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Safe Place For Brown GirlsHerdyne Mercier | Generational Grief: What Our Mothers Never Got to HealGrief can linger in your body even after you've laid a loved one to rest. Sometimes it sticks around until someone in your family is ready to heal.You might be that person who puts an end to generational grief. If you're unsure how, listen to this episode with my guest, Herdyne Mercier, a licensed clinical social worker. She'll show us how to recognize generational grief and how to release it so we're no longer carrying something that isn't ours.What Is Generational Grief?Before you can understand generational grief, you have to know...2025-06-2523 min

Soul Chat with Ebony M. TutoraEpisode 78-The Grief of Letting People Go with Herdyne MercierWelcome to another episode of *Soul Chat with Ebony Tutora*! 🌟 Today, we’re exploring *The Grief of Letting People Go* with the remarkable Herdyne Mercier, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Grief Coach, retreat facilitator, and transformational speaker. Herdyne is dedicated to creating non-judgmental spaces where people can heal from heartbreak and rediscover purposeful living. She is also the host of the *Redefining Grief* podcast and co-founder of Mercier Wellness and Consulting, where she and her husband, Dr. Jameson Mercier, guide individuals, couples, and families through the process of healing unresolved grief. ...2024-11-011h 07 $Roman Prokopchuk\'s Digital Savage Experience$ Roman Prokopchuk's Digital Savage ExperienceEp #307 Dealing With Grief Interview With Herdyne Mercier Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Certified Grief CoachI got to speak with Herdyne Mercier. Herdyne Mercier is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Grief Coach, retreat facilitator, and international transformational speaker. She is also the host of the “Redefining Grief” podcast. Herdyne’s life calling is to create non-judgmental spaces for broken hearts to heal and purposeful living restored. She's a 1st generation American whose parents migrated by boat to the USA so I can live the America dream. We spoke about: Her journey to now. What motivates her. Weaknesses she turned into strengths. Advice for the audience. And much more. This...2022-06-2131 min

Confident and Courageous ClarityEpisode 026: The Unexpected Emotion That Comes Along with Clarity with Herdyne MercierThis episode Jateya is joined by Herdyne Mercier, Founder and CEO of Mercier Wellness and Consulting is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Group Coach, Transformational Speaker, and host of the Redefining Grief Podcast. Join Jateya and her guest Herdyne Mercier as they discuss “The Unexpected Emotion that Comes Along with Clarity.” In today’s episode, we cover: How Pausing to Heal Delivers Evolution We grieve more than the loss of a loved one Importance of grieving your old self as you evolve to your next With Clarity comes Shedding and with Shedding...2022-04-1849 min

Whole and CompleteThe Grief Series Finale with Herdyne Mercier"Grief that comes with resistance does not make room for healing..." Herdyne Mercier has an unparalleled understanding and calling to help people through their grief journey. On the Grief Series finale, she drops incredible wisdom and pathways for healing. Follow Herdyne Mercier @herdynemercierShe is also the Host of Redefining Grief PodcastScriptures referenced: Ecclesiastes 7:2Follow Dr. Shante @drshantesays 2021-10-0633 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWRho Thomas - The Power Of Self LoveRho Thomas: The Power Of Self Love Episode Introduction When was the last time you thought to yourself that you were more important than anybody else, that it was only when you took care of yourself that you could take care of others and be fully functional? If you've been missing out on prioritizing yourself, this episode is for you. Today, I speak with Rho Thomas, an attorney and financial coach who believes that true wealth is having control of your time. I describe Rho as a woman who is not only self-anchored...2021-04-2748 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWBrandi Harvey: Beyond HerBrandi Harvey: Beyond Her Episode Introduction Many of us hover over unworthy relationships and habits only because saying a healthy goodbye is hard. We end up going back to places that don't serve us, being around people who don't love us, and spending money on things that deplete us. Today, we learn that there's a lot more to us than we can visualize. In this episode, Herdyne speaks with Brandi Harvey, Founder of Beyond Her, a network for women at the start of their careers who want to feel less like imposters and...2021-04-201h 05

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWDr. Jameson Mercier: Hope Is Not A PlanJameson Mercier: Hope Is Not A Plan Episode Introduction According to Jameson Mercier, "Hope is not a plan". We need to understand that possessing a practical plan for our goals and then working sincerely to make it work is the starting point of liberation. In this episode, my husband Jameson Mercier sits with me and talks about honesty, sincerity, hope and plans, and how these elements are vital for keeping your relationships content and happy. Jameson describes his thoughts on why hoping could not amount to planning. "If hope is your plan, then...2021-04-1358 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWSinika Calloway: The Healing JourneySinika Calloway Episode Introduction Do you know that at times of grief, knowing that there are others who have been where you are can greatly help you heal? There is inexplicable power in human connection. In this episode of Redefining Grief, I speak with Sinika Calloway about her journey through grief and where it took her in life. Sinika’s life draws a parallel to my life personally and there’s a lot of good things to imbibe from this healing conversation. Sinika narrates those incidents that led her to a phase...2021-04-0632 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWMarshawn Evans Daniels:Believe BiggerMarshawn Evans Daniels Episode Introduction Do you want to discover the path to your life’s purpose? However hard the course may appear to you, this episode would change your belief altogether. I welcome on the show today Marshawn Evans Daniels, a reinvention strategist and life coach, mentoring women worldwide to live bolder in the areas of faith and business. As a serial entrepreneur, TV personality, creator of the Godfidence movement, and founder of SHE Profits, she helps women turn ideas into income and faith into action! Learn how you can step into yo...2021-03-3037 min

Drew Vs. The WorldDeal With Your Grief with Herdyne MercierBio Time: Herdyne Mercier is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Grief Coach, retreat facilitator, and transformational speaker. She is also the host of the “Redefining Grief” podcast. Herdyne’s life calling is to create non-judgmental spaces for broken hearts to heal and purposeful living restored.Website:https://herdynemercier.com/Social Media:Instagram: @herdynemercierFacebook: Herdyne Mercier, LCSWTwitter: @herdynemercierGrief Crusader Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/GriefCrusader———Sponsor ———Get your deck today at Poddecks.com - use code DVSW 2021-03-2953 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWJazlyn Denise: The Prayer PlaybookJazlyn Denise: The Prayer Playbook Episode Introduction Things that you have been destined for need not happen to you in challenging ways always. Have you known how mysteriously you could be brought to understanding your life's purpose? Listen in to this episode of Redefining Grief as I introduce to you Jazlyn Denise, a professional prayer coach, real estate expert, fundraising professional, author, and public speaker. Jazlyn truly believes in living out her life's purpose and has chosen to do so in all areas of her life. She was born and raised in the...2021-03-2347 min

IGNITE Her® I Human Design, Gene Keys & Timeless Teachings to Support Women in Fulfilling Her Purpose220 | How to Embrace Grief to Breakthrough in Your Life with Herdyne MercierHave you ever gone through a huge life experience that derails you a little bit? Have you ever considered experiences, besides a close family member or friend passing, as going through grief? Herdyne Merciser is a grief coach that shares her story and her heart all about how important it is to heal in order to breakthrough to our true purpose in life. And this is important when it comes to your personal journey and your business. If you are not aligned, it won’t work and it won’t make sense. You do not want to miss this one...2021-03-1953 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWJ. Nicole Jones - The Grief BullyJ. Nicole Jones - The Grief Bully Episode Introduction When times are hard and grief has hit over, how do you know if you really want to feel better? Sometimes, life wants us to embrace the happy and sad times and not run away from them. But when grief robs you off of life’s joys, allow yourself to bully it in return. Wondering if you could actually do that? Join me on this episode of the Redefining Grief podcast as I interview speaker, podcast host of the Grief Bully podcast, and life im...2021-03-1640 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWJessie May Wolfe: HeartRise MovementJessie May Wolfe Episode Introduction Some of us have a wall around our hearts that we're afraid to allow through or break. Do you realize this is robbing you of living your life's purpose? If you need to set free from its clutches, I firmly believe that this episode will help you. Tune in today as I converse with Jessie May Wolfe, a brave heart leader, speaker, visionary, and founder of the HeartRise movement, which was born out of her genuine curiosity to understand how interconnected we all are. 2021-03-1251 min

Soul Chat with Ebony M. TutoraEpisode 41- Herdyne Mercier and Redefining GriefWelcome to Soul Chat with your host Ebony M. Tutora. A podcast dedicated to diving beneath the surface level conversations... and going into the depths of the soul. Today I had the honor of interviewing the amazing Chief Grief Crusader, Herdyne Mercier. In this episode we speak about grief, and how many times we may not even recognize that we are experiencing grief. It may be grief induced by the loss of a job, a lifestyle, a child, a partner, and so many other ways. Herdyne truly shows up in her power, and knowing of redefining the way we...2021-03-071h 04

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWPatrice Washington - Redefining WealthPatrice Washington - Redefining Wealth Episode Introduction This is a special episode of the Redefining Grief Podcast. Our guest today is my dearest friend and personal business coach, Patrice Washington. She is a professional finance expert, America's money Maven turned holistic lifestyle innovator, award-winning author, and host of the Redefining Wealth podcast. She has used her podcast to teach millions of people that wealth is much more than money and not materialistic things. And I'm one of those individuals that she has taught that to. If passion is about what energizes you, and...2021-03-0257 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWValerie Johnson-Reed:Triumph Over TragedyValerie Johnson-Reed: Triumph Over Tragedy Episode Introduction What if you learned someday that your name symbolized what you will go through and how you will handle life? Some learnings could be just as incredible. Often, we have to not say anything at all, for it is not about saying something; it is about being there. Join me on this episode of the Redefining Grief podcast as I interview a mindful and strong woman and my dear friend, Valerie Johnson-Reed. Valerie's moving journey in life is a ray of sunshine for anyone who wishes t...2021-02-2347 min

Fulfilled and Financially Free: For the Women Ready to Redefine Success, Strengthen Your Faith + Master Your MoneyThe Full Circle Journey to Purpose: Redefining Grief with Herdyne MercierThis episode is part of the Redefining You Series. Today's guest is Herdyne Mercier, The Chief Grief Crusador and Hostess of The Redefining Grief Podcast. Herdyne and I discuss the truth about grief, and how closely aligned it is with growth. We also talk about how we do ourselves a disservice on the journey to living purposefully when we refuse to acknowledge and celebrate the lessons we learn through grieving, as well as the five anchors to redefining grief. You can learn more about Herdyne here and follow her on Instagram here. Book your Breakthrough Sess...2021-02-2038 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWLatrese Kabuya: Overcoming The OddsLatrese Kabuya: Overcoming The Odds Episode Introduction Any pain that you bury inside would keep resurfacing until you deal with it the way you're supposed to. Do you wish to come out of all that is eating up your mental space? Whatever it is that you're going through right now emotionally, I want to tell you that you're going to feel pumped and ready to overcome it. Get ready to tackle it with confidence and grace as my guest today shows you how she did it right. 2021-02-1642 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWWhitney West: Grieving The Life You HadWhitney West: Grieving The Life You Had Episode Introduction Sometimes, life gets awfully messy and unpredictable en route to reaching your goals. Recentering yourself and accepting the changes that you are to undergo could be overwhelming. But remember, those are the times that actually trick you into discovering what you are truly capable of! Have you been wanting to battle your way out through challenges to living the life you have always wanted to? The keys to your happiness and fulfillment often lie in your insides. Take a moment to listen i...2021-02-0947 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWEbony Tutora: Pain into PurposeEbony Tutora Episode Introduction As kids, our instinctual intelligence guided us when understanding right and wrong. We knew it when something was not right, we could sense danger and steer clear from it. What happens to that instinctive light as we grow older? Why does it get so clouded that you find yourself afar from the truth? Ebony Tutora is a revolutionary thinker and creator who emerged out through the darkest of times to become the best version of herself. Ebony joins us on this episode of the Redefining Grief podcast, to talk...2021-02-0258 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWFaith Anchor: The PrayerDo you find it hard to communicate with your creator? Do you not know what to say? Maybe you are at a place in your heartbreak that the prayers of others are providing you strength. In today's episode, Herdyne will be praying for The Grief Crusader Community. This episode is brought to you by our supportive, informative, and complimentary Grief Crusader Community. Join here https://www.facebook.com/groups/GriefCrusader Recommended Resources To learn more about Redefining Grief: http://herdynemercier.com To advertise on t...2021-01-2611 min

Next Level Thinking!Next Level Thinking ft. Herdyne Mercier ep. 189What's up it's time for another great episode of Next Level Thinking! Herdyne Mercier is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Grief Coach, retreat facilitator, and transformational speaker. She is also the host of the “Redefining Grief” podcast. Herdyne’s life calling is to create non-judgmental spaces for broken hearts to heal and purposeful living restored. Alongside her husband and best friend, Dr. Jameson Mercier, they own and operate Mercier Wellness and Consulting. They use their expertise and experience to help individuals, couples, and families deal with the heartbreak and unresolved grief that lead to unhealthy coping skills...2021-01-2125 min

Next Level ThinkingNext Level Thinking ft. Herdyne Mercier ep. 189What's up it's time for another great episode of Next Level Thinking! Herdyne Mercier is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Grief Coach, retreat facilitator, and transformational speaker. She is also the host of the “Redefining Grief” podcast. Herdyne’s life calling is to create non-judgmental spaces for broken hearts to heal and purposeful living restored. Alongside her husband and best friend, Dr. Jameson Mercier, they own and operate Mercier Wellness and Consulting. They use their expertise and experience to help individuals, couples, and families deal with the heartbreak and unresolved grief that lead to unheal...2021-01-2025 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWHealing Requires ActionHealing Requires Action - Herdyne Mercier Episode Introduction Battling your way out through grief requires you to take action. It is the little things that help you build the muscles to take up more significant things, which applies in the context of healing also. Start by not feeling comfortable with your grief and pain. It is not normal. Don't coddle it like a baby. Be vulnerable to pain. Face the truth, however terrible it feels. If you find yourself suffering right now, it's time for you to take action. Listen in to the...2021-01-1929 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWNew Year, Same Grief: Take Action Today.New Year, Same Grief - Herdyne Mercier Episode Introduction This new year, let us all take that step forward to redefining grief. You know that healing requires you to take action and make informed decisions. The pain may have been around for so long that we really do not know what to do with it. Though it might feel normal, know that it should not. Today, I want you to explore this thing I call Actively Healing to Live. Listen to the episode today as I address our 5 grief anchors once again to h...2021-01-1216 min

Hella Well With DanielleEP 15: Grieving 2020 & Coping With Loss with Herdyne Mercier2020 has been a year of lost expectations, daily routines, vacations, and sadly, our loved ones. We are all grieving what we knew as “the norm.” In the fourth episode of our Awaken to You series, a month-long series focused on intentional reflection as we approach a new year, we’re talking all about grief and how it’s more than just the loss of a loved one. My guest, Herdyne Mercier of the Redefining Grief Podcast, breaks down in this episode how grief is normal, the myth of the 5 stages of grief, how to overcome grief, and that there’s power in t...2020-12-2033 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWRedefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWRedefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSW The year 2020 has been difficult on many fronts. Many of us have experienced losses or know people who have suffered loss and are grieving. On this episode Mia and I sit with Certified Grief Coach (and my wife) Herdyne Mercier to discuss grief and some of the ways we get it wrong and what we can do to improve. Visit her at www.herdynemercier.com for more information. Relationship Renegade is a podcast designed to bring you hard truths and reality about relationships. This show is unapologetically raw. Dr...2020-09-2600 min

The Autism in Black PodcastRedefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWThe Autism in Black Podcast is hosted by Maria Davis-Pierre, LMHC, and focuses on all things autism and the black parent experience. Our goal is to educate, support, and empower black parents to advocate not only for their children but for themselves as well. Today we are joined by chief grief crusader Herdyne Mercier, LCSW. Herdyne talks to us about a topic that can be very difficult but is a natural process, grief. She speaks on how grief shows up for us in our lives and how to redefine our grief by using her 5 anchor system. And...2020-09-0436 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWSean Rodgers: Men Cry TooSean Rodgers Episode Introduction Our society has forever seen crying or expressing grief to be a sign of weakness. And men are expected to not cry or let out their feelings even if everything around them is falling. Why does it have to be that way? Why do we not see that men have emotions too? Join me on this episode of Redefining Grief as I welcome Sean Rodgers, who’s a dear friend of mine and also a successful entrepreneur. He owns Response- Marketing and Mailing, a print fulfillment and direct mail adv...2020-06-3053 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWPaul Mompremier: From Boy To A ManPaul Mompremier Episode Introduction Paul Mompremier joins us on this episode of Redefining Grief and walks us through his struggles of growing up with a father who hasn’t always been the most supportive. He also talks about his books and tells us his key mantra in life. Paul is an author, a model, a motivational speaker, and a truly intelligent person. He talks about his past experiences in the podcast and also sheds light on how this will affect his parenting style in the future. We’ll be getting to know...2020-06-2340 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWJay Cameron: Fatherless FatheringJay Cameron Episode Introduction The absence of certain people could create voids that nobody else would possibly be able to fill. But what if that emptiness is actually protection from something worse that could be? Join Herdyne on this episode of the Redefining Grief podcast, where she interviews Jay Cameron, an entrepreneur, world traveler, speaker, playwright, community leader, and philanthropist. Jay's ventures have been featured in media publications and news outlets nationwide. Today, he elaborates on his painful past, making known the struggles and grief behind being raised by a single parent. Jay...2020-06-1637 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWGerald Washington: The Come BackGerald Washington Episode Introduction He went from two college degrees, a multimillion-dollar business, tailored suits, a BMW, and a Range Rover and all the luxury to coming home in a uniform smelling of lettuce, cheese, tomatoes, and sour cream. But whatever the job was that he undertook, Gerald made sure that in his mind he was the CEO of the role he had been assigned. Why do you think life sometimes forces us into roles and figures we have never anticipated being in? Gerald Washington has been taking brands and businesses to the...2020-06-0943 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWDarren Bennett: Covid, Crisis, and ChristDarren Bennett Episode Introduction Losing someone dear to you always brings inexplicable misery. In those deteriorating times, it is only justifiable if you ask for some space to grieve the process. But how would you imagine the situation to be when the death of someone close to you becomes a worldwide affair? Shannon Bennett was a hugely respected and admired cop who died contracting COVID. In this podcast, Herdyne Mercier talks to his brother, Darren Bennett, who expands on his overwhelming journey through grief. In the middle of the global pandemic, D...2020-06-021h 13

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWFaith Dickens: When Plans ChangeFaith Dickens Episode Introduction Have you had to face back-to-back losses in life? Do you find yourself drenched in the pain and not able to make out how to get over it? In this episode, Herdyne and Faith have a genuine heart to heal chat about her journey of grief. Faith Dickens is a certified counselor, author, speaker, and Chief Executive Officer of Live Again Counseling Services. Live Again Counseling Services was created to assist people in processing grief, pain, trauma, relationship challenges, and disappointment. Faith is experienced and trained to help people...2020-05-261h 10

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWTrina Casey: Grief and Emotional IntelligenceTrina Casey Episode Introduction Do you feel you have been abandoned in life? If yes, why were you brought to that unimagined extreme? Healing required Trina Casey to say good-bye to the dream of what was supposed to be the relationship with a mother who might be ready to love, support, and care for her in an emotional matter. In today’s episode, I am joined by my dear friend Trina, who is a thought leader. She is the creator of This Real-life Books, is a certified family trauma professional, CBT coach, children’s bo...2020-05-2154 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWSybrina Fulton: Heartbreak to Social ChangeSybrina Fulton Episode Introduction The death of 17-year-old Trayvon Martin during a violent confrontation in the February of 2012 has made Sybrina, a household name. She developed a foundation in his honor called the Trayvon Martin Foundation, out of the need to bring awareness to end senseless gun violence and strengthen the families through holistic support and mentoring. She holds an annual retreat where she honors and empathizes with the pain of the mothers of children killed by gun violence. Sybrina joins me on this episode of Redefining Grief today. She shares her deep gr...2020-05-1939 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWKara Vaval: Why I Had to Leave A Good Man?Kara Vaval Episode Introduction Allow your heart to break. Go through it. Because getting on the other side is so beautiful. And in the process, know that you are absolutely worth fighting for! Join me on this episode of Redefining Grief as I interview Kara Vaval, President and founder of Vaval Law, formerly the Vaval Injury Law Group. Kara practices mainly in the areas of Personal Injury Land Family Law. Kara is a dedicated attorney and counselor of law. Understanding that the attorney-client relationship is based on trust, respect, and confidentiality, Kara is...2020-05-1457 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWTanya King: I Was HereTanya King Episode Introduction Liberation is that ultimate state where you are off of your agony and pain. Today, we talk about the obstacles and hardships one has to conquer to get to this place after grief. In this episode of Redefining grief, Herdyne interviews Tanya King, life coach and founder of Derailed in Life. Tanya King is a role model to all those who are uncertain about stepping out of their comfort zones. She quit her job as a nurse to pursue something she was passionate about- changing lives. Tanya had to...2020-05-1258 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWSamantha Jean Washington: Pain Is Not PermanentSamantha Jean Washington Episode Introduction: “My mother used to put me on the cheese grater – the sharpest part of it, the one with the little teeth sticking out. This sounds like I made it up, but no. I would be on my knees, arms like this crossed across my chest.” A mother is the very being who breathes life into you. She is hailed, revered and worshipped for being an epitome of love, sacrifice and tenderness. But what if she happens to cause you more trauma and abuse than any known individual? Samant...2020-05-071h 10

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWJeri-Lyn Wash: Missing Our MothersJeri Lyn Wash Episode Introduction In this episode, Herdyne interviews Jeri Lyn Wash, a mom, leader, and wellness preacher. We discuss policing grief and review why as humans, we hurt, and that's different for everyone. Jeri Lyn Wash is a woman who wears many hats. She finds her purpose in being a mother, community leader, mentor, author, and business owner. Amidst her healing of her mother's tragic passing, she founded her organization called "Missing Our Mothers Inc." which is a haven for any and everyone who's experienced the loss of a mo...2020-05-051h 06

The Sales EvangelistHerdyne Mercier | How To Unlock Your Sales Potential By Dealing With Unresolved GriefWe all experience pain and grief and in these seasons, we can feel depths of emotion that are hard to resolve. How does unresolved grief affect your sales potential? Let’s learn about dealing with unresolved grief today with Herdyne Mercier. Herdyne Mercier is the Chief Grief Crusader and host of Redefining Grief Podcast with Herdyne Mercier. Her job is to create safe spaces so that broken hearts can be seen, heard, and validated. The process helps you get unstuck from your unresolved grief and get you to a place of purposeful living. Re...2020-05-0400 min

Redefining Wealth with Patrice WashingtonHerdyne Mercier: Stop Policing GriefDoes grief always have to be reserved for the loss of a loved one, friend or pet? Can you experience grief with any loss like the loss of a job, loss of normalcy or loss of your finances? According to Herdyne Mercier, Chief Grief Crusader and host of the Redefining Grief podcast, grief is a natural response to any loss and you have the right to grieve anything you want. In the midst of this global pandemic, it’s normal to experience grief and not even realize that’s what you’re experiencing. You might be grieving the loss of your jo...2020-04-301h 11

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWLatoya Mathews: Beauty into AshesLatoya Mathews Episode Introduction Going through an abortion can be a traumatic experience. It distorts one’s emotional balance and scars one’s mental health. In this episode of Redefining Grief, transformation coach Latoya Mathews opens up about her own personal experience going through an abortion. She shares the challenges she had to face to completely reconcile from her past. From originally being broken, burdened with guilt and shame to ultimately being on a path to restoration, Latoya reveals her inspiring journey of self-healing and rebuilding. Herdyne gives an introduction to her episode and a...2020-04-2854 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWTatiana Fortune: Overcoming My NightmareTatiana Fortune Episode Introduction Tatiana Fortune joins Herdyne in this episode of Redefining Grief. Tatiana is the owner of Multi-Ethnic Collections and Moments of Fortune Events, a Southwest Florida event planning firm. She is passionate about making a positive difference to affect social change and improving the quality of lives for people in need. In this episode, Tatiana shares the times going through a crossroad in her life. What she feared the most came upon her 11 years ago, in 2009. Tatiana lost her brother, who was only 25 then. She grew up...2020-04-2154 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWWhat Supports Look Like: 3 TipsWhat Supports Look Like Episode Introduction: Supporting someone who is going through grief is a process that needs to be done the right way. Oftentimes, your advice, prayers, or words of affirmation could not work for them the way they require. How do you make your presence known to someone who needs you in the journey? How do you not police grief but still be there for them? I want you to know that your life still has a purpose. Listen to this episode of Redefining Grief as I help you find your an...2020-04-1421 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWIzmane Jean-Louis: First Heartbreak: Honoring Eugladie "Sha-Sha" JustineIzmane Jean-Louis Episode Introduction Losing a best friend brought Herdyne and Izmane crashing down in life. The emotional shock and sorrow took time to come into acceptance with what was real. In this episode of Redefining grief, Herdyne speaks with her friend and Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Izmane Jean-Louis, about dealing with the death of one of their dearest friends, Shasha. The last conversation they had with her is still fresh in their memory. Izmane speaks about being in disbelief about the tragic news. She was yet in denial an...2020-04-0750 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWMessy On The OutsideMessy On the Outside Episode Introduction: My philosophy is that happiness and sadness can coexist. When you create non-judgmental spaces for broken hearts to be seen, heard, and validated, you feel lighter and better. What I want you to feel today is this- that all the messiness that surrounds your life is normal; take your time with it. I give credit to this episode to my daughter. Why? She drew me a picture a while ago. I want you to picture the drawing with me so that the learning is etched in...2020-03-3126 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWCoronavirus and GriefCoronavirus and Grief Episode Introduction: Are you experiencing grief following the news and the events related to the Coronavirus? If yes, know that you are not alone. It was important for me to make you feel understood, and that is why I want to ask you to not isolate. All of the sadness, frustration, anger, irritation that you are going through is only a result of the trauma you are experiencing. Know that this process is normal, and you are allowed to grieve through it. But do you get st...2020-03-2426 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWRestoration Anchor This episode Herdyne Mercier, LCSW will introduce to you the fifth anchor she believes will be the foundation of Redefining Grief. This Restoration Anchor will definitely help you realize that redefining grief is a pivotal anchor in helping you understand that grief is a normal and natural reaction to any loss. The purpose for this podcast is to address the ways people grieve as well as how you can support grievers. The Redefining Grief Podcast is designed to educate and empower grievers and those who are supporting grievers. As a Licensed Clinical Social Wo...2020-03-2219 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWCommunication Part 2: Say What You MeanCommunication Part 2: Say What You Mean In relationships, we often blame communication as the root cause of many problems. Sometimes, it’s true, but other times it’s a cop out. Over the next few weeks, we’ll explore communication and ways to improve it in our relationships. The Couples Counsel Podcast is designed to help couples move towards a happier and healthier relationship. As Licensed Clinical Social Workers, Dr. Jameson Mercier and Mrs. Herdyne Mercier, provide practical advice for everyday challenges in relationships. Episodes are released weekly on Wednesday mornings. For more information, visit www.me...2020-03-1800 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWFaith AnchorThis is my truth. I question God. "Why me?", "Why now?", "Are you even listening?" I felt like he was not listening to my prayer requests. My faith took a hit and my emotions spiriual out of control. Fear, doubt, worry, and hopelessness took the place of faith. Those were some hard times. I am happy to to report. I tapped back in to my faith anchor and life is much better, not easy but better. I pray this episode bring you the clarity you need regarding your faith and grief through my personal life experiences and lesson. ...2020-03-1719 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWCommunication Part 1: Can We TalkCommunication Part 1: Can We Talk In relationships, we often blame communication as the root cause of many problems. Sometimes, it’s true, but other times it’s a cop out. Over the next few weeks, we’ll explore communication and answer the following questions. What does it look like? What does it feel like? Why don’t we communicate. How can I improve communication in my relationship? The Couples Counsel Podcast is designed to help couples get unstuck and moving towards a happier and healthier relationship. As Licensed Clinical Social Workers, Dr. Jameson Mercier and Mrs. Her...2020-03-1100 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWConnection Anchor 2020-03-1013 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWSharon J. Lawrence, LCSW: Is Your Baggage Really Trauma?Is your baggage really trauma? In this episode, we discuss the role of trauma in relationships. Many people think that the problems in their relationships are due to the baggage that gets accumulated. However, there is a fair number of individuals dealing with trauma rather than baggage. Listen to this episode and figure out how to know the difference. Sharon J. Lawrence is the owner/primary clinician of Selah Wellness & Therapeutic Services, LLC. She has over 15 years of experience working as an Author, Therapist, Clinical Director, Supervisor, Trainer and Speaker. Sharon believes that if you can...2020-03-0400 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWHeart AnchorHave you had your heart broken? Do you feel loss and confused about your feelings? Have you been praying for a sign and what happens next. Look no further. This episode Herdyne Mercier, LCSW will introduce to you the second anchor she believes will be the foundation of Redefining Grief. This Heart Anchor will definitely help you realize that redefining grief is a pivotal anchor in helping you understand that grief is a normal and natural reaction to any loss. The purpose for this podcast is to address the ways people grieve as well as how you ca...2020-03-0321 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWAgyei "AJ" Ekundayo: Co-workers vs SpouseCo-workers vs Spouse Do you treat your co-workers better than your spouse? That is the question at the heart of this episode. Listen as we discuss with our guest Agyei “AJ” Ekundayo. AJ is an impassioned proponent of utilizing creative arts to cope with mental illness. She recently published a memoir, Hindsight is 20/20, which is about her experiences growing up with multi-generational trauma. You can connect with her via Instagram @aj_write_mental. The Couples Counsel Podcast is designed to help couples get unstuck and moving towards a happier and healthier relationship. As Licensed Clinical Soci...2020-02-2600 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWTruth Anchor (Truth Is)Truth Is This episode Herdyne Mercier, LCSW will introduce to you the first anchor she believes will be the foundation of Redefining Grief. This Truth Anchor will definitely help you realize that redefining grief is a pivotal anchor in helping you understand that grief is a normal and natural reaction to any loss. The purpose for this podcast is to address the ways people grieve as well as how you can support grievers. The Redefining Grief Podcast is designed to educate and empower grievers and those who are supporting grievers. As a Licensed Clinical Social W...2020-02-2513 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWMy Story. My Purpose.My Story, My Purpose Episode Introduction: "If you do not deal with grief, the grief will deal with you"- Herdyne Mercier Have you had childhood experiences that changed your life forever? Most of us quite have. Back when I was a kid, I found funerals to be a very difficult time for people. I could see church members not crying, individuals trying to stop whoever cried and giving them lessons. I wanted to keep going back to funerals because, indirectly, though, I was creating the don't-do lists inside my mind, ma...2020-02-2012 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWLies Told About GriefLies Told About Grief Episode Introduction: Whatever the cause of your grief may be, our society has never taught us how to reply to people who are hurting, what to say when people are hurting. Acknowledging the hurt is often never done. We have all come across statements like “Time Heals”, “Just give it time”, and the like. Do you not think it is easier said than done? If you have also believed that showing no sign of weakness should be the goal of a griever, it’s time you give your...2020-02-2010 min

Redefining Grief with Herdyne Mercier, LCSWWelcome to Redefining GriefWelcome to Redefining Grief Episode Introduction: “Unresolved grief is the root of why you’re not emotionally healthy.” - Herdyne Mercier Welcome to The Redefining Grief Podcast. This is the place where I help you complete your relationship to the pain, isolation, and loneliness caused by loss. Many of us do not understand that grief is a natural and normal process that accompanies any negative happening. Learning that in our society we have not been taught how to deal with grief or support those individuals who are grieving, I decided to redefine...2020-02-1607 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWHappy Valentine's DayHappy Valentine’s Day! Millions of us celebrate Valentine’s Day every year and spend billions of gifts, candies, and jewelry. However, we don’t often take time to explore our motivations for such actions. Some say its love, while say it pressure. On this week’s episode we explore the different motivations for people have for celebrating Valentine’s Day and the impact it has on their relationships. The Couples Counsel Podcast is designed to help couples get unstuck and moving towards a happier and healthier relationship. As Licensed Clinical Social Workers, Dr. Jameson Mercier and...2020-02-1300 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWDadfident: Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWWe have come to the end of our Dadfident Series and season one of our podcast. Thank you all who have supported us all these months. Thank you to our regular listeners and new listeners. For our season finale, Herdyne and I sit and chat about some takeaways from the series. She also interviews me a little about my experience as a father. Take a listen! Fee free to stay in touch with us via email and social media. You can also follow our summer travels at Creole Adventures at the links below: In...2019-06-2600 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWDadfident: Tracy Martin Part 2We continue to celebrate Father's Day Month with with part 2 of our conversation with Mr. Tracy Martin. He was thrust into the spotlight after the murder of his son Trayvon Martin. Tracy talks candidly about his childhood without his father and having to find a way to go on after losing his son. Be sure to visit www.trayvonmartinfoundation.org for more information and ways to get involved. Remember also to check out Creole Adventures on Instagram @creoleadventures for our latest adventures. The Couples Counsel Podcast is designed to help couples get unstuck and moving towards a ha...2019-06-1900 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWDadfident: Tracy Martin Part 1We continue to honor fathers and celebrate Fathers' Month with Mr. Tracy Martin. He was thrust into the spotlight after the murder of his son Trayvon Martin. Tracy talks candidly about his childhood without his father and having to find a way to go on after losing his son. The Couples Counsel Podcast is designed to help couples get unstuck and moving towards a happier and healthier relationship. As Licensed Clinical Social Workers, Dr. Jameson Mercier and Mrs. Herdyne Mercier, provide practical advice for everyday challenges in relationships. They believe that any couple can have a successful r...2019-06-1200 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWDadfident: Mathew Jean, LMFTin honor of Father's Day we are taking the entire month of June to honor fathers, especially black and brown fathers. We kick off this series with my friend and colleague Mathew Jean, LMFT. Mathew Jean is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and a visionary poised to take up the cause of mental health issues in todays society. Currently, Mathew serves his community through his private practice Beach Stone Counseling, The Go To Therapists and Sober Words, an apparel company fighting stigma associated with substance use. As a public speaker, he inspires and motivates o...2019-06-0500 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWMarriage and Mental IllnessMarriage and Mental Illness Marriages can be stressful at times. They take a lot work and there are no guarantees. However, what do you do when you learn that your spouse is battling a mental illness? How do you approach him/her? What are the do’s and don’ts for a situation like this? On today’s episode, we continue our conversation about mental illness and share some tips for those married to a spouse with a mental illness. The Couples Counsel Podcast is designed to help couples get unstuck and moving towards a happie...2019-05-2200 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWI'm depressed, but my spouse thinks I'm lyingI’m depressed, but my spouse thinks I’m lying When a husband or wife is battling depression, it can create serious problems in the marriage. More complications arise when one spouse doesn’t believe the other. On this episode, we discuss some of those complications and ways to cope with then. The Couples Counsel Podcast is designed to help couples get unstuck and moving towards a happier and healthier relationship. As Licensed Clinical Social Workers, Dr. Jameson Mercier and Mrs. Herdyne Mercier, provide practical advice for everyday challenges in relationships. They believe that any couple...2019-05-0800 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWEpisode Rewind: Love Checks and the small thingsLove Checks and the small things All too often we overlook the small things in relationships...a text or a note left behind without realizing they are the glue that keep relationships together. Listen as we discuss the concept of Love Checks and the small things that keep a marriage strong. The Couples Counsel Podcast is designed to help couples get unstuck and moving towards a happier and healthier relationship. As Licensed Clinical Social Workers, Dr. Jameson Mercier and Mrs. Herdyne Mercier, provide practical advice for everyday challenges in relationships. They believe that any couple c...2019-05-0100 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWEpisode Rewind: You are enoughYou are enough. Episode Summary: As we roll into 2019, we'd like to kick things off with some powerful motivation. Allow us to introduce you to Mr. Malcolm “MJ” Harris. He is a sought-after speaker, motivational success coach, and Global CEO. His business empire includes National Care, one of America’s largest African-American owned financial services companies, and MJ Harris Global Enterprises, an international multimedia conglomerate. Through his social media and digital content platforms, MJ shares daily doses of advice and secrets to success on all things love, relationships, business, and finance. His authentic delivery style and magne...2019-04-2400 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWNo refunds for bad marriagesNo refunds for bad marriages The average wedding costs approximately $30,000. Depending where you live, it is not uncommon for couples to spend $100,000 on the wedding they've dreamed of their entire life. If we're investing so much into the wedding day, then doesn't it make sense to do our best to insure the marriage that follows? Check out today's episode and decide for yourself The Couples Counsel Podcast is designed to help couples get unstuck and moving towards a happier and healthier relationship. The hosts, Dr. Jameson Mercier and Mrs. Herdyne Mercier, provide practical advice for...2019-04-1700 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWWhen You're Married to a SuperwomanMy Wife is a Superwoman My wife is very driven. She is a competitor and will fight to the end to get what she wants/needs. While this is great, it can sometimes get out of hand. If not careful, her Superwoman Syndrome will take her under. On todays episode we talk about the challenges and benefits of being married to a Superwoman or Superman and what you can do about it. The Couples Counsel Podcast is designed to help couples get unstuck and moving towards a happier and healthier relationship. The hosts, Dr. Jameson M...2019-04-1000 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWMerissa V. Grayson: Couples and custody battlesCouples and Custody battles We want to believe that all marriages last forever. However, the truth is that some relationships will not make it. Unfortunately, some of those marriages have small children and they must be cared for, despite your divorce. Merissa V. Grayson is a dynamic and driven Lawyer, Author, Speaker, and Problem Solver. Her work is centered around Family, Personal, and Business Development. She is the founder and Principal Attorney at her firm, The Law Office of Merissa V. Grayson. Passionate about educating and inspiring people, she is frequently invited to speak at c...2019-04-0300 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWDo not play with divorce Do not play with divorce. The idea of divorce is often used as a threat when our spouse doesn't do what we want them to. We can't stress enough how bad that is. The decision to end a marriage is a major decision. It is a decision that requires a lot of consideration. However, what if you want to stay married, but your partner wants a divorce? What if you are divorcing, but still intimate with each other? One today's episode we answer these questions and more when it comes to divorce. The Co...2019-03-2700 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWJonathan & Ralph Toulon: Newlywed ChallengesNewlywed Challenges On this episode we talk to Jonathan and Ralph (Ralphie) Toulon, a newlywed couple about their new marriage. They talk openly about some of their challenges and surprises and discuss the one thing they do to keep their baby of a marriage from going south. Can you guess what it is? They also host a weekly podcast called In the Trenches. Be sure to check it out. Social Media @inthetrenchespodcast - instagram In the Trenches with the Toulons - Facebook @Trenchpodcast - Twitter @royanaj2lwn...2019-03-2000 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWLakia "LB" Brandendurg: Being married does not make you a wife.Being married does not make you a wife Wife-to-Derek and Coach-to-Wives, Lakia “LB” Brandenburg is The Wife Coach. She is a two-time bestselling author who is committed to helping women (who are married or planning-to-be) to know the difference between being a "married" woman and being a dynamic wife. LB empowers women to get rid of the fairytale syndrome and create a more realistic vision for their marriage and role as a wife. By tapping into The Power of the "P," and knowing when to "Tame Your Tongue," her clients are taught how to live the "happy wife life" a...2019-03-1300 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWDoes your marriage gauge work?Is your marriage gauge working? On this episode Herdyne and I talk about a recent experience of running out of gas. We could not understand why because according to the fuel gauge we still had gas in the tank…or so we thought. Marriages a very similar in that we think we are doing okay, until you find yourself divorced and alone. On this episode we share tips for recognizing when you’re heading down that road and how to get back on track. The Couples Counsel Podcast is designed to help couples get unstuck and...2019-03-0600 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWDr. Berry & Maria Davis-Pierre: Its us against the world.Its us against the world Episode Summary: The way couples deal with challenges says a lot about their chances of success. In times of hardship, too many couples turn against one another rather than towards each other. That is not the case for today’s guest. They understand that teamwork makes the dreamwork. Dr. Berry Pierre better known as “Dr. Berry” is a board certified Internal Medicine Physician who is the Founder of Pierre Medical Consulting, Host of the weekly podcast Lunch and Learn with Dr. Berry, a best selling author & speaker. Dr...2019-02-2700 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWGlen & Yvette Henry: When your husband is a stay-at-home dadWhen your husband is a stay-at-home-dad Episode Summary: With the anticipation of the arrival of their second child and his lack of joy in being an employee, at the close of the summer of 2014 Glen & Yvette Henry decided that Glen would quit his job and become a stay-at-home dad as it would help offset the costs of childcare! Over the course of his first year home with their two sons, Glen documented his days with the boys. In October of 2015 he launched his widely successful YouTube channel, Beleaf in Fatherhood, in which he tells honest...2019-02-2000 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWJamila Souffrant: Marriage and MoneyMarriage and Money Episode Summary: It goes without saying that marriage and money makes for lively and interesting conversations. It is the number one issue that couples fight about. But it does not have to be all bad. As a couple, you are able to accomplish so much and on today's episode we'll show you how. Jamila Souffrant is a mom of three young children, a podcaster, writer and founder of www.JourneyToLaunch.com where she shares her journey to reach Financial Independence and helps others do the same. As a money expert wh...2019-02-1300 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWDauren & Joan Francis: After We Say I DoAfter We Say I Do Episode Summary: The work starts after you say I do. Too many couples focus on getting to the altar and not enough time preparing for afterwards. On this episode we talk to Dauren and Joan Francis of After We Say I Do about their 25-year marriage. They drop a lot of wisdom so pay close attention. If you want to connect with them, visit their website at www.afterwesayido.com. The Couples Counsel Podcast is designed to help couples get unstuck and moving towards a happier and healthier r...2019-02-0600 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWHow to Protect Your Marriage from the FYRE Effect.How to protect your marriage from the FYRE effect. Episode Summary: Netflix and Hulu recently released documentaries about the FYRE music festival. They called it the biggest party that never happened. There was all this hype and millions of dollars was spent only to be left with cold sandwiches and left-over FEMA tents. You may be wondering why are we talking about this? Well, there are some great lessons to take away from this situation and they are relevant to your marriage. The Couples Counsel Podcast is designed to help couples...2019-01-3000 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWGerald & Patrice Washington: What fighting for your marriage looks like.What fighting for your marriage looks like. Episode Summary:You enter your marriage with the understanding that there will be challenges and you will have to fight for it. You think you know the meaning of “For better or worse.” However, the truth is we don’t really know what to expect. For this week’s episode we talk to Gerald and Patrice Washington. Their story about how they had to fight to keep their marriage alive is something you want to hear. Listen and be encourage. Patrice Washington is an award-winning author, transformational speaker...2019-01-2300 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWYour spouse will change.Your spouse will change. Episode Summary:Many complain that their mate has changed. They say things like, "I don't know you anymore." Newsflash: people change and married people are not exempt. While change is unavoidable, they can be beneficial and help to enhance relationships. On this episode, we talk about a few ways we've changed and the impact on our marriage. The Couples Counsel Podcast is designed to help couples get unstuck and moving towards a happier and healthier relationship. The hosts, Dr. Jameson Mercier and Mrs. Herdyne Mercier, provide practical advice for everyday c...2019-01-1600 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWElisha Beach: Motherhood and Self Care in a Blended FamilyMotherhood and Selfcare in a Blended Family Episode Summary: Motherhood is challenging. Even those who enter into it with a plan soon realize how demanding motherhood can be. This is even more challenging when your husband is an actor, travels a lot, and you have eight kids. On today’s episode we interview Mrs. Elisha Beach, wife to actor Michael Beach. Elisha Beach is a birth mom of 3, adoptive mom of 1 and a stepmom of 4 step-"adults.". Yes, you read that right... 8 kids a.k.a a professional mom complete with a B.A...2019-01-0900 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWMalcom "MJ" Harris: You are enough!You are enough. Episode Summary: As we roll into 2019, we'd like to kick things off with some powerful motivation. Allow us to introduce you to Mr. Malcolm “MJ” Harris. He is a sought-after speaker, motivational success coach, and Global CEO. His business empire includes National Care, one of America’s largest African-American owned financial services companies, and MJ Harris Global Enterprises, an international multimedia conglomerate. Through his social media and digital content platforms, MJ shares daily doses of advice and secrets to success on all things love, relationships, business, and finance. His authentic delivery style and magne...2019-01-0200 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWTurn the pageTurn the page Episode Summary:The worst place to get stuck in a relationship is after a major challenge. On this episode Herdyne, The Wife Mentor, talks about what it means to turn the page after going through some challenges in your relationship. What do you with that urge to run? If I stay will it happen again? How do we recover from this? Listen as she answers these questions and more. The Couples Counsel Podcast is designed to help couples get unstuck and moving towards a happier and healthier relationship. The hosts, Dr...2018-12-1900 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWWhen couples don't fight.When couples don’t fight. Episode Summary:Many couples believe that avoiding fights and disagreements is the way to keep their relationships healthy. The truth is they are setting themselves up for a major reality check. Takeaways: 1. Disagreements are part of relationships. 2. Avoiding conflict leads to drifting apart. The Couples Counsel Podcast is designed to help couples get unstuck and moving towards a happier and healthier relationship. The hosts, Dr. Jameson Mercier and Mrs. Herdyne Mercier, provide practical advice for everyday challenges in relationships. They believe that any couple can...2018-12-1200 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWYou Can't Have It AllCan you really have it all? Episode Summary:Everywhere you go we are being told that we can have it all. We all can be top producers in our careers, have great relationships in our personal lives, work out 7 days per week, volunteer at the soup kitchen, travel, etc. The question we tackle on this episode is can we really have it all and at what cost. Takeaways: 1. You can’t change what you don’t track. 2. Sometimes less is more. The Couples Counsel Podcast is designed to help couples get u...2018-12-0500 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWTen reasons I love my wife. 10 Reasons I love my wife Episode Summary:Its Herdyne’s birthday and she has the night off. Which means I get to talk about whatever I want. Can you guess what that is? If you guessed Herdyne, then you are right! In honor of Herdyne’s birthday, I’m going to take this opportunity to share with you 10 reasons I love her. Takeaways: Take time to honor the people in your spouse in any way you can. Send a letter, write a note, anything. There is no wrong way. He or she wil...2018-11-2800 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWSurviving the Holidays.Surviving the Holidays Episode Summary:Many people struggle during the holidays. According to research, rates of depression and other mental health issues spike during the holidays. On this episode we discuss some ways you can prepare yourself in anticipation of getting with family over the holidays. We also remind you to have a plan for some your emotional triggers. Takeaways: 1. Be honest with yourself about your family. 2. Consider limiting or removing alcohol from holiday dinner. 3. Thanksgiving dinner is not the time for therapy. 4. Do not take it personal. 5. No h...2018-11-2100 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWI'll be happy when...I’ll be happy when… Episode Summary:Happiness is something we hear about all the time. We crave it, sometimes to our own detriment. It is common to hear people say, “I’ll be happy when ___________________.” This is a dangerous way to think about happiness. Takeaways: 1. Our happiness should not be rooted in things we cannot control. 2. Our happiness should not be rooted in material things. 3. Being happy in your marriage is your responsibility, not your spouse’s. The Couples Counsel Podcast is designed to help couples get unstuck and moving t...2018-11-1400 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWTwo words that save marriages.Two words that save marriages. As awesome as your partner or spouse may be, they are by no means perfect. There will be times when you will hurt each other and need to apologize. The problem is some of us just don’t know how to say sorry. Well, don’t worry. We’re here to help. On this episode, episode Herdyne and I discuss two words that saves marriages and some of the Do’s and Don’ts when it comes to using these magic words. Check it out. The Couples Counsel Podcast is designed to...2018-11-0700 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWMarriage KillersMarriage Killers On this episode of The Couples Counsel, Herdyne and I discuss 3 things that greatly impact the viability of relations. It does not matter if you're married or single, these truths apply universaly. 1. Fear of commitment 2. Fear of being hurt. 3. Fear of change. The Couples Counsel Podcast is designed to help couples get unstuck and moving towards a happier and healthier relationship. The hosts, Dr. & Mrs. Mercier provide practical advice for everyday challenges in relationships. They believe that any couple can have a successful relationship if they are equi...2018-10-3100 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWLessons Learned Since Getting Married.Lessons Learned Since Getting Married. On this episode Herdyne and I both list ten things we learned since getting married. We came up with these lists independently and are revealing them for the first time on the show. This is a great exercise for couples, married or not, no matter how long you’ve been together. Resource mentioned on the podcast: When Two Become Three: Nurturing Your Marriage After Baby Arrives by Mark E. Crawford. You can read more about it at the link below. http://bakerpublishinggroup.com/books/when-two-become-three/279552 The Cou...2018-10-1700 min

The Couples Therapist Couch063: A Couple Educating Couples with Dr. Jameson and Herdyne MercierOften people try to please their partner and lose sight of what they want for themselves. It is important that we speak up for what we want in our relationships in order that we don't grow resentful over time. In this episode with Dr. Jameson and Herdyne Mercier, they talk about how marriage takes work and they are dedicated to teaching couples the skills they need to have great relationships. They work with couples in their practice in Florida. They have a podcast called the Couples Counsel and have several videos on youtube for people to be...2018-10-0246 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWMeet Dr. Jameson Mercier, "The Love Mender"Waters run deep. Listen and get to know some intimate details about Dr. Jameson Mercier. What impact did losing his father at a young age have on him? What were some of your struggles? What is Manfident? Sponsor: Mercier Wellness & Consulting www.mercierwellness.com Social Media links: Dr. Jameson Mercier Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.jamesonmercier/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrJamesonMercier/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/JamesonMercier Herdyne Mercier Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thewifementor/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HerdyneM...2018-09-1900 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWMeet Herdyne Mercier, "The Wife Mentor"Who is Herdyne Mercier, and how did she come to be The Wife Mentor™? We have been together for over 15 years, but sometimes I wonder if I know who she is. For sure she is full of surprises, but that's what makes her special. I love her and I know you will too. Sponsor: Mercier Wellness & Consulting www.mercierwellness.com Social Media links: Dr. Jameson Mercier Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.jamesonmercier/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrJamesonMercier/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/JamesonMercier Herdyne Merc...2018-09-1200 min

Relationship Renegade with Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSWWelcome to The Couples Counsel PodcastWelcome to our brand-new podcast, “The Couples Counsel”. This show is Co-Hosted by Dr. Jameson Mercier, LCSW and his amazing wife Herdyne Mercier, MSW. We have 4 kids and have been married 11 years and counting. We own and operate a private practice providing counseling to individuals and families but specializing in couples. This show is for those looking for practical advice for everyday challenges in their relationships. The podcast is designed to get couples unstuck and moving towards a happier and healthier relationship. We understand that marriage comes with its unique challenges. However, we believe that any couple can h...2018-09-1200 min