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From Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerWhy We're Pressing Pause (and What Comes Next)After more than 300 weekly episodes, we are taking a short pause from From Crisis to Connection. In this brief update, we share why we’re stepping back for a couple of months. It’s not because of burnout but to make space for reflection, clarity, and growth. We want to continue serving you with intention and depth, and this pause is part of that process. Here’s what to expect while we’re away: No new weekly episodes during the summer A weekly email with a curated past episode that’s worth revisiting A chan...2025-06-0505 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerTeaching Consent to Children - with Rachel Brian - Episode 277The idea of “consent” can be difficult to teach to children, but in this episode our guest has been able to effectively describe body autonomy and help parents and children recognize the importance of personal agency and consent even at a very young age. We welcome Rachel Brian, author and animator, to discuss her children's book on consent, which teaches kids how to set boundaries and be helpful bystanders. Rachel shares the personal inspiration behind creating the book and explains the importance of teaching consent to children at a young age. Join us as we also dive further into the...2025-01-0250 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerLessons from Great Listeners (Part 2) - Episode 276In this episode we continue our conversation about great listeners in our lives. Join us as we discuss how feeling truly seen by someone makes it easier to truly see others. These personal stories we share highlight the importance of genuine curiosity, engagement, and presence without seeking personal benefit in conversations.  The Power of Community in Pornography Recovery: Download Relay and try it out for free, or learn more at Relay's website. Use code GEOFF1 for 15% off!  Broken trust? Download my FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust”  Join my 12-week program...2024-12-2626 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerDisarming Coercive Behaviors - Episode 244How do you deal with coercion and emotional immaturity from other people? Do you defend yourself, disengage, or meet the other person at their level and try to play their game? In this episode we discuss the importance of disengaging from unhealthy interactions, not engaging in defense, and focusing on our own actions and reactions. The Power of Community in Pornography Recovery: Download Relay and try it out for free, or learn more at Relay's website. Use code GEOFF1 for 15% off!  Broken trust? Download my FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust”  Join...2024-05-1623 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerInpatient vs. Outpatient Treatment - Episode 242Sobriety, safety, support, and stability are crucial in the aftermath of addiction and betrayal, and can be found in both inpatient and outpatient treatment scenarios. Join me as I outline the importance of personalized considerations, support systems, and cost implications in making the decision between inpatient and outpatient treatment for addiction and mental health issues. The Power of Community in Pornography Recovery: Download Relay and try it out for free, or learn more at Relay's website. Use code GEOFF1 for 15% off!  Broken trust? Download my FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust”  Join...2024-05-0220 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerA Post-Disclosure Pep Talk for the Betrayed Partner - Episode 241Discovering you have been betrayed is an extreme life-altering moment. Knowing what to do or where to turn next can feel insurmountable. In this episode I share 4 thoughts as a “pep talk” for the betrayed partner. Join me as I outline encouraging messages and steps to help you through the disclosure process and moving forward. The Power of Community in Pornography Recovery: Download Relay and try it out for free, or learn more at Relay's website. Use code GEOFF1 for 15% off!  Broken trust? Download my FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust”  Join my...2024-04-2513 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerA Post-Disclosure Pep Talk for the Recovering Partner - Episode 240The road after a betrayal and disclosure can be long and arduous. In this episode I share 4 thoughts as a “pep talk” for the recovering partner who is inevitably facing extreme discomfort and uncertainty. Stepping into disclosure is an intense, demanding experience, but the aftermath is the time to really do the work as an individual and to support your partner in their new reality. The Power of Community in Pornography Recovery: Download Relay and try it out for free, or learn more at Relay's website. Use code GEOFF1 for 15% off!  Broken trust? Download my FREE...2024-04-1815 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerTransactional vs. Transformational Relationship Dynamics - with Julia Witt - Episode 234We've invited Julia Witt to join us for a great discussion on transactional versus transformational relationships. Geoff discovered Julia when someone sent him a Tik Tok video of her discussing this topic. He knew he had to invite her to share more with our community. Transactional relationship dynamics are so common, especially in couples healing from broken trust. So many guys who are trying to rebuild trust want to do the right things, but then inadvertently create a dynamic that creates more resentment. We discuss how to challenge this dynamic and create a more transformational relationship for long-term recovery.2024-02-2947 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerA Broader Look at Emotional Intimacy - Episode 226In today’s episode we continue the discussion on intimacy, this time focusing on emotional intimacy. Sharing your deepest thoughts, feelings, and fears requires safety and vulnerability. Join us as we discuss the importance of emotional intimacy and ways to improve and nurture this in your most valued relationships. The Power of Community in Pornography Recovery: Download Relay and try it out for free, or learn more at Relay's website. Use code GEOFF1 for 15% off!  Broken trust? Download my FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust”  Join my 12-week program, The Trust Bu...2024-01-0422 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerA Broader Look at Physical Intimacy - Episode 225When the term “physical intimacy” is used, do you immediately assume that sexual contact is being inferred? In this episode we discuss the importance of healthy physical intimacy in a relationship and why that doesn’t always mean sex. Join us as we outline the additional benefits of prioritizing platonic touch, physical proximity, and more in relationships. The Power of Community in Pornography Recovery: Download Relay and try it out for free, or learn more at Relay's website. Use code GEOFF1 for 15% off!  Broken trust? Download my FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” 2023-12-2818 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerUnderstanding Men, Lust, and Marriage - Episode 222  The Power of Community in Pornography Recovery: Download Relay and try it out for free, or learn more at Relay's website. Use code GEOFF1 for 15% off!  Broken trust? Download my FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust”  Join my 12-week program, The Trust Building Bootcamp, to heal your broken relationship. Sign up for our FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse:  Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBO...2023-12-0719 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerThe Nuances of Forgiveness and Trust in Relationships - Episode 216In the aftermath of a betrayal, there is a delicate balance between forgiveness and trust. Oftentimes trust is expected as quickly as forgiveness, but it is important to understand the differences between the two, and their separate roles. Join us this episode as we break down each action individually and how both will severely impact every relationship. The Power of Community in Pornography Recovery: Download Relay and try it out for free, or learn more at Relay's website. Use code GEOFF1 for 15% off!  Broken trust? Download my FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Tru...2023-10-2619 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerDealing with the Post-Betrayal Freeze - Episode 192We’ve all heard the terms “fight, flight, or freeze”. In a physical, adrenaline-filled situation, one could argue that any of these responses would be preferred over another. However, in an emotionally charged situation such as post-betrayal trauma, having your partner freeze when bringing up your pain, hurt, and emotional needs can continue to damage the relationship. In this episode we discuss different methods to manage this natural reaction, build resilience, and how to better react in the future.  Broken trust? Download my FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust”  Join my 12-week program, The...2023-05-1116 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFinding Your True Self After Betrayal - Episode 191One of the biggest effects of trauma, especially from betrayal, is the feeling of depersonalization; the feeling of watching your life unfold from the outside looking in. These feelings may be overwhelming, often accompanied by a sense of urgency to find yourself and your happiness. In this episode we share where to begin on the journey to finding your true self again, and how directly searching for it may actually be counterproductive in your efforts to reconnect.  If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to he...2023-05-0416 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerChecking Our Blind Spots - Episode 190We all have our own life experiences that shape our opinions, motives, and actions. While we are able to live our lives how it makes sense to us, inevitably we each have blind spots that may cloud our judgment or limit our ability to see ourselves clearly. In this episode we discuss methods to gauge our blind spots, receive productive feedback from our relationships with others, and hold ourselves accountable to those that need to be eliminated as we continually develop into who we want to be. If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download...2023-04-2718 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerWhen Is It Objectification? - Episode 189Betrayed women often find themselves questioning if their partner is still lusting after or objectifying other women, sometimes years after trust was broken. It can be difficult to know if actions match the thoughts behind them. In this episode we discuss the warning signs of objectification and how those red flags can point to something unresolved in recovery. If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our new...2023-04-2017 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerAre You Motivated by Fear or Love? - Episode 188In the aftermath of betrayal it is very common for the betrayer to act from a place of fear; going through the motions of compliments, acts of service, and even grandiose displays of gifts or affection for fear of losing their partner. This behavior objectifies the betrayed as something to be kept or won, and can often feel manipulative, self-serving and insincere. In today’s episode we discuss how to switch the motivation behind these acts from fear to love. When the motive is genuine care and concern for the betrayed, a pathway to deeper connection and healing can be...2023-04-1316 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerAddressing the Betrayer's Pain - Episode 186For your FREE ticket to the online Betrayal Healing Conference April 10th-14th, or to upgrade to an All-Access pass, please visit: https://gsteurer--betrayalhealing.thrivecart.com/all-access-pass/ If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie During the aftermath of a betrayal, it is common for the betrayer to also have big feelings, emotions, and needs surrounding the incident, or in other aspects of the relationship. However, the partner who was betr...2023-03-3016 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerShould You Confront Your Parents About Your Childhood? - Episode 185A crucial developmental step in adulthood is differentiating from your first family; taking the things that worked from your childhood and leaving behind what didn’t, as you become the adult (or parent) you choose to become. In today’s episode we discuss the importance of these conversations between parents and their adult children. We discuss the balance between seeking acknowledgment from the parents and forgiving them for their mistakes to enable the relationship to continue to grow through the adult years. If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First...2023-03-2317 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerHealing Our Relationship with Food - with Emily Fonnesbeck - Episode 184If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie We encounter food and eating more often than most other activities in our lives, yet it can be one of the most contentious rituals we participate in. In this episode we are pleased to welcome Emily Fonnesbeck, registered dietician, podcast host, and co-founder of Eat Confident Co. to discuss how our relationship with food often mirrors other aspects of our lives. Emily shares that “the wa...2023-03-1650 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerIs it a Slip? A Relapse? A Setback? - Episode 183Healing from addictive and compulsive behaviors is a long road that often includes returning to old problematic behaviors. As disappointing and hurtful as it is for both the recovering partner and the betrayed partner, it is vital that the conversation around what happened is done with honesty, accountability, and compassion for the betrayed partner. In this episode we discuss the harmful effects of using minimizing language that can imply that the effect on the partner or relationship is minimal or inconsequential. We discuss the importance of emphasizing remorse and accountability when talking about returning to harmful patterns. ...2023-03-0915 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerThe Benefits of Family Work - Episode 182The invention of modern-day conveniences have lowered our workloads and increased our free time to spend doing other important work. One thing they have tremendously changed is the need for families to work together doing both simple and more complex daily tasks to thrive as a family. In this episode we discuss the research behind the importance of working together as families and how that can shape the environment in our homes. With everyone feeling needed with their contributions, it can increase attitudes about caring for each other, while developing empathy, connection, and closeness. To read the...2023-03-0223 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerEmotional Safety in Relationships - Episode 181Most of us can describe what it means to be physically safe, or to provide physical safety for another person. But are we able to understand and provide emotional safety for our partner? The water can get murky around this topic, so in this episode we dive in to further understand emotional safety and the impact on relationships, especially after a betrayal. It is important to note that emotional safety can only be present when there is also a baseline of physical and sexual safety. Join us as we discuss ways to be an emotionally safe partner in your...2023-02-2323 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerThe Role of Anger in Healing - Episode 180Today we discuss anger from the viewpoint of women, specifically betrayed partners. We dive into societal stereotypes about how women are perceived when they express anger, and how that can be damaging to their internal regulation of emotions. Using anger as a tool to determine actions, reactions, and boundaries is necessary, the key is how to process it and move forward in a healthy manner.  If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freeb...2023-02-1621 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerRelationship Conflict Patterns with Adam Fisher (Part 3) - Episode 179Through his extensive research and experience as a clinical psychologist, Dr. Adam Fisher joins us to discuss conflict patterns that couples fall into in their relationships. These patterns are the roles that individuals take on, not to be confused with their personalities. In recognizing these patterns, couples can better understand how to come together to resolve conflict. This is the continuation of two previous episodes (151 and 152), and outlines the final 6 relationship conflict patterns. If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on t...2023-02-0951 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerOur Valentine’s Day Guide for Messy Relationships - Episode 178As Valentine’s Day quickly approaches, now is a great time to check in on your relationship. On a holiday that can sometimes feel over-produced on TV and in social media, it’s important to stay honest with where your relationship is at. Whether you’ve just discovered a betrayal, are moving forward after betrayal, or have never dealt with a similar trauma, today we discuss the importance of staying authentic to your relationship, regardless of how those around you are celebrating Valentine’s Day. If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video se...2023-02-0220 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerEmbracing Differences in Your Marriage - Episode 177The beginning of a relationship can be a time of discovering all of the ways in which you are drawn to your partner because of your similarities. The truth, however, is that there will be as many areas you differ in as you are the same. Sorting through these differences and honoring them, while staying unified as a couple, can increase the richness of the relationship while deepening your own identity.  If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right...2023-01-2620 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerBuilding a Marriage-Centered Family - Episode 176Children undoubtedly require a massive amount of time and energy. Too often parents slowly fall into a child-centered marriage and the marriage relationship itself is put on the back burner. In this episode we discuss the need for a marriage-centered marriage. Doing so creates the optimal secure, healthy environment for children as they grow and learn relationship skills of their own. If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For deta...2023-01-1922 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerTaking Care of Yourself as You Rebuild Broken Trust - Episode 175It is understandable that someone who has betrayed their partner often has their own past hurts and issues they need to address and heal. However, how is this supposed to happen when the focus needs to be turned to healing the betrayed partner's pain? Today we discuss this dynamic and how the betrayer can hold space for their partner to heal while also tending to their own wounds.  If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.g...2023-01-1222 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerShould I Feel Compassion for My Addicted Partner? - Episode 174We know that those who struggle with addiction suffer in their own way, but how much compassion should the betrayed partner feel for them? One of the members of our private Connection Plus community asked this very question and we wanted to share our response to them here on our podcast. While compassion often comes to us easily in a variety of circumstances, it's a lot more complicated to access it when you've been betrayed by your partner. In today’s episode we discuss different facets of compassion and how to allow it to come about organically with time an...2023-01-0522 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerWhy Marriage Cannot Fix a Pornography Addiction - Episode 173A common reaction in hearing about a pornography addiction is wondering if something is “off” in the marriage, and especially in the bedroom. This assumption shifts the responsibility of the pornography addiction onto the betrayed partner and will create further damage. In this episode we discuss the harmful effects of this line of thinking, along with why a pornography addiction really isn’t about sex anyway. If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebi...2022-12-2921 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerTaking the First Steps After a Sexual Betrayal - Episode 172In the aftermath of a sexual betrayal discovery, the most common reaction is to freeze and not know how to proceed. Dealing with such an explosive disruption to life can feel paralyzing and confusing to every part of our emotional, mental, and physical senses. In today’s episode we discuss the first crucial steps in beginning the journey to heal. https://sal12step.org/ If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/fr...2022-12-2219 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerHealthy Support vs. Parenting Your Partner - Episode 171In this episode, we tackle the challenging dynamic of how betrayal can turn a marriage into a parent/child arrangement. A balanced partnership is the goal for most couples with each individual carrying their share of responsibilities, supporting the other, and being a reliable second half. Couples going through betrayal issues will often have one partner over-functioning and the other under-functioning (this can also exist long before the discovery of a betrayal). When marriage partners fall into a parent/child dynamic, it breeds resentment and frustration, stalling the healing process for both. If broken trust is an...2022-12-1522 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerThe Problem of Acting Needless and Wantless - Episode 170In a culture where being vulnerable can be seen as weakness, and accepting help can be seen as being a burden, how do we learn to advocate for ourselves? When we haven’t learned how to ask for what we really need or want, we can often turn to unhealthy choices and patterns to fill the void. Today we discuss how resisting help from others can keep us from true connection and intimacy. If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the...2022-12-0820 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerPatience in Healing - Episode 169Healing from trauma, rebuilding relationships, and finding inner peace can often be a long, uphill battle. It can be easy to feel burned out or defeated in the baby steps we need to take during that process. Finding patience during our journey and recognizing just how important those micro adjustments are can give us the boost we need to keep going. If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For deta...2022-12-0119 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerThe Lure of the Victim Mindset - Episode 168Life is full of situations that are out of our control. Once we have recovered from the initial shock of what has happened, how do we proceed? Do we continue to live as if we are powerless? Or do we make choices that we can control to heal and move forward? We have to be accountable and conscious with how we respond to what happens to us. Today we discuss the victim mindset and how that is often a default response mechanism, but how it is so important to choose to take ownership of our lives. If...2022-11-2417 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerBalancing Autonomy and Partnership in a Committed Relationship - Episode 167Our relationships, especially committed ones like marriage, give us the opportunity to influence and be influenced. We may value and prioritize many of the same things, but we will also have areas that are not congruent with our partner’s values. In those times, how do we react? Today we discuss the difference between trying to motivate and influence our partner in a healthy manner, and trying to manipulate and control them merely to get our own way.  If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust...2022-11-1718 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerHow Our Relationships Influence our Internal Motivation - Episode 166Each of us have areas of our lives where we are naturally motivated, disciplined, and focused. In contrast, we also have areas that are not as important to our core values, or that we struggle to prioritize. Today we discuss extrinsic vs. intrinsic motivation and how those shape and evolve throughout our lives, especially through our relationships with others.  For details on our new Connection Plus Community and our special introductory “founder’s pricing”, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for our FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Downlo...2022-11-1022 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerHelping Children be Intrinsically Motivated - Episode 165Have you ever wondered what motivates you to make good decisions, work hard, or put effort into the important areas of your life? Have you wondered the most effective way to motivate others around you, especially your children? Today we start a 3-part discussion on Intrinsic vs. Extrinsic motivation and how one can often influence the other.  Today we begin a new format for this podcast. Hopefully you have listened to last week’s episode where we announced the launch of our new membership program Connection Plus: a community for relationship recovery. In Connection Plus we will hav...2022-11-0322 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerLaunching young adults doesn't have to become a crisis - Dr. Mark McConville - Episode 127If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2022-02-0450 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerHow families can be a resource in addiction recovery - Danny and Emily Deaton - Episode 123If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2022-01-0648 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerRefusing the victim mindset even when you've been victimized - Lindsay and Danny Poelman - Episode 122If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-12-1652 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerCreating a sexually safe relationship - Tammy Hill - Episode 121If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-12-0950 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerHow to stay optimistic and motivated after a recovery setback - Geoff Steurer - Episode 120If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-12-0231 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerSetting boundaries with family during the Holidays - Geoff & Jody Steurer - Episode 119If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-11-181h 16From Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerBuilding a shame-free marriage in recovery - Hayden and Savannah Paul - Episode 118If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-11-1154 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerHow burnout can make you stronger - Valerie Hamaker - Episode 117If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-11-0458 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerHow we build trust with others (part 2) - Hank Smith - Episode 116If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-10-2845 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerHow we build trust with others (part 1) - Hank Smith - Episode 115If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-10-2147 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerHelping children develop their own internal filters - Emily Jones - Episode 114If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-10-1451 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerEssential Truths for Relationships - Dr. Wally Goddard - Episode 113If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-10-0750 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody Steurer9 signals it's time to speak up (part 2) - Jody Steurer and Jamee Adams - Episode 112If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-09-3035 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody Steurer9 signals it's time to speak up - Jody Steurer and Jamee Adams (part 1) - Episode 111If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-09-2334 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerRebuilding broken trust - Geoff Steurer & Tony Overbay - Episode 110If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-09-1656 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerWhy healthy self-talk matters in recovery - Todd Sylvester - Episode 109If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-09-0945 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerA mindful way to address addiction and trauma - Jacob Hess - Episode 108If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-09-0247 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerSponsoring and supporting others in recovery - Thomas 2.0 (part 2) - Episode 107If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-08-2643 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Dark to Light: One man's recovery from pornography and lust - Thomas 2.0 (part 1) - Episode 106If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-08-1949 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerListening to, learning from, and loving our LGBTQ friends and family - Richard "Papa" Ostler - Episode 105I invited Richard "Papa" Ostler, host of this podcast "Listen, Learn, and Love" to join me on this podcast to talk about how we can stay connected to our LGBTQ friends and family. We discuss:  What we can specifically do to better support our LGBTQ friends/family What he's learned from listening to so many unique voices/experiences on his podcast What does it mean to be an "ally" How we can view someone who identifies as LGBTQ as more than their sexual activity Why people still have difficulty loving/accepting our LGBTQ friends How to stay out o...2021-08-1350 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerHow men can build friendships with other men - Connor Beaton - Episode 104If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-08-0553 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerImprove your life by choosing faith over fear - Richie Norton - Episode 103If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-07-2935 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerHow to stop enabling others - Geoff Steurer & Valerie Hamaker - Episode 102If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-07-2233 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerWhat I've learned after recording 99 episodes - Geoff Steurer - Episode 100If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-07-0913 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerAshlee's story of recovery from pornography - Episode 80If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-02-1845 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerSpecial episode! The Illuminate Podcast has a new name!Show Description: After recording over 80 episodes and 100,000+ downloads, I have more clarity about the mission and message of this podcast and decided to update the name of the podcast.  The format and content will stay the same, so if you love what you're hearing....you'll keep hearing more of it! Can't wait to share the new name with you! Connect with Geoff Steurer: www.instagram.com/geoffsteurer/ www.facebook.com/GeoffSteurerMFT Visit www.geoffsteurer.com for online courses and other supportive resources.2021-02-0709 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerTherapeutic Disclosure - Geoff Steurer and Healing with WORTH (part 2) - Episode 79If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-02-0433 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerTherapeutic Disclosure - Geoff Steurer and Healing with WORTH (part 1) - Episode 78If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-01-2834 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerDiscover and use your voice - Jody Steurer and Jamee Adams - Episode 67If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2020-09-1053 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerStaying emotionally healthy during a pandemicHow do we stay emotionally healthy in the midst of a global pandemic? In this special episode, I team up with Amy Cluff, a therapist who specializes in working with betrayal trauma and child/family therapy, to talk about specific ways we can all maintain our emotional health when facing these unprecedented global fears and uncertainties.  We also address the specific concerns for those who are actively working a recovery process from pornography/sexual addiction and betrayal trauma and how they can stay healthy in their own recoveries as they deal with these unexpected a...2020-03-1448 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerWhy you should share your addiction recovery story (and how) - Steven Shields (part 2) - Episode 53If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2020-03-1243 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFinding Peace When Anxious Or Troubled - Geoff Steurer - Episode 38If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2019-07-0344 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerSix guideposts of true recovery from addiction - Geoff Steurer - Episode 37If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2019-05-0921 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerLet's practice healing trauma exercises - Katy Willis (part 2)- Episode 36If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2019-04-2727 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerHealing Trauma Through Yoga - Katy Willis (part 1) - Episode 35If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2019-04-1247 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerWhen is it safe to do couples therapy in recovery? - Jeff Ford and Geoff Steurer - Episode 34The discovery of pornography and other sexual secrets is a trauma that throws most couples into a tailspin. The tendency is to rally around the marriage and do everything possible to save the marriage. But, is that really the best first-line approach? In today's episode, Jeff Ford and Geoff Steurer, both licensed marriage and family therapists talk about critical considerations to make when determining the best time to begin working with a couple during addiction recovery. The Illuminate Podcast is hosted by Geoff Steurer, MS, LMFT.2019-03-2828 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerMindfulness 101 - Taylor Chambers, LMFT (part 2) - Episode 33If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2019-03-1526 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerHelp your children become resilient against pornography - Taylor Chambers, LMFT (part 1) - Episode 32If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2019-02-2729 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerSexual Wholeness in Marriage - Michelle Linford - Episode 31If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2019-02-1357 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerThe power of group therapy - Forest Benedict (part 2) - Episode 30If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2019-01-3136 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerSelf-care for men in recovery from addiction - Forest Benedict (part 1) - Episode 29If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2019-01-1932 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerChanging the pornography discussion with our kids - Dr. Dean Busby (part 2) - Episode 28If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2019-01-0332 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerA Better Way to Teach Your Kids About Sex - Dr. Dean Busby (part 1) - Episode 27If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2018-12-2033 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerYour Brain on Porn - Dr. Don Hilton - Episode 26If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2018-12-0957 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerHow to bring up pornography concerns when dating - Vauna Davis (part 2) - Episode 25If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2018-11-2533 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerHelping Young Adults Change the Conversation about Pornography - Vauna Davis (part 1) - Episode 24If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2018-11-1031 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFinding freedom and peace when betrayed - Roxanne Kennedy (part 2) - Episode 23If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2018-10-2527 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerBetrayal trauma, divorce, and healing - Roxanne Kennedy (part 1) - Episode 22If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2018-10-0431 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFollowing up with Brandon and Jaylynn on their long-term recovery - Illuminate Podcast episode 21In this episode, Geoff Steurer, MS, LMFT interviews Brandon and Jaylynn, the couple who were featured in Episodes 1-6. This is a follow-up visit to understand their recovery journey almost two years after the original interviews. In this interview, we talk about: - How change happens in addiction and trauma recovery - What boundaries and rules are still in place to keep them progressing - The reality that deep and lasting change is possible You can follow Jaylynn on Instagram @latterdaywarrior and contact Brandon at outofthedarkaddict@yahoo.com.2018-09-2146 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerTeaching Children Media Literacy - Dina Alexander (part 2) - Episode 20If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2018-08-2933 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerTeaching Children Media Literacy - Dina Alexander (part 1) - Episode 19If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2018-08-1526 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerCommon Questions about Recovery - Dr. Adam Moore (part 2) - Episode 16If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2018-07-0522 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerCommon Questions about Recovery - Dr. Adam Moore (part 1) - Episode 15If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2018-06-2332 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFight the New Drug - Clay Olsen (part 2) - Episode 14If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2018-06-0223 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFight the New Drug - Clay Olsen (part 1) - Episode 13If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2018-05-2219 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerProtecting Young Minds - Kristen Jenson (part 2) - Episode 12If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2018-05-0834 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerProtecting Young Minds - Kristen Jenson (part 1) - Episode 11If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2018-04-2630 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerIlluminate Podcast - Episode Ten - More About Disclosure - Jeff FordGeoff Steurer continues his interview with Jeff Ford, licensed marriage and family therapist, about the sensitive topic of disclosure. In this episode, they discuss the following points: * The differences between disclosing to a bishop versus a spouse * How do decide who to tell in the disclosure process * What a woman should do if her husband doesn’t want to open up to others about this * Why the advice, “stop bringing up the past” isn’t helpful in the disclosure process * How “letting the past go” is a process, not an event * What type of information should be shared with a betrayed w...2018-04-1533 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerIlluminate Podcast - Episode Nine - Why a full disclosure matters - Jeff FordGeoff Steurer interviews Jeff Ford, licensed marriage and family therapist, about the sensitive topic of disclosure. In this episode, they discuss the following points: * What is a therapeutic disclosure and why is it important for healing? * How should disclosure be approached? * Who needs to know the information? * How does a disclosure facilitate healing in addiction recovery and marriage recovery? 2018-03-2929 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerPatterns of Healing - Michelle Linford (part 2) - Episode 8If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2018-03-1532 minFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerFrom Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerPatterns of Healing - Michelle Linford (part 1) - Episode 7If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2018-02-2831 min