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The Landy Peek PodcastEpisode #72 The 2-Minute Pause That Ends People-Pleasing (Especially as a Parent)If you’ve ever said “I’m easy—whatever you want” while your body is silently bracing… this episode is for you.
In this conversation, Landy Peek sits down with coach Helen Bryer to unpack what people-pleasing actually looks like in real life—especially in parenting—why “just set boundaries” often doesn’t work, and how to shift patterns without going too big too fast.
This isn’t about becoming someone who’s harsh, selfish, or “bad at being kind.” It’s about learning the truth: people-pleasing isn’t your personality—it’s a safety strategy your nervous system learned...
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The Rev Craft Biz PodcastHelping people find their creative voice - with Deborah Boschert#19: Deborah Boschert talks about her love of teaching people to find their own creative voice. We also talk about art versus craft in quilting and fiber art competitions.Show NotesWebsite - https://www.deborahsstudio.com/Instagram - @deborahboschert https://www.instagram.com/deborahboschert/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/DeborahBoschertArtist/Van Leeuwen Ice Cream in Dallas - https://vanleeuwenicecream.com/Salt and Straw Ice Cream - https://saltandstraw.com/2016 book - https://www.etsy.com/listing/474377211/signed-copy-art-quilt-collage-a-creative?ref=shop_home_feat_1
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Not Perfect But ThrivingPeople-Pleasing: When your time isn’t your ownIn this episode, I chat about what to do when you repeatedly find people around you disrespecting your time.
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2024-03-2617 minNot Perfect But ThrivingOn how strong feelings can be a gift in your people-pleasing recoveryIn this episode, I chat about how going inward when we have a strong reaction to something is key, and why these situations are such a gift in our people-pleasing recovery.
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2024-03-1913 minNot Perfect But Thriving"I always make so much effort for others, but no one ever seems to bother for me!"In this episode, I chat about how we're entitled to feel disappointed or frustrated when we're not feeling seen, appreciated and loved... but about how it's also an opportunity to get curious about what's going on and how we might be contributing to the situation!
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2024-03-1209 minNot Perfect But ThrivingInterrupting automated people-pleasing patternsIn this episode, I chat all about how I moved from being aware but unable to stop the automated patterns, to a place of (more often) having a choice of how to respond.
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2024-03-0517 minNot Perfect But ThrivingA little peak into my marriage...In this episode, I chat all about how people-pleasing has affected my relationship (now marriage), including the shifts that have occurred since I've started to release people-pleasing.
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2024-02-2719 minNot Perfect But ThrivingPeople-pleasing isn't your personalityIn this episode, I chat about how the idea that people-pleasing is inherently linked with our personality is a myth, as well as how this can hold us back from releasing it.
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2024-02-2713 minNot Perfect But ThrivingIf you're ready to stop people-pleasing, listen to this!In this episode, I chat all about the five things I would do for the next 4 weeks if I wanted to start finally releasing people-pleasing.
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2024-02-1310 minNot Perfect But ThrivingHow Tapping (EFT) has changed my lifeIn this episode, I chat all about tapping (EFT), how it’s changed my life, how I use it (and use it with clients), as well as talking about an exciting announcement:
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2024-02-0615 minNot Perfect But ThrivingAre you a victim to your circumstances?In this episode, I chat all about personal power versus victim mentality and why it's important to move from being 'at effect' of a problem to being 'at cause'.
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2024-01-3015 minNot Perfect But ThrivingPeople-pleasing, resentment and defensivenessIn this episode I chat about why people-pleasing can cause resentment and is linked with defensiveness (as well as my experiences of both), before sharing how I would start working on those things.
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2024-01-2312 minNot Perfect But Thriving5 Signs You‘re OverthinkingIn this episode I chat about overthinking and how it shows up. For more 👇🏻 Follow or message me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/helen.bryer 1:1 Coaching: www.helenbryer.com/services-1 Sign up to my e-mails: www.helenbryer.com/emailsignup Blog: www.helenbryer.com/blog
2024-01-1615 minNot Perfect But Thriving3 ways I’ve grown from having surgeryIn this episode I chat about three ways my mindset has shifted from having a minor surgery. Youtube Channel mentioned coming soon! For more 👇🏻 Follow or message me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/helen.bryer 1:1 Coaching: www.helenbryer.com/services-1 Sign up to my e-mails: www.helenbryer.com/emailsignup Blog: www.helenbryer.com/blog
2024-01-0915 minNot Perfect But ThrivingAre New Year Resolutions pointless?In this episode I chat about my approach to new years resolutions and goal setting for those feeling conflicted or under pressure to set goals at this time of year. For more 👇🏻 Follow or message me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/helen.bryer 1:1 Coaching: www.helenbryer.com/services-1 Sign up to my e-mails: www.helenbryer.com/emailsignup Blog: www.helenbryer.com/blog
2024-01-0219 minNot Perfect But ThrivingFor if you’re having a rubbish ChristmasThis episode is for if you’re had a rough Christmas. I talk about some of the ways people-pleasing habits can affect us during the holidays and cause us to struggle, as well as where to go from here. For more 👇🏻 Follow or message me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/helen.bryer 1:1 Coaching: www.helenbryer.com/services-1 Sign up to my e-mails: www.helenbryer.com/emailsignup Blog: www.helenbryer.com/blog
2023-12-2626 minNot Perfect But ThrivingIs people-pleasing affecting your finances?In this episode, I cover some of the ways in which people-pleasing might be affecting your relationship with money and spending habits. Is people-pleasing making you overspend? For more 👇🏻 Follow or message me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/helen.bryer 1:1 Coaching: www.helenbryer.com/services-1 Sign up to my e-mails: www.helenbryer.com/emailsignup Blog: www.helenbryer.com/blog
2023-12-1924 minNot Perfect But ThrivingHow to know you‘re ready to ask for help and make a changeIn this episode, I chat about the 5 key signs I see in my clients (and myself!) that tell me we’re READY to receive support and make some changes. I also talk about some of the reasons why we might not want to ask for help. For more 👇🏻 Follow or message me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/helen.bryer 1:1 Coaching: www.helenbryer.com/services-1 Sign up to my e-mails: www.helenbryer.com/emailsignup Blog: www.helenbryer.com/blog
2023-12-1213 minNot Perfect But ThrivingDo you fall ‘off track’ when things get tricky?In this episode, I chat about the last 4 weeks and how I’ve navigated a rough patch without falling back into past “all or nothing” patterns. For more 👇🏻 Follow or message me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/helen.bryer 1:1 Coaching: www.helenbryer.com/services-1 Sign up to my e-mails: www.helenbryer.com/emailsignup Blog: www.helenbryer.com/blog
2023-12-0512 minNot Perfect But ThrivingOvercoming people-pleasing - is embodiment the piece you’re missing?In this episode, I chat about what embodiment means and how to finally start implementing what you’re learning to make those tangible shifts in your life. For more 👇🏻
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2023-11-2810 minNot Perfect But ThrivingChristmas preparations for people-pleasersIn this episode I chat about my thoughts about managing the run up to Christmas and Christmas itself when you're struggling with people-pleasing, as well as the one question I use to guide me throughout the holidays.
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2023-11-2118 minNot Perfect But ThrivingHow people-pleasing harms relationshipsIn this episode, I talk all about the ways in which people pleasing is unhelpful in both existing and new relationships.
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2023-11-1422 minNot Perfect But ThrivingAre you a people-pleaser?In this episode, I talk about some of the main ways people-pleasing patterns can show up in day to day life. I also share my number one tip for starting to work on breaking free from people-pleasing.
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2023-11-0720 minNot Perfect But ThrivingMy people-pleasing storyIn this episode, I share my story with people-pleasing, how it affected me and how I started to discover ways to break free from this pattern.
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2023-10-3115 minNot Perfect But ThrivingGrounding MeditationIn this episode, I guide you through a grounding meditation/visualisation intended to bring you a moment of peaceful connection with yourself.
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2023-10-2411 minNot Perfect But ThrivingThe stories we tell ourselves and the power of rewiring themIn this episode, I cover:
✨ What limiting beliefs are and how they hold us back
✨ An exercise you can use to start identifying and rewiring a limiting belief you hold
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2023-10-1716 minNot Perfect But ThrivingWhy healing work is so important for me in my parentingIn this episode, I cover:
✨ My personal development journey over the past 5 years
✨ The impact this work has on my parenting and why I believe coaching and personal development to be so powerful for parents
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2023-10-1011 minNot Perfect But ThrivingThe problem with gratitude practices
In this episode, I cover:
✨ Why gratitude practices work
✨ The fine line between gratitude and toxic positivity and how practising gratitude can therefore become problematic
✨ How to incorporate gratitude practices into your regular routines in a more helpful way
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2023-10-0314 minNot Perfect But ThrivingReasons or results?Are you seeing results and achieving your goals, or are you finding reasons why you're not? Don't worry - of course, it's much more nuanced than that! But in today's episode, I talk about the when/then game and how we often use it to postpone our happiness to a future time, as well as what I think we should be doing instead.
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2023-09-2613 minNot Perfect But ThrivingFriendships as a MamaIn this episode, I chat honestly about my experiences of friendships as a mum, including friendship break-ups/fadeaways and how people-pleasing tendencies showed up for me.
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2023-09-1917 minNot Perfect But ThrivingStrategies for OverwhelmIn this episode, I cover:
✨ Why grounding is key when it comes to dealing with overwhelm
✨ My 6 favourite strategies for streamlining life to create more balance
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2023-09-1221 minNot Perfect But ThrivingMoving through feelingsIn this episode, I cover:
✨ How learning to process my feelings in more helpful ways has changed things for me
✨ Why I think it’s so important to have a healthy relationship with our feelings
✨ The steps I now take to move through my feelings
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2023-09-0418 minNot Perfect But ThrivingLetting Go of All or Nothing ThinkingIn this episode, I cover:
✨ What all or nothing thinking means
✨ Why it's so unhelpful
✨ How it's showed up in my own life and how it was reignited by becoming a mum
✨How to start letting go of it
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2023-08-2917 minNot Perfect But ThrivingComing Soon: Not Perfect But Thriving!This is an introductory episode, where Helen talks about:
Her thoughts behind the name of the podcast
Why it's taken her over two years to start it
What the podcast will be about
Find out more about Helen and her work on Instagram www.instagram.com/helen.bryer or on her website www.helenbryer.com.
2023-08-2604 min
Blood & CancerCAR T-cell therapy: Development to access Howard “Skip” Burris, MD, the chief medical officer at Sarah Cannon Cancer Institute in Nashville, Tenn., joins the podcast as a guest host for a discussion on chimeric antigen receptor (CAR) T-cell therapy with Helen Heslop, MD, of Baylor College of Medicine, Houston. Dr. Heslop, who has been a leader in CAR T-cell therapy research, recently received a Lifetime Achievement Award from the American Society for Blood and Marrow Transplantation. Contact the show: podcasts@mdedge.com or follow us on Twitter at @MDedgeHemOnc. EP 14 Show Notes: By Emily Br...
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