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The Dreamer Girl PodcastExperimentingHi guys, On this week's episode, I share some thoughts about experimenting with different ideas and really enjoying your journey. Gbemi 2021-11-2116 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastConsistencyHi there!Hope you are doing great! This week on the podcast, I share some things I've learnt about consistency. Enjoy. 2021-11-1417 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastImmediate GratificationHi guys, This is one of my fave episodes of the podcast so far! and I will come to listen to it again and again.. Wrapped up the conversation on sex and a couple of other things. Enjoy!Best,Gbemi 2021-11-0718 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastHow Far is Too Far?Hi guys, We are still talking about sex this week, almost done with the topic..haha!, but here's to discussing a question I get asked so often!Enjoy.Best,Gbemi 2021-10-3115 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastBlissful IgnoranceHi guys, This week's episode is a big sister/concerned friend type of episode. I'm just sharing some things that have been on my mind about relationships, sex and wokeness. Enjoy!2021-10-2418 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastUnpacking BaggageHi there, I hope you are doing great. This week on the podcast, I talk about why we act the way we do. Enjoy. 2021-10-1714 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastSexual HealingHi!I hope you are doing okay. This week's episode is about some thoughts on sex and how we come to our perspective on the topic. The episode contains some information around sexual violence and I know that's a topic that demands sensitivity and so if that's triggering for you, please skip this one. This is the episode that was scheduled to come right after the episode on identity and self-esteem (Episode 80 - Rating Yourself) but as you probably know, the past couple of weeks have been quite challenging and not as planned at a...2021-10-0316 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastAador Lives On!A very unique episode, celebrating my aunt's life and sharing some thoughts on grief. 2021-09-1920 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastRating YourselfHi guys, On this week's episode, I talk about self-image, self-esteem, comparison and all those things we know but need to be reminded of constantly :) This is one I would come back to often. Enjoy and share. Thank you!2021-09-1217 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastThoughts on ComparisonHi guys, This week on the podcast, I share some things I'm learning about comparison. Enjoy. 2021-09-0515 minThe Dreamer Girl Podcast#MainCharacterEnergyComing through with that main character energy...hahaHi guys, On this week's episode, I share my thoughts on the topic of being/acting like the main character in your life. I also talk through my own experiences and a recent fashion epiphany :DEnjoy. 2021-08-2915 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastRaison d'êtreHi there :)On this week's episode, I talk about setting intentions and my desires for the podcast among other things. Enjoy. 2021-08-2215 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastNuanced CareOn this week's episode, I talk about a project I was privileged to carry out in July and the lessons I learnt...sort of a life update. Enjoy. 2021-08-1516 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastRound NextHi there, I hope you're doing great. On this week's episode, I share some things I've been thinking about with respect to the second half of the year. Enjoy. 2021-08-0816 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastIt's OkayIt's okay...not to have it all figured out?This week on the podcast I talk about the pressure to have "purpose", a plan, a 5-year plan, a 10-year plan etc. and my thoughts on that. EnjoyGbemi.2021-06-2718 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastSupporters' ClubOn this week's episode, I share my thoughts and stance on competition, comparison, finding life's purpose, fandom and stardom. Enjoy!Love, Gbemi 2021-06-2017 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastYour FavesOn this week's episode, I talk about evaluating our faves and understanding what exactly we are mirroring from the people we admire. Enjoy!Best,Gbemi 2021-06-1315 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastDavid MomentHi guys, On this week's episode, I share a collection of my thoughts on the recent happenings in Nigeria. Best,Gbemi 2021-06-0618 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastFriendzoneAlmost titled this 'awkward'!Hi guys, On this week's episode, I talk about the friendzone, escaping the friendzone, staying there, friends with benefits and other random things that eventually made sense. Enjoy. 2021-05-2918 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastMaking and Keeping FriendsHi guys, This week on the podcast I share some things I'm learning about making and keeping friends.Enjoy. Best,Gbemi 2021-05-2217 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastLoving PeopleOn this week's episode, I talk about becoming a lover of people. Enjoy 2021-05-1616 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastWalls for DaysThis week on the podcast, I get a little personal and talk about my friendship history and challenges.Hope it's helpful! 2021-05-0917 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastA little dose of encouragementJust dropping by with some encouragement!- Gbemi2021-05-0216 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastDo What Makes You HappyOne of those "just wanted to remind you..." episodes. It's a good one. Best,Gbemi2021-04-2519 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastIn ChargeHi there, This week on the podcast, I talk about schedules, employers, feeling like you have some control over your life, etc.Enjoy.2021-04-1817 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastThought HabitsHi guys, This week on the podcast I continue talking about how not to fall through the cracks. I discuss thought patterns /habits and building a thought life that can lead to the life you want. Enjoy. Best,Gbemi 2021-04-1118 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastHow are you?This week on the podcast, I talk about some of my recent mental health struggles and the importance of asking for help. Gbemi 2021-04-0414 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastWhat if it doesn't work out?Hi there, This week on the podcast, I answer the question "what if it doesn't work out?" drawing on everything from faith to Aristotle's philosophies. I hope this gives you something to think about and even encourages you. Gbemi 2021-03-2815 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastEffortHi guys, This week on the podcast I talk about the top regrets of people in the final days of their lives and share some thoughts on effort. I hope you find the episode helpful :)Gbemi 2021-03-2114 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastRegretsHi guys, This week on the podcast, I continue the discussion around the question "What's the point?", I talk about regrets and cancelling shame. Enjoy. - Gbemi 2021-03-1416 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastMy Faith JourneyHi guys, This week's episode is more personal than usual (I guess that's the direction the podcast has been heading recently) and oh so important, probably the most important episode so far. I hope it gives you a lot to think about, celebrate, reflect on, etc. Enjoy!2021-03-0723 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastDon't Settle (Week 9 of 52)This is probably my favourite episode yet..haha...this week I talk about the week I had, concerned relatives and their opinions on "when will you marry?" as well as the importance of not marrying a mediocre person (a.k.a not settling).Enjoy!2021-02-2822 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastQuestionsWhy do you do the things you do? This week on the podcast, I talk about some recent personal experiences and why it's important to question yourself. Enjoy!2021-02-2114 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastTo be Loved!Hi guys, Happy Valentine's Day!On this week's episode, I talk about love, acceptance, wholeness, getting information, dream romance and so on! I also started off with a little karaoke because why not?! haha..learning to play more *in public*Enjoy!2021-02-1416 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastWeek 6 of 52Hi beautiful, This week on the podcast, I talk about questions, new year resolutions, making better decisions, leaving scathing reviews or not, and so on!Enjoy!2021-02-0718 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastWeek 5 of 52Hi beautiful people, The new episode of the podcast is up! On this week's episode, I talk about simplicity, contentment, the pandemic of insecurity and all that good stuff. It's a short episode (keeping them short and simple :) :D) but still really good. Enjoy. 2021-01-3114 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastWeek 4 of 52Hi guys!This week on the podcast I talk shelving experiences, accountability, bringing things to the light, people-pleasing, "direction over distractions", to name a few.Enjoy!2021-01-2418 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastWeek 3 of 52Hi there!Hope you are doing well. This week on the podcast, I talked about honesty, instruction vs. experience, accountability, financial reset, and so on. I had a blast on the episode and I hope the points are as helpful to you as they are to me!Best,Gbemi 2021-01-1716 minThe Dreamer Girl Podcast2/52 - The Burden of PotentialHi there!This week on the podcast I talk about handling the burden of potential; how to deal with all "expected to do" things in life. I talk briefly about family, love and "testimony time: how I met my husband" videos on YouTube (#tangent!!)I hope you enjoy it. Gbemi.2021-01-1024 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastWeek 1 of 52Maybe I'll be your calendar this year *hahaha*Happy new year!! This week on the podcast I talk about being back, rest, the future of the podcast, all the new year usuals (cue goalsetting gist, habit loops, planning and all that good stuff), passionate romance !! (can you tell I almost typed that in all caps, haha, why? I'm a total romantic) so, again, passionate romance a.k.a Man like Rege (or Simon, don't judge me! if you've watched Bridgerton, you likely get it too). LOL. Well, it's a fun episode and I hope you e...2021-01-0322 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastSigning OutThe last episode for the year!! Whoop Whoop!Thanks to everyone that has been on this journey with me. On this week's episode, I share some of my lessons from 2020 and how they're influencing my plans for 2021. Enjoy!2020-11-2917 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastWrapping up!The penultimate episode for the season..Woweee!! We've come a long way. Can you believe we're in the last couple of weeks in November?On this week's episode, I share some thoughts on "wrapping up" the year.Enjoy. 2020-11-2216 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastHumdrumHow Gbemi got her groove back..lool..no..but that would be an interesting episode..hahaOn this week's episode, I talk about inserting joy into your life and enjoying even the humdrum moments. 2020-11-1514 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastThe Principle of the PathHow do you end up where you want to go?2020-11-0817 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastSeasonsThis week's episode is about enjoying where you're at. It's one of those topics that I constantly have to remind myself about. I hope this resonates with you. Enjoy.2020-11-0115 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastMusingsThis week on the podcast, I talk about the protests, the Lekki massacre, the indifferent/cruel responses from those in power, my feelings through it all, etc.I hope my musings offer some comfort and support in the midst of everything.2020-10-2513 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastOffendedGiven everything that's happening, how to we communicate in spite of offence?2020-10-1816 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastTaking StockOn this week's episode, I talk about maintaining hope, addressing the issues all around us and taking stock. 2020-10-1117 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastSuperstar YouOn this week's episode, I talk about how we see ourselves, "self-esteem", and how to develop a better view of ourselves. Enjoy. 2020-10-0415 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastHonour"This is going to be lit!" - I say that every week but this episode is sooooooo lit! haha..I enjoyed recording it so much and I know it will really be helpful. How to cultivate honour, why and so on. Enjoy. 2020-09-2717 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastAriseFrom my heart to yours :)2020-09-2014 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastDecidingDeciding..decidingThis week on the podcast I talk about making decisions and not mistakes..Enjoy!2020-09-1318 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastDealing With DisappointmentsHi guys!This week on the podcast I talk about dealing with disappointments. Some things that have helped me keep moving in spite of the "NO"s. Enjoy.2020-09-0619 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastVOICESWho are you listening to?What are you saying?What's your sound?This week, I explore the topic, 'voices'Enjoy. 2020-08-3015 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastThe Idealists"Who will I be? It's up to me"...Demi Lovato, Camp Rock...hahaOn this week's episode, I pour out my heart on values, and standards, and scandals, and corruption. I hope this gives you a lot to think about. Enjoy!2020-08-2321 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastNotice MeThis week's episode is really personal..haha..I talk about owning who you are and giving yourself permission to grow. Enjoy! and shareThank you2020-08-1617 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastStaying PowerHi fellow dreamers!.. hahaThis week on the podcast I talk about 'staying'; staying on course, staying committed to a plan, staying with something you started. How do you stay when you're tired? How do you stay when nothing seems to be happening? Why should you stay? Enjoy!2020-08-0916 minThe Dreamer Girl Podcast'In My Feelings' - ImpatientWhen will it be my time? When will it be my turn? On this week's episode, I talk about some things I've learnt when it comes to impatience..Enjoy!2020-08-0221 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastPolitically CorrectThis episode will hopefully give you a lot to think about. How do you say the things you want to say?What is your offense-quotient?Enjoy. 2020-07-2624 minThe Dreamer Girl Podcast'In My Feelings' - OnlineBecause we can all use some truth and a good laugh *haha*I know being 'online' is not a feeling but it has become so central to our lives that it influences a lot of our feelings. On this episode, I 'rant', I 'go in', I 'get passionate', I offer 'gist' all on the topic of being online. Really enjoyed recording this episode, I know you'll enjoy listening to it. Also, I'm sorry that there are some audio glitches this time.2020-07-1919 minThe Dreamer Girl Podcast'In My Feelings' - JealousHey beautiful people, I hope you've been well even with everything that's going on in the world. I'm still on the 'In My Feelings' series and this week I tackle jealousy; a feeling we sadly know too well. I really enjoyed recording this!Enjoy. 2020-07-1222 minThe Dreamer Girl Podcast'In My Feelings' - TiredHave you been feeling tired lately? tired of everything that's happening, of day-to-day life. On this week's episode, I talk about the ways I've been dealing with feelings of tiredness and just some tips generally. Enjoy!2020-07-0522 minThe Dreamer Girl Podcast'In My Feelings' - Lonely StillThe rest of the conversation on loneliness--I talk about 'square-circle' relationships, previous break-ups, finding the one, maybe being the one..interesting stuff. Enjoy!2020-06-2814 minThe Dreamer Girl Podcast'In My Feelings' - LonelyHi guys, I hope you are doing well. This is the second episode of the 'In My Feelings' series and I talk about being lonely, being single, being boo-less, being the solo-watcher of your netflix shows..lol...it's a really fun episode and I hope you enjoy it.As always, I'm looking forward to hearing back from you. I'd like to know if the episode was helpful. Also, please share the podcast with your network. Thank you!2020-06-2115 minThe Dreamer Girl Podcast'In My Feelings' - OverwhelmedHi guys, I hope you are doing well. This is the first episode of the 'In My Feelings' series and I talk about how I've dealt with being overwhelmed by life, the world, the future and everything really. I hope that you find encouragement and helpful tips on this episode, I think you will! As always, I'm looking forward to hearing back from you. I'd like to know if the episode was helpful and any other tips you might have for dealing with overwhelmedness. Also, please share the podcast with your network. Thank you!2020-06-1425 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastThe RemixThis is a gist episode..I share the different phases I have gone through with respect to COVID-19; the lessons I've learnt, the shows I have seen, the mistakes I've made. There's stuff to laugh about and also stuff to learn. Enjoy!2020-06-0719 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastAlready ThereSomeday, you'll have the life of your dreams...but what do you do right now? This episode is about that. Enjoy!2020-05-3112 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastWhen We Were YoungOn this episode, I talk about "being young"... Enjoy!2020-05-2415 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastTime Time TimeSo I wasn't sure whether to post this episode or not..I mean..what is time these days? haha...I had scheduled this episode earlier and after listening to it (and having my attitude checked by it! haha), I decided to let you decide.This is a strange time and I know many of us feel highly unmotivated. However, we're hopeful that things will get better and so, your dreams, your destiny, your purpose don't have to take a break or go on the back bench. Yes, rest as much as possible, do things you enjoy, maintain y...2020-05-1715 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastLet's Talk About MoneyMy people! (haha..I contemplated writing "guys" instead) how are you doing? So this week's episode is about money and it is so good! Trust me...it's one of the more serious, mellow, "leave you with things to think about" and I hope you enjoy!Thanks as always. Please share and send me feedback.Stay safe!2020-05-1017 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastMe and StuffI probably have to start listening to this episode everyday because the gist of it is something I so easily forget. On this episode, I share my thoughts on fashion, minimalism, materialism, wealth, success and so much more. Enjoy!2020-05-0320 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastThe Quest"What's happening in the world?""Seek out new experiences""Writing your get out plan" haha...the number of strange things I said on this week's episode..I did include something about movies though...so not everything I said was "anti-quarantine"Because this is the internet and taking things out of context has become a thing, it's important to say I'm not against the quarantine and social distancing! This is one of the episodes from the archives and I was just laughing at some of the things I said because of how different the world is r...2020-04-2618 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastPretendingThis has to be one of my favourite episodes and I do like all the episodes a lot so you can imagine how much I like this one. This is my "take the limits off your mind" kinda episode. I'm calling you to be honest with yourself and to reach for the dreams in your heart. Let's come out of this quarantine sharper, with clearer vision, with no limitations on, amen? (And we're coming out of this okay? don't lose hope. We'll keep praying, keep adhering to the instructions, this thing will pass over!)Enjoy the episode...2020-04-1916 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastPurpose...from the archivesSo we're still on the purpose talk. You were made with intention, I want you to know that. You were created for something. You were formed, not out of boredom or "just because". There's a sound you have been called to make on the earth. On this episode, I do a "throwback" to a chat from last year. I was jumpy, excited, *covers face*, must have had a good day or something so the episode is more upbeat than usual *haha* but I included every bit of it because there's a lot of value there. In the m...2020-04-1219 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastPurposeWhat a unique couple of months we've had?! How are you doing in self-isolation? How is "sheltering-in-place" going? I know these days are tough but we are going to be alright. We're stronger than this and an end will come to this crisis by God's grace. Stay strong, stay hopeful. This week's episode is about purpose, the need for it, ways to find it and so on. Seasons like this come with room for reflection and I feel thinking about our life's purpose is never a bad idea. Enjoy.2020-04-0518 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastPacing YourselfThis episode focuses on something I come back to ever so often. As always, I know you're getting your fair share (if not more) of COVID information so that's not what I'm offering on this episode.Do you ever feel burnt out? Like you're always running, gasping for breath in your life? On this episode, I talk about finding a pace that works, comparison, and so on and so forth.Enjoy! and stay safe.2020-03-2918 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastPicking Your StruggleIt has been a trying time and I hope you're doing fine. Please take good care of yourself and refuse to succumb to anxiety and fear.This episode is not about COVID-19 *sad smile* we can all use a break every now and then from the influxLife is not always easy and on this episode I talk about what choice we have in that, with respect to career and dreams among other things. Enjoy.2020-03-2215 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastAppetiteThis is definitely one of my favourite episodes so far. Don't worry there's nothing about the coronavirus, I hope you're doing fine though and staying safe! Don't worry, we'll make it over this! *praying hands*On this episode, I ask "What are you craving? What do you want out of life?"I'm letting you in on a conversation I have with myself often; when I get lazy or tired or distracted.There's a lot to think about on this one! Enjoy!2020-03-1520 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastHabitsSometimes, you've just got to catch yourself in your own cycles! There are inefficiencies to eliminate, things to change, lessons to learn. On this episode, I talk about habits, the things I've learnt from the 'experts' and so much more.Enjoy!2020-03-0821 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastDream TeamIt takes a team to make the dream work. It's hard to go at life and your dreams alone. On this episode, I talk about getting the help you need. 2020-03-0117 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastDeath to the SquadBad energyFake peopleUnfriendly friendsBad belle...the list goes on...how do you keep them far away? how do you not become one of them? Last week, I talked about getting your community together. On this episode, I talk about keeping that community together.I would say enjoy but this episode might be a bit uncomfortable *big grin*2020-02-2314 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastCommunityYou're probably going to need a pen for this one. On this episode, I talk about the people you need in your life, how to get your community in order, how to develop a support system and all that good stuff. Enjoy!As always, thank you for listening.2020-02-1621 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastThat Thing Called LoveThis is one for the books *hahaha* On this episode, I talk about love, connecting with 'the one' on your wild adventure called life! I share some personal experiences (for all the 'investigative journalists' who would try to permutate and combine to decode what I coded *side eye* *cheeky grin* enjoy!).You are going to enjoy this episode and come off with some things to think about!Happy Valentine's day (I guess in advance)2020-02-0918 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastHigh Standards, Low StressThis episode hits home! I have to remind myself of these things over and over again. If you've ever felt overwhelmed or anxious because of your goals and plans for yourself, then this episode is for you. If you want to be excellent at everything you do without sacrificing your peace, this episode is for you. 2020-02-0222 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastGoals and GoalSettingOn this episode, I talk about the importance of setting goals and helpful tips I have discovered along the way. 2020-01-2516 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastThemesI guess we have to start getting serious about the year..Can you believe we're in the third week already?On this episode, I'm talking about themes and painting a picture for the new year.Enjoy!2020-01-1912 minThe Dreamer Girl PodcastWelcome to the New Year! Happy 2020 again!On this episode, I talk about the opportunity that a new year is and ways to deal with cynicism and overwhelmedness.We have a great year ahead of us, we need to feel like it!2020-01-1213 min
The Dreamer Girl PodcastThe OpenerHappy 2020!On this episode, I talk about the podcast, progress from last year, my struggles with self-doubt and the space between where you are and where you want to be.The whole podcast is about walking with you on the way to your dream life, understanding that everyday is part of that dream life.2020-01-0111 min