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The Stepmom Side Podcast
#114: My Why: Stepmom Coaching, The Stepmom Side Community, and Podcast
In this episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia Krasko opens up about her why—the real reason she started coaching stepmoms, built The Stepmom Side Community, and launched this very podcast.She shares her raw, unfiltered story of hitting rock bottom as a stepmom, googling “how to get divorced,” and feeling like an outsider in her own home. Alicia explains the turning point when she admitted she needed help, how outside support transformed her stepmom journey, and why she decided to step into the role of coach.You’ll hear why The Stepmom Side Communit...
2025-09-16
22 min
The Trade Up Stepmom
To My Son’s New Stepmom
A list of the things I hope for my son’s new stepmom.
2025-09-10
07 min
The Stepmom Diaries Podcast
106. I Didn't Sign Up For This: When Stepmom Life Gets Messy Fast, with Alicia Krasko
Every stepmom has that moment where reality hits and you think: "Wait… I didn't sign up for this." In today's episode, I sit down with Alicia Krasko - stepmom coach, podcast host, and CEO of the Stepmom Side Community. Alicia's story will sound familiar: she went into stepmom life thinking it would be smooth sailing (kids liked her, in-laws liked her, even the ex liked her)… until suddenly, everything changed. In the episode, we talk about: What happens when "happily ever after" collides with blended family reality Why traditional therapy often miss...
2025-08-29
39 min
The Stepmom Side Podcast
#81: What To Do When Your Partner Doesn’t Back You Up as a Stepmom
Welcome to another episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast! In this episode, Alicia dives into a tough but important topic: what to do when your partner doesn’t back you up as a stepmom. If you’re feeling unsupported, frustrated, or like you’re handling everything on your own, you’re not alone. Alicia shares actionable advice to help you navigate this challenge and start feeling more supported and confident in your role as a stepmom.In this episode, you’ll learn:How to recognize if your partner isn’t backing you up (and why this mig...
2025-01-28
18 min
The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast
Addicted To Chaos, High Conflict Ex + When A Stepmom Should Call It Quits with Naja Hall [Re-release]
In this episode of The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Stepmom coach and creator of VIP Stepmom Naja Hall is going to call you out, inspire you and have you in tears of laughter. We dive into: Dealing with a high-conflict ex Being addicted to the chaos Stepmom insecurity When we think a Stepmom should call it quits and so much more! For more from Naja connect with her at @vipstepmom on IG Listen to Ep. 14 How To Deal With A High-Conflict Ex with Naja Hall here. Listen to E...
2024-07-22
40 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
112. Tammy Cohen: Text Messages To My Sons
Tammy Cohen, brand messaging consultant and founder of the Women Beyond the Table Business Network is the author of Text Messages To My Kids, a book brimming with inspiration for how you (or your partner) can begin, renew or truly uplevel your connection with kids - especially those who don't live with you or who are in a phase of life where they don't seem open to hearing from you. By going where they are - ie., on their phones - you can meet them in familiar territory and get their attention in a new way. In our conversation...
2024-07-12
54 min
The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast
Adult Stepkids, Step-Grandbabies + The Secret To Stepmom Success with Mindy Kyle
This week on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, I am interviewing fellow Stepmom Coach Mindy Kyle to dive into all things stepmom life. We discuss: Adult stepchildren Step grand babies How stepmom stress doesn't end when they turn 18 Making the decision to divorce, or change her mindset around stepmom life What happened when we started doing the work on ourselves The things we wish we would have done in those early days The evolution of her relationship with the ex There are so many takeaways for stepmoms in this episode!...
2024-06-24
57 min
The Trade Up Stepmom
The Golden Uterus and Male Equivalent, Part 2
Sorry to break this up into two pieces but it's the only way to get it on here! Stepmom's know about the golden uterus. Just because you carried this child doesn't mean you are the end all be all. Here we talk about it and the male equivalent. Follow us on YouTube @TheTradeUpStepmom
2024-02-20
12 min
The Trade Up Stepmom
The Golden Uterus and Male Equivalent, Part 1
Sorry to break this up into two pieces but it's the only way to get it on here! Stepmom's know about the golden uterus. Just because you carried this child doesn't mean you are the end all be all. Here we talk about it and the male equivalent. Follow us on YouTube @TheTradeUpStepmom
2024-02-20
11 min
Stepmomming Made Easy
EP 37: Overcoming Resentment as a Stepmom with Beth McDonough
Resentment is pretty much a universal experience for stepmoms. If you've struggled with feeling resentful on your journey, you're definitely not alone! In today's episode, Beth McDonough and I discuss why resentment is so common for stepmoms and the reason why, steps you can take to identify your triggers, and how to overcome resentment in order to be fully present and engaged in your stepfamily!Beth is a Certified Stepparent Coach, Co-CEO of Stepfamily Magazine, Co-Founder of The Stepmom Summit, and owner of The Inclusive Stepmom, where she takes stepmoms from hopeless to happy.
2023-12-05
28 min
The Stepmom Diaries Podcast
73. Whether you'd do it all again, with Beth McDonough of The Inclusive Stepmom
Today I'm talking to Beth McDonough, my partner in Stepfamily Magazine, which includes the Stepmom Summit, the Stepfamily Circle Membership, and our upcoming Stepmom Retreat (we still have one spot for you if you're looking for a getaway!). In this episode, you'll get a sneak peek into how we work, as we shoot the breeze talking about all the things - especially what we'd go back and tell our younger selves as new stepmoms. About Beth: Beth McDonough is a badass stepmom coach and happens to be my business partner over at Stepfamily...
2023-10-19
29 min
Real Happy Mom
[211] Tips to Go From Stressed to Having Fun as a Stepmom with Michaela Bucchianeri
Send me a textApproximately 1/3 of all weddings in America today form in stepfamilies. More and more women are becoming stepmom. Unfortunately, the stereotypes about stepmoms aren't what many moms aspire to be—and functioning well as a stepmom is challenging and unique. So, I contacted today's guest—Michaela Bucchianeri, to help us out. Mikayla is a clinical psychologist, speaker, and coach who blends the science of psychology and the art of stepmom eating. Mikayla explicitly helps women in this unique role to create a stepmom identity that's all their own. Whether...
2023-09-05
25 min
The Stepmom Side Podcast
#1: Finding My Place: Becoming a Stepmom, Navigating Insecurities, and Embracing the Chaos
Welcome to the very first episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast! In this introductory episode, Alicia, the host and Stepmom Coach, dives into her journey—from her small-town Iowa roots to her current life as a stepmom in Michigan. If you follow her on Instagram, you already know this episode has been a bit daunting for her. Talking about stepmom life? Easy. Talking about herself? Eh, not as much! But here we go, and she’s spilling all the tea on her life, her family, and how she’s navigated the ups and downs of being a stepmom.K...
2023-07-18
33 min
The Stepmom Diaries Podcast
66. How to be an unbothered stepmom, with Bee Chatman
If you're a new stepmom (or even a not-so-new stepmom) who has struggled, today's guest will speak to you. Because I'm talking to a stepmom coach about how to find your footing. My guest this week is Bee Chatman, a stepmom coach and Operations Manager at the Naja Hall Coaching Agency who helps her stepfamily clients with all the things. About Bee: Bee is an experienced coach and serves as Operations Manager at The Naja Hall Coaching Agency. With 6 years of dedication in the field of coaching, Bee is knowledgeable in life transitions, e...
2023-06-29
23 min
Raising His Kids
The Daily Stepmom - with guest Joslynn Flowers
On this week's episode of Raising His Kids, Lauren and Toni sit down with special guest Joslynn Flowers, also known as The Daily Stepmom. Joslynn is a full-time mom & Stepmom of four and a certified stepmom coach from California.Joslynn is passionate about helping stepmoms succeed in life, having experienced firsthand the many struggles that can come with blending a family. She is the co-founder of The Stepmom Collective, a community-based app designed to help stepmoms build community and feel supported on their journey.Joslynn also hosts a chart-topping podcast called The Daily Stepmom Podcast...
2023-05-15
39 min
The Stepmom Diaries Podcast
62. Kick Ass At Stepmom Life With Jamie Scrimgeour
Today we're kicking ass and taking names. Just kidding (kind of) - I'm actually having a discussion with one of the OG's in the online stepmom space, Jamie Scrimgeour, host of The Kickass Stepmom podcast. I always enjoy a chat with Jamie and we are talking about all. the. things. Jamie is also a speaker at our third annual Stepmom Summit next week. The Stepmom Summit will feature presentations, live panels, and coaching with 25 of the world's top stepfamily experts. You can grab your FREE ticket to hear her speak HERE! About Jamie: Ja...
2023-04-13
30 min
Robot or Not?
Stepmom
Sometimes they’re wicked, sometimes not. Can an adult call a parent’s new wife a stepmom? Bonus: Can you be too old to be an orphan? John Siracusa and Jason Snell Show Notes & Links John, listener Alesh wants to know, Alesh writes, “A certain person I know refers to her stepmom, someone her father married after she was an adult and living alone. This sounds odd to me. My intuition is that something like 16 is the tipping point. If my parents had divorced and one of them had remarried after that a...
2023-03-20
06 min
The Trade Up Stepmom
Bonus Episode: We're now The Trade Up Stepmom Podcast
We're now The Trade Up Stepmom Podcast!!! New episode coming soon! Thank you to all the loyal listeners out there. I couldn't do this without you!!!
2022-11-13
00 min
10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families
S3-E11: "'The Daily Stepmom' and the Power of Positive Focus" with Joslynn Flowers
Today's guest is the excellent and energetic Joslynn Flowers, better known as the host of 'The Daily Stepmom'!Joslynn is a mom of four, (three being her stepchildren) and a certified stepmom coach! Manager turned stay-at-home mom once Covid hit. In her time as a stepmom she has experienced the many struggles that come along with being a stepmom and the blending of a family. Feeling overwhelmed, misunderstood, and lonely in her role she began seeking a way to turn her stepmom experience from negative to a positive co-parenting experience, which hasn’t been easy! Dealing with ma...
2022-04-26
47 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
109. Nail your timing.
OK, this is a bit of a weird episode - it's actually the audio from a livestream video I did in my Spectacular Stepmom Facebook group. I'm talking about how to get better at knowing exactly when to say your peace and when to hold back - when to act and when to wait. This is all about the shadow and power archetypes, and about the real difference between logic and magic. I offer a unique style of coaching for couples where you work with me individually on alternating weeks. Email me for more information at info...
2022-03-23
41 min
Radical Stepmoms
Season 4: Episode 17: Evolving as a stepmom and what we learn along the way with guest, Brenda
Christina welcomes Brenda, the founder and Publisher of StepMom Magazine on to chat all things stepmom. Not only has Brenda become a seasoned stepmom, but she's made it her mission to help others through their journey. What commonalities do we all have? How do we know it will be "worth it"? Brenda discusses the most common issue stepmoms face, and offers her piece of advice. Listen In! About My Guest: Brenda Ockun is Founder & Publisher of StepMom Magazine—the how-to guide for any woman who dates, lives with, or is married to someone who has kids. Written by licensed therapists, publ...
2022-03-02
1h 05
Essential Stepmom Podcast
107 You're not crazy - magic is real.
Join my Facebook group, The Spectacular Stepmom! You can reach me any time at info@essentialstepmom.com. Don't forget to check out the UnDeletable Dad podcast too! Here's a little free advice for you: 3 SECRETS OF SUCCESSFUL STEPMOMS! https://tracypoizner.lpages.co/3-secrets-of-successful-stepmoms
2021-12-23
09 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
105 The Alienated Stepmom
Want to learn how to get through to kids who are being brainwashed about you? Sign up for my FREE 3-part workshop October 27-29, 2021 called Reversing Parental Alienation. Go to bit.ly/alienationstrategy to register and don't forget to join the private Facebook group just for this event! You can always reach me at info@essentialstepmom.com. Limited 1:1 coaching spots are still available.
2021-10-26
12 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 102: Nacho Role-play with Lori Sims (Part 2)
"I thought David was a pretty good parent - until we got married!" Here's a link to the episode with Lori's husband David: https://anchor.fm/essentialstepmom/episodes/ESP-6-3-David-Sims---Pulling-it-out-of-the-fire-elkg5g I do a livestream video every Monday in my Facebook group The Spectacular Stepmom. Tomorrow's session (Monday Sept 13) at 1pm EDT is called Bouncing Back From Stepmom Burnout - Before It's Too Late. Join the group by sending a join request to facebook.com/groups/thespectacularstepmom or email me at info@essentialstepmom.com to ask for a link to the replay. S...
2021-09-12
21 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 11.2 Attorney Seth Nelson: Should you settle for 60/40?
This is part 2 of my 3-part conversation with Florida-based family law attorney Seth Nelson. Listen at 2:20 to hear Seth describe the the 3 worlds in which he lives as a divorce attorney, at 5:25 to learn about the many categories that courts consider (Factors A, B, C....all the way to Factor T!) and 10:10 to hear his take on why 60/40 might be better for you, even if you're getting the short end of the stick. Seth's podcast is How To Split A Toaster - you can find it here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-split-a-toaster-a-divorce-podcast-about/id1527497405 H...
2021-09-09
18 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 11.1 Divorce Attorney Seth Nelson
"Live your life, not your divorce!" Seth's podcast is called "How To Split A Toaster: A divorce podcast about saving your relationships". Here's a link to the show on Apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-split-a-toaster-a-divorce-podcast-about/id1527497405 You can contact Seth's office in Tampa, Florida via his website, https://nelsonkoster.com Sign up for The Ultimate Stepmfamily Summit with my link to get my special registration bonus, access to over 50 of my stepmom video tutorials! Click here: https://bit.ly/tracysummit My gift is crafting ingenious...
2021-09-08
15 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 10.6 Anna De Acosta in conversation
Visit Anna's website at https://annadeacosta.com. The Ultimate Stepfamily Summit is happening from September 15-17. It's FREE! Sign up now at bit.ly/tracysummit to get my special bonus offer of lifetime access to my library of over 50 Livestream stepmom tutorial videos! You'll never be at a loss for something to listen to again!
2021-09-01
44 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 10.5 The Loyalty Bind, and what to do about it.
Loyalty is one of the most misunderstood topics in the stepfamily world. I believe it's something much more fundamental than wondering which parent to believe, or visit, or like. This episode has been pulled from a live video I did a while back into my two Facebook groups - The Spectacular Stepmom and One For The Dads. If you'd like to belong to a positive, bash-free community, I invite you to join us there. Just send a join request to either group. With apologies for the gendered group names, same sex families are very welcome in both places. To register...
2021-08-24
29 min
The Stepmom Coach Podcast
Stepmom's Book of Boundaries Sample Audio Book
What’s missing in your stepfamily? If you’re in a stepfamily, you may feel as if something is missing. You can’t put it into words yet, but you know it’s a problem. Maybe you’re new to this. Maybe not. Still, everything from badly-behaved exes to parenting rifts causes squabbling that disrupts the harmony in your home. The Stepmom’s Book of Boundaries helps you thrive despite rocky relationships, schedule snafus, and more. Stepmom Magazine Contributor and Master Certified Stepfamily Coach Claudette Chenevert provides clear explan...
2021-06-23
08 min
Plus HER - A Stepmom's Journey
Stepmom Tammy J - "The Perfect Stepmom does not exist!"
On today's episode, I have an validating conversation with fellow Stepmom Tammy about; 💕The pressure to be the perfect Stepmom.⠀⠀⠀⠀ 💕Changing your perspective and embracing your authentic self.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 💕The importance of having a Stepmom Bestie on this journey. Grab a cup of tea, get comfy and listen close to the story of Stepmom Tammy Johnson. Connect with us on Instagram and Facebook. SUBSCRIBE, RATE & REVIEW XO About our Guest: Tamara Johnson aka Tammy J resides a few minutes outside of Detroit, Michigan with her husband, their 4-year-old s...
2021-05-23
31 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 9.6 Greg Menendez on how the mind works
Greg Menendez teaches people how the mind works - and then, they never look back! Greg can be found at likeneverbefore.co.nz I have a Facebook community for stepmoms where I'd be glad to see you - join The Spectacular Stepmom by sending a join request to facebook.com/groups/thespectacularstepmom If you're a dad, you can connect with me in 3 ways: 1. My private Facebook group is called One For The Dads - send a join request to facebook.com/groups/oneforthedads 2. I'm on the private and anonymous Discord server at...
2021-05-18
41 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 9.3 The Archives of Essential Stepmom Podcast
Sorry for my podcast fail this week, but join me reading Amanda Ripley's High Conflict: Why We Get Trapped and How We Get Out. Here's a link to order from Barnes and Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/high-conflict-amanda-ripley/1137938562 If you're ready to address your deepest stepmom anxieties, or get to work on overcoming that post-divorce "parenting paralysis" that seems to strike even the most professionally successful dad, give me a shout about working together 1:1. You can book a free call with me at bit.ly/CALLTRACY Here are the episodes I suggested from our...
2021-04-28
06 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 9.2 Q: "How do I merge the best parts of myself with my stepmom role?"
This is an audio recording of a livestream on this topic from my Spectacular Stepmom facebook group. Not a member? Send a join request to THE SPECTACULAR STEPMOM Interested in booking a free coaching call with me? Go to bit.ly/CALLTRACY
2021-04-20
31 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 8.7 When the ex won't play by the rules - with Jen Szeghi
Jen Szeghi is a trained psychologist, mediator and parent coordinator, and brings all that expertise to her parent coaching practice. You can connect with Jen at her website successfulparentingLLC.com Watch for her YouTube channel coming up, The Alienator's Chess Game! You can find me, temporarily, at tracy@tracypoizner.com, at least until my Essential Stepmom website is all hooked up again. Ready to jump on a call? I'm all ears. Sign up for a free call to experience what coaching feels like for yourself , no strings attached. If you like how I...
2021-04-06
44 min
10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families
S2-E6: "What I Learned from Three Decades of Stepparenting" with Claudette Chenevert, "The Stepmom Coach"
Claudette Chenevert, AKA “The Stepmom Coach” works with stepmoms who are striving to create a cohesive family life. She holds a BIS in Psychology of Communication from George Mason University, focusing on stepfamily dynamics and is Certified Coach with Results Coaching System, a neuroscience based program. Claudette helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent. She has over 30 years of experience as a stepmom and 37 years as a mother. She understands what it’s like to be in your shoes and teaches the be...
2021-04-06
56 min
Plus HER - A Stepmom's Journey
Stepmom Kia " Is being a Stepmom enough?"
On today's episode, I have a special conversation with fellow Stepmom Kia about; 💕The ups and downs of being a Childless Stepmom⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 💕The infertility journey challenges⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 💕Accepting God's Plan for your life & finding happiness in your circumstance⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ Grab a cup of tea, get comfy and listen close to the story of Stepmom Kia Roberson. Connect with us on Instagram and Facebook. SUBSCRIBE, RATE & REVIEW XO About our Guest: Mrs. Kia Roberson is a wife and stepmom of ten years and through her experience wanted to expand the stepmom platform...
2021-03-28
35 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 8.3 Carly Israel says "Thanks, but no thanks!"
You can find Carly at carlyisrael.com and her podcast is called In Your Corner Divorce. Her book, Seconds and Inches is available at Barnes and Noble, Amazon and Bookshop.org. Find more information about the Nacho Kids Academy at nachokidsacademy.com/theessentialstepmom. That's the link that will let them know I sent you, so they can sponsor my work here at The Essential Stepmom too! You can always reach out to me with your questions or comments at info@essentialstepmom.com. I'd be very glad to hear from your partner, too.
2021-03-09
58 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 8.2 Nurture Burnout with Anne Cullen
Nurture burnout can happen to anyone who cares a lot about the people they live with, or work with, or share the planet with. It's especially common in stepmoms, so if you ever feeling like you're teetering on the edge of burnout, this episode is for you! I have something else for you - my Healing Stepmom Burnout Quickstart Guide. It's free - grab it here: https://tracypoizner.lpages.co/quickstart-guide/ You can always reach me at info@essentialstepmom.com Book a free call - no strings attached - and learn more...
2021-03-02
43 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 8.1 The teenage stepdaughter with Mary T. Kelly
Mary Kelly is probably the most experienced therapist in America for stepfamilies and their kids with over 18 years of experience dealing with this family dynamic. She's a regular contributor to Stepmom Magazine, HuffPost and other publications. Find her at realstepfamilies.com Her Facebook page is Real Stepfamilies, Real Solutions and she's on instagram @realstepmoms. Email me at info@essentialstepmom.com and say "Add me to your email list!" for my weekly messages. Book a free call, no strings attached to ask about coaching or to learn about Undeletable Dad: bit.ly...
2021-02-23
52 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 7.8 How to Raise a Boy - with author Michael C. Reichert
There's a lot of talk about helping girls to take their power and shed limiting stereotypes, but our boys suffer from limits too. How can we stop our unconscious role-typing of boys and girls? Don't we want boys to become compassionate, sensitive, heart-centered husbands and dads? Michael C Reichert can be found at MichaelCReichert.com and his book How To Raise A Boy: The Power of Connection to Build Good Men is available from Amazon and Barnes and Noble Join my mailing list by sending me an email message at info@essentialstepmom.com. I'd love...
2021-02-16
50 min
Stepmom Says
How to Raise Good Kids
Stepmom Says lists out her successful parenting tips. These ideas are tried and true, and very basic. Many out there have used these ideas to change their relationships with their kids. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/stepmomsays/support
2021-02-16
23 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 7.7 The Addicted Child - with author Richard Capriola
Richard Capriola has been a mental health and addictions counselor for over two decades. He's been licensed in Illinois and Texas and recently retired from Menninger Clinic in Houston where he worked as an addictions counselor for adolescents and adults diagnosed with psychiatric and substance abuse disorders. He is the author of the book "The Addicted Child: A Parent's Guide to Adolescent Substance Abuse". You can find all the information you need at his website: helptheaddictedchild.com Send your questions on the topic of kids and substance abuse and Richard will address them on a...
2021-02-09
40 min
Stepmom Says
Internet Myths and Advice About Stepparenting
Stepmom Says does a very brief overview of what the internet says about stepparents and some good advice for high conflict situations. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/stepmomsays/support
2021-02-08
22 min
Stepmom Says
My Body Image Journey
Stepmom says talks about MLMs, treatment of plus sized people, and how we speak to our children. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/stepmomsays/support
2021-01-31
22 min
The Stepmom Diaries Podcast
14. What's Your Stepmom "Why"?
Do You Have A Stepmom Anchor Statement? When you were getting serious with your partner, you probably discussed some of the logistics of what blending your families would look like. Whether you would attend sporting events or pick kids up from school. But did you discuss your role at a deeper level? Did you think about your stepmom purpose? Your "why"? Obviously the "why" starts with you falling in love with your spouse. But what are your hopes and goals for being a stepmom? What kind of stepmom do YOU want to be? To...
2021-01-29
25 min
Stepmom Says
My Therapy Journey
Stepmom Says talks about therapy and how it's helping her. She encourages the listener to reach out and ask for help if they need to. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/stepmomsays/support
2021-01-24
24 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 7.4 Best-of-Essential-Stepmom, Red Flags with Lori Sims
Lori Sims is the creator of the ingenious Nacho Kids method and the Nacho Kids Academy which is saving blended families and second marriages every single day. Check out the Nacho Kids Academy with this link and she'll send some support right back to this podcast! NachoKidsAcademy.com/theessentialstepmom Shoot me an email at info@essentialstepmom.com Ready to just book yourself in as a coaching client? Here's my calendar: Book Your Coaching Appointment Here! Is your husband/partner ready to conquer alienation through parenting mastery, mental resilience and...
2021-01-19
48 min
Stepmom Says
2021 Resolutions
Stepmom Says talks about her resolutions, goes on for a while about positive change, and hopes she inspires you to have a good week. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/stepmomsays/support
2021-01-18
15 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 7.3 For the weary dad who feels like giving up.
Alienated kids can be awful to their divorced parent. Does your partner ever just feeling like giving up? It's pretty normal to run out of steam and it's OK to take a break but don't give in to despair. Miracles happen all the time - you can even make them happen yourself! Grab my free "Restorative Parenting Quick start Guide" by going to bit.ly/dadagain . Join the awesome Spectacular Stepmom group at facebook.com/groups/thespectacularstepmom Tell your partner to send a join request to One For The Dads at facebook.com/groups/oneforthedads Let's be pen pals! Here's...
2021-01-14
33 min
Stepmom Says
My Step -Parenting Journey
A short description of how my stepmom journey started and were I am now. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/stepmomsays/support
2021-01-11
17 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 7.1 Not Just A Stepmom with Heidi Farrell
Heidi's blog can be found at notjustastepmom.com Grab my free Restorative Parenting QuickStart Guide at bit.ly/dadagain Would you (or your partner) share your experiences of parental alienation with me? Email me at info@essentialstepmom.com to set something up, or just go ahead and jump onto my calendar to book any time you see that works for you: https://tracypoizner.bookafy.com/service/invitation-to-chat
2020-12-15
45 min
The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast
Hey Stepmom, You Don't Know What You Don't Know with Brenda Ockun, Publisher or Stepmom Magazine
Brenda Ockun, Publisher of Stepmom Magazine, joins me to talk about all things stepmom life.Not only has Brenda published thousands of articles about stepmom life as the publisher of Stepmom Magazine, her stepkids are now adults, so she’s been through all the different phases of stepmom life. In this episode we talk about life with adult stepkids, what Brenda wishes she knew, when she believes that stepmoms truly feel blended, the difference between child-free stepmoms and those with their own kids and more… Episode Sponsorships: Stepmom Magazine - use discount code JAMIE20 to save 2...
2020-12-07
43 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 6.7 The completely amazing, totally absent bio mom.
Are you sick and tired of hearing about your stepchild's fantastic mom, when you're the one showing up for the child in all the way's she's not? Let's talk this through, and we'll talk about life coaching too - maybe you're finally ready to make a step towards letting go of the filters that are keeping you from having a better experience of stepmom life. Send me an email at info@essentialstepmom.com and say "I'm not sure yet, but talk to me about what coaching involves". We have to BOTH believe that I'm the r...
2020-12-01
21 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 6.2 The Divorced Dad Diaries with Stephane Jutras
You can find Stephane's podcast on every platform, and by visiting his website, thedivorceddaddiaries.com You can find my blog and other resources at essentialstepmom.com If it's time for you to get another level of support for your stepmom journey, reach out for a 1:1 coaching session or two. Email me for more info at info@essentialstepmom.com or just go ahead and book your first appointment at tracypoizner.bookafy.com
2020-10-20
33 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 5.7 Are you panicking about college fees yet? Part 2 with Denise Thomas
You heard it right - college scholarships are available even for kids in kindergarten! You don't have to go nuts with it, but it's truly never too early to start learning about what's involved in getting your kids a full ride. Learn to line up your ducks and you can save tens of thousands of dollars. Denise Thomas can be found at http://bit.ly/aheadoftheclass - this is an affiliate link, so if you sign up for one of her awesome programs, Denise will send back some support to this podcast! Want a scholarship...
2020-10-06
32 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 5.6 Are you and your partner stressing (or fighting) over college fees yet? It's coming!
My guest Denise Thomas dug herself and her family out of bankruptcy and researched her butt off to get $199,000 in college scholarships for her two home-schooled kids. She says it's not about marks, it's about smarts! She'll dish some secrets in this episode and the next one - it was too much goodness for just one show! Learn more about Denise and her programs at http://bit.ly/aheadoftheclass. (This is an affiliate link - if you sign up for any of Denise's great programs, she'll send a portion of your registration fee back here to support this podcast!)
2020-09-29
44 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 5.5 Kate Anthony talks First-Wife-Forever Syndrome!
Do you know anybody's first wife who seems to cling energetically to him years, even after she gets a new partner? Turns out this is not such a rare phenomenon. Today's guest gets full marks for putting her experience as "that" bio-mom on the table, crumbs and all! Kate Anthony is a gem. She's the host of the critically acclaimed and New York Times recommended podcast The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast and the creator of the groundbreaking online coaching program, Should I Stay or Should I Go? which helps women make the most difficult decision of their liv...
2020-09-22
34 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 5.3 High Conflict: The Drama Behind Parental Alienation
Can you get off the hamster-wheel of drama? How can you fight for your kids without just buying into more drama? Reach out any time to me at my personal email: info@essentialstepmom.com Sign up for the FREE Stepfamily Summit 2020 here: http://bit.ly/tracysummit Join me and my guest Naja Hall this Wednesday, Sept 9 at 4:30 pm EDT for a livestream about high-conflict X's - watch right from the Essential Stepmom Facebook page: http://facebook.com/essentialstepmom
2020-09-08
19 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 4.4 How do you bond with a kid that wants nothing to do with you?
It's actually pretty simple: you bond around the fact that they don't want to connect with you! I'll explain how it looked in my family and how it worked out for us. Spoiler alert: Happy Ending! Check out the Nacho Kids Academy with this link to support this podcast with a portion of your membership fee: NACHOKIDSACADEMY.COM/THEESSENTIALSTEPMOM Visit my website for a free download: 50 Ways to Level Up As A Stepmom #blendedfamily #stepmom #youvegotthis
2020-07-28
21 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 4.3 Go Blend Yourself: Busting More Stepfamily Myths
This is my new go-to comeback for anyone who wants to give me unsolicited advice about my stepfamily dynamics. They can try whatever they like on their own family! Visit my website at essentialstepmom.com Join my Facebook community by sending a join request to The Spectacular Stepmom
2020-07-21
20 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
4.2 Busting Blended Family Myth #2
Myth #2 is that Blended Families are forever families. Truth is, they unblend just the same as other stepfamilies do. What can we do to make our families stand the test of time, despite messed up custody schedules, high conflict personalities, loyalty issues and more? Listen up and we'll get started. Visit me at essentialstepmom.com for my blog and other info. Join the Facebook group by sending a join request to The Spectacular Stepmom
2020-07-07
13 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
4.1 The Myth of the Blended Family
I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that stepfamilies aren't required to blend. They have a much more noble mission in my opinion, which is to "mend". When you shift your focus, everything could change for your family. The book I mentioned is Simple Abundance by Sarah Ban Breathnach. Visit my website at essentialstepmom.com. Contact me with your thoughts about this episode, or just to say hi at info@essentialstepmom.com I hang out with a bunch of wise, supportive and compassionate stepmoms on Facebook in a private...
2020-06-30
15 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
3.10 The Evil Stepmom Archetype: #notme
Do you feel like you're walking around wearing a heavy backpack that you can't take off? I don't know about you but I hate it that the idea of a stepmother is automatically linked to an image of someone not so nice. I'll share some thoughts about how we can change that dynamic. The Budweiser "stepdad" commercial I'm referring to can be seen here: BUDWEISER STEPDAD COMMERCIAL Read MY ARTICLE ABOUT IT ON THRIVEGLOBAL HERE Will you talk with me about BRAINWASHED STEPKIDS? Do you have one? Were you one as a c...
2020-06-23
14 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 3.5: Your Mother's Day Readiness Checklist
Brace for it - the whole world is getting ready to poke you in a very sensitive spot. Here's how to prepare. Don't forget, Stepmom Day is the following Sunday - put it in big letters on the family calendar and let them know what kind of activity to surprise you with! Visit me at essentialstepmom.com and get in touch via my private email address, info@essentialstepmom.com Did you know you can book a free stepfamily strategy session with me any time? Click this link and then find a date and time when yo...
2020-05-05
22 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 3.4: True Confessions: I've lost it on someone else's kids - more than once.
What can I say? This is embarrassing but it's good for me to talk about it, and it's good for you to hear it because maybe by laughing *at* me (even if I feel like you're laughing *with* me), you can avoid repeating my mistakes! Join my Facebook community, which I police like a pit-bull to keep safe and 100% positive, by sending a join request to The Spectacular Stepmom. Personal support is available - visit essentialstepmom.com for details.
2020-04-29
16 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 3.1 Mothers In A Dangerous Time
Season 3: The Season of Coronavirus! You thought being a stepmom was the hardest thing you'd ever done? LOL - welcome to the new hardest thing ever! I'll share some advice about getting through this pandemic with your head on straight. Kim John Payne's Simplicity Parenting website is simplicityparenting.com Learn more about Juice Plus by following this link: http://suejohnson.canada.juiceplus.com Want my Gratitude Journal template? Grab it here. Connect with me any time at my personal, private email address: info@esentialstepmom.com
2020-04-01
22 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 2.21: Five Kinds of Stepmom Who DON'T Need to "NACHO"!
Lori Wilkins Sims is my guest today. She's the originator of the Nacho Kids method. I challenged her to come up with some situations where it's not necessary to disengage from some aspects of raising your stepkids, and we had a lively conversation - some of it serious and some tongue in cheek. I challenged her to talk about the kinds of situations that would make a stepmom not need to follow her "nacho kids" advice! Learn about the Nacho Kids Academy at bit.ly/essentialnacho . If you register from that link, you'll be supporting this podcast a...
2020-03-24
44 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
The cure for picky eating [and BONUS: The cure for ANGST over picky eating!].
CLICK BELOW to join my 4 day livestream video challenge from Monday March 9 to Thursday March 12, 2020. You can watch live, on replay or listen in audio only mode and download the tips and recipes too! bit.ly/stepmomtricks The book I mentioned is The Collapse of Parenting by Leonard Sax. Please come on over and join us on social media, if that's your jam. We're at The Spectacular Stepmom on Facebook. Ready for some one on one advice you so you can feel lighter and more optimistic about stepfamily life? Want to...
2020-03-03
24 min
The Trade Up Stepmom
Ep: 18 Bio Mom Tips
Bio Mom tips from a Stepmom and Bio Mom point of view! Just be a good person...
2020-03-02
30 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
Confessions of a people-pleasing stepmom [and the 3 stages of a recovery-in-progress]
What can I say? It's true, I'm a work in progress. Brene Brown's audio-book The Power of Vulnerability is available from her website, www.brenebrown.com Visit my website at www.essentialstepmom.com Join the Facebook group, The Spectacular Stepmom We have a group for your spouse called One For The Dads too! Got my free guide yet? Grab it here: Playing Hard To Like: 10 Challenging Stepkid Personalities and How To Win Them Over
2020-02-25
19 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 2.17 Stop the "Stepmom Spiral": 3 ways to conquer the habit pattern of negative thinking.
Want my free gratitude journal template? Grab it here: bit.ly/123gratitude I love to hear from you - really, it just makes my day every time. You can find me at my personal email, info@essentialstepmom.com. If you'd like to chat, I encourage you to book a free 20-minute strategy session: BOOK A CALL WITH TRACY Learn more about me and my work at essentialstepmom.com Finally, I have a Facebook group for stepmoms and one for their partners. Hope to see you there!
2020-02-18
22 min
Blended Families
The Smart Stepmom: How to Avoid Becoming a Wicked Stepmother
FamilyLife Today® Radio Transcript References to conferences, resources, or other special promotions may be obsolete. How to Avoid Becoming a Wicked Stepmother Guests: Ron Deal and Laura Petherbridge From the series: The Smart Stepmom Bob: If you’re a stepmom, you may be able to relate to what Laura Petherbridge is describing here. Laura: You’d be amazed at the number of stepmoms that have contacted me—emailed me and said, “When I pull in the driveway of my home, and I know the step-kids are there, I fe...
2020-02-01
23 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 2.15: For those days when you think you just suck at this.
Everyone has days like this, I know I have had my share. Days when you think you just suck at being a stepmom and everything that's going wrong is your fault. I made a live video last year for my Facebook group, The Spectacular Stepmom and I decided to share it with you here. If you'd like to know more about Vipassana meditation, and how you can sign up to do a 10-day course like the one I'm at now, here's the link: www.dhamma.org Click on wherever you are in the world to g...
2020-01-28
20 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP. 2.14 Dads, Kids and Consequences (and the 4-minute mile)
There's a lesson we can all learn from the story of how Roger Bannister became the first human to run a mile in under 4 minutes, and especially from what happened next! The world is changing, family structures are changing and we need to change in order to keep to keep the orders of relationship inside our families intact. Here's a little piece of unconventional advice on that topic. Looking for a supportive community of like-minded stepmoms? Check out my Facebook group, The Spectacular Stepmom Could your spouse use a place online to connect with...
2020-01-21
24 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 2.13 Dealing with Alienated Teens
This is from a live video I made for my Facebook group called One For The Dads. If you'd like to join (and you're a biological dad) send a join request! If you're a stepmom and you're looking for a social media community, join us at The Spectacular Stepmom I'd love to hear from you! Reach out any time to my personal and private email account at info@essentialstepmom.com Please take a moment to rate or review this podcast on iTunes. You'll be helping another stepmom out there somewhere to find this...
2020-01-14
21 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 2.12 Riffing on Brene Brown's "Dare To Lead"
If you don't know Brene Brown, just google her TED talk on vulnerability - it's had over 30 million views. She's the author of a number of fabulous books, but the one I'm working on right now is called Dare to Lead. I dare you to read it and not see every word of it as advice for you as the leader of your family project! You can listen to this book on Audible, and they'll give you a free month to try it out with no obligation. Audible.com. I encourage you to visit her website, brenebrown...
2020-01-07
21 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP. 2.11 My Christmas Miracle + REPLAY: OVERSTEPPING
Happy New Year to you, wherever in the world you're listening from. I am partway through a holiday experience unlike anything I've had in 13 years of blended family life. It took us a long time to get here, but that only makes me appreciate it more! If I can give you one single piece of advice, it would be about overstepping. In my opinion, that's the number one challenge in stepmom world, so I'm replaying the very first episode of this podcast for those of you who never heard it, and as a reminder for those of you w...
2019-12-31
28 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 2.8 On Being A Childless Stepmom
In response to a listener request, I interviewed Sonia Richter - artist, stepmom and blogger. Sonia opened her personal struggle with childlessness to the public when she wrote a blog called Raw Brutal Honesty On Being a 44 Year Old Childless Stepmom Artist. You can read that at soniarichter.com I want to hear from you, especially if you resonate with this topic. Drop me a line at my personal and private email, info@essentialstepmom.com If you'd like to get a sense of what it might be like to have my personal support...
2019-12-10
29 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 2.7 Five thousand desperate stepmoms Googled THIS phrase and found ME on YouTube!
I was astonished to learn that one of my stepmom tutorial videos was outperforming the others by 100 to 1. What was so special about my message in that video that had stepmoms flocking in droves to watch it? Spoiler alert - it's about not liking your stepchild. Grab my free download about dealing with problem kids here: PLAYING HARD TO LIKE: 10 CHALLENGING STEP KID PERSONALITIES AND HOW TO WIN THEM OVER
2019-12-03
16 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 2.6 Control Junkie No More!
I am a recovering control junkie and not afraid to admit it. I now get my fix minding my own business and controlling the only thing I really can, which is my own actions, and my reactions to things. Anna de Acosta has a similar story although all the parts of our journey are unique to our own experiences and circumstances. I'm excited for you to hear her story, one that led her back from 6 years in Peru to live practically around the corner from me! You can find more Anna at annadeacosta.com ...
2019-11-26
42 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 2.5 Step-parent Burnout Syndrome
I am acquainted with burnout, like many other high performing women. I've burned out once as a wife and once as a stepmom. Luckily, I've been developing a rich support network around me to help me cope so that I don't get all the way to burn out ever again. One of my most important supporters is Tania Heinemann, a Registered Holistic Nutritionist and Certified Lactation Consultant - really sorry I didn't have her around when I had my own breastfeeding woes! You can connect with me at info@essentialstepmom.com. I'd especially like to hear from...
2019-11-19
36 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 2.3: The Heartbreak Of Feeling Invisible.
Do you feel invisible sometimes? Like, your stepchild acts as if you don't exist? Or your parenting input to your spouse is ignored? And what about a biomom who doesn't acknowledge all that you do for her child? This episode is for you! We'll talk about the difference between FEELING invisible and actually BEING invisible - taking charge of your own presence to decide for yourself when you can achieve your belongingness goals by temporarily getting out of the way. I'll give you some precise strategies and some mindset tweaks to help you over this common hump...
2019-10-30
25 min
The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast
How Being A stepmom Influences How I Stepmom with Millennial Stepmom
This week I sat down and chatted with Laura from Millennial Stepmom, and honestly it was like sitting down with an old friend. This episode is 100% for the stepmoms, and Stepmom, I know you’re going to get a lot out of this conversation. We chat about: how to develop a positive relationship with the ex stepmom insecurities & finding your place how being a stepkid has influenced how Laura shows up as a stepmom when being the bigger person pays off how our childhood trauma has influenced how we show up as adults... and more!
2019-10-28
41 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 2.2 Duda Baldwin - Spiritual Teacher and Stepmom
Duda Baldwin is the creator of the Little School of Buddhism and she's a life coach who brings a spiritual edge to learning to crush your goals while staying true to yourself. You can learn more about Duda at kickassmuse.com. Tracy's articles have been published in ThriveGlobal, Medium and Elephant Journal. Send your comments or questions to her via info@essentialstepmom.com. If you're not already part of her Facebook community, send a join request to The Spectacular Stepmom. Grab this free resource - Healing Stepmom Burnout: A Quickstart G...
2019-10-22
44 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 2.1 Who Gets To Be Part Of Your Tribe?
This is about your stepmom tribe, your dream team, your support network. We're going to design your very own dream team on this episode and by the end you'll know exactly who your team members are, where they're hiding and how to get exactly what you need from them. Here are links for the resources I mentioned in this episode: Nacho Kids Academy Susan Stiffelman Essential Stepmom Session Groups - book a call with me here to find the right group for you.
2019-10-16
18 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 15: The Disengaging Essay
My guest Maarit Miller created and published a version of the Disengaging Essay that made it famous in the stepmom world. You can read it on Maarit's blog, Blended Family Frappe. I'll be taking a break for the next while as I focus on helping the participants in Stepmom Success Lab. There's still room for you there too - come and join us and be supported with a small community of women who are learning the stepmom ropes right alongside you. Start feeling more relaxed and confident ASAP! Get all the info here: STEPMOM SUCCESS...
2019-08-27
59 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 14: Guest Shannon Bally on being a stepdaughter and a bio mom.
Shannon Bally is the host of a podcast called The Bumpcast. Her life so far includes having 4 children and 3 stepmoms. Her husband is stepdad to her oldest 2 children and she can speak to what it looks like as a bio mom when the kids come back from visiting dad! Here's a link for Shannon's podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-bumpcast/id1412697251 There's just one more episode this season - don't miss Maarit Miller talking about her part in making the Disengaging Essay available to stepmoms so they can make the changes that really...
2019-08-20
35 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 13: Is it mean not to share your cookies?
This episode is about peer support and peer advice, and how to know when to take advice from a stranger. What does that have to do with sharing cookies? A simple request for advice on social media gave me the inspiration to talk about sharing the parenting of your stepkids, and how much of that you should be doing as a stepmom. Interested in learning more about Stepmom Success Lab? We're starting up on September 1 so check it out here! Stepmom Success Lab You can get loads of first-rate, trustworthy parenting tips from...
2019-08-13
24 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 12: Infertility - Support and Transformation with Dr. Stacy Thomas
Dr. Stacy is a Clinical Psychologist in private practise in Toronto, Canada. She specializes in helping women manage the emotional challenges of infertility. Her free guided journal is available at http://growingforwardjournal Learn more about Stepmom Success Lab, my 6-week turbo-training program for women who want to quickly fill in the important blanks in their own knowledge about parenting, step-parenting and step-family life at training.essentialstepmom.com Connect with me at info@essentialstepmom.com
2019-08-06
1h 01
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ESP 11: Parental Alienation Part 3
This final episode of my 3-part series on Parental Alienation is about how to support yourself and your partner to weather the emotional wear and tear of this kind of situation. Please rate us on iTunes so other stepmoms can find us and listen along with you! EssentialStepmom Podcast on iTunes Here's my free Gratitude Journal template - join my email community and it will be sent right to your inbox! http://tracypoizner.lpages.co/gratitude-journal Stepmom Success Lab is my 6-week turbo program to help you quickly and p...
2019-07-30
29 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 10: Parental Alienation Part 2
Kim Wilson describes her experience being completely alienated from her mother from age 1 to age 7, and the effect this had on her future relationships. I find it incredibly helpful to hear from adults who lived through this because they can explain to us what it felt like and how it resolved for them. My research - a survey of over 200 women who reported being alienated as children - confirms that the vast majority of kids eventually seek out the erased parent and enjoy a deeper relationship with that parent than they have with the one who controlled them.
2019-07-23
33 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 9: Parental Alienation Part 1 - 10 Practical Tips
Parental Alienation might be the most difficult challenge a step-family can face. Here are 10 practical tips for helping things along. In the next episode, we'll talk about what to say to the kids, what not to say, and how to help them express whatever they may be feeling. Stepmom Success Lab is starting again on September 1, 2019! Listen to the course modules at your own pace, use the workbook to solidify your learning, and let me help you adapt the techniques to suit your unique situation in our live video Q&A sessions. Here's the link to learn...
2019-07-17
31 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 8. Understanding Loyalty: Loving The Stepchild Who Won't Let You In
The loyalty bind, or loyalty conflict as it's sometimes known, is possibly the most insidious barrier to a healthy relationship between a stepmom and her partner's children. It's not always noticeable at the start of a new family and it can become a problem at any time, even years down the road. Its very hard to help by giving love, when the problem is that the child can't allow him or herself to love you back! 1. It can happen at any time, whether bio mom is very present in their lives or not around at all.
2019-07-09
21 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP. 6 The Spiritual Work of Step-parenting (part 1)
I have a personal story to share about my own journey towards embracing spirituality. It's the story of how I found my husband and became a stepmom! The three important steps on the way to true peace and happiness are Awareness, Acknowledgement and Acceptance. I used to be pretty crappy at two out of three of those and although it made me easy for other people to be around, it wasn't very good for me. I'll focus on how to increase awareness in this episode, and we'll get to acknowledgement and acceptance on next week's p...
2019-06-26
26 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 5: Drop The Knives! Part two of my conversation with Christina Providence
Dropping the knives is a brilliant metaphor for thinking in a new way about working at the edge of your capacity (or the end of your rope, as a stepmom!) and how to get what you need to stay in "growth mode" instead of falling into "stress mode". I do provide that "outside eye" to help stepmoms creatively source the best quality support. Shoot me a message at info@essentialstepmom.com, or go ahead and book a free 20-minute strategy and support session by phone or Skype with this direct link: https://tracypoizner.bookafy.com...
2019-06-18
28 min
Essential Stepmom Podcast
ESP 4: When High-Challenge Is Your Normal: Part 1 Of A conversation with Christina Providence
Christina Providence is an energy coach who helps high performing women recover from burnout and get back their physical, emotional, mental and spiritual energy so they can feel like themselves again. She shares a great metaphor about working at the limits of your capacity and how to continually stretch your zone of growth by creating and sourcing the support you need to achieve at higher and higher levels. Notes: 2:28 Hold the umbrella, but don't try to stop the rain 3:20 Christina Providence helps high performing women get back on top of their game with he...
2019-06-11
16 min