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I Stand At The DoorEpisode 53: Couple's Therapist Geoff Steurer - Disclosing to a Partner and Facilitating TrustORIGINAL: NOV. 21, 2021Geoff Steurer is a licensed marriage and family therapist and relationship coach with over 20 years of experience. In this episode, he gives great insights for your relationship, especially when it comes to disclosure. A must-listen.2025-02-0751 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 54: Jade and Chandler Rogers - Working Through Porn as a Young Married CoupleORIGINAL: MARCH 23, 2022Jade and Chandler share their experiences as a couple working through porn.2025-02-071h 10

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 56: Wesley's Story - The Courage to Be HonestORIGINAL: AUGUST 5, 2022Thank you Wesley for sharing your amazing story!2025-02-071h 00

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 57: Lia Gibson's Story - Struggling with Porn as a Young Teenage GirlORIGINAL: AUGUST 29, 2022Thank you to Lia for sharing her story and bringing light to an important subject that young women can relate to.2025-02-0731 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 45: Nathan's Story - Staying on the Path After a MissionORIGINAL: AUG. 29, 2021Nathan's story was enlightening and gave great insights into what many of our youth are facing in the fight against pornography. He shares what it's like coming home from a mission and trying not to slip back into old habits, and how Christ can help us.2025-02-0530 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 47: Climbing the Ladder of Recovery - Letting Go and Ascending HigherORIGINAL: SEPT. 15, 2021Today we discuss the biblical story of Jesus and the young rich man. What is Jesus asking you to give up in your fight against pornography? It might be different than someone else's story.2025-02-0519 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 48: When You Feel Unworthy to PrayORIGINAL: SEPT. 21, 2021When we sin, we distance ourselves from God. But we don't have to stay distanced. God is always ready for us to return to Him. It is the adversary's voice that tells us He doesn't want to hear from us after we have made a mistake.2025-02-0516 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 49: The Necessity of Vulnerability in RecoveryORIGINAL: SEPT. 26, 2021How does vulnerability play a role in recovery? 2025-02-0511 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 50: Insights from General Conference - Brad Wilcox's TalkORIGINAL: OCT. 5, 2021In this episode, we break down some of the awesome insights gained from Brad Wilcox's talk during a Saturday session of conference.2025-02-0529 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 52: Unleashing the Man Within - Sathiya Sam's StoryORIGINAL: OCT. 31, 2021Sathiya Sam is a coach and speaker who helps men live with confidence and integrity. A recovered addict himself, he speaks from experience and gives tools to add to your toolbox in the fight. A great episode if you need some extra perspective.2025-02-0559 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 36: Place No More for the Enemy of My SoulORIGINAL: JUNE 28, 2021Keep up the good fight!!2025-02-0516 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 37: Blood, Freedom, Salvation - The Opportunity to Choose RightORIGINAL: JULY 4, 2021I wrote this poem in Marine Corps Boot Camp. 2025-02-0512 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 38: Ashlee Ayre - A Young Woman's Struggle with PornORIGINAL: JULY 11, 2021Ashlee Ayre, your average 20 year old girl, joins us today to talk about her struggle and triumph with pornography. She shares a message of hope to other women who struggle, letting everyone know that it is not just a man's problem but rather something that everyone can overcome.2025-02-0539 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 39: Bo Buchi, Clinical Therapist - You are Not AloneORIGINAL: JULY 18, 2021A message of hope in Christ from our good friend, Bo.2025-02-0532 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 42: Tyler's Story - Let Your Light ShineORIGINAL: AUGUST 8, 2021Tyler joins us today to share his story and offers a message of hope.2025-02-051h 05

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 44: The Courage to Heal - Helping Others Find Their Way to ChristORIGINAL: AUG. 22, 2021Your struggle can be a light and example for someone else. Who can you help in the fight against pornography?2025-02-0519 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 24: Emi Bass's Story - The BYU Un-Alone ClubORIGINAL: APRIL 4, 2021Emi Bass is a senior at BYU studying Classical Civilization. She joins us on the podcast today to discuss the club she leads for BYU students who struggle with pornography.2025-02-0434 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 25: A Weekend of Revelation - Lessons on Recovery from General ConferenceORIGINAL: APRIL 11, 2021On today's episode, we talk about thoughts we had from General Conference and discuss how they apply to the fight against pornography.2025-02-0423 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 26: Fellowship of the UnashamedORIGINAL: APRIL 18, 2021A short little uplifting episode. We love you guys!2025-02-0405 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 27: The Courage to Face the Truth - Chauncy's StoryORIGINAL: APRIL 27, 2021Our friend Chauncy talks with us about his experience with same-sex attraction and pornography. His story is so inspiring and worth a listen!2025-02-041h 08

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 28: We Had a BabyORIGINAL: MAY 2, 2021We had a sweet baby boy this Friday, so this episode is short. Tune in next week for an awesome guest couple Zach and Darcy Spafford 2025-02-0405 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 29: Zach and Darcy Spafford - Overcoming Pornography as a Married CoupleORIGINAL: MAY 9, 2021Zach and Darcy are veterans of the struggle to end pornography in their marriage. Together, they have helped countless couples work through this issue and have a lot of great insights for us on this episode.2025-02-0456 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 30: The True Nature of Sin - Don't Waste Your Divine Energy, Potential, and TimeORIGINAL: MAY 16, 2021In this episode we explore the meaning behind the word "sin" and discuss a way of viewing sin that can help to remove the shame behind struggling with porn.2025-02-0417 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 31: "Letters to a Young Mormon" - Learning to Be ChasteORIGINAL: MAY 23, 2021Today we read a chapter from Adam Miller's book entitled, "Letters to a Young Mormon." We talk about how chastity is not inherently owned and then lost, but rather learned over time through experience and choice. A must-listen!2025-02-0432 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 32: Q&A With Bo Buchi, Clinical Therapist - Discerning Between Truth and Error in RecoveryORIGINAL: MAY 30, 2021Tune in for another great interview with our therapist friend, Bo.2025-02-041h 10

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 33: Anxiously Engaged - Stop Running Away from Porn and Run Towards RecoveryORIGINAL: JUNE 6, 2021Today we talk about the difference between running away from something vs. running towards a goal.2025-02-0412 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 35: Be the Hero in Your Own Story!ORIGINAL: JUNE 20, 2021Don't let the movie montages fool you! Thanks for listening.2025-02-0406 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 16: Regaining Agency - Taking Responsibility For Your Actions and Finding SerenityORIGINAL: FEB. 7, 2021In this episode, we discuss agency and how it applies to the fight against pornography.2025-02-0319 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 15: The Prayer of Faith - Allowing the Lord to Consecrate Your ActionsORIGINAL: JAN. 31, 2021In 2 Nephi 32:9, we learn that the Lord will consecrate our actions when we pray. We apply this to the fight against pornography.2025-02-0314 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 17: The Nature of Healing - The Two Pillars of True RecoveryORIGINAL: FEB. 14, 2021When you have an open wound, it's important to take the necessary steps to prevent infection. You must take care of the wound AND give it time to heal. In this episode, we apply these principles of healing to the fight against pornography.2025-02-0313 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 18: Hayden's StoryORIGINAL: FEB. 21, 2021Hayden shares his full story from struggle to triumph.2025-02-0330 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 19: Q&A With Bo Buchi, Clinical Therapist - Repentance, Parenting, Women and PornORIGINAL: FEB. 28, 2021In this episode, our therapist friend Bo shares more wisdom and gives insight for parents. He and Hayden discuss the difference between men and women who struggle with porn.2025-02-031h 24

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 20: TJ's StoryORIGINAL: MARCH 7, 2021TJ struggled with pornography from a young age and shares the story of his fight in this episode.2025-02-0354 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 21: Andrew's Story - Addressing the Roots of Porn UseORIGINAL: MARCH 14, 2021Andrew Young, my childhood friend and author of "The Meaning of Your Mission," joins us today to discuss his fight against pornography and the things he has learned from his progress.2025-02-0353 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 22: Las Vegas Youth Fireside - Cultivating a Culture of RepentanceORIGINAL: MARCH 23, 2021Over the last few months, we have had several opportunities to speak to large groups of people in firesides or group settings. This episode is a live recording of a fireside we did in Las Vegas, Nevada, to a group of youth and their parents.We discuss different mindsets and teaching tools we can use as parents, as well as creating a culture of openness and repentance in a home rather than shame. This episode is a must-listen for all parents, as well as anyone looking to...2025-02-031h 02

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 23: Accountability - What to Look For in an Accountability PartnerORIGINAL: MARCH 28, 2021This week, we talk about the principle of accountability and how important it is to be accountable to God. There are people in your life who want to help you stay on track. In this episode, we talk about things to look for in an accountability partner.2025-02-0316 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 14: Cultivating an Attitude of Repentance - Another Tool to Overcoming ShameORIGINAL: JAN. 24, 2021Today, we reiterate the importance of overcoming shame. Guilt helps us want to change, but shame hinders our progress by making us think we are past help.2025-02-0310 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 9: Q&A With Bo Buchi, Clinical Therapist - Divorce, Dating, and RedemptionORIGINAL: DEC. 20, 2020Bo is back! This week, we address several questions we've received from listeners.2025-02-021h 11

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 11: Fire and Maneuver - How This Military Tactic Can Help you Overcome PornographyORIGINAL: JAN. 2, 2021Hayden shares a strategy he learned from the military and applies it to the fight against the real enemy - Satan.2025-02-0223 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 12: Couples Therapist Sam Tielemans - Communication, Betrayal Trauma, Empathy and BoundariesORIGINAL: JAN. 10, 2021Our friend Sam Tielemans addresses the issue of pornography within a relationship. He covers topics such as boundaries and empathy and shares advice for those who love someone who struggles with pornography.2025-02-0243 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 13: The Big 3 - Daily Routines to Bring you Closer to Christ and RecoveryORIGINAL: JAN. 27, 2021These three things won't necessarily solve your problem of pornography, but they will help you tune into the voice of the Lord. 2025-02-0229 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 7: Recruiting for the Fight - Inviting Others to Join You in RepentingORIGINAL: DEC. 6, 2020Who can you invite onto your team? Who can you inspire with your story?2025-02-0223 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 8: Sacrifice Brings Forth the Blessings of Heaven - What Will You Give Up?ORIGINAL: DEC. 13, 2020When you make sacrifices to aid in your recovery, you show Jesus that you are serious about your healing.2025-02-0227 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 10: From Water to Wine - How the Atonement Changes Your Past, Present, and FutureORIGINAL: DEC. 29, 2020Hayden shares a lesson he learned from his struggle regarding Jesus's power.2025-02-0222 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 6: From A Spouse's Perspective - What to do when Someone You Love Struggles with PornORIGINAL: NOV. 29, 2020In this episode, Savannah takes the resins and talks about her perspective on pornography issues. Hayden told Savannah early on in their relationship that porn had been something he had struggled with in the past. During their engagement, Hayden had a relapse and told her about it that night. Savannah shares her side of the story, including how she immediately said a prayer to receive comfort and guidance from God. We discuss the importance of personal revelation when it comes to pornography because each person and couple h...2025-01-3138 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 3: Persistence is Key - How to Stay Resilient Despite SetbacksORIGINAL: NOV. 8, 2020Whether you are just trying to implement a good habit in your life or you're struggling in the fight against pornography, it can be easy to get discouraged by repeated mistakes. In this episode, we talk about ways that we can stay resilient and persistent in the fight. We give scriptural examples such as Peter, Alma the Younger, and Judas to describe the importance of getting back up again each time we have a moment of weakness. We focus on the cycle of progression that allows us to become more like the...2025-01-3120 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 4: A Message of Hope - A Shorty but a GoodyORIGINAL: NOV. 14, 2020Try to imagine who you will become once you have fought to overcome this trial. Try to keep that image in your mind during times of discouragement. I believe in you, Savannah believes in you, and most importantly, the Savior believes in you! Don't forget to leave a review and subscribe! Love you guys!2025-01-3107 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 5: Q&A With Bo Buchi, Clinical Therapist - The Healing Hand of the SaviorORIGINAL: NOV. 22, 2020In this week's episode, our friend Bo Buchi, a licensed clinical mental health counselor, joins us to talk about the psychological and spiritual side effects of pornography. We dig a little deeper into what porn is and why it's so addictive. We discuss that when battling porn, we also need to battle underlying conditions such as pride. Each individual has a different path toward recovery. It's important to follow the direction of the Savior and figure out the path that will lead to complete healing.We also...2025-01-311h 19

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 2: Lines of Communication - Understanding the Nature of the EnemyORIGINAL: NOV 1, 2020In this episode, we discuss the nature of pornography and how unique it is to our generation. Satan's weapons are getting more specific and powerful. It's easier to access pornography today than it ever has been in the past. How do we combat his strategies and strengthen ourselves?We have the biggest, strongest, most powerful weapon at our disposal - the Atonement of Jesus Christ. It's guaranteed to win. When we keep an open line of communication with the Savior, we invite His help and strength into...2025-01-3116 min

I Stand At The DoorEpisode 1: I Stand at the Door - Overcoming Shame and Allowing Grace to RuleORIGINAL: OCT 23, 2020In this episode, we discuss ways to overcome shame and allow the Savior into our lives. Based on Revelations 3:20, we share aa short fictional story that depicts someone deciding whether or not to let the Savior into their house despite the mess. In our experience with pornography, it is shame that acts as a catalyst to the already destructive nature of porn. It is when we seek to hide our sins that Satan prevails and we find ourselves stuck. We share a few insights on the nature of confession and why it...2025-01-3112 min

Cwic Media- LDS Podcast / Latter-day SaintsThe Family Proclamation In An Anti-Family Culture - feat. Hayden and Savannah PaulHayden Paul, from the Stick of Joseph, and his wife Savannah discuss gender roles, how our culture targets the family, and how they have been affected by these "philosophies of men" in their lives. How does the Family Proclamation stand up against our current culture? Website - www.cwicmedia.com 2024-07-1848 min

For All The Saints With Ben HancockAre Traditional Religious Views Still Welcome? - Harrison Butker Roundtable | 40*Apologies for technical difficulties around 3 minutes in*Harrison Butker is a well-known figure in the American Football world. He is the Kicker for the Superbowl Champions Kansas City Chiefs, coached by Latter-day Saint Andy Reid. Harrison recently came under scrutiny for a graduation speech he gave at Benedictine College, a Catholic college. I wanted to get together with some of the best Latter-day Saint content creators around - Mama Sosa, Batchlor Johnson, Elder TikTok, and Hayden and Savannah Paul from The Stick of Joseph - to discuss why this speech was such a controversy and...2024-06-031h 14

Man Within Podcast169 - Hayden & Savannah Paul on Is It Acceptable To Date While Struggling, Godly Repentance, and Creating A Healthy Sex LifeHayden and Savannah seek to change the conversation surrounding pornography with a focus on de-shaming the problem so true healing can occur. They host a weekly podcast titled “I Stand at The Door.” In today's episode, Hayden & Savannah share their story of coming to faith, how Hayden overcame a 10 year struggle with pornography, and what it was like working through Hayden's recovery while dating and engaged. Further into the interview, Hayden and Savannah humorously discuss the differences between men and women that are often on display after sex. This is a candid interview with huge value for thos...2021-12-091h 13

From Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerBuilding a shame-free marriage in recovery - Hayden and Savannah Paul - Episode 118It's possible to build a healthy marriage when recovering from a pornography addiction, but several important things need to be in place. I interview Hayden and Savannah Paul, a couple who are committed to building a shame-free marriage as Hayden works through his addiction recovery. Hayden was transparent about his struggle with pornography early in their dating relationship and has taken charge of his own recovery. If you want to hear what it takes to build a shame-free marriage in recovery, listen to what this couple is doing. Podcast listeners can receive a 20% discount on my Trust...2021-11-1253 min

From Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody SteurerBuilding a shame-free marriage in recovery - Hayden and Savannah Paul - Episode 118If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements! Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...2021-11-1154 min

Breaking the SilenceRepentance on the Path to Recovery with Hayden & Savannah Paul [75]When someone with a religious background is working through recovery from pornography, they may also be working through the repentance process. Hayden and Savannah Paul have seen the power of repentance in their own lives and love to tell others about it! You’ll hear some new ways of thinking about repentance, becoming a better person, and the role of a bishop in the process. In this episode: Repentance is the process of learning to become like Jesus Christ. Honesty is easier in a relationship of trust.Repentance is not punishment. It is the e...2021-06-2227 min

BeliefcastHayden PaulHayden Paul is an advocate in the battle against pornography, a disciple of Christ, husband, soon to be father, United States Marine, and active in the fight against child sex trafficking. When Hayden was 13 years old he came across pornography for the first time and it became a serious habit/addiction in his life. Because of shame, he allowed the problem to continue and never sought help with recovery. This problem was prevalent in his life for about 10 years until, through many lessons learned, Hayden was finally set free from the chains that porn had bound him...2020-11-111h 01

Listen, Learn & Love Hosted by Richard OstlerEpisode 340: Hayden and Savannah Paul, PornographyHayden (episode 328) returns with his dear wife Savannah to talk to other couples working to solve pornography. Savannah has great insights for a partner working to solve pornography including how she handled Hayden's slip-up once they were engaged. Dozen have reached out to Hayden and Savannah since Episode 328, and they started their own podcast to help other couples. Please see www.istandatthedoor.com. If you want to solve pornography in your own life, help someone else, or navigate a relationship where one is working to solve pornography, please listen to this episode. Hayden and Savannah have hope-filed/non-shaming insights through...2020-11-051h 33