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Manic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral165: Is this thing on?We’re back. Sort of. Changes are imminent, and we think you'll pee your pants. It's been a while so please excuse the awkward as we settle in behind the mic.Also, does John's voice trigger ASMR or what. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2021-03-1027 minThe Lesbian Historic Motif PodcastThe Lesbian Historic Motif PodcastQueen Anne - The Lesbian Historic Motif Podcast Episode 85Queen Anne The Lesbian Historic Motif Podcast - Episode 85 with Heather Rose Jones The social and historic context of Queen Anne of England and the basis for the rumors of lesbianism associated with her court. In this episode we talk about A brief historic timeline Passionate friendships and libertine sex in Restoration England Some dramatis personae:Princess/Queen Anne Sarah Churchill, Duchess of Marlborough Abigail Hill Masham Delariviere Manley English politics during the reign of Queen Anne Anne and Sarah’s break-up Where the lesbian accusations came from Were they or weren’t they? Links ment...2020-10-0152 minThe Lesbian Historic Motif PodcastThe Lesbian Historic Motif PodcastDeath did not them Depart - The Lesbian Historic Motif Podcast Episode 33Death did not them Depart The Lesbian Historic Motif Podcast - Episode 33 An examination of joint grave memorials for pairs of unrelated women that use the symbolism of marriage. In this episode we talk about: Classical Greek sculptural monuments from 5th c. BCE Athens A Classical Roman memorial in which two women are shown clasping right hands, in a gesture typically indicating marriage The unusual joint memorial brass of Elizabeth Etchingham and Agnes Oxenbridge from the 15th century in East Sussex The 17th century grave memorial of Mary Barber of Suffolk, which gave equal prominence to...2020-09-1919 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral164: School Comes HomeIn addition to everything else happening as a result of the COVID-19 pandemic, kids around the world are suddenly at home for school. But despite some of the smug homeschool memes and comments floating around, this isn’t homeschool. And it’s not easy. So take it from John (a homeschooling parent): you’re not crazy for being completely overwhelmed. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2020-04-2358 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral163: Come On EileenWe didn't plan for this to be about COVID-19, but most of the world didn't plan for anything that's happening right now. As everyone scrambles to understand social distancing and isolation while grappling with the unknown, Heather and John talk about school closure and the state of the country before spiraling into a more serious conversation related to teenage emotions. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2020-03-1959 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral162: MRS Turns 4Our first episode landed on St. Patrick's day 2016 and, four years later, we're still kicking. Admittedly, we've been kicking a lot less lately, but we're back to explain why, talk about Heather's weight (have you noticed?), provide an update compared to where we were four years ago, and tease some exciting changes coming to MRS (for real this time; they're going to be amazing). Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2020-03-1258 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral161: In Memory of CocoAfter more than 12 happy years of squawking, barking, and being herded by her favorite business partner, Heather and her family said their final goodbyes to Dame Eleanor Ritzford-Fitzsimons "Coco" Puffs. Heather shares some of those final moments as we discuss the significance of dogs and their place in our homes. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2020-01-301h 04Manic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral160: Out With the OldWrapping up the year with our first monthly episode.Wondering about John, Lexton, and Lilly? We covered that. Curious about Heather's gut? We covered that, too. We also talk a bit about mail, resolutions, teens (ugh teens), organization, and meditation. Like we said before: Same MRS, just a little less often. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-12-1958 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral159: Change is AfootGet it? A FOOT? Because Heather's foot? Perfect. Now that you're smiling about that we can let you know that you're going to be hearing from us less often. A lot less often. As in only once a month. Why? There are a lot of reasons, but "Life" is probably the best summary. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-11-1424 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral158: Fun with Fur and FeetWe never know where we’re going or how we get there, but maybe that’s part of the charm? Anyway, Heather’s getting some answers, John’s a Furminator convert, and Marlo is Marlo (which is somehow also very Lexton). Also: Dog socks.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-11-0758 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral157: We Call it HyggeWhat does laundry share in common with cold, leftover nachos? Comfort. Yes, cold nachos provide comfort and we’re ready to die on this hill. Sure, we are open to other opinions, but you know what they say: it’s not a difference of opinion, you’re just ill-informed. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-10-2458 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral156: Reddit for RelationshipsWe talk about more than Bumble (you know you want an update), but John’s text to Heather is probably the best description for this episode. “Without fail, the women on this app are in three distinct categories: 1. Want kids, 2. Don’t want a relationship, 3. Way out of my league. However, even if nothing in their bio is a fit, I always swipe right on the women who look like they could kick my a$$.” Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-10-1751 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral155: A Dating App NewcomerIt finally happened. John joined the online dating scene and it’s as confusing and empty as he’s always imagined. It has, however, made him realize how many people are terrible at taking selfies. But don’t worry, MRS’s resident optimist is staying hopeful. Just kidding! All is lost. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-10-1055 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral154: The Price of a PetAn update on Coco (a pupdate?), some commentary on Halloween, and a discussion on how much our pets are worth. What's that? We're heartless and evil? Yeah, okay, probably, but that should have been clear years ago. And don't worry, we take a softer approach when discussing orthodontics and swimming. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-10-0353 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral153: Canines and CurriculumWe moved right from Elizabethan collars into pop punk- and it wasn’t a smooth transition. That’s John’s fault. But somehow we still managed to cover homeschool curriculum, the climate, and a bit about vaccinations. If this seems chaotic, you should see our texts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-09-2653 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral152: Fitted and FoldedSure, we took a week off due to both of us being sick, but we didn’t actually get a week off. There were endoscopies to be had, sheets to be folded, and puppies to be chased. And this weed won’t just eat itself. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-09-1954 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral151: Injury and InsultIt’s been a busy week without any travel or big changes. How so? Well, Heather’s foot is still an issue, her GI tract is making waves, and John’s battling school policy. Oh yeah, there was also an incident with a gun at Leta’s school. Don't worry, it’s not all somber and sad. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-09-0555 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral150: Boots and BowelsSomehow this episode came full circle. From boots and bus stops to pets and school routines, we cover a lot and bookend the whole thing with bowels. Sometimes we even surprise ourselves, but not as much as Leta will surprise herself when she finally understands that a car does not steer itself. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-08-2954 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral149: Don't Forget to SteerAnother week, another couple dozen lessons in stress management. But we’re still taking our own advice and letting things slide. Invasive dogs, oversleeping teens, and even the thought of complete obliviousness behind the wheel of a large metal box hurtling at other objects. One of these days the dogs are definitely going to make us snap, though. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-08-2257 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral148: Slow DownWeird title for a show called "Manic Rambling Spiral," but here we are. Heather ditched her FitBit and her Apple Watch and, as a result, a whole lot of anxiety; so this week is focused (eventually) on slowing down, taking things in stride, and some very relevant advice from an Englishman in a Dutch bar. And yes, MRS is back from break. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-08-1549 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral147: From Paris to PuppiesSocialized medicine doesn’t disappoint, especially when the phenomenon of “hot doctor” clearly exists in all countries. But John’s doctor? Nah. He prefers the shotgun approach. And yes, we also talk about Lilly. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-07-0456 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral146: Friends and FashionJohn and Heather are both facing some child-free time, and it’s going to be glorious. We bask in that notion, discuss friendships as an adult, and even touch on Heather’s questionable fashion decisions. We’d say everything is related, but that probably isn’t true. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-06-2756 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral145: No Topic NeededWe had a meetup last week! It was great. To say "thank you!" to everyone who joined us, we spent most of this episode talking about healthcare. That wasn't really the plan, but that's how things go around here. We also touched on John's dog, the woes of air travel, and a couple apologies related to Ep 144. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-06-2054 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral144: Reunited at LastWe got the band back together. Well, the band never really broke up, but Heather and John are in the same (hotel) room recording MRS for the first time ever and we're talking about Chicago and homelessness and also teeth. It was easy. Mostly. A little awkward because we also recorded a video. So, yeah, that's a thing. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-06-131h 10Manic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral143: Musical TherapyA topic! We have a topic! It’s music, and we almost don’t stray from it. This week we’re talking about some of the music we enjoy, the beauty of a truly sad song, a dog whose alias is “Taco,” and is that tickle you just felt behind your ear a tick? Better check. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-06-0657 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral142: Making Small TalkYou find out a lot about people when you take the time to start a conversation. Does this apply to Stephen Dorff? We may never know, will we, HEATHER? That's okay. We have bigger things to worry about like an MRS meet-up in Chicago - suggestions welcome! - and an Instagram account for John's dog. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-05-3046 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral141: An MRS OverhaulYou’ve kept us up and running for over three years (3 YEARS!), and now it’s time for our little podcast to grow and change. How? We’re figuring that out and, with your help, we know it’s going to be amazing. But, as you’ll notice in this episode, we’ll still be rambling. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-05-2452 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral140: Fun Facts About SleepingIf there are two takeaways from this week, they are as follows: Heather sleeps naked, John does not. Does this information have anything to do with John's puppy, the half marathon he ran, teen independence, or the last couple weeks of Heather's book tour? No. And, honestly, it's not even related. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-05-1655 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral139: There Will Be BandaidsWhat do book tours and bandaids have in common? A lot. It's sort of like the relationship between diarrhea and a week of stressful schedule juggling. You know, peas and carrots, poop and planes. We also talk a bit about puppies, but let's be honest: The Valedictorian deserves the mic this week. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-05-0259 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral138: The Book Tour BeginsHeather hits the road next week for her book tour, so of course we talked about misplaced socks, pantyhose, and toxic plastics that make their way into cosmetics. But we also talked about her book - The Valedictorian of Being Dead - which comes out on April 23. John says, “It’s a hell of a read.” Because it is. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-04-1858 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral137: It's All PuppiesAt least 75% of this episode is about dogs and puppies and the horrors of pet ownership because John is a dog person now. Why? Honestly, he has no idea, but his hands are covered in bite marks, he's tired all the time, and his life is now even less his own. So, yeah, Heather was right: It's worse than having a baby. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-04-1155 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral136: Type A ChaosRenovations, broken boilers, puppies, and John's resistance to help even when it's generously offered. It's all loosely related. And somehow we still manage to touch on teenage emotions near the end because we're making rambling an art form. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-04-0456 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral135: Breaking MillennialsIt’s Spring Break. We could’ve easily talked about the woes of that for an hour. However, we still managed to discuss university selection, unfair expectations placed on teens, and career choices. In other words, we don’t get a Spring Break. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-03-2855 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral134: Mostly Public SpeakingWandering tangents seem to be the way of things around here lately. This week it's James Blake, the joy of celebrity interaction, Marlo's public speaking finesse, and The Legend of Zelda. But don't worry, that's only a fraction of what we covered, so it's still your weekly dose of, "What the hell was that about?" Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-03-2155 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral133: Spring Forward FeverishlyWe're ringing in the time change in style. As always. Moderate injury, serious fever, and a healthy dose of feeling all together a little off have marked the last week or two. Also, a friendly reminder that if you're suddenly feeling a surge in anxiety or depression, the time change has a way of contributing to that. It's not just you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-03-1454 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral132: Hot DoctorsWhy do people looking their absolute best have to be the ones who see you at your absolute worst? We don't have an answer, but that's just what happens. Every time. Even when someone has to navigate a camera to your colon. Life has jokes, and Heather was just the butt of one of them. Like, actually the butt. At least True Detective is good. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-02-2847 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral131: Announcements and BowelsHeather has a newsletter and some GI business to attend to. John has a newsletter and perfectly functioning bowels. Some things just aren’t fair, that’s why there’s Miralax. #notsponsored Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-02-2156 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral130: Replicating ChildhoodYeah, we spiraled again, but we also found ourselves looking back at how we were raised and how those experiences affect our parenting today. Less “get off our lawn” and more about what we want our kids to experience. Also, Leta turned 21. Maybe these spirals are more productive than we thought? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-02-1452 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral129: Random RamblesHow did we get from A to B? Your guess is as good as ours. But it's not our fault that audiobooks, Mormon mission trips, forgetful teens, the weather, and black eyes are all related. Life is weird. We just go with it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-02-0753 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral128: Attendance is MandatoryAfter John's extended fanboy moment about Heather's book (side note: It's incredible and you want to read it and probably give a copy to everyone you know), we're talking a little bit about teens, growing to emotionally process increasing responsibility, and the importance of attending funerals. We're pretty sure it all fits together. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-01-3156 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral127: Dating ForecastIt's winter and the weather is awful and life keeps plowing forward. So, naturally, in the thick of this mess John is sort of possibly dabbling in the dating world and OH WOW IS THAT A THING. He's bad at it? Maybe? Only one way to go from here? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-01-2457 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral126: Unhealthy HealthcareWe’re talking about insurance again. And mental health. And the absurdity of dealing with medical needs in the US. Why? Because it needs to be talked about until it changes and we’re happy to initiate the conversation. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-01-1749 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral125: Grab Bullying by the PhoneBullying has always been a problem, but technology is creating new platforms and increasingly removed ways to hate and harm. Spurred by a jarring episode involving Marlo, we’re talking about bullying, emotions, and the way judgment and blame continue to shape a generation. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-01-1054 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral124: Stumbling into 2019Another year... and you know what? We're excited for it (even John). Sure, we're getting older and keeping blood pressure journals, but that's life. As long as there are no formal parties with dress codes in the near future, we're downright optimistic. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2019-01-0349 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral123: Ho Ho HumOH MY GOD. Are we whining about the holidays? No, not really. Just marveling at the passage of time and the value of hiring movers while catching our breath. We also spend a surprising amount of time talking about breakfast cereal. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-12-2046 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral122: "A Single Man"It's official. John is a homeowner! And his relationship status? That's permanently established via legal documents. Super awesome. Regardless, this is a big step. And Heather? Well, she's helping her mom move, nursing a stubbornness injury, and contemplating mortality. Life is wild. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-12-1358 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral121: Holidays and WhatnotWhat happened this week? What day is it? Just kidding, we never really know. Between high-school dances, holiday gifts, packing, and ironing sheets (there's always time for that), everything is a blur. Unless you're Leta, and you're making a 10-year plan. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-12-0654 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral120: A Semi-Uncomfortable Comfort ZoneThe holidays are a crazy time that brings many together and makes others feel extremely alone. So yes, it’s sort of another episode about loneliness, but we feel it’s an important topic because we’ve spent years stubbornly making ourselves alone. Sort of. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-11-2957 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral119: Look UpHeather's back from Rome, John's buying a home, and the holidays are here. Moral of the story: No rest for the weary or the wicked or the parents, and if you fit into more than one category, buckle up. Happy Thanksgiving! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-11-2256 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral118: Drama and ContactsWe recorded this on Election Day too early to talk about polls, so instead we decided to focus on monster trucks, contact lenses, and some other odds and ends. A bit of a life download before we take next week off. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-11-0852 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral117: Make ChangeThe month has changed, the season continues to change and, if you live in the US, you can help make change on November 6. Vote for something better. Vote for those who've had their voices silenced. Just vote. Maybe even listen to this episode on your way to the polls. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-11-0252 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral116: Happier ParentingWe’re thrilled to have KJ Dell’Antonia join the spiral to talk to us about changing perspectives, realistic expectations, and her her new book: "How to Be a Happier Parent: Raising a Family, Having a Life and Loving (Almost) Every Minute.” Wait, are we being optimistic? Yeah, but don’t worry. We still complain a little. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-10-2559 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral115: Rebrand for JesusHard to believe we can somehow go from missing a week to covering the removal of wisdom teeth, limiting screen time, and remaining responsive and flexible as parents; all in one episode, but that's our gift. What does Jesus have to do with any of this? Just trust us. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-10-1957 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral114: Read the RoomFortunately and unfortunately, the current happenings in the United States continue to offer great starting points for important conversations with our kids. This week, these talks involve accountability, the power of "no," and how to not be a jerk when you're in a Senate hearing. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-10-0456 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral113: Looking for a Plus for PleatsDoes the awkward feeling of being a teenager in Abercrombie fade when you get older? Nope! It just blends with our inability to understand high waists, pleats, and good 'ol Chuck Taylors. Guess that's all part of pursuing fashion with kids. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-09-2752 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral112: It's September Again“In like a lion,” isn’t a saying attached to September, but it feels like it should be. From shattered phone screens to some time-struggles associated with homeschool, this is your annual reminder that September is hell. Be kind to yourself. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-09-2051 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral111: Take that ToneWe decided to focus on discipline and... haha! Just kidding. It’s really about the luxuries of leisure pooping and feelings of complete exhaustion, but we do occasionally come back to discipline and having a no-nonsense way of letting your kids know they need to quit being jerks. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-09-1352 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral110: Slowly Settling InMissed buses, different boob sizes, and baby steps in the right direction. We're still settling in to our recent big changes - a blended family for Heather, homeschooling for John - and realizing that it's going to take a while. We'll probably survive. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-09-0756 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral109: In Favor of EasySponsored by KraftWe've talked about food and family meals and picking your battles and now, with Heather's blended family and John's homeschool adventures, we're all about easing dinner prep however we can. So when Kraft reached out about their new Kraft Mac and Cheese Frozen Meals, we ditched the plain noodles and raided the local freezer section before even answering the email. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-08-3051 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral108: Homeschool BoundThe chaos of normal life has felt a little dull on John’s end, so he decided to homeschool his son. Because how hard could it really be to homeschool a 14-year-old, run a business, and tread water while juggling? Whatever happens, he won’t miss the endless agony of math homework. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-08-231h 02Manic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral107: A BIG MoveWait. Heather’s moving again? Hell yes she is! She loves to move! She loves to pack! She loves to unpack! She loves boxes! The only minor difference this time around is that you could probably also say she’s moving for love. As for John, he’s pretty excited for her. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-08-1653 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral106: Good to be BackIt’s been a while but our little summer hiatus has come to an end. Feels good to get back behind the mic, catch up, and what the hell do you mean Leta is no longer registered for school that can’t be possible!? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-08-0952 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral105: Civility is OverratedThings in America are a bit of mess, but somehow taking a stand against hate seems to bother people. Sure, we're all for civility when it makes sense. But that time is not now. The place is not America. And we see no reason to be civil when so many are being treated without any civility at all. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-07-0538 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral104: Shout Outs!Long overdue Patreon shout outs! Thanks everyone! And a special shout out to Leah who happened to recognize John in wild. Also, a little bit on body glitter, outdoor music festivals, and that we're absolutely okay with you saying "Hi!" if you see either of us out and about. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-06-2839 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral103: Children. In. Cages.It’s 2018 and the United States is forcibly separating children from their parents and then holding them in makeshift camps. We don't have a solution, but this needs to be talked about nonstop. This IS America, but it doesn’t need to be.Fortunately, 24 hours after we recorded, Trump signed an executive order stopping the separation of families, but this mess continues as there's no word on how those separated will be reunited. This will forever be a scar on America, and there is nothing we can do to every truly fix the damage done to thos...2018-06-2148 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral102: DestigmatizeLast week, the world lost Kate Spade and Anthony Bourdain. As a result, mental health was again the center of conversation, and we thought it was time to again address the topic. We all need to keep talking about it. We all need to be checking in. We all need to remove the stigma. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-06-1428 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral101: Life LessonsPromotion crises, teen hormones, and preparing for summer. The end of 8th grade is a pretty significant transition, and here we are. OH MY GOD. And it’s summer break already? How does this even happen? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-06-0626 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral100: Accents Etc.British accents, miles of wandering, and a little (SPOILER) Gilmore tangent at the end. This is a big milestone - Episode 100! - so it only seems right that we stay true to our spiraling roots. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-05-3159 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral099: London SpiralTravel, planning, and taking a diet on the road. That's sort of the focus. Maybe. Then again, we also touch on tea, colon surgery, and "2001: A Space Odyssey." Yes, it's a little shorter than normal, but we cover some ground. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-05-2441 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral095: Fair Isn't EqualInclusion is critical to education, but Heather and John aren't experts in that area, so John's friend Emily is joining the spiral. Emily is a specialist in early childhood inclusion and a single parent to a son with special needs, and all parents and educators are going to want to hear what she has to say. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-04-261h 00Manic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral094: Here for the CheesecakeWho knew Beyoncé was so amazing? And what about The Cheesecake Factory? Most people, probably, but not us. Until now. Yeah, it's a big week on MRS. And Heather is DONE with her book. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-04-1955 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral092: Close the RingsBreak is over, Heather’s deadline is looming, time is again compressing, and John’s life is controlled by a watch. On the bright side, Marlo’s illness passed quickly, Lexton’s birthday was seamless, and free-range children are the new cage-free eggs. So, normal week. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-04-0557 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral089: Spring Forward and StumbleSit down, strap in*, and get ready for a back to basics episode. Everything from Patreon- Hey! We launched our campaign! - and piano, to Daylight Savings Time; and the complete, unabridged history of Heather's sex toy ownership. That last part isn't a joke. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-03-1553 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral088: Tanlines for ToddlersIn 2012, Tanlines (Jesse Cohen and Eric Emm) released their first album and Heather was hooked. She told John to listen and he soon had the album on repeat. Eventually, John's son followed suit. Now, the electronic/indie duo's newest EP, "Presents", puts a very Tanlines spin on classic kid's songs and Jesse joins the spiral to talk about the new album, music, identity, self awareness, and parenting. Oh. And the cuteness of babies. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-03-081h 12Manic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral085: A Healthy New YearFrom smoothies with greens to extra-crunchy cruciferous salads (Sorry, LETA), we're trying to stay as healthy as possible this cold and flu season. Extending these healthy habits to our kids isn't always easy - just ask Heather's kitchen tiles - but some convenient snacks make it possible. Sponsored by GoGo squeeZ. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-02-1557 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral083: The Guilt They CarryTime for a somber reflection. What? You knew this was coming. Even John has been pretty optimistic lately. Now it's time to ask how parenting affects our kids and the concept they have of how they fit into our bad moods. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-02-0153 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral081: It Sucked and then I DiedHeather is writing a book! It's not out until February 2019, but it's about depression, a clinical trial that changed her life, and dying. Because, oh yeah, Heather died a few times to get to get better. Turns out there's a way to do that! And John has kept it a secret this whole time. A keeper, that one. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-01-1848 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral080: Happy New News!It's a new year! That means resolutions, goals, fresh starts and whoa, Heather, it's time to address the elephants in the room. One at a time, of course, because everything in moderation. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2018-01-1150 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral071: Decline to ReclineJohn is back from Hong Kong, and we're talking travel, jet lag, basic airplane courtesy, and service jobs. Why service jobs? Because they're rough, people can be terrible, and we've both been there so we totally get it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2017-11-0253 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral069: Let's Talk About WillsYes. We're talking about living wills. It not super uplifting, but it's an important topic. Also, Heather managed to bring up orgasms, so it's not completely grim. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2017-10-1950 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral068: Fall RiskHealth care, independence and, on yeah, John's brief hospital stay are all part of this week. We also talk about peeing with an audience and international travel because we like variety. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2017-10-1252 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral061: Com-Part-MentalizeCall it survival if you must, but we're trying to figure out how to compartmentalize so we can survive the day-to-day. Heather's one step ahead on this one, but John is determined. Any suggestions? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2017-08-2445 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral060: Forgive Us, It's EarlyWe recorded this three hours earlier than normal. Heather is still yawning, John hasn't had coffee, and we spent way too much time talking about purses. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2017-08-1745 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral059: Well This Is NewHeather is back from Paris, John has some news, summer break is almost over (What the hell?). Funny how life can be beautiful and maddening at the same time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2017-08-1052 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral055: Issues: Lingering, Upcoming, OngoingSometimes you're attached for life, divorce or not. Who knew the courts would be easier to deal with than Comcast? NOT HEATHER. At least we know common courtesy is still a thing (people ignore). Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2017-06-0843 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral053: We'll be trippin': A Bit About Time AwayHeather's returning to life on an airplane before landing for a time in Paris when her girls are in New York. John's looking at 10 days without a kid in tow and wondering what to do. Possible conclusion: DO SOMETHING. ANYTHING. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2017-05-2547 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral051: Love Language: The emphasis here is on "Language."Mother's Day is this weekend and we were going to honor our moms, but then Heather started talking about dick and the tone changed. Thanks, HEATHER. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2017-05-1151 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral048: Minivan Livin': Non car people discussing carsJohn's shopping for a car, Heather's thinking about a minivan, and they're both completely wonderstruck by today's newfangled vehicles. This episode is all about Bluetooth, hair bows, car payments, and Noah's Ark. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2017-04-0651 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral043: The Upside to Downsizing: Ugh, movingHeather's moving and all hell is breaking loose. Though a smaller space can be a great thing, actually getting to that point is miserable. Here's to a fresh start, a great new neighborhood and some semblance of sanity in the aftermath. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2017-03-0251 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral038: Semi-Resolutions: Yes, it's that time again.Heather has a couple pseudo resolutions, John doesn't have any, but we're both trying to be optimistic for the year ahead. Sure, time is a construct and blah blah blah, but if turning a calendar page helps us cope, we'll take it! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2017-01-1248 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral036: Dividing the Holidays: Celebrating separately, together!It's that time of year again. John was alone for Thanksgiving and now Heather is looking at a solo Christmas. Is there a better way to make this work? That probably depends on who you ask. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2016-12-2253 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral035: A-OK With Admin ExpensesNow, more than ever, good organizations need your help.The holidays are stressful and 2016 continues to disappoint, but there's work to do! Today we're talking nonprofits (including Farm Forward, the organization Heather is working with), where your donations go, and what we plan to get - or not get - our kids for Christmas. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2016-12-1554 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral029: Manic Rambling Marathon: We ran the Chicago marathon. This is what we thought about it.The 2016 Chicago Marathon was Heather's third marathon and John's first. It was marked by perfect weather, an amazing group of people from Every Mother Counts, and a great weekend overall. There was also pain, excitement, regret, no regret, a lost FitBit and profanity at mile 15. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2016-10-2055 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral027: Snot, Sniffles, and Some ThoughtsHeather is sick. Full stop.Marlo got sick and, out of love, shared it with Heather. Yes, kids really are fun! We could have cancelled the recording, but there'd be no adventure in that. So we plowed through and rambled on. You're welcome. COUGH. Or we're sorry? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2016-09-2958 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral024: Nature vs. Nurture vs. HygieneBecause self care definitely doesn't come naturally to kids.We both have 12-year-olds, and that means hygiene is becoming a topic of interest. From shaving legs, to applying deodorant, to a discussion regarding the delicacy of John's nipples, this week is all about physical self care. Oh, and school lunch. But don't worry, it comes full circle. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2016-09-0857 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral022: Fun with Funeral PotatoesReligion is a personal choice. How parents approach it with their kids should be as well. Amen.Heather is an atheist, John is an agnostic and their kids are little horned heathens. Just kidding. The kids are doing fine. So how do they raise kind, balanced humans without religion at the center of everything? Carefully, respectfully, and with the memory of funeral potatoes and Dan Quayle. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2016-08-1153 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral021: An Ode to Student LoansWe rambled again and somehow this is where we ended up.It's funny how time away from our kids lets us step back a bit to reflect on past relationships, homework strategies, and being promiscuously Mormon. Even more amusing is how it all spirals into a lament about student loans (Heather doesn't have any and John isn't AT ALL bitter about that). Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2016-08-0456 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral015: Summer Breaking PointLooking forward, looking back, and looking a bit pruney.Burnout is real and so it summer break. This week we're talking about how to tackle the day to day with our kids home for summer, lamenting the "good ol' days" of being an unrestricted kid, and teaching Heather how to use the "Do Not Disturb" function on her iPhone. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2016-06-2354 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral011: Nine Ways to Jesus, One Way to ChicagoThis episode is a bit of a rambling spiral about Heather's experience in Boston (one hell of an experience!), John's decision to run the Chicago Marathon because Heather suckered him into it, and what these sort of endeavors mean to us as people and parents. Yeah, they mean we're crazy, but it's more than that. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2016-05-2651 minManic Rambling SpiralManic Rambling Spiral001: That Crazy RiverBecoming a Single Parent When the Other Parent RelocatesWhat is 'Manic Rambling Spiral?' How did Heather B. Armstrong, queen of the mommy bloggers, become a full-time single parent? That wasn't supposed to be a part of the script. And who the hell is John Bray? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2016-03-1754 min