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The MentalEdge PodcastE. #138 Your Life Is A Song!The 7th Episode of the 7th Season!The completion of the Calibrations Series: Your Life is a Song! its the perfect metaphor for picturing how to manage balance in your life.Just like a live mixing engineer riding the faders, you get to choose what shines out front during each era of your life. You get to choose when some of the faders get pulled back and some pushed forward. With great care you learn how to delicately manage those important faders in your life. Listen to Fernando and Jay describe this powerful a...2025-05-0833 minThe MentalEdge PodcastE# 137 "That No Contingency Life"Cuz what I Do, don't depend on You!There is a way to live that creates a sense of relevance without the requirement of eventual accolades. It's called...."living a no contingency life." Meaning in short, that you decide you won't rely on recognition to fuel your desire to do what's right. You won't give for the sake of someday receiving. You won't love for the sake of someday being loved. It sounds impossible but it's not...it's all about the focus! and Yes, for us its a work in progress too!This i...2025-03-2535 minThe MentalEdge PodcastE #135 Power Trip'n: Don't Be a Butthole!Have you ever caught yourself being an absolute butthole to somebody who loves you? 🤔 Did you ever feel deeply convicted right in the middle of it? What a blessing that can be!That's exactly what happen to Jay the day he and his wife set out to build the local stray cat (Fred) a house made of readily available scraps. The menial task began to dredge up emotions associated with previous difficult projects from the past. Luckily, before Jay could ruin the day the Holy Sprit gave him a hard backhand right in his kitch...2025-01-1733 minThe MentalEdge PodcastE. #134 The Alignment Assignment!2025 is going to be your year. This is not fluff! Over the past few years if you are one of the people who did the hard thing and took the promotion, but it didn't pay what it was supposed to, or you got up early and did that extra thing that makes other people feel special, this is going to be the year that it all counts. This is the year that the last 4 years of faith adds up to something great for the faithful!We are gonna ask you to declare your 2025 goal today!2024-12-0942 minThe MentalEdge PodcastE# 132 "That Knife Life"My good men, if you to were to assume the life of a knife which one would you be? the one that spreads butter or the one that splits the tree.This is the poetic question posed by Jay and Fernando in this relevant MENtal Metaphor Episode.Surely you would choose the Sharp edged knife, whose very make up, craftsmanship and precision screams purpose. What other comparisons can be made? Tune in to find out. As always...Prepare to be MENtally MANsformed. That Knife Life is the inspirational episode you deserved today! 🔪2024-11-0644 minThe MentalEdge PodcastE# 129 "That One Time I Stole A Candy Bar"Fernando and Jay talk about Jay's life of crime. It's an all out confessional. Now full disclosure, the lesson here isn't really about being a candy snathcer! It's about how the presence of security in your life facilitates the lack of scarcity. So sit back and shove a little fun size candy bar in your mouth while you shove this episode in your ears and in your spirit!2024-05-0233 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.6 E#128 God Math!Fernando and Jay talk about a phenomenon known as God Math. You heard it right. Not Trigadumetry or Advance Calcubutz, we are talking about the devine often unconventional way God takes what seems impossible and metaphorically and even sometimes literally, feeds the masses. So strap in, pluck in those ear buds, grab a note pad and pencil and we promise, this aint no "arithmatrick", nope!This is the type of multiplication that matters!2024-03-0735 minThe MentalEdge PodcastE #127 Is Love Selfish?This coversation between Fernando and Jay was the result of overhearing somebody saying this all too common phrase: "I can't believe you are doing this to me after all I have done for you!"Don't get us wrong.... We're fairly certain that we all might have said this or thought this at some point in our lives but..Ultimately, it's a glimpse into a flawed philosophy. The belief that your kindness somehow creates a debt that will always be honored. When in fact, if your motivation for doing good things is in the expectation of recipricahol love...w...2023-12-0134 minThe MentalEdge PodcastE #126 Feels Vs RealzIn a world that caters to feelings does the truth even still matter?Listen to Fernando and Jay talk about their perspective on the Feelz Vs Realz debate. Is your kindness contributing to somebody else’s blindness? Are you capable of lovingly telling the truth to somebody who matters to you? Oh there is so much good stuff to talk about. So let this episode be the truth you invest in for the next 32 minutes.And don’t be shy, let us know how you “feel” about it. 2023-10-2345 minThe MentalEdge PodcastE#125 It's Simple.."Get off the Nipple"Fernando and Jay discuss a relational dynamic that is poisonous for men to be in.Based on overhearing a conversation in the parking lot this topic was catapulted to the forefront of our podcast line up. That right, what dynamic would enable a fully capable middle age man to be talked down to like a child…..Its typically, a dependency issue. Does somebody you depend on treat you badly? And do you feel helpless…What can you do about it?The hard truth is: Ur Gonna Haft Get Off Da Nipple!2023-10-0226 minThe MentalEdge PodcastE# 123 Do You Experiment With Yourself? "That Cold Shower Power"Seriously, when was the last time you shook things up and decided you were going to try something radically different. We're talking about testing your limits and seeing what new disciplines or regiments might catapult you into a new realm of manly confidence! For example, have ever wondered, "do cold showers really make you feel better"...or do they just rob you of joy and piss you off? well hop on in and crank down that lever and find out for yourself. What are you waiting for?When was the last time you di...2023-08-2331 minThe MentalEdge PodcastE#122 True Generosity = 0 Expectation!Fernando had something on his heart that he wanted to talk about. There are many facets of generosity. But true Generosity goes beyond the tithe and it expects nothing in return. "Are you a generous man"? Fernando Asks!Let us know fellas. Click the play button to hear all about it!2023-08-0331 minThe MentalEdge PodcastE #120 Shed the Shame: An Interview with Susanna LopezSusanna Lopez is the wife of handsome MentalEdge Co-host Fernando Lopez Jr.She aint to shabby herself, lemme tell ya. She's a beautiful person inside and out and thats not fluff I assure you. Just listen to her candidly reflect on her life. The only thing that trumps her beauty is her modesty and her work ethic.Her openness and honesty will prove to be refreshing and astoundingly brave as she reveals something she has never told anybody. Please do yourself a favor and listen to this episode. Young ladies, if...2023-04-281h 05The MentalEdge PodcastE# 118 An Interview with Sade Carrasquillo "For the Love of the Arts"Fernando and Jay sat down with Sade Carrasquillo, our third incredible woman in a series of 7!Sade is The Founder and Executive Director of For the Love of the Arts.A non profit organization dedicated to reducing youth violence by introducing them the arts and helping them discover their hidden talents. Sade has a personal story that helps her connect with the youth she serves. Isn't it awesome that through surrender, your conquered past becomes part of someone else's future. Amen!2023-02-2340 minThe MentalEdge PodcastE# 117 "Full of Purpose" and Interview with Jena Rae Maldonado!Fernando and Jay sit down with another amazing woman. Jena Rae Maldonado, a Celebrate Recovery lead Facilitator, the President of the Porter County Republican Women and a newly elected Portage Township Board member. Wow!To be so effective and valuable within the community she must have always made the right choices in life right. Not hardly, in fact...The enemy had destructive plans for Jena. But then God! 2023-02-1429 minThe MentalEdge PodcastE #116 "Always on the Run" an Interview with Missy Wacasey!Ladies and Gentleman, The MentalEdge would like to introduce you to the Alpha Queen of CreataSpacePlace....Missy WacaseyFernando and Jay are dedicating the next 7 episodes to women who have inspired them.First up. A lady that has inspired so many, Missy Wacasey. Whats so impressive and inspirational you might ask....How about the fact that she's a real deal USW Local 1011 Steel Worker and has been for the past 24 years. Using a torch as tall as her to scarf cracks out of steel slabs. Yeah that's her daily lineup!2023-02-0839 minThe MentalEdge PodcastE# 115 Turn Down to Turn Up!Fernando and Jay discuss the value of taking a break from perceived need. Jay is about to take the next weeks and dedicate one day each week, to a complete food and social media fast. What day?...MANday of course. Fernando has a private commitment he will fill you in on in the coming weeks as well. How do you make Monday even more of a MANday in MentalEdge land. You deny yourself the things you have been taught you're supposed to need and tell the Creator that you have purposely turned down the...2023-01-2126 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.4 E #29 The Course of Divorce Part 3 The Future of Me!It' all said and done, right? You're just waiting for that final official legal notification that comes in the mail. You are officially divorced. Most will tell you that this letter arrival was a liberating moment. But Fernando and I would like you to know that it's ok if at first its not so celebratory and instead feels a little like a surreal low moment. And even though its considered final in the eyes of the court, what's separated on paper isn't always as separated in our hyper connected world. How do you man...2022-11-1037 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.4 E#27 The Course of Divorce Part 1Full disclosure, this is not an episode about reconciliation. Although we will usually give the advice that you should always try to save your marriage, this is not an episode about that...for the sake of this conversation, we are going to say.."that ship has sailed".In addition this is not an episode where you'll hear two previously divorced men, bash their ex-wives. As Fernando would say..."we don't sip that poison".This is an episode where we acknowledge the many emotions you will feel during the process of divorce. This is an episode...2022-10-2531 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.4 E #25 Things You Just Don't Do!Sometimes Fernando and I like to have a little fun. Cut it up as they say...So, we asked the question to some of our Social Media Friends.What are some things that you just don't do? Here's a few.Yes of course that Rhymes...just like the little ditty at the end of the episode. Some of our gracious friends responded. Were you one of them? Your gonna hafta listen to find out. So dont be a chicken and get ta click'n2022-10-0416 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.4 E#24 Harnessing the Power of AngerAnger is a natural response to injustice. However, it often results in uncontrollable responses that evolve into regret. But it doesn't have to be that way.Is it possible that anger can be used for construction instead of destruction? Of course it is. Remember it's not the fuel that is the problem, it's how we choose to burn it. Anger can be motivational propellent or catastrophic combustion.Its up to us!So make the decision to be in charge of your emotional response toward being angry. Listen to Jay and Fernando p...2022-09-2818 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.4 E#22 Can Your Future Shape Your Past?The Question is..."Can your Future shape your past?" Fernando and I believe it can. We have one request, don't try to answer the question until after you listen to the Episode.Then please, let us know what you think! Remember...if you like what you heard. The most flattering thing you can do is like and share!2022-08-2924 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.4 E#20 Random Conversations With Awesome People!The verdict is in, people are awesome. To prove this Fernando, Jay and Missy set up tent at Hobart's Amazing Thursday Night Summer Market to share the news that an incredible new business has arrived in Hobart (CreataSpacePlace and the MentalEdge Studio) and to randomly interview anybody who was game. The Night was full of great conversation and a little surprise for old Jay. Somehow I "accidentally " witnessed my youngest son land his first Kiss. Or at least I saw it get landed on him. Thats his story anyway.Let's just leave it at that. Tu...2022-08-0938 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.4 E#19 Netflix and Chill on Your Highlight Reel!Fernando And Jay get to talking about how you can sometimes get caught up in believing that you whole life aught to look like a non-stop highlight reel of incredible events. It's a silly un-realistic fantasy that can make you feel like you're not succeeding.The truth is, Whether it be Netflix and Chill leisure or mountain top victory, those moments are only a tiny percentage of your life. You have to do battle with your mind and your social media feed to in order to not be fooled by the silly notion that your li...2022-07-2631 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.4 E.14 Service With A SmileFernando and I have learned many valuable lessons in 4 seasons. Many of those lessons have served us well in the future in ways we didn't expect!One of the most valuable lesson we've learned is that Compensation for service isn't always the type you swipe. You don't alway get that gas money. But we seem to have this intuitive, life learned, boomerang blessing, confidence that helps us discern when it makes sense to be part of the solution and not worry about that milk money. Each and every time we have dedicated our time and d...2022-05-0920 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.4 E.9 Do You Believe in Hidden Progress?Fernando had this vision of a stone worker striking a rock. 100 or 1000 times..boom boom boom boom, over and over and over again and then suddenly, after what seemed like no progress, the rock broke. Was it all about the last Blow?How often do we stay vigilant until the work is done. How often do we peel off just before the breakthrough? How often do we fail to realize that the delay in completion is exactly where we experience the most growth? Where our character is developed in ways that immediate success simply couldn't have fostered. 2022-03-2827 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.4 E.7 How Important Is Respect In A Mans Life?There are few words more powerful in a mans life than to hear that he is highly respected. As young men we are told that this thing which is so important to us has to be earned. It seems love is supposed to be unconditional yet respect is very conditional. At times we have gone to great lengths to facilitate being respected and sometimes we have done things we regretted when we felt dis-respected!Many of us have tried to purchase respect through the acquisition of possessions but the tradeoff is costly and those things didn't generate...2022-03-1543 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.4 E.6 The Problem With Beating Your Meat!Attention...Ladies and Children..this episode is not for you...Men only please.Fernando and I think Its time to get back to the Man topics that made this show great. So what do we do?..We tackle the one topic nobody will dare touch. Beating your Meat...Like Fernando says..this was a tough one to talk about but..this is why we do this show.Listen to this no holds barred conversation about this taboo topic. If your favorite little rascal is Spanky..this ones for you. Heck its for all of us. 2022-03-0847 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.4 E.5 You Can't Read a Poem Like A Science Book!Sometimes the tried and true method just doesn't fit. You may have had success as a parent and watched your oldest child stand on the podium and accept the spelling bee trophy only to find that for you second child, reading doesn't come easy. In this example a blanket approach to parenting might fall short. Yet this same child who struggles to spell and read seems to be able to play the piano by ear. Its so important to understand and respect their uniqueness. Whether it be children or our opportunities it may require us to be fle...2022-03-0222 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.4 E.3 Restore to More, An Interview with Marco and Delia of Restored Nutrition!What does success look like to you? In the beginning of this Interview Marco turned the question back on me because it's an important question to him and Delia and he wanted to make sure we weren't getting it twisted. It was an easy question to answer though, because we felt like we were sitting across from success. Fernando bounced off of that defining moment and we began to breakdown where this couples drive and determination comes from...spoiler alert, its the same place their favor comes from. You won't want to miss a second of this fi...2022-02-1429 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.4. E.2 An Interview With Roy Serafin.."Your Once In A Life Time Moment is Safe With Him"MentalEdge Nation your about to meet one of the most inspirational Entrepreneurs that has ever appeared on our show. Mr. Roy the Photographer Serafin. You don't want to miss a minute of our conversation with this fascinating creative mind. During our conversation both Fernando and I felt like we should have been paying Roy for some of his secrets. But he was as generous as ever. Why, because that's the type of relationship he wants to have with the people he Coaches and Photographs. Roys a full time highly successful Wedding photographer and Business coach. An...2022-02-061h 07The MentalEdge PodcastS.3 E.22 An Interview a with Mario Dee..Making It Shine, Just In Time!In the middle of the pandemic this entrepreneur knew he couldn’t just simply hole up and ride out the storm. That’s not what makes him special. Deep down he knew that the members of his awesome health club would be loyal to him and return as soon as it was safe. So he decided to take advantage of the down time to make their return even more special. But it wasn’t going to be cheap. Regardless of the cost, he knew that an investment in this special place would be another glint of hope for his member...2021-06-141h 02The MentalEdge PodcastS.3 E.21 Forging Your Mental Forti-Dude!The word Forging was used in the Episode title for a reason. Its Because the best version of you is found in the fire. We talk about it all the time but we felt it was super important to emphasize the mental aspect of the battle with its very own episode. Its the mind that seems to get fatigued and then, that translates into physical, emotional and spiritual defeat.So get your mind right to get your fight Tight. Listen to Fernando dish out some advice and don't be afraid to hit us up at......2021-06-0759 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.3 E.13 The Projection of the Expectation of PerfectionSo what are the odds that Fernando and I both experienced the very same parenting epiphany in the same week. Yup..we sure did and we decided it was no coincidence. Are you a parent who is deeply involved with your Kids athletic or academic life and do you catch yourself wearing your "in the moment" dissapointment on your shirt sleeve? Have you blurted out the wrong, hardly inspirational, sarcastic criticism from the stands? Did he or she see you shaking your head in disappointment? Its ok, its happen to the best of dads and moms. Its a product o...2021-04-121h 03The MentalEdge PodcastS.3 E.8 The Fear of Masculinity..Featuring Pastor Mike HendonLook Out Ladies, Here We Come. We've decided to be un-applogectcally Masculine. But fear not, because despite a plethora of bad examples in our past, we really feel like we're on the right path this time. In the absence of good male influence we were left stabbing in the dark to find out who we were supposed to be. This has left the door open for influence that although truly appreciated, fell a little bit short. You see, we need more men to step it up and be present. We need a reference we can count on and that...2021-03-081h 06The MentalEdge PodcastS.3 E.7 The Right Heart Is the Hard Part!This Episode is inspired by one of Fernandos #ChampionMind...a daily inspirational social media post. Fernando writes..."its Easier to Look the Part, than to Have the Right Heart" . Wow right..its a statement that ignited a great conversation between Fernando and Jay. So Please sit back relax, enjoy your commute to GrindVille and get some of this good convo flowing through your MENtal MemBRAIN!2021-03-0144 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.3 E.6 An Interview with The Engaging, Thought Provoking, Fascinating Jerry DavichHe's spent the last 30 years of his life perfecting the ability to observe and report. He's a self proclaimed sponge that soaks up the unfiltered details of a great story in the making and then with one impressive 1000 word squeeze, delivers an unforgettable Mental Mosaic. Thats why he's perfect for the MentalEdge Hot Seat. You can hear tale tell signs of Jerrys story telling gift embedded in his voice as each complete thought tails off with a whispery confidence...confidence born out of 30 years of crafting his purpose. Confidence he is reluctant to embrace despite his prowess. This interview...2021-02-221h 14The MentalEdge PodcastS.3 E.5 Elemental ConsistenciesFernando and Jay discuss the elemental consistencies of the first four guests of season 3. Each guest came from a distinctly different background or era. One was a former gang banger who became a trailblazing personal trainer and life coach, one a young driven politician, one a sucessfull musician and one a CEO of a local digital communications company. Their fields of expertise didn't cross obvious paths but buried deep between the layers of their hard earned success were those same MentalEdge core values that we've been talking about for more than a year now. These guys were tangible evidence...2021-02-1543 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.3 E.4 An Interview with GreatNews.Life founder, Chris MahlmannStory tellers are some of the most selfless and gifted people in our lives. We rely on them to deliver information in a way that we hope can inspire us. Yet all too often we seem to gravitate toward the stories that depict demise and failure. It's unacceptable that we let that phenomenon dictate our falsely perceived legacy. We are so much better than that. Insert Chris Malhmann and his talented GreatNews Life team. They courageously recognized the need for positive news reporting and risked it all to deliver us a dose of vitamin hope. Chis has more than...2021-02-0753 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.3 E.3 An Interview With Jonny James..Nobody's Gonna Grind For You..Like You!Oh man..this episodes is almost as hot as one of Jonnys singles. With a quarter of a million streams he's easily one of the regions hottest singer songwriters. His philosophy is simple, not a lot of people are making the music I love to listen to...so Im gonna make it. And make it he does. This June Jonny will be the opener for the greatest "coming outta Covid party this side of the Mason Dixon line. The HomeTown Country Jam. Opening up for Lee Brice and a slew of other accomplished Nashville artists. Jonny is sure to...2021-01-311h 08The MentalEdge PodcastS.3 E.2 An Interview with Jessie Casas...Bold Strength FitnessThe MentalEdge has been watching Jessie Casas for a long time. Consuming every morsel of his testosterone laced, inspirational social media content. We were attracted to his unapologetic approach of embracing his man hood as well as his fearless desire to spit the truth. Jessie is not in the personal training business to make you feel all warm and fuzzy. He's here to facilitate change in young men and women who are willing to put in the work. Willing to challenge themselves. Willing to learn. Willing to look in the mirror and say..."it all on you". This is...2021-01-251h 27The MentalEdge PodcastS.3 E.1 Lets Talk Politics..With a Young Politician..Josh HuddlestunLadies and Gentlemen of the Mental Nation. Let's talk Politics with a young politician. Josh Huddlestun represents the 2nd District of Hobart Indiana. It's his hometown and he desires to "Be the change". Now I know you've heard it all before but I promise you, Josh is different. He's a young man but he's an old sole. His political style was influenced and nurtured by his grandfather who was a politician before him. When you sit and talk with Josh its like a breath of fresh air. You realize that there really is hope for the future. You realize...2021-01-181h 02The MentalEdge PodcastS.2 E.20 Hindsight is 2020As we exit 2020 like a persons whose pants are on fire its important to also look back like a true MentalEdger would and purposly acknowledge what God did for us despite all the drama. If you're a regular MentalEdge listener you know we firmly believe that some of our best attributes are forged in the fire. 2020 was basically a metaphorical Instapot. The most powerful thing you can do right now is look back at this year with a purposeful sense of thankfulness. How unstoppable have you become that you recognize 2020 as being the reason you are more resilient and th...2020-12-2853 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.2 E.19 An Interview with Mike Signorelli..No Matter What!If you want to hear a story about a guy who understands the phrase "all in to win". Then you want to hear Mike Signorelli's story. He is the lead pastor of one of New York"s fastest growing Church..How does a region guy...make it all the way to New York City and make such a huge Impact? Well, Mikes ability to connect to more than a million people digitally each month is deeply rooted in his transparency. Thats right..that number is real, its even bigger than New York. He connects to over 2 million people each mon...2020-12-2135 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.2 E.18 Dukes Up..An Interview with Charles Duke Tanner!! Desire,Discipline,Drive16 Years ago a Man with a promising future made a terrible mistake. Charles Duke Tanner was 19-0 and was taking the boxing world by storm. But Boxing slowed down, like he said.."you only get paid when the cameras are on" in a moment of desperation fueled by his desire to lift his family and close friends out of poverty, he made a compromise. One he owns up to by the way. Duke received a double life sentence for a non violent first offense. A sentence that would be unheard of today. But this was the Era of the...2020-12-131h 09The MentalEdge PodcastS.2 E.17 Talk'n to Brad About When He Was Bad!The MentalEdge Podcast brings Brad Kellett into the studio to have an in-depth discussion about his past and about his astonishing deliverance. He tells his story with such a peace that it almost doesn't make sense....News flash.....Divine deliverance rarely ever makes conventional sense. How can two Heroine addicts go from a $400 a day family drug habit to ultimately helping to manage a correctional facility. Why, with Jesus of course. So sit back, relax and listen to a MAN talking about his journey from the pit to the peak. If you listen, just like Brad, you w...2020-12-071h 10The MentalEdge PodcastS.2 E.16 An Interview With Legendary Comedian Tom Dreesen!Thats Right, Right here on the MentalEdge Podcast we had a chance to Interview legendary commedian Tom Dreesen and ask him about his prolific career. Maintaining a 50 plus year career as a respected Entertainer is no easy task but Mr. Dreesen was made it. Listen to him talk about his humble beginnings in Harvey Illinois, Tom would shine shoes at the local tavern where his uncle was a bartender. He would listen to his uncle tell jokes and when the crowd would react to his uncles punch lines and the air would fill with laughter, Tom called it el...2020-11-3045 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.2 E.15 How To Score That MentorNot everybody has the skills to be a Meaningful Mentor. Its not just about being a subject matter expert, its about the ability to transfer the knowledge in a digestible way that not only fills the protege up..but also magically keeps em hungry. Listen to Fernando tell his story. At a critical moment all of the stars aligned for him because he soaked up every last nugget she dropped for him along the way . His most memorable mentor brought the best out of him all while she was preparing him for a future he could only dream of. N...2020-11-2345 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.2 E.14 An Interview With The Marine Josh Unsworth!This isn't just an Episode...its An EPICsode. In the middle of a pandemic this former Marine decided that he would no longer embrace the excuses which keep us in a rut. He channeled his inner Warrior and surrounded himself with the support system necessary to achieve his goal...the result..he's gonna need another goal. That old goal is in his rearview mirror. Listen to Josh explain why his MANsformation was different this time. Thank you Josh for courageously sharing your story..let the landslide of life changing influence begin. The Josh UnsWorth Journey, you can't handle h...2020-11-1543 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.2 E.13 An Interview with Sensei Tony MilevskyJoin us as we dive deep into the history of what makes this man so special. Sensei Tony Milevsky, 7th Dan, Shotokan Karate Black Belt, whose accomplishments are endlessly inspirational. Listen to Tony talk about accountability and integrity. He's been changing lives since 1967. Everybody from Chicago Professionals to steel workers to flying squirrels. You read it right...even flying squirrels. He dropped one of my all time favorite nuggets during our interview when he said..."flunking made me better". please listen in on our discussion with a man that Fernando considers to be an essential MENtor in his life....2020-11-0957 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.2 E.12 Death By A Thousand CompromisesA lot of times we look back and seem to assign a lot of power to a single bad decision or bad moment in our lives. We believe that these moments are the roots of our diversion from our intended path. But the real man skill that will pay huge dividends toward your future is the one that allows you to see the pitch coming a mile away. It's the ability to spot the contributors and avoid or rebuke them that is the ultimate key. If they go unchecked the their sum total is like to death by 1000 cuts. Ea...2020-11-0249 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.2 E.11 Dealing With Dark DaysFernando and Jay engage in a deep yet hopeful MentalEdge discussion about what it's like to be emerging from our Covid influenced lockdown. The lack of normal social stimulation coupled with the coming change of season is the perfect concocktion to encourage the onset of depression. Listen to Fernando give 4 vital tips for combating this phenomenon. You have all the tools you need and we are so very happy to be considered one of them. 2020-10-2646 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.2 E.10 They don't get you...Cuz They're Not On Ur Level!You have made so much progress its down right MANspirational. You want to share all that you have learned. Your delivery is good, you're meek and smell great. All your ducks are in a row and the people should be flocking to you but for some reason....when you speak they just don't get you...don't worry. They don't understand your grind or your language just yet because even though they are headed in the same general direction as you..they are simply not on you level yet. Yes, we are talking about your kids, you friends, your spouse...2020-10-1941 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.2 E.9 Freedom or Freedumb?Fernando and Jay talk about the differences between fake, fleeting, freedom which is the product of compromise and long lasting real freedom which is born out of the embracing of discipline. Not everybody is ready for this truth and we purposely talked about truth last week so we could set up this very in-depth discussion about acquiring, respecting and earning true freedom. Lets get to talking bout it. 2020-10-1240 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.2 E.8 The Truth About The Truth!The Truth hurts, the Truth will set you free, You can't handle the truth..oh yes you can, in fact...just like you, its essential. Yes, embracing it is essential. You have to separate the facts from the emotionally influenced garbage and you must use the knowns as a means by which you measure. There are truths weaved in our Bible that have been handed to us on a silver platter and yet it often feels more convenient and comfortable to simply ignore them and adopt our own false sense of freedom. But what you have really adopted is...2020-10-0543 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.2 E.7 Goals part 2..Are Your Goalz Black Holez?Listen to Fernando and Jay talk about a hidden potential pitfall of Goal Setting that isn't often talked about. Goal setting is great, we don't want to take anything away from it but it can also be a little short sighted as well. Sometimes the goal serves as an end to your journey and what sometimes follows is a season of rest influenced by the lack of direction toward a new target. The bottom line, you can't give all the glory to the moment, as Fernando says "you have to fall in love with the journey "and understand that...2020-09-2734 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.2 E.6 Goal GettaOn this weeks Episode of the MentalEdge Podcast Hosts Fernando Lopez and Jay Wacasey discuss some of the finer points of being a Goal Getta..Fernando lets you in on a secret visualization technique that he uses to address the inevitable obstacles that always seem to come between you and your Goals. Don't hesitate to tune in and remember, if you loved this content...the most flattering thing you can do is like and share. 2020-09-2037 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.2 E.5 That Ugly Pride Deep Inside!There is an alternate persona lurking deep inside some of us. It's a persona fueled by personal grace afforded through self righteousness. It needs to be identified understood and ripped out by the root. Do you have a spirit of Ugly Pride Deep inside? Listen to the indicators offered up by Fernando and use them to help identify this damaging trait. Its existence in your heart is sabotaging true progress. Have a listen to this weeks Episode...and let us know what you think....That Ugly Pride Deep Inside!2020-09-1440 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS2.E.4 Do You Have The Stuff To Be MENtally Tough?Every where you look you are being given an excuse on a platter. Nobody is going to hold you accountable in the season of the sick. Oh, you didn't get it done, don't worry, its cuz of Covid. It's no big deal, accountability is on hold. Just let it ride. But that's not who the MentalEdge MENtors are. This is not the season of the sick, it's the season of progression and ascension for the mentally tough. Are you going to sit on the side lines of life right now and let it all just happen while you watch...2020-09-0642 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.2E.3 AdversityTeaches MeThe Struggle might be real but that's not the end of the story. The struggle is also a pivotal part of our development. Time and Time again we have witnessed people who are naturally talented simply fall off of the face of the earth because their natural talent or blessing which seemed to propel them far ahead of the crowd also ended up being the thing that discouraged them from purposing themselves toward continued improvement. In this episode Fernando and Jay talk about some of the finer points of acknowledging the moments we are struggling and then honoring the...2020-08-3035 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.2 E.2 What Are You Made Of?Fernando and Jay have a deep discussion about whether or not the things you consume mentally physically and spiritually, eventualy become your fiber. Sometimes it seems like some people have superior resiliency. Whats their secret? Why does it seem like these people look as good on day 10,000 as they did on day 1? They seem to be timeless. Or in some cases, they look better. Could it be that the disciplines that are part of their everyday lives and which seem to be so difficult to commit to, are also the things that makes them so stoic? So many great...2020-08-2341 minThe MentalEdge PodcastS.2 E.1 Passionate Pursuit Provides ProtectionHave you ever witnessed somebody speak fluently about a topic that they are passionate about. Their words seem to flow so fluidly from their mind and heart that you almost assume that they must just be gifted speakers. Oh my friends, this is not always the case. Their prowess is the product of their passionate pursuit. Their desire for growth has influenced them to immerse themselves in the knowledge of the topic they are passionate about and in their seeking they have also acquired confidence that gives birth to freedom. It's the type of freedom that allows you to...2020-08-1639 minThe MentalEdge PodcastMaking Tough Decisions!Sometimes you gotta make tough decisions. Fernando and Jay ask some tough questions about your process. Like, Bruh, do you even have a process? Most of us do but we doubt that many of us have analyzed it to make sure it's truly valid. What questions do you ask yourself before making a tough decision? If your stuck do you consult a trusted friend, do you have the skills to discern who will give you good advice and most importantly what is your process for ensuring that you are striving to make decisions inline with Gods plan for your...2020-08-1037 minThe MentalEdge PodcastHope Is DopeFernando and Jay dive deep into the topic of choosing to be hopeful despite all the negativity bombarding the world. Can it be that simple, can you choose to consciously look back on your life and acknowledge that even the toughest things you have endured have only served to make you stronger. When you choose to think this way and pray this way and live this way you become an unstoppable growth machine whose optimism is rooted in the understanding that the Lord has already gone before you to prepare the way. All things will be used for the...2020-08-0241 minThe MentalEdge PodcastLegitimize How You Criticize!You have so much to say. In addition, what you have to say and share is so relevant because you have put yourself out there and lived your life fruitfully. Now its your turn to share but no matter what level of authority or status you have achieved, all of it is worthless to share if your delivery is crap. So listen to Fernando and Jay talk about some of the selfless techniques that they believe separate the most effective advice and criticism delivers. You're gonna love the nuggets these guys drop. 2020-07-2746 minThe MentalEdge PodcastE.33 Haters Gonna HateThere you go grinding...putting yourself out there because you know stretching is how your grow. But from a distance you hear the faintest words spoken by somebody who isn't on you team and doesn't want to be. Somebody who would rather work all day long to bring you down instead of building themselves up. The MentalEdge wants its listeners to know that when you grow you attract attention. Your progress will inspire some and threaten others. Take their words in stride and know that they don't understand where your peace comes from. So it won't make sense when...2020-07-1943 minThe MentalEdge PodcastThe Ins and Outs of Sex....You Know You Wanna Click Dat!Can two Jesus guys have a serious conversation about sex? probably not without laughing and making a few really good locker room jokes...none of our episodes are explicit and none will ever be but...The MentalEdge doesn't want to shy away from important conversations that sometimes seem hard to have. So please have a listen without the kids in the car....all the way till the end before you decide to send the hate mail...Dont worry, nobody will know why you are doubled over laughing...no shame in our game. Ladies and Gentleman..lets talk bout that...2020-07-1234 minThe MentalEdge PodcastFlexibility=FlexibiliMEHas your personal rigidity provided you a level of success that also makes you unwilling to see the advantage of being flexible. Yes sometimes it is good to be able to run the ball right down your opponents throat. To bull doze your way right into the end zone of life. But what happens when life sends its two strongest linebackers through the one and two hole...Bruh..you better have some sweep game. Yes you can be flexible with out compromising who you are. So get to stretching...a great place to start is by listening to this...2020-07-0535 minThe MentalEdge PodcastUncovering The Lies On Your Journey To Discovering The TruthHave you ever felt so passionate about something but then all of a sudden somebody plants a seed of doubt and it questions everything you believe in. You weren't ready for their educated attack. It's at these moments that an opportunity for real growth has presented itself. Your passion may not be as miss-guided as you might think though. All that is missing is for you to dive deep into understanding why you believe what you believe. This journey will help produce a sense of confidence that is not so easily shaken, that doesn't result in your lashing out...2020-06-2847 minThe MentalEdge PodcastThe Danger of Weak WordsOn The MentalEdge we talk a lot about the power of Action. But we thought it was about time to acknowledge the power of purposefully choosing your words. It's time to stop praying or talking from a spirit of weakness. Please tune into what Fernando and Jay talk about as they describe phrases and words we sometimes use that nonchalantly promote a sense of defeatism. Thats not how the listeners of this Podcast speak. We proudly declare that we are the Children of the One True God and nothing about that Royal Blood is weak. The Dangerous, Weak, Speak...2020-06-2236 minThe MentalEdge PodcastMeekness is not WeaknessThere is something special about you, people struggle to put their finger on it. It's a quiet confidence that seems unwavering and unshakable. Where does it come from? It comes from the understanding that you are a child of the one true God. You find great joy in the fact that the nicest things ever said about you never came from your own lips. They came from people who admired your humble and down to earth meekness. It's one of the many qualities that makes you special. Although you remain un-provoked by people who attempt to shake you its...2020-06-1441 minThe MentalEdge PodcastAre You Contagious? E27You've been spending your days and nights pressing in and devoting yourself toward transformation. Pouring yourself into purposeful perspective that carries you through the valley. But in the back of your mind you have this nagging question shrouded in doubt. Am I doing this all for myself or is it also positively affecting the people i love who surround me. The answer is yes, it's affecting them too. Because you and your powerful changes are contagious. More than you can imagine. Those teenagers that seem to never look up from their devices are watching you more than you think...2020-06-0744 minThe MentalEdge PodcastSquad Check...It's Time To Tighten Up That Circle!Your friends at the MentalEdge would like to give you permission to take a good hard look at the people who surround you. You really didn't need our permission but rest assured, we understand that its not easy to decide to cut ties with those people who have been with us for so long, even if its obvious that we are not headed in the same direction. So we decided to dedicate an entire episode where we discuss the importance of taking a good hard look at whether or not you and your friends are headed in the same...2020-05-3144 minThe MentalEdge PodcastE25 Your Past Doesn't Have The Right To Dictate Your Future.Fernando and Jay would like to make a statement. Your past doesn't get to define you. Yes it can be a motivational tool by which you reflect and measure your growth and success but, If you past sometimes feels like a boat anchor do you self a much deserved favor. Cut it loose. Here’s another suggestion, tap into that Supernatural power given to you in the Name of the one true Father and look back at your past with gratitude. Yes, purposely glance over your shoulder with only one purpose. To reflect with a sense of thankfulness for hav...2020-05-2434 minThe MentalEdge PodcastAre You Even Approachable Bruh?Fernando and Jay explore the topic of being approachable. Make no mistake, this is a critical man skill that requires and deserves your attention. We must become masters of non verbal communication and recognize that our first impulsive instinct to lash out when a problem is brought to us at an inconvenient time, needs to kept in check. It's an emotional response that's linked to so much that we can talk about and we will. Dive right in. You're going to love this episode and yes, this skill is directly related to your legacy because its directly related to...2020-05-1737 minThe MentalEdge PodcastE.23 You Can Tell The Size of A Man By The Size of The Things That Bother Him!Fernando a Jay talk about some of the things that might have you Shak'n Your Head. Yeah there are things that can get under your skin a little. But honestly ,they should never be in charge of the way you respond. Your life is a non stop Sermon that is constantly teaching you valuable lessons. You should treat it as such and greet every adversity and annoyance as an opportunity to prove why you're special. Don't react like the rest of the world does. You're hope, you faith and your calling is other worldly. Start acting like it. 2020-05-1047 minThe MentalEdge PodcastPush Through The WorryListen to Fernando and Jay try to pin down the difference between Paralyzing Worry and Healthy Concern. One has you enslaved, one Sets you free. One makes you feel Helpless and one is the ignitor of an ustoppable inner fire. Turns out, the one you embrace is completely up to you. 2020-05-0435 minThe MentalEdge PodcastE.21 Are You a Man With a PlanYou've picked out your destination, you know where you want to be. But not only have you not made the first turn on your journey, you haven't even filled up your tank. If you're like us, sometimes you have given the Vision Statement all the Glory. You have forgotten how important it is to have a real, sustainable plan that pays attention to the mind, body and soul development you deserve. If we just praise the peak we are never going to get there. It's the Journey that makes the Man. It's time to ask the question: "Are y...2020-04-2642 min
The MentalEdge PodcastConfessions of Cat Love From a Dog GuyDediCATed to the life of the most adventurous sole I have ever had the pleasure of petting. Our Boy Rocky, Rest in Peace my friend. Rocky Wacasey 2003 to 20202020-04-2420 minThe MentalEdge PodcastE.20 What Makes You BeautifulAside from the fact that we know that all of our MentalEdge friends are visually stunning we wanted to spend a little time talking about the depth of real sustainable beauty. Lets face it, its great to be hot right, but if that's all you got on your plate you're gonna be running on empty real soon. So take what little Corona Quarantine time you have left and think about what makes the people you love special. I bet it won't take long and you will easily see that real beauty has a whole lot more to do w...2020-04-2038 minThe MentalEdge PodcastE19 Why Do Your Sorry's SuckIf you listen to only one MentalEdge Podcast episode, make it this one. The ability to apologize like a boss is easily our greatest overlooked and underdeveloped skill. And here's the thing, having the balls to do it right my friend is a game changer. Saying I'm sorry without disclaimer speaks volumes about your character. It communicates your worth far beyound any excuses you have lurking in the nether regions of your mind. Rebuke that insecure devil...show ownership, yeah i know. But it feels like I'm giving something up. You are, you're giving up dangerous pride that has...2020-04-1338 minThe MentalEdge PodcastE.18 How to get "Mo Happiness"Life is all about the pursuit of happiness right? Ok, i see you nodding up and down. If you know it so well..why you walkin aound so angry?... Fernando and Jay talk about finding more happiness. Spoiler Alert Fellas...you probably not gonna hafta go on an expedition to a Majestic Secluded Peak..Your journey is gonna look a whole lot more like soul searching. Which is great since Carona got you on lockdown anyway. Cant wait to talk all about it. Check it out, have a listen. 2020-04-0532 minThe MentalEdge PodcastE.17 The Truth About TalentTheres a lie being told...it sounds like this. "All of the really talented people were born with it". We're calling B.S. on this one. Which stands for "bad saying"...what did you think we meant? Anyway, don't be discouraged by the people who seem more talented than you. Seek to become great at what inspires and excites you. Later on in life an amazing truth becomes astonishingly clear. The people who experience sustainable successful remain in the game not because they were necessarily born talented, but because they were born hungry. This unrelenting desire to...2020-03-3040 minThe MentalEdge PodcastEP. 16..Whatchu doing with that Corona TimeIt's an unprecedented moment in American History. A Virus has invaded our nation and whether you feel like the mandated isolation is an over reaction or whether you are certain death is inevitable, one thing is definately true.....you have some "rarely available" free time that you never imagined you would have. How are you going to spend it? Hopefully you will make this moment count for you. You can come out of it better than you went in and the MentalEdge would love to be part of it....from a distance of course. 2020-03-2331 min
The MentalEdge PodcastSpecial episode of the MentalEdge...RazorEdgeWe sliced em and diced em to make em delicious and digestible. check out some clips of our favorite moments and when you like what you hear, head on over to the full episode for the full MentalMeal.2020-03-1620 minThe MentalEdge PodcastWhat the Smell is wrong with you? Bruh..do you even smell good?Fellas, on the real real real, A little bit of healthy pride about the way you present yourself can go a long long way. Is it a pleasure to be around you, from your smile to your smell. What can you do in the next 10 minutes to sharpen your personal presentation skills? Fernando and Jay dive right in and have a little fun with the topic. Like only the MentalEdge Podcast can. 2020-03-0940 minThe MentalEdge PodcastEP 14..Are You A Dream Crusher?We have a MentalEdge team confession...nothing makes us wanna throat punch a brutha more than listening to a person crush another persons dreams. Are you wearing fa edora of fear everywhere you go and are spreading a seed of doubt. Maybe you're confused and a slave to your own subconscious not realizing that your negative outlook is some sort of twisted protective mechanism for your ego. Yeah i know..I'm being a little harsh.Your petrified words are just the faux reality that you choose to believe. Don't be a dealer of doubt. Don't be a...2020-03-0240 minThe MentalEdge PodcastEP 13 The Courage to be CourageousOn this weeks episode of the MentalEdge Podcast Fernando and Jay dive into the modern day meaning of Courage. They talk about achieving micro victories and how those victories help to prepare you for your greatest moments. The power of your tomorrow can hinge on the Courage you display today. Fear is a liar, punch it in the face on the playground of life and set your future on fire. It can all start by making your bed! Whuuut. yes you will have to listen for that to make sense. But rest assured our friends, we promise the time...2020-02-2449 min
The MentalEdge PodcastEP12 Special Valentines day Episode..If you wanna make withdrawals, you best put somethin in that bank Bruh!Check it...this episode is full of super secretive stuff only for guys. If we are being honest....its really just for Married guys. Its not Rocket science tho fellas..just love the one you got...love the pants of those wives..quite literally. Like Fernando says..if you wanna make a withdrawal, you gotta put somethin in that bank. 2020-02-1429 minThe MentalEdge PodcastEP 11...From Bitter to BetterOn this Episode of The MentalEdge Podcast Fernando and Jay talk about what it takes to transition from bitter to better and why it so important. Fernando shares a personal story of forgiveness that is sure to touch the heart of every listener. Please check it out. 2020-02-1036 minThe MentalEdge PodcastEP 10 Cool Head, Warm Heart, Thick Skin..Say It AgainIn this episode Fernando and Jay talk about 3 essential elements of Man Life. A Cool Head, A Warm Heart and Thick Skin. A triangle of power. A Trifecta that'll Protect ya. My favorite line of the of the Podcast....Fernando says "Don't mistake my Kindness for weakness". That nugget and so much more. please tune in...to The MentalEdge Podcast EP 102020-02-0242 minThe MentalEdge PodcastThe MentalEdge Podcast EP9.....What Are You Waiting For?Fernando and Jay talk about the importance of picking yourself. There has never been a better time to take a step toward your dreams. A world of opportunity is nothing more than a click away. What are the things that stop you from taking that first step? We talk discuss them all as well as covering why you will always be worth the risk. Quit waiting for it to be your time. Make it your time. Start Now. 2020-01-2737 minThe MentalEdge PodcastThe MentalEdge EP 7....Man does not live by likes alone!In this weeks episode Host Fernando details what itswas like to give up using social media for 33 days. Man does not live by likes alone. "Tune in" to hear us talk about what it means to "tune out".2020-01-1242 minThe MentalEdge PodcastThe MentalEdge EP 8 Choose your views...the Power of Positive PerspectiveIn this weeks episode Fernando and Jay talk about the power of purposely choosing to have a positive perspective. Can you choose to use the power of a positive perspective? spoiler alert...Jes Ju Can. 2020-01-1232 minThe MentalEdge PodcastThe MentalEdge Podcast: Episode 6, What You Bring To the Table.On this weeks episode of the MentalEdge Podcast Fernando and Jay ask the question, "What do you bring to the table?". Spoiler alert fellas, it's a whole lot more than just shiny things. Have a listen see what you been missin. 2020-01-0643 minThe MentalEdge PodcastThe MentalEdge Podcast episode 5 the RemixFernando and Jay revisit and remix the first 4 episodes. They recap the highlights and then put special emphasis on some of the stuff they realized they had neglected to cover.2019-12-2438 minThe MentalEdge PodcastThe MentalEdge Podcast Episode 4 Why have you given up what you loveFernando and Jay ask the question, men why is it that you have given up the things you love? Later in life as you list of responsibilities and relationships grows you find yourself giving up more than a few of the things that make you special. Fernando and Jay talk about how it is essential to manager you're time to ensure that there is still some left for you. Go get your glow back my friend. 2019-12-2455 minThe MentalEdge PodcastThe MentalEdge Podcast episode 3 Your greatest comebackFernando and Jay talk about your greatest comeback. Everybody wants to become the Hero of their own comeback story. 2019-12-2428 minThe MentalEdge PodcastThe MentalEdge Podcast episode 2 Inside every good man is a Bad BoyFernando and Jay talk about taping into that inner bad boy. You know the one I'm talking about. He's alive and well inside you. However its important the call on him but also keep him in check because quite frankly, neither one of you would do really well in the jail. 2019-12-2444 minThe MentalEdge PodcastThe MentalEdge podcast episode 1 The Origin StoryHosts Frenando Lopez and Jay Wacasey talk about the origin of their new podcast. They masterfully quoted their mission statement as well as discuss Jay's newly release book. The MAN-U-SCRIPT.2019-12-2442 min