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A Podcast About Genderwriting is a virtueIn this episode, Gabriel Gara Lonning cracks open his journal and shares the painfully mundane details of his life as a twenty-something writer stumbling through New York City. He’s desperate for your approval. Tune in for existential oversharing, and catch the full episode on Patreon.Support the show2025-06-0323 minA Podcast About Genderunited states of genderJoin Gabriel Gara Lonning (@unitedstatesofgara) as he dives into the latest stories shaping conversations around gender. In this episode, he unpacks headlines about transgender rights, explores the significance of lavender graduations, breaks down the recent UK Supreme Court decision, and shares his take on state-level debates. Expect sharp insights and thoughtful discussion on the issues that matter most right now.https://www.patreon.com/c/garalonningSupport the show2025-05-0628 minA Podcast About Genderwhy i changed my name Gabriel Gara Lonning peels back the layers of his identity – starting with the story of choosing his own name. Growing up with a twin brother added a fascinating twist to Gabriel's journey, creating a unique mirror that reflected both who he was and who he wasn't. Gabriel weaves together a narrative that's both deeply personal and universally human. It's about more than just changing a name – it's about becoming who you've always been, even when your reflection tells two different stories. Catch more of Gabriel's insights @unitedstatesofgara.patreon.com/garalonningSupport the show2025-04-1531 minA Podcast About Gendertrans week of visibilityJoin Gabriel Gara Lonning (@unitedstatesofgara) for a vibrant episode as he takes you through the streets of his new home - New York City. After years of fantasizing about life in the Big Apple, Gabriel shares his raw, honest, and sometimes hilarious experiences of finally making his dreams reality. Recorded on Trans Day of Visibility, this special episode captures the electric energy of both personal transformation and city life. Want more? Catch the full episode exclusively on Patreon, where Gabriel dives even deeper into his NYC adventures.Support the show2025-04-0123 minA Podcast About Genderi think im still non-binaryRaw, unfiltered, and straight from the heart — join Gabriel Gara Lonning (@unitedstatesofgara) in this episode as he peels back the layers of identity and self-discovery. With striking candor, Gabriel shares his journey through understanding his homoromantic attractions, recalls the transformative moment of his first testosterone treatment, and explores the nuances of embracing his non-binary identity. This unedited conversation captures the complexity of gender expression in ways rarely discussed in mainstream media. For the complete, uncensored episode, visit Gabriel's Patreon community. https://www.patreon.com/garalonningSupport the show2025-03-2540 minA Podcast About GenderAbout Women with Mariposa CoalsonIn this intimate and candid episode, we sit down with Mariposa Coalson (@suchagreatsky), a transgender artist and comedian making waves in New York City's creative scene. Joined by her roommate Gabriel Gara Lonning, Mariposa takes on thought-provoking questions from the MTF Reddit community, offering honest insights and personal experiences. The conversation takes unexpected turns as Gabriel shares his own journey of exploring identity, including the surprising challenges of shopping for a changing body, and offers a critical perspective on conformity within the trans community. Raw, funny, and refreshingly honest, this episode dives deep into the re...2025-03-1145 minA Podcast About GenderA Podcast About GenderGabriel Gara Lonning (@unitedstatesofgara) has a new name and a new outlook on gender. Join him as he resurrects this lovely podcast. He answers questions from FTM reddit. He covers topics like masculinity, therapy with family, testosterone effects and more. You can listen to the full version on Patreon.Support the show2025-03-0326 minA Podcast About GenderThe End, BabyIt's the end of EN(BA)BY, baby. My dance-comedy hour, Welcome To The Big Show will premiere at The Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2023. Please become a sweet lil investor of the show here: https://www.patreon.com/garalonningHere are tickets to my pilot premiere on March 1st at Littlefield in Brooklyn: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/one-million-girls-with-gara-emily-dayton-evans-tickets-520392095767Support the show2023-02-2141 minA Podcast About GenderGara Goes In DEEEEEEPGara talks sex, dating, money and playing poker.TOMORROW DECEMBER 20 "One Million Girls" AT BRANDED SALOON AT 7PM!Support the show2022-12-2034 minA Podcast About GenderGARA AND JACOB'S BIG BREAKUP EXTRAVAGANZA PART IIIGara and Jacob (@worldsstrongestpainter) celebrate their one year "Break-Upiversary".Support the show2022-12-061h 11A Podcast About Gender"Okay, We're Back From Our Wellness Break" (Midnights Part Two)Some more 'Help Me Out, Bro' with Maggie, Basil and Gara!!!!! CW: Transphobia Support the show2022-11-0145 minA Podcast About GenderCOURTNEY MILLER: Two Dudes, One Confused BallThis episode is with actor, director and absolute light of a person Courtney Miller (@co_mill). Gara (@garararara) and Courtney talk about Geminis, content creation, YouTube, dudes, Olivia Newton John, being Non-Binary and more!https://live.smosh.com/?fbclid=IwAR2A6IYmHDCDIOHNSXRPlsGj6PkE30r4xAjZ_s8XNrsln2mjH19NHK_SOtwTHEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson)Support the show2022-06-2857 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: The Kinsey FiveOn this FRIENDLY episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY maggie (@breakup_doula), basil (@whagever) and gara (@garararararara) talk podcasts (podception), Maggie’s surprise bday, The Kinsey 5, friend breakups, transphobic frenemies!!!!, resolving conflict and more!ASK US A QUESTION: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdUu0c0xq8fdChLtyIF-7q4bAqakTZSO1YkRFado2fl3ZBOLA/viewformTHEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Support the show2022-06-2145 minA Podcast About GenderJESSICA HENDERSON: Eat, Out, First.Gara (@gararararara) interviews comedian, actor and Last Airbender, Jess Henderson (@embrace_mess) talk about Che Diaz, queer media, pleasure, Harry Styles, signs we fuck with, drag race lesbians, Pinterest, sex toys and more!THEME SONG 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Support the show2022-06-1448 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Jacob and Gara's Big Breakup Extravaganza Part TwoThis is PART TWO to Jacob and Gara’s Big Breakup Extravaganza! Gara (@gararararara) and Jacob (@worldsstrongestpainter) broke up 6 months ago after 4 years of dating 3 years of living together. They discuss Polyamory, being single, Jon Benet Ramsey, sex-grief-money, monster trucks, one night stands and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Support the show2022-05-3150 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: #GirlsWhoCumOn this episode of DEAR ENBABY the girlies/boylies; Maggie (breakup_doula), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) talk about gushing, fun sex, exercise, sticking a finger up your butt, The Shape of Water, fancy moms, getting ripped and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Support the show2022-05-2455 minA Podcast About GenderSOFTEE: Theater Kids F*ck NowThis episode is with absolute triple threat and pop star, Softee (@softeepopstar) Gara (@garararararara) and Softee discuss Robyn, Zillenials, dark sides, Funny Girl, self care, pop music, Suite Life of Zack and Cody and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson) Support the show2022-05-171h 02A Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Want Want Want Want Want Want Want Want Want Want Want Want Want Want WantIn this super big “want” episode of the pod Maggie (@breakup_doula), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararararara) discuss Fergie, fucking your friends, simple pleasures, leaving a voicemail, making love, our big wants and more!THEME SONG IS "CRYBABY" BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson)Support the show2022-05-1052 minA Podcast About GenderEMILY DAYTON EVANS: Post-OperativesBest Comedy Friends and both halves of the NYC show, One Million Girls; Emily Dayton Evans (@hotgaycelebrity) and Gara (@garararararara) talk about queer Gilmore Girl Theories, generational trauma, Julia Louis Dryfus, gay girl groups, confidence, asking people out, Garfield the Cat, living with your partner and more!DONATE TO OUR SKETCH PILOT: https://seedandspark.com/fund/one-million-girls-sketch-pilot#storySupport the show2022-05-031h 17A Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Click Here to See Hot Singles In Your Area!Maggie (@breakup_doula), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) tell some juicy secrets. COME TO EN(BA)BY LIVE APRIL 6TH AT THE BELL HOUSE AT 8PM!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband)Support the show2022-04-0523 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Re-Transition, BabyOn this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY the boys; Maggie (breakup_doula), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) discuss intentions, middle school assembly's, Gara’s suburban mom era, re-transitioning, straight girl things, LORDE, changing pronouns and more!THEME SONG 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Support the show2022-03-2957 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Into The Maggie-verseThis episode we go deep into THE MAGGIEVERSE! Maggie (@breakup_doula), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararararara) discuss healthy polyamory, being bros, being bros with benefits, P!NK (again), HRT, consumption, buttholes and more!TICKETS TO OUR LIVE SHOW AT THE BELL HOUSE https://www.eventbrite.com/e/enbaby-live-tickets-277013202947THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Support the show2022-03-221h 13A Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: An*l At The ArboretumOn this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (@breakup_doula), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararararara) talk about eras of music, pubes, cool girl heroes, dates, horrible movies, hookups, Joan Didion and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Support the show2022-03-1557 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Touch My FingerTW: Grief, DeathIn this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY your favorite trolls Maggie (@breakup_doula), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararararara) discuss Wordle, being canceled...on, Michael Cera, vanity plates, death, the beauty of friendship, clits and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) BELL HOUSE LIVE SHOW TICKETS: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/enbaby-live-tickets-277013202947Support the show2022-03-081h 11A Podcast About GenderJUSTIN LINVILLE: HowardThis episode is with actor and comedian Justin Linville (@justinmlinville)! Gara (@garararararara) and Justin (and a special appearance by Jess Zeidman (@jzeidz) talk about Rugrats, gender panic, relationships, cats, Friends, friends and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Support the show2022-03-0147 minA Podcast About GenderCHLOE FREEMAN: Trans RumbleThis episode of EN(BA)BY is with actor and entrepreneur, Chloe Freeman (@chlo3freeman) who runs For Them (http://forthem.com) a wellness brand geared toward gender expansive people! Gara (@gararararara) and Chloe talk about binders, Sex and the City, the acting world, The Matrix, wellness, boxing and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Support the show2022-02-2246 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: TRANS JACKASS REBOOTOn this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY it's "Help Me Out, Bro: 2 The Squeakuel. Maggie (@breakup_doula), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) ask each other advice questions and talk about cancelling plans, gay lovers, sexual communication, Jackass Forever, friends with benefits, 420, mental breakdowns and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Support the show2022-02-1557 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Only Yearning, Never CummingIn this super special episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY with just the boys; Maggie (@softie.mag) and Gara (@garararararararara) talk about Bruce Springsteen, plastic surgery, cis friends, white women, celebrity impressions, Trans friends, breaking down inherent bias and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Support the show2022-02-081h 06A Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Clit NutsOn this very wild and sexy episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY the boys; Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) talk about new lovers, Tinder, Joni Mitchell, butt stuff, the gayest songs of all time, “And Just Like That”, homophobic roommates, sex drives and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson)MERCH! https://www.enbabypodcast.com/Support the show2022-02-011h 00A Podcast About GenderSOAK: Kid With KnifeThis episode of EN(BA)BY is with musician, SOAK (@soaksoaksoak). Gara (@gararararararara) interviews them about Avril Lavigne, performance euphoria, concerts, gender parents, releasing new music, names and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Support the show2022-01-251h 09A Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Jacob and Gara's Big Breakup ExtravaganzaIn this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Gara (@garararararararara) and special guest, Gara's recent ex-boyfriend, current roommate and best friend, Jacob Brooks (@worldstrongestpainter) talk about their breakup, non-monogamous relationships, Cynthia Nixon, cheating, dating and much much much more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson)Support the show2022-01-181h 06A Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: The Notoriously Hung Eric CarleOn this MICRODOSE of an episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) talk about The Notoriously Hung Eric Carle, body neutrality, moms, Queer Eye, Titty Funerals ,Bruce Springsteen and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson)Support the show2022-01-1146 minA Podcast About GenderJACLYN MOORE: You Were a Girl, Dumb DumbThis episode is with writer, producer and show runner, Jaclyn Moore (@jaclynpmoore)! Gara (@gararararararara) and Jaclyn talk about H & M, TERFS, bathrooms, gender euphoric hair growth, Drag Culture, The Santa Clause, gender affirming surgeries and much much much more!TW: THIS EPISODE CONTAINS REFERENCES TO TRANSPHOBIA, ASSAULT AND ABUSETHEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson)Support the show2022-01-041h 18A Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: CAWKOn this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) talk about cookies, ve/ver/vis pronouns, coming out to your grandparents, Cawk/Caulk, queer people from high school and more! THEME SONG IS ‘CRYBABY’ BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson)Support the show2021-12-281h 08A Podcast About GenderREID POPE: Cut Me Open, DaddyThis incredible episode is with writer, comedian and Gara's (@gararararararara) Top Surgery Brother, Reid Pope (@rpopegram). Together they talk about their experiences getting gender affirming surgery while also discussing Mark Ruffalo, transphobia, nipples, reality tv, doctor's office art, recovery, Angelina Jolie's Double Mastectomy and more!TW: This episode contains discussions and references about blood, suicide, drugs and more.THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Support the show2021-12-211h 09A Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: This Top Must Be StoppedWe're Back!!! And Gara got top surgery!!! In this amazing homecoming episode Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararararara) talk about dreams, TLC Shows, top surgery (ofc), lovers, how to date, Lana Del Ray and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY NADA HYEK (@sloppyjohansson)Support the show2021-12-1452 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: One Year Anniversary Uncut, RawHAPPY ONE YEAR OF EN(BA)BY! On this UNCUT episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara talk about Adrianne Lenker, celebrity gossip, masterb*ting, friendship, going to concerts, Christian Mommy Vloggers, Pete Davidson and so so so so so much more!GARA TOP SURGERY FUND: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-gara-pay-for-top-surgeryTHEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson)Support the show2021-11-161h 31A Podcast About GenderSOFIA DOBRUSHIN: Russians and LesbiansOn this super MUSICAL episode of EN(BA)BY Gara interviews comedian and musician, Sofia Dobrushin (@oh.sofritas) they talk about straight halloween, social anxiety, their gender songs, Paul McCartney, soft boy energy, their favorite musicians, mustaches, top surgery and more!ONE PERSON SHOW TICKETS: https://www.caveat.nyc/event/how-to-be-a-girl-in-three-easy-steps-11-15-2021THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson)Support the show2021-11-0953 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Everything Goes WrongOn this CHAOTIC episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY everything goes wrong!!!!! Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) talk about their crushes, what scared them as kids, 2011, mental health in the pandemic, being in a relationship with depression, self care and more!GARA'S ONE PERSON SHOW NOV. 15 @ CAVEAT: https://www.caveat.nyc/event/how-to-be-a-girl-in-three-easy-steps-11-15-2021THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Support the show2021-11-0148 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Doula LipaOn this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY, Maggie (softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) talk about ads, Dua Lipa, dysphoria with multi vitamins, Gara’s top surgery!!!, jealousy, trust in partnerships, talking to ex’s, The Wilson Brothers, friend breakups and more!TICKETS TO 'ONE MILLION GIRLS' AT BRANDED SALOON: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/one-million-girls-tickets-192333112517GARA'S TOP SURGERY GOFUNDME: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-gara-pay-for-top-surgerySupport the show2021-10-251h 03A Podcast About GenderMISHA OSHEROVICH: Demon vs. MonsterGara (@garararararara) interviews actor, writer and filmmaker Misha Osherovich (@mishaosherovich) about their new show The Girl in The Woods on Peacock (out now!) while talking about queer horror, Jennifer's Body, gender parents, movie villains, being Trans in the film and TV world, their dream roles and more!WATCH THE GIRL IN THE WOODS ON PEACOCK NOW!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Support the show2021-10-2131 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: MTV's True Life My Mom is a Tomboy (LIVE)This is our first ever live show!!!! Back in September Maggie (@softie.mag) and Gara (@garararararara) traveled to Maggie's hometown, Providence, Rhode Island and performed a small, intimate live show for 20 people at AS220! They talk about stuff like chosen family, soaking, their queer awakening, the movie Sky High, coming out to your family, GEB childhood memories and answer questions with their super secret, special guest!DONATE TO GARA'S TOP SURGERY GOFUNDME: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-gara-pay-for-top-surgeryTHEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)S...2021-10-1957 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Always Be Closing, Never Be PissingOn this suuuuuper fun episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY your favorite hot friends, Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) discuss using pronouns, p*ssing (again lol), shaving your head, "the one that got away", relationships with therapists, letting your parents down, dads and more!ASK US A QUESTION! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdUu0c0xq8fdChLtyIF-7q4bAqakTZSO1YkRFado2fl3ZBOLA/viewformTHEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson)Support the show2021-10-121h 01A Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Queer Slug WatchIn this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) talk about our favorite bugs, rumors, friendships with age differences, Gender Apathy, SLUGS!!!!!, and genderless blobs!EN(BA)BY MERCH DROP:https://www.enbabypodcast.com/storeSupport the show2021-09-2847 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Hahahaha I Never Get D*cked Down AnymoreIn this BIG CITY episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY, Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@Garararararara) talk about homophobic roommates, Rolling Stones Top 500, what we can’t live without, big city life, Matt Damon (rip), mental health while dating and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson)THE BABY TOUR TICKETS:https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-baby-tour-tickets-169136607145?aff=ebdsoporgprofileSupport the show2021-09-2158 minA Podcast About GenderKATE SISK: The Youngest, Softest BoyOn this episode of EN(BA)BY Gara (@gararararara) talks to comedian and personal gender hero, Kate Sisk (@thekatesisk)! They talk about punching dudes, euphoric nicknames, open pronouns, being trans in comedy, arm wrestling, gender envy and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson)Support the show2021-09-141h 02A Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Text Him, Dump Him, Put Him On His BackOn this bonk bonk episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) talk about Chuck E. Cheese, coming out at work, 2009, our names, religion, skating songs, navigating the cis-het service industry and a wild wild question from a listenerTHEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Nola Black Youth Fund https://www.instagram.com/nolablackyouthfund/?hl=enLillith Fund https://www.lilithfund.org/THE BABY TOUR TICKETS: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-baby-tour-tickets-169136607145?aff=ebdsoporgprofile...2021-09-0752 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Help Me Out, BroIn this super fun episode Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) introduce a new segment called “Help Me Out, Bro” where they ask EACH OTHER advice questions! In this “HMO,B” the gang talks about Selena Gomez, the binaries they subscribe to, hanging out with straight people, bar food, standing in your power, encouraging your creativity, being slutty on Venmo and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson)Support the show2021-08-311h 02A Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Bitch First, Trans SecondOn this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (softie.mag), Basil (@whagever), Gara (@garararararara) the hottest friends in the universe talk about musicals (lol big surprise), our two woofs, posting yourself as a child, The Jonas Brothers, self care before Top Surgery, communication in friendships, P!NK and more!THEME SONG BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson)Support the show2021-08-2454 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Born Again BisexualOn this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) talk about The Triangle Shirtwaist Factory Fire, Bi-Pride, Summertime GEB, The Family Stone, our adorable throuple friendship and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)Support the show2021-08-1755 minA Podcast About GenderEMILY EVANS: She? We.This episode is with Gara's better half, actress and comedian Emily Evans (@hotgaycelebrity) Together, they talk about Anna Sophia Rob, things that aren't gay that are gay, finding queer friends, high school dances, Gossip Girl, Elite Gays and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)SOPHOMORE COMEDY SHOWhttps://www.eventbrite.com/e/sophomore-comedy-show-tickets-166163664995Support the show2021-08-1058 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: The GEBisode Part TwoThis episode is the second part to our GEB (gender euphoric bliss) extravaganza! Maggie (softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) discuss Trans utopias, gender euphoric tattoos, Non-Binary activities, p**p, bathroom culture, holding the door open for men, Lilo and Stitch and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)Support the show2021-08-0332 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: The GEBisode Part OneThis two part episode extravaganza is all about GEB (Gender Euphoric Bliss). Maggie (@Softie.Mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) discuss douche rooms, secret pleasures, what to wear at a piano recital, GEB clothes, piercings, business casual, the gay cold and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog) Support the show2021-07-2757 minA Podcast About GenderYOUNGMI MAYER: New Gender Just DroppedThis episode is with hilarious comedian and co-host of Feeling Asian Podcast, Youngmi Mayer (@ymmayer) Gara (@garararararara) and Youngmi discuss misogyny in the comedy world, Christianity, our femmessaince, performing gender, cancer season, TikTok drama and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)Support the show2021-07-2050 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Double StraightIn this kooky episode Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) discuss our dog park crushes, gender envy, WLW, sucking titties, haircuts, Walt Whitman and more!SOPHOMORE COMEDY SHOW RSVP: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/sophomore-comedy-show-tickets-162874021583THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOGSupport the show2021-07-1346 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Kissin' & Shittin'This week on DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) talk about first kisses, making out with gay boys, transphobic dogs, the IKEA Bisexual Couch, queer red flags, poop and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)Support the show2021-07-0655 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: The Pride EpisodeThis episode is all about pride!!!! Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) talk about going to The Dyke March, celebrating pride by yourself, CVS, inclusivity, Massachusetts, our queer ancestors, hot butches, Party Rock Queer Anthem and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)Support the show2021-06-2853 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: DYKE MARCH MINI-SODEMaggie (@softie.mag) and Gara (@garararararara) talk all about The NYC Dyke March and our plans to do a little EN(BA)BY meetup after the march on July 26! Full episode is available on Patreon!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)Support the show2021-06-2231 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Beginner's Guide to Queer ClubbingThis week Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) discuss their GPA's, breaking up with friends, free trials, trans firefighters, the clubbing bible, coming out at work, dollar slice pizza, GEB clothing and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)ASK US A QUESTION:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdUu0c0xq8fdChLtyIF-7q4bAqakTZSO1YkRFado2fl3ZBOLA/viewformSupport the show2021-06-151h 00A Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: PEEOOPOn this super fun, super wacky episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY, Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever), Gara (@gararararararara) talk about flirting FIRST, cringy high school phases, Regina Spektor, enby cartoon characters, how to feel hot, making out in bars and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)Support the show2021-06-0851 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Trans ArsonistThis week the Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) talk about girl scouts, "All Gender Camp", anxious attachment, dating men, Trans Eagle Scouts, sleepovers, building a fire, active listening and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog) Support the show2021-06-0157 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: All Doctors Are Bast*rdsThis week we are talking about our sexiest topic yet, healthcare! Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) talk about Kate Bush, wild nights in NYC, going to the doctor, Trans and Queer Healthcare, Trauma Informed Care, D.A.R.E. and More!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOGGENDER RESOURCES MASTER DOCUMENT:https://docs.google.com/document/d/1mBLf2ODC72Gp3cMTNKpNXaIYrx95ec57ncY_BCBgW04/edit?ts=60ac76dfSupport the show2021-05-2559 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Poly PocketsThis episode is all about Polyamory! Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararararara) answer questions about "Poly D" (polyamory) while talking about things like communicating with your partner, cocktails, hooking up, exploring your sexuality, our Summer Goals, open relationships and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)Support the show2021-05-1856 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Vagina Having FreaksOn this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY your favorite homos Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) discuss GEB smells, living in "The Big Apple", rich people's apartments, cohabiting, dating yourself, the deodorant binary, moving in with your partner and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)SEND US A QUESTION OR AN UPDATE:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdUu0c0xq8fdChLtyIF-7q4bAqakTZSO1YkRFado2fl3ZBOLA/viewformSupport the show2021-05-1159 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Drunk Girls Are AngelsThis week on DEAR EN(BA)BY we are talking about hair! Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararararara) talk about body hair, our favorite stores at the mall, barbers, the farmer's market, gender affirming haircuts, shaving your head, Delias and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)LIVE ZOOM SHOW IS THIS FRIDAY APRIL 30 @8PM! SUBSCRIBE TO THE PATREON TO WATCH!Support the show2021-04-271h 08A Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: The 420 Episode Pt. 2THIS IS PART TWO OF THE 420 EPISODE! So if you haven't listened to the first one yet, what are you doing? Go listen to that shit! Okay, in this wild adventure of an episode your favorite stoned hotties, Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararararara) talk about munchies, comfort youtube videos, snacking, being high at work, our most stoned in NYC moments, baby talk and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)Support the show2021-04-2048 minA Podcast About GenderREMY KASSIMIR: Real HouseThems of NYCThis week on the pod we have resident cool boy and virgo podcast king, Remy Kassimir (@remykassimir). Gara (@gararararararara) and Remy talk about their incredible podcast, How Cum, Stanley Tucci, their gender parents, The Real Housewives, the comedy world, coming out as Non-binary and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog) Support the show2021-04-1650 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: The 420 Episode Pt. 1It's here. The long awaited 420 episode. An episode so huge we had to separate it into two parts! Your favorite stoner boys Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararararara) possibly get high and discuss smoking at parties, sororities, the Non-binary flag, Mike Hawk, shaking ur booty, getting high before sex and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)Support the show2021-04-1347 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: John Green is My EnemyThis week Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (Garararararara) answer exciting questions about names, therapy and open pronouns. They discuss titillating topics like public enemy John Green, YA novels, email names, horrible coworkers and more!ASK US A QUESTION!https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdUu0c0xq8fdChLtyIF-7q4bAqakTZSO1YkRFado2fl3ZBOLA/viewformORDER MERCH!https://www.garalonning.com/enbabystoreSupport the show2021-04-061h 03A Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: The Pleasure DomeBasil (@whagever), Maggie (@softie.mag) and Gara (@gararararararara) go deeeeeeep this week talking about bisexuality vs. pansexuality, Zillow.com, men named Chip, femme boy energy, Peter Pan and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)EN(BA)BY MERCH: https://www.garalonning.com/enbabystoreSupport the show2021-03-3057 minA Podcast About GenderDylan Adler: Gender! The MusicalComedian Dylan Adler (@dylanadler_) is on the podcast this week! We talk (and sing) about going on tour, Eartha Kitt, our gender musicals, feeling embodied onstage, The Indigo Girls and more!LINKS TO ORGANIZATIONS SUPPORTING AAPI:RED CANARY SONG:https://www.redcanarysong.net/ASIAN AMERICANS ADVANCING JUSTICEhttps://www.advancingjustice-atlanta.org/THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)Support the show2021-03-2555 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Non-Binary People in Cars Coming OutThis week we answer your FAQ's!!!! This is the frequently asked questions episode! Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararararararara) discuss the Spotify algorithm, binders, the prud to slut pipeline, coming out to your parents, The Packers, packers and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)EN(BA)BY MERCH: https://www.garalonning.com/enbabystoreBABELAND COMPRESSION SHIRT https://www.babeland.com/sex-toys/p/BL1871/underworks/double-panel-compression-shirtTHE BINDER DRIVE https://www.binderdrive.com/SUBSCRIBE TO MY PATREON :)...2021-03-231h 04A Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: The Hot Goss EpisodeThis juicy episode is all about sex, betrayal, rumors and scandal! Basil (@whagever), Maggie (@softie.mag) and Gara (@gararararararara) talk about dogs they've buried, texting your ex, sexy secrets, fucking your friends, having children, making out to Leona Lewis and more!EN(BA)BY MERCH PREORDERhttps://www.garalonning.com/enbabystoreTHEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON :)Support the show2021-03-161h 06A Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Assigned Capricorn at BirthThis episode is all about astrology! Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) discuss their "big three", Gemini love, gender self care, Disney Gays, Taurus', texting your mom, Craft Beer and all things astrology!!! LISTENER QUESTION GOOGLE FORUMhttps://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdUu0c0xq8fdChLtyIF-7q4bAqakTZSO1YkRFado2fl3ZBOLA/viewformTHEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON :)Support the show2021-03-0959 minA Podcast About GenderELLIE DESAUTELS: Big Mullet EnergyThis week Gara (@garararararara) interviews actor and local wand maker Ellie Desautels (@ohyouknowellie) they talk about adventures in barista-ing, Gilmore Girls, affirming haircuts, Star Trek, being Trans in "the industry" and the perfect GEB day!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)SUPPORT THE SHOW BY SUBSCRIBING TO MY PATREON :)Support the show2021-03-0451 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: The Lesbian EpisodeHello Sharks! Today we bring you an episode all about dykes! It's The Lesbian Episode! On this incredible, horny, hottie episode Basil (@whagever), Maggie (@softie.mag) and Gara (@gararararararara) discuss parenting, he/him lesbians, Shark Tank, mega candle, Joan of Arc (Maggie in a past life), driving around with ur SO, coming out and all things gay!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)VIEW THE FULL EPISODE AND SUPPORT THE SHOW BY SUBSCRIBING TO OUR PATREON :)Support the show2021-03-0253 minA Podcast About GenderJUNIOR MINTT: PB&J and a Lemon La CroixThis week performer Junior Mintt (@juniormintt) is on the pod to talk about Amanda Bynes, being alone, gender songs, Mariah Carey, the Johnson Administration, coming out to your family and more!Junior Mintt's podcast, "Mo-Mintt of Truth" comes out every Wednesday wherever you get your podcasts, her Patreon link is https://www.patreon.com/Juniormintt and her venmo and cashapp is @juniormintt !THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)Support the show2021-02-261h 00A Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: ThembosThe three big thembos Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararararara) discuss Haim, the word GEB, trouble with TERFS, coming out to your coworkers and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)GOOGLE QUESTION FORM: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdUu0c0xq8fdChLtyIF-7q4bAqakTZSO1YkRFado2fl3ZBOLA/viewformPATREON: https://www.patreon.com/garalonningSupport the show2021-02-2353 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: B.Y.O.B. (Be Your Own Boyfriend)On this extra crush-worthy, Valentine's Day episode Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararararararara) have a very special guest on the pod this week, Gara's extremely tall boyfriend Jacob (@jacobpatrickbrooks)!!!! Together the four of them answer your questions and talk about weddings, masculinity, crush culture, breakups, Millie Bobby Brown and more!PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/garalonningGOOGLE LISTENER QUESTION FORM: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdUu0c0xq8fdChLtyIF-7q4bAqakTZSO1YkRFado2fl3ZBOLA/viewformTHEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)...2021-02-1659 minA Podcast About GenderJEENA BLOOM: Trans-iest SeasonGara interviews hilarious comedian and comedy birthmother, Jeena Bloom (@jeenabloom) they talk about overrated queer media, the documentary 'Disclosure', writing trans characters in film and tv, LA vs. NY and much more!PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/garalonningTHEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)Support the show2021-02-1256 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Mx. Frizzle/The High School EpisodeMaggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararararara) go all the way back to high school to answer your questions about uniforms, relationships, horny school dances, queer media, Kim Cattrall and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)GOOGLE QUESTION FORM: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdUu0c0xq8fdChLtyIF-7q4bAqakTZSO1YkRFado2fl3ZBOLA/viewformPATREON: https://www.patreon.com/garalonningSupport the show2021-02-0957 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Cheek to Cheek, Hole to HoleBasil (@whagever), Maggie (@softie.mag) and Gara (@garararararararara) are back answering your incredible gender questions! They answer some questions from our famous Google Form (link below) and talk about a huuuuge secret, The Lunesta Butterfly, our non-binary style, icon Colbie Caillat and BIG ANDRO!PATREON:https://www.patreon.com/garalonningGOOGLE FORM:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdUu0c0xq8fdChLtyIF-7q4bAqakTZSO1YkRFado2fl3ZBOLA/viewformTHEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)Support the show2021-02-0258 minA Podcast About GenderGRETA KLINE: Resting GEB FaceGara (@gararararararara) interviews literal icon and orb of light, Greta Kline (@frankiecombos) the lead singer of the band Frankie Cosmos, genius behind Franz Charcoal and just an incredible person/guest! You do not want to miss this spectacular episode. Greta and Gara talk about TikTok, our gender parents, Mandy Patinkin, "embodiment", Indigo Children and more!!!! https://www.patreon.com/garalonningTHEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)Support the show2021-01-2951 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Vines That Cured My Depression/The Self Care EpisodeMaggie (softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararararara) take a deep dive into self care this week. They talk about jade rollers, bubble baths, vine compilations, their lesbian elders and everything "self care"!GOOGLE QUESTION FORM: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdUu0c0xq8fdChLtyIF-7q4bAqakTZSO1YkRFado2fl3ZBOLA/viewformPATREON: https://www.patreon.com/garalonningTHEME SONG IS CRYBABY BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog) Support the show2021-01-2646 minA Podcast About GenderMILA MYLES: Niece-phewGara (@gararararararara) interviews the hilarious comedian, Mila Myles (@milamyles) this week. They talk about gendered titles, girls cross country and track (lol), coming out to your co-workers and more!Theme song is Crybaby by Destroy Boys (@destroyboysband) Album art by Anna Boulog (@annaboulog) GOOGLE LISTENER QUESTION FORM: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdUu0c0xq8fdChLtyIF-7q4bAqakTZSO1YkRFado2fl3ZBOLA/viewformPATREON: https://www.patreon.com/garalonningSupport the show2021-01-1944 minA Podcast About GenderALEXIA RODITIS: GendercoreGara (@gararararararara) interviews the incredible, the amazing, the absolute badass, Alexia Roditis (@alexiaroditis) who is, if you can believe the front person for the band Destroy Boys who IF YOU CAN BELIEVE does the theme song to this podcast. We talk about our gender songs, moshing and how to meet queer friends! PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/garalonningSupport the show2021-01-141h 00A Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: A Good Cis SamaritanBasil (@whagever), Maggie (@softie.mag) and Gara (@garararararararara) talk this week about our lord and savior Elliot Page, underrated queer media, how to be a "good cis samaritan" and more! LISTENER QUESTION GOOGLE FORM: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeReqf-vjnTXpNd55UgH0DDU_J92z5aabgGZoJzv_Y4LJTM_w/viewform?usp=sf_linkPATREON: https://www.patreon.com/garalonningTheme song is 'Crybaby' by Destroy Boys (@destroyboysband) Album art is by Anna Boulog (@annaboulog)Support the show2021-01-1245 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Jesus Christ, Queer IconBasil (@whagever), Maggie (@softie.mag) and Gara (@garararararararara) are over zoom this week talking about the holiGAYS, their New Years gender resolutions, being disruptive and their 90's gender songs.PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/garalonningTheme song is 'Crybaby' by Destroy Boys (@destroyboysband) album art is @annaboulog Support the show2021-01-0553 minA Podcast About GenderASHLEY GAVIN: Mrs. CismericaThis week Gara (@garararararara) interviews their FAIRY PODMOTHER, Ashley Gavin (@ashgavs). She is a comedian, scorpio and co-host of the podcast "We're Having Gay Sex" where Gara moonlights as the resident 'Youth in the Booth'. They talk about cis discomfort surrounding gender, what Ashley would be like if she were straight and long-haired lesbians. PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/garalonning Theme song is 'Crybaby' by Destroy Boys (@destroyboysband) and album art by Anna Boulog (@annaboulog) Support the show2020-12-3156 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: The Drunk EpisodeBasil (@whagever), Maggie (@softie.mag) and Gara (@garararararara) down two unexpectedly expensive bottles of red wine and talk about names to call your non-binary partner, weddings, relationships and the word "spouse"!Listen to the full episode and watch the video on my Patreon!https://www.patreon.com/garalonningTheme song is 'Crybaby' by Destroy Boys (@destroyboysband) Album art is by Anna Boulog (@annaboulog)Support the show2020-12-291h 02A Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: A Kinsey One and a Tight Little SkirtBasil (@whagever), Maggie (@softie.mag) and Gara (@garararararara) talk about their first iPods, conspiracy theories (kinda), uncomfortable questions, their prom experiences and getting VUL-NER-ABLE! It's a fun one. Listen to the full episode and see a video of it on my Patreon!Theme song is 'Crybaby' by Destroy Boys (@destroyboysband) Album art by Anna Boulog (@annaboulog)PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/garalonningSupport the show2020-12-2257 minA Podcast About GenderCHALA.: A Demon Looking for a SuccubusMy guest this week is Chala. (@chala.gram). They are a chef, a writer, a model and just the coolest person in the universe. We talk about the app Lex, hair, taking up space in the Trans community and more!My Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/garalonningTheme song is 'Crybaby' by Destroy Boys (@destroyboysband) album art by Anna Boulog (@annaboulog) Support the show2020-12-171h 02A Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: The Coming Out EpisodeMaggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) tell (some) of their coming out stories and talk about being "trans enough".Theme song is 'Crybaby' by Destroy Boys (@destroyboysband) Album art is by Anna Boulog (@annaboulog)https://www.patreon.com/garalonningSupport the show2020-12-1551 minA Podcast About GenderTRANSNORMATIVITY: Gender CoffeeMy INCREDIBLE guest this week is A (@transnormativity). They are an artist, a photographer, a tattoo artist and just a wonderful person and interview. We talk about instagram, nicknames, GEB tattoos, our gender drinks and more!MY PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/garalonningTheme song is 'Crybaby' by Destroy Boys (@destroyboys) Album art Anna Boulog (@annaboulog)Support the show2020-12-1058 minA Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: Cis People Do the Darndest ThingsMaggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) discuss gender reveal parties, their "g*rlhood" and how cis people do the darndest things!Theme song is 'Crybaby' by Destroy Boys (@destroyboysband) Album art is by Anna Boulog (@annaboulog)Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/garalonningSupport the show2020-12-0850 minA Podcast About GenderJES TOM: Return To FrogGara talks to certified hottie and comedian, Jes Tom (@jesthekid) about our gender movies, frogs (Non-binary icons) the movie "Cats" and more!PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/garalonningSupport the show2020-11-301h 03A Podcast About GenderDEAR EN(BA)BY: We All Spawn From An Alan CummingBasil (@whagever), Maggie (@softie.mag) and Gara introduce their super adorable best friend/roommate friendship. They answer questions like if their gender was a movie what movie would it be and what Alan Cumming they spawn from. Also we intro our favorite word, GEB! Theme song is 'Crybaby' by Destroy Boys and album art is by Anna Boulogne (@annaboulog).Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/garalonningSupport the show2020-11-2852 min
How C*m34 Womb Havers (Ashley Gavin + Gara Lonning)Why don't cis men know about the flat tongue technique, and why won't some people take advice once you tell them how you like it? We're breaking it down with the host of ‘We’re Having Gay Sex’, Ashley Gavin and her 'Youth in the Booth' Gara Lonning. These two hilarious comedians discuss how their podcast blew up and how Gara keeps Ashley from getting cancelled. Gara gives us tips on being in an open relationship while Ashley gives some advice on her favored techniques for giving oral, and shines a light on common mistakes people make when going down on...2020-11-171h 14
Dyking Out - a Lesbian and LGBTQIA Podcast for Everyone!Non-binary w/ Gara LonningWe're going outside the binary this week to discuss an identity that an increasing number of folks in the LGBTQ+ community are embracing. Comedian and performance artist Gara Lonning (We're Having Gay Sex) joins us to explain to Carolyn's mom (sort of) what it means to be non-binary. We dyke out about common misconceptions and the intersection with trans identity. Also, how do you talk to family about it? What should you do if you accidentally misgender someone? And, why should you never ask an enby friend for a "pass?" Plus, we introduce a political conspiracy theory that is...2020-09-081h 35
Alone At LunchDrive Your Tractor to School Day with Gara LonningThis week we are joined by the very talented comic Gara Lonning! We chat about growing up in Iowa, Millennials vs Zoomers, giving all our money to UCB, gender identity, and so much more. We have really great discussions that make us laugh, reflect, and cry (okay maybe we didn't cry)! Give it a listen!
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Listen to Gara's Podcast: We're Having Gay Sex
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Email us! Aloneatlunch@gmail.com
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