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Create The Love Podcast#010 How Structured Dialogue Can Heal Your Relationship With Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly HuntIn this episode, I sit down with the legendary Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt—renowned relationship experts and creators of Imago Dialogue—for a powerful conversation on the art of conscious communication. We explore how to transform conflict into connection, why structure is essential for relational safety, and how the practice of asking for permission before speaking can radically change the dynamics of a relationship. Drawing from their latest book, How to Talk to Anyone About Anything, Harville and Helen demonstrate live how structured dialogue can retrain our nervous systems and create space for curiosity, empathy, and deep unde...2025-06-0315 min
We Need To Talk with Dr. Darcy SterlingHow to Talk With Anyone About Anything—with Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly HuntIn today’s world, sharing an opinion can feel like stepping onto a battlefield. We fear being judged, misunderstood, or canceled—so we stay silent. Or worse, we speak at each other instead of with each other. But real connection isn’t about having the perfect words. It’s about showing up with curiosity, intention, and presence—even when it’s uncomfortable.In this powerful conversation, I’m joined by legendary therapists and relationship experts Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt, creators of Imago Therapy and authors of the new book How to Talk With Anyone Ab...2025-04-151h 08
Highly Successful CouplesThe Power of Dialogue & Zero Negativity - EP23 - Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly HuntIn this episode, we explore the profound insights of Helen LaKelly Hunt and Harville Hendrix, trailblazers in relationship transformation and the minds behind the IMAGO theory.Join us as we delve into their lifelong mission of spreading dialogue that transforms not just relationships, but the world. We'll uncover their journey, from nearly divorcing to a heartfelt recommitment that underscores the power of authentic communication and positivity within couples. Together, we'll unpack strategies to turn differences into opportunities for growth and harmony, aiming for a truly connected partnership.Key Themes...2025-03-111h 00
The Relationship Blueprint: Unlock Your Power of ConnectionUnlocking the Power of Love: Transformative Relationship Insights with Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen LaKelly HuntSend us a textThis podcast episode explores the complexities of love and relationships, focusing on lifelong intimacy rather than one-day celebrations. Equipped with practical advice from Dr. Harville Hendricks and Dr. Helen LaKelley Hunt, listeners learn how to cultivate lasting love through communication, removing negativity, and celebrating shared experiences.• Discussing the deeper meaning of Valentine’s Day in long-term relationships • The significance of managing expectations in love • The importance of a zero negativity approach to sustain intimacy • Transforming negative interactions into healing dialogues • The role of childhood experiences in shaping relationship dyn...2025-02-1435 min
The Mark Groves Podcast#435: Mastering Communication & Conflict: Skills That Will Change Your Relationship & Life with Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly HuntEffective communication is the foundation of every strong relationship, yet so many of us struggle to truly be heard and understood. Renowned relationship experts and authors Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt return to share their groundbreaking insights on how dialogue can transform the way we connect. Drawing from their latest book, How to Talk with Anyone about Anything: The Practice of Safe Conversations, they break down the power of Imago Dialogue, the role of safety in communication, and why curiosity is the key to bridging differences. From deepening intimacy in romantic relationships to fostering understanding in a divided world...2025-02-101h 04
Marriage Therapy RadioEp 356 Drs. Harville Hendrix Ph.D. and Helen LaKelly Hunt Ph.D.In this episode of So I Married a Relationship Expert, Zach and Laura get personal with Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt—relationship experts who don’t just teach about marriage, they live it. Get ready for an intimate look at the ups and downs of their own marriage. Spoiler: it wasn’t all smooth sailing!Harville and Helen open up about the times they nearly got divorced—twice! At one point, they even had divorce papers ready to go. But what saved them? They teach couples the very same techniques around the world. You’ll hea...2025-01-2147 min
Playing With Fire187 [Replay] Imago Dialogue: Transforming Conflict into ConnectionConflict happens. Especially when differentiation and individuation are parts of your personal and relational journeys. And that’s a good thing!Enter Imago Dialogue, a communication tool created by Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt. Not only can it transform your communication, using Imago Dialogue can transform conflict into more connection.Whether you’re practicing Imago Dialogue with a romantic partner, family member, or friend, the core idea behind it is something a lot of us have talked about before: I want to feel understood. I want you to understand me!We w...2025-01-181h 21
Top Shelf(8min) Getting the Love You Want by Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly HuntGetting the Love You Want by Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., & Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D.
In this transformative episode, we delve into the powerful insights from Getting the Love You Want, a groundbreaking guide to creating the love-filled relationship you deserve.
Discover how to nurture conscious love, break through emotional barriers, and align your relationship goals. This book is a must-read for couples seeking to reconnect and individuals hoping to build fulfilling partnerships.
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Love Uncensored: The Modern Guide to Dating & RelationshipsHOW TO GO FROM CONFLICT TO CONNECTION IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP | HARVILLE HENDRIX & HELEN LAKELLY HUNTIn this episode, I sit down with Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt—pioneering relationship experts and creators of Imago Therapy—to explore the profound ways our childhood experiences shape our adult relationships. Together, we dive into the dynamics of attraction, communication, and healing, offering practical tools to help you transform your relationship into a conscious and fulfilling partnership. What you'll learn: Why we are often drawn to partners who reflect both the positive and negative traits of our caregivers—and how this impacts relationship dynamics. The role of Imago Therapy in helping couples heal past wounds...2024-12-031h 14
Harvesting HappinessHealing Relationships Through Love, Connection, and Communication with Harville Hendrix PhD and Helen LaKelly Hunt PhDThe type of love we receive in childhood is imprinted in our brains. Early feelings and emotions color every single action we take in our adult lives unless we rewire our neural pathways. The way we communicate and the quality of our relationships can be improved. When we understand that we deserve love, we can be our fully vulnerable, beautiful selves with our partners to create long-lasting, happy, fulfilling relationships. To discover how to transform relationships through love and connection, Harvesting Happiness Podcast host Lisa Cypers Kamen speaks with a couple who have done the work toward...2024-11-2839 minHarvesting Happiness PodcastsHealing Relationships Through Love, Connection, and Communication with Harville Hendrix PhD and Helen LaKelly Hunt PhDThe type of love we receive in childhood is imprinted in our brains. Early feelings and emotions color every single action we take in our adult lives unless we rewire our neural pathways. The way we communicate and the quality of our relationships can be improved. When we understand that we deserve love, we can be our fully vulnerable, beautiful selves with our partners to create long-lasting, happy, fulfilling relationships. To discover how to transform relationships through love and connection, Harvesting Happiness Podcast host Lisa Cypers Kamen speaks with a couple who have done the work toward...2024-11-2800 min
Beyond Trauma68: How to Talk with Anyone; Cultivating Emotional Safety in Relationships | Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly HuntIn this episode with world-famous relationship experts Harville Hendrix and Hele LaKelly Hunt, we get into the interpersonal nature of trauma and how to set the stage to heal it (or at least not retrigger it) in your most intimate relationships. We discuss:
How to foster safety in your relationships
The difference between how we usually talk to each other and true dialogue
What nature can teach us about communication
The biggest problem most couples have
What our childhood trauma does to predict our future partner
How to diffuse tension in your relationship
Why we should make an appointment when...2024-11-2657 min
Beyond TraumaHow to Talk with Anyone; Cultivating Emotional Safety in Relationships | Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly HuntIn this episode with world-famous relationship experts Harville Hendrix and Hele LaKelly Hunt, we get into the interpersonal nature of trauma and how to set the stage to heal it (or at least not retrigger it) in your most intimate relationships. We discuss:How to foster safety in your relationshipsThe difference between how we usually talk to each other and true dialogueWhat nature can teach us about communicationThe biggest problem most couples haveWhat our childhood trauma does to predict our future partner2024-11-2558 min
Moments with MarianneHow to Talk with Anyone about Anything with Harville Hendrix PhD & Helen LaKelly Hunt PhDAre you struggling to develop deep connections with others? Tune in for an inspiring discussion with Harville Hendrix, PhD, and Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD, on their new book How to Talk with Anyone about Anything: The Practice of Safe Conversations.Moments with Marianne airs in the Southern California area on KMET1490AM & 98.1 FM, an ABC Talk News Radio affiliate! Harville Hendrix, PhD, & Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD, co-created Imago Relationship Theory and co-founded Safe Conversations LLC in 2015, a training institute focused on relational intervention. They are co-authors of three New York Times best s...2024-11-2135 min
Jillian on LoveSafe Conversations: How to Talk to Your Partner with Harville & HelenToday, Jillian welcomes two very special guests—Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt. As internationally renowned authors and relationship experts, Harville and Helen have spent decades helping people build healthier, more connected relationships, and today, we’re discussing their newest book, How to Talk with Anyone about Anything: The Practice of Safe Conversations. In a world that’s become increasingly divided and disconnected, their revolutionary approach to dialogue offers us a way back to empathy, understanding, and true connection.Be sure to check out their new book How to Talk with Anyone about Anything: The Pr...2024-11-1841 min
Chaptered MindsMaking Marriage Simple by Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly HuntMaking Marriage Simple: Ten Relationship-Saving Truths is a collaborative work by Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D., both esteemed relationship experts and co-creators of Imago Relationship Therapy. Published in 2013, the book distills their extensive experience into ten fundamental principles aimed at fostering successful and satisfying relationships.
Key Features:
Ten Essential Truths: The authors present core principles such as "a frustration is a wish in disguise," "incompatibility is grounds for marriage," and "conflict is growth trying to happen." Each truth is designed to help couples understand and navigate common relationship challenges.
2024-11-1125 minChaptered MindsGetting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples by Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly HuntGetting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples by Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt is a seminal work in relationship psychology, first published in 1988. The book introduces Imago Relationship Therapy, a method designed to help couples understand and transform their relationships by exploring unconscious factors that influence partner selection and dynamics.
Key Concepts:
Imago Theory: The authors propose that individuals are subconsciously drawn to partners who reflect both the positive and negative traits of their primary caregivers. This selection aims to heal unresolved childhood wounds through adult relationships.
Unconscious Influences: The...2024-11-0917 min
SuperPsyched with Dr. Adam Dorsay#237 How to Have Safe Conversations | Harville Hendrix, PhD & Helen Hunt, PhDHave you ever needed to have a conversation but felt terrified to carry it out?
I'm sure that like all of us, you have. The sad thing is that few of us ever learned how to have difficult conversations.
Fear not—help is here! Two people who are experts at dealing with difficult conversations are the guests on this very episode. They are no strangers to this topic, nor are they strangers to SuperPsyched! They are none other than the powerful duo of Drs. Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt. Many years ago, they wrote th...2024-11-0541 min
Inner Voice - Heartfelt Chat with Dr. FoojanE367–A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine, Dr. Harville Hendrix & Dr. Helen Kelley Hunt - How to Talk with Anyone about AnythingE367 – "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan." In this episode, Dr. Foojan Zeine chats with Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt, Imago Relationship Theory and Therapy co-creators. In 2015, Harville and Helen also co-founded Safe Conversations LLC--a training institute that teaches a relational intervention based on the latest relational sciences that can help anyone shift from conflict to connection. Harville and Helen are co-authors of three New York Times bestsellers, including Getting the Love You Want, which has sold more than four million copies, and multiple other books on relationships. Harville graduated from Mercer University in Ma...2024-09-1656 min
The Jeff Crilley ShowHarville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt, New York Times Bestselling Authors | The Jeff Crilley ShowWe live in a very noisy world. It gets louder every single day, and it seems like everybody is talking and no one is listening. And that may be the number one cause of divorce. It's not, any other issues inside the home. It's how they're dealing with those issues in the home. A couple who believe that strongly are my next guests, Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt.2024-09-0532 min
The Marie Forleo Podcast407 - This Conversation Could Save Your Relationship | Harville & HelenWhat if all your relationship problems could be solved with a single conversation? In today's #MarieTV, Doctors Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt dive into the simple conversation tips that brought their marriage back from the brink of divorce. These techniques have helped millions of couples save their relationship - including mine! WHAT'S COVERED IN THIS EPISODE: 00:00 - The #1 misatke that kills relationships 03:34 - How to guarantee a successful, happy marriage 06:35 - The secret to finding a win-win (even when YOUR needs conflict with your partner's) 09:35 - Why women should never be "submissive" to their partner 12:50...2024-08-2053 min
Reimagining LoveSafe Conversations: The Healing Power of Listening with Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt and Dr. Harville HendrixWhat happens when we listen and are listened to more fully, forging a deeper connection? Decades of research tell us that the brain undergoes physiological changes when we begin to “talk without criticizing, listen without judgment, and connect beyond difference.” This is the definition of dialogue coined by today’s guests, Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt and Dr. Harville Hendrix. Doctors Hunt and Hendrix are internationally recognized couples therapists, educators, speakers, and a married couple themselves. Through decades of research, they developed the Imago Relationship Therapy method, which is taught to therapists around the globe. In this episode, they sp...2024-08-2047 min
Grab the Top Full Audiobooks in Health & Wellness, Relationships & IntimacyHow to Talk with Anyone about Anything: The Practice of Safe Conversations by Harville Hendrix, Helen LaKelly HuntPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/723403to listen full audiobooks.
Title: How to Talk with Anyone about Anything: The Practice of Safe Conversations
Author: Harville Hendrix, Helen LaKelly Hunt
Narrator: Rick Adamson
Format: Unabridged Audiobook
Length: 6 hours 59 minutes
Release date: August 20, 2024
Ratings: Ratings of Book: 4.33 of Total 6
Ratings of Narrator: 5 of Total 2
Genres: Relationships & Intimacy
Publisher's Summary:
Relationships everywhere are in crisis due to our inability to talk about 'difference' without polarizing. Since objection to difference is the core human problem, we need a skill that helps us connect beyond difference. That's just what New York Times bestselling authors Dr. Ha...2024-08-206h 59
Empathy Empire PodcastLove Gurus: Harville Hendrix & Helen L. Hunt with Kim SmileyWelcome to Empathy Empire.Harville Hendrix, PhD, and Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD, are internationally-respected couple's therapists, educators, speakers, and New York Times bestselling authors. Together, they have written over 10 books with more than 4 million copies sold, including the timeless classic, Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples. In addition, Harville has appeared on the Oprah Winfrey television program 17 times.In this interview, Harville and Helen share 90 years of collective therapeutic wisdom about cultivating the relationship of your wildest dreams. 2024-08-012h 00
The Mark Groves Podcast#376: The Couple Who Changed How I Relate: Lessons from the Godparents of LoveIn this episode, I have the absolute honor of welcoming legendary relationship experts Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly Hunt. I had to pinch myself when I met them – it was a full circle moment for me. I found Harville and Helen’s work at a time in my life when I was deeply confused about relationships. I didn't know why I was so good at talking about everything but my feelings. I didn't know why I chose the people I chose or was the way I was. Harville and Helen’s work and their book gave me context to my personal relati...2024-05-271h 18
The AAMFT PodcastEpisode 104: Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly HuntIn this episode, Eli sits down with married couple's therapists Harville Hendrix and Helen Lakelly Hunt, to discuss the unique challenges of approaching relationships with mindfulness and empathy. Their renowned Imago Relationship Therapy model, now being taught internationally, focuses on healing the inner self and utilizing needs-focused dialogue to heal the couple. 2024-02-091h 06
Playing With Fire129 Imago Dialogue: Transforming Conflict into ConnectionConflict happens. Especially when differentiation and individuation are parts of your personal and relational journeys. And that’s a good thing!
Enter Imago Dialogue, a communication tool created by Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt. Not only can it transform your communication, using Imago Dialogue can transform conflict into more connection.
Whether you’re practicing Imago Dialogue with a romantic partner, family member, or friend, the core idea behind it is something a lot of us have talked about before: I want to feel understood. I want you to understand me!
We w...2023-10-281h 21
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Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And GuideERP 393: How To Get Through The Power Struggle In Relationship — An Interview With Shan MerchantPower struggle is a phase in a relationship where couples face heightened awareness of their differences, needs, and unmet expectations. It represents a shift from the initial romantic honeymoon stage to a stage where partners become more aware of each other's flaws and unresolved issues. This stage is marked by emotional turbulence and communication breakdowns as couples navigate the complexities of their evolving connection. However, it's also seen as an opportunity for growth and transformation if approached with conscious effort and relationship skills. In this episode, we explore dynamic strategies and practical tools to help couples overcome...2023-10-1054 min
Getting Open with Andrea MillerOprah’s Favorite Couples Therapists’ Best Tips For Lasting Love ft. Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly HuntIn this episode of “Open Relationships: Transforming Together,” YourTango CEO and founder Andrea Miller chats with Oprah's favorite couples therapists, relationship experts, and founders of Imago Therapy Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D., about communication skills that heal relationships, the importance of listening more and talking less, and the power of being open to other perspectives. “Open Relationships: Transforming Together” is a new podcast aimed at helping people truly open up to one another and to themselves by digging into hard truths and varying perspectives. We offer expert-approved relationship advice to help you...2023-10-101h 36
The Power of PartnershipSafe Conversations: From Conflict to Connection with Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt In the Power of Partnership: Seven Relationships that Will Change Your Life, Riane Eisler describes the complex domination patterns in our personal connections and intimate relations as “the heart of the matter.” Join us as renowned couples therapists and authors, Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt, share the transformative power of communication to resolve these complexities. Their unique process helps reshape communication from parallel monologues to shared listening and understanding that moves us from conflict to connection. The video version of this episode is available on YouTube at: https://youtu.be/zi9wM92Mcnw Center for Partners...2023-07-1119 min