'm Not Like YouDo you need a hype person?In this episode, Esther and Eileen discuss whether or not it's critical to have hype people around us, or if hype should really come from within.2022-11-1814 minI'm Not Like YouAre you stuck? This may be why.In this episode, Esther and Eileen face the fact that some relationships can’t evolve with us as we grow and challenge each other on where we let others hold us back. Sound sticky? It is.2022-11-1116 minI'm Not Like YouHelp, I think I am an over sharer.In this episode, Esther and Eileen consider whether or not there should be boundaries when it comes to what we share with those in our inner and outer circles. Can you guess who thinks she’s the "over sharer" and who is often accused, by the other, of being too private?2022-11-0419 minI'm Not Like YouOn Being Liked and Giving AFIn this episode, Esther and Eileen talk (and laugh) about how it important it is to be liked, when it matters and when it doesn't.2022-10-2815 minI'm Not Like YouHave you ever been negged? (Spoiler Alert: you probably have)Have you ever been negged? Chances are, the answer is yes (but you probably didn't even realize it!!!) This one had our minds BLOWN. 2022-10-2111 minI'm Not Like YouSo you're considering plastic surgery, now what.In this episode, Esther and Eileen discuss the choice to have plastic surgery. If you're considering any procedure, from filler to a tummy tuck (or if you're just curious like one of our co-hosts!), you don't want to miss the advice, tips, and more in this episode.2022-10-1413 minI'm Not Like YouCreating Boundaries with Mom FriendsIn this episode, Esther and Eileen discuss how they've struggled to understand how to make friends with other parents.2022-10-0712 minI'm Not Like YouIs it ok to be fine?In this episode, Esther and Eileen discuss when it's ok to be fine and when it isn't.2022-09-3010 min
I'm Not Like YouIf it's not a fuck yes... it's a fuck no.Welcome to the first episode of I'm Not Like You! In this episode, Eileen challenges Esther to reconsider making decisions based on whether or not the outcomes will make her want to say fuck yes...or fuck no. 2022-09-2310 min