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In Walks a WomanIn Walks a WomanS2 E11 Mary Shelley's Victor Frankenstein: A Bad Mom, IndeedIf you’ve ever felt you should read Mary Shelley’s 1818 novel, Frankenstein, but shortly after starting, found your resolve fading…this is the episode for you!  Sonja commandingly takes the literary wheel and unpacks this intricate novel by illuminating its structure, major themes, and fills in some of the philosophical underpinnings that Shelley explores.  Aside from sharing some childhood Goethe trauma, Vanessa just puts up her feet and enjoys the show.  You, too, will love having the novel broken down for you, whether you have read it, hope to read it, or read it and hope to understand it better...2025-06-061h 02Esperanza-KatoEsperanza-KatoREAD pdf The Dance of Fear: Tackling the Anxiety, Fear, and Shame That Keeps Us from Optimal Living and Loving BY Harriet Lerner in AudioBoostart Reading or Download ebook The Dance of Fear: Tackling the Anxiety, Fear, and Shame That Keeps Us from Optimal Living and Loving Written by Harriet Lerner EPub Visit Link Bellow You Can Download or Read Book online for free   Link To Download 👉 https://novelbooklibs.blogspot.com/id/B0721RQMFT Available versions: EPUB, PDF, MOBI, DOC, Kindle, Audiobook, etc. Summary : Discover the Bestseller Everyone is Talking About: Read The Dance of Fear: Tackling the Anxiety, Fear, and Shame That Keeps Us from Optimal Living and Loving PDF , Reading The Dance of Fear: Tackling the Anxiety, Fear, and Shame That...2024-11-2100 minRead Book Briefs PodcastRead Book Briefs PodcastThe Power of Embracing Anger: A Guide to The Dance of Anger by Harriet LernerHow does Lerner address the cultural and societal factors that influence women’s experience of anger? Lerner addresses the cultural and societal factors that influence women's experience of anger by acknowledging the gendered expectations and stereotypes that women face. She discusses how women are often socialized to be more passive, nurturing, and accommodating, which can make it difficult for them to express anger openly without facing backlash or criticism. Lerner also highlights how societal norms and patriarchal structures can inhibit women from asserting their needs and boundaries, leading to suppressed anger and internalized feelings of powerlessness. ...2024-09-0511 minReading Recap: Book SummariesReading Recap: Book SummariesUnraveling the Dance of Anger: How to Break Free and Find PeaceWhat are the key differences between "healthy" and "unhealthy" expressions of anger according to Lerner? According to Harriet Lerner, healthy expressions of anger involve setting boundaries, expressing feelings in a direct and honest manner, and taking responsibility for one's emotions. On the other hand, unhealthy expressions of anger involve blaming others, being passive-aggressive, and resorting to verbal or physical aggression. Healthy anger allows for communication and resolution, while unhealthy anger can damage relationships and escalate conflicts. What are the main obstacles to expressing anger that Lerner identifies, and how can they be overcome? ...2024-09-0511 minReading Recap: Book SummariesReading Recap: Book SummariesThe Power of Emotions: Exploring Anger with Harriet LernerWhat is the main thesis of Harriet Lerner’s The Dance of Anger? The main thesis of Harriet Lerner's The Dance of Anger is that anger is a natural and valid emotion that can be used as a tool for personal growth and empowerment, rather than something to be repressed or suppressed. Lerner argues that by understanding and expressing our anger in constructive ways, we can improve our relationships, set boundaries, and create positive change in our lives. She also emphasizes the importance of recognizing and addressing the underlying issues that may be fueling our anger, rather th...2024-09-0311 minReading Recap: Book SummariesReading Recap: Book SummariesThe Power of Emotions: Exploring Anger with Harriet LernerWhat is the main thesis of Harriet Lerner’s The Dance of Anger? The main thesis of Harriet Lerner’s The Dance of Anger is that anger is a natural and valid emotion that can be used as a tool for personal growth and empowerment, rather than something to be repressed or suppressed. Lerner argues that by […]2024-09-0311 minResúmenes de lectura rápidaResúmenes de lectura rápidaThe Dance of Anger: Embracing and Transforming Conflict What strategies does Lerner propose for women to deal with anger in a culturally supportive way? In her book "The Dance of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships," author Harriet Lerner proposes several strategies for women to deal with anger in a culturally supportive way. Some of these strategies include: 1. Recognizing and acknowledging their anger: Lerner emphasizes the importance of women recognizing and acknowledging their anger rather than suppressing or denying it. This involves being honest with oneself and others about their feelings of anger. 2. Expressing anger assertively: Lerner...2024-09-0311 minBookey SummaryBookey SummaryUnmasking the Power of Anger: Exploring The Dance Of AngerChapter 1:what is The Dance Of Anger book about"The Dance of Anger" by Harriet Lerner is a self-help book that focuses on how women can effectively express and manage their anger. Lerner addresses the cultural and societal expectations that often inhibit women from expressing anger, resulting in internalization, resentment, and disrupted relationships.The book offers insights and practical advice on how to navigate through anger, communicate assertively, set boundaries, and develop healthier relationships. Lerner emphasizes the importance of understanding one's own anger and transforming it into a catalyst for positive change...2024-01-1211 minthe Bestsellers Summarythe Bestsellers SummaryRevolutionary Resilience: Unlocking the Power of Anger in The Dance of AngerChapter 1:Summary of The Dance Of Anger book "The Dance of Anger" by Harriet Lerner is a self-help book that explores the ways in which women are often socialized to suppress their anger and offers strategies for women to express their anger constructively. Lerner argues that anger is a healthy emotion that can serve as a catalyst for change, but the societal expectations placed on women often lead them to deny or minimize their anger. This denial can result in passive-aggressive behavior, resentment, and damaged relationships. The book identifies various ways i...2024-01-1211 minBookey App 30 mins Book Summaries Knowledge Notes and MoreBookey App 30 mins Book Summaries Knowledge Notes and MoreThe Dance of Anger: A Comprehensive Summary of Harriet Lerner's Empowering BookChapter 1 Reveal the true moral of the The Dance of Anger bookThe Dance of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships is a book written by Harriet Lerner. It was published in 1985 and provides insights into women's anger and how it affects their relationships. The book also offers strategies and tools for women to express and utilize their anger effectively, so they can create healthier and more fulfilling relationships.Chapter 2 Shall we Read the The Dance of Anger book ?"The Dance of Anger" by Harriet Lerner is generally wel...2023-12-0811 minMindFULL conversationsMindFULL conversationsCourageous ConversationsIn this MindFULL Musing, I ponder how hard it can be to have , what I like to call, a Courageous Conversation. Those are the conversations that weigh on your  mind and heart. I mention Harriet Lerner and her helpful new book, Why Won't You Apologize? I also posted the link below to Brene Nrown and Harret LErner's conversation on the very topic. Give a listen. And then go forth and have that conversation. Let us know how it goes! Brene Brown and Harriet Lerner's Conversation:https://open.spotify.com/episode/2jxcLXMB672u5dpc9YqDu9?si=97cf4353070841c...2022-11-2804 minGrow FurtherGrow FurtherSpeaker Series - Dr. Harriet Lerner (Part 2 of 2): I'm Sorry I Never ApologizeMany people believe that apologizing is a sign of weakness and intentionally do not use the words, "I'm sorry". It is likely that someone comes to mind for us all in our personal and/or professional lives that fits this category. Apologizing, in actuality, takes a great deal of strength and self-worth. Join us for part two of our interview with NYT best selling author and relationship expert, Dr. Harriet Lerner, where she explains what is takes for us to apologize and take accountability for things we have done that unintentionally hurt others. Our hosts discuss the f...2022-09-2020 minGrow FurtherGrow FurtherSpeaker Series - Dr. Harriet Lerner (Part 1 of 2): The Do's and Don'ts of a Good ApologyDo you make one of the top 4 apology mistakes when saying , "I'm sorry"? Join us for part one of this interview with NYT best selling author and relationship expert, Dr. Harriet Lerner, where she gives us a crash course on how to sincerely apologize including the top 4 mistakes we commonly make. Our hosts discuss the following with Dr. Harriet Lerner:Why apologizing matters Ingredients of a good apology4 biggest mistakes when apologizingConnect with us at growfurtherpodcast@gmail.comWant to learn more from and/or about Harriet? https://www.harr...2022-09-0718 minThe Codependummy PodcastThe Codependummy PodcastGRR: How My Seething Codependent Resentment Turned into Rage-What do anger, resentment, and rage look like in codependents? -How does our guilt, shame, and embarrassment about our anger help us maintain our unhealthy relationships? -Why we need to stop asking questions like "What's the point of being angry?" and instead get curious about our anger as a signal that something is amiss! Welcome to episode 88! This week, I’m taking a deep dive into ANGER, RESENTMENT, and CODEPENDENT RAGE. But Marissa, if I’m pleasing, placating, and problem-solving for others all the time, how can I be angry? Buckle up, buttercup: when...2022-08-221h 10Nobody Told Me!Nobody Told Me!Harriet Lerner: ...how profoundly important a heartfelt apology isApologies are the topic on this episode. Have you ever found it tough to say, “I’m sorry”, or wished for someone to apologize to you? Our guest, Dr. Harriet Lerner, says apologies are very important in our relationships. Harriet is a well-known psychologist whose latest book is called “Why Won't You Apologize?: Healing Big Betrayals and Everyday Hurts”. You can learn about Harriet by checking out her website at https://www.harrietlerner.com/. Thanks to our sponsors of this episode!   --> AirMedCare Network: AirMedCare Network provides...2022-06-2932 minThat\'s So DeepThat's So DeepE. 23 - Fake Apologies vs. True Apologies: What's the Difference?Hello So Deep Peeps!  Welcome to That’s So Deep.  This is the podcast where we try to root out loneliness one conversation at a time. Today we are talking about Fake Apologies vs. True Apologies: What’s the Difference? Some deep things we cover:Fake Apologies: Conditional apologies, blanket apologies, silencing apologies…we’ve heard them all and done them all.True Apologies (according to Dr. Harriet Lerner): Do not include the word "but". Keep the focus on your actions and not on the ot...2022-04-3040 minExplore New Worlds, Free Audiobook Are the Golden PearlsExplore New Worlds, Free Audiobook Are the Golden PearlsMarriage Rules: A Manual for the Married and the Coupled Up Audiobook by Harriet LernerListen to this audiobook in full for free onhttps://hotaudiobook.com/freeID: 576180 Title: Marriage Rules: A Manual for the Married and the Coupled Up Author: Harriet Lerner Narrator: Natalie Ross Format: Unabridged Length: 5:16:00 Language: English Release date: 04-26-22 Publisher: Penguin Audio Genres: Non-Fiction, Health & Wellness, Marriage & Family, Psychology Summary: Following a unique format perfect for today's world, the renowned author of The Dance of Anger gives us just over 100 rules that cover all the hot spots in long-term relationships.Marriage Rules offers new solutions to age-old problems ("He won't talk"/"She doesn't want sex") as well as modern ones...2022-04-265h 16Discover the Best Audio Stories in Health & Wellness, Relationships & IntimacyDiscover the Best Audio Stories in Health & Wellness, Relationships & IntimacyMarriage Rules: A Manual for the Married and the Coupled Up by Harriet LernerPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/576180to listen full audiobooks. Title: Marriage Rules: A Manual for the Married and the Coupled Up Author: Harriet Lerner Narrator: Natalie Ross Format: Unabridged Audiobook Length: 5 hours 16 minutes Release date: April 26, 2022 Ratings: Ratings of Book: 5 of Total 1 Ratings of Narrator: 5 of Total 1 Genres: Relationships & Intimacy Publisher's Summary: Following a unique format perfect for today's world, the renowned author of The Dance of Anger gives us just over 100 rules that cover all the hot spots in long-term relationships.Marriage Rules offers new solutions to age-old problems ("He won't talk"/"She doesn't want sex") as well...2022-04-265h 16What I Heard This WeekWhat I Heard This WeekThat's the Right Way to FeelToday we are talking about the reasons why we choose to do things and how our motivations impact what we end up doing (and not doing!). Do you want to give your social person these links that we referenced in the episode? Your call, but here they are: Tosha Silver Brene Brown podcast with Harriet Lerner Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner Why Won't You Apologize? by Harriet Lerner   2022-04-2131 minFinding You: by Dr. Brad ReedyFinding You: by Dr. Brad ReedyHealthy Boundaries and Harriet Lerner’s “The Dance of Anger” - Ep 450Dr. Reedy revisits his favorite book on boundaries, “The Dance of Anger,” by Harriet Lerner. He talks about how guilt and fear must be faced for us to set boundaries and become who we are. He explains that anger is a signal that we need to take better care of ourselves. He also explains how we do everything (blame, argue, guilt others, complain, rage, debate, reason, etc.) except set a boundary to get others to change to avoid doing the harder work.2022-02-171h 04Pulling The Thread with Elise LoehnenPulling The Thread with Elise LoehnenWhat Our Anger Teaches Us (Harriet Lerner, Ph.D)“I think it's very important to mention also, Elise, that even if a woman feels permission to be angry, that anger is such a tricky mischievous emotion that it's so difficult to know what our anger means or what to do with it. So we may know that we’re angry and anger activates us to, to act, to take a position, to do something, but our anger does not tell us what the real issue is, who is responsible for what, what is the best way to proceed with our anger…” So says psychotherapist Dr. Harriet Lerner. Lerner is known...2021-11-041h 00Healing with WORTHHealing with WORTH#67 Anger | Healing with WORTHIn this episode, we discuss the emotion of anger. We feel that there are a lot of misconceptions around anger, so we wanted to talk a little more in depth. To help us in this task, we are also pulling from Harriet Lerner's book "The Dance of Anger" to better help us explain from a therapist!  Harriet Lerner says, "Anger exists for a reason, and it always deserves our attention and respect."  Have many of us felt that feeling anger was wrong?  On the churchofjesuschrist.org website it gives this definition of anger: "It...2021-10-2837 minART FICTIONSART FICTIONSEmbodied Violence and Persistent Ambivalence (LUKE BURTON)Guest artist LUKE BURTON joins me to chat about his work via Ben Lerner's 2019 novel 'The Topeka School'. The story revolves around Adam Gordon and his parents, and the ambivalence of language as both a pathway to reparation and a driving force towards violence.  Luke Burton and I go on to discuss his own ambivalence, working with and against male and masculine archetypes in Western art. We acknowledge the ability of psychotherapy to excavate knowledge you didn't previous have about yourself, the selective access to language, the aggression within public rhetoric and language as spells. ...2021-07-061h 09DostaDostaThe Dance of Anger - Harriet LernerIn this episode we discuss the book 'The Dance of Anger - A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships' by Harriet Lerner   Meditative Surrealist Drawing with Ballpoint Pen: https://www.udemy.com/course/meditative-surrealist-drawing-with-ballpoint-pen/?referralCode=A85D5BD23A71B69E149A   Find more episodes here: Podbean: https://andrewlakepodcast.podbean.com/ iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/au/podcast/andrew-lake-podcast/id1439388762?mt=2 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/36T6M5UiOt9E35U6faNQUi ...2021-03-2054 minWe Heal TogetherWe Heal TogetherLet's Talk about Apologies: Part 2.Podcast InfoA new podcast episode drops every Monday.Music credit: L-Ray Music, Courtesy of Shutterstock, Inc.Learn more about your host, Cordelia, by clicking hereBe sure to follow Cordelia on Instagram: @codependentrecoveryWant to help me make this podcast better?  Take an anonymous survey here.---------WORKBOOK + COMMUNITY + RESOURCESWant access to free resources? Click hereNeed help finding a therapist? Click hereCheck out Cordelia's book recommendations hereDisclosure: Cordelia is an affiliate of Bookshop.org and she will earn a commission if you click through and make a purchase.Are you going through a breakup or div...2020-12-2125 minP.A.V.E. PodcastP.A.V.E. PodcastEp 8: How Can We create peace?Having a hard time getting along with those closest to you in these challenging times?Tune in to this episode to see what can help create more peace.Use the link below to get the book “ The Dance of Intimacy” by Harriet Goldhor Lerner, Ph. DThe Dance of Intimacy: A Woman's Guide... book by Harriet Lerner (thriftbooks.com)Do you appreciate my content and want to show your support?Use The link below to donate to my podcast. I sincerely appreciate you!https://app...2020-12-1708 minWe Heal TogetherWe Heal TogetherLet's Talk about Apologies: Part 1.Podcast InfoA new podcast episode drops every Monday.Music credit: L-Ray Music, Courtesy of Shutterstock, Inc.Learn more about your host, Cordelia, by clicking hereBe sure to follow Cordelia on Instagram: @codependentrecoveryWant to help me make this podcast better?  Take an anonymous survey here.---------WORKBOOK + COMMUNITY + RESOURCESWant access to free resources? Click hereNeed help finding a therapist? Click hereCheck out Cordelia's book recommendations hereDisclosure: Cordelia is an affiliate of Bookshop.org and she will earn a commission if you click through and make a purchase.Are you going through a breakup or div...2020-12-1431 minMonday MindsetMonday MindsetApologizing: Making An Apology Genuine and MeaningfulSaying, “I’m sorry” is a significant skill in all interpersonal relationships. In this episode Terri shares what she learned listening to two of her favorite psychologists, Brené Brown and Harriet Lerner, discuss the art of apologizing without the mistakes that so many of us make, despite knowing when we are offered a bad apology. Harriet Lerner and Brené I’m Sorry: How To Apologize & Why It Matters https://brenebrown.com/podcast/harriet-lerner-and-brene-im-sorry-how-to-apologize-why-it-matters/ Please consider helping us make more episodes by supporting Daisy on Patreon. https://bit.ly/MondayMindsetPatreon If you have enjoyed listening to this episode, please leave us a review o...2020-12-0723 minPG-ishPG-ishHow to use anger as a vehicle to change, featuring Dr. Harriet LernerWhen we’re faced with ongoing challenges, it’s easy to fall into a cycle of apathy and anger—especially when we don’t have an outlet for our emotions. As parents, we get tired of holding everything together, and we can end up taking it out on our kids. Psychologist and author Harriet Lerner gives us a brief, lighthearted snapshot of what can happen in relationships when there are communication breakdowns, negative tones, and assumptions strewn about. Watch the full clip here, and for more info about Dr. Harriet Lerner, here’s her website. Check out her books...2020-11-0307 minFind the MagicFind the MagicSeeing Ourselves Clearly in the Role of MotherSociety has often put the role of motherhood either on a pedestal or in a cage, and both are small spaces from which to thrive. Few roles combine such responsibility and power with such possibility for shame and unhelpful pressure. Because of this, the topic of seeing our own role as mother clearly and with curiosity is an important one. Something that every single one of us have in common is the fact that we have a mother. Some of us know our mothers, while some of us have never met her. Our relationship with our mother might be simple...2020-10-2648 minMark Groves PodcastMark Groves PodcastDr. Harriet Lerner - 7 Steps On How To Find Courage And Use Your VoiceI am so excited and honoured to welcome one of my absolute dream guests - the incredible Dr. Harriet Lerner this week.  Dr Lerner is  best known for her scholarly work on the psychology of women and family relationships and is also a best selling author, speaker and teacher. Her incredible books including The Dance of Anger, The Dance of Intimacy and Why Won't You Apologize have completely transformed my life and the way I relate. In this episode, Dr. Lerner walks us through the 7 steps on how to find courage and use your voice. Each step arms us with th...2020-10-121h 18The Mark Groves PodcastThe Mark Groves Podcast#112: 7 Steps On How To Find Courage And Use Your Voice with Dr. Harriet LernerI am so excited and honoured to welcome one of my absolute dream guests - the incredible Dr. Harriet Lerner this week. Dr Lerner is best known for her scholarly work on the psychology of women and family relationships and is also a best selling author, speaker and teacher. Her incredible books including The Dance of Anger, The Dance of Intimacy and Why Won't You Apologize have completely transformed my life and the way I relate. In this episode, Dr. Lerner walks us through the 7 steps on how to find courage and use your voice. Each step arms us with th...2020-10-121h 18Heilige GewohnheitenHeilige Gewohnheiten010 - Es tut mir leidFolgendes ist in dieser Episode enthalten Vier Schritte sind wichtig für eine echte Entschuldigung: Ich muss mir eingestehen, dass ich jemand anderem etwas angetan habe. Ich bekenne das dieser Person. Ich sage: "Es tut mir leid." Ich sorge für Wiedergutmachung wo das möglich ist und arbeite daran, dass es nicht wieder vorkommt. Ressourcen Die gesamte Predigtserie auf YouTube Teil 1 von einem Interview mit Harriet Lerner zum Thema Entschuldigung Teil 2 des Interviews Buchtipp: Versuch's mal mit Entschuldigung von Harriet Lerner Beitragsbild: Photo by Mat...2020-09-0220 minGet Yourself OptimizedGet Yourself Optimized259. Build a Stronger Marriage with Dr. Harriet LernerAnger is an emotion we've all felt and dealt with. It's human nature to feel upset if something doesn't sit well with us. This is a normal occurrence we're all bound to experience. What's important is how we deal with anger especially when our spouses, loved ones, or partners are involved. In this episode, I had the pleasure of interviewing Dr. Harriet Lerner. Harriet is one of our nation's most respected relationship experts. She is the author of numerous scholarly articles on the psychology of women and family relationships and the author of 12 books. Her books include the NY...2020-08-0656 minFind the MagicFind the MagicHow GOOD Apologies Change Every Relationship (Even the one with ourselves) - based on work by Harriet LernerWe ALL make mistakes. Every single one of us. Sometimes, even with the best of intentions, we hurt people. Although many of us are over apologizers for unnecessary things, we often become non-apologizers when it comes time to truly say we are sorry. We buffer it with defensiveness or ego, and our attempts at apologies fall flat. Our relationships suffer when this happens. In this episode, we address how over apologizing is unhelpful and give tips on how to avoid it, and then we delve deep into what makes a true apology, and how to get out...2020-07-2737 minBook Cougars Podcast: Two Middle-Aged Women on the Hunt for a Good ReadBook Cougars Podcast: Two Middle-Aged Women on the Hunt for a Good ReadEpisode 105 - Book of the Month Club Deal and lots of Bookish Banter!Episode One Hundred Five Show Notes We are excited to announce that we are now an affiliate of Libro.fm audiobook platform: Listeners can receive three months for the price of one. Follow this link to learn more. (promo code: bookcougars)– 14th Readalong discussion– Convenience Store Woman – Sayaka Murata (translated by Ginny Tapley Takemori) The discussion will drop on August 4 via Episode 108, please get questions/comments to us by July 31. The Goodreads discussion thread can be found HERE.– Currently Reading –Tuesday Mooney Talks to Ghosts – Kate Racculia (CW)Last Day – L...2020-06-231h 09How She Really Does It.How She Really Does It.Harriet Lerner: Anger, the messenger to clarity [Wisdom Wednesday]Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., is a beloved and respected relationship expert. An author, speaker, and psychologist, Harriet is best known for her work on the psychology of women, marriage, and family relationships. In this conversation she and I talk about anger, why letting yourself feel it is critical, and how it can be a powerful driver for clarity and change in your life. Anger can help us define ourselves. It can teach us what we think, what we feel, and what ground we stand on. Anger also becomes a vehicle for change when it signals...2020-06-1700 minHow She Really Does ItHow She Really Does ItHarriet Lerner: Anger, the messenger to clarity [Wisdom Wednesday]Harriet Lerner, Ph.D is a beloved and respected relationship expert. An author, speaker, and psychologist, Harriet Lerner is best known for her work on the psychology of women, marriage, and family relationships. Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/harriet-lerner-anger-clarity-ww/]2020-06-1757 minFinding You: by Dr. Brad ReedyFinding You: by Dr. Brad ReedyAn Interview with Harriet Lerner, Ph.D. - Ep 319Dr. Reedy welcomes Dr. Harriet Lerner to the podcast. In this interview, they talk about the history and culture of mother-blaming, developing self-compassion, and how an authentic apology leads to healing for both parties. Dr. Lerner uses her personal story and her unique voice to talk about how she got into therapy and writing. Brad asks Harriet about how triggers don't equate to blame and Harriet talks about how to "not take yourself too seriously."2020-06-101h 02Just Me Being Me - No ApologyJust Me Being Me - No ApologyWhat I learnt from being called out about racismYou know this show ain't about shying away from anything my friends, so today I share with you the biggest lessons I learnt from my public naming and shaming on Instagram and the check-ins that I had to do in order for it to be a true learning experience. From the initial defensiveness, to sitting with the uncomfortable and confronting shit that was coming up for me to letting that pass so I could be in a place of listening and not letting my ego and it's need to feel like a "good person" take over. 2020-06-0800 minuzaktanyakınım\'ın kitap molasıuzaktanyakınım'ın kitap molasıuzaktanyakınım'ın kitap molası: Harriet Lerner-Yakın İlişkiler Dansı-3Harriet Lerner - Yakın İlişkiler Dansı kitap molası sohbetinin üçüncü bölümü.2020-05-3120 minuzaktanyakınım\'ın kitap molasıuzaktanyakınım'ın kitap molasıuzaktanyakınım'ın kitap molası: Harriet Lerner-Yakın İlişkiler Dansı-2Harriet Lerner - Yakın İlişkiler Dansı kitap molası sohbetinin ikinci bölümü.2020-05-3124 minuzaktanyakınım\'ın kitap molasıuzaktanyakınım'ın kitap molasıuzaktanyakınım'ın kitap molası: Harriet Lerner-Yakın İlişkiler Dansı-1Harriet Lerner - Yakın İlişkiler Dansı kitap molası sohbetinin birinci bölümü.2020-05-3124 minGo Help Yourself: A Comedy Self-Help Podcast to Make Life Suck LessGo Help Yourself: A Comedy Self-Help Podcast to Make Life Suck LessThe Dance of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships by Harriet LernerThis week Lisa and Misty cover the renowned classic and New York Times bestseller The Dance of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships by Harriet Lerner. Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist, contributor to psychoanalytic concepts regarding family and feminist theory and therapy, and the author of many books. From 1972 to 2001 she was a staff psychologist at the Menninger Clinic in Topeka, Kansas, and a faculty member and supervisor in the Karl Menninger School of Psychiatry. During this time she published extensively on the psychology of women and family relationships, revis...2020-05-291h 13Unapologetically SensitiveUnapologetically SensitiveHow to Heal When We've Been Blindsided Part 2TITLE How We Heal When We’ve Been Blindsided Part 2 GUEST Solo episode EPISODE OVERVIEW As I continue to process being dropped from a group, listeners have asked how to NOT take things personally, and how to not get stuck.  I’m finding I’m wanting to doubt my experience—maybe it wasn’t that bad; maybe I’m exaggerating.  I’m also feeling grief and disappointment.  How do we hold compassion for ALL parts of ourselves because we will be disappointed by others, and we will disappoint others.  I share the tools...2020-05-1930 minConversations with Nova ReidConversations with Nova ReidWhite silence and why is it so hard to apologise?Flying solo today as I share a few thoughts of what's been going on behind the scenes, events that have unfolded this week. I talk about systemic and overt racism, white silence in the wellness communities and friendship circles, why it happens so often and why it is so palpable and painful. The impact of bias reporting in media.  I also talk about white women and black women, & the risk of speaking your truth in these friendships. Plus the power of apology and why it's often those closest to us who struggle with these two powerful words the m...2020-05-1042 minUnlocking Us with Brené BrownUnlocking Us with Brené BrownHarriet Lerner and Brené - I’m Sorry: How To Apologize & Why It Matters, Part 2 of 2Dr. Harriet Lerner’s work has transformed my work and my life. She’s a renowned psychologist and bestselling author who has been studying apologies — and why some people won’t give them — for more than two decades. In Part 2 of our two-part series, we share from a course together on her groundbreaking book Why Won’t You Apologize?: Healing Big Betrayals and Everyday Hurts. We dig into the “mischief of defensiveness,” the power of listening, and the secret life of the non-apologizer. We also take on one helluva role play where you get to hear me get schooled and learn a lot...2020-05-081h 18Unlocking Us with Brené BrownUnlocking Us with Brené BrownHarriet Lerner and Brené - I’m Sorry: How To Apologize & Why It Matters, Part 1 of 2This is the first episode of two-part special based on a course that Dr. Harriet Lerner and I did together on her groundbreaking book Why Won’t You Apologize?: Healing Big Betrayals and Everyday Hurts. It’s an authentic, hard conversation about making mistakes, healing hurts, and being brave. Harriet is a friend, mentor, and teacher. Her work has shaped my career and made my life better. During a time of deep uncertainty and anxiety — when many of us have struggled to be our best selves all of the time — apologizing has never been more important. Learn...2020-05-061h 14Finding You: by Dr. Brad ReedyFinding You: by Dr. Brad ReedyBook Review of "The Dance Of Connection" by Harriet Lerner Ph.D. - Ep 292Dr. Reedy give a fave review to Harriet Lerner's Dance of Connection. He summarizes many key points and tools and touts the book as a wonderful invitation to be your "highest self" and be kind to yourself along the way. He talks about how connection starts with Self work and boundaries.2020-02-121h 12The CutThe CutPenis Envy and Other ProblemsBen Lerner is not known for freestyling. He's known for writing novels (also poems). But as a kid growing up in Topeka, Ben was deep in a world of male anger—anger that found outlets in debate championships, drunken fistfights, and, yes, also white-guy rap battles. And while Ben was growing up, his mom, Harriet Lerner, was navigating a world of anger, too. In this episode, Ben and Harriet talk about how their family's life shaped Ben's new novel, The Topeka School. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices2019-10-0833 minConversations with Joan PodcastConversations with Joan PodcastConversations with Joan 8-25-19Harriet Lerner, PhD: Change the Dance According to Dr. Harriet Lerner, anger is a signal worth listening to, one that deserves our attention and respect. Dr. Lerner, a relationship expert, teaches us how to identify the true sources of our anger so that we can avoid venting it in a way that leaves us feeling helpless and powerless. She shows us how anger can be a powerful vehicle for creating lasting change. Dr. Lerner is one of the world’s most respected voices in the psychology of women and family relationships. Her books include, The Dance of Ang...2019-08-2651 minHow She Really Does It.How She Really Does It.Harriet Lerner PhD: Anger, The Road to YOU [Wisdom Wed]Anger. You probably sometimes find yourself getting angry about work, relationships, or circumstances. It's a powerful emotion, but is your anger effective at creating lasting change? Do you work hard trying to diminish your anger?  Harriet Lerner is a practicing clinical psychologist and is best known for her work on the psychology of women, marriage, and family relationships. She is the author of eleven books including the New York Times bestseller The Dance of Anger. You may remember Dr. Harriet Lerner was a guest here before and when we talked about sex in relationships from her latest book...2019-07-1700 minHow She Really Does ItHow She Really Does ItHarriet Lerner PhD: Anger, The Road to YOU [Wisdom Wed]Anger. You probably sometimes find yourself getting angry about work, relationships, or circumstances. It’s a powerful emotion, but is your anger effective at creating lasting change? Do you work hard trying to diminish your anger?  Tune in to hear Harriet give us insight about our anger and how it can help our lives. We discuss how anger can be used effectively versus how it can be dysfunctional. Hint: ignoring anger or venting anger will not identify and address the underlying problems from which anger stems. Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshe...2019-07-1755 minJulie in ConversationJulie in ConversationThe Mother's Day Revue- Part 1 of a three-part podcast special celebrating motherhood with Harriet Lerner, Ph.D. and more special guests.Favourite bits and brand new hits from the series #Motherhood #LetsCreateAVillage with host Julie Cusmariu. In Part 1, Celebrated author, and one of the most respected voices in the psychology of women, Harriet Lerner, Ph.D. returns to the conversation to talk about creating and maintaining healthy relationships when kids are in the picture. Other highlights include wisdom shared from Sheryl Paul, Madonna Maher, Dr. Christine Carter, Anna Seewald and Dr. Elizabeth Cohen. Listen all the way through to benefit from all the helpful tips and deep insights shared on relationships, the keys to happiness, the transitions we experience through motherhood...2019-05-081h 52Safe Space RadioSafe Space RadioApologies We all make mistakes. Knowing how to mend our relationships is vital to the mental health of our families and communities. This episode is an exploration of apologies: why saying “I’m sorry” can be difficult, and how we can get better at repairing the relationships that matter the most. Through stories, this show addresses apologies after the #MeToo movement, and the pressure to forgive. It also chronicles the many ways a restorative justice process can change the lives of everyone involved. We combine storytelling with practical expert guidance to give you the tools you need to start you own co...2019-05-0152 minMental Health Archives - Safe Space RadioMental Health Archives - Safe Space RadioApologies We all make mistakes. Knowing how to mend our relationships is vital to the mental health of our families and communities. This episode is an exploration of apologies: why saying “I’m sorry” can be difficult, and how we can get better at repairing the relationships that matter the most. Through stories, this show addresses apologies after the #MeToo movement, and the pressure to forgive. It also chronicles the many ways a restorative justice process can change the lives of everyone involved. We combine storytelling with practical expert guidance to give you the tools you need to start you own co...2019-05-0152 minSafe Space RadioSafe Space RadioCan We Talk? | Full Interview with Dr. Harriet LernerListen to Dr. Anne Hallward's extended interview with Dr. Harriet Lerner on what makes a good apology. Listen to the full Can We Talk? Apologies episode at safespaceradio.com/apologies.2019-04-281h 06Dear SugarsDear Sugars Moving On, Part 2 — With Dr. Harriet Lerner In this second part of our series on moving on, the Sugars discuss how we can release ourselves from our past mistakes. Dr. Harriet Lerner drops in to answer a letter from a woman who calls herself a "serial codependent," as well as a woman who is haunted by her abortion.2018-08-2543 minThe Spark With Stephanie JamesThe Spark With Stephanie JamesThe Art of An Authentic Apology with Harriet Lerner, Ph.D.How do we say “I’m sorry?” A true apology goes beyond words and includes our behavior, and our ability to express empathy and connect with one another.There actually is an art to apology; a way we can own our own behavior and express our apologies in ways that go beyond just remedy the situation, they actually help us heal one another.Join us for this episode of The Spark, where our guest will be psychologist and New York Times bestselling author Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., as she teaches us the subtleties of the art of spe...2018-07-191h 03Advice from MomAdvice from MomEp 25: Dr. Harriet Lerner—how we think about mothersTo kick off our May series on mothering social change, what could be more fitting than to re-examine how we think about motherhood and mental health? Momma B & Rebecca talk to esteemed psychologist, Dr. Harriet Lerner, one of our nation's most loved and respected experts on women and family relationships, and the author of twelve books include The New York Times bestseller, The Dance of Anger, The Mother Dance, and, most recently, Why Won't You Apologize? Harriet also shares the true feminist origins of Mother’s Day. Happy Mother’s Day to all our favorite moms & non-moms! .·:*'`*:·..·:*'`*:·.·:*'`*:·..·:*'`*:·.·:*'`...2018-05-0937 minThe Couples Therapist CouchThe Couples Therapist Couch027: Harriet Lerner on ApologizingA meaningful apology can transform a relationship. A lackluster apology can just as easily lead to major problems in people's ability to connect.  For the past 2 decades, Dr. Harriet Lerner has studied the art of the apology and recently just published her latest book called Why Won't You Apologize? Harriet Lerner is one of the nation's most loved and respected relationship experts, renowned for her scholarly work on the psychology of women and family dynamics. She has written 12 books including the New York Times bestselling The Dance of Anger, which has sold several million copies. 2018-01-3047 minJulie in ConversationJulie in ConversationHarriet Lerner, Ph.D. talks motherhood and apologies on #Motherhood, let's create a village, the seriesHarriet Lerner, Ph.D. joins Jule in Conversation to talk about her new book Why Don't You Apologize and her bestseller The Mother Dance.2018-01-2449 minRelationship Alive!Relationship Alive!How and Why to Apologize Effectively - with Harriet LernerHave you ever received an apology that didn’t quite cut it? That made things even worse? Plus, let’s face it - life can be messy. Despite your best intentions, it is nearly impossible to avoid causing harm or hurt every so often. So - when is an apology necessary? How do you apologize effectively? Isn’t “I’m sorry” enough? What are the key ingredients to be able to repair a relationship in a way that makes your connection stronger? And what is the place of forgiveness in all of this? In today’s episode, we’re chatting with Dr...2017-10-181h 07The Matt Townsend ShowThe Matt Townsend ShowProblems with Prisons, Why Won't You Apologize, Dirt Is GoodBehind the walls of America’s prisons (16:02) Heather Ann Thompson, Ph.D., is a native Detroiter and historian on the faculty of the University of Michigan in Ann Arbor in the departments of Afro-American and African Studies, History, and the Residential College. She is the author of the book, Blood in the Water: The Attica Prison Uprising of 1971 and its Legacy. The severe heat in Texas prisons is linked to several deaths and lawsuits.  A new court order is forcing authorities to move over 1 thousand Texas prisoners to cooler cells, saying the inmates need air conditioning.  In fact, the judge rule...2017-08-092h 23CIIS Public ProgramsCIIS Public ProgramsHarriet Lerner: On ApologiesAuthor and psychologist Harriet Lerner is joined in conversation by CIIS faculty member Barbara Morrill to explore what makes a good apology, and why they're so important.2017-05-0353 minTalkWithMETalkWithMEHarriet Lerner, clinical psychologist and authorHarriet is one of America’s most respected relationship experts, and the author of numerous scholarly articles and popular books, including the New York Times bestseller The Dance of Anger, which has sold several million copies. Newest book, WHY WON’T YOU APOLOGIZE?: Healing Big Betrayals and Everyday Hurts, shows us how much the apology matters and why we so often muck it up. Harriet provides a unique perspective on what the good apology requires and how we can restore compromised and broken relationships. More at www.HarrietLerner.com 2017-02-0351 minDr. Harriet Lerner discusses #WhyWontYouApologize on #ConversationsLIVEHost Cyrus Webb welcomes Dr. Harriet Lerner to #ConversationsLIVE to discuss her new book WHY WON'T YOU APOLOGIZE.2017-01-1128 minGrab Free Audiobook in Self Development, Communication SkillsGrab Free Audiobook in Self Development, Communication SkillsWhy Won't You Apologize? by Harriet Lerner PhD | Free AudiobookListen to full audiobooks for free on :https://hotaudiobook.com/freeTitle: Why Won't You Apologize? Author: Harriet Lerner PhD Narrator: Cassandra Campbell Format: Unabridged Length: 4 hrs and 36 mins Language: English Release date: 01-10-17 Publisher: Simon & Schuster Audio Genres: Self Development, Communication Skills Summary: Renowned psychologist and best-selling author of The Dance of Anger sheds new light on the two most important words in the English language - I'm sorry - and offers a unique perspective on the challenge of healing broken connections and restoring trust. Dr. Harriet Lerner has been studying apologies - and why some people won't give...2017-01-104h 36Discover New Releases Audiobooks in Self Development, Communication SkillsDiscover New Releases Audiobooks in Self Development, Communication SkillsWhy Won't You Apologize? Audiobook by Harriet Lerner PhDListen to this audiobook free with a 30-day trial. Go tohttp://hotaudiobook.com/freeTitle: Why Won't You Apologize? Subtitle: Healing Big Betrayals and Everyday Hurts Author: Harriet Lerner PhD Narrator: Cassandra Campbell Format: Unabridged Length: 4 hrs and 36 mins Language: English Release date: 01-10-17 Publisher: Simon & Schuster Audio Ratings: 4.5 of 5 out of 221 votes Genres: Self Development, Communication Skills Publisher's Summary: Renowned psychologist and best-selling author of The Dance of Anger sheds new light on the two most important words in the English language - I'm sorry - and offers a unique perspective on the challenge of healing broken connections and...2017-01-104h 36Unlock Top Full Audiobooks in Health & Wellness, Relationships & IntimacyUnlock Top Full Audiobooks in Health & Wellness, Relationships & IntimacyWhy Won't You Apologize?: Healing Big Betrayals and Everyday Hurts by Harriet LernerPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/281444to listen full audiobooks. Title: Why Won't You Apologize?: Healing Big Betrayals and Everyday Hurts Author: Harriet Lerner Narrator: Cassandra Campbell Format: Unabridged Audiobook Length: 4 hours 37 minutes Release date: January 10, 2017 Ratings: Ratings of Book: 4.08 of Total 13 Ratings of Narrator: 5 of Total 2 Genres: Relationships & Intimacy Publisher's Summary: “If you want to know why Harriet Lerner is one of my great heroes, Why Won’t You Apologize? is the answer. This book is a game changer.” —Brené Brown, PhD, LMSW, author of the #1 New York Times bestseller Rising Strong “Harriet Lerner is one hell of a wise woman...2017-01-104h 37Unlock Top Full Audiobooks in Health & Wellness, Relationships & IntimacyUnlock Top Full Audiobooks in Health & Wellness, Relationships & IntimacyThe Dance of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships by Harriet LernerPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/265814to listen full audiobooks. Title: The Dance of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships Author: Harriet Lerner Narrator: Barbara Caruso Format: Unabridged Audiobook Length: 6 hours 51 minutes Release date: August 16, 2016 Ratings: Ratings of Book: 4.42 of Total 36 Ratings of Narrator: 4.75 of Total 8 Genres: Relationships & Intimacy Publisher's Summary: Anger is something we feel. It exists for a reason and always deserves our respect and attention. We all have a right to everything we feel—and certainly our anger is no exception. ''Anger is a signal and one worth listening to,'' writes Dr...2016-08-166h 51Avon BooksAvon BooksTHE DANCE OF ANGER by Harriet Lerner, Ph.D.Read by Barbara Caruso About the Book Anger is something we feel. It exists for a reason and always deserves our respect and attention. We all have a right to everything we feel—and certainly our anger is no exception. "Anger is a signal and one worth listening to," writes Dr. Harriet Lerner in her renowned classic that has transformed the lives of millions of readers. While anger deserves our attention and respect, women still learn to silence our anger, to deny it entirely, or to vent it in a way that leaves us feeling helpless and powerless. In this en...2016-08-1604 minME READING STUFFME READING STUFFAfter Dark! Oliverio Girondo - At the gravitating turningAfter 6 days of not leaving the house, I'm coming at you loud and strong and without Vitamin D. Cuddle with your stuffed animals while listening to this one! LINKS:Buy "In the Moremarrow / En la masmedula" by Oliverio Girondo, Translated by Molly Weigel here at Action Books: http://actionbooks.org/oliverio-girondo-moremarrow/Check out information about The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner PhD here: http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/dance-of-anger-harriet-lerner/1100553621Follow me on Twitter and Instagram @robyn_oneil2016-08-0110 minDownload High-Quality Free Audiobooks in Self-Improvement, Parenting TipsDownload High-Quality Free Audiobooks in Self-Improvement, Parenting TipsThe Mother Dance: How Children Change Your Life by Harriet LernerPlease visit https://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/268799 to listen full audiobooks. Title: The Mother Dance: How Children Change Your Life Author: Harriet Lerner Narrator: Suzanne Toren Format: Unabridged Audiobook Length: 9 hours 45 minutes Release date: July 12, 2016 Ratings: Ratings of Book: 5 of Total 1 Genres: Parenting Tips Publisher's Summary: From the celebrated author of The Dance of Anger comes an extraordinary book about mothering and how it transforms us -- and all our relationships -- inside and out. Written from her dual perspective as a psychologist and a mother, Lerner brings us deeply personal tales that run the gamut from the hilarious to...2016-07-1205 minDownload High-Quality Full Audiobooks in Self-Improvement, Parenting TipsDownload High-Quality Full Audiobooks in Self-Improvement, Parenting TipsThe Mother Dance: How Children Change Your Life by Harriet LernerPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/268799to listen full audiobooks. Title: The Mother Dance: How Children Change Your Life Author: Harriet Lerner Narrator: Suzanne Toren Format: Unabridged Audiobook Length: 9 hours 45 minutes Release date: July 12, 2016 Ratings: Ratings of Book: 5 of Total 1 Genres: Parenting Tips Publisher's Summary: From the celebrated author of The Dance of Anger comes an extraordinary book about mothering and how it transforms us -- and all our relationships -- inside and out. Written from her dual perspective as a psychologist and a mother, Lerner brings us deeply personal tales that run the gamut from the hilarious to the...2016-07-129h 45Avon BooksAvon BooksTHE MOTHER DANCE by Harriet Lerner, Ph.D.Read by Suzanne Toren About the Book From the celebrated author of The Dance of Anger comes an extraordinary book about mothering and how it transforms us -- and all our relationships -- inside and out. Written from her dual perspective as a psychologist and a mother, Lerner brings us deeply personal tales that run the gamut from the hilarious to the heart-wrenching. From birth or adoption to the empty nest, The Mother Dance teaches the basic lessons of motherhood: that we are not in control of what happens to our children, that most of what we worry about doesn't...2016-07-1204 minRelationship Alive!Relationship Alive!How to Turn Your Anger into a Force for Good with Harriet LernerWhen was the last time you got really angry? And...how did that go for you? Was it a positive experience, or...not? And...do you and your partner know how to use your anger to foster growth in your connection? The reason I’m asking is that today’s guest is Harriet Lerner, Clinical Psychologist and author of the classic book The Dance of Anger which has sold over 3 MILLION copies worldwide. Harriet is one of the world’s most trusted experts on the topic of relationships, and her work has inspired countless others on the topics...2015-11-1055 minGrab Free Audiobook in Self Development, Communication SkillsGrab Free Audiobook in Self Development, Communication SkillsHarriet Lerner on Mothers and Daughters by Harriet Lerner | Free AudiobookListen to full audiobooks for free on :https://hotaudiobook.com/freeTitle: Harriet Lerner on Mothers and Daughters Author: Harriet Lerner Narrator: Harriet Lerner Format: Original Recording Length: 1 hr and 28 mins Language: English Release date: 11-11-14 Publisher: Sounds True Genres: Self Development, Communication Skills Summary: Before a woman is anything else, she is a daughter. Her relationship with her mother anchors every other relationship in her life. Yet as an adult she may still blame her mother, try to change her, or fail to speak out about issues that matter. Harriet Lerner on Mothers and Daughters is a personal conversation...2014-11-111h 28Get Top 100 Audiobooks in Self Development, Motivation & InspirationGet Top 100 Audiobooks in Self Development, Motivation & InspirationHarriet Lerner on Anger Audiobook by Harriet LernerPlease open https://hotaudiobook.com ONLY on your standard browser Safari, Chrome, Microsoft or Firefox to download full audiobooks of your choice for free. Title: Harriet Lerner on Anger Subtitle: Where Your Anger Comes from and How to Transform It Author: Harriet Lerner Narrator: Harriet Lerner Format: Original Recording Length: 1 hr and 38 mins Language: English Release date: 11-11-14 Publisher: Sounds True Ratings: 4.5 of 5 out of 20 votes Genres: Self Development, Motivation & Inspiration Publisher's Summary: When Harriet Lerner began work on her book The Dance of Anger at the Menninger Clinic nearly 30 years ago, there were no books on this subject...2014-11-111h 38Download Most Popular Audiobooks in Self Development, Communication SkillsDownload Most Popular Audiobooks in Self Development, Communication SkillsHarriet Lerner on Mothers and Daughters Audiobook by Harriet LernerListen to this audiobook free with a 30-day trial. Go tohttp://hotaudiobook.com/freeTitle: Harriet Lerner on Mothers and Daughters Subtitle: Breaking the Patterns That Keep You Stuck Author: Harriet Lerner Narrator: Harriet Lerner Format: Original Recording Length: 1 hr and 28 mins Language: English Release date: 11-11-14 Publisher: Sounds True Ratings: 4.5 of 5 out of 40 votes Genres: Self Development, Communication Skills Publisher's Summary: Before a woman is anything else, she is a daughter. Her relationship with her mother anchors every other relationship in her life. Yet as an adult she may still blame her mother, try to change her, or fail...2014-11-111h 28Talk CocktailTalk CocktailThe ongoing Dance of AngerIn the 1960’s anger was a powerful motivator in civic discourse, as we protested, marched, fought and found new ways to understand relationships. In 1976 Howard Beale told us we had to get up, and get angry!   in 1985, Dr. Harriet Lerner explained  how anger was a signal, an early warning system about issues in our relationships, among woman, and arguably writ large. Today, anger is even more complex.  Anger globally, domestically and still, anger intimately.    As such, the solutions are also more difficult to achieve.  Harriet Lerner who has since 1985 written extensively about fear, and inti...2014-06-0629 minHow She Really Does It.How She Really Does It.Harriet Lerner: Anger the Messenger to ClarityHarriet Lerner, Ph.D is our nation's most loved and respected relationship experts.  An author, speaker, psychologist, Harriet Lerner is best known for her work on the psychology of women, marriage and family relationships. She is the author of eleven books including the New York Times bestseller The Dance of Anger which has sold 3 million copies and translated into 35 foreign editions. Harriet returns to talk more about anger and how you can use it as a messenger to clarity. “We need to hear the sound of our voice for what we thi...2014-05-0900 minHow She Really Does It.How She Really Does It.Harriet Lerner: Anger the Road to YOUAnger.  Do you find yourself angry?.  Do you not want to be angry?  Do you work hard trying to diminish your anger? Harriet Lerner is a practicing clinical psychologist and is best known for her work on the psychology of women, marriage and family relationships.  She is the author of eleven books including the New York Times bestseller The Dance of Anger.  You may remember Dr. Harriet Lerner was a guest here before and when we talked about sex in relationships from her latest book Marriage Rules: A Manual for the Married and the Coupled. In th...2012-12-2155 minDaughters of MormonismDaughters of MormonismEpisode 42: "Elementally You" — Depression & Mormon Women Part IIIRight click here to download the mp3. Art by Jarosław Kubick In the final segment of our discussion, we talk about ways we hid our depression or magnified our depression (what made things worse) and ways we helped our depression (what made things better). The panelists will be watching the comments to respond to questions. Here is a summary of the resources and other things that helped us. Process: Name the problem Identify root causes (often things from the past) and work through them F...2012-05-1800 minHow She Really Does It.How She Really Does It.Harriet Lerner, Ph.D.Dr. Harriet Lerner is a practicing clinical psychologist and is best known for her work on the psychology of women, marriage and family relationships. She is the author of eleven books including the New York Times bestseller The Dance of Anger. Her latest book is MARRIAGE RULES; A MANUAL FOR THE MARRIED AND THE COUPLED UP. Dr. Lerner and I talked about Marriage + Sex + Affairs. why vulnerability is important for relationships the unconscious mind and sexual fantasies what to do after the affair Connect with Harriet Lerner, Ph.D book website twitter facebook m...2012-02-2400 minHow to Stream Audiobook in Self Development, RelationshipsHow to Stream Audiobook in Self Development, RelationshipsMarriage Rules by Harriet Lerner Ph.D. | Free AudiobookListen to full audiobooks for free on :https://hotaudiobook.com/freeTitle: Marriage Rules Author: Harriet Lerner Ph.D. Narrator: Natalie Ross Format: Unabridged Length: 5 hrs and 19 mins Language: English Release date: 01-05-12 Publisher: Brilliance Audio Genres: Self Development, Relationships Summary: Following a unique format perfect for todays world, the renowned author of The Dance of Anger gives us more than 100 rules that cover all the hot spots in long-term relationships. Its a go-to guide brimming with Lerners signature clarity, wit, and warmth.Couples today operate in a time famine. One or both parties are likely to be hit by...2012-01-055h 19Listen to the Stories That Inspire You With Full AudiobookListen to the Stories That Inspire You With Full AudiobookMother Dance Audiobook by Harriet LernerListen to this audiobook in full for free onhttps://hotaudiobook.com/freeID: 240412 Title: Mother Dance Author: Harriet Lerner Narrator: Harriet Lerner Format: Abridged Length: 03:05:00 Language: English Release date: 10-04-05 Publisher: HarperAudio Genres: Non-Fiction, Health & Wellness, Marriage & Family, Psychology, Parenting Summary: Bestselling Author Harriet Lerner leads you in the most magnificent dance of all: The Mother Dance! Her phenomenally successful audio books have profoundly changed the way we think about anger and intimacy. Now psychologist and mother Harriet Lerner tackles the most emotionally charged, issue of all time: motherhood. In her own candid, and compassionate voice, Dr. Lerner discusses this...2005-10-043h 05Download High-Quality Full Audiobooks in Self-Improvement, Parenting TipsDownload High-Quality Full Audiobooks in Self-Improvement, Parenting TipsThe Mother Dance by Harriet LernerPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/240412to listen full audiobooks. Title: The Mother Dance Author: Harriet Lerner Narrator: Harriet Lerner Format: Abridged Audiobook Length: 3 hours 5 minutes Release date: October 4, 2005 Ratings: Ratings of Book: 4.5 of Total 2 Ratings of Narrator: 3 of Total 1 Genres: Parenting Tips Publisher's Summary: Bestselling Author Harriet Lerner leads you in the most magnificent dance of all: The Mother Dance! Her phenomenally successful audio books have profoundly changed the way we think about anger and intimacy. Now psychologist and mother Harriet Lerner tackles the most emotionally charged, issue of all time: motherhood. In her own candid, and compassionate voice...2005-10-043h 05Download High-Quality Free Audiobooks in Self-Improvement, Parenting TipsDownload High-Quality Free Audiobooks in Self-Improvement, Parenting TipsThe Mother Dance by Harriet LernerPlease visit https://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/240412 to listen full audiobooks. Title: The Mother Dance Author: Harriet Lerner Narrator: Harriet Lerner Format: Abridged Audiobook Length: 3 hours 5 minutes Release date: October 4, 2005 Ratings: Ratings of Book: 4.5 of Total 2 Ratings of Narrator: 3 of Total 1 Genres: Parenting Tips Publisher's Summary: Bestselling Author Harriet Lerner leads you in the most magnificent dance of all: The Mother Dance! Her phenomenally successful audio books have profoundly changed the way we think about anger and intimacy. Now psychologist and mother Harriet Lerner tackles the most emotionally charged, issue of all time: motherhood. In her own candid, and compassionate...2005-10-0405 minAccess Must-Have Full Audiobooks in Health & Wellness, Relationships & IntimacyAccess Must-Have Full Audiobooks in Health & Wellness, Relationships & IntimacyThe Mother Dance by Harriet LernerPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/240412to listen full audiobooks. Title: The Mother Dance Author: Harriet Lerner Narrator: Harriet Lerner Format: Abridged Audiobook Length: 3 hours 5 minutes Release date: October 4, 2005 Ratings: Ratings of Book: 4.5 of Total 2 Ratings of Narrator: 3 of Total 1 Genres: Relationships & Intimacy Publisher's Summary: Bestselling Author Harriet Lerner leads you in the most magnificent dance of all: The Mother Dance! Her phenomenally successful audio books have profoundly changed the way we think about anger and intimacy. Now psychologist and mother Harriet Lerner tackles the most emotionally charged, issue of all time: motherhood. In her own candid, and compassionate voice...2005-10-043h 05Listen to the Stories That Inspire You With Full AudiobookListen to the Stories That Inspire You With Full AudiobookLife Preservers Audiobook by Harriet LernerListen to this audiobook in full for free onhttps://hotaudiobook.com/freeID: 240413 Title: Life Preservers Author: Harriet Lerner Narrator: Harriet Lerner Format: Abridged Length: 03:03:00 Language: English Release date: 10-04-05 Publisher: HarperAudio Genres: Non-Fiction, Psychology Summary: With wit, wisdom and uncommon sense, Dr. Harriet Lerner gives readers the tools to solve problems and create joy, meaning and integrity in their relationships. Women will find Life Preservers (more than 40,000 copies sold in hardcover) to be an invaluable motivational guide that covers the landscape of work and creativity, anger and intimacy, friendship and marriage, children and parents, loss and betrayal, sexuality and...2005-10-043h 03How to Discover Free Audiobook in Self Development, Motivation & InspirationHow to Discover Free Audiobook in Self Development, Motivation & InspirationThe Dance of Connection by Harriet Lerner | Free AudiobookListen to full audiobooks for free on :https://hotaudiobook.com/freeTitle: The Dance of Connection Author: Harriet Lerner Narrator: Harriet Lerner Format: Abridged Length: 4 hrs and 38 mins Language: English Release date: 07-22-05 Publisher: HarperAudio Genres: Self Development, Motivation & Inspiration Summary: In her most affirming and life-changing book yet, Dr. Harriet Lerner teaches us how to restore love and connection with the people who matter the most. In The Dance of Connection we learn what to say (and not say) when: Filled with compelling personal stories and case examples, Lerner outlines bold new "voice lessons" that show us how to...2005-07-224h 38Listen to the Stories That Inspire You With Full AudiobookListen to the Stories That Inspire You With Full AudiobookDance of Connection Audiobook by Harriet LernerListen to this audiobook in full for free onhttps://hotaudiobook.com/freeID: 240458 Title: Dance of Connection Author: Harriet Lerner Narrator: Harriet Lerner Format: Abridged Length: 04:39:00 Language: English Release date: 07-05-05 Publisher: HarperAudio Genres: Non-Fiction, Health & Wellness, Psychology, Mindfulness & Meditation Summary: Bestselling author Harriet Lerner focuses on the challenge and the importance of being able to express one's ''authentic voice'' in intimate relationships. The key problem in relationships, particularly over time, is that people begin to lose their voice. 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With the passion, humor, and clarity that...2004-06-023h 01Listen to Best Full Audiobooks in Health & Wellness, Relationships & IntimacyListen to Best Full Audiobooks in Health & Wellness, Relationships & IntimacyThe Dance of Anger by Harriet LernerPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/32966to listen full audiobooks. Title: The Dance of Anger Author: Harriet Lerner Narrator: Harriet Lerner Format: Abridged Audiobook Length: 2 hours 58 minutes Release date: May 11, 2004 Ratings: Ratings of Book: 3.31 of Total 26 Ratings of Narrator: 4.17 of Total 6 Genres: Relationships & Intimacy Publisher's Summary: The renowned classic and New York Times bestseller that has transformed the lives of millions of readers, dramatically changing how women and men view relationships. Anger is something we feel. It exists for a reason and always deserves our respect and attention. We all have a right to everything we feel—and certainly our an...2004-05-112h 58Listen to Best Full Audiobooks in Health & Wellness, Relationships & IntimacyListen to Best Full Audiobooks in Health & Wellness, Relationships & IntimacyThe Dance of Intimacy by Harriet LernerPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/32967to listen full audiobooks. Title: The Dance of Intimacy Author: Harriet Lerner Narrator: Harriet Lerner Format: Abridged Audiobook Length: 2 hours 52 minutes Release date: May 11, 2004 Ratings: Ratings of Book: 3.5 of Total 14 Ratings of Narrator: 3.33 of Total 3 Genres: Relationships & Intimacy Publisher's Summary: The Dance of Intimacy takes a careful look at relationships where intimacy is most challenged by too much emotional distance, too much intensity, or simply too much pain. 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Contact: info@hotaudiobook.com1999-12-163h 01How to Stream Audiobook in Self Development, RelationshipsHow to Stream Audiobook in Self Development, RelationshipsThe Dance of Intimacy by Harriet Lerner | Free AudiobookListen to full audiobooks for free on :https://hotaudiobook.com/freeTitle: The Dance of Intimacy Author: Harriet Lerner Narrator: Harriet Lerner Format: Abridged Length: 2 hrs and 53 mins Language: English Release date: 12-16-99 Publisher: HarperAudio Genres: Self Development, Relationships Summary: The Dance of Intimacy offers no "quick fix" for the human dilemma that we all confront. Instead, Dr. Lerner offers us the most solid, respectful, and helpful insights on intimate relationships that both men and women may ever encounter. Picking up where the best-selling The Dance of Anger left off, Dr. Lerner redefines the meaning of intimacy for today, and...1999-12-162h 53Grab Full Audiobook in Self Development, How-ToGrab Full Audiobook in Self Development, How-ToThe Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner | Free AudiobookListen to full audiobooks for free on :https://hotaudiobook.com/freeTitle: The Dance of Anger Author: Harriet Lerner Narrator: Harriet Lerner Format: Abridged Length: 2 hrs and 58 mins Language: English Release date: 12-16-99 Publisher: HarperAudio Genres: Self Development, How-To Summary: In this vivid, engaging and eminently wise work, Dr. Lerner teaches women to identify the true sources of anger and to use anger as a powerful vehicle for creating meaningful and lasting change. The challenge of anger is at the heart of our struggle with intimacy, self-esteem, and joy. The Dance of Anger has inspired more "You changed my life"...1999-12-162h 58