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Ex-it StrategyPreparing for Court: The Do's and Don'tsJoin lizabeth A. Stephenson and Sarah J. Hink from New Direction Family Law as they delve into crucial insights for clients preparing to testify in family court. Alongside Cam, their coordinator, they discuss the intricacies of courtroom procedures, the importance of honest and concise testimony, and how to handle cross-examinations and character witnesses. From what to wear to how to manage your emotions, gain valuable advice on presenting yourself effectively in court. Whether it's a custody case, financial disputes, or spousal support, this episode covers everything you need to know to navigate your court appearance with confidence.00:00...
2025-08-1923 minEx-it StrategyNavigating Custody Issues Across State LinesOur hosts discuss the complexities of handling custody issues when co-parents live in different states. They delve into the legalities, jurisdiction matters, and real-life scenarios including military families and interstate relocations. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding state laws, getting court permissions, and the potential emotional and financial impacts on the children and parents involved. They also provide practical advice on dealing with such situations, emphasizing the significance of consulting with an attorney before making any moves.00:00 Introduction and Greetings00:41 Custody Issues Across State Lines00:57 Jurisdiction and Legal Complexities01:02 Case Study: California to...
2025-08-0521 minEx-it StrategyThe Millennial Marriage Epidemic: A Default Parent DilemmaIn this insightful discussion, we talk about the growing phenomenon of 'default parent' divorces among millennial marriages. The episode explores the dynamics of household responsibilities, the emotional toll of being the default parent, and how this imbalance often leads to marital discord and eventually divorce. The hosts share personal anecdotes, client experiences, and offer practical advice on managing these challenges through better communication, therapy, and allowing mistakes to foster growth in co-parenting.00:00 Introduction and Team Introduction00:44 The Default Parent Epidemic01:46 Impact on Relationships and Divorce03:11 Gender Roles and Societal Expectations04:40 Challenges in Co-Parenting...
2025-07-2218 minEx-it StrategyEstate Planning Meets Family Law: Generational Wealth & TrustsIn this insightful discussion, Cameron, the Marketing and Business Development Manager at New Direction Family Law, and Elizabeth Stevenson, a partner at the firm, dive deep into the intricate intersection of estate planning and family law with Hampton Crumpler, an attorney at NC Planning. They explore the complexities of generational wealth, trusts, wills, and how these elements play crucial roles in divorce, custody battles, and property division. Key topics include the impact of prenuptial and postnuptial agreements, protecting assets for children from previous marriages, the importance of regularly updating estate plans, and understanding the differences between revocable and irrevocable...
2025-05-1337 minEx-it StrategyTips for Choosing the Right Divorce AttorneyIn this episode, Elizabeth Stevenson and Ashley Oldham of New Direction Family Law discuss the crucial process of selecting the right divorce attorney. They cover essential steps such as the importance of initial consultations, building a trust-based relationship, understanding retainer fees, and ensuring transparent communication. They also emphasize the value of honesty and document organization in achieving the best legal outcomes. This episode provides valuable insights for anyone navigating the complexities of divorce.00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:31 Choosing the Right Attorney01:30 Initial Consultation Importance01:51 Client Intake Process04:33 Confidentiality and...
2025-05-0620 minEx-it StrategyMilitary Divorces: Tips and Insights from Family Law ExpertsJoin Elizabeth Stevenson from New Direction Family Law and her colleague Ashley Oldham as they discuss the unique challenges of military divorces. In this episode, they delve into the nuances of divorce for military families, covering topics such as pension division, custody arrangements, and the Uniform Deployed Parents Custody and Visitation Act. Ashley, a board-certified family law specialist with extensive experience in military divorces, provides valuable insights on jurisdiction, survivor benefits, and child support. Whether you're a service member or a spouse, this episode is packed with essential information to help navigate the complexities of military divorces.00:00...
2025-04-2919 minEx-it StrategyRings, Romance, and Real Talk... Prenups!Understanding Prenuptial Agreements: Protecting Your Future and AssetsIn this episode of New Direction Family Law, Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink discuss the importance of prenuptial agreements, especially for individuals entering second marriages or who have children from previous relationships. They explain how prenups can protect personal assets, manage debts, and anticipate changes in circumstances, such as starting a business. The conversation also touches on the misconceptions about prenups, the emotional and financial implications, and the necessity of discussing finances openly before marriage. Tune in for real talk on romance, prenups, and safeguarding your...
2025-02-0421 minEx-it StrategySuddenly Single: Coping with Unexpected SeparationIn this episode, Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink from New Direction Family Law discuss the complexities and emotional challenges of separation and divorce. They share practical advice on handling separation, especially in cases of domestic violence, financial complications, and child custody. They also introduce Cam Heinsohn, their new marketing and business development manager. The conversation touches on real-life scenarios, legal strategies, and the emotional toll of ending a marriage, aiming to provide guidance and support for those going through such a difficult time.00:00 The Hardest Part of Separation00:58 Introducing the New Podcast Member02:04...
2025-01-2123 minEx-it StrategyHigh-Conflict Divorce: The Role of Parenting CoordinatorsIn this episode of 'The Exit Strategy: Your No Bullshit Guide to Divorce,' experienced attorneys Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink from New Direction Family Law discuss the vital role of parenting coordinators in high-conflict divorce situations. Learn how parenting coordinators, either attorneys or mental health professionals, are appointed to assist co-parents in making decisions and improving communication. Discover how this essential service can help avoid prolonged court battles, reduce legal fees, and ensure the best interests of the children are prioritized. Tune in for expert insights on how to navigate co-parenting challenges effectively.00:00 Introduction t...
2025-01-0718 minEx-it StrategyNavigating Taxes During Divorce: Expert Tips from Jason DeshayesIn this episode of 'The Exit Strategy: Your No Bullsh$t Guide to Divorce,' hosts Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink from New Direction Family Law are joined by Jason Deshayes, CEO of Cook Wealth. They discuss the crucial role of financial planning and tax preparation in the context of divorce. Topics include tax liabilities, the importance of transparency in joint tax filings, handling separate and joint accounts, and the significance of consulting with CPAs and financial advisors. The episode aims to educate listeners on making informed financial decisions during and after a divorce, ensuring a smoother transition from...
2024-12-2432 minEx-it StrategyAll I want for Christmas is... An Annulment?Join Elizabeth A. Stephenson and Sarah J. Hink from New Direction Family Law as they explore the often misunderstood topic of annulments and how they differ from divorces. They discuss various grounds for annulments in North Carolina, including bigamy, mental incapacity, and underage marriage with parental consent. Elizabeth and Sarah also touch on some complex cases they’ve encountered and provide insights into legal protections and agreements that can safeguard your future. Whether you're considering an annulment or a divorce after the holidays, this informative discussion will help you understand your options.00:00 Holiday Wishes and Legal Choices...
2024-12-1020 min
Own Your WealthDivorce Lawyer Talks Top 5 Financial ConsiderationsAre you going through a divorce? Do you know someone who is going through a divorce?
There are a lot things to think about during a divorce and there are some big mistakes people can make if they act out of emotion. Hear what Elizabeth Stephenson and Jason Deshayes have to say about navigating finances during a divorce.
In this episode, you’ll learn about:
What does New Direction Family Law do?
Managing Expenses During Divorce
Getting a New Home after Divorce
Figuring Out Income During a Divorce
Business Owner Income During a Divorce
Sp...
2024-09-2026 min
Own Your WealthDivorce Lawyer Talks Top 5 Financial ConsiderationsAre you going through a divorce? Do you know someone who is going through a divorce?
There are a lot things to think about during a divorce and there are some big mistakes people can make if they act out of emotion. Hear what Elizabeth Stephenson and Jason Deshayes have to say about navigating finances during a divorce.
In this episode, you’ll learn about:
What does New Direction Family Law do?
Managing Expenses During Divorce
Getting a New Home after Divorce
Figuring Out Income During a Divorce
Business Owner Income During a Divorce
Sp...
2024-09-2026 minEx-it StrategyTop 10 Things to Know When Going Through a DivorceSummary: In this episode, Elizabeth Stephenson, Sarah Hink, and Jen Bordeaux from New Direction Family Law share the top ten essential tips and advice for navigating through a divorce. They cover both legal and personal aspects, offering practical insights and supportive guidance to help listeners manage this challenging period in their lives. From financial independence to emotional support, these tips aim to provide a comprehensive understanding of what to expect and how to handle various situations during a divorce.Key Points:Your Kids Will Be OkayEmphasize the importance of shielding children from conflict.Tips on co-parenting...
2024-07-0928 minEx-it StrategyCourtroom Drama: How to Avoid Being a Hot MessSummary: In this insightful episode, Elizabeth Stephenson, Sarah Hink, and Jen Bordeaux from New Direction Family Law discuss essential tips and advice for anyone preparing to go to court. Drawing from their extensive experience, they provide practical do’s and don’ts to help listeners present themselves effectively and navigate the courtroom with confidence. The episode covers everything from appropriate attire and punctuality to emotional control and the importance of honesty.Key Points:Introduction and Overview (00:00:00)Hosts introduce themselves and the topic of the episode.Elizabeth and Sarah share their extensive courtroom experiences.Courtroom Etiquette: Do's and...
2024-06-2518 minEx-it StrategyPride Month Special: Navigating Family Law for LGBTQ+ CouplesSummary: In this special Pride Month episode, Elizabeth Stephenson, Sarah Hink, and Jen Bordeaux discuss the intricacies of family law as it pertains to same-sex relationships. The episode delves into the legal challenges and considerations for LGBTQ+ couples, particularly in North Carolina. Topics include custody issues, child support, surrogacy, adoption, and the recent Court of Appeals case affecting same-sex couples. The hosts emphasize the importance of legal guidance and community support for LGBTQ+ families.00:00 Introduction and Greetings00:49 Busy Times in Family Law01:16 Pride Month and Family Law01:56 Legal Nuances of...
2024-06-1116 minEx-it StrategyFacebook Legal Advice Fails: The Not-So-Fine PrintOverview: This episode of "Exit Strategy" delves into the risks and misunderstandings surrounding seeking and giving legal advice on Facebook. Hosts Elizabeth A. Stephenson, a family law attorney, and Jennifer Bordeaux, specializing in marketing and beyond at New Direction Family Law, dissect real examples from social media, highlighting the misinformation often spread in these platforms.Key Points Discussed:The Danger of Unqualified Legal Advice: The hosts emphasize the pitfalls of taking legal advice from unqualified individuals on social media, particularly Facebook. They analyze several examples where advice, often well-meaning, is legally incorrect and...
2024-01-2337 minEx-it StrategyLove, Marriage, and How Not to End Up in a True Crime Podcast with Amanda LambOur Guest:Amanda Lamb is a veteran television crime reporter with more than three decades of experience and is also a podcast host and producer. She works for award-winning WRAL TV in Raleigh, North Carolina. Amanda currently hosts and produces a weekday morning podcast called the WRAL Daily Download. She has also hosted and produced two true crime podcasts and has another on the way. Follow the Truth was released in 2021 and won the prestigious regional Edward R. Murrow award for excellence in journalism. What Remainswas released in 2022. The Killing Month is scheduled for release i...
2024-01-0934 minEx-it StrategyNew Year, New Me - How to prepare if you’re considering divorce in 2024Hosts: Elizabeth Stephenson and Jen Bordeaux from New Direction Family Law.Topic: Preparing for and navigating separation and divorce.Key Discussions:The tendency for people to consider separation post-holidays.Consultations as a tool for preparation and planning, offering legal advice and a "toolbox" for navigating separation.Addressing fears and misconceptions about custody and financial survival post-separation.The importance of individual plans and strategies in the context of family law.The role of attorneys in providing guidance and representation.Specific Advice:Different aspects of family law: custody, child support, spousal support, and property distribution.Approaches...
2023-12-1235 minEx-it StrategyBreaking the Rules: What to do if Your Ex Isn't Following a Court Order or Separation Agreement.The episode's topic is the serious implications of violating a court order, specifically in the context of family law.Violating Court Orders:Discuss common ways people violate court orders, including not following custody or child support orders.An explanation is that judges are not pleased with non-compliance and the importance of settling cases to have a say in the outcome.Once a judge gives an order, it must be followed. Even if one has a custody order, law enforcement may not get involved.Remedies for Violation:If one is constantly late for exchanges...
2023-08-2923 minEx-it StrategyI Want Out: How to Tell Your Spouse You Want a DivorceYou don't want to start the beginning of the end conflicted. So when possible be kind. Discussion About Guests and Support:Mention guests who have supported people during a divorce.Emphasizing the need for support for those who have been through divorce.Introduction of Tracey Stracener with Simply Thrive Therapeutic Associates:Discussion about her role in supporting people through divorce.Introducing the topic: telling your spouse that you want to leave.Tracey Speaks About Her Practice:Overview of working at Simply Thrive Therapeutic Associates, focusing on trauma therapy.Discussing the trauma i...
2023-08-1532 minEx-it StrategyFrom Tin Cup to Enforcing a Prenup: Our Take on Kevin Costner's DivorceIntroductionElizabeth Stephenson and Sarah introduced themselves from New Direction, Family Law.They discuss their passion for trash-talking and telemetry.Main Topic: Rich People's DivorcesThe topic concerns divorces, specifically among the rich, covering issues like child support, custody, and property.More money is involved, but issues are similar to average divorces.Kevin Costner's Divorce DramaFocusing on the Kevin Costner divorce drama from his longtime wife, who married in 2004.Discussion of a prenuptial agreement.Elizabeth and Sarah role-play representing wife and husband, respectively.Property IssuesFifty-eight thousand square feet property with various amenities discussed.They are debating over property rights and why the...
2023-08-0117 minEx-it StrategyTil Death or Divorce Do Us Part: The intersection of family law and estate planning featuring Adam HoplerGuest: Adam Hopler, an Estate Attorney from the firm Hopler, Wilms, & Hanna PLLC.Adam shares about his personal background, including his experience of practicing law in Durham for 12 years and being a father to six kids.Discussion about the intersection of family law and estate planning: how divorce and separation can impact one's estate and the importance of consultation with estate attorneys.The podcast addresses certain scenarios where it becomes essential to speak with an estate attorney, such as in cases of separations involving substantial estates or closely held businesses.Adam elaborates on how estate planning isn't just...
2023-06-1335 minEx-it StrategyHow to Talk to Your Children about DivorceGuest: LINDSEY OHLER, PSY.D. Introduction:Hosts Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink from New Direction Family Law invite Dr. Lindsay Ohler to discuss a critical topic - how to approach the conversation about separation and divorce with children.The Emotional Impact of Divorce on Children:Dr. Ohler emphasizes the profound emotional effects of divorce on children, comparing the experience to grief. She highlights the need for care and gentleness while discussing separation with children, regardless of age.The Perceptive Nature of Children:Discussing how even if parents try to shield their children from their disputes, c...
2023-05-3024 minEx-it StrategyDivorcing a Sociopath with Kerrie DrobanIn this episode of the New Direction Family Law Podcast, Elizabeth, Sarah, and guest Kerrie Droban discuss the pathology of the criminal mind and identify the traits of sociopaths, psychopaths, and narcissists in the context of family law. They also provide strategies for victims to protect themselves and unmask their abusers during litigation.Elizabeth and Sarah from New Direction Family Law are joined by Kerrie Droban, an award-winning true crime author and criminal and family law attorney.Kerrie Droban shares her expertise on the pathology of the criminal mind, focusing on identifying the personality disorder...
2023-04-2524 minEx-it StrategyI Always Feel Like Somebody's Watching Me: Is Your Spouse Spying on You?What do you do if you think someone is stalking you, digitally or in real life...Spying is a common issue in family law cases.People may spy on their spouses because they suspect infidelity or substance abuse.Hiring a private investigator or conducting your own investigation by looking through trash or tracking purchases can gather evidence.Spouses may spy by following their partner, audio or video recording, accessing emails or phone data, or installing tracking devices on cars or personal items.AirTags can be used to track people discreetly.If you suspect someone is spying on you...
2023-04-1118 minEx-it StrategyRelocation Relocation RelocationIn this episode:What are some reasons that the court would say you can move or not move during a divorce? Domestic violence is a completely different circumstance.Some of the things the court considers is:will it benefit the childfamilycrime statisticsculture & artan opportunity to make a better livingMany times a separation agreement will outline terms related to relocating.What can happen if a parent does move with the kids without a court order?The age of children and connections they have with friends, school, sports, and their community often will factor into a judges decision as well.
2023-02-2819 minEx-it StrategyPrenups - Love em or hate emIn this episode:What is a prenup and why is it importantAdvantages and disadvantages of prenupsWhen should a couple consider getting a prenupCommon misunderstandings and myths about prenupsWhat should couples consider when creating a prenupWhat are the legal requirements of a prenupHow do you make sure that a prenup is legally bindingWhat happens if a prenup is challenged in courtHow can couples protect their assets and interests with a prenupHelp your friends going through a divorce go from victim to victorious and bitter to better.If you like The Ex-it Strategy, visit our website to...
2023-02-1427 minEx-it Strategy2023 FAQs with Super LawyersIn this episodeI've been separated for a week can I get on tinder?We just got married on a week ago, it was a mistake, can we get an annulment?I've been living in NC for a while now and I need to change my custody order, but it is from another state. How do I do it?I think my spouse is hiding income during the divorce, how do I find out?There is no custody order in place but the other parent is with-holding the child from me. What can I do?I've been separated...
2023-01-2437 minEx-it StrategyWhat's It Worth? Business valuations with David AmissIn this episodeDavid assists attorneys, business owners, and other professionals in determining the value of a company or interest. He focuses primarily on family law, gift and estate, and mergers and acquisitions. His clients enjoy working with him because of his years of experience and choice to pursue long-lasting, trusted relationships. David strives to go beyond just providing a report; instead, he finds ways to communicate why business value is important and help his clients understand every aspect. David works with Carr, Riggs & Ingram (CRI), a Top 25 nationally-ranked accounting and advisory firm driven by relationships to cultivate gr...
2022-12-2741 minEx-it StrategyMilitary Divorce with Attorney Ashley L. OldhamIn this episodeWe talk about the different aspects of divorce as it applies to military families.We discuss pensions and how the National Defense Authorization Act changed what a spouse winds up with a divorce. It gives spouses of service members a pension that ends on the day of divorce instead of the full percentage. If you are getting ready to marry someone in the military, we discuss prenups and specifics surrounding military cases.One of the most challenging aspects of a military marriage is the potential of moving often and having a spouse who travels a l...
2022-12-1324 minEx-it StrategyLegal Fees: Who, What, Why, When and How Much?In this episodeWhy do you have to pay for an initial consultation. This is the reserved time for you to sit with your attorney to get a snapshot of what's going on and answer your questions, educate you of your legal rights and options, and help you develop your plan moving forward.You will be listened to and not "talked-at."Make sure you tell us all the facts, we are not biased or judgmental. We want to help you.Really what an initial consultation boils down to is information gathering.It is an extremely comprehensive consultation. If y...
2022-11-1533 minEx-it StrategyDo You Really Want Your Day in Court?In this episodeLet's take a relatively simple case where you have temporary custody and support hearing that is limited to two hours with two issues. It will likely take your attorneys four to six hours to prepare.We walk through some common outcomes for time spent in court in various situations.All the judge has to go on, often times is the credibility of the testimony of those on the stand. So freezing up or not representing yourself well can be very costly.We talk about the sad fact that "people lie all the time."In our...
2022-10-2524 minEx-it StrategyAdam Levine Sliding into DMs: Was it Illicit Sexual Behavior?In this episodeWe discuss what is happening in celebrity news in the case of Adam Levine. Has he cheated in the eyes of the law?From Adam Levine "I used poor judgment in speaking with anyone other than my wife in any kind of flirtatious ma manner, I did not have an affair. Nevertheless, I crossed the line during a regrettable period in my life. In certain instances, it became inappropriate. I have addressed that and taken proactive steps to remedy this with my family."North Carolina is a no fault state, so whether or not someone...
2022-10-0415 min
Ex-it StrategyUnderstanding Parental AlienationIn this episodeThe idea around parental alienation is that one parent is doing things to alienate their child from the other parent. It could be saying bad things about the other parent, not allowing communication, restricting access, etc. Richard Gardner was the first one to coin this term. Here are a couple of facts about him:He had no research experience.It was based on nothing but clinical opinion. He was a part-time clinical professor as a psychoanalyst. And it was horrible. It was very misogynistic. He would always say 90% of the time, it was mothers alienating a fat...
2022-08-0924 min
Ex-it StrategyDivorcing in Today's Real Estate MarketIn this episodeMeredith Pope is a realtor with Inhabit Real Estate. And Christina Jasper is a mortgage lender and the branch manager at Benchmark Mortgage.They both specialize in helping people going through divorce and separation work and helping people decide what they're gonna do with their house? Who's gonna keep it, and how are we gonna finance it?A lot of times, the house is the biggest asset or cash asset. They may have some retirement or something, but that's all people many going through divorce have to divide.Christina and Meredith explain that it is...
2022-07-2624 min