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we are NOT the SAMEWe Should Be Recording ThisSend us a textTwo best friends hosts Heather and Lacey accidentally create podcast magic when they hit record during their pre-show garden chat. What unfolds is a genuine glimpse into female friendship at its most authentic—unfiltered, unpredictable, and utterly relatable.The conversation meanders through linguistic quirks (like unconsciously adopting accents from people around you) before diving into contrasting approaches to fitness and body image. Heather details her disciplined preparation for an upcoming bodybuilding competition, while Lacey humorously laments how her body "keeps the sweets and gets rid of anything of actual value" due to...2025-05-0534 minwe are NOT the SAMESo You're Dating A Walking Red Flag... Now What?Send us a textEver been blindsided by learning what someone really thinks about you? This raw, unfiltered episode dives into a jaw-dropping Reddit "Am I the Asshole" story that left us both stunned—a woman who overheard her boyfriend of eight years telling his friend he feels "disgusted" when he kisses her and wishes he was with someone else. Yet somehow, she's asking how to make him fall in love with her instead of walking away.The conversation spirals into a deeper exploration of relationship red flags that many of us miss or ignore. Fr...2025-04-2943 minwe are NOT the SAMEConfess-a-thon: The Game Where Nobody Wins But Everyone LaughsSend us a textAfter a heavy episode about ketamine therapy, Heather and Lacey lighten the mood with a nostalgic game of "Never Have I Ever" that quickly spirals into a hilarious confessional of their wild pasts. What begins as innocent reminiscing transforms into a revealing glimpse of their journey from chaotic youth to calm adulthood.The hosts trade shocking stories that will have you both laughing and gasping – from Heather projectile vomiting pink cocktail all over Luke’s bedding to throwing up in a cup at a concert where someone unfortunately slipped in it late...2025-04-2147 minwe are NOT the SAMEWhat You Don't Know About Ketamine Could Change Your LifeSend us a textStepping into the world of ketamine therapy isn't just about finding another treatment—it's about discovering possibility when hope seems lost. In this illuminating conversation with Tina from the Ketamine Clinic of Spokane, we peel back the layers of misconception surrounding this powerful therapeutic tool that's transforming mental health care.Ketamine has suffered from mischaracterization in popular culture, but as Tina explains, this medication has been on the World Health Organization's list of essential drugs since the 1960s. Far from its reputation as merely a "horse tranquilizer" or party drug, ketamine's ca...2025-04-1544 minwe are NOT the SAMEThe Camera Never Lies, But Some Dates DoSend us a textSometimes the most meaningful realizations happen when you're not trying to have them. This episode begins with celebrating a small victory—finally setting up our video camera after years of saying we would—before diving into the fascinating results of our dating app experiment. The numbers don't lie: over 1,750 likes for one host while the other had a dramatically different experience, proving our hypothesis that dating apps create vastly different experiences for different users.When one of us shares a recent dating disaster, complete with height lies and a woefully unprepared hiki...2025-04-0854 minwe are NOT the SAMERing Around the Crazy: Engagement Stories That Will Make You CringeSend us a textFrom awkward teenage proposals to social media engagement stunts we never agreed to, our worst proposal stories reveal the messy reality behind those picture-perfect moments everyone expects.Nothing says romance like being proposed to at "the dystopian version of Chuck E. Cheese" on April Fool's Day, or waking up at 3 AM to a boyfriend suddenly deciding marriage will solve everything after his pastor father caught you being intimate. We share four engagement stories each, ranking them from merely uncomfortable to absolutely cringe-worthy.The proposals range from subtle red flags...2025-04-0141 minwe are NOT the SAMESwipe Right for Hilarity: Our Dating App Adventures!Send us a textIn this hilarious and eye-opening episode of We Are NOT the SAME, hosts Lacey and Heather dive into the wild world of dating apps! Buckle up as they share their latest updates on the apps they've downloaded—it's a journey filled with unexpected surprises and more than a few good laughs!Heather reveals some of the outrageous messages she’s received, and trust us, you won't believe what’s out there in the dating universe! From cringe-worthy pickup lines to outrageous profiles, Lacey and Heather dissect the highs and lows of digita...2025-03-2543 minwe are NOT the SAMETherapy Wanted or Not: When ‘Help’ is Forced Upon YouSend us a textIn this hilarious episode of We Are NOT the SAME, hosts Lacey and Heather tackle the wild world of therapy—whether you wanted it or not! 🤪 Ever wondered who had therapy forced upon them? Spoiler alert: one of our hosts was committed! Join us as Lacey and Heather share their most memorable therapy moments, the highs and lows of their mental health journeys, and the laugh-out-loud antics surrounding Heather's unwilling commitment. That's right—while trying to navigate grief, Heather found herself in a place she never thought she'd be, and...2025-03-1853 minwe are NOT the SAMEJENN HAS NOTESSend us a textIn this episode of We Are NOT the SAME, hosts Lacey and Heather are thrilled to welcome a very special guest—Lacey’s sister, Jennifer! Get ready for a brand-new segment called "I Have Notes," where Jennifer dives into the juicy details that we've overlooked—perhaps on purpose!—in our previous stories. It seems Lacey has a talent for telling slightly different versions to each of us!Prepare for a lively conversation as Heather and Jennifer compare notes on Lacey’s string of horrible first dates and her boundary-b...2025-03-111h 17we are NOT the SAMEThe Great Maintenance Debate: Are We All Just Extra?Send us a textIn this humorous episode of We Are Not the Same, hosts Lacey and Heather tackle the ultimate showdown: high maintenance versus low maintenance! Are you the type who spends hours curating the perfect wardrobe, flaunting stylish shoes, and savoring gourmet meals, or do you prefer rocking that no-makeup look while living off takeout and comfy sweats?Join us as we dissect the colorful spectrum of maintenance. What really qualifies as high maintenance in the world of clothes, shoes, and food? Is it all about the latest trends and artisanal cuisine, or...2025-03-0456 minwe are NOT the SAMEJohnny Bravo: From Charm to ChargesSend us a textIn this riveting episode of We Are Not the Same, we delve into the high-stakes courtroom drama surrounding Johnny Bravo. Charged with eight counts of stealing and trafficking Heather's stolen property, Johnny has perplexingly entered a plea of not guilty, after admitting to the detectives he in fact committed the crime, all the while squeezed into a too-tight borrowed suit. Karma appears to be catching up with him as his once-charming looks have sharply diminished. Join us as we explore if being held accountable will finally halt Johnny's manipulative antics towards women and...2025-02-2553 minwe are NOT the SAMEThe Day My Husband Died: Heathers Heartbreaking Journey into WidowhoodSend us a textHow do you honor a life lost in a split-second heroic act? Together with my best friend Laci, we unravel the deeply personal story of becoming a widow—a side of my life I've seldom shared. We journey back to the fateful day of June 26th, 2020, when an unforeseen river tragedy forever altered the course of my life. Through candid and unscripted dialogue, we confront the raw emotions of grief and emphasize the profound lesson life’s unpredictability imparts: Cherish every moment with those you love.As we recount the events of a...2025-02-2056 minwe are NOT the SAMEJohnny Bravo: From Conman to Convict - When Justice is ServedSend us a textIn this episode of We Are Not The Same, join hosts Lacey and Heather as they dive into the wild saga of Johnny Bravo's fall from grace! 😲 Hear Heather's firsthand account of being ensnared in his con and how the Spokane PD delivered some serious justice! 🚓✨ But hold on—there's more! Stick around for part two where we unveil fresh updates that’ll keep your head spinning!Get ready for an engaging ride filled with laughs, lessons, and unexpected twists! -Support the show2025-02-131h 09we are NOT the SAMEWhiplash: The Yo-Yo chroniclesSend us a textEver felt like you’re rudely snatched back and forth by someone’s romantic whims, much like an erratic yo-yo? Meet our latest Hall of Fame inductee, 'Yo-Yo,' whose oscillating behavior is both bewildering and oddly amusing. We unpack these yo-yo antics with laughter and share our guilty pleasure for gossip, hinting at a potential new segment inspired by Reddit's "Am I the Asshole?" There's a lot to learn from these red-flag-filled tales, and we're here to ensure you recognize them before finding yourself entangled in similar chaos.Relationships today are...2025-02-1145 minwe are NOT the SAMESECRET CHILDREN: The Plot Twist Nobody Saw Coming!Send us a textGet ready for some jaw-dropping revelations in this episode of We Are Not the Same! Join Heather and Lacey as Lacey spills the tea on her rollercoaster ride involving secret love children that could rival any soap opera plot! From an engagement shattered by the unexpected news of hidden kids to navigating the hilarious—and sometimes awkward—moments that arise when life throws you curveballs, Lacey shares her wild journey. With a mix of laughs and heartfelt moments, she opens up about her coping strategies and whether avoiding these surprise family members is on he...2025-02-0452 minwe are NOT the SAMEPick-Me Girls or Validation VulturesSend us a textIn this eye-opening episode, hosts Heather and Lacey dive deep into the world of "Pick-Me Girls." What drives some women to seek validation at the expense of others? Are they truly just trying to fit in, or is there more beneath the surface? Get ready for candid discussions, personal stories, and thought-provoking insights as we explore the dynamics of women supporting women vs. the allure of male approval. We’ll also unpack the impact of this phenomenon on friendships and self-esteem. Join us as we challenge the stereotypes, deconstruct the...2025-01-291h 07
we are NOT the SAMEThe Stalking Chronicles: Tales from the ShadowsSend us a textIn this hilariously unsettling episode of We Are Not The Same, your favorite hosts Lacey and Heather dive into their wildest (and most awkward) stalking stories! From weird messages that make you cringe to surprising encounters with former crushes, they've got tales that’ll make you laugh, gasp, and maybe even check your closet. Join the duo as they explore the bizarre behavior of stalkers and share their own outrageous experiences in the darkest corners of the dating world. Expect laughter, outrageousness, and some seriously questionable life choices! Get read...2025-01-2156 min
we are NOT the SAMEWhat’s Your Hue? Unveiling Auras and Their Meanings!Send us a textDive into the vibrant world of auras with hosts Lacey and Heather as they chat with the insightful Mandy, an aura reader extraordinaire! In this episode, we uncover the colors that define Lacey and Heather's energies and explore what they really mean for our personalities and experiences.And just for a laugh, we even got a glimpse of Johnny Bravo's aura — or was it just a lack thereof? Join us for a colorful journey filled with laughter, insight, and maybe even a hint of mystery. Ready to discover you...2025-01-1454 min