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Seeing Other People
Anniversary Special: What Changes (and What Really Doesn’t)
We recorded this episode on our actual one-year anniversary, from Turks and Caicos! We set out to recap the year, and ended up talking about how Ilana ruined the surprise trip, little moments that brought us joy, and what our marriage actually feels like day to day. We answer listener questions about what the first year of marriage has really looked like, what we do and don't remember from our wedding, what our plans are for what's to come, and more. If you love this episode and want to support the show (and our future kid's college...
2025-06-05
55 min
Seeing Other People
Understanding Yourself in Dating & Relationships with Erin Claire Jones
Ilana is joined by Human Design expert and author Erin Claire Jones (@erinclairejones) to break down how understanding your unique design can shift the way you date, connect, and make decisions in love. Erin explains what Human Design is, how it compares to tools like astrology or the Enneagram, and how your chart reveals insights into your relationship patterns and emotional wiring. They talk about the five Human Design types and how each one tends to show up in dating, why we’re drawn to certain people, and how to tell the difference between authentic traits and protective patterns. Er...
2025-05-15
58 min
Seeing Other People
Introducing: Cohosts for Life with Ilana & Jake
Cohosts for Life is our new Patreon weekly series where we (Ilana & Jake) sit down every Sunday—just the two of us—to reflect, laugh, vent, and share the real behind-the-scenes of our lives together. Think of it as our relationship diary, marriage memoir, and life update all wrapped into one cozy, chaotic, honest little episode that drops every Monday.Whether we're unpacking what made us laugh this week, sharing stories we forgot to tell each other in real time, or navigating the growing pains of being newlyweds, this is your front-row seat to the...
2025-04-21
42 min
Flirtations! with Benjamin, the Flirt Coach
87. Flirting and Dating IRL (in real life)! with Ilana Dunn
Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we welcome Ilana Dunn to the show, a dating expert and host of the Seeing Other People podcast, to have a conversation with us about meeting people in real life! You’ve got questions, we’ve got answers! We’ll open with hearing about the shifts Ilana made in her dating life to meet her now husband, early relationship green flags, and what the popular advice “date the boring guy” actually means. Then we’re taking on one of your biggest dating dilemmas, and that is how to meet p...
2025-03-31
55 min
The Gal's Guide
Rewriting the Dating Story: Ilana Dunn on Finding Confidence (Flashback)
We all get jitters when dating, but when does it start to prevent us from living our best lives? We're joined by the host of Seeing Other People, Ilana Dunn, as she shares how she went from being an anxious dater to feeling secure in her relationship.---Follow Ilana Dunn on Instagram Follow Seeing Other People on Instagram Listen to Seeing Other PeopleIlana's collaboration with Mindset Wellness - Dating Survival Pack---Stream Hannah's album, PHASES!Watch Emily's Short Film, All We Were...
2025-02-17
1h 12
High Vibration Living with Chef Whitney Aronoff
The Role of Food in Dating & Building Lasting Relationships with Ilana Dunn
Ilana Dunn is a Millennial and Gen Z dating expert and lifestyle content creator. Following a successful tenure running Hinge's social media, Ilana embarked on her entrepreneurial journey, founding her own thriving podcast and social media presence. Ilana is host of the Seeing Other People podcast. Her content empowers her audience to navigate life's complexities with empathy, authenticity, and relatability. We discuss: Having fun using dating apps Food as a bonding experience How to approach dates when you have food allergies Foods to eat on da...
2024-12-10
57 min
Breakups and Breakthroughs
EP 67: Getting Back Into Dating After A Breakup [W/Ilana Dunn Soloman - Guest Series]
Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:30 Meet out guest- Ilana Dunn Soloman! 1:15 How do you know when you're ready to start dating again? 03:00 It's okay to try it out and see how you feel 4:00 Everyone's journey is different 5:45 What do you do when your friends and family are pressuring you to date again? 7:00 As a friend, what can you can do to help your friend through a breakup? 08:15 Common dating mistakes when you start dating after a breakup 08:30 You're actually in a great position 09:45 Getting attached to first dates 10:15 It's okay to...
2024-12-10
33 min
The Pre Nup: A Wedding Planning Podcast
Ilana Dunn Shares the Real Reason She Skipped Bridesmaids & a Bachelorette Party!
In this episode, I’m thrilled to sit down with Ilana Dunn, host of the wildly popular podcast Seeing Other People and now a newlywed herself! Ilana joins us to share her wedding planning experience—from selecting a meaningful venue close to home to making bold choices like forgoing a bachelorette party and wedding party. We dive into why these decisions made her big day so special and how she personalized every detail, from signature cocktails to sentimental keepsakes. Ilana also offers valuable advice on navigating guest list challenges, staying sane without a planner, and finding ways to k...
2024-11-12
58 min
Seeing Other People
Age Gaps, Playing Games, and Defining The Relationship with Felix Levine
Felix Levine, entrepreneur and host of Unlike Me, joins the show to discuss his journey in podcasting, the dynamics of his relationship with Serena Kerrigan, and his personal growth. Felix and Ilana delve into why he started his podcast during a challenging time in college and the lessons learned from interviewing successful individuals. Felix shares insights on the importance of genuine connections, handling past relationship traumas, and the intricacies of dating someone significantly older. The episode also addresses listener questions on unique dating challenges and offers advice on maintaining relationships amidst personal anxieties.01:35 - 03:40 Navigating College and D...
2024-11-05
1h 00
Seeing Other People
What You Wear Impacts Who You Date with Gab Saper
In this episode Ilana chats with Gab Saper, a personal stylist who focuses on building confidence and body acceptance through fashion. They discuss the challenges millennials face due to past diet cultures and explore dressing for body types without aiming to look skinnier or taller. Gab shares her unique love story, beginning with a childhood camp romance that rekindled years later in New York, despite challenges like ghosting. She explains how eventually forgiving her now husband led to a deep relationship. Gab also talks about her journey into fashion styling, giving tips on dressing authentically, and how clothes are...
2024-10-15
59 min
Seeing Other People
How My Parents Met & Have Stayed Together 35 Years
In this warm and engaging episode, Ilana welcomes her parents, Barbara and Chuck, to share their charming courtship story, personal insights on love and marriage, and how they met on a hot summer night at an Israeli bond fundraiser. Reflecting on their journey together, they discuss relationship dynamics, parenting, and the evolving landscape of dating from their pre-internet days to the present. They offer valuable advice on navigating the modern dating world, staying hopeful, and the importance of being true to oneself in love. The episode also touches upon Ilana's recent wedding planning experience and fond family memories, making...
2024-10-10
1h 01
Seeing Other People
Following The Dating Rules is Ruining Your Dating Life
Ilana catches you guys up on her travels, her personal wins, and what she took away from a recent experience. Then, Ilana and bff Carly Silverman dissect historical dating rules to see which stood the test of time. Then they go through more modern, viral dating rules they've heard of and debate where they stand on them. 33 minutes in, they share dating rules that they broke when they found love. Want more dating advice? Check out this playlist filled with episodes and guests covering the dating advice you need to hear.Give your brain a boos...
2024-10-03
55 min
The David Noble Show
Episode 17 -- Ilana Dunn
Ilana Dunn is the host of the Seeing Other People podcast and a dating and relationship content creator. Ilana was formerly a Lead Content Creator at Hinge where she led an 8600% reach growth year over year, 4,283% impressions growth year over year, and 169% follower growth year over year. Some may know her as Ilana From Hinge, but today she's known for speaking to both well-known and anonymous, unfiltered guests as they navigate the complexities and realities of modern dating. Check out her Instagram here with links to her podcast and other projects in bio: https://www.i...
2024-09-24
1h 04
Life in Progress
47. The Real Ilana Dunn
Carly interviews Ilana about her life accomplishments and biggest regrets. Ilana opens up about something she's never spoken publicly about before that has defined her over the past decade. Learn more about Hunter's Fund and end distracted driving at hunterwatson.org Learn how we went from anxious AF to finding our husbands in our guide on The Leap here or at theleap.co/creator/itslifeinprogres Follow us @itslifeinprogress on Instagram and TikTok Email us at carlyandilana@gmail.com with any topic suggestions or burning questions For bonus episodes and more head to patreon.com/lifeinprogress
2024-05-15
36 min
HEY GIRL
Master Your Love Life With Dating Expert Ilana Dunn
#19 Ange & Lara sat down with Ilana Dunn, the host of NY Times top dating podcast Seeing Other People and Life In Progress. Ilana shares her journey from navigating dating apps, to finding love with her fiancé Jake. Ilana tells Ange & Lara how to avoid dating app burnout, prompts to use, and how to be approachable. She tells us to create your own dating rules, and if you don’t ask you don’t get - in every aspect of your life. We dive into how she knew Jake was the one, and how anxiety & self-sabotage means you’re with the wro...
2024-04-21
58 min
Dating Intentionally
50. Answering your burning dating questions w/ Ilana Dunn (@seeingotherpeople)
5 juicy dating questions we get into: Should you give someone a chance to change/prove themself? How do you know if you’re aligned after 3 months of dating? What’s the best way to communicate after a first date? What do you do if your friends don’t like your partner? If you live in Brooklyn can you date someone in NJ? Ilana also talks about how she met her fiance on Hinge! It’s a great story. Connect with Ilana on IGSlide into my D...
2024-03-08
52 min
You’re Allowed To Hate Your Husband
Empowering Your Dating Life: Lessons from Ilana Dunn | Episode 10
Welcome back to You're Allowed to Hate Your Husband! Today, we're joined by the remarkable Ilana Dunn, host of the hit podcasts Seeing Other People and Life in Progress. Ilana's journey in the world of dating and self-discovery has captivated audiences worldwide, and today she shares her invaluable insights with us. In this episode, Ilana opens up about her personal experiences in dating, offering candid anecdotes and lessons learned along the way. From navigating the dating scene to finding her now-fiancé, she delves into the importance of choosing oneself first and effectively communicating needs in relationships. Ilana's expertise stems n...
2024-02-20
1h 06
Loving Wellness
58. Dating Rules That Should Be Broken, How to Show Up Authentically in Dating and Relationships, & The Key to Communicating (& Arguing) Healthily With Your Partner with Ilana Dunn
In this week's episode of Loving Wellness, I am joined by Ilana Dunn, a Millennial and Gen Z Dating Expert, Content Creator, and Host of Seeing Other People, a Spotify Top 50 Viral Podcast. After a two-year stint as Hinge's Lead Content Creator, Ilana created Seeing Other People to help daters all over the world feel less alone and more empowered in their dating lives. Healthy relationships are integral to our overall health and wellness, which is why I am so excited to dive deep into dating & relationships with Ilana this week! In the episode, we chat about:
2024-02-07
57 min
In Your Twentys
136: How To Know When You've Found The One with Seeing Other People's Ilana Dunn
lifestyle + dating host, Ilana Dunn (@ilana.dunn), returns to the In Your Twentys podcast to chat about what she's been up to since the last time she stopped by the show (back in July of 2021)! throughout the episode, hear Ilana talk about: how she knew her partner was different from her exes how to know when you've met the one if right person, wrong time is a real thing planning your future with your significant other being involved in your own proposal the feeling of "when you know, you know" ring shopping telling...
2024-01-10
47 min
Seeing Other People
Ilana and Jake's 2023 Time Capsule: Date #351 - Date #476
Bonus episode! I sit down with my fiancé Jake (and Barkley) for our first annual recap recording all of our dates from the year! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
2023-12-31
1h 01
Seeing Other People
Facing Fears, Finding Joy, and Setting Goals – Ilana Unfiltered
Welcome to the Third Annual End of Year Episode! I sit down with my Associate Producer, Camila Vola, to reflect on 2023 and look ahead to 2024. We discuss my highs and lows of the year, biggest wins and biggest challenges, accomplished goals, and more. We talk about wedding planning, favorite episodes and guests, New Year's resolutions, mindset shifts, how to best approach dating in the new year, and so much more.Thank you guys for the best 2023 ever. Cheers to a happy and healthy 2024! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit...
2023-12-26
53 min
We Are Women
Dating in the Digital Age with Ilana Dunn
Ilana Dunn, Influencer, Host, and Executive Producer of the "Seeing Other People podcast," joins me in this episode. Ilana shares how she evolved from being a more private face as the lead content creator of the Hinge app to sharing her dating challenges and triumphs with the world via her podcast and social media. She also talks about how she learned to become more vulnerable and realized the depth of connections and how she could inspire others through a deeper vulnerability. Ilana talks about how she used to define herself by her job and relationship status and how she...
2023-12-06
49 min
Seeing Other People
Splitting The Bill, Dinner vs. Drinks & Red Flags We Missed
I’m joined by Dara Pollak and Kunal Arora, hosts of You Both Suck podcast, to decide once and for all what the best type of date is: dinner, drinks, or activities. We chat splitting the bill, whether or not there is such thing as too much therapy, and what red flags we missed in our last relationships. We answer listener questions about navigating a situation where you realize you don’t want something casual with someone you hooked up with, and how to find out if someone you met IRL is in a relationship or not. C...
2023-12-05
59 min
Seeing Other People
Staying Positive When Dating Sucks
I’m joined by Dani Kravette, a longtime friend and 27 year old navigating modern dating in NYC. We chat about being a “boyfriend girl,” feeling surrounded by friends in relationships, and debate if someone’s reason for ending things actually matters. We dissect her Hinge profile, chat about not drinking on dates, discuss her dealbreakers, and cackle over her hilarious dating stories.No more boring dates! Take your dates (or your relationship, wine nights, family dinners & more) to the next level with Where Do You Draw The Line, the best icebreaker game of all time. Grab yours at wdydt...
2023-11-28
59 min
Simply Intuitive
"Shredding for the Wedding", Plastic Surgery, Comparison, and more with Carly Silverman and Ilana Dunn
In this episode, I chatted with Carly Silverman and Ilana Dunn about body image in the influencer space, how having a public platform has impacted their own body image, wedding prep and anxieties about appearance and more! They share such relatable takes on comparing to others, how stressful it can be to see pictures of yourself, and how we all need to try and see ourselves the way our besties do. Hope you enjoy this one! Working on your own body image and relationship with food? I would love to hear from you! ...
2023-11-16
49 min
Seeing Other People
Your Dating Life Doesn't Suck As Much As You Think
We're celebrating your dating wins in this very special solo episode! I talk about the importance of staying positive and finding little wins every step of the way when dating. Then, I highlight your dating wins about firsts, vulnerability, prioritizing yourself, breaking bad habits, and more.No more boring dates! Take your dates (or your relationship, wine nights, family dinners & more) to the next level with Where Do You Draw The Line, the best icebreaker game of all time. Grab yours at wdydtl.com/buy and enter code ILANA at checkout for 20% off. This episode i...
2023-11-07
42 min
Seeing Other People
"If I Hadn't Gone To Therapy, I'd Still Be Unhappily Married"
I'm joined by a 29-year-old woman who recently divorced her husband of five years. She shares how she and her ex-husband grew apart throughout their marriage, to a point where their lives and futures were no longer aligning. She talks us through her decision to go to therapy hoping to fix her marriage, but how her therapist helped her realize that fixing it may not have been the answer. Finally, we discuss what she's looking for now and what her experience has been like dating and using dating apps for the first time as a 29-year-old divorcée. No...
2023-11-02
42 min
Seeing Other People
Stop Looking For The Perfect Person
I'm joined by Rebecca Marcus, LCSW, to discuss why we find ourselves in unhealthy dating patterns and how to stop. We chat about the importance of putting in the work, taking accountability, and recognizing when something isn't working for you. We answer listener questions about what to do if someone isn't making time for you and keeps rescheduling, how much couples should challenge each other, and how to navigate a situation where someone ends things with you but still wants to be friends. Check out rmpsychotherapy.com and follow Rebecca on Instagram @rm.psychotherapyNo more boring...
2023-10-31
49 min
Seeing Other People
What Are Mine And Jake's Dealbreakers?
Jake and I sit down for a dramatic game of Where Do You Draw The Line to figure out what our relationship dealbreakers are. We debate topics like sharing locations, talking about exes, cheating, finances, prenups and more. Play Where Do You Draw The Line on your next date, with your bffs, or during family dinner! Grab your box at wdydtl.com/buy and use code ILANA for 20% off!This episode is sponsored by Regain Couples Therapy by Betterhelp. Give online therapy a try at regain.com/SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE and get on your way to being your best se...
2023-10-26
44 min
Seeing Other People
How To Become Securely Attached After A Bad Relationship
Dr. Morgan Anderson, relationship coach, attachment theory expert, and host of Let's Get Vulnerable joins us today to discuss going from an unhealthy or traumatic relationship to a healthy relationship. We discuss where our attachment styles can come from, what steps we need to take to heal them, and how the research around attachment theory has changed over time. We open up about our past traumatic relationships, how they impacted us, and how we were able to move past them and find loving, healthy relationships.Ways to support IsraelNo more boring dates! Take your...
2023-10-24
53 min
First Round's on Me
Ilana Dunn for the Seeing Other People Podcast
We had the privilege of delving into the world of dating, self-discovery, and personal growth with the brilliant host of the 'Seeing Other People' podcast, Ilana Dunn. Ilana has captivated audiences around the world with her candid conversations about the intricacies of dating, relationships, and the human heart. Her lively and wise approach to these topics, combined with her sincere dedication to helping others navigate the complexities of love, make her a strong advocate for all aspects of love. Today, we're going to tap into Ilana's wealth of knowledge and explore the profound connections between dating, self-discovery, and personal...
2023-10-22
56 min
Seeing Other People
"How Therapy Changed My Dating Life"
On this Unfiltered, I’m joined by a woman in her early-mid 30s who opens up about her therapy journey and how it transformed the way she approaches dating. We hear about what led to the breakup of her four year long relationship, how she approached her healing process, and what she did differently when she got back out there. Finally, we discuss dating as an expat, what it’s like being so far away from your family, and making new female friendships in your twenties and thirties.Ways to support IsraelNo more boring date...
2023-10-19
46 min
Seeing Other People
Can You Actually Fall in Love in Six Weeks?
I'm joined by Natasha and Justine, cohosts of 2 Black Girls, 1 Rose, to hear what they've learned about modern dating, love and relationships from our favorite tv shows. We discuss which shows are most accurately portraying modern dating, what shows have started important conversations that we need to be having, and which shows we should be watching if we want to actually learn and grow. We voice our opinions on whether or not love is blind, if giving an ultimatum is ever a good idea, can you fall in love in six weeks, and more. Check out 2 Black Girls, 1 R...
2023-10-17
55 min
Seeing Other People
The Biggest Mistakes Women Are Making in Dating with Evan Marc Katz
I’m joined by Evan Marc Katz, the world’s first dating coach (2003!), four-time author, and host of the Love U Podcast. Evan and I chat about where women are going wrong in dating when it comes to taking breaks from dating, going on dates, and getting into relationships. We learn which dealbreakers matter, ways to figure out if a relationship is right and how to know if it’s time to leave. Evan helps answer listener questions about getting over someone, whether or not you’re wasting your time, and more.Head to evanmarcka...
2023-08-22
1h 01
The Danette May Show
How to Use Manifestation While Dating with Dating Expert & Host of Seeing Other People, Ilana Dunn
Ilana Dunn is a Millennial and Gen Z Dating Expert, entrepreneur, and podcast host. She openly shared her own dating struggles and created her brand to help daters all over the world feel less alone and more empowered in their dating lives. Today, Ilana shares her story from creating content for Hinge to creating connections on her podcast, Seeing Other People. We walk through the timeline of Ilana’s recent manifestation and discuss why authenticity (and fun!) is the key to dating apps. Plus, we chat about the launch of Ilana’s newest podcast, Life In Progress.I...
2023-08-08
31 min
Schmuckboys
No Longer Seeing Other People ft. Ilana Dunn
Libby and Marla are back and excited about their new launch with the Jewish Journal! They give some brief intros about themselves to help their new listeners learn about who they are. They then give updates about what's going on in their personal lives. Libby has an upcoming talk with Hadassah Magazine and Marla survived a car accident - so all good things! This week the girls are thrilled to welcome Ilana Dunn, a dating expert herself who will no longer have to deal with Schmuckboys as she recently got engaged. Ilana shares her unexpected journey into the dating...
2023-07-12
58 min
Welcome to the Collective
Confident Girl Summer Series: Dating, Summer Hookups and Advice w/ Ilana Dunn
On today's episode, Bri is joined by relationship expert Ilana Dunn, host of Seeing Other People podcast. They chat about how to approach someone cute in public, the best dating apps and how to stop romanticizing people. Ilana shares her engagement story, her top tips for first dates, and the key to making a relationship last!Follow Ilana: https://www.instagram.com/ilana.dunn/Listen to Seeing Other People: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/seeing-other-people/id1505618760JOIN THE GROUP CHAT: https://links.geneva.com/invite/739aac2b-35bf-4467-a342...
2023-06-07
59 min
Dare to Self Care
Busting Myths About How Often Couples Should Be Having Sex, Lessons Learned From a Toxic Situationship & How To Navigate Being Single When All Your Friends Are Engaged Ft. Ilana Dunn
This week's episode is with Ilana Dunn! Ilana Dunn is a Millennial and Gen Z Dating Expert, Content Creator, and host of the Seeing Other People, a Spotify Top 50 Viral Podcast, where she helps people feel less alone and more empowered in their dating lives. After a two-year stint as Hinge Lead Content Creator, Ilana created Seeing Other People to help daters all over the world overcome the challenges they're facing so they can find the relationship they're looking for and have the tools to make it last. TOPICS: The realities of planning a wedding Busting myth...
2023-04-25
1h 00
Relatable | Relationships Unfiltered
Dating App Don'ts with Ilana Dunn
Dr. Liz hangs out with Ilana Dunn, host of Seeing Other People Podcast, to chat all things dating apps… including some helpful dos and don’ts. Ilana is a previous employee of a well-known dating app and the host of a dating and relationship podcast, so she provides some very valuable tips and takeaways for setting up a dating app profile, engaging in initial conversation with a new match, as well as some good insights around the all-too-common issue of “ghosting.” Dr. Liz shares openly about her dating app struggles… and Ilana shares about her dating app successes, including how she me...
2023-04-25
49 min
Seeing Other People
This is Seeing Other People
Seeing Other People and host Ilana Dunn are here to help you feel less alone in your dating struggles. Real people, real stories, real life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
2023-04-04
00 min
Ask a Matchmaker
Hotline Edition: Let’s Practice Conversing with Ilana Dunn
Joining Maria on the hotline this week is Seeing Other People podcast host Ilana Dunn! Check out the Seeing Other People podcast on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/seeingotherpeople/ Follow Ilana on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/ilana.dunn/ Follow Ilana on TikTok at https://www.tiktok.com/@ilana.dunn Follow Maria on Instagram for more dating and relationship content: http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria Or join Maria on an upcoming Agape Intensive! http...
2023-01-24
1h 01
Seeing Other People
Ilana's 2022: Highs & Lows, Lessons Learned, My Struggles & More
I’m joined by my associate producer, Camila Vola, to reflect back on 2022 and look ahead to 2023. We discuss my highs and lows, what lessons I learned, who had the biggest impact on my year, challenges I overcame, and goals I accomplished (plus goals I did not). I open up about my fears, what I’m self-conscious about, and what my struggles are with this career path. We chat about favorite episodes, the best pieces of advice, what I want to accomplish in the new year, and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megap...
2022-12-29
1h 21
Inner Growth
Growing Through Dating & Relationships with Ilana Dunn
#92. On this week’s guest episode of the podcast, Carolina had the pleasure of speaking with Ilana Dunn. Ilana is a content creator and the host of the Seeing Other People podcast, with the goal of helping others feel less alone in their dating lives. In today’s conversation, Ilana and Caro dive deep into relationship/dating patterns from their pasts that they’ve healed from, evolving from dating someone just to date someone, finding new relationships from a place of empowerment, the importance of listening to your own truth, never settling for less than you know you deserve, and advice...
2022-12-19
57 min
Inner Growth
Growing Through Dating & Relationships with Ilana Dunn
#92. On this week’s guest episode of the podcast, Carolina had the pleasure of speaking with Ilana Dunn. Ilana is a content creator and the host of the Seeing Other People podcast, with the goal of helping others feel less alone in their dating lives. In today’s conversation, Ilana and Caro dive deep into relationship/dating patterns from their pasts that they’ve healed from, evolving from dating someone just to date someone, finding new relationships from a place of empowerment, the importance of listening to your own truth, never settling for less than you know you deserve, and advice...
2022-12-19
57 min
Bedside
Your Ultimate Guide to Dating with Ilana Dunn
How do I get back out into the dating scene? Why does dating always feel like a chase? Why am I hitting burnout? How do I set up a killer dating profile? Today I'm chatting with dating expert Ilana Dunn, former content lead at Hinge turned podcaster, all things Dating 101. Today she joins me on Bedside as we cover the ins and outs of finding love and making new connections. On this episode Ilana shares her own history with dating, mental health, and what to do when you’ve hit burnout, lost hope, and maybe don’t even know wher...
2022-12-15
47 min
Chapter Twenty-Something
CHP 84- Ilana Dunn: Host of Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn is the host and founder of the Seeing Other People podcast. She takes us on her career journey from starting out in the music industry, to becoming the "face of Hinge," to entering the life of an entrepreneur, and finding success with her own brand, and, on her own terms. She shares with us tips to help your resume stand out from the rest, what it is like to have a job become your identity (and why that is not the way to live), finding the balance between sharing your life online and keeping your personal life s...
2022-11-29
54 min
Snack Thyme
Season: 4 – “Take care of you” with Ilana Dunn
We are so excited to have Ilana Dunn from NYC with us today! Her mission is to help people feel less alone and more empowered in their dating lives. Ilana knows that dating is HARD! We often go through experiences that make us feel so isolated and lonely - but, in reality, there are so many other people going through the same thing. Ilana helps people with their dating lives through her podcast “Seeing Other People.” She facilitates conversations with expert guests and anonymous listeners - helping people understand how to date better and feel more understood in what they're going...
2022-11-26
1h 00
Boujee Best Friend with Koko
26. "Is Everyone Happy Except Me?" - Dating Mistakes to Avoid, Being Cheated On & How To Find The Right Partner w/ Ilana Dunn
#26 This week’s episode is a fun episode about dating (I know… shocker!) I had the pleasure of sitting down and talking with relationship guru and podcast host, Ilana Dunn. Ilana is the Founder, Host, and Executive Producer of the podcast, Seeing Other People. Her show helps individuals feel empowered and excited about modern dating. Before her podcast launched in 2021, Ilana worked as Lead Content Creator for the dating app Hinge. So yes, you could say she knows a thing or two about dating. Ilana provides her expertise, opinions, and personal stories on this episode of Boujee Best...
2022-11-21
1h 02
Seeing Other People
Ilana's Childhood BFF Spills the Tea About her Dating Life
My childhood best friend Cristina joins me to answer listener-submitted questions about my past dating experiences. We cover all of my firsts, from my first crush to my first date to my first time being cheated on and everything in between. We discuss mistakes I made in the past, times I put boys before my friendships, how I handle rejection, ways I've grown in my dating life, whether or not I take my own advice, if there is a guy from my past she was rooting for, and so much more. Learn more about your...
2022-10-27
51 min
THE CITY CONFESSIONS
Ep 152: Ilana Dunn- Host of podcast Seeing Other People- Importance of Asking for What you want in dating - Pursing Her Podcast Fulltime - Balancing Work and Personal Life- Biggest Lesson from Dating
Season 8 of The City Confessions kicks off with Ilana Dunn, the host of the podcast Seeing Other People and her mission is to help you feel less alone and more empowered in your dating life. From one podcast host to another, we dive into a conversation revolving around the reality of dating in NYC. Other topics that we discuss include: - Ilana's dating history background and opening up about her past experience - How and why she started her podcast Seeing Other People and the moment she decided to pursue her po...
2022-10-12
30 min
Dear Twentysomething
Dating EXPLAINED ft. Ilana Dunn: Dating Expert & Podcast Host
This week we chat with Ilana Dunn, often referred to as “the face of modern dating.” She hosts Seeing Other People, a Top 100 Apple Relationships podcast and Spotify Top 50 Viral Podcast dedicated to helping people feel less alone and more empowered in their dating lives.Formerly the Face of Hinge and the host of Hinge’s “Dating Sucks” podcast which debuted at #3 on the Apple Podcasts US Relationship charts, Ilana helps individuals all over the world navigate the struggles of modern dating. Ilana also hosts the Snapchat show “Screening fo...
2022-08-30
50 min
Seeing Other People
You’re Only as Needy as your Unmet Needs with Dr. Elizabeth Fedrick
I’m joined by Dr. Elizabeth Fedrick, PhD, LPC to discuss how our upbringing impacts our relationships. Elizabeth teaches us all about relational programming, how the way we grew up impacts who we choose as a partner, how we can move past our traumas to end up in healthy relationships, reprograming negative core beliefs, learning to differentiate what feels like a threat vs. what actually is a threat, understanding your triggers and more.Overcome your dating anxiety just like I did by taking Mindset Wellness CBD's Happy gummy before a date and Calm gummy after! Grab yours to...
2022-08-23
56 min
Seeing Other People
Being Friends with Exes, Dating After Addiction and Learning from Heartbreak with Emily Ruhl
I’m joined by writer, producer, actress & model, Emily Ruhl. We discuss sharing your fears and anxieties with the people you’re dating, learning from each heartbreak, loving and hating someone at the same time, and how the length of a relationship does not equal the emotional impact of the relationship. Emily shares her experience dating after addiction, being friends with multiple exes, and how she prioritizes maintaining her independence when in relationships. Check out Emily’s short film Blue Moon here or at publicschoolpictures.com.Get your FREE 1-year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel...
2022-08-16
1h 04
Mostly Dating
129. ILANA DUNN on Going From Anxious Dater to a Secure Relationship
Welcome back! Today we are joined by Ilana Dunn, content creator and host of the Seeing Other People podcast. Ilana is one of our very few returning guests and it was wild to hear how much has changed in her dating life over the past year! what we talk about: how Ilana met her boyfriend Jake what her dating life was like before then the toxic relationship that caused her dating anxiety how dating someone secure helped her be less anxious our thoughts on dating rules defining the relationship & relationship milestones keeping a relationship a secret ...
2022-08-08
1h 14
Seeing Other People
From Feeling Hopeless to Finding Love with Carly Silverman
On this episode, I’m joined by Carly Silverman, TikTok star and Lox Club’s Senior Growth Manager. We hear how she went from feeling lost and heartbroken while living and working with her ex boyfriend to having her faith restored in modern dating through her role at Lox Club. We discuss how to make dating more fun, the bold first moves she made with her now-boyfriend, FaceTime dates, transparency around healing from an unhealthy relationship, what you don’t know about your partner until you move in together, being on the same page about your timeline, and more.C...
2022-07-05
54 min
Real Radiant
Ilana Dunn on Moving in with Partners, Balance in Relationships and Finding Comfort in Your Singleness
#29: Today's episode features Ilana Dunn. Ilana is the host of the podcast Seeing Other people, host of Screening for Love on Snapchat, and the go-to person for dating/relationship advice. In this episode, Ilana and Morgan cover a range of dating/relationship topics, like moving in with a partner, male validation, dating apps, and finding peace in your singleness. This is such a great episode for those looking for a light-hearted conversation on all things relationships/dating. Connect with Ilana: Podcast: @seeingotherpeople Instagram and Tiktok: @ilana.dunn Follow Along: @realradiantt https://www.realradiant.me/
2022-06-15
50 min
The Love Drive with Shaun Galanos
Answering Your Dating Questions with Ilana Dunn
Ilana Dunn, the host of ‘Seeing Other People’ podcast, talks about modern dating, her experiences, and advice. She answers dating questions, from getting to know new people to understand when a relationship has come to an end. Shaun and Ilana discuss deal breakers in relationships, how to not overthink being single, and share past dating experiences What you'll learn (or why you should care): How to be friends with your ex and date other people Where to find dates outside of apps and how to approach people you are interested in Reasonable expec...
2022-05-17
1h 15
Seeing Other People
How Do You Know If They're The One? with Kate Steinberg
On this episode I’m joined by Kate Steinberg, the internet’s early 2000s queen who met her fiancé Chad on HBO Max’s “12 Dates of Christmas.” Kate shares how she remained calm and confident while knowing Chad was going on dates with other women and the benefits of not sharing every detail of your dating life with friends. We discuss how you know if someone’s the one, the importance of being your truest self when dating, and how everything is not what it seems on reality TV.Click here for your expedited Lox Club membership review or use...
2022-04-05
48 min
Made it Happen
Pivoting Careers & Being the Face of a Dating App to Going Out on Your Own with Ilana Dunn, Seeing Other People Podcast
Ilana Dunn is a Millennial and Gen Z Dating Expert, Content Creator and the host of the podcast Seeing Other People. With over eight years of content creation experience, four years of dating expertise, and two years of podcast hosting, Ilana’s mission is to create content that helps daters feel more empowered and less alone in their dating lives. Ilana is widely known as the face of modern dating. She hosts the Seeing Other People podcast which has made its way onto the Spotify Top 50 Viral Podcasts chart. Formerly the Face of Hinge and the host of...
2022-03-29
40 min
Seeing Other People
The Attachment Styles Episode with Rikki Cloos
On this episode, I’m joined by Rikki Cloos (@anxiousheartsguide) to discuss the basics of attachment theory. We learn how our attachment styles are shaped, if we can change attachment styles, how our style shows up in our dating lives and our relationships, how to navigate your partner’s attachment style, and more. Click here for your expedited Lox Club membership review or use code ILANA in the referral section when signing up. Elevate your kitchen and upgrade your at-home date nights with Caraway Home’s non-toxic cookware made modern. Use code “seeingotherpeople” for 10% off your purcha...
2022-03-29
1h 03
Seeing Other People
The Most Common Mistakes in Modern Dating with Talia Goldstein
On this episode I sit down with Talia Goldstein, Founder and CEO of Three Day Rule Matchmaking. We discuss the biggest flaws in dating apps and modern dating, the most common mistakes daters are making, what questions you should be asking on dates, how to determine your dealbreakers vs. “nice to haves,” and whether or not you’re correct about your “type.” Talia shares how the matchmaking process works from getting to know you, to pre-screening dates, setting you up with people who are truly looking for something serious, post-date chats, and more. Are you ready to get matche...
2022-03-01
52 min
Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
EP 3: "Communication Breakdown" with Ilana Dunn
Back so soon? That's what we like to see! A true partygoer. Welcome to Episode 3. The one where Dustin welcomes Ilana Dunn from the wildly popular podcast "Seeing Other People." The two compare notes on their respective dating lives (or lack thereof if you're our host Captain Cold ) while discussing the damage of what poor communication between people can do. Bad communication is like a freight train full of scolding hot nacho cheese derailing in the desert. It does no one any good. Also, there's never any chips. Watch the video version of the show on YouTube:
2022-02-16
49 min
Dare to Self Care
How To Deal With Situationship Breakups, How To Enjoy Being Single and Working at Hinge to Entrepreneurship with Ilana Dunn
This week's guest is Ilana Dunn, host of Seeing Other People podcast! Her goal is to help you feel less alone in your dating life and we're talking about it ALL in this episode. Head over to Seeing Other People to hear my episode on her podcast too! Topics in this episode: How being vulnerable online helped her cultivate a community How being let go of her job was like a breakup she didn’t know she needed How to deal with a situationship breakup How to start dating for the first time Me...
2022-02-01
59 min
Sip With Me
Ilana Dunn, Host of “Seeing Other People Podcast”
Ilana Dunn is the host of one of Aaron’s favorite podcasts “Seeing Other People” and was formerly the Face of Hinge and the host of Hinge’s Dating Sucks podcast – which debuted at #3 on the Apple Podcasts US Relationship charts. Ilana helps individuals all over the world navigate the struggles of modern dating. Featured in many publications and major podcasts, Ilana is our generation’s voice for dating. To celebrate the New Year, a time when many people reassess their one-year goals and habits, we had Ilana on to discuss navigating dating and love in 2022. We chat about her career and h...
2022-01-11
39 min
Sip With Me
Ilana Dunn, Host of “Seeing Other People Podcast”
Ilana Dunn is the host of one of Aaron’s favorite podcasts “Seeing Other People” and was formerly the Face of Hinge and the host of Hinge’s Dating Sucks podcast – which debuted at #3 on the Apple Podcasts US Relationship charts. Ilana helps individuals all over the world navigate the struggles of modern dating. Featured in many publications and major podcasts, Ilana is our generation’s voice for dating. To celebrate the New Year, a time when many people reassess their one-year goals and habits, we had Ilana on to discuss navigating dating and love in 2022. We chat about her career and h...
2022-01-11
39 min
Worth The Hype
Leaving Your Dating Problems in 2021, Red Flags & Building Deeper Connections ft. Ilana Dunn
This week, we had to chance to chat with Ilana Dunn, dating expert and host of the podcast Seeing Other People! From working at Hinge's social media team to creating her own brand, Ilana has seen the dating world's in and out's. She shares her personal experiences to help to provide comfort and advice on any relationship topic you can imagine. In the episode, we ask Ilana all the dating questions you want answers to. We cover all the basics through a fun game of red flag vs green flag. We share our perspectives on the overarching questions such as...
2022-01-09
1h 03
Seeing Other People
Unfiltered (Ilana's Version)
On this year’s final episode, I sit down with my producer, Camila Vola, to celebrate Seeing Other People's 1st birthday by reflecting on everything that happened in 2021. I open up about how this was one of the hardest years of my life, my fears and hesitations around losing my co host and doing the show solo, the biggest accomplishments and the scariest challenges I faced, where I am in my career vs. where I want to be, what the future of Seeing Other People looks like, and the biggest takeaways and dating lessons from all of this year’s ex...
2021-12-28
1h 13
Solace and the City
EP104: ILANA DUNN - Dating Sucks (But It Doesn't Have To!)
I am TOTALLY fangirling, because this past weekend I got to sit down and record with the host of one of my favorite dating podcasts, Ilana Dunn! Ilana is such a badass -- she went from a successful career in the music industry to working directly with Nick Jonas, and then ultimately she landed a job which essentially made her the face of Hinge. (Anyone heard of it?) Working for a dating app helped Ilana realize how much of an impact she could have by helping the hopelessly romantic navigate the murky, tumultuous waters of dating in NYC. She op...
2021-12-06
58 min
The Real Reel
Rewriting the Dating Handbook and Standing Out Online with Ilana Dunn
Episode 135: This is a first for The Real Reel and the bar is set high as the one and only Ilana Dunn joins Natalie to chat about all things dating-related. This episode is packed full of advice and funny dating stories that will remind you you’re not alone in your journey to find love. Ilana’s ability and willingness to be vulnerable landed her a job at Hinge where she discussed her romantic life on camera and on the mic. This served as the catalyst in her own journey to becoming an entrepreneur and she is still the go-to...
2021-11-15
1h 00
Interstates & Heartbreak
74. Un-HINGEd Dating w/Ilana Dunn
Ilana Dunn from Seeing Other People podcast shares her perspectives around online dating as a former Hinge employee (pre- Roses and voice prompts). We expose ill-advised dating behaviors driven by insecurity, like FBI-level social stalking and future-tripping after one date, and contrast what it feels like to finally date someone who you don't have to consult your group chat about. Ilana also opens up about the difficulties behind cohosting her podcast with someone she previously dated, and finally puts to rest the age old question of whether or not exes can truly be friends. For more unfiltered dating conversations : @seeingotherpeople...
2021-11-14
51 min
Tough Titties
Seeing Other People Ft. Ilana Dunn
Shawn is back at it this week with the host of Seeing Other People Podcast, Ilana Dunn. These two ladies talk about all things dating -- bad dates, dating rules, etc. Shawn and Ilana share the biggest things they have learned while dating and the hardest parts about it. They then talk about the importance of communication and why we are such little b*tches when it comes to talking about our ~feelings~ and being vulnerable. Because Ilana has secured a boyfriend, Shawn asks her about the dreaded DTR (define the relationship) conversation.Email Shawn at toughtittiespod@gmai...
2021-10-12
1h 01
Fingers Crossed
Cuffing Season Survival Guide: Dating Advice & App Tricks ft. Ilana Dunn!
Today we're breaking down cuffing season, how social media and the pandemic have changed the dating game, how to combat loneliness and more with the host of Seeing Other People podcast, Ilana Dunn! Ilana has had such an interesting career journey from working in the music industry, to becoming the face of Hinge, to now helping people feel less alone in their own dating problems on her podcast and personal brand. She shares her tricks of the trade with us, how she met her boyfriend, what she's learned about dating from all the different stories she's heard from people on...
2021-10-12
1h 18
Seeing Other People
Career & Love: You Can Have Both with Sami Wunder
Sami Wunder is a leading international relationship and dating expert who specializes in working with ambitious, high-achieving women, helping them attract lasting romantic love. Sami joins us to discuss breaking toxic relationship patterns, how to identify why you’re still single, why rotational dating might be the key to finding love, making time for dating, having both career and relationship success, and more. Exclusively for Seeing Other People listeners, Sami has offered: 1) Training on feminine energy practices for high-achieving women who want to have romantic success with men. 2) Plus - a pdf with ou...
2021-10-05
1h 00
My Point Of View
Pivoting your career from the music industry to being the face of dating with Ilana Dunn
I'm joined by Ilana Dunn. She hosts the Seeing Other People podcast, where, each Tuesday, Ilana invites expert guests onto the podcast to discuss the tropes of modern dating and relationships with an unmatched level of honesty and empathy. On Thursday’s "Unfiltered" episodes, anonymous listeners join the show to have vulnerable and open conversations about what they’ve struggled with in their dating lives, what they wish they knew when going through their experience, and how they came out stronger. Seeing Other People is your weekly reminder that dating doesn’t have to suck and we’re all in this...
2021-09-27
1h 28
The Moral Hangover
59. Ilana Dunn: Seeing Other People, Toxic Relationships, Dating Anxiety and Dating App Success Stories
Guess who’s back, back again! We drive down summer memory lane from Katie’s new dating ick to our trip together in Montauk. Then (20:55), we are joined by Ilana Dunn, host of Seeing Other People Podcast and our girl crush. Ilana’s poor experience in the music industry led her to work at Hinge where she got her start with her dating advice expertise. Throughout the episode, we dive into all topics of dating: breaking up, poor dating tendencies in your young years, and more. Ilana opens up with her about her toxic dating experience, which then inspired her to...
2021-09-13
1h 21
Jappy Jaws
Dating Schmating (ft. Ilana Dunn)
This may be the most favorite Thirsty Thursdays of all the Thirsty Thursdays. Whether in fair or in dark stormy weather, Jappy Jaws delivers! The rememnats of Hurricane Ida came through to the New York area, and Lindsay truly believes this is a sign that end is near. Slightly dramatic, but there is always something new happening around us. However, Jaw-ers I encourage you all to check out the links below to see how you can do a little of your part to help those that were affected by this natural disaster. Your favorite Jappy hostess with the mostest...
2021-09-02
52 min
Seeing Other People
"His Parents Didn't Accept Me"
On today’s Unfiltered episode, Ilana sits down with Daniela, a 27 year old female living in Toronto, Canada. Daniela shares the story of the breakup she went through due to her partner's parents not supporting their relationship because of factors including her ethnicity, immigration status, age, career, and appearance. We discuss how this impacted her relationship, her self worth, and her values when it comes to dating and searching for a life partner. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
2021-08-26
1h 02
What The F*ck's Up Podcast
What The F*ck's Up with Dating ft. Ilana Dunn
Today I am joined by “Seeing Other People” podcast host Ilana Dunn. We explore a range of topics together, starting with how Ilana’s time in the music industry and as Social Media Manager for Hinge prepared her for her current role as a dating podcaster. Next we get into Ilana’s dating life and how she realized that being open about her past dating experiences helped both her and the people taking in her content. Other themes we explore include how men and women approach dating differently; why it’s important to continue to make friends in your 20s and beyo...
2021-08-25
1h 08
Seeing Other People
Unfiltered: Get Knocked Down 2 Times, Get Back Up 3
Ilana sits down with a 28 heterosexual woman who currently lives in New York. She opens up about her first dating app experiences in 2019, which included somebody who ghosted her out of nowhere followed by a situation that had a tremendous negative impact on her mental and physical health. We discuss how she overcame these traumatizing experiences in order to get back out there and end up in a healthy relationship. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
2021-08-19
59 min
Seeing Other People
"I Called Off My Engagement"
Ilana sits down with a 32-year-old who called off her marriage just two months before the wedding. We hear what led to this decision, how she went about ending the engagement, what she’s learned from this experience, and what advice she has for anyone who is going through something similar or questioning whether or not their relationship is built to last. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
2021-08-12
1h 03
Seeing Other People
Seeing Each Other with Ilana & Jake
Backed by popular demand, Ilana’s boyfriend Jake is joining the show for a tell-all about their relationship. Ilana and Jake open up about how everything unfolded, starting with their Hinge meet-cute where Ilana didn’t respond, and followed by a “just fine” first date where the sparks were MIA.They share how things progressed, why Ilana wasn’t anxious for the first time, and when and how they became official. We also hear their first fight go down as they debate some of these details. Ilana and Jake answer listener questions about pre-date nerves, timing, comm...
2021-08-03
1h 04
Seeing Other People
Confessions of an Ex Fboy
Ilana’s older brother Andrew (31) is joining us on the podcast today to reassure us that once a fckboy, not always a fckboy. After years of immersing himself in a fuckboy bro-y culture (including being his fraternity’s social chair, promoting parties, and working for a nightlife startup), he turned a corner and began to learn that human connection and vulnerability was more valuable and fulfilling than partying and sex. Andrew walks us through what sparked his transformation, including taking a break from alcohol and dating while spending time in India, his move to the San Francisco Bay Area whic...
2021-07-20
1h 15
Seeing Other People
What Grandma Thinks We're Doing Wrong with Excuse My Grandma
Kim Murstein and Grandma Gail from the Excuse My Grandma podcast join the show this week to discuss the generational differences of what dating is like now vs when Grandma Gail was searching for love. We talk about how dating has changed over time, when and how “dating” began, social media’s role in dating, the ability to stalk a potential date or an ex, having too many options, the most surprising things about dating in the 50s and dating now, and more.Follow along at @excusemygrandma, @seeingotherpeople and @ilana.dunn. Learn more about...
2021-07-13
1h 05
Seeing Other People
Unfiltered: Finding Love After Loss
On this episode of Unfiltered, I’m joined by Caroline, a 27 year old living in New York City who is navigating dating after losing her older brother. She shares what it’s like to communicate her loss to a date, what people’s reactions have been, and how each individual has their own personal preference on the grieving process and on how and when to have these conversations with a potential partner. Caroline and I discuss how people can have more thoughtful and empathetic conversations surrounding loss and grief in order to destigmatize and reduce the overall awkwardness.Foll...
2021-07-08
57 min
Seeing Other People
Double Dating with Fourplay Social
Ilana sits down with Julie and Danielle, the founders of Fourplay Social, a double dating app where friends team up and match with other pairs. We hear about why the duo decided to create a new dating app, the benefits of double dating are, how you can be a good wing-person for your single friends, and how to make dating fun when you feel burnt out. We also discuss why first dates shouldn’t be longer than an hour, how important the little things in dating are.Follow @fourplaysocial, visit Fourplay Social’s website at https://www.four...
2021-07-06
1h 03
Seeing Other People
The Age of Loneliness with Smiley Poswolsky
Smiley Poswolsky, author of Friendship in the Age of Loneliness, joins Ilana on Seeing Other People to discuss human connection in today’s society and culture. Smiley shares his research and knowledge on opening your world up to new people, digging deeper with the people that you know, using technology to foster more meaningful connections, and more. He gives advice on maintaining friendships when you or a friend gets into a new relationship, what to do when your friend’s new significant other is bringing them down, and how to be a good friend to someone going through heartbreak or a...
2021-06-29
1h 06
Excuse My Grandma
Excuse My Grandma as we Analyze What Does Well on a Dating App Profile (Ft. Ilana Dunn)
Kim (@kimmurstein) and Grandma Gail are joined by Ilana Dunn (@ilana.dunn), host of the podcast Seeing Other People (@seeingotherpeople). They talk about how Kim and Ilana met by dating the same guy and how to navigate when the guy you’re dating has a girl best friend. Ilana also used to work at the dating app … Excuse My Grandma as we Analyze What Does Well on a Dating App Profile (Ft. Ilana Dunn) Read More »
2021-06-24
36 min
Seeing Other People
50 Dates in 50 States with Matthew Wurnig
Ilana sits down with Matthew Wurnig, the creator and dater behind 50 Dates in 50 States. Matthew shares how he got the idea to do a date in every state during the pandemic, first virtually, and then IRL. We discuss what it’s like meeting and dating people from all different backgrounds, how the place you grow up can impact your dating life, and how dating culture differs from state to state. We also learn what Matthew has learned about himself and about human connection throughout his journey. Check out Matthew’s journey on tiktok @50datesin50states and on IG @m...
2021-06-22
58 min
Seeing Other People
Unfiltered: Feeling Broken After a Breakup
Real people. Real stories. Real life. Anonymous listeners join the show to have vulnerable and open conversations about what they’ve struggled with in their dating lives, what they wish they knew when going through their experience, and how they came out stronger. Topics to expect include dating after experiencing loss, STIs, eating disorders, abortions, mental health, trauma and more. No matter what you’re going through, you’re not alone. This is Seeing Other People UNFILTERED. Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD.On the first episode of UNFILTERED, Ilana is joined by Anonymous who is cur...
2021-06-15
1h 22
Seeing Other People
Learning to Love Your Single Self with Sarah Sasson
On this episode of Seeing Other people, Ilana is joined by Sarah Sasson, her best friend and the co-host of the It’s Fine, I’m Fine podcast. Ilana and Sarah discuss overcoming the loneliness that comes with singlehood, how to make the most of being the only single one in the friend group, and why the more you know yourself the harder (but more rewarding) dating can be. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
2021-06-08
1h 14
Seeing Other People
Everything You Need to Know About Dates with Jeremy Jacobowitz
Jeremy Jacobowitz aka Brunch Boys chats with Jonah and Ilana about all things going out on dates. Who should pay? Should it be drinks or dinner? What food is okay to order on a first date? How to maintain the same drinking speed as your partner - and more in this hilarious episode that pokes fun and brings awareness to the nuances of modern dating. The episode wraps with some listener questionsp.s. Jonah apologizes that his mic was turned off and his sound is a bit reverb-y. Learn more about your a...
2021-05-18
57 min
Seeing Other People
Getting To Know Each Other / TWISOP / Patreon Preview
hey fam, here's a sneak preview of TWISOP, our weekly patreon episode where we talk all inner-canon SOP things, personal lives, and overall just a fun convo. In this episode, when was the last time we cried? Did you know Ilana owned birds growing up? And let's talk about Jonah's summer romance with ____ from Starbucks. have a great week and enjoy!We'd love your support https://www.patreon.com/seeingotherpeoplexoJonah and Ilana
2021-04-26
02 min
Seeing Other People
Why You Should Double Message / TWISOP / Patreon Preview
hey fam, here's a sneak preview of TWISOP, our weekly patreon episode where we talk all inner-canon SOP things, personal lives, and overall just a fun convo. in this episode, how a double message on Hinge led to romance, Jonah in need of new things to talk about besides dating, and much more! have a great weekend and enjoy!We'd love your support https://www.patreon.com/seeingotherpeoplexoJonah and Ilana
2021-04-19
02 min
Seeing Other People
One Of Us Basically Has A Boyfriend / TWISOP / Patreon Preview
hey fam, here's a sneak preview of TWISOP, our weekly patreon episode where we talk all inner-canon SOP things, personal lives, and overall just a fun convo. have a great weekend and enjoy!We'd love your support https://www.patreon.com/seeingotherpeoplexoJonah and Ilana
2021-04-10
00 min
Seeing Other People
Is Every App a Dating App? & Friends with Benefits
Not having the best luck meeting people on dating apps? This episode is all about other ways you can put yourself out there and find love. Whether it be the comment section of a post on any platform, through TikTok (Jonah’s favorite dating app), sliding into the DMs, or finding love on Club Penguin (Ilana’s pick), it’s not all about dating apps. Our listeners chime in to tell us about their experiences meeting people via email, Instagram DM, and from a TikTok video. We discuss the right ways to approach people on all different platforms so you ca...
2021-04-06
59 min
Seeing Other People
Can Booty Calls Turn Into Relationships? / TWISOP / Patreon Preview
Welcome to a new segment - This Week In Seeing Other People aka TWISOP - a Patreon only weekly segment where we discuss the episode of the week, what's happening on the internet, our dating lives, and any and all things related to the Seeing Other People universe.In this episode we talk whether booty calls can turn into relationships or friendships, the 48 hour rule on creative decision making, and more!Support us on Patreon to listen, get discounts on merch, a dating profile re-vamp, and more! xoJonah and...
2021-04-02
01 min
Seeing Other People
Should All Dates End with a Rose Ceremony? with Ed Waisbrot
We’re kicking off our Thursday episode series by catching up with Bachelor Nation’s Ed Weisbrot. We hear about Ed’s dating life since his time on Clare/Tayshia’s season and he shares how being on the show reinforced the importance of authenticity, vulnerability and communication. Ed talks about why he has chosen to stay off of dating apps, how he’s been meeting people IRL, and why Whole Foods is the best spot to find your soulmate. We discuss whether or not all dates should end with a rose ceremony, what the audience saw vs. what really wen...
2021-04-01
26 min
Seeing Other People
Behind The Scenes Of Ilana’s Bathtub Pic / TWISOP / Patreon Preview
Welcome to a new segment - This Week In Seeing Other People aka TWISOP - a Patreon only weekly segment where we discuss the episode of the week, what's happening on the internet, our dating lives, and any and all things related to the Seeing Other People universe.In this episode we talk about a popular dating trend amongst listeners, how to tell if someone is single from their IG grid, and the behind the scenes look at Ilana's smash hit IG post. Support us on Patreon to listen, get discounts on merch...
2021-03-25
04 min
Seeing Other People
Patreon Preview / An Intimate Glance At Ilana And Jonah's Dating Lives
A preview from our monthly Patreon only episode. Jonah tells us about his love at first date moment, and Ilana shares why she’s afraid to develop feelings for someone. The two discuss a few more intimate topics about their personal lives, including the anxiety that comes from finally liking someone. To listen to the full episode, and get a handful of bonus perks, join us on Patreon at the link below!https://www.patreon.com/seeingotherpeoplepodcast
2021-03-18
03 min
Seeing Other People
We're Getting Back Together
New year, new podcast! Hey guys, it’s Ilana and Jonah and we are back and better than ever! Today is Dating Sunday, the busiest online dating day of the year, and the perfect day to kick off Episode 1 of our brand new podcast, Seeing Other People. We’re catching up the status of our relationship, the current state of dating, what it’s been like to be single during quarantine, and SO MUCH MORE. Episodes will come out weekly on Tuesdays. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
2021-01-03
52 min