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Baby Steps HomemakersStep 22: How to Become the Woman You Are Trying To RaiseWhen it comes to raising daughters, we are really trying to raise our ideal selves but there’s a problem… we’re not perfect. So how exactly do we accomplish that when we’re well…a continual work in progress per se?
In this episode Mandy & Evita discuss the self reflection this endeavor requires, the types of women who don’t fail, the feminine virtues we inherently have (and lack, let’s be honest) and lastly some EASY and practical tips on how to raise the daughters society needs. GK Chesterton said that our contribution as mothers is much greater than our vote...2024-06-1756 minBaby Steps HomemakersStep 21: Raising Masculine Sons In A Pleasure Driven WorldAs homemakers we have the opportunity to shape our children into the adults we want them to become. As GK Chesterton said, we as mothers have the power to make or break society byway of how we raise our sons. So how exactly should we approach this great responsibility? How do we raise masculine boys to become virtuous and God fearing men, husbands and fathers? In todays episode Mandy & Evita discuss what masculinity is, the ONE thing that impedes boys from becoming men, the virtues we must cultivate in them, and as always PRACTICAL tips on how you can do...2024-04-101h 19Baby Steps HomemakersStep 20: The Right (& Wrong) Way to Approach SufferingSuffering can be a major stumbling block when it comes to faith. Often it is asked that if God were so loving and merciful, why does it even exist? Seeing pain and suffering in this light is opposite of what God intends.
In this week’s episode Mandy & Evita discuss the two ways to approach pain & suffering. Rebellion and resignation are the two main avenues and Mandy & Evita guide you along the paths to both: our rebellious nature that leads to the pitfalls of despair and denial and the redemptive and hopeful aspects of resignation to God’s will. Also...2024-03-2451 minBaby Steps HomemakersStep 19: How to Build a Home That is Worthy of The MasterAs Christian mothers we are constantly trying our best to nourish, protect and teach our children, but if they were asked, would they say the SPIRIT of Christ lives in your home? Although that seems like a tall order, it is one that is absolutely ACHIEVABLE! Through our tone, practices and physical spaces we can ensure that our efforts are FRUITFUL and we are here to help walk you through it all!
In this episode Mandy and Evita discuss how to build the ideal Christian home. With these FEW yet SIMPLE tips you will prove the Spirit of Christ dwells...2024-02-0554 minBaby Steps HomemakersStep 18: Curbing Curiosity and Embracing SimplicityIt’s 2024 and we are back! Our first episode of the year and it is a game changer friends. As wives, mothers and homemakers we often occupy our minds with ideas, events, projects or questions that we just feel the need to answer. As Aristotle states “our nature is to know.” Whether it be seasonally driven or just our human nature, CURIOSITY can lead us to places that may not be serving our family and ultimately hurting our home life. While the pursuit of knowledge is good, the intent behind the desire is what ultimately deems it a VICE or a VIRT...2024-01-2253 minBaby Steps HomemakersStep 17: The REAL Purpose of Self-Care & Closet Editing TipsThere’s nothing wrong with Takis and Shark Tank on a regular night, or simultaneously bingeing on summer sausage and HGTV home reno shows, but there is a PROPER way to show yourself some love. Self-care culture has overtaken the media and what is emphasized is purely for satisfaction, but what is the actual purpose of self-care? Our desire to love ourselves must be nourished and aligned according to God’s plan in order to achieve authentic fulfillment. In this episode, Evita & Mandy take this topic on and share some great insight and stats on how it is in fact...2023-12-1257 minBaby Steps HomemakersBonus Baby Step: Cultivating an Attitude of Gratitude
Thanksgiving is just around the corner! Soon we will see "give thanks" written on cute, little napkins and dish cloths, #blessed as a caption for perfectly posed pictures on social media, and "I am thankful for" worksheets our kids might bring home. But, do we really know what the virtue of gratitude look like? Do we live it out every day? Mandy goes through practical ways (as described in the book "The Willpower Advantage: Building Habits for Lasting Happiness") to develop a more grateful outlook in your everyday life.
2023-11-2010 minBaby Steps HomemakersStep 16: How to Bring Peace and Perspective Into Your Postpartum JourneyYou know exactly what we mean when we say that postpartum isn’t exactly the BLISS you anticipated for 9 months. In fact for 85% of women it is quite the OPPOSITE. In todays episode, Evita and Mandy discuss their personal experiences of postpartum blues and postpartum depression and how to know when things are more than just blues. This period of adjustment is a roller coaster of emotions and flat out CONFUSING! We try and help clear things up and list some practical ways that can help you manage the challenges that arise when introducing a tiny new member to th...2023-11-1354 minBaby Steps HomemakersBonus Step: Motivation is NOT Your ProblemMotivation is not really the problem you are having to get ALL the things done, TASK INITIATION is. My mind was blown when I first came across this because often times we think we LACK MOTIVATION when in reality we lack the SKILL required to get things done. In this short bonus episode Evita discusses 4 PRACTICAL strategies you can do to flex the task initiation muscle and get things done today!
If you love our content please give us a review, we are in over 38 countries now and the more reviews, the more readily...2023-11-0604 minBaby Steps HomemakersStep 15: You Don't NEED Friends But Why You Might Want ThemC.S. Lewis has famously stated that friends are "unnecessary" and Greek Giant Aristotle says friends are "indispensable" and "a pinnacle of human achievement." How do these two make sense together and why should you as a homemaker care?
Our roles as homemakers can often seem lonely, and our tasks go unseen, yet when we find a friend who stands with us "side by side", who shares in our vision, in our struggle we feel encouraged to carry on, standing together in an "immense solitude". Join our conversation and understand why some friends from...2023-10-3043 minBaby Steps HomemakersBonus Baby Step: How to Take on CanningJoin Mandy for this Bonus Baby Step where she covers the ins and outs of canning. If you've ever felt that you wanted to try canning, but it seemed like a daunting task, this episode is for you! Mandy offers 4 major tips to try your hand at canning food. Your inner Betty Crocker will be delighted to know, it's not as difficult or time consuming as you may have thought! 2023-09-1110 minBaby Steps HomemakersStep 14: Braveheart Parenting - How to Courageously Stand AloneYou thought PEER PRESSURE was a cringe-y, distant thing of the past but it is NOT; in fact, we face it everyday when it comes to parenting. We find ourselves acquiescing to societal norms, all to then feel guilty for going against our moral gut. But take heart friends, we are here to help. Mandy takes the wheel and leads this discussion on peer pressure parenting based upon psychologist Ray Guerendi's book, 'Raising Upright Kids in an Upside Down World'. The ladies also go into deep discussion on the virtue of COURAGE to inspire YOU to conquer this pressure. It...2023-09-0451 minBaby Steps HomemakersBonus Step: 5 Back To School Routines That Will Set You Up For Success!And just like that, summer break is over friends but fear not, we have got your back! These 5 fact based routines are just what you NEED to have a successful school year, structure for your kids emotional and mental benefit and peace in your home. Consider the pre-8am chaos a thing of the past! Follow these steps and get your school year off to a wonderfully prepared start!2023-08-2808 minBaby Steps HomemakersStep 13: How Serving Your Husband First Creates An Atmosphere of Love For Your Children & CommunityOften times we think pouring into our children and serving them is our first priority, but should it be? Can our approach be doing DAMAGE to them in the long run?
In this episode we cover who the real priority is and hint hint, he happens to be the other adult in the house! Putting your husband first is not for the faint hearted but by harnessing our feminine genius and putting our strengths into practice TODAY we can have the HARMONIOUS marriage and home we continually pray and strive for.
Packed with shocking stats, insightful quotes, and an actual...2023-08-1459 minBaby Steps HomemakersStep 12: More than a Trophy Wife: 2 Essential Elements to Become the “Crown of your Husband”We all know our husband's true potential, but does he see it? How can he become his best self? In this episode we go over 2 of the 3 "essential elements" that author J.R. Miller (circa 1800s) says are required to meet the wifely demands. By meeting and excelling at these elements, we can harness the "power" and "influence" we have over our beloveds when we successfully practice these 2 elements. It is not a game of manipulation, rather a journey of cultivating a loving home that will INSPIRE our men "onward and upward".2023-07-2444 minBaby Steps HomemakersStep 11: The Mary/Martha Dilemma: Balancing a Life of Productivity and LeisureDo you identify more with Mary or Martha? What are the best methods and times to be productive? And do you even know how to relax?! Join our conversation as we discuss how to optimize efficiency as homemakers, multitasking (which, spoiler alert, really isn’t a thing unless you’re a unicorn), and the importance of LEISURE, and no we don’t mean bingeing on Netflix.
Don’t be part of the “cult of total work”. Stop and smell the roses, literally! It does good for your mental health, your family and most importantly your soul. Packed with so many gems you’ll...2023-07-1054 minBaby Steps HomemakersStep 10: My Husband's Advice & 10 Ways to Improve Your Marriage Today - Part 2In this episode Evita's husband gives his 2 cents on communication and selflessness. Evita talks about who she was prior to marriage and how to properly practice vulnerability. Mandy goes over renowned clinical psychologist Ray Guarendi's 10 small steps on how to improve your marriage and reap BIG rewards and they are so easy you guys! Also some fun facts on why you may be ADDICTED to being mean, how to release control, let your husband be a parent, and how to NOT get too comfortable. Packed with laughter, Mandy and Evita share their experiences and are cheering you on!2023-06-2735 minBaby Steps HomemakersStep 9: Marriage Matters - What is Marriage and How to Make It Last - Part 1In this two part series, Mandy and Evita discuss their marriages, the definition of marriage as a sacrament, the theoretical ideals, and lastly practical & realistic applications you can implement immediately!
In this episode we discuss our first two topics; marriage defined and the steps necessary to be successful. Also discussed is the perspective you need for your marriage to thrive, the purpose of marriage, how to be a gift to your spouse, how to not be your husband’s second mom, how following advice from today’s culture can actually ruin your marriage, and SO MUCH MORE. You absolutely do not...2023-06-1240 minBaby Steps HomemakersStep 8: Tips on How We Simplified Our Homes - Part 2In 'Part 2' of the simplicity and decluttering episode, Mandy and Evita discuss some of the ways they apply the principles discussed in the previous episode. Toy sorting, decluttering and even selection processes, how to minimize the amount of clothes that pile up everywhere, and a few more simple yet helpful tools. Also in this episode we fastforward 30 years and see what Mandy's mom clues us in on with respect to what to keep as far as your children’s memorabilia and some of the traditions we are starting now! Tune in for some practical advice!2023-05-1630 minBaby Steps HomemakersStep 7: Simplicity and The Power of Decluttering Part 1Did you know you’re 77% more likely to be overweight if your home is cluttered OR that your brain simply cannot activate the areas required to focus if you’re overwhelmed with ‘things’? Maybe you want a tidy home but don’t know where or how to start? In part one of this episode, Mandy and Evita discuss many of the mental and physical health benefits that come with decluttering and they are LIFE CHANGING, including an EASY 4 STEP guide on how to do it (attached below)! From losing weight to a more fulfilled life, simplifying may be the answer you...2023-05-0134 minBaby Steps HomemakersStep 6: 5 Quick Ways to Freshen Up Your Home This SpringSpring is here and the ladies are back! In today’s episode Mandy and Evita discuss 5 QUICK & BUDGET FRIENDLY ways to give your home the spruce it needs this Spring. But how do you answer the call to change while staying true to the budget and to yourself? You will find the answer here! Join the conversation for some tips on discovering your style, what items to paint, how to select wall decor and home accessories, the importance of being intentional and much more!2023-04-1845 minBaby Steps HomemakersStep 5: 3 Things To Do When You're Feeling StuckPodcast Update! We will now be releasing episodes on Monday morning so stay tuned for some Monday motivation homemakers!
In today's episode Mandy and Evita discuss three practical ways that can help you get out of a rut. Let's be honest, it happens to all of us and to some of us more often than not. You are absolutely not alone when you're feeling overwhelmed, low energy, or just like you don't have it in you to keep going. So if you're ready to get “unstuck”, listen to these three things that can help you gain perspective and give you the...2023-03-2044 minBaby Steps HomemakersStep 4: Managing your MoneyIn this episode, Evita and Mandy discuss their Budget Challenge and what benefits they got out of it. Listen to hear their common pitfalls, temptations, impulses, and bad habits and how to avoid them!
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Evita's Starbucks Copycat Sweet Cream Recipe:
1 Cup Heavy Cream
3 TBS of Sugar
1/2 tsp of Vanilla Extract
Beat together for 2-3 min. and serve mixed into your favorite coffee!
2023-03-0329 minBaby Steps HomemakersStep 3: Change your Mindset, Change your LifeIn today's episode Evita and Mandy discuss their weaknesses, strengths, ideal mindsets, the importance of tenderness, and practical tips on how to make their days more peaceful, basically EVERYTHING! Arguably one of the most impactful episodes; if you feel like you are stuck in a rut, cannot seem to get your life in order and feel frustrated with yourself, this episode is for you. Email us at babystepshomemakers@gmail.com to get access to Mandy's personal "What Mom Type Are You" quiz to know yourself and get started on your personalized path to improvement. 2023-02-1742 minBaby Steps HomemakersStep 2: 1 Simple Rule That Will Solve Your Dinner & Laundry Nightmare!In today’s episode we are discussing 2 things you can do today by 10 am that will seriously change your life! Our 2 by 10 rule will help you master the daily struggles of dinner and laundry. By following this rule you will gain so much time, build momentum and can FINALLY check things off the to do list you created ages ago! Join our conversation to get a glimpse as to how our lives have been COMPLETELY transformed and how you can get started on this path today! With real world examples and a little science to back this all up, this is...2023-02-0337 min
Baby Steps HomemakersStep 1: Lift Your FootYou want to become the homemaker you’ve always dreamed of, but the challenges of daily life can make this feel like an impossible goal. Join Evita and Mandy, two professionals turned stay at home moms, every other week to discuss step by step approaches to help you implement lasting change. They discuss budgeting, organization, personal growth and everything in between, it is all on the table. If you need inspiration & results, and want community & connection then join us and become the homemaker you are called to be.
In this episode, we discuss how having 4 kids under 4 pushed us to a...2023-01-2026 min