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Sensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyYou, Me, and Your Sensuality, IRLEv'Yan's back with some big updates and a really exciting opportunity to be with your sensual self in real time.Click here to join Sensual BeingMusic by Melodiesinfonie Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-06-1810 min
Sex Ed with DB: smart, science-backed sex educationPleasure Beyond Orgasm with Sexuality Doula Ev'Yan Whitney (Re-release)Pleasure is so much more than orgasm. Don't believe us? In this re-release, DB dives into all things sensuality with Sexuality Doula Ev'Yan Whitney, author of Sensual Self. They unpack the grip of purity culture, talk body reconnection, and offer real-world tips for bringing more pleasure into your life—yes, even outside the bedroom. Still untangling your sexuality from the grip of the patriarchy? (Same.) This one's for you. GUEST DETAILS: Ev'Yan is a sexuality doula®, author, facilitator, and sensualist, and for the last 10+ years they've had an insatiable curiosity about their sexuality, sensuality, and...
2025-05-0252 min
Sex Ed with DB: smart, science-backed sex educationPleasure Beyond Orgasm with Sexuality Doula Ev'Yan WhitneyIn this week's episode, DB explores the world of pleasure and sensuality with Ev'Yan Whitney, Sexuality Doula and author of the book "Sensual Self." They discuss purity culture, how society's limited views on sex and pleasure can impact an individual's relationship with sensuality, and how we can shift our mindset to embrace a more expansive view of pleasure. Ev'Yan also shares tips on how to cultivate a more mindful and pleasurable relationship with the body, both inside and outside of the bedroom. Meet Ev'Yan Whitney, Sexuality Doula [00:09:00] Ev'Yan's journey from purity culture to sex positivity [00:14:00]
2023-04-261h 01
SimplifyEv'Yan Whitney: How to Listen to Your BodyIt’s true of almost all of us: we take our bodies for granted. We force them into uncomfortable positions, we push them long after they’re tired, we starve them for aesthetics—and a million more awful things we wouldn’t do to a friend. One thing we don’t often do to our bodies? Listen to them. And if we did, wow, what we’d learn!This episode is with Ev’Yan Whitney, somatic practitioner, sensualist, author, podcaster—and advocate for awakening people to the sensory pleasures alive inside of all of us.Listen to le...
2023-02-1041 min
Woman BeingEpisode 84 | Let's Talk About: Sexuality, Sensuality & Somatics w/ Ev'Yan WhitneyEv'Yan Whitney is a sex educator and sensuality doula of over ten years, specializing in sensuality and pleasure of the body. Having grown up in purity culture, they share their own history of religious trauma and sexual shame, and how it led them to carve a path toward sexual liberation and healing. If you want to help support our content, feel free to shop these affiliate links from brands we love!
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2023-02-071h 22
In Your EllementWhat is Sensuality with Ev'Yan Whitney - Ep 33When we hear the word sensuality, we tend to think of sex and/or sexuality, even if only subconsciously. This conversation is not centered around either of those things, but instead it is about connecting to our senses - becoming a sensual being. Abby talks with podcast host, author, and sensualist Ev’Yan Whitney about the myths of sensuality, what sensuality means to them, and ways for us to be more in our body and present with our senses. Ev’Yan shares practices that help us to not only hold space for ourselves but to claim our body as our...
2022-12-2226 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney74. How We HealWhat does it mean to heal yourself? In this one, Ev’Yan speaks with author Alex Elle about the many layers, pains, and joys of being on a self-healing journey, in celebration of Alex’s new and bestselling book, How We Heal. Alex speaks about what it means to center joy and pleasure within our healing journeys, how to feel the frustration and anger that comes with being the first in our lineage to embark upon this work, and so much about the challenges of healing ourselves while being in relationships with others.Also: Ev’Yan shares...
2022-12-211h 12Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney73. Moments of SensualityA trip down a sensual memory lane. In this one, Ev'Yan talks about some of their favorite moments of sensuality in 2022—from things that gave them gender euphoria to experiences that inspired full-body pleasure. Also, a little birthday celebration for something special.For transcripts, show notes, and links to previous episodes, click here.Get the book that inspires this podcast, Sensual Self: Prompts and Practices For Your Getting in Touch with Your Body. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2022-12-0737 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney72. Refusing Compulsory SexualityAre you trying to be someone you're sexually not? In this one, Ev'Yan speaks with asexual storyteller and author of 'Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture' Sherronda J Brown about the ways compulsory sexuality has shaped and harmed our sexualities. Sherronda talks about how compulsory sexuality shows up in our world, its links to systemic oppression (like ableism, racism, and fatphobia), and how we can see asexuality as a queer identity to radically reject it. Ev'Yan also shares a practice to help you uncover your sexual authenticity outside of stories of "should".
2022-11-231h 05Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney71. A Consensual Relationship with Your BodyAre you in a consensual relationship with your body? In this one, Ev'Yan speaks with Jonathan Mead, a body relationship and movement coach (and also Ev'Yan's partner) about what it means to be in a trusting, respectful relationship with your body. They discuss how fitness culture has helped create toxicity between ourselves and our body's messages, what it looks like to be kind to our nervous systems, and how we can start mending a relationship with our bodies that can help us access more ease, safety, and softness within ourselves.Announcement! Ev'Yan and Jonathan will be...
2022-11-091h 14
The WoMedBe in your body: the practice of sensuality with Ev'Yan WhitneySexuality doula, author, and podcast host Ev’Yan Whitney joins The WoMed today to discuss sensuality and how we can all be more in touch with ourselves. Before they chat, Danielle opens up about her recent struggles with feeling uncomfortable in her body in light of being back on television. A lot of what is getting her through this tough time comes from what she learned from Ev’Yan, and we hope this conversation is equally as valuable to you. As Ev’Yan explains, sensuality is not necessarily about sexuality or sexiness, but more so the practice of paying attention w...
2022-11-0457 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney70. Give Your Inner (or Actual) Child a Sex Positive TalkHow has your experience of your sexual self been shaped by what you grew up understanding (or not) about sex? In this one, Ev’Yan speaks with Melissa Carnagey (she/they) about what it means + how to raise sex positive kids. Melissa speaks about why “age appropriate” sex ed might not be as useful as you think and what to do instead, why this work is so controversial in culture right now, and where to actually start when approaching sex and body talks with young ones (and it’s not with a particular book). At the end, Ev’Yan shares a s...
2022-10-261h 09Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney69. Slow PleasureDo you microdose your pleasure? In this one, Ev’Yan speaks to Euphemia Russell (they/them) about the practice of slow pleasure—which is also the title of their bestselling book. They talk about how to create sustainable pleasure practices, the inseparable link between pleasure and somatics, and what pleasure really means outside of narratives of shame and excess. Euphemia also shares some simple and accessible body-based practices to help us slow down and deepen our connection to feeling good in our bodies.For transcripts, show notes, and links to previous episodes, click here.Ge...
2022-10-121h 04Sensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneySensual Self is Back!Join host Ev'Yan Whitney for a new season filled with thoughtful conversations about sexuality, embodiment, identity, and pleasure.New episodes of Sensual Self start next week! Subscribe and follow so you don't miss anything. For more about Ev'Yan and their work, go to evyanwhitney.com/aboutFor show notes, transcripts, and resources, or to catch up on episodes you might've missed, go to evyanwhitney.com/podcast. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2022-10-0502 min
Everything Belongs with Madison MorriganExploring your Sensual Self with Ev’Yan WhitneyToday on the Everything Belongs Podcast, Madison is in conversation with Ev'Yan Whitney. Ev’Yan (they/she) is a sexuality doula®, sex educator, and sensualist. For more than a decade, Ev'Yan has been dedicated to sex education and sexual activism for women and non-binary folks, helping individuals reclaim their unique sexual expressions and reconnect to their sensual bodies. Their work focuses on decolonizing, unshaming, and liberating sexuality at the intersection of identity, pleasure, trauma resolution, and embodiment. Ev'Yan's wildly successful Sensual Selfie Challenge on Instagram as well as her digital courses and guides have encouraged hundreds of thousands of fol...
2022-06-081h 03Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney68. Who Is Wellness For?What does the word “wellness” even mean anymore? In this one, Ev'Yan speaks to poet, artist, and author, Fariha Roisin, about self-care, collective healing, wellness culture, and this question, "Who is wellness for?"—also the title of Fariha's soon-to-be-released book. Fariha shines light on the “wellness industrial complex” and how consumerism and capitalism have disconnected us from what it truly means for us to be well. They also speak about messy, non-linear processes of healing, the ways can interrogate our own participation in wellness culture, and the things that keep Fariha feeling well in her own body.Ev’Yan a...
2022-05-241h 03Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney67. Sensual Sex EdWhat if you’d been taught about sensuality as a child? How different would your relationship to your body and sex be today? In this one, Ev’Yan speaks to sexologist and comprehensive sex educator, Goody Howard, about the importance of sex education, one that includes sensuality, body literacy, and human variance equity during a time when all of those things are being threatened. They also answer some listener questions about healing sexual shame, practices to help you stay sensual while living in an unsensual world, and how to come out to your partner as asexual. For...
2022-05-101h 04
Embodied AstrologySensual Evolution with Ev'Yan WhitneyEv’Yan Whitney is a sexuality doula®, sex educator, and sensualist. Since 2011, their work has focused on decolonizing, unshaming, and liberating sexuality at the intersection of identity, trauma healing, pleasure, and embodiment. Ev'Yan is the author of Sensual Self: Prompts and Practices for Getting in Touch With Your Body, a self-guided journal that will help you prioritize your pleasure and come home to yourself through your senses. They also host a beloved podcast of the same name
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2022-05-011h 31Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney66. How to Be A Sensual ManSensuality is not just for women and femmes. Men and masc folks are sensual too. In this one, Ev'Yan speaks with artist, writer, and dancer Maceo Paisley about the many things that keep men from accessing and embracing their sensual selves. They also talk about using dance as a way to connect to the body; how Maceo defines sensuality for himself; the pain and pleasure binary; and how to encourage your partner/loved one to access his sensual softness.For transcripts, show notes, and links to previous episodes of Sensual Self, click here. Hosted...
2022-04-261h 03Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney65. To Be Young, Black, and AsexualA deeper dive into the ace experience with asexual activist + educator, Yasmin Benoit. In this one, Ev’Yan speaks to Yasmin about her work as an asexual educator and experience as a Black ace person. Yasmin talks about the racism she faces within majority white asexual spaces. She also unpacks what acephobia is and offers advice to those who are nervous about coming out as Ace because of the abuse they’ll face. And a sweet moment during the conversation: Yasmin talks about the joys of being asexual, which is something that is often missing in these conversations about asex...
2022-04-121h 04Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney64. Feed Your Erotic Imagination (sponsored by Dipsea)How do feed your erotic imagination, especially when we’re living in such unsensual times? In this one, Ev’Yan’s in the studio solo to give some tips and tell some stories about how to nourish the sexual part of your sensuality. Ev’Yan talks about visual porn (and why they stopped watching it), their quest to "up their sexual context", and how she’s using audio erotica to help remind herself that she is a sexual being—even when these wild times have her forgetting that fact.Shout out to Dipsea for sponsoring this episode! For...
2022-03-2928 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney63. Sensual As A MotherHow do you balance your sensual self with being a parent? And what would you teach your kids about sensuality and sexual agency? In this one, Ev'Yan speaks with sexologist and educator, Shan Boodram, about what it's like for her to maintain her sensuality/sexuality as she is a parent for the first time. Shan talks about all the things she hopes to teach her kid from a sex education lens, what it looks like to dismantle old narratives of what being a mother "should" look like, and Ev'Yan shares their thoughts and feelings about her choice not to...
2022-03-151h 00
DARE TO FEELDiscovering your Sensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyOn today’s episode, Alexandra speaks with author, sex educator, writer, and podcaster Ev’yan Whitney!Ev’Yan Whitney is a Sexuality doula®, sex educator, and sensualist. Since 2011, Ev'Yan has been dedicated to sex education and sexual activism for women and non-binary folks, helping individuals reclaim their unique sexual expressions and reconnect to their sensual bodies. Ev'Yan's work focuses on decolonizing, unshaming, and liberating sexuality at the intersection of identity, pleasure, and embodiment. Ev'Yan is the author of Sensual Self, a self-guided journal that will help you come home to yourself through your senses. They also host a podcast of...
2022-03-071h 01Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney62. Reflections & Feelings About 2021Ev'Yan's in a reflective mood as the year comes to a close and in this surprise bonus episode, she sits down to process some of the highs, the lows, the feelings, and the pleasures they experienced in 2021.Quick links:Get the Review, Reflect, Release 2021 workbookExplore your pleasure in 2022 with Dame. Get 10% with the code EVYAN10.For transcripts, show notes, and links to previous episodes, click here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2021-12-2931 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney61. How to Reclaim Your Sensual Self (Live)How do you reclaim your sensuality? Ev’Yan and a few special guests answer this and other body-minded questions during a live event that happened a few weeks back called “Reclaim Your Sensual Self”. During this event, Ev’Yan was in conversation with Brianne Patrice, Jimanekia Eborn, and Shadeen Francis, and they each speak about their unique and personal experiences of connecting to themselves, what sensuality means and looks like to them, and some practices you can use to reclaim your sensual self. They also answer a few questions from the audience—one about sensuality in relationships, the other about sens...
2021-12-211h 17
Your Mom & Dad336: What Does it REALLY Mean to be Asexual?? + More with Ev’Yan WhitneyThe Broads are joined again by the amazing sexuality doula, author, and sensualist Ev’Yan Whitney (she/they)! They chat about what has been happening in their life the past two years, their intentional time apart from their partner for a year, keeping your autonomy in a relationship and not losing yourself, being asexual, misconceptions about asexuality, how many of us are walking around not connected to our bodies, their new book “Sensual Self”, the importance of cultivating our sensual selves and what that really means, and so much more!
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2021-12-211h 27Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney60. "My Sensual Self is My Own"It’s finally here! Ev’Yan’s guided journal, Sensual Self, is out in stores today and to celebrate, they get interviewed by their partner, Jonathan, about their sensuality. Ev’Yan talks about her journey of sensual awareness, the mundane chores she transforms into sensual practices, and how she stays in union with herself. Also in this episode: men's sensuality, creating intentions for your sensual self, and connecting to your pleasure during annoying moments.Links you should check out:RSVP for the in-person workshop/book-signing in Los AngelesEv'Yan book tour/workshop series datesGet...
2021-12-071h 10
Develop Your DreamDiscovering Your Sensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyWhat is sensuality anyway? Sexuality doula Ev'Yan Whitney discusses the meaning of sensuality and how we can embrace it for ourselves and rewrite societal narratives.
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2021-11-191h 17Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney59. Decolonize Your GenderWhat assumptions do you make about your gender? In this one, Ev’Yan speaks to Dayna Lynn Nuckolls (The People’s Oracle) about what it looks like to decolonize gender and why we probably need to decolonize ours. They both speak about the binary and how harmful our gendered ideas of masculinity and femininity are, how language and labels flatten us, and the ways indigenous cultures have viewed gender and gender roles. Dayna also explains what it really means to decolonize something. At the end, Ev’Yan offers questions to get you curious about your own gender to help you pa...
2021-11-161h 18Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney58. How to Breathe SensuallyAre you breathing? What happens when you bring intention to your breathing? It becomes a tool of liberation and healing. In this episode, Ev’Yan speaks with Siedeh Foxie—breathwork facilitator and intuitive guide—about the simple power of the breath and how to breathe in ways to connect you to your sensual body. Siedeh goes into depth about what breathwork is, its roots in indigenous healing, and how you can use breathwork to connect you not only to yourself but your pleasure.For transcripts, show notes, and links to previous episodes, click here.Chec...
2021-11-021h 16Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney57. Intergenerational PleasurePrioritizing our pleasure to heal and liberate our ancestors. In this one, Ev’Yan speaks with Juju Bae—a medium and Hoodoo practitioner—about intergenerational pleasure and what it looks like to honor the pleasure practices of our ancestors. Juju talks about the audacity of Black joy, ancestral reverence, sex magic, and cultivating your intuition as a sixth sense. Ev’Yan also shares a practice to help you tune into the ancestral wisdom in your body.For transcripts, show notes, and links to previous episodes, click here.To connect to your sensual self, check ou...
2021-10-191h 00Sensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyTake a Sensual Selfie With Me!Oh hi! Ev'Yan's in your feed today to drop some quick + exciting announcements—on the theme of sensuality, of course.For a transcript of this bonus episode, go to evyanwhitney.com/transcriptionsSign up for the Sensual Self book clubJoin the Sensual Selfie Challenge@sensualselfiechallenge@evyan.whitneyIf you haven't already, please rate and review Sensual Self on Apple Podcasts. It helps us out a lot. Thanks so much! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2021-10-1307 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney56. I'm Asexual, Not BrokenWhat if it was okay that you don't want to have sex? In this one, Ev'Yan speaks with Angela Chen (author of Ace) about asexuality and ace liberation. Angela debunks a lot of myths about asexuality and educates us on how nuanced the Ace spectrum is. She talks about the fluidity of desire and how we don’t need to pathologize those who don’t have much of it; the connection between sexual trauma and Aceness; and how asexuality can offer us a flexible, fluid perspective of sexual desire. Ev'Yan also shares very candidly about her experience of realizing that...
2021-10-051h 03
Doing It! with Hannah WittonSensuality, Coming Out as Non-Binary and Re-Evaluating Our Relationships with Ev'Yan WhitneyIn this episode, Hannah is joined by Ev'Yan Whitney, who is a sexuality doula and sex educator. Hannah and Ev'Yan jump around so many interesting topics this week, including sensuality: what is it? How do you incorporate it into your sex life and life in general? Why do we often neglect our sensuality? They talk about Ev'Yon's a new book, Sensual Self, which comes out later this year, and the relaunch of their podcast also called Sensual Self. Hannah and Ev'Yan also talk about breath and working on the relationship that you have with your body, and Ev'Yan talks about...
2021-09-2953 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney55. The Sensuality of SolitudeWhen was the last time you were intentional about your solitude? In this one, Ev'Yan speaks with Jordi—artist, storyteller, facilitator, author—about what it looks like to intentionally carve out time to be alone, and what you can find when you create space to be quiet and listen to yourself. They speak about moon cycles, boundaries within technology, and learning to drop into your needs, wants, and desires separate from the needs and gazes of others. At the end, Ev'Yan shares a sensual practice to help you carve out some alone time with yourself.For show...
2021-09-211h 11Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney54. Pleasure Is the PointYou are responsible for your pleasure, so what are you doing with it? In this one, Ev'Yan speaks with the brilliant adrienne maree brown about pleasure—the practice of it and why we must engage in the radical act of pursuing it. They talk about adrienne’s book Pleasure Activism, the importance of feeling yourself and your body, and how to create more pleasure in your life. adrienne also offers some potent words about emotional intelligence, working with somatics, and how to balance excess and boundaries within pleasure. Ev'Yan also shares a sensual practice to help you discover your plea...
2021-09-071h 10Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney53. Hello, Sensual Self! Hello, My New Book!It's finally here! In this one, Ev'Yan talks about why she created Sensual Self—both this "new" podcast and the book that inspired it.Sensual Self is now available for preorder! Click here to reserve your copy.For transcripts, show notes, and links to previous episodes, click here.Credits: Host - Ev'Yan Whitney; producer - Tribble; music: Melodiesinfonie; cover photo - J Rei Photography; design - Beings StudioCheck out the book that inspired this podcast, Sensual Self: Prompts and Practices For Your Body - pr...
2021-08-2422 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyMeet Your Most Sensual SelfLuxuriate in the pleasures of your body. Sensual Self (formerly The Sexually Liberated Woman) is a "new" podcast from Sexuality Doula® Ev’Yan Whitney where you’ll be guided to slow down, tune in, heal, and feel so that you can fully experience your sensual self.This "new" podcast begins next week, August 24. Subscribe to stay connected and go to evyanwhitney.com/podcast for more information. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2021-08-1702 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney52. The Sexually Liberated Woman is Nonbinary*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.In this one, Ev'Yan sits down to talk about gender and identity—specifically their gender identities and how those identities intersect with their sexuality, relationships, work, and the way they see themselves.Ev'Yan also makes a huge announcement about the future of The Sexually Liberated Woman.Quick notes:Ev'Yan’s sexual wellness meditation on CoralJoin Ev'Yan’s newsletter to stay in touchFor show notes of this e...
2020-12-161h 34Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney51. So, You Wanna Be a Sex Educator*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.In this one, Ev'Yan sits down with Cameron Glover (@thecameronglover) to talk about the sex educational field—what sex education is and means, how to get started, and what you should consider before getting into it yourself. This conversation isn't just for budding sex educators. This is also for folks who've been in the field for years, and Cameron specifically shares some gems about what sexuality professionals (present and future) need to be doing in order to be...
2020-05-271h 04Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney50. Shame-Free Masturbation*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.May is Masturbation Month, and in this one, Ev'Yan shares a healing process that helps you accomplish shame-free masturbation—particularly if the mental/emotional chatter you have about it makes self-pleasuring feel impossible.For show notes of this episode, click here.Find more about Ev'Yan Whitney and her work as a sexuality doula at evyanwhitney.com and on Instagram: @evyan.whitney. Send Ev'Yan an email at evyan@evyanwhitney.comCRE...
2020-05-1318 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney49. How We're Living Apart Together (with Jonathan Mead)*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev'Yan chats with her husband, Jonathan Mead (@jonathanmead), about their choice to intentionally live apart, and they both answer questions about how this has been working for them—how it's changed their sex lives, what their families think about it, and how they're handling all of this while going through a global pandemic.For show notes of this episode, click here.Find more about Ev'Yan Whitney and her work as a se...
2020-04-2957 min
BedsideCentering Pleasure with Purpose with Ev'Yan WhitneyINTERVIEW: On this episode I chat with Ev'Yan Whitney, a Sexuality Doula and host of The Sexually Liberated Woman Podcast. Ev’Yan’s expertise lies in holding space for women and femme-identifying folks who are ready to step OUT of shame, confusion, and fear within their sexuality, and INTO erotic empowerment — whatever that may look like. In our conversation, Ev’Yan shares their own story of sexual reclamation, and gives insight into how we can tune into our own sensualities and desires to have a more pleasure-filled purpose. We speak about how she is creating newfound space to maintain connectiv...
2020-04-2745 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney48. We're Living Apart—Together*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev’Yan gives a vulnerable update on the state of her marriage—and talks about why she decided to put intentional physical distance between her and her partner of 13+ years.For show notes of this episode, click here.Find more about Ev'Yan Whitney and her work as a sexuality doula at evyanwhitney.com and on Instagram: @evyan.whitney.CREDITSMusic: Otis MacDonaldCover photo: Celest...
2020-04-1540 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney47. Pleasure-Centered and Unfuckwithable*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Well, look what the 'rona dragged in. Ev'Yan's back with explanations about where on earth she's been (hint: trying to recoup and heal from some challenging and tragic times) and to also share some of the pleasure and grounding practices she's been leaning on since her life exploded. If you're feeling stressed, anxious, or disembodied, these practices are for you. Because when we're pleasure-centered AND grounded in our bodies, we can't be fucked with....
2020-04-0121 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney46. Let's Talk About Sexual Desire | sponsored by unblush*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.How do you feel about talking about sexual desire? In this one, Ev'Yan talks about hers—the way it's fluctuated over the years, the shame and stigma attached to talking about that fluctuation, and what she's learned about sexual desire through her struggles to understand it.Ev'Yan also talks about where she's at with her sexual desire these days (spoiler: a much better place!) and shares how you can get answers if you're experiencing fr...
2019-11-2020 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyBack For Seconds: Oshun and Decolonizing Black Femme Sexuality*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev'Yan chats with Dr. Zelaika Clarke about Oshun, the Yoruba deity of sensuality and sexuality. They talk about who Oshun is, what she represents, and the ways we can use her as inspiration for sex positivity and stepping into our erotic power.Also in this episode: Radical menstruation, self-romancing, decolonizing black femme sexuality, Beyoncé, self-love as a way of fighting internalized oppression, a slew of book recommendations, and a self-love ritual you can do t...
2019-08-2149 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyBack For Seconds: Men Need Sexual Liberation Too*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev’Yan Whitney revisits a conversation she had with a sexually woke guy who goes by the name "Expressions Untold" where they talk about male sexuality and what men’s sexual liberation looks like. Expressions Untold gets vulnerable about his own sexual liberation journey, sharing with us how he went from praying away his sexuality to embracing who he is as a sexual being, and he speaks very candidly about the ways toxic masculinity and the patriarchy keep...
2019-08-0756 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney45. Sex and Cannabis*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev’Yan brings back her sister and actual cannabis expert, Jarani, to talk about how they both use weed to enhance their sex lives. Jarani talks about some of the science behind cannabis (like why is it that weed makes us feel so good?) and how to figure out how much to consume. They also both share their personal experiences of using cannabis-infused sexual products and give some shoutouts to some products they love.Ot...
2019-07-241h 12Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney44. Are You Cliterate?*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev'Yan chats with conceptual artist Sophia Wallace, who is best known for her viral art project Cliteracy, to have a fiery talk about the clitoris. They touch on all the misconceptions around the clitoris, debunk some of the most stubborn myths about clits and pleasure, and call out our own internalized patriarchal biases surrounding this for-pleasure-only sexual network.Other things discussed: The actual true anatomy of the clitoris; the difference between vaginal and clitoral...
2019-07-101h 01Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney43. Sex With Friends: Diamond Stylz*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev’Yan brings back her Sex with Friends series in this episode and chats with Diamond Stylz. Diamond Stylz walks down memory lane through her childhood and shares funny and life-changing moments that shaped how she came to explore her sexuality and know her gender.Other things discussed: What Diamond coming into her womanhood in a traditional household was like; letting go of the idea of the “perfect woman”; how she’s reclaimed her pleasure...
2019-06-2658 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney42. Consent Is Actually Sexy*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev’Yan sits down with Jaclyn Friedman, author of Yes Means Yes, to talk all about consent. They explore affirmative consent as a moral philosophy, what it looks like to communicate honestly with sexual partners about what you want, and how to make consent talk sexy.Other things discussed: The difference between enthusiastic consent and affirmative consent; how to bring sexiness and playfulness to boundary setting; and what affirmative consent looks like in practice....
2019-06-1250 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney41. 21 Sex Questions, feat. Ev'Yan's Mom and Sister*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev'Yan's mom and sister return for a shameless, funny, and lighthearted game of 21 questions where they each share their sexual confessions and personal experiences with each other. They laugh over embarrassing moments, tell stories about the most creative places they’ve gotten it on at, and give some good sex advice.Other things discussed: Food and butt play; the perils of being a germaphobe in sex; Game of Thrones crushes; "mommyisms"; and a couple Wo...
2019-05-291h 15Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney40. The Trauma Queen*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev’Yan chats with comprehensive sex educator and trauma expert, Jimanekia Eborn, about sexual trauma and healing. Jimanekia speaks truth about the ways trauma shows up in our lives, the importance of knowing your triggers, and how to find compassion for yourself as you respond to being triggered. The advice in this conversation gives the healing and affirmation everyone needs—no matter where you are in your sexual liberation journey.Other things they discuss: Jima...
2019-05-1549 min
Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney39. Cats Are Sluts*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev'Yan sits down with writer, educator, and returning guest, Kristen Sollée to talk about Kristen's exciting upcoming book, Cat Call: Reclaiming the Feral Feminine. Kristen schools us about all of the historical parallels between felines and femininity, and illustrates how integral and important cats are to femme sexuality.Other things they discuss: Who gets to claim themselves as a witch or slut; the similarities in the persecution (and liberation) of women and cats; a...
2019-05-0150 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneySex Resolutions!*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev'Yan peeps her head out of her hibernation cave and shares a few of the sex resolutions she made for 2019.. . .Follow Sensual Self on Instagram: @sensual.selfAnd many thanks to today's sponsor: Youth Testify. For more about their initiative, visit youthtestify.org.For show notes of this episode, click here.. . .Music: Otis MacDonaldCover photo: Celeste Noche Hosted on...
2019-01-1610 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney38: Che Che is Sexually Liberated*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev'Yan sits down with Che Che to talk with her about her sexual liberation journey. Che Che shares how she became sexually free, how she found her erotic voice, and how she began prioritizing her pleasure outside of insecurities and fear.Other things they talk about: using your solo sexual relationship (i.e., masturbation) to strengthen your relationship with your partner; releasing limiting beliefs around sex as an act of resistance; and the transformational experience...
2018-11-2152 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney37: Ask a Sexuality Doula*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev'Yan gives sex advice and helps solve some listeners' sexuality conundrums—from sexual liberated virgins to orgasm frustrations to a boyfriend who hates his girlfriend's pubic hair to troubleshooting missing sex drives.Ev'Yan also talks about what on earth a sexuality doula is and what she does as someone who's built a thriving practice as one.Mentioned on this episode: The Virginity Fraud TED Talk; autostraddle.com; low-desire series; Come As You Are by...
2018-11-0758 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney36: My Sister is a Sexually Liberated Woman*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.In this one, Ev'Yan and her little sister, Jarani, have a vulnerable and funny conversation about sex. They reminisce about Jarani's first sex talk, her growing up as a late bloomer, and what it was like for her coming into her sexuality as the "good girl" in the family.Other things they discuss: intergenerational sexual trauma; using cannabis to help you get back into your body during sex; and having sex with chronic pain.
2018-10-241h 17Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney35: Sex Work & Sexual Liberation*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev'Yan brings back sex activist and porn performer Allie Oops (@cummanifesto) to talk all about sex work—what it is, why Allie does it, and how we cannot talk about sexual liberation and sex-positivity without talking about and supporting sex workers.Other things they discuss: The whorearchy and how Allie dismantled her own whorephobia; the difference between feminist porn and ethical porn; porn literacy and politics; who gets to call themselves a sex worker; an...
2018-10-101h 05Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney34: My Sexual Liberation Is Not For Male Consumption*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.After receiving an unsolicited dick pic regarding her sensual selfies, Ev'Yan goes off on men who objectify her body without her consent and invite themselves into her sexual expression.She also gives some tips and words of encouragement for women/femmes who want to express and explore their sexuality in public but are afraid to do so.Bookmark this one and listen to it whenever you need to be reminded that you can...
2018-09-2630 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney32: Taking The Earth As Your Lover*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev'Yan chats with an ecosexual femme Luna Dietrich (@pusssywitch), who is in a sexual relationship with the earth. They talk about what ecosexuality is, what it looks like in practice, and how Luna embodies and honors this sexual identity on her own terms.They also talk about how this sensual relationship with nature is available and accessible to all of us and Luna gives us some suggestions on how we can connect with our sexuality...
2018-08-2947 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney31: The Moon, The Stars, & My Sex Life*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.In this one, Ev'Yan gets dragged (in a good way!) by the stars in an astrology reading done by astrologer, Jaliessa Sipress (@jaliessasipress) of Obsidian Moon Astrology. The reading goes over parts of Ev'Yan's natal chart and how certain planets (and their placements) are influencing her sexuality, sexual identity, sex life, and even her kinks. It's kind of creepy how accurate it is.Other things discussed: demisexuality; Mars and Venus; Virgo and Cancer energy...
2018-08-1555 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney30: Slow & Sensual*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.A call to arms to slow the f— down. In this one, Ev'Yan shares a simple practice of sensual embodiment that she gives her clients (and uses herself) when she's too much in her head and not in her body. Sensuality is a huge and important part of sexuality. We cannot be sexually liberated if we don’t have a mindful relationship with our sensual bodies.Ev'Yan also chats about her recent trip to NYC wher...
2018-08-0119 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney29: Black Pleasure Matters*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev'Yan has a conversation with Dalychia and Rafaella, the radical babes behind Afrosexology.com. They do incredible and work around educating, liberating, and healing black sexuality by creating spaces for black women and femmes to find sexual pleasure and erotic joy. The three of them talk about using pleasure as an act of resistance and the importance of black women prioritizing feeling good, especially during times when we are fighting anti-blackness and racism constantly....
2018-07-1858 min
Radically SelfishEpisode 15: Ev’Yan Whitney - Reclaiming Your Sexual TruthToday I’m talking to Ev’Yan Whitney- sexuality doula, educator, and creator of the Sensual Selfie Challenge. As a sexuality doula, Ev’Yan helps women and femme identifying people who want to transition out of a life of sexual shame, dysfunction, and confusion, to step into the full expression of who they want to be. She stands for women who want to have full ownership over their bodies - hell yes! Ev’Yan got her start as a popular blogger writing about fashion, love, recipes, and lifestyle - who could no longer blog about her seemi...
2018-07-1300 min
Love Sex Desire Podcast SeriesDating advice from Open Relationship Expert, Ev’Yan Whitney.It’s one thing to be exploring the dating world as a single woman, but it’s an entirely different thing to be exploring the dating world as a married woman…and that’s exactly what we’ll be discussing today.
Personally, I have very limited experience in this domain. So limited, that this option never made it past the discussion phase with my then husband {we’re going back over 10 years ago now}.
Meanwhile, today’s guest has been navigating non-mongaomy for the past 8 years with her husband of twelve years.
Her name is Ev’Yan...
2018-07-111h 01Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney28: Pelvic Bowls & Yoni Eggs*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Before you use a yoni egg, listen to this. In this one, Ev'Yan chats with her friend, Danielle Cornelius (daniellecornelius.com), a chiropractor and holistic pelvic care practitioner, who specializes in the health and healing of the pelvis. They talk all about the importance of taking care of this part of the body and how its wellness is an important part of sexual pleasure and liberation. Danielle also educates us about yoni eggs and why you should...
2018-07-0449 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney27: I'm Coming Out (Again)*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.In celebration of Pride month, Ev'Yan takes you on an intimate journey through her messy, confusing, dramatic queer identity origin story—from her very first girl crush to how her religious family reacted to her coming out to how she expresses her queer identity while being married to a man.She speaks vulnerably about the myths and fears that kept her from exploring her sexuality for so long and the things she still struggles wi...
2018-06-2035 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney26: Tasha Is A Sexually Liberated Woman*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev'Yan has an open and vulnerable conversation with Tasha, a client she worked with and helped come from out of the clutches of sexual shame and into a "give no fucks" kind of sexual expression. Tasha shares how she went from sex being this traumatic, serious thing for her to reclaiming her laughter and seeing sex as play. She also gets really candid about her personal story as a survivor and how it is that her sexual...
2018-06-0651 min
Tea with Queen and J.#141 Black Ass Sexuality (with Ev'Yan Whitney)Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!
On this episode… Special guest, sexuality doula Ev’Yan Whitney joins us to discuss all things sex, healing and polyamory. Also, we pay Black women, talk child support, mass incarceration & periods.
This week’s hot list: It’s Black Panther week! Black laughter does not equal Black ignorance, Flint still doesn’t have clean water, ‘bad-b!tch’ is an action word, so is non-monogamy, urban burlesque, sexual oppression, sexual healing, sexual freedom, The Sexually Liberated Woman, periods, mass incarceration, the patriarchy in child support and more!
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2018-02-131h 30
Why Are People Into That?!Interrobang: Ev'Yan Whitney on Crystals & DemisexualitySex coach Ev’yan Whitney joins Tina on the phone from Portland Oregon to discuss the sex appeal of crystals, polyamory, demisexuality, masturbation, self care, and more.Ev’Yan Whitney is a writer, sensualist, and sexuality doula—a person who helps facilitate, educate, and hold space for women who are seeking to come into the full expression of their erotic selves. When she’s not writing or taking sexy selfies on Instagram, she’s helping women step out of sexual shame and into their erotic power via one-on-one coaching.Ev’Yan is also the host of The Sexually Liberated Woman podcast, whi...
2017-10-2354 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyEp. 25: Your Sexuality Questions Answered!*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.In this one, Ev’Yan answers emails and gives sex advice with her super smart sex educator friend, Amory Jane (amoryjane.com). One person doesn’t know how to keep her self-made boundary of safe sex because sex without a condom feels too good. Another’s asking for input on how she can date and explore her sexuality in college as a homeschooled virgin. And they give one woman tips on how to jumpstart her low libido with t...
2017-05-3159 min
Sensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyBack For Seconds: Ep. 9: Solo Sex Magic with Vanessa CucciaEv'Yan's taking this week off to work on some other fun projects of hers, but she didn't want to leave you hanging. So today, we're revisiting the conversation she had last year with Chakrubs creator and badass sex witch, Vanessa Cuccia (chakrubs.com). They talk about masturbation as a form of self-care and how to create intentions (aka spells) with your orgasm. Ev'Yan also shares 35 reasons you should add masturbation to your self-care regimen. More on this episode (including show notes) here > http://bit.ly/solo-sex-magicHey, wanna get your own Chakrub? Head to chakrubs.com and use the code "LIBERATION"...
2017-05-1700 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney24: My Very First Time*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.In this quickie episode, Ev’Yan talks about her "first time." Also in this episode: Self-pleasure, teenaged love and relationships, a dirty little secret, International Masturbation Month, and the origin story of how Sex Love Liberation was born.For show notes of this episode, click here.Music: "Erykah" by Otis McDonald Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2017-05-0316 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney23: Men Need Sexual Liberation, Too*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.In this one, Ev’Yan Whitney speaks with a sexually woke guy who goes by the name "Expressions Untold" on Instagram about male sexuality and what men’s sexual liberation looks like. Expressions Untold gets vulnerable about his own sexual liberation journey, sharing with us how he went from praying away his sexuality to embracing who he is as a sexual being, and he speaks very candidly about the ways toxic masculinity and the patriarchy keeps men from...
2017-04-1956 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyEp. 22: Reclaiming Your Sexuality With Erotic Dance*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev’Yan Whitney speaks with her friend Rashida KhanBey (rashidak.com), a striptease teacher who uses erotic dance as a method of reclaiming and connecting to her sexuality. Rashida gives us a glimpse of her self-love journey—how it was she came to start teaching erotic dance in the first place—and shares a few simple dance moves you can try, no matter what your size or your experience with dance is. Music: "Erykah" by Otis McDonald "Sunday...
2017-04-051h 04
Sensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyI Can't, I'm On My PeriodIt's Fallow Week for Ev'Yan and she's changing up the schedule a little bit for the podcast (and yes, she's totally using the "I've got my period" excuse—but for a good reason). To make up for it (and because she loves you) she gives you a little taste of next week's brand new episode. What do you think it's going to be about?Thanks for your patience and support! See you next week! xosexloveliberation.com*Music: Erykah by Otis McDonald See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
2017-03-2800 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyEp. 21: Oshun, Sensuality, & Decolonizing Black Femme Sexuality*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev'Yan chats with Dr. Zelaika Clarke about Oshun, the Yoruba deity of sensuality and sexuality, and how we can use Her influence to empower and liberate our sensual and erotic expressions. Music: "Erykah" by Otis McDonald "Sunday Afternoon" by Poddington BearFor show notes of this episode, click here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2017-03-1548 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyEp. 20: Sexual Self-Care For Depression*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.In this one, Ev'Yan shares how she's coping through some hard mental health stuff that's been coming up lately which is making her feel disconnected from her sexuality. She talks about the ways she's practicing sexual self-care—that is, a self-care practice that heals and gently acknowledges you as a sexual being—and how you can practice it too if you're in the same boat. *Music: Erykah by Otis McDonaldFor show notes of this...
2017-03-0217 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyEp. 19: My Mom is a Sexually Liberated Woman (ft. Ev'Yan's mom)*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev'Yan's back from hibernating with a brand new episode! In this one, Ev'Yan speaks very candidly with her mom, Simone, about sex and sexuality — for the first time ever in her adult life. Simone talks about how her strict Christian upbringing informed her sexuality, her first experiences with sex as a young woman, and what sex is like for her now as a 53-year-old woman in a new relationship. *Music: Erykah by Otis McDonaldFo...
2017-02-1539 min
Sensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyHibernating Like A Beautiful Black BearHi! Don't get too excited. I'm still hibernating in my cave, but I wanted to take a quick moment to check in and see how you're doing because I miss you! I'm also giving you a glimpse of what my hibernation process looks like, as well as ways you can keep yourself busy while I'm away for the winter. To catch up on episodes you might've missed, go to www.evyanwhitney.com/podcast. To read some of my essays on sex, sensuality, and my personal relationships, go to www.evyanwhitney.com/blog. And if you want to see what I'm...
2016-12-0704 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyEp. 18: Sexual Liberation After Trauma*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev'Yan chats with writer and erotic artist, Sheena LaShay, about how she went from deep, heartbreaking sexual trauma and depression to radical sexual agency and erotic empowerment. Sheena shares some of her sensual practices (including how she uses erotic dance as a method of sexual healing outside of the bedroom), how she found safety in the pleasure of her own body again, and also how she sees herself as a sexually liberated woman. *Music: Erykah by Otis...
2016-10-191h 01Sensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyEp. 17: Secret Bad Girls and Sexual Trauma*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.In this episode, Ev'Yan chats with her friend and trauma specialist Rachael Maddox about sexual trauma—what it is, how it shows up and works in the body, and how you can begin to resolve your sexual trauma on your own. Rachael also shares her personal story of survival and Ev'Yan reads a snippet of her book, Secret Bad Girl. *Music: Erykah by Otis McDonaldFor show notes of this episode, click here.
2016-10-0551 min
Sensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyBoss Ass Bitch PSAEv'Yan's skipping this week's episode to focus on being a boss ass bitch and putting the final touches on her soon-to-be-released workshop, Sexting Myself. But don't worry, she gives you something to do in the meantime. And if you're curious about her workshop, go to sexloveliberation.com/sextingmyself for more information. It's going to be a lot of fun! Thanks for the support! See you in two weeks! *Music: Erykah by Otis McDonaldFor show notes of this episode, click here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2016-09-2002 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyEp. 16: On Healing My Sexual Past*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.In this quickie episode, Ev'Yan shares a method she uses as a way to heal and bring forgiveness to her sexual past. It's kind of corny, but it works for her and for her clients. *Music: Erykah by Otis McDonaldFor show notes of this episode, click here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2016-09-0714 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyEp. 15: Taking Your Erotic Power Back With Sensual Selfies*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.In this episode, Ev'Yan chats with her friend and fellow sexy selfie-taker Allie Oops, an Instagram babe that inspired Ev'Yan to begin using sensual self-portraiture as an act of self-love. She and Allie talk about a lot of things, like Instagram censorship, the reason why nude selfies are political, and some of Allie's favorite poses. Ev'Yan also asks Allies some fun rapid-fire questions in which we find out which song Allyee used to masturbate to when she...
2016-08-241h 11Sensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyEp. 14: Why I Post Naked Photos on the Internet*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.In this episode, Ev'Yan talks about why she takes nude selfies and posts them on the internet — as a form of self-love. There's also something else that she needs your input on. Don't be shy! *Music: Remember Something I Forgot by Comfort FitFor show notes of this episode, click here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2016-08-1018 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyEp. 13: Sex With Friends: Aida*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev'Yan talks with her good friend Aida Manduley about their sexual origin story: their first memory of sex as a young person, how their Jehovah's Witness upbringing informed their ideas about sex and sexuality, and how Aida found body positivity and acceptance with the help of sexy Tumblr. Also discussed? Live Journal, Deviant Art, Brian Molko, glitter, and glitter. *Music: Heart Ache by Broke For FreeFor show notes of this episode, click here.
2016-07-2758 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyEp. 12: Depression & Dry Spells*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.In this quickie episode, Ev'Yan talks about her depression, and how it's been affecting her sex life. She also shares what she's doing to cope with sexlessness. If you're in a similar place, if you're feeling weighed down by the influx of bad news and are trying to hold it together, know that you aren't alone. We're in this together. *Music: Spellbound by Broke For Free > http://freemusicarchive.org/music/Broke_For_Free/Layers/Spellbound
2016-07-1313 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyEp. 11: Our Polyamorous Relationship*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev'Yan sits down with her husband of almost ten years, Jonathan Mead, to talk about their polyamorous relationship: how it was they decided to be non-monogamous, and what they've learned since they've opened up. Also, Ev'Yan and Jonathan answer listener questions about polyamory, like how they dealt with jealousy and the advice they'd give to poly newbies. *Music: Only Knows by Broke For Free > http://freemusicarchive.org/music/Broke_For_Free/Layers/Only_Knows...
2016-06-2954 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyEp. 10: Non-Monogamy & My New Marriage*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.In this quickie episode, Ev'Yan talks about her polyamorous relationship—the high points, the low points, and where she and her husband are at right now with everything. *Music: Everything's Nice by Jingle Punks > https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1nRqqD34zQ0For show notes of this episode, click here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2016-06-1517 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyEp. 9: Solo Sex Magic With A Sex Witch*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman. Ev'Yan Whitney chats with Vanessa Cuccia, founder of Chakrubs.com and general sex witch, about masturbation as a form of self-care and how to practice solo sex magic. And if that's not enough to get you masturbating more, Ev'Yan shares her list of 35 reasons you should add masturbation to your self-care ritual. *Music: Looped by Jahzzar > http://freemusicarchive.org/music/Jahzzar/Sketches/looped_1200For show notes of this episode, click here. Hosted o...
2016-05-2446 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyEp. 8: A Quickie: I'm Not Having Enough Sex (With Myself)*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.In this episode, Ev'Yan chats about her struggle with this weird sex rut she's found herself in since she got married. *Music: Erykah by Otis McDonaldFor show notes of this episode, click here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2016-05-1813 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyEp. 7: A Slut Is A Sexually Liberated Woman*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.In this episode, Ev'Yan sits down with Kristen Korvette of slutist.com to discuss sluthood, witches, and why the slut is a sexually liberated woman. They also their favorite slut icons and how *you* can begin to embrace your inner slut on your own terms. *Music: Lude Illa by Joe Bagale > https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PXKASFOK7u0For show notes of this episode, click here. Hosted on Acast. See acast...
2016-04-2643 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyEp. 6: The Time I Had An Orgasm in Front of 150 People*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev'Yan Whitney talks about her experience of performing in the Vagina Monologues and how she came (and came!) on stage in front of nearly 200 people. *Music: Toboggan by Silent Partner > https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5bCzOYac3WgFor show notes of this episode, click here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2016-04-0616 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyEp 5: How to Have a Better Sex With Your Partner With Polarity*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.Ev'Yan Whitney and her husband, @JonathanMead, demystify masculine and feminine polarity, and discuss how your relationship and sex life can change when you pay more attention to these inner energies. Also: Jonathan gave Ev'Yan a mini-orgasm, which was captured on this recording. :) Resources mentioned in this episode: - David Deida, The Way of The Superior ManFor show notes of this episode, click here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for...
2016-03-3037 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyEp. 4: My Sexless Marriage*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.A conversation between Ev'Yan Whitney and her partner of almost ten years about how their past sexless marriage and the process they went to heal it.For show notes of this episode, click here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2015-09-0141 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyEp. 2: Emily is a Sexually Liberated Woman*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.A candid intimate conversation between Ev'Yan Whitney & her previous client, Emily, where they chit-chat about her (Emily's) sexual liberation journey & how she came home to her body.For show notes, click here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2015-08-1235 minSensual Self with Ev'Yan WhitneyEp. 1: Kate is a Sexually Liberated Woman*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.A candid intimate conversation between Ev'Yan Whitney & her previous client, Kate, where they chit-chat about her (Kate's) sexual liberation journey & how the sex is now.For show notes of this episode, click here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2015-08-0429 min