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Messy on Purpose#34: ❤️🩹 Generational Patterns, Healing Mothers, and Living On Purpose with Kathi SohnThis week on Messy on Purpose, we're joined by the incredible Kathi Sohn—a mother, author, healer, and woman who’s walked through some seriously messy chapters to discover her truest purpose.From finding out she was adopted in her 30s, to serving in the U.S. Department of Defense, to navigating the heartbreaking loss of her husband… Kathi has lived a story shaped by truth, resilience, and reinvention.Now, she’s carrying on her late husband's powerful work to help women—especially mothers—identify the unconscious beliefs driving their lives, stop generational trauma in its tracks...2025-07-211h 38Messy on Purpose#33: 💳 From Bad Credit to Boss Moves, Brock Marcus Is Flipping the Credit Game for EntrepreneursIn this episode of Messy on Purpose, we sit down with credit expert and real estate investor Brock Marcus, who shares how he turned his financial upbringing—full of confusion about credit—into a thriving business that helps others do it better. Now in his early 20s, Brock is teaching entrepreneurs how to fix, build, and leverage their credit to unlock serious opportunities. We talk about the messy moments that shaped him, the lessons he taught himself the hard way, and why credit is one of the most underused tools in the game. If you're ready to stop winging it w...2025-07-141h 14Messy on Purpose#32: 🎾 Peter Ho on Building a Life that Matches the MissionIn this powerful and vulnerable episode of Messy on Purpose, we sit down with tennis coach and entrepreneur Peter Ho. From the sunny courts of Hawaii to the harsh realities of California streets, Peter opens up about the twists and turns that shaped his journey—abusive relationships, homelessness, and the emotional toll that led to physical weight gain.We explore how Peter is rebuilding his life—physically, mentally, and professionally. He shares why looking the part matters as a coach, how he's approaching his own health transformation, and what it really takes to turn pain into purpose. 2025-07-071h 21Messy on Purpose#31: ✨ Chaos to Clarity w/ Danielle Ford on Politics, Personal Growth & PurposeWhat happens when you blend raw life experience, real talk, and a drive to make change from the inside out? You get a conversation like this.In this powerful episode, I sit down with Danielle Ford—mom, entrepreneur, advocate, and member of the Nevada State Board of Education. We go deep into the unexpected moments that shaped her journey, what politics really looks like behind the curtain, and how she continues to reinvent herself through mindset, resilience, and showing up when it matters most.We talk self-improvement, leadership, healing, and how to make the most of...2025-06-302h 04Messy on Purpose#30: 🌎 Midlife Freedom & Digital Nomad Life with Ronda TaylorIn this episode of Messy on Purpose, I sit down with Ronda Taylor — digital nomad, mentor, and founder of Midlife Rondavous. Ronda shares her powerful story of walking away from the ordinary to create a life of freedom, adventure, and purpose. From her bold decision to become a digital nomad to her passion for helping other midlife women do the same, Ronda opens up about the beauty — and the mess — of building your own path.If you're a midlife woman feeling stuck or craving change or just a person interested in becoming a nomad, this episode will inspir...2025-06-231h 47Messy on Purpose#29: 💖 Daddy-Daughter GoalsJust in time for Father's Day, this special Messy on Purpose episode will melt your heart. Johnny (from the Vegas Traffic episode) returns — but this time he’s brought along his incredible 9-year-old daughter, and trust me, she steals the show.Wise beyond her years, full of light, and an absolute inspiration, this little powerhouse talks about her Christian school life, martial arts training, her love for acting and movies, and the amazing bond she shares with both her parents. We dive into what makes their daddy-daughter relationship so special, how faith and family shape her world, and...2025-06-161h 46Messy on Purpose#28: 👶 Foster the Future - How Trenton Brisco is Changing Lives & Building CommunityIn this powerful episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha sits down with Trenton Brisco to talk about what it really means to show up for kids in need.We dive into:👶 His emotional journey into foster parenting🏡 The real qualifications needed to foster a child🙌 Why you don’t have to foster to make a difference🤝 How he's creating a network of support, connection, and purpose🎉 Events and initiatives he's hosting to raise awareness and bring people togetherWhether you're curious about fostering, passionate about giving back, or just need to hear a convers...2025-06-091h 11Messy on Purpose#27: 👑 Crowns, Clients & Chaos: How Michaela Taylor Does It AllWhat do you get when you mix pageant prep, business strategy, motherhood, and relentless drive? Michaela Taylor.In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Michaela — aka Mrs. Aliante America 2025 — opens up about chasing the crown while running a digital marketing + coaching empire and being a powerhouse wife and mom👑 Her bold entrance into the world of pageantry📲 Building a business that’s as strategic as it is soulful💪 Balancing motherhood, marriage, and massive goals🔥 How she stays grounded, focused, and on fire for her purposeThis is your reminder that you can do it all — ju...2025-06-0249 minMessy on Purpose#26: 💸 Airbnbs, Co-Living & Hustling the Vegas Market with Aaron LambertFrom rentals to wholesaling to building out co-living spaces — Aaron Lambert has done it all. In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Aaron gets real about the messy middle of his real estate journey and the pivots, lessons, and wins that got him where he is today.🏠 His first steps into real estate and how it evolved💸 Learning the ropes of Airbnb and short-term rentals🔁 The hustle of wholesaling and flipping contracts🏘️ His passion for co-living and why it’s the future of housing⚡ Real-life experiences that pulled him into the game...2025-05-2655 minMessy on Purpose#25: 🎬 Lights, Lessons & Action: The Journey of Director Lee CummingsIn this powerful episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha sits down with director, mentor, and creative visionary Lee Cummings to explore the story behind the spotlight.From navigating personal hardships to seizing life-changing opportunities, Lee opens up about the pivotal moments that led him to where he is today — including the creation of his film school and mentorship program.We talk about:🎬 The highs and lows of his creative journey💔 The real-life challenges that shaped him🔥 The passion behind building a program to empower others💡 Why mentorship is his mission...2025-05-191h 47Messy on Purpose#24: ✌🏻 New Chapter, Same Mess: A Quick Update from FylishaWelcome to a brand new chapter of Messy on Purpose.In this short solo episode, Fylisha shares an honest update about the podcast’s recent changes — why things look a little different, what’s shifting, and what you can expect going forward.No drama. No overexplaining. Just real talk, growth, and the decision to keep showing up… even if it looks a little messier now.If you've been rocking with us from the beginning or you're just tuning in — this is your official welcome (or re-welcome) to the chaos.🎙️ Full episode with Director & Ment...2025-05-1903 minMessy on Purpose#23: ❤️🩹 Addiction, Family, and the Fight to Heal (Season One)In this powerful episode of Messy on Purpose, Heather and Fylisha are joined by Heather’s brother, Jay, for a raw and deeply personal conversation about addiction, recovery, and purpose. Jay opens up about what addiction really looks like, how it impacts loved ones, and the unexpected path that led him to helping others — especially veterans who’ve served our country. 🇺🇸We talk about what addiction really looks like behind closed doors, the causes of addition, the impact it has on loved ones, and the healing that begins when we stop hiding the hard stuff. This episode is about pain, resili...2025-05-121h 14Messy on Purpose#22: 🧠 Break these Habits Before They Break You (Season One)In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather dive deep into the everyday habits that quietly sabotage our peace, growth, and confidence. Inspired by real-life moments and conversations about self-sabotage, people-pleasing, burnout, and comparison traps, this candid chat will have you reflecting, laughing, and maybe even journaling.We’re not here to judge—just to bring awareness to the patterns that keep us stuck. From saying "yes" when you mean "no" to shrinking yourself for others’ comfort, we unpack the sneaky ways we break ourselves down—and how to rebuild stronger.💬 Come for th...2025-05-051h 29Messy on Purpose#21: 🛑 Breaking the Silence & Protecting Our Kids at All Costs (Season One)**Trigger Warning** This episode discusses childhood sexual abuse and trauma. Listener discretion is advised.In this powerful and emotional episode of Messy on Purpose, we open a raw conversation that needs to be louder: protecting our kids and supporting survivors.Heather shares her personal story of childhood trauma — a story she carried in silence for years — and why it's time we stop protecting predators and start protecting our children.This episode was inspired by the recent viral post from Kanye West promoting his new song "Cousins," where he opened up about chil...2025-04-2846 minMessy on Purpose#20: ❤️🔥 Health Goals = One Size Doesn’t Fit All (Season One)In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather are joined by Jamie and Reilly for a real, honest convo about health goals, habits, and the messy truth behind personal growth.We get into it all:💪 Where we’re at in our own health journeys🥗 Diet, fitness, mindset, and how we each approach wellness🍷 Our relationship with alcohol and finding balance❤️🔥 And why one person’s version of “healthy” doesn’t need to look like anyone else’sFour different people. Four different perspectives.One raw, relatable conversatio2025-04-211h 06Messy on Purpose#19: 🔥 The Chaos You Didn’t See Coming (But Needed) (Season One)In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather dive into a passionate (and fiery 🔥) convo about embracing the chaos of life and seeing the beauty in the mess.We’re talking:🌪️ The power of choice in messy moments💭 Learning from hard experiences💫 How two besties see life’s chaos from two very real, very different anglesIt’s raw. It’s emotional. It’s real AF.Because life isn’t about having it all together—it’s about owning your story and choosing how you show up through it.🎧 Tune...2025-04-141h 22Messy on Purpose#18: 🤠 Locals on the Strip: Our Wild Night at Ole Red (Season One)Living in Vegas doesn’t mean we’re always on the Strip—but when we are, it’s a whole vibe. 😎🌆In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather dive into their recent night out at Ole Red, the country bar right in the heart of the Las Vegas Strip.We’re sharing:🍻 The unexpected (and hilarious) moments of being a local in a tourist hotspot🤠 Why Ole Red might just be our new go-to spot for country vibes🎉 The chaotic energy of the Strip that you either love or hate (or both)Whether yo...2025-04-0719 minMessy on Purpose#17: 📸 Shoot Your Shot - What It Really Takes to Build a Business (Part 2) (Season One)We’re back with Part 2 of our real, raw, and totally unfiltered convo with Lauren from Lala Photography 📸—and this time, we’re going even deeper.From navigating the messy middle of entrepreneurship to the moments that will nearly make you quit (spoiler: she didn’t 👏), this episode is packed with:💥 Behind-the-scenes biz talk📸 Big wins and bigger learning curves😆 Side tangents, laughs, and real-life chaosThis isn’t just about photos—this is about passion, persistence, and showing up even when it’s hard.🎧 Tune in to catch the rest of the story… and a few wil...2025-03-311h 11Messy on Purpose#16: 📸 Shoot Your Shot - What It Really Takes to Build a Business (Part 1) (Season One)Ever wonder what it really looks like to build a successful business from the ground up—with no filter?In this episode of Messy on Purpose, we sit down with Lauren, founder of Lala Photography, to talk about the messy behind-the-scenes of entrepreneurship.We dive into:📸 How Lala Photography was born💥 The struggles that no one talks about💡 Some surprisingly good (and real) business advice🎤 And of course… a few chaotic side convos because, well, it's us 😅This is Part 1 of our 2-part convo with Lauren—and tru...2025-03-2458 minMessy on Purpose#15: 🚦 Vegas Traffic: The Dark Reality You Need to See (Season One)Some stories need to be told—and Vegas Traffic is one of them. 🎥🚦In this episode of Messy on Purpose, we sit down with Trenton and John, the filmmakers behind Vegas Traffic, a powerful film that sheds light on a reality most people ignore. We dive into:
🔦 The real-life inspiration behind the film
🎬 The creative process & behind-the-scenes moments
🚨 Why awareness is the first step toward changeThis episode is raw, unfiltered, and necessary—because some things can’t be ignored.🎧 Listen now & be part of the conversation.2025-03-1748 minMessy on Purpose#14: 💰 Love or Luxury? The Toxic Advice Ruining Relationships (Season One)Some advice on social media is just straight-up wild—and Heather needed to talk about this one. In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha gets hit with a surprise topic as we dive into the crazy world of viral “sugar daddy” advice being pushed on women.From TikTok videos encouraging transactional relationships to the way dating has completely shifted from love to luxury, we’re breaking down why real relationships still matter and why it’s okay to want something deeper than just a paycheck and designer bags.Get ready for real talk, laughs, and a litt...2025-03-1036 minMessy on Purpose#13: 💔 When Caring Feels Like Nagging: Letting Go vs. Holding On (Season One)How do you know when it’s time to let go of trying to help someone who won’t help themselves? This week on Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather dive into the emotional struggle of caring too much—when your love and support turn into nagging, and you realize you might be more invested in their change than they are.Fylisha opens up about her personal experience with her dad, and we get real about setting boundaries, protecting your peace, and knowing when to step back. Plus, in true Messy on Purpose fashion, we take a hilari...2025-03-0342 minMessy on Purpose#12: 💔 Right Person, Wrong Season: Knowing When to Let Go (Season One)Not every relationship is meant to last forever—and that’s okay!In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather dive deep into the relationships that serve us, the ones that don’t, and the ones that are only meant for a season. 💫From friendships to romantic partners, we talk about why it’s okay to let go of relationships that no longer align with the person you are or the one you’re becoming. Whether it’s a friendship that’s fizzled out, a love that ran its course, or simply recognizing when it’s time to...2025-02-2445 minMessy on Purpose#11: Messy Comments, Stronger Minds - Surviving Social Media Negativity (Season One)Social media can be a wild ride, especially when the trolls come out to play. In this episode ofMessy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather get real about dealing with the darker side of online life—negative comments, unsolicited opinions, and the emotional toll they can take.They share personal stories, practical tips for keeping your sanity in the digital world, and a few laughs about the most ridiculous comments they’ve ever seen. If you’ve ever struggled with online negativity, this episode is your guide to overcoming the noise and staying true to yourse...2025-02-1729 minMessy on Purpose#10: Beyond Roses & Chocolates: Love, Connection, & Valentine’s Real Talk (Season One)Valentine’s Day—love it or leave it? 💌 In this special episode ofMessy on Purpose, we dive deep into the highs and lows of Valentine’s Day with two amazing guests! From overhyped traditions to why love should be celebratedall year long, we’re getting real about what truly matters in relationships—whether it’s with your partner, friends, family, or even yourself.We’re talkinglove languages, meaningful gift-giving, and why connection goes beyond romantic relationships. So whether you're single, in love, or just here for the candy sales, grab a drink and join us for some laughs, real talk...2025-02-141h 14Messy on Purpose#9: Rising High: Tania y Su Grupo Elevado - The Voice, The Journey, The Heart (Season One)This week onMessy on Purpose, we’re joined by the extraordinary Tania, lead singer of Tania y Su Grupo Elevado. With her beautiful voice, captivating presence, and sweet personality, Tania shares her inspiring story.Tania’s story is filled with passion, perseverance, and positivity. Whether you’re a fan of her music or simply love hearing about the magic behind the microphone, this episode is a must-listen!Check her out here: https://www.facebook.com/share/1ANJ3bHvEm/?mibextid=wwXIfr2025-02-1053 minMessy on Purpose#8: Swipe Right or Run? Dating, Divorce, and Self-Reflection with Director Lee Cummings (Season One)Get ready for a behind-the-scenes look at modern love! 🎬 In this special episode ofMessy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather are joined by the talented director Lee Cummings to explore the wild world of dating apps, the realities of relationships, and the self-discovery journey that comes with love, divorce, and everything in between.Lee shares unique insights from the director’s chair, and the trio dives into personal stories, laughs, and raw truths about marriage, heartbreak, and finding yourself. Whether you’re swiping, reflecting, or celebrating love, this episode has something for everyone.2025-02-101h 06Messy on Purpose#6: Good Vibes Only? The Truth About Toxic Positivity (Season One)Sometimes, “good vibes only” isn’t enough. In this eye-opening episode ofMessy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather dive deep into the concept of toxic positivity—the pressure to stay positive even when life feels anything but.They discuss why it’s okay to feel your feelings, share personal stories about navigating tough times, and offer tips on how to support others without dismissing their struggles. This candid conversation is full of insights, humor, and real talk about finding balance in a world obsessed with positivity.Follow us on Instagram:http...2025-01-2722 minMessy on Purpose#7: From Fighter to Warrior: Ashlee Gambino’s Journey of Strength and Resilience (Season One)Life doesn’t always go as planned, but Ashlee Gambino’s story proves that you can rise above anything. In this inspiring episode ofMessy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather sit down with Ashlee, a strong woman, mother, wife, and fighter, who shares her journey from a tough fighter to an even stronger warrior after facing unexpected health challenges.Ashlee opens up about what it means to fight through life’s darkest moments without letting them define you. She’s on a mission to spread positivity, inspire others, and remind everyone that even in the face of hardship, there’s...2025-01-271h 22Messy on Purpose#5: Hard Times, Tough Choices, Great Lessons (Season One)Life’s challenges aren’t easy, but they shape who we are. In this empowering episode ofMessy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather get candid about navigating hard times, dealing with difficult situations, and why it’s okay to distance yourself from people and things that no longer fit your life.They share personal stories of making tough decisions, finding the strength to do what’s best for yourself, and uncovering the lessons hidden in life’s messiest moments. If you’re looking for inspiration to embrace change, set boundaries, and grow through it all, this episode...2025-01-2043 minMessy on Purpose#4: When Your Cat Breaks the Internet - Viral Fame and Social Media Chaos with Kaylee (Season One)What happens when your adorable (and very chunky) cat goes viral? 🐾 In this special episode ofMessy on Purpose,Fylisha and Heather sit down with the fabulous Angel.Cakes702 (aka Kaylee) to chat about her famous feline and the whirlwind of social media attention that followed.Kaylee opens up about the heartwarming story of why she adopted her cat, her journey to help him live a healthier life, and the surprising challenges of internet fame—from unsolicited opinions to people trying to take her beloved pet. It’s a conversation full of laughs, love, and lessons...2025-01-1354 minMessy on Purpose#3: The Real Work Behind Taking Care of You (Season One)Self-care isn’t just bubble baths and spa days—sometimes, it’s the hard stuff too. In this episode ofMessy on Purpose,Fylisha and Heather explore what self-care really means on an individual level. They dive into the things that feel great in the moment, like rest and indulgence, but also the tougher, less glamorous side of taking care of yourself, like setting boundaries, managing finances, and making time for personal growth.It’s a real and raw conversation about balancing comfort with the work that truly helps you thrive. Tune in for laughs, insights...2025-01-0642 minMessy on Purpose#2: New Year, Same Mess - Reflect, Reset, and Crush 2025 Goals (Season One)It’s a New Year, besties! 🎉 In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather dive into all things New Year’s—reflecting on the highs and lows of 2024, setting goals for 2025, and kicking off our own New Year’s fitness challenge (spoiler alert: it’s already messy).Join us for laughs, real talk, and a dose of inspiration to start your year off right. Whether you’re crushing resolutions or just trying to survive January, we’ve got you covered. Wishing you all a Happy New Year—let’s make 2025 our best (and messiest) year ye...2024-12-3044 minMessy on Purpose#1: A Very Merry Christmas Chat (Season One)It’s Christmas time, and we’re feeling the holiday vibes! 🎄✨ In this festive first episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather share what they love most about Christmas—from cozy traditions and favorite activities to hilarious takes on gift-giving and decorating mishaps.Join us as we dive into the joy, chaos, and magic of the season, all while spreading some holiday cheer. Whether you’re decking the halls or unwrapping the good, the bad, and the messy of Christmas, we’re here to celebrate it all with you. Merry Christmas, besties! 🎁🎅2024-12-2337 min