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Listen Before LoveWhy We're Done Performing for the Camera (a.k.a The Fart Conversation đ)Ever feel like you're only showing a fraction of who you really are? Cam and Elle dive deep into the performance we all do without realizing it.From the "wind up" people do in grocery stores to the masks we wear on camera, this episode exposes the ways we hide our authentic selves. They share Camâs breakthrough moment about unconsciously going into âmilitant modeâ and why playing more might be the answer.Things get real when they discuss how even fart shame reveals our de...2025-07-141h 14Listen Before LoveHow To Create Heaven On Earth In Your RelationshipsWeâre pulling back the curtain on how our relationship actually works day-to-day, sharing the specific practices that make love feel effortless, joyful, and deeply fulfilling. đFrom Cam's vulnerable story about his aunt's life-changing advice on mutual service to Elle's insights on building genuine compatibility, this episode delivers the blueprint for relationships that feel like heaven on earth.If you've ever wondered what it takes to create a love without drama, scorekeeping, or constant friction â this is your roadmap.Ready to stop settling and start c...2025-07-071h 06Listen Before LoveHow To Become Magnetic To Your Dream Love (Even If You Feel Moments Of Despair)We respond to a juicy DM about a topic many struggle with: how to keep faith that the love you long for is out there.In this deeply personal conversation, we share the ONE thing that changed everything in our love lives â and it's not what you think. If you've ever had those 2 AM moments wondering "will it ever happen for me?" this episode is your permission slip to feel it all and transform it into MAGNETIC energy.Ready to go from dating despair to...2025-06-301h 06Listen Before LoveStop Fighting for the Wrong Person: Our Controversial Dating AdviceWe're diving deep into one of the most controversial topics in relationships: what to do when you're out of alignment with your partner.I know what most relationship coaches tell you: "work through it," "compromise," "relationships take work." But here's our honest take: if you're truly out of alignment with someone, they're not your person. Period.In this episode, Cam and Elle break down:Why we believe the person you marry should NOT be "the person you fight with most" (this old-school relationship advice is...2025-06-2340 minListen Before LoveHow to Break Up With a Friend (Without Being Cruel)Friend breakups are so painful and awkward⌠but no one talks about them. đLetâs dive into 4 different kinds of friend breakups and how to approach each one with love and kindness. We got dozens of messages after our last episode asking how to handle friend breakups, so we hope this gives you an easy road map AND a permission slip to let go.We have no obligation to keep people in our lives who make us feel drained, exhausted, or too afraid to play big...2025-06-161h 05
The Cam DiariesWhy We're Done Playing Small (And You Should Be Too)In this episode of The Cam Hogan Experience, I sit down with Elle from The Elle Diaries for one of the most transformative conversations we've ever recorded. Fresh off a breakthrough hypnotherapy session, I share the spiritual download that changed everything about how I show up in the world.We explore the concept of "vessel expansion", why some people can handle massive success while others crumble under pressure. We dive into past-life patterns, the importance of cave mode seasons, and why playing small is actually a disservice to everyone around you.This episode...2025-06-1536 min
The Elle DiariesHypnotherapy helped me become untouchableLet's talk life visions, hypnotherapy, and sharing the real-real about what we're growing through.We have a very special guest... my love Cameron Hogan!We talked about Cam's recent hypnotherapy session, a debrief on our last episode of Listen Before Love, and this life stage we're in as we prepare to be wealthy and famous (it's a soul contract lol)... because "The hardest path is our purpose."'This is a peak behind the curtain of our mindset right now.2025-06-1036 minListen Before LoveHow to End a RelationshipBreak ups are in the air⌠romantic, platonic, professional. Oh my! đLetâs dive into all the nitty gritty about why, when, and HOW to end a relationship the right way. Cam is a jedi master at break ups and leads these conversations better than anyone Elle has met⌠so much so, that she sits in the room and absorbs his approach when he breaks up with people. And youâre in for a treat today⌠weâre bringing you into 3 LIVE breakup examples!This conversatio...2025-06-091h 32Listen Before LoveThis Is Why You Hate Dating AppsLet's talk about the *heavy* dating app fatigue that our single friends are feeling right now.This episode is inspired by one of my favorite creators, Danielle Walter aka The Carrie Bradshaw of SF!Danielle said in a recent reel that "dating apps are like a full-time job" and "the pace of online dating is too fast for me right now."This sparked today's conversation: why are people feeling so worn out by dating apps?!We dive into how...2025-06-021h 09Listen Before LoveWhy We Stopped UploadingWe are BACK after a two month hiatus, baby! â¤ď¸So, where did we go and what did we learn in our time away?! Let's talk about it.This episode is a behind the scenes look into an entrepreneurial couple's day to day. Juicy insights and stories, galore! đReminder: We host monthly meetings about all these topics, useful tools and resources to integrate, and MORE in our communities for men and women. Join us below or tell a friend!Thank you for...2025-05-261h 09Listen Before LoveâHow do we set and receive boundaries, and why is it so hard?!âCam and Elle revisit boundaries because this is a BIG topic.We break down Boundaries 101 using a story, how to send and receive boundaries, and why extreme reactions are a sign of childhood wounds (with Elle explaining her most recent breakthrough)... this is an insight-packed episode. Take your time with it and be gentle with yourself.Reminder: We lead weekly live meetings about all these topics, useful tools and resources to integrate, and MORE in our communities for men and women. We are having a blast so far and...2025-03-1759 minListen Before LoveâWhat if someone uses spirituality to avoid accountability?âCam and Elle call out some spiritual folks . đItâs not all sunshine and roses over here⌠we have SEEN some verbal gymnastics to escape accountability! (Like the Twin Flames Universe cult, one of the wildest documentaries weâve watched lately.) We talk about the concept of a mirror in relationships, how to differentiate between intuition and trauma response, why some coaches are broke, how we create space for our inner wisdom to shine through⌠and more!Reminder: We lead weekly live meetings about all these to...2025-03-1151 minListen Before LoveWe got a concerned DM⌠so weâre responding to it LIVE!Cam and Elle read a juicy DM. đWeâre still getting used to the whole âsharing your life onlineâ thing⌠so letâs talk about it! We laugh about how Cam looked like a red flag factory when we met, how Cam usually tweets when heâs in a âmehâ mood (and how it gets misinterpreted), and why our relationship is 0% toxic and 100% love.Cute reminder: We both lead communities to provide a lifeline to hope and good relationship advice. (Who knows, we may even matchmake some...2025-02-241h 02Listen Before LoveâHow do we maintain boundaries while being supportive?âCam and Elle explore boundaries.We kick off with a story about how Elle got triggered by a âcompetition woundâ after someone on the walk implemented strategies she freely gave, and how Cam responded to her anger â and brought it up later. This story is filled with real talk that high-achieving people may find some lightbulb moments in. đWe talk about how to communicate boundaries in a healthy way (with a sample script), why *not* communicating boundaries causes you to suffer in silence until you get fe...2025-02-171h 09Listen Before Love"What makes a great first date?"Cam and Elle explore epic first dates.This is the third episode in our dating series â if you havenât listened to the last 2 weeks (Episode 20 and 21), go ahead and do that first! These episodes are designed to give you the confidence to get back out there. We cover dating app strategy, how to stand out and secure a date, and now⌠how to knock it out of the park while youâre there LIVE!Fun news: We're each launching communities for men and women to...2025-02-1046 minListen Before LoveâI got a match on dating apps⌠how do I stand out?!âCam and Elle discuss what happens AFTER you match.This is the second episode in our dating series â if you havenât listened to last week (Episode 20), go ahead and do that first!In this episode, we give you unconventional tips that made us very successful on the apps: voice notes, selfie videos, mentioning small details on their profile (or roasting when they give 0 info), and quick Facetime dates before meeting in person. Iâve never heard relationship coaches give these tips, but trust us on...2025-02-0338 minListen Before LoveâWhat's the best strategy for dating apps?!âCam and Elle discuss The Apps.We know they might seem hopeless and thereâs some folks out there who just re-downloaded Hinge for the 16th time⌠đSo in this episode, we talk all about how to set yourself up for success on dating apps. We give tactical advice for photos, prompts, how to avoid icks, and some perspective-shifting advice that strikes at the heart of why a lot of fantastic women are having a hard time finding love.Fun new...2025-01-2751 minListen Before LoveâIs fighting a good thing for couples?âCam and Elle discuss fights.Are they a good sign? Are they necessary? How do we fight well? đWe go particularly hard about the role of growth vs fixed mindsets in romance⌠because The Growth Gap has ended many couples, usually years down the line.Fun news: We're each launching communities for men and women to provide a lifeline to hope and good relationship advice. (Who knows, we may even matchmake some folks!) This is open to both single and taken friends, because we never...2025-01-2055 minListen Before LoveâWill a relationship stop me from hitting my goals?âCam and Elle discuss how hustle bros think women are a distraction.The tea is piping hot on this one. đWe discuss whatâs going on under the hood of âdistractingâ relationships, how to identify your fuel source in all areas, 2 easy steps to change your life⌠and more.Fun news: We're each launching communities for men and women to provide a lifeline to hope and good relationship advice. (Who knows, we may even matchmake some folks!) This is open to both single and taken frien...2025-01-1347 minListen Before LoveâCan I talk to my ex?âCam and Elle discuss the wild world of exes⌠because Elle got a few texts. đShould we talk to exes? Why do they circle back? Would you give closure if asked?We dive into these questions, the piping hot tea of recent reach outs, and watch Cam have a coming-to-Jesus moment where he realizes that he was projecting some of his trust issues onto Elle. HOW JUICY!Fun news: We're each launching positive dating communities to provide a lifeline to hope and good advice on yo...2025-01-0853 minListen Before Love"How much should I share in early dating?"Cam and Elle discuss when people share too much, too soon.This conversation is inspired by David and Michelle, who were married as total strangers on the current season of Married At First Sight. Right after they were married at the altar, David shared that he smoked cigarettes and lived in his parentsâ basement, and Michelle caught a MAJOR ick and ran to the bathroom to cry.Weâve seen this same thing happen on A LOT of first dates, where well-meaning people dump thei...2024-12-3041 min
Seeking Joy PodcastSJP50 | Elle BeecherIn this episode of the Seeking Joy Podcast, host Ashley engages in a heartfelt and candid conversation with Elle Beecher, a radiant and energetic soul with a mission to make people feel seen and heard. Elle shares her transformative journey from high school struggles with people-pleasing and perfectionism to experiencing a profound personal crisis when a previous partner developed a severe mental health related condition. This life-altering event propelled her into a deep journey of self-healing and spiritual growth in 2021 and beyond. Elle discusses the various healing methods she explored, including Reiki, sound healing, gratitude practices, and walking without...2024-12-262h 23Listen Before LoveâHow do I know theyâre The One?âCam and Elle discuss âThe One.âWe share 2 stories from The Board Walks here in Austin, a weekly 5-mile walk for meaningful conversations that Elle has hosted 126 times.We discuss a fun visualization to check whether you're choosing from love or scarcity, 2 big things to keep top of mind, the soulmate checklist (and the FEELING!), a challenge for our single friends... and so much more.And... BIG NEWS! We're each launching positive dating communities for men and women to provi...2024-12-2452 minListen Before LoveHow Celibate Dating Attracts Your PersonCam and Elle dive deep into something that transformed our approach to relationships: celibate dating.We know this might sound old-school, but this is not about restriction (or religion of any kind) - it's about creating space to truly know someone's heart and mind without physical intimacy clouding your judgment. When you remove that element, you start noticing things you might have missed before: their energy, their values, how they handle stress, whether they truly respect your boundaries.We found that celibate dating helped...2024-12-1639 minListen Before LoveHow to Survive Holidays Around Family & Meet The ParentsCam and Elle explore how to feel GOOD spending time around family.If youâre short on time and struggle with wanting to âchangeâ certain relatives, start at 42:11 and really soak in what weâre sharing. â¤ď¸This episode is filled with bangers, targeted advice for ambitious overthinkers who like to look smart, and funny stories about how Cam navigated time with my vegan parents as a carnivore. We also discuss how to navigate politics with family, why wanting to âwinâ arguments will make you lose in the long...2024-12-091h 03Listen Before LoveHow Weight Gain Affects Our Relationship â Is The Attraction Still There?Cam and Elle gained some âhappy weight.â Now what?This episode is a roadmap for navigating sensitive topics that may make your loved one feel insecure⌠inspired by our real life, because weâve been indulging in pizza and ice cream since Elle quit her job!We enjoyed every meal that got us here, we have no shame, and weight gain is perfectly fine. â¤ď¸We roleplay 3 situations â like when your partner gains weight or goes out to the club a lot â and how to explore the root...2024-12-0248 minListen Before LoveDating Advice for High Achievers (This Is Basically A Free Relationship Coaching Call)Cam and Elle share some âgreatest hitsâ that have caused huge shifts in people.This episode is essentially a mock coaching call for people who feel stuck in love or life â especially if youâre an ambitious person whoâs struggled with people pleasing, perfectionism, or having hard conversations. Weâd be so grateful if you sent this to a friend who fits these buckets⌠you might just shift something in them! â¤ď¸Since we started this pod, many folks have asked us what to do if they canât af...2024-11-2554 minListen Before LoveThe âNo Showerâ Experiment: How to Help Your Partner GrowCam and Elle explore how to help your partner break long-standing patterns⌠by not showering for 5 days.It all started when Elle noticed one of Camâs irrational behaviors: showering 4-5 times a day because he was âdirty.â This one observation led us on a wild ride that included divine intervention at the Chick-fil-A drive thru, letting go of allergies at Olive Garden, unearthing very old memories using anger, and swamp-assing our way out of the obsessive need to be clean.Iâm not saying we cured Camâs allergies with this experiment⌠but⌠you can l...2024-11-1851 minListen Before LoveNavigating Opinions In Your Love LifeCam and Elle explore the wild world of opinions.We dive into when our friends and family did not approve of our partners, how opinions spark much-needed introspection that can change your life, why sugarcoating your relationship may be a red flag⌠and our number one piece of advice with opinions: âWould I trade places with the person telling me this?âNote: These episodes are very much inspired by what weâre going through, and as youâll hear around 53 minutes in, Elle got this idea after sheâs been faced w...2024-11-111h 02Listen Before LoveHealthy Communication â How to Keep Love & Attraction Alive In Your Relationship (PART 2)Cam and Elle confront each other LIVE.Last episode, we talked about what healthy communication is⌠and now, we'll put our words into action! đWe roleplay 3 very real conversations, including: phone addiction, diet coke addiction, and something Elle saw on Camâs phone. HOW JUICY!Note: We did not plan to do this (same as all our episodes), so what youâre watching are live and unpolished reactions. We hope this helps you approach âhardâ conversations with confidence. â¤ď¸Thank you for listening...2024-11-0453 minListen Before LoveHealthy Communication â How to Keep Love & Attraction Alive In Your Relationship (PART 1)Cam and Elle explore how we can communicate in relationships to make both parties feel seen, loved, and supported.This one is filled with actionable advice: we do 4 role-play examples AND a live body scan that you can leverage at any moment to connect with your body (24:06).We discuss what to say when triggered, how to self-regulate before having a hard conversation, how to get in tune with your emotions via a Body Scan, how to approach men and women in a way that brings you closer⌠and so mu...2024-10-2856 minListen Before LoveHot Takes on Dating & Relationships (PART 2)Cam and Elle keep the spice going⌠weâre back for more HOT TAKES! đReminder: Listen to Part 1 first to get the full scoop!These takes are brought to you by coaching dozens of people, hosting over 150 events for meaningful conversations, and going down multiple rabbit holes/books/research studies to understand what the heck was going on in our own relationships. We discuss how toxic people canât get near you if youâre connected to your body, the case for self-regulating and not sharing...2024-10-2152 minListen Before LoveHot Takes on Dating & Relationships (PART 1)Cam and Elle get spicy⌠itâs time for HOT TAKES! đAnd oh boy, we donât hold back on this one. These takes are brought to you by coaching dozens of people, hosting over 150 events for meaningful conversations, and going down multiple rabbit holes/books/research studies to understand what the heck was going on in our own relationships. We discuss casual sex (and how it affects men and women differently!), how situationships are destructive for most women, the case for celibate dating, why we sho...2024-10-141h 02Listen Before LoveFeminine and Masculine Energy â Balance Them To Attract Your SoulmateCam and Elle explore feminine and masculine energy. What is it and why does it matter?! đThis is such a juicy and deliciously practical conversation⌠because after coaching dozens of women to find love, Elle *strongly* believes that a lack of feminine energy is why so many high-achieving people are struggling with dating right now.We discuss the basics of feminine energy (Being) and masculine energy (Doing), why the world is VERY imbalanced right now, how your childhood influences your energetic balance, how you bring...2024-10-071h 24Listen Before LoveCheating & Trust Issues â How To Heal Heartbreak And Give Second Chances"I deserved to be cheated on..."   Sheesh, have you ever heard someone say THAT on a podcast?! đ  In this conversation, Cam and Elle explore cheating, trust issues, and when to give second chances.  Cam vulnerably discusses his experience being cheated on while living in Bali and how he took it as an opportunity to self-reflect, understand how he created the conditions for infidelity, and use it as fuel to turn himself into an incredible man. â¤ď¸Â  We also discuss why people stay in the wrong relations...2024-09-301h 51Listen Before LoveDating Burnout â How Unhealed Pain & Patterns Show Up On DatesCam and Elle explore how energy doesnât lie⌠no matter how hard we try to play it cool, we bring the pain we havenât addressed on our dates. We say that with no judgment and a well of compassion, because Elle was afraid of men and kept settling for years before she decided to look under the emotional hood and heal her relationship anxiety. Trigger warning: Elle vulnerably discusses the roots of her anxiety with men â growing up Catholic and an experience of sexual assault on an airplane â live in this episode, so please ski...2024-09-231h 58Listen Before LoveFinding Your Soulmate â How Inner Work Attracts Your Easiest RelationshipWelcome to our very first episode of Listen Before Love! â¨Join us to explore relationships with people who are madly in love. This show is designed to be the âStart Hereâ for anyone who wants to find and keep a lifetime of romance... before you say "I Do."In this conversation, Cam and Elle explore how they prepared themselves to meet each other: by doing the hard inner work to face, feel, and heal their wounds and insecurities.They met at a yoga studio in Aus...2024-09-162h 28