Eliza Zenger - Podcast Details

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In the Family#50 - HAGS (Season Two Finale)Bad news: it’s the season two finale. Good news: I’ll be back in August! But first, I want to overshare my social anxiety, share some reflections on seasons 1 and 2, and send you off with good vibes for the summer. And yes, summer starts now because I said so. Enjoy!Note: I briefly discuss suicide about halfway through the episode.Are you in a crisis? Call or text TALK (988) to 741741Visit 988lifeline.org (National Suicide Prevention Lifeline)Nami.orgLiveonutah.orgAFSP.org 2025-05-1526 min

In the Family#49 - “How do you handle conflict?” and other relationship questions with Skyler MartinToday’s episode is all things relationship! But first, we talk about our move and hand out prestigious (and never heard of) superlatives. Then we answer your questions! What’s the secret sauce to communication? What are the pro tips for handling a disagreement? Should you tell your partner “everything?” We’re not experts, but I enjoy talking like one, and Skyler is along for the ride. For real, listen to U Up. Enjoy!2025-05-0836 min

In the Family#48 - Love is a Spectrum with Maddie AllenToday, we dive deep with Maddie - it is her lore, after all. This episode has everything from leaving the LDS Church to divorce to creative and spiritual practices to community building. But more than anything, Maddie reminded me how beautiful love is and how my assumptions of other people’s stories are just that. And to top it all off, I know you’ll fall in love with her. Enjoy!2025-05-0145 min

In the Family#47 - “Hot Takes” That Turned Into “Airing of Grievances” with Joel, Amy, Thomas, Skyler, Milo, and GusPicture this: you’re at Tuesday Pizza Night with the Zenger family. Eliza convinces you that everyone should be on the episode this week and share a “hot take,” but then everyone starts roasting each other. And that's the episode. Enjoy!Read A Tape Measure In Under 1 Minute! (WOLFE on Tik Tok) https://www.tiktok.com/@wolfe_cte/video/7491420007000296747Enola Homes 2 Trailer https://youtu.be/KKXNmYoPkx0?si=2Xly-NtepnApp0Yj 2025-04-2419 min

In the Family#46 - A “Joon” of All Trades with Juniper RaburnYeah, you’ve heard of gateway drugs, but what about gateway art-making? Crafters and non-crafters alike listen and learn from the pod’s artist-in-residence, Joon Raburn. And for the benefit of a wannabe mom (me), she passes along some sage wisdom about the journey of motherhood. Enjoy!2025-04-1752 min

In the Family#45 - Medication, Motherhood, & Me (Solo)Dear Diary, I can’t wait to be a mom but I’m worried about my mental health. Help!! Sincerely, The little girl in the glasses.In this solo episode, I talk about the hopes, fears, and prescriptions that shape my journey toward motherhood. Spoiler: it’s complicated, and that's okay. Enjoy!2025-04-1016 min

In the Family#44 - A Universal Belief with Ashton MartinBIG NEWS: Please welcome the first Martin that is not my husband, my brother-in-law, Ashton Martin! Today, we deep dive into his semester at the Brigham Young University Jerusalem Center for Near Eastern Studies. My mic drop moment from this conversation? Don’t teach belief with an agenda. Now, let’s tolerate, educate, and advocate. Enjoy!2025-04-0355 min

In the Family#43 - Ask Amy Anything: Intuition, Friendship, and Self-ConfidenceYou asked, and she answered! Ask Amy Anything is back, and by default, you get my advice, too. I have my own Ask Amy Anything question: How did I have so much self-confidence as a young, shy, and anxious child? Is there a parenting secret sauce I need to know about? Enjoy!Dr. Ivan Joseph on “The skill of self-confidence.” ****https://youtu.be/w-HYZv6HzAs?si=yOtKEG-Xjvu-u-vp 2025-03-2743 min

In the Family#42 - Lessons Learned from The Tabernacle Choir, One Refugee, and 30-ish Years on Planet Earth"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary OliverToday, I am chatting with my cousin Elisabeth! She is the eldest of seven, a member of The Tabernacle Choir at Temple Square, the Utah Director of One Refugee, a beauty-seeker, and a frequent flier at Trader Joe's. Is she thirty, flirty, and thriving? Yes, yes, she is. Enjoy!2025-03-2050 min

In the Family#41 - From Potatoes to Palm Trees with John Zenger"What you do has far greater impact than what you say." - Steven CoveyToday, I am chatting with Rexburg-born, BYU-Hawaii grad, and future lawyer John Zenger! This conversation is all over the map in the best kind of way. Everything from Idaho Mormonism to cringe-worthy dates, abandoned cars, law school drama, and more! What does John think about family members who have left the church? Listen and find out. Enjoy!2025-03-1344 min

In the Family#40 - A Piece of God In Each of Us with Sister Erekson"Maybe the desire to make something beautiful is the piece of God that is inside each of us." -Mary OliverToday, I start the episode by telling Pearl she owes us an explanation… and she delivers. A returning guest, Pearl, is headed to Denmark on an LDS mission, and she tells me about her journey from a faith crisis to submitting her mission papers. What does she believe in right now? How does she reconcile the “good” and the “bad” of organized religion? Enjoy!2025-03-0625 min

In the Family#39 - Can you separate your faith from the institution of Mormonism? with Bela EreksonBela is a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and we DEEP dive into faith versus the institution of religion and whether or not she can live in the gray area. Despite that, she’s stoked for her little sister to go on a mission. But first, Bela talks about going on Love is Blind (not true) and beans. Enjoy!2025-02-2747 min

In the Family#38 - Hooked on Phonics with Skyler MartinToday, I am chatting with my favorite boy, Skyler Martin! He recently turned thirty, and his goal for the next decade is (drum roll please) to be a more avid reader! Plus, he gave out some fire book recs, and we discussed what it means to have a reading disability in high school and college. It's always a joy when the love of my life gets in front of the mic. Enjoy!2025-02-2031 min

In the Family#37 - The Athletic Mental Block with Thomas ZengerToday, I’m chatting with my one and only brother, Thomas Zenger! He’s a badass athlete, and I wish I could keep up with him (I’m too slow.) We deep dive into his mental blocks that get in the way of pursuing a professional skiing career. Plus, we remind ourselves to live a life honoring our values and not just jumping from achievement to achievement. Oh, and the book we’re gatekeeping? It’s “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck” by Mark Manson. And why are we gatekeeping? No idea. Enjoy!2025-02-1325 min

In the Family#36 - In a Word, Patriarchy: Why I’m Not Taking My Husband’s Last NameI know someone who has a problem with me not changing my last name… and it's not Skyler. Today, I am sharing why my future children will be hyphenated-last-name-outliers, and yes, I know they'll hate me for it. Plus, I reveal the name I want to use for my imaginary (hopefully real someday) baby. But please don't steal it! Enjoy. 2025-02-0617 min

In the Family#35 - An (Unqualified) Therapy Session: Confessions, Faith and Friendship with Andi MarksToday, we go DEEP with Andi on her religious and mental health journey. There’s laughter, tears, and a few shoutouts to family members. But first, I ask Andi to woman-splain to me what the heck she does in the army and her best travel tips as a woman of the world (she travels a lot, ok?) Also, did you know that Yeti makes shot glasses? Enjoy!2025-01-301h 01

In the Family#34 - The (Literal) Everyday Athlete with Joel ZengerToday, I am chatting with my dad (aka the Mayor of Millcreek) about all things outdoor sports: how to start, training for races, what gets him out of bed in the morning, trail recs, and his 2024 stats (1 million vertical feet… like ok superman!) He really is an everyday athlete. Don’t believe me? He gets up at 4:00 AM EVERY DAY to ski, trail run, or mountain bike. For athletes and non-athletes alike, this episode will get you stoked for your next adventure outside, big or small. Oh, and there’s a poop story at the end. Classic. Enjoy!2025-01-2450 min

In the Family#33 - Violin Making, River Guiding, and Twinning with McKenzie SmithWorld, meet my cousin Kenzie! She’s a twin and a river guide studying violin making. Plus, she is a newlywed and hoping to be a mom someday. I had a blast chatting with Kenzie and learning more about her world. And what better way to learn about life through the lens of someone I love? Enjoy!2025-01-1652 min

In the Family#32 - Your Favorite Ex-MormonIt’s me! Your favorite ex-mormon! Today, I talk about all things leaving the church. From my newfound values, why I left, my relationships with active church-goers, and what I believe now. Enjoy!2025-01-0934 min

In the Family#31 - Ask Amy AnythingNeed advice? Ask Amy (and me by default) Anything! You submitted your questions, from jealousy to marriage to religion, and we gave you our unqualified, unprofessional advice. Honestly, I love to pretend I know all the answers. Happy Holidays, and thanks for listening!2024-12-1953 min

In the Family#30 - Returned Missionary Check-inToday, I am chatting with my brother Thomas about his post-LDS mission mental health journey and spiritual transformation. Plus where he stands now in his faith and his positive experience in therapy. I think it goes without saying that I am proud of my brother and love him endlessly. Enjoy!2024-12-1234 min

In the Family#29 - Latter-day in LAWhat's it like to move to LA and pursue a career as an actor? In today's episode, my cousin Bela gives up the scoop on her three-year stint in Los Angeles. But first, she recounts her most recent dating experiences and patiently listens to me talk about bears. Don't sleep on this episode! Bela is hilarious, and I'm just trying to keep up. Enjoy!2024-12-0559 min

In the FamilyAn Attitude of (Self) GratitudeHappy Thanksgiving! I hope you have a lovely, relaxing day.2024-11-2804 min

In the Family#28 - Hello, My Name is Relationship AnxietyToday, I lay it ALLLL out about my relationship anxiety— past, present, and future. Yes, I “figured” it out, and yes, I still have it even though I'm married. Plus, I talk about boyfriends of the past. Spooky! Check out You Love and You Learn on Instagram— the holy grail of relationship anxiety. Enjoy!2024-11-2140 min

In the Family#27 - A to ZWelcome back! Today, I’m chatting with my cousin Arya, who may or may not have thrown up at school in the third grade, just like me. Plus, we discuss procrastination, social media, and a cool habit I stole from Michael Phelps. Enjoy!2024-11-1423 min

In the Family#26 - First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, And Then Comes a Puppy in a Doggy Carriage!Here comes the bride—and the groom! On today's episode, join my HUSBAND and me as we recap our wedding. Plus, I sip on some V8 and chat about my favorite topic: babies. Enjoy! 2024-11-0729 min

In the Family#25 - New Job Who DisOn today's episode, I chat with my aunt Patricia about being a working mom and a "yes" woman. Plus, I learned what it means to be a caregiver and how her childhood was impacted by having a working mom of her own. Enjoy!2024-10-3155 min

In the Family#24 - Under the Influence (of the Patriarchy)Welcome back! We’re kicking off season two with my mom and chatting about gender roles and feminism. What does it mean to be a woman? How do traditional teachings shape our understanding of womanhood? How has the LDS faith influenced our sense of identity? Thanks for listening!2024-10-2446 min

In the Family#23 - One Year Older and Wiser (??) Too… HAPPY SEASON 1 FINALE TO YOU!!Bad news: This is the season one finale of the In the Family podcast! Good news: I’ll be back on September 12th with season two!! Your job: Listen in as I brain-dump some thoughts and feelings and skirt around how I drink now and will probs get a tattoo. But it’s my birthday, so I’ll cry/ramble/word vomit/drink a margarita if I want to. Thank you for listening and supporting me!2024-07-1825 min

In the Family#22 - Father of the BrideOn today's episode, we answer some burning questions: Do Thomas and I resent our parents? How did my Dad feel when I left the church? Why am I making "George Clooney for President" t-shirts? You'll have to tune in to today's episode as I chat with Joel, aka my Dad, aka the Mayor of Millcreek (IYKYK)! (No, we don't resent him… but maybe our mom? Jk. Does anyone even read these???) Enjoy episode #22! 2024-07-1121 min

In the Family#21 - Diary of a Nifty KidToday, I’m chatting with my cousin, Jonah! Does he drop some truth bombs about middle school friendships? Yes. But does he even know what a flash mob is?! Nope. Now you tell me which is more important… Anyway, come and hang out with me as I try to understand the mysteries of the teenage boy. Feelings and friends and fears, oh my! Enjoy! 2024-07-0419 min

In the Family#20 - Smells Like Teen SpiritToday, I am chatting with my almost-an-adult cousin, Josie! We start the episode by roasting Skyler. What’s new? Once we stop being bullies, we laugh a lot, talk about what it’s like being a teenager in the year of our Lord 2024, and laugh some more. BRB, I’m ordering Josie a Tamagotchi. Enjoy!2024-06-271h 09

In the Family#19 - The Doctor is in (feat. baby Eliason gender reveal!)Today, I'm chatting with my cousin AnnaLeah, the soon-to-be mom, ex-dolphin researcher, birthday girl, and doctor. Also, sorry I called you old Paul (AnnaLeah's husband, but you should know that if you listen to the episode). You're not old. Just older than me. Anyway, I hope you walk away from this episode feeling a little braver. You can do hard things! Prove them wrong! Prove yourself wrong! Enjoy! 2024-06-2049 min

In the Family#18 - It’s Me, Hi, I’m the Problem It’s MeIt’s the unfiltered me answering your (aka my mom’s) Ask Me Anything questions! White lies, bad advice, friendship, etc. Thanks so much for supporting my podcast!! Share an episode you like with a friend; that would mean a lot to me. Enjoy! 2024-06-1333 min

In the Family#17 - A Puppy Named TostadaYou’re in for a short and sweet treat!! Today, Skyler and I are reading YOUR stories, and they don’t disappoint. There’s a fugitive, barfing, and a fart jar. Oh, and we reminisce on Loin Cloth Guy from our last Grand Canyon trip. Enjoy!2024-06-0718 min

In the Family#16 - Are You REALLY Ok?Today, I’m chatting with my cousin Estee! She’s hilarious and wise, and she used to be a puppy named Rachel. We start goofy, and honestly, her vote of confidence on Totino’s pizza rolls is enough for a brand deal, imo. As we dive into the episode, she shares her story about her mental health crisis and her journey moving forward. I’m grateful to Estee for sharing all of this in a vulnerable, honest, and thoughtful way. Her experience is full of hardship but also a lot of hope. Join me and my family in raising awarenes...2024-05-3046 min

In the Family#15 - Homecoming SwerveToday, I’m chatting with my cousin, Maya. We answer some crucial questions… What’s her beef with my brother Thomas? Why does she only eat chicken and bread? Why is she always cold? Why is she not into kissing? We also hear about her first date and kiss and discuss her relationship with her boyfriend, Adam. If there’s one thing I love, it’s talking about love! Remember, don’t settle for less than you deserve; sometimes, practicing being alone is good! Enjoy!2024-05-2343 min

In the Family#14 - Blood is Thicker than Sacrament WaterToday, my cousin Daniel and I give a hot-button topic our best shot! He beautifully shares his story about leaving Mormonism (death by a thousand cuts) and how he ultimately aligned with his most authentic self (”What do I have left after Mormonism?”). We also discuss faith versus logic, evolution and the Mitt Romney of it all, and our feelings about a just God. Most importantly, our shared belief is that no matter what you believe, you belong and deserve all the happiness in the world. Enjoy!2024-05-161h 16

In the Family#13 - Teachers are People, Too!!Class is in session! Today, I am chatting with my cousin Sierra about being a high school English teacher. Miss Olsen is the MVP at helping students appreciate the coolness of reading, treating them like REAL human beings, and creating a haven where laughter is allowed in the classroom. Maybe she’ll be the next famous TikTok teacher? But first, we reminisce about her pogo-stick skills and how much the Olsen kids love America’s Funniest Home Videos. Enjoy!2024-05-0943 min

In the Family#12 - Spirituality… It’s ComplicatedToday, I’m back with my cousin Pearl for part two! Pearl tells me how Mormonism fueled her feminism, why she loved being a “Colorado Mormon,” and her gratitude for her ongoing faith transition. Plus, we discuss how personal and beautiful faith is and how Uncle Adam and Grandpa bookended her depressive episode. Check out her art account that illuminates the joy and light in everyday, mundane life. @the.pearls.of.life on Instagram Enjoy! **Please note we discuss suicide about halfway through the episode. Are you in a crisis? Call or text TALK...2024-05-0237 min

In the Family#11 - She’s Not THAT BYU StudentToday, I'm welcoming another angry feminist who can appreciate an excellent loafer to the pod! Pearl and I chat about all things family, including what it is like for her to have a brother with a disability. Plus, you'll learn my mom's favorite catchphrase and how old her sister Bela REALLY is. Bonus: Listen closely to hear a Wishbone the dog cameo. Enjoy!2024-04-2536 min

In the Family#10 - IT’S A LOVE STORY, BABY, JUST SAY, “YES”We made it, folks, to episode ten! Today, I chatted with my cousin-in-law Katie about her and Daniel’s love story. But first, we hear about her first kiss and first date and how she told her family she was leaving the Mormon church. (It’s You’ve Got Mail coded FYI). I love love, and especially theirs. Enjoy!2024-04-1836 min

In the Family#9 - On Loss and SuicideOn today’s episode, I talk with my mom about the loss of her brother, Adam. We discuss the grief of losing a loved one, death by suicide, and how to find help if you’re in a crisis. Join me and my family in raising awareness about suicide by having an open dialogue with your loved ones. Thanks for listening! Are you in a crisis? Call or text TALK (988) to 741741 Visit 988lifeline.org (National Suicide Prevention Lifeline) Nami.org Liveonutah.org AFSP.org Read Richard Adam Heck...2024-04-1138 min

In the Family#8 - How the Turn Tables!It’s the ol’ switcharoo! Today, Skyler is taking the reins and interviewing yours truly. It’s a hodgepodge of topics from doggos to baby names. Plus, the age-old question… Why does the universe hate introverts?! Enjoy!2024-04-0427 min

In the Family#7 - Noah's (Coming Out) ArkToday, Noah and I have a beautiful conversation about coming out, the LDS faith, and the strength of loving relationships. Honestly, this conversation reconnected us in a way I didn’t expect! I have so much love and respect for Noah, and I’m so grateful he was willing to share his story with me. Enjoy! Check out @inthefamily_podcast on Instagram to see the iconic dock photo...2024-03-2847 min

In the Family#6 - How Deep is Your Love?Today, I’m hanging out with my bestie, Andi. This might be my favorite episode yet! First, we talk about all things dating. Need to get out of a dud date? Andi has got you covered. Want to chat about Love is Blind or The Ultimatum? Andi is your girl. We wrap up our convo with our most embarrassing stories. And yes, Mom and Dad, I tell the cereal one. Enjoy!2024-03-2139 min

In the Family#5 - Thea-(n)o-raGet ready to turn back time with my grandma on today’s episode. I learned that she can outsmart a bull, isn’t a huge fan of her first name, and my fear of snakes is hereditary. Also, she’s hilarious and the best kind of grandma (honest and makes great food). Enjoy!2024-03-1416 min

In the Family#4 - The Next Golden BachelorToday, my dad and I discuss his unique talent of reading and watching TV simultaneously, the soundtrack to our backpacking death march, and whether or not he could hack it on Survivor. Plus, he answers my most burning question (that I didn’t even know I had): Why hasn’t he written a book? Enjoy!2024-03-0723 min

In the Family#3 - Don’t Go Chasin’ White BoysOn today’s episode, Thomas and I discuss his time living in Chile and whether or not he loves eating chicken feet. He answers my most burning questions, like what happens when a gringo drinks the water, and do the stray dogs only attack the white boys? Enjoy!2024-02-2939 min

In the Family#2 - Push it Real GoodToday, I hang out with my mom and discuss her experience with the pregnancy and birth of her favorite child…. ME! Plus, she drops some truth bombs about raising kids and reminds me of the importance of letting go of expectations. Enjoy! 2024-02-2254 min

In the Family#1 - Mr. and Mrs. ZengerWelcome to the first episode of In the Family! Chatting with my number one guy on episode number one seemed fitting. Listen in as we tell our story: how we met, who went in for the first kiss, and whether or not Skyler moved to Utah to date me. Enjoy!2024-02-1546 min

In the FamilyIn the Family - TrailerWelcome to the In the Family Podcast!2024-02-1201 min