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Eager to Please PodcastEpisode 45 - Why are Women so Fed Up with Gemma HartleyOn a daily basis, women shoulder much of the responsibility for meeting the needs of others. This manifests in countless ways, both at home and in the workplace. We carry the mental load required to keep our households and lives running smoothly—whether we want to or not—and this largely invisible, exhausting work is far from a typical 9-to-5. It is constant, so it’s no wonder so many women feel frustrated and depleted from pouring themselves into this often thankless role.
I had the absolute pleasure of sitting down with journalist Gemma Hartley and author of the book Fed Up: E...
2025-11-1737 min
My Sister's A TherapistJust Say NoHow to disappoint others and why it's important! The philosophy of The We Do Not Care Club, The Big Lebowski, and The Former Airport Chauffeur. Sponsored by Function Health! Function Health- Give us your blood!References:Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward: by Gemma HartleyDr. Laurie Santos on The Happiness Lab podcastMerriam-WebsterLearning to disappoint people: Emily LeySelf-Silencing Is Making Women Sick: Maytal Eyal, PhDDon’t let me down: how to get ove...
2025-08-1440 min
Liberating MotherhoodS2 Ep7: Why is patriarchy so afraid of women's anger? With Gemma HartleyWomen are angry, and rightfully so. Yet everywhere we go, men tell us we are too angry, and that if we were just nicer about our oppression, they’d knock if off. Anger, though, is key to women’s liberation. Writer Gemma Hartley is here to tell us why.
About Gemma Hartley (and where to find her)
Gemma Hartley is a freelance writer with a BA in writing from The University of Nevada, Reno. She is author of FED UP: Emotional Labor, Women and The Way Forward. She has written a new book, No One Loves an An...
2025-05-1447 min
Ed Stott & The Big Life QuestionsTired of Carrying It All? How to Share the Mental Load with Gemma HartleyBack in 2015, journalist Gemma Hartley wrote an article for Harper's Bazaar that went viral. The article was about emotional labor & it really hit home for so many people - in fact 2 BILLION people read it. It led to Gemma writing a book on the topic & coming up with some real solutions to this incredibly familiar experience. Gemma is the author of Fed Up; Navigating & Redefining Emotional Labour For Good. CONNECT WITH US Connect with That's Helpful on Instagram. Find Gemma on Instagram & via her website. BOOKS Fed Up; Navigating & Redefining Emoti...
2025-04-1442 min
Dear Sugars Rewind: Emotional Labor This episode was originally published on May 5th, 2018.
Remembering the grocery list, coordinating with the babysitter, making food for the potluck, scheduling a get-together with the in-laws: These are some of the invisible tasks that (most) women exclusively do in their romantic relationships — and the list goes on and on.
Like a modern-day Greek chorus, women from across the country wrote in to the Dear Sugars inbox echoing identical inequalities in their relationships with their husbands and boyfriends. The Sugars commiserate with this aggrieved chorus along with Gemma Hartley, the writer who set off a na...
2025-04-1244 min
No More Hiding156. How to address 'banter' in the workplace for a truly inclusive culture with Tim HartleyHow to address 'banter' in the workplace for a truly inclusive culture Today we have Tim Hartley on the show. With 20 years experience in the rail sector, Tim led the growth of GB Railfreight since 2020, as Business Development Director. He has had full P&L Accountability for the Intermodal market which has doubled in size during his tenure. He was accountable for growing revenue across the business by over 50%. Tim led sales activity across all market sectors. He ran the HR function, Marketing, Public Affairs and Communication as well as Chairing the technology review group. P...
2025-03-2534 min
Burnout to Thriving50 | The Invisible Load: Breaking Free from Emotional Labor's Hidden CostAre you constantly the unofficial therapist in your workplace? The one remembering birthdays, managing team conflicts, and smoothing everyone's emotional wrinkles? In this eye-opening episode of Burnout to Thriving, Cecilia Mannella dives into the exhausting reality of emotional labor – that invisible weight high-achieving women carry that leads to burnout. Learn the science behind this gendered burden and discover practical strategies to lighten your load without being labeled "difficult."Episode Highlights:- The surprising history of emotional labor research (it was only recognized in 1983!)- Why women do 2.5 times more emotional labor in heterosexual re...
2025-02-2532 min
Reading WritersBring A Pen: Emma Robinson on Dianne Brill’s Boobs, Boys, and High HeelsJo is refreshed by Trouble in the Cotswalds by Rebecca Tope but Charlotte quickly ruins their peace by connecting the sex in Heather Lewis’s violent novel Notice with Miranda July’s NBA-shortlisted All Fours. The effervescent Emma Robinson joins to share her love for Dianne Brill’s Boobs, Boys, and High Heels, which inspires further reflection on 90s era beauty books and instruction manuals.Other books mentioned in this episode: Steven Saylor’s Murder on the Appian Way, Rachel Cusk’s Aftermath, Gemma Hartley’s Fed Up, Shelia Heti’s Motherhood, Bobbi Brown’s Teenage Beauty, Amanda B...
2024-11-131h 07
Go Help Yourself: A Comedy Self-Help Podcast to Make Life Suck LessFinding Balance in Modern RelationshipsOn this episode of GHY, Misty shares an article from Good Housekeeping about The Wobbly Work of Finding Relationship Balance by author and friend of the podcast Gemma Hartley.If you'd like to hear our episode covering Gemma's viral Harpers Bazaar article titled Women Aren't Nags, We're Just Fed Up, you can do so here. You can also listen to our episode interviewing Gemma on her book Fed Up here.Have a question, a story you'd like to share, or a topic request? Get in touch with us! Email us at gohelpyourselfpodcast@gmail...
2024-10-2224 min
The Deal With Animals with Marika S. Bell99. Reintroductions and Management with Dr Liz Peterson, Dr. Julie Young, and Dr. Rachel Chock (S10)Send us a textEpisode 6 of Series 10: Anthropogenic Behavior Change TranscriptWe discuss tactics such as habitat restoration, population augmentation, and ecosystem recovery to protect diverse species and ecosystems while minimizing conflicts. Guests: Dr. Elizabeth Peterson is an Assistant Professor at the Department of Biological Sciences, Eastern Illinois University. In the Elizabeth K. Peterson Lab she uses integrative research methods to study how anthropogenic stressors impact behavioral responses and adaptive life history strategies that are important for fitness at the individual and population levels, to develop methods to i...
2024-05-1349 min
The Feminist Mom PodcastMoms Are Fed Up with Gemma HartleyGemma Hartley is a writing coach, freelance journalist, and author of Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward. She has spoken about emotional labor and the mental load around the world, and her writing has been featured in Marie Claire, Harper's Bazaar, The Washington Post, and many others. She is passionate about creating a world in which invisible and domestic labor is supported by both partners and public policy alike. Mentioned in this episode:Fair Play with Eve RodskyRage Becomes Her by Soraya C...
2024-02-0652 min
Nobody Told Me!Gemma Hartley: ...that dividing emotional labor in a relationship is a long processHave you ever heard the term, "emotional labor"? It's that invisible, unappreciated caring you do for other people. You're about to hear a lot about it as we talk with our guest, journalist Gemma Hartley, whose viral article "Women Aren't Nags, We're Just Fed Up" was viewed more than two BILLION times! She's the author of, "Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward". Her website is http://www.gemmahartley.com/
2023-12-2828 min
Town Hall Seattle Civics Series341. Amanda Montei and Kristi Coulter with Gemma Hartley: Ambition, Women, and WorkMany parents struggle with the physicality of caring for children, but even more with the growing lack of autonomy new moms may feel in their personal and professional lives. Join us for an evening with Amanda Montei, author of Touched Out: Motherhood, Misogyny, Consent, and Control, and Kristi Coulter, author of Exit Interview: The Life and Death of My Ambitious Career. Moderated by Gemma Hartley, author of Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward, Montei and Coulter will discuss the state of ambition for women, the often hidden labors of both parenthood and gender, emotional labor...
2023-11-221h 03
You, Me, and EnnuiEpisode 2: The Quest for Better Communication in Relationships – With Gemma HartleyJournalist Gemma Hartley was getting increasingly frustrated by the unfair division of invisible labor in her home. So, she wrote about it for Harper's Bazaar, and her article resonated enough with others to be viewed more than two billion times. So what does a more equitable partnership look like? Well, it starts with better communication. In this episode, Gemma talks with Mary Kate about having difficult conversations, setting healthy boundaries, and how effective communication can help our relationships thrive.
Show Notes:
Guest: Gemma Hartley, author of “Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forw...
2023-09-2728 min
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2023-09-0100 min
Earn Your HappyHow To Reach $1 Billion In Sales While Balancing Family And Personal Growth With Veena Jetti, Multifamily Investor And Founder Of Vive FundsIn this episode, Veena Jetti, an incredible multifamily investor and founder of Vive Funds, joins me to dive into real estate investment, personal growth, and inclusion. Veena has just surpassed $1 billion in transactions, primarily due to her dedication to both professional success and emotional well-being. She is a featured speaker at the upcoming Girlfriends and Business event, and today, Veena shares her insights on achieving a work-life balance, overcoming imposter syndrome, and navigating emotional labor.Veena is a huge advocate for diversity and inclusivity in traditionally male-dominated fields. Drawing from her experience as a woman of color...
2023-08-2857 min
Emotionally UnfuckedThe Invisible Work of Emotional Labor with Gemma HartleyOn this episode of Emotionally Unfucked, we welcome Gemma Hartley, author and writing coach, as a guest to talk to us about her book Fed Up. Gemma’s article "Women Aren’t Nags; We’re Just Fed Up" went viral in 2017, sparking a national conversation on the mental load that women have been expected to burden and leading to her book, Fed Up. Her book not only names the problem of invisible work but also lays down the groundwork for men and women to learn how to wield emotional labor to live more full and satisfying lives.
2023-06-081h 04Dear Sugars Encore: Emotional Labor Remembering the grocery list, coordinating with the babysitter, scheduling a get-together with the in-laws: These are some of the invisible tasks that (most) women exclusively do in their romantic relationships — and the list goes on and on. In this favorite episode from the archives, The Sugars commiserate with Gemma Hartley, the writer who set off a national conversation about emotional labor with her viral article in Harper’s Bazaar, “Women Aren’t Nags — We’re Just Fed Up.”
2023-02-2544 min
We Can't Help OurselvesDry January: Maggie Learns the Meaning of EasterBottoms up! Maggie and Danielle discuss Zoom bra-fittings, traumatic dance class experiences (warning: Danielle says the c-word), the merits of un-alcoholic fruit beverages, and the numerous ways in which society undervalues women. Note: This episode was originally recorded in January 2022.
Also referenced in this episode:
Fed Up by Gemma Hartley
"Moms Don't 'Deserve' Wine. We Deserve Better Than This." by Gemma Hartley
Email us at wecanthelpourselves@gmail.com and follow us on Instagram @wecanthelpourselves .
2023-01-041h 28Nobody Told Me!Gemma Hartley: ...dividing emotional labor in a relationship is a long processHave you ever heard the term, "emotional labor"? It's that invisible, unappreciated caring you do for other people. You're about to hear more about it as we talk with our guest, journalist Gemma Hartley, whose viral article "Women Aren't Nags, We're Just Fed Up" was viewed more than two BILLION times! Her book on the topic is called "Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward". Her website is http://www.gemmahartley.com/ Thanks to our sponsor, Paired, the relationship app for couples. You and your partner download the app, "Pair" together, and every day Paired gives you questions, quizzes and g...
2022-12-2832 min
The People Impact PodcastLeadership in Holiday MagicHoliday magic is made by women.
The holiday season would be a lot less magical without the work that mostly women do to create it. In homes and in organisations, creating happiness for other people. It’s an additional mental load, without us realising that it is.
At this time of year, most of us are dealing with end-of-year workload: having budget meetings, wrapping up performance reviews, aligning on 2023 strategy, plus lots happening in our social lives and personal lives. The dash to the end of the year.
...
2022-12-1628 min
Momwell148: The Mental Load of Motherhood with Gemma Hartley, AuthorDo you find yourself carrying the mental load of motherhood? Moms often serve as the default parents. The housekeepers. The caregivers. The go-to for all of the to-do lists. It’s a problem that can leave us overwhelmed, exhausted, and burnt out—and we often don’t even realize it’s happening. But we can make small changes that shift the household mental load and create buy-in from our partners. Today, I’m joined by Gemma Hartley, journalist and author of Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women and the Way Forward, to discuss how to rebalance the emotional and mental...
2022-11-2348 min
Do You Ever Feel Like?Women are the project managers of the worldJacqueline asks, do you ever feel like... women are the project managers of the world? Phoebe and Jacque yell about the burdens women carry such as over responsibility for family, friendships, partnerships, jobs, and like...the world. They discuss all women are considering, thinking, planning, at any given time - and where this emotional labor started and stems from. They also ask YOU listener - when do you feel like a bad lady? OTHER FUN TIDBITS: Jacque's wedding is over finally + Phoebe took a solo trip! Thank you for listening to DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE?
2022-11-091h 07
The Balanced Parent Podcast143: Fed Up: How to Balance Emotional Labor in Your Relationship with Gemma HartleyOver the past year my husband and I have been on a journey in figuring out how to be more balanced in our roles at home. We noticed that my husband did a lot of the visible labor, like dishes & laundry, while I did most of the invisible work, like holding emotional space for my kids' big feelings, carefully considering the play and reading materials in our home, and planing meals. A part of our work this year has focused on both of us fully recognizing and acknowledging all of the invisible, emotional, and mental labor that I do...
2022-11-0843 min
Hot+BraveS1E05 Unequal Partnerships with Darcy LockmanSend us a textThis week Bianca and Meg interview Darcy Lockman, PhD and author of All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers and the Myth of Equal Partnership to talk about the division of labor at home, the world we live in, and how to use this book to have productive conversations that help us move forward for a more equitable world that benefits ourselves, our partners and everyone in our families.All The Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and the Myth of Equal PartnershipAn Unconventional Family by Sandra Lipsitz BemTestosterone Rex: Myths of Sex, Science, and...
2022-09-2052 min
Equal Care - Impulse für eine feministische Elternschaft#90 „Weaponized incompetence“ und ihre Folgen - Interview mit Jo Lücke
„Weaponized incompetence“ bzw. „strategische Inkompetenz“ geistert als Schlagwort sein ein paar Monaten durch social media und die „Equal care“ Bubble…Was ist das und welche Auswirkungen hat dieses Phänomen für eine gleichberechtigte Elternschaft?
Darüber spreche ich in dieser Podcastfolge mit Jo Lücke - Aktivistin für eine gleichberechtige, feministische Elternschaft und Mitarbeiterin der Equal Care Initiative.
Johanna und ich sprechen darüber,
was „weaponized incompetence“ ist,
warum „weaponized incompetence“ eine gesamtgesellschaftliche Strategie ist und für Männer (aber nicht für Frauen) funktioniert und dazu führt weniger Carearbeit übernehmen zu müssen,
welche Rolle der medial gehypte „I...
2022-09-0632 min
A TARDIS of One’s OwnE11: The Christmas Invasion & BurnoutTen is in the house! We're back in London just in time for Christmas but the Doctor is not having a great time dealing with his regeneration. This is profoundly unhelpful as Earth is being held for ransom by the mysterious Sycorax. Rose is trying to hold it all together but she is not coping which made us think about all the women burning out and feeling crushed by emotional labour in 2022. Discuss!
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2022-08-3144 min
Buddha and the Body CoachBoundaries: The cookie sharing episodeAlex and T take a deep dive into boundaries. . .but hopefully not into each others.
What are boundaries and where do they happen? We discuss different types of boundaries like physical, mental, and emotional as well as boundary qualities from porous to rigid. Work, families, social culture . . .we get into it. Find out about enmeshment, rigidity and control, negative merging, and what's up with the cookie. Monty Python comes up as do a few other great resources below.
Mentions and Resources:
Bessel Van Der Kolk: The body keeps the score
Gemma H...
2022-07-261h 32
Reimagining Love with Dr. Alexandra SolomonDisrupting the Underfunctioning/Overfunctioning DynamicDr. Alexandra explores the common underfunctioning/overfunctioning dynamic in long-term partnerships. She talks about why many couples fall prey to these roles, including cultural messaging and family-of-origin scripts, and she shares strategies for breaking free from this dance so that the relationship can feel more balanced.Get the companion worksheet for this episode:www.dralexandrasolomon.com/dynamicThe Family Institute at Northwestern University:https://www.family-institute.org/Subscribe to Dr. Alexandra’s Newsletter:https://dralexandrasolomon.com/subscribe/Take Dr. Alexandra's E-Course, Intimate Relationships 101 (use code LO...
2022-06-0759 min
Dark and Stormy Book ClubWhat We Are Reading March - Strong WomenWe hgglight books that feature strong woman for Womans History month. Her Perfect Familyby Teresa Driscoll Published November 1st 2021 by Thomas & MercerA gripping psychological thriller from the bestselling author of I Am Watching You. The perfect family? Or the perfect lie?It’s their daughter’s graduation and Rachel and Ed Hartley are expecting it to be one of their family’s happiest days. But when she stumbles and falls on stage during the ceremony, a beautiful moment turns to chaos: Gemma has been shot, and just like that, she’s fighti...
2022-03-0819 min
Autism Through CinemaVision (2009) dir. Margerethe Von Trotta with Dr Gemma WilliamsThe 12th Century polymath abbess Saint Hildegard von Bingen is the subject of our film this week via Margerethe von Trotta's compelling historical drama Vision. We're joined again by special guest Gemma Williams for whom Hildegard von Bingen has been something of an 'autistic special interest' for a while. We consider the themes of feeling othered and outcast, but also the strength those positions give for the forging of an individual path. We're careful to not retrospectively diagnose Hildegard as autistic, but reflect on the importance of identifying historical figures who may have been neurodivergent for the project of...
2022-02-251h 13
The Creative Midwife Show06 - Mental & Emotional LabourIn this episode I’m introducing you to the concepts of emotional and mental labour in a way that will have you understanding why it so often feels easier to do everything yourself instead of getting help.
This was a masterclass that I ran in January 2021 and here’s how I introduced it then…
This topic gets me very angry, this topic gets me very passionate, I'm going to give you a whole lot of value, but also really practical advice. So we are talking about shifting the household balance from Ugggh to Ahhhhh.
“I r...
2022-01-3153 min
L’ora delle donneEpisodio 65: Il carico mentale è il ”problema senza nome” delle madri di oggi?Ciao ragazze, oggi con me ho Barbara Antongiovanni, psicologa e psicoterapeuta. E parliamo di carico mentale! Abbiamo letto entrambe il libro "Fed Up" di Gemma Hartley, un libro pubblicato in seguito di un articolo andato letteralmente virale dell’autrice sul tema del lavoro invisibile delle donne. L’articolo si intitola “Women Aren’t Nags – We’re Just Fed Up” “Le donne non sono delle rompiscatole, ne hanno solo abbastanza, sono piene”
FED UP affronta le questioni riguardanti il lavoro emotivo: le basi storiche e le radici del femminismo, i vantaggi e gli oneri di questo tipo di sforzo e i c...
2022-01-261h 00
Work Bestie#14 Navigating New Motherhood, Mom Guilt, and Life AdjustmentsToday I talk with one of former work besties Liz Horton. Liz and I worked together on the trauma team and she was one of my biggest blessings at UVA. Since I've known Liz she's gone from dating to engaged to married to motherhood and it has been such a joy to watch her face each transition with hope and grace. We have similar partners and Liz's sister is a social worker which also connects us. Liz is a new mother to a beautiful little baby Charlotte and we discuss lots of the adjustments that come with becoming a new...
2021-12-081h 12Autism Through CinemaPhenomena (1985) dir. Dario Argento with Dr Gemma WilliamsWe take a grisly turn this week with a foray into the violent, haunting, and dangerous world of Dario Argento via his bizarre 1985 giallo horror Phenomena (known as Creepers in the US). Jennifer Connolly stars as an american schoolgirl adrift in a Swiss academy while a brutal killer stalks the wilderness outside. We were intrigued by the eponymous phenomena of telepathic insects and enjoyed the film's brief considerations of insect minds as a form of neurodiversity. We also enjoyed Argento's signature cinematic energy as a potential expression of autistic sensory intensity, but we struggled with the excessive violence and a...
2021-11-2659 min
Challenge AcceptedEpisode 9: "Carry It With You" with Grant LucasIn this episode Stephanie interviews her husband, Grant, about his experience with their daughter's hearing loss diagnosis. They explore together his take on the impact it had on him and their marriage. We discuss the topics of paternal post partum depression, learning to find balance and how to know when things just aren't right. Grant shares about how as a male, he processed his emotions through actions instead of words and learning to be comfortable with reaching out and sharing about his experience.Stephanie recommends the book FedUP by Gemma Hartley to start discussing the topic of...
2021-11-0934 min
Grab the Top Full Audiobooks in Mystery, Thriller & Horror, PsychologicalHer Perfect Family by Teresa DriscollPlease visit https://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/637512 to listen full audiobooks. Title: Her Perfect Family Author: Teresa Driscoll Narrator: Elizabeth Knowelden, Steve West Format: Unabridged Audiobook Length: 9 hours 24 minutes Release date: November 1, 2021 Genres: Psychological Publisher's Summary: A gripping psychological thriller from the bestselling author of I Am Watching You. The perfect family? Or the perfect lie? It’s their daughter’s graduation and Rachel and Ed Hartley are expecting it to be one of their family’s happiest days. But when she stumbles and falls on stage during the ceremony, a beautiful moment turns to chaos: Gemma has been shot, and ju...
2021-11-0105 min
Listen to Latest Full Audiobooks in Mystery, Thriller & Horror, SuspenseHer Perfect Family by Teresa DriscollPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/637512to listen full audiobooks.
Title: Her Perfect Family
Author: Teresa Driscoll
Narrator: Elizabeth Knowelden, Steve West
Format: Unabridged Audiobook
Length: 9 hours 24 minutes
Release date: November 1, 2021
Genres: Suspense
Publisher's Summary:
A gripping psychological thriller from the bestselling author of I Am Watching You. The perfect family? Or the perfect lie? It’s their daughter’s graduation and Rachel and Ed Hartley are expecting it to be one of their family’s happiest days. But when she stumbles and falls on stage during the ceremony, a beautiful moment turns to chaos: Gemma has been shot, and just l...
2021-11-019h 24
Listen to Full Audiobooks in Mystery, Thriller & Horror, SuspenseHer Perfect Family by Teresa DriscollPlease visit https://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/637512 to listen full audiobooks. Title: Her Perfect Family Author: Teresa Driscoll Narrator: Elizabeth Knowelden, Steve West Format: Unabridged Audiobook Length: 9 hours 24 minutes Release date: November 1, 2021 Genres: Suspense Publisher's Summary: A gripping psychological thriller from the bestselling author of I Am Watching You. The perfect family? Or the perfect lie? It’s their daughter’s graduation and Rachel and Ed Hartley are expecting it to be one of their family’s happiest days. But when she stumbles and falls on stage during the ceremony, a beautiful moment turns to chaos: Gemma has been shot, and ju...
2021-11-0105 min
Booklicious PodcastHer Perfect Family: By Teresa Driscoll | Book Review PodcastHer Perfect Family By Teresa Driscoll | Book Review Podcast
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A gripping psychological thriller from the bestselling author of I Am Watching You. The perfect family? Or the perfect lie?
It’s their daughter’s graduation and Rachel and Ed Hartley are expecting it to be one of their family’s happiest days. But when she stumbles and falls on stage during the ceremony, a beautiful moment turns to chaos: Gemma has been shot, and just like that, she’s fighting for her...
2021-10-3102 min
Booklicious PodcastHer Perfect Family: By Teresa Driscoll | Book Review PodcastHer Perfect Family By Teresa Driscoll | Book Review Podcast
website: https://gobookmart.com
Buy Now: https://amzn.to/3BvX2cm
A gripping psychological thriller from the bestselling author of I Am Watching You. The perfect family? Or the perfect lie?
It’s their daughter’s graduation and Rachel and Ed Hartley are expecting it to be one of their family’s happiest days. But when she stumbles and falls on stage during the ceremony, a beautiful moment turns to chaos: Gemma has been shot, and just like that, she’s fighting for her...
2021-10-3102 min
Myth of MotherhoodWhy is it all on me? with Gemma Hartley"If you feel like you're doing everything, you're doing too much." -Gemma Hartley. Have you ever been reading a book and got mad at the protagonist? Because you can't believe they are tolerating what they are tolerating and not advocating for themselves? I felt that way when I started Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward written by today's guest Gemma Hartley. It didn't take long for me to realize I wasn't mad AT her, I was mad WITH and FOR her. Her writing, her story, is so beyond relatable it feels like you're reading your own...
2021-09-2023 minDear Sugars Encore: Emotional Labor: The Invisible Work (Most) Women Do Women from across the country wrote in to the Dear Sugars inbox echoing identical inequalities in their relationships with their husbands and boyfriends. The Sugars commiserate with this aggrieved chorus, along with Gemma Hartley, the writer who set off a national conversation about emotional labor with her viral article in Harper’s Bazaar, “Women Aren’t Nags — We’re Just Fed Up.”
This episode was originally released on May 5, 2018.
2021-07-1644 min
Start TalkingWhat Is Emotional Labour with Gemma HartleySend us a Text Message.Gemma Hartley's 2017 Harper's Bazaar article "Women Aren't Nags, They're Just Fed Up" received 2 BILLION views online and sparked a national debate on Emotional Labour and the role that women play in it and the expectations of men. Join Scott today as he and Gemma discuss Emotional Labour and what it means for Women and how we can adopt better practices in our relationships.-Her book Fed Up: Emotional Labour, Women, and the Way Forward has sold 1000's & 1000's of copies.-You can f...
2021-04-191h 09Start TalkingWhat Is Emotional Labour with Gemma HartleySend us a Text Message.Gemma Hartley's 2017 Harper's Bazaar article "Women Aren't Nags, They're Just Fed Up" received 2 BILLION views online and sparked a national debate on Emotional Labour and the role that women play in it and the expectations of men. Join Scott today as he and Gemma discuss Emotional Labour and what it means for Women and how we can adopt better practices in our relationships.-Her book Fed Up: Emotional Labour, Women, and the Way Forward has sold 1000's & 1000's of copies.-You can f...
2021-04-191h 09
Love Your Life Show: Personal Growth, Mindset, + Habits for Busy Moms139: Emotional Labor with Gemma HartleyFed up?
Burnt out?
Feel like if you don't ask, it will never get done?
Sick of doing it all?
Oh my warriors, have you ever heard of emotional labor?
Listen in to this week's episode as I get to interview Gemma Hartley, the interview of the book: FED UP! Emotional Labor, Women and the Way Forward.
Listen in and then tell us what you think on instagram at https://www.instagram.com/smb.wellness or in the Warrior Women Facebook Community at facebook.com/groups/smbwell
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2021-04-0738 min
Love Your Life Show: Personal Growth, Mindset, + Habits for MomsEmotional Labor with Gemma HartleyFed up? Burnt out? Feel like if you don't ask, it will never get done? Sick of doing it all? Oh my warriors, have you ever heard of emotional labor? Listen in to this week's episode as I get to interview Gemma Hartley, the interview of the book: FED UP! Emotional Labor, Women and the Way Forward. ⭐️Find all links and resources mentioned in the show notes here: https://smbwell.com/139 ⭐️See if the Love Your Life School is open for enrollment...
2021-04-0738 min
Go Help Yourself: A Comedy Self-Help Podcast to Make Life Suck LessMen Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex by John Gray, Ph.D.This week, Misty and Lisa review the #1 New York Times bestseller Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex by John Gray, Ph.D. John Gray, Ph.D. is the #1 bestselling relationship author of all time. He is the author of over 20 books, including The New York Times #1 bestselling relationship book: Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. His books have sold over 50 million copies in 50 different languages around the world. He’s a relationship counselor who earned degrees in meditation and took a correspondence course in...
2021-03-051h 01
From My Lips To Your Ringing EarsIt's Her FactoryContinuing the discussion about Feminized labor, Heaven discusses Invisible Labor and The Second Shift that is often times left to women to do. This type of labor is undervalued since there is no paycheck attributed with doing household labor. Heaven revisits Gemma Hartley's essay, "Women Aren't Nags--We're Just Fed Up" when discussing Invisible Labor, as well as references a classic I LOVE LUCY episode that acknowledges Invisible Labor."Women Aren't Nags—We're Just Fed Up" by Gemma Hartley:https://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a12063822/emotional-labor-gender-equality/Stavros Halkias's review of CASINO on Letterboxd:https://le...
2021-02-191h 31
From My Lips To Your Ringing EarsEmotional Labor DayThis week Heaven discusses the phrase Emotional Labor--what the actual definition of it is, the type of jobs that require a heavy use of Emotional Labor, the misuse of the word, how the definition has changed, and whether or not the misuse of the word will have a lasting impact on the Labor Movement.The articles referenced in this week's episode:"I was the first person to file a sexual harassment grievance at Verso Books. This is what happened" by Emily Janakiram:https://ejanakir1128.medium.com/i-was-the-first-person-to-file-a-sexual-harassment-grievance-at-verso-books-this-is-what-happened-c8a878fb5fef"Women Aren't Nags—We...
2021-02-051h 31
A Sassy Little Podcast with Sandra Ann Miller a.k.a. The HappyistBad Advice with Lisa Linke and Misty StinnettIn this episode, we talk about: Threesomes. Lies. Going over 200 episodes. Friendships. Learning. How their podcast got started. Usable gems. Critical thinking. Hating the premise of self-help. Being of service. Doing good work. Writing on accident. Filter feeding the debris. What sticks. Living with a professor. Questioning authority. Flamingoes. Best sellers. Being our best selves. Screenwriters. Lord God King Boofoo. Self-help is a misnomer. What you would actually have to do each day if you followed all the top self-help advice (spoiler alert: it's impossible). Racism and privilege. Community care. Victim blaming. Manipulation. Caveats. Rachel Hollis' divorce. Problematic advice...
2021-02-031h 07
Joyful Courage for Parenting TeensEps 258: Teasing Apart Emotional Labor with Gemma HartleyMy guest today is Gemma Hartley.Gemma is a freelance journalist and the author of Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward. She’s a mom of 3 kids, 5, 7 and 10Takeaways from the show:
Gemma’s journey of being a writer
The article that started her career
Not wanting to ask your family to do something, just wanting them to know to do it
Teasing apart emotional labor
The pressure that lays on moms’ shoulders
What are shared standards
Acknowledge your standards exist for a reason
Holding resentment when your significant other feels like the...
2021-01-2548 minJoyful Courage for Parenting TeensEps 258: Teasing Apart Emotional Labor with Gemma HartleyMy guest today is Gemma Hartley.Gemma is a freelance journalist and the author of Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward. She’s a mom of 3 kids, 5, 7 and 10Takeaways from the show:
Gemma’s journey of being a writer
The article that started her career
Not wanting to ask your family to do something, just wanting them to know to do it
Teasing apart emotional labor
The pressure that lays on moms’ shoulders
What are shared standards
Acknowledge your standards exist for a reason
Holding resentment when your significant other feels like the...
2021-01-2548 min
Let's TalkGuiltIn this episode we talk about the prevalence of guilt in our lives and over-apologizing.
We also aim to beef up your reading list with these gems:
Rage Becomes Her by Soraya Chemaly
Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward by Gemma Hartley
Religious Literacy: What Every American Needs to Know - And Doesn't by Stephen Prothero
Don't Shoot the Dog!: The New Art of Teaching and Training by Karen Pryor
The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin
2021-01-2047 min
Always Better than Yesterday with Ryan Hartley | A Podcast for Heart Centred LeadersEp 111 Interview Sessions with Gemma HuntIt is so good to have Gemma Hunt back on the podcast. Gemma was originally on Ep 8 when we discussed her career as a children's TV presenter here in the UK with the CBBC.
Gemma has been working in TV since 2003 when she graduated with her First Class Media Performance Degree from The University of Bedfordshire. Having met an agent through a careers day at the University, Gemma's showreel was sent to CBBC who met her for an interview, invited her for a screen test and then offered her a contract with CBBC, all before she had gra...
2021-01-1334 min
Mama Says Namaste PodcastEmotional Labor - Who Takes Care Of What?Author Gemma Hartley caused quite a stir with a Vanity Fair article about the "emotional labor" a woman goes through in running a household that goes way beyond the errands list. This week, Nathan and Ashley dig into the four critical components to carrying the emotional labor load together for the family, and working together toward a common goal. From their perspectives of having experienced both sides of the fence, gender roles may be fuzzy, but strength roles for each individual reigns supreme. Get the links to the articles, video clips and more at www.M...
2020-12-0242 min
The New Way We WorkHow to end the imbalance of emotional and unpaid labor at home and workKate Davis talks to Gemma Hartley--writer, reporter, and author of Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward--about the disproportionate burden of emotional and unpaid labor women bear both at home and in the workplace.
2020-11-3023 min
Go Help Yourself: A Comedy Self-Help Podcast to Make Life Suck LessHow To Get A Man Without Getting Played: 29 Dating Secrets to Catch Mr. Right, Set Your Standards, And Eliminate Time Wasters by Bruce BryansThis week, Lisa and Misty review How To Get A Man Without Getting Played: 29 Dating Secrets to Catch Mr. Right, Set Your Standards, And Eliminate Time Wasters by Bruce Bryans. We know. Can you believe we dipped our toes in this pool again? Just like our last review of his book, we can find nothing about this author, other than they are incredibly prolific and like to write lots of books about dating. From the author’s website: Bruce Bryans is a successful author with a passion for research into the dating and mating rituals of...
2020-11-2744 min
The Well Woman Show227 Women's Invisible Workload with Gemma HartleyOn the Well Woman Show this week, we discuss why women are fed up, according to Gemma Hartley, author and speaker whose book Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward brings much-needed awareness to the invisible work shouldered by women. Her viral Harper’s Bazaar article Women Aren’t Nags - We’re Just Fed Up sparked an international conversation about emotional labor inequality, and was shared and read by millions of readers.We discuss:- Woman’s workload during the pandemic.- How we can build a culture of awareness, and brin...
2020-11-1130 min
Crianza y AbundanciaTrabajo Emocional, Mujer Y Qué Podemos HacerCon todo lo que está pasando en el mundo muchas mamás están más estresadas que nunca. Por años, Gemma Hartley ha divulgado el concepto de trabajo emocional que hacen las mamás. Ella comparte algunas ideas de qué es possible hacer para generar cambios a favor de relaciones más equitativas en este resumen de su charla. Para obtener la ponencia completa original y el resto de las conferencias acude a la página de Happily Family aquí. Para tener acceso fácil a todos los reviews en texto y audio accede AQUI. Gratis por tiempo limita
2020-11-0222 min
Go Help Yourself: A Comedy Self-Help Podcast to Make Life Suck LessGHY Minisode 092On this edition of the Weekly Beef, we are joined by special guest Renee Colvert of the podcast "Can I Pet Your Dog?" to talk about how dogs can contribute to self-help. Renee Colvert is a Los Angeles based writer, comedian, and co-host of the wildly successful and entertaining podcast Can I Pet Your Dog? If you'd like to learn more about Renee, check out her twitter and instagram. If you'd like to see the explosion of adorableness that is her dog Tugboat, check out his very own instagram, too! (You can also see many...
2020-10-2034 min
One Weird Trick!Mask On, You FirstIn the 17th episode of One Weird Trick, A.Ron talks about anger and Cecily breaks down exactly what "emotional labor" means. Then, they discuss feedback, which includes sharing personal stories of understanding, staying sane in the time of COVID, being single late in life, and undervaluing premium content. If you want to dive deeper into the concepts discussed in the podcast, start here: Harper's Bizzare article: "Women Aren't Nags—We're Just Fed Up" by Gemma Hartley The Atlantic article: "The Concept Creep of ‘Emotional Labor" by Julie Beck For quality cat content, look no furt...
2020-07-1300 min
The Abundance Secrets Show | How to Create More Abundance of Love, Wealth, and Health in Your Life#11 Angela Chee | Media & Communication Coach, Keynote Speaker, Podcast Host, Former TV New Anchor & ReporterAngela Chee is a media/communication coach, keynote speaker, creator of YOU, Amplified!®, host of the upcoming “Power Of The Only” podcast, and an award-winning former TV news anchor and reporter.
Angela leverages her 20+ years working in the media and speaking industry, her personal development work and experience coaching corporate and entrepreneurial leaders to help people step into the spotlight and their YOU, Amplified!® leadership.
Angela has worked in top TV markets from KCBS/KCAL-TV and KNBC-TV in Los Angeles to Fox 6 and KNSD-TV in San Diego. She has hosted shows for E! Entertainment, HGTV (Home an...
2020-03-111h 11
No FilterBest Of: How Emotional Labour Makes Women Feel ExhaustedWelcome to our summer series, where we play you some of our favourite episodes that you might have missed or might want to revisit. A woman’s work is never done. And author Gemma Hartley knows this. Whether she’s at home or in the office, there’s a whole layer of labour done predominantly by women that most men can’t even see. Emotional labour is being the person who notices problems, delegates solutions and makes sure life goes smoothly for everyone around her. It’s noticing there’s barely any milk left and then doing so...
2019-12-2942 minDear Sugars Episodes We Love: Emotional Labor Remembering the grocery list, coordinating with the babysitter, making food for the potluck, scheduling a get-together with the in-laws: These are some of the invisible tasks that (most) women exclusively do in their romantic relationships — and the list goes on and on. The Sugars commiserate with Gemma Hartley, the writer who set off a national conversation about emotional labor with her viral article in Harper’s Bazaar, “Women Aren’t Nags — We’re Just Fed Up.” This episode was originally published on May 5th, 2018.
2019-12-1344 min
Moms in the MiddleMom works the holidaysThe holidays are supposed to be the most wonderful time of the year, right? Ha! For moms it’s easily the most stressful time of year. There’s the gift giving, schedule planning, cleaning, decorating, hosting and often times the managing of family politics – all of the behind the scenes work that make the holidays magical. Not to mention, this is on top of our daily chores and responsibilities!
Intentional or not, most of us have morphed into MOMAGERS and that is where the concept of EMOTIONAL LABOUR comes into play.
So, what is emotional labour...
2019-11-2729 min
Sorta AwesomeEp. 219 Invisible labor: let's talk about it
Mental load. Emotional labor. Invisible work. You’ve heard these terms and how they describe a sometimes un-awesome part of life - the work that many women do to keep everything running in homes, families, and in the workplace. This week, Meg and Kelly are talking about the bigger concept of “invisible labor” - defining what it is AND talking you through some ways to feel empowered to do something about it! Plus comforting cold weather food and a cute top for nursing moms in Awesome of the Week!Sorta Awesome’s Amazon shop!https://www.amaz...
2019-11-081h 02
This Mom LovesEp 35: Author Gemma Hartley on Women and Emotional LabourGemma Hartley, author of the book Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women and the Way Forward is here to delve in to this fascinating subject and offer some advice!
For more information or to purchase:
Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Woman and the Way Forward by Gemma Hartley
You can find Gemma on her website, Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.
Also in this episode:
12 Indigenous Picture Books To Add To Your Collection
Own Your Anxiety: 99 Simple Ways To Channel Your Secret Edge by Julian Brass
The Braid by Laetitia Colombani
6 Rules I Break (By a Big Rule-Follower)
2019-09-2546 min
Cook Memorial Public Library PodcastAuthors Out Loud: Gemma Hartley – Fed Up
Writer, reporter, and author Gemma Hartley talks with Nate and Erica about her book Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward.
Hartley discusses why women often take on such a large share of the unseen and undervalued work in the home and offers practical advice on how partners can begin establishing more equality.
SHOW NOTES
Check out Fed Up from the library – Print | eAudiobook (hoopla)
Read Gemma Hartley’s original 2017 Harper’s Bazaar article Women Aren’t Nags – We’re Just Fed Up
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2019-09-2400 min
Cook Memorial Public Library PodcastAuthors Out Loud: Gemma Hartley - Fed UpWriter, reporter, and author Gemma Hartley talks with Nate and Erica about her book Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward. Hartley discusses why women often take on such a large share of the unseen and undervalued work in the home and offers practical advice on how partners can begin establishing more equality. SHOW NOTES Check out Fed Up from the library - Print | eAudiobook (hoopla) Read Gemma Hartley's original 2017 Harper's Bazaar article "Women Aren't Nags - We're Just Fed Up" Recommended Podcasts Zen Par...
2019-09-2429 min
The SSR PodcastEpisode 60: Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's StoneIt’s finally happening… we’re talking about Harry Potter on the podcast! More specifically, Episode 60 of SSR is all about the book that started it all: Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone. In this episode, we talk about why the books have been challenged by conservative communities, obsess over the amazing world of Hogwarts and beyond, and chat about what we would have liked to see more of from Rowling’s female characters. Alli also reveals her true feelings about the movie adaptations and takes a guess at which House she would be sorted into. And that’s just the s...
2019-08-2759 min
Go Help Yourself: A Comedy Self-Help Podcast to Make Life Suck LessGHY Minisode 031Misty and Lisa check in on their homework from the book Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward by Gemma Hartley. Plus, Lisa shares a thought-provoking Twitter thread from @JenMarieWilde about her experience with the New Age Movement. We also mention @rachel.cargle and @NoWhiteSaviors as great resources online. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
2019-08-0621 min
Go Help Yourself: A Comedy Self-Help Podcast to Make Life Suck LessFed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward by Gemma HartleyThis week, Misty and Lisa are losing their minds because AUTHOR Gemma Hartley joins GHY as a special guest to discuss her book Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward! Gemma Hartley is a writer, reporter, and author of the viral Harper's Bazaar article Women Aren't Nags -- We're Just Fed Up. She specializes in the subject areas of feminism, pop-culture, health & wellness, finance, budgeting, and mindfulness writing. Her work has been featured in outlets including Harper’s Bazaar, Women’s Health, Glamour, The Washington Post, CNBC, Redbook, Cosmopolitan, Good Housekeeping, Teen Vogue, and The Huffi...
2019-08-021h 08
ElevateBalanceIs Balance Bullshit? In this episode we discuss why we might all be doing this whole work/life balance thing wrong, and what we can do about it.
We discuss:
•What Balance means today
•The glorification of busy
•How tracking our menstrual cycle can be a powerful way to harness more balance
•The lunar cycle and it's relationship to the days of the week
•The role of rituals and Aryuveda
•The power of being organized
•Boundary management and the power of the word no.
References
Elevate Season One - Periods
Elevate Season One - Rituals
The Artist's Way Julia Cameron
Human Design
P...
2019-06-0932 min
Zen Pop ParentingWomen Aren’t Nags, We’re Fed Up- Podcast #495Todd and Cathy talk with Gemma Hartley, author of Fed Up. They discuss emotional labor, how it affects partnership and parenting, and why it needs to be an evolving and ongoing conversation. Gemma will be taking questions during our Team Zen talk on June 4th – click here to join Team Zen and participate.
2019-05-281h 01
Go Help Yourself: A Comedy Self-Help Podcast to Make Life Suck LessThe Mental Load: Women Aren't Nags - We're Just Fed Up by Gemma HartleyMisty and Lisa cover the viral Harper's Bazaar article Women Aren't Nags - We're Just Fed Up: Emotional Labor Is the Unpaid Job Men Still Don't Understand by Gemma Hartley. The article was published in Harpers Bazaar on September 27, 2017. You can read the full mental load article here. If you'd like to see the graphics from the bureau of labor statistics representing the average amount of time per day men and women spend on household activities, you can do so here. For other articles on the mental load, check out this brilliant comic from...
2019-05-2438 min
HerMoney with Jean ChatzkyFor Women Who Do Too Much (Like You!)
Do you anticipate other’s needs before your own? Does your brain house the master to-do list for your entire family? You're a queen of emotional labor — the unpaid and unnoticed work that many women do to keep their loved ones happy. Gemma Hartley, author of "Women Aren’t Nags; We’re Just Fed Up," tells us all how we can cut back, and stand up for ourselves. In Mailbag, how to invest in Roth IRAs, prioritize saving versus investing, plus the dos and don’ts for downsizing.
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2019-05-1542 min
Feminist CurrentPODCAST: What is ’emotional labour’ and why are women sick of doing it all themselves? We often talk about women’s unpaid labour — the work women do in the home, in terms of child rearing, cleaning, cooking, grocery shopping, and so on and so forth, that not only is uncompensated, but is, too often, unappreciated. Not only do many women today go to work outside the home, for a paycheque, but then they have to come home and take on an extra shift that their male partners simply aren’t expected to do. But what about women’s emotional labour? “Emotional labour” might strike you as a strange term. We don’t necess...
2019-05-0427 min
Ideas at the HouseWomen Aren't Nags, Just Fed Up | All About Women 2019In 2017, journalist Gemma Hartley's Harper's Bazaar article "Women Aren't Nags - We're Just Fed Up" was viewed over two billion times. Bringing long overdue awareness to the daunting reality of emotional labour in our lives, Hartley defines the largely invisible but demanding, time-consuming, and exhausting "worry work" that falls disproportionately and unfairly on all women - no matter what economic class or level of education. This household admin of mothers and wives is based on the assumption that women are better at feeling and expressing emotions. She was in conversation with Cassie McCullagh at All About Women 2019.
2019-05-0358 minNo FilterHow Emotional Labour Makes Women Feel ExhaustedA woman’s work is never done. And author Gemma Hartley knows this. Whether she’s at home or in the office, there’s a whole layer of labour done predominantly by women that most men can’t even see. Emotional labour is being the person who notices problems, delegates solutions and makes sure life goes smoothly for everyone around her. It’s noticing there’s barely any milk left and then doing something about it - and changing the toilet paper roll when it’s run out. This work is invisible and exhausting at the same time...
2019-03-0842 min
In Good Company016: Gemma Hartley. Invisible Labour. Office Housework.“Likeability is still a huge issue for women in the workforce – they can’t just be good at what they do, they have to be likeable in the process”. Sobering words from journalist Gemma Hartley, whose new book Fed Up explores the burden of invisible labour and why it tends to fall more heavily on women both at home and in the workplace - as well as offering up practical solutions on how to better navigate it.
Plus some advice for a listener who’s concerned about the lack of diversity in their office, and not sure how best t...
2019-02-0849 min
Jump Start Your Joy®Gemma Hartley on Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way ForwardGemma Hartley is the author of” Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward,” and I’m thrilled to have her on the podcast to talk about emotional labor. Defined as “the invisible work women do to keep people around them happy,” emotional labor is a topic that doesn’t get talked about a lot, and often takes a toll on women and relationships. I’m excited that Gemma has opened the door for this discussion by addressing the topic, and offering thoughts on ways to move forward. Resources Gemma Hartley’s Website Gemma Hartley’s origin...
2019-02-0536 min
The Gender KnotEmotional labourWhat exactly is emotional labour? Nas talks about it all the time, Dan is still unclear about what it is, so he speaks to Gemma Hartley, Author of ‘Fed Up: Emotional labor, women and the way forward’, to find out more. Guest:Gemma Hartley, author of Fed Up: Emotional labor, women and the way forward http://www.gemmahartley.com/Host and producer:Nas aka Nastaran Tavakoli-Far Co-host:Daniel Carroll Co-producers:Sam Baker and Jonathan Blackwell Additional links:Sign up to our newsletter via our cont...
2019-01-2133 min
The Thinkergirls Pod ChannelMarie Claire x The Thinkergirls: We Need To Talk About... Emotional LabourMarie Claire and The Thinkergirls Present We Need To Talk About...Today's Topic: Emotional Labour00:44 - Foreword from Editor of Nikki Briger1:27 - What actually is ‘emotional labor’ in a relationship to Stace and Kristie? 5:43 - Women bit by bit taking on more in relationships 8:18 - Feminine and masculine energy in relationships. We’re not just talking about men and women here 12:27 - Kids being a game-changer for ‘emotional labour’...
2019-01-2000 min
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2019-01-0700 min
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2018-11-291h 04
the Working Mother's Mentor[ENCORE] Gemma Hartley, Author of Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward, on her path back to writing after the birth of her children, finding work-life balance, and how to divide responsibilities at homeGemma provides her expertise on the subject of Emotional Labor, addresses the resentment that often arises around the unpaid work done to sustain a family, and gives great examples and advice on how to share responsibilities at home. We did this interview after her wildly popular Harper Bazaar articles on emotional labor, before her book Fed Up was released.
2018-11-271h 05
Unlock An Heart-Pounding Full Audiobook And Elevate Your Mindset.Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward by Gemma HartleyPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/345359to listen full audiobooks.
Title: Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward
Author: Gemma Hartley
Narrator: Therese Plummer
Format: Unabridged Audiobook
Length: 8 hours 23 minutes
Release date: November 13, 2018
Ratings: Ratings of Book: 4 of Total 6
Ratings of Narrator: 5 of Total 4
Genres: Social Science
Publisher's Summary:
A rousing call to arms, packed with surprising insights, that explores how carrying ''the mental load''—the thankless day-to-day anticipating of needs and solving of problems large and small—is adversely affecting women’s lives and feeding gender inequality, and shows the way forward for better balancing our lives. Launch...
2018-11-138h 23
For Real#19 Book Award Season!For Real is sponsored this week by Book Riot Insiders, In the Name of the Children: An FBI Agent’s Relentless Pursuit of the Nation’s Worst Predators by Jeffrey Rinek from BenBella Books and Witness: Lessons from Elie Wiesel’s Classroom by Ariel Burger.FOLLOW UPWho Was seriesHoliday Gift Guide Episode! Email kim@riotnewmedia.com by November 20th if you need a nonfiction recommendation for a present, or want a book to put on your own gift list. NEW BOOKSGene Machine: The R...
2018-11-1358 min
All the Books!New Releases and More for November 13, 2018This week, Liberty and Rebecca discuss Crave, Insurrecto, A Ladder to the Sky, and more great books.This episode was sponsored by Book Riot Insiders, Shades of Wicked by Jeaniene Frost, and Witness: Lessons from Elie Wiesel’s Classroom by Ariel Burger.Subscribe to All the Books! using RSS or iTunes and never miss a beat book.Sign up for the weekly New Books! newsletter for even more new book news.This content contains affiliate links. When you buy through these links, we may earn an affiliate commission.For a complete li...
2018-11-1339 min
Best of Both Worlds PodcastGemma Hartley. Ep 67In this thought-provoking episode, we pick apart the concept of emotional labor with Gemma Hartley, whose Harper·s Bazaar article Women Aren·t Nags · We·re Just Fed Up went viral last year. Gemma is releasing a book on the subject the day this episode airs called Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward. Gemma talks about why she feels doing less isn’t always the answer, her feelings on 50/50 splits, and much more. In the intro, Sarah admits she may have planning fatigue, and a listener writes in about whether to prioritize job satisfaction/opportunity vs being home to g...
2018-11-1347 minDownload High-Quality Full Audiobooks in Non-Fiction, Social ScienceFed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward by Gemma HartleyPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/345359to listen full audiobooks.
Title: Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward
Author: Gemma Hartley
Narrator: Therese Plummer
Format: Unabridged Audiobook
Length: 8 hours 23 minutes
Release date: November 13, 2018
Ratings: Ratings of Book: 4 of Total 6
Ratings of Narrator: 5 of Total 4
Genres: Social Science
Publisher's Summary:
A rousing call to arms, packed with surprising insights, that explores how carrying ''the mental load''—the thankless day-to-day anticipating of needs and solving of problems large and small—is adversely affecting women’s lives and feeding gender inequality, and shows the way forward for better balancing our lives. Launch...
2018-11-138h 23
A. Swift MomentFed Up Gemma Hartley ASwiftMoment S2 EP1Emotional Labor: The load. The mental labor. Author Gemma Hartley sums it up in the introduction of her book Fed UP: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward as, “a special kind of invested effort encompassing the anticipation of needs, the weighing and balancing of competing priorities, and the empathy of putting oneself in someone else’s shoes, among other factors.” Or, it’s knowing about homework assignments and meal planning. It’s how holidays magically seem to happen. It’s remembering birthdays, anniversaries, and when to buy toilet paper. It’s a lot, but it is also invisible.
The invisible work tha...
2018-11-1254 min
MKL - Mit Kindern lebenMental LoadNach der Sommerpause sprechen Caspar und Patricia über Mental Load. Ein Begriff, der gerade durch die Elternblogs wabert, nachdem Patricia auf dem Female Future Force Day einen Vortrag darüber gehalten hat.
Mental Load bedeutet unabhängig von der tatsächlichen Arbeitslast für alles verantwortlich sein
Caspar und Patricia haben keine gute Übersetzung für Mental Load finden können. Mentale Last trifft es nicht ganz. Es geht jedenfalls um die Verantwortung innerhalb einer Familie alles am Laufen zu halten. Diese wird in der Regel von der Frau getragen und zwar unabhängig davon wie viel...
2018-10-0133 minDear Sugars Emotional Labor: The Invisible Work (Most) Women Do Remembering the grocery list, coordinating with the babysitter, making food for the potluck, scheduling a get-together with the in-laws: These are some of the invisible tasks that (most) women exclusively do in their romantic relationships — and the list goes on and on. Women from across the country wrote in to the Dear Sugars inbox echoing identical inequalities in their relationships with their husbands and boyfriends. The Sugars commiserate with this aggrieved chorus, along with Gemma Hartley, the writer who set off a national conversation about emotional labor with her …
2018-05-0544 min
Together. A Podcast About RelationshipsEmotional LaborA cultural conversation has been simmering recently about the concept of emotional labor. It’s a critical conversation to our relationships, but not many of us know what it means. Today on the podcast, we learn all about what it is, and what to do about it from our guests, Gemma and Rob Hartley. Gemma is a well known journalist, and recently wrote an article for Harpers about emotional labor that went viral. To learn more about Gemma and her writings, check out her website: gemmahartley.com. She has a forthcoming book about emotional labor due out in...
2018-01-3032 min