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Said in TherapySelf-Compassion and the Inner CriticIn this episode of Said in Therapy we dives into the powerful topic of self-compassion and the inner critic, that harsh voice inside us that keeps us stuck in cycles of shame and self-doubt.Why do we listen to it? How can we start talking to ourselves with kindness instead of criticism? And what actually happens when we shift from self-judgment to self-compassion.
2025-07-0413 min
Said in TherapyAI and Therapy: Answering your QuestionsIn this follow-up to our AI and therapy discussion, we dive into the most common questions people are asking. Can AI really understand emotions? Is your data safe? Will therapists be replaced? I break down the real risks, the ethical challenges, and how to use AI tools wisely without losing the human touch. If you're curious or cautious about AI in mental health, this one's for you.
2025-06-2014 min
Said in Therapy3aib: Shame, Silence, and Mental HealthWe unpack the powerful and deeply rooted word: “3aib", the shame that has silenced generations across the Middle East when it comes to mental health.We explore how this cultural code of silence has kept pain behind closed doors, and what it means to finally speak the unspeakable.You'll hear the story of Sara, a young woman who broke the cycle, chose therapy, and opened a path for healing, not just for herself, but for her family.
2025-05-3014 min
Said in TherapyAI and Therapy: The Future of Mental Health SupportIn this episode, the we explore the evolving intersection of artificial intelligence and mental health therapy. The discussion covers how AI technologies are being integrated into therapeutic practices and how chatbots provide immediate emotional support.The episode also delves into ethical considerations, data privacy concerns, and the potential of AI to make mental health support more accessible and personalized.
2025-05-2313 min
Said in TherapyQ&A: Answering Common Questions I ReceiveYou asked, and I'm answering! In this special episode, I tackle the questions you sent in. From mental health tips to navigating life’s challenges, we’re diving deep into the topics that matter most to you. Tune in for expert advice, practical insights, and thoughtful conversations!
2025-01-3118 min
Said in TherapyThird Culture Kids: Not belonging Anywhere, Yet EverywhereIn this episode, we dive into the unique world of third culture kids- individuals who grew up in cultures different from their parents’ or their passport country. We explore the joys and challenges of belonging everywhere and nowhere at once, the struggles with identity and home, and how these experiences shape relationships, careers, and self-perception. Through personal stories and expert insights, we unravel what it means to navigate life in the in-between.
2025-01-2314 min
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Said in TherapyHow to Navigate Heartbreak after a Break Up?Today I am in conversation with the break-up coach Nora. She is currently located in Dubai and conducts her sessions in English and Arabic, in person and online. Together we explore the topic of breakup and heartbreak.
Heartbreak is a term used to describe the intense emotional pain someone feels after experiencing the end of a relationship. It is characterized by feelings of sadness, loss, grief, and despair. A variety of factors, including betrayal, rejection, and unrequited love, can cause heartbreak. The pain can be physical and emotional.
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2023-03-2435 min
Said in TherapyBirthday Special: Q&A 2023As every year here is the Birthday Special but this time with a twist, these are the questions that followers on Instagram have sent in.
Happy New Year Everyone.
2023-01-0237 minSaid in Therapy9 Signs of Toxic FriendshipsA toxic friendship is one in which you feel energetically exhausted when interacting with the person. Your friend may be an emotional vampire who seems to suck the life force out of you whenever you speak to them or spend time with them. If you want to find out how to identify a toxic friendship and learn how to deal with it, then this episode is for you.
2022-09-0910 minSaid in TherapyHow to Stop Overthinking, Stressing & Worrying (3 Ways that WORK!)While overthinking itself is not a mental illness, it is associated with conditions including depression, anxiety, eating disorders, and substance use disorders. Rumination can be common in people who have chronic pain and chronic illness as well, taking the form of negative thoughts about that pain and healing from it. Here I introduce simple tools that can help with getting hold on your overthinking behaviors.
2022-09-0212 min
Said in TherapyAutismAutism is a condition that affects how a person thinks, feels, interacts with others, and experiences their environment. It is a lifelong condition that starts when a person is born and stays with them into old age. Every Autistic person is different from every other. This is why autism is described as a ‘spectrum’. I am in conversation with Dr. Charifa Zemouri with explains her individual experience with being on the spectrum and how she navigates her life. If you want to learn more about Dr. Zemouri, follow her on Twitter or visit her website for more information about her...
2022-07-1654 min
Said in TherapyHow to Address ConflictRemember that conflict is natural and happens in every ongoing relationship. Since conflict is unavoidable we must learn to manage it. Conflict is a sign of a need for change and an opportunity for growth, new understanding, and improved communication. Conflict can not be resolved unless it is addressed unless we address it within ourselves.
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2022-03-0613 minSaid in TherapyHow To Deal With The Imposter Syndrome (Patient Interview)Imposter syndrome is a psychological pattern in which an individual doubts their skills, talents, or accomplishments and has a persistent internalized fear of being exposed as a "fraud". To continue with the second part of the Imposter Syndrome series I am interviewing Adrian about his experience with the syndrome.
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2022-02-2517 min
Said in TherapyAre You An Imposter? Probably Not.What is the imposter and is the imposter syndrome an actual diagnosis? What does it do? And how to combat it? And sharing own experience. Why do we always think we are an imposter? Answering these questions and more.
2022-02-1110 min
Said in TherapyBoundaries for Beginners: How to Set and Keep Your BoundariesEveryone needs healthy boundaries in their lives if they want to have healthy relationships. Setting boundaries is about more than just saying no - and when you learn how to set boundaries in a way that people will listen to and respect you will not only feel free, but you will also start breaking the cycle of people-pleasing and codependence.
2022-02-0414 min
Said in Therapy7 Questions About My Trauma JourneyAs an extension to my regular social media Q&As, I have dedicated an episode about my trauma journey and how I worked through it and grew from it as a result.
Please keep in mind that these Q&As will never replace actual therapy, and not every journey is the same. Instead, use them as an inspiration, a means to learn more, and eventually, encouragement to start your therapy journey.
2022-01-2821 minSaid in TherapyBorderline Personality DisorderThe Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is a mental health disorder that impacts the way you think and feel about yourself and others, causing problems functioning in everyday life. It includes self-image issues, difficulty managing emotions and behavior, and a pattern of unstable relationships.
I am in conversation with my former patient Nora who describes her healing process, her road with therapy, and living with the disorder.
2022-01-2133 min
Said in TherapyDisorganized Attachment StyleThe most difficult type of insecure attachment is the disorganized attachment style. It is often seen in people who have been physically, verbally, or sexually abused in their childhood. A disorganized / fearful-avoidant attachment style develops when the child’s caregivers – the only source of safety – become a source of fear.
2022-01-1421 minSaid in TherapyAvoidant Attachment StyleWhat is avoidant attachment? Avoidant attachment is an attachment style that develops during early childhood. It tends to occur in children who do not experience sensitive responses to their needs or distress. Children with an avoidant attachment style may become very independent, both physically and emotionally.
2022-01-0718 min
Said in TherapyBirthday Special - Re-runIn honor of my birthday I am reuploading the popular birthday Q&A of last year. I hope it answers a few questions you still had in mind about me.
Enjoy!
2022-01-0147 minSaid in TherapyAnxious Attachment Style - Deep DiveAttachment, or the attachment bond, is the emotional connection you formed as an infant with your primary caregiver, if the parents or caregivers are inconsistent in their parenting they could be causing an anxious attachment. Find out what an anxious attachment style can look like and if reflect with me if these are traits that you recognize in yourself.
2021-08-2719 minSaid in TherapyAttachment Styles and How They Dictate Our LivesOur style of attachment affects everything from our friendships to our partner selection to how well our relationships progress to, sadly, how they end. That is why recognizing our attachment pattern can help us understand our strengths and vulnerabilities in our relationships and friendships. An attachment pattern is established in early childhood attachments and continues to function as a working model for relationships in adulthood.
Discover with me what types of attachment styles exist and possibly what your own attachment style is.
2021-08-2022 minSaid in TherapySelf-Sabotaging Habits That Keep You StuckYou may be sabotaging yourself, your happiness, your success, and your relationships without even knowing it. We all have subconscious habits, beliefs, and patterns that we're doing that are keeping us stuck, holding us back, and leaving us feeling frustrated and confused. Here I teach you 3 very common self-sabotage habits you may be doing and what to do about them so you can stop sabotaging yourself.
2021-08-1314 minSaid in TherapyHow to Deal with Family ConflictsAn episode on how to deal with family conflicts. A question asked many times in therapy and/or when generally reached out for with questions.
2021-08-0619 minSaid in TherapyHow To Get Over a Break-UpBreaking up with someone is hard and can cause real grief and trauma.
After getting asked quite often what to do and how to handle break-up this episode answers and gives tools to manage break-ups!
2021-06-0418 minSaid in TherapyHow To Deal With Bad NewsAt bad news and events are unfolding we all need a few tools to deal with them the right way.
2021-05-1415 minSaid in TherapyThe Power of Journaling with Anja SalehAnja Saleh, trained as a political and social scientist, is an educator, designer, and poet. In her writing, she re-explores spirituality, trauma, love, and home.
Together, we discuss the power of journaling and how it became a lifeline for her that helps her explore life through a multifaceted lens. She shares her insight & tips on how to approach journaling & writing as a means to calm yourself and improve the way you see the world.
Anja is the author of:
Soon, The Future Of Memory
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2021-04-3025 minSaid in TherapyTherapist to Therapist: On Forgiveness with Chereen ShurafaAnother episode in the segment: Therapist to Therapist.
I am in conversation with Chereen, an Arab American mental health and community counselor based in Qatar. She is a certified change coach who also focuses on grief, resilience, and moving forward. She has recently published her first book,
Sensitive: Reflections for the Empathetic Soul.
She runs the platform Dear Chereen, an advice column that also offers inspiration and support through words.
Chereen's Website: dearchereen.com
2021-04-0928 min2021-03-2611 minSaid in TherapyTherapist to Therapist: Dr. Saliha AfridiDr. Saliha Afridi shares her journey in the mental health field and how she built the Lighthouse Arabia how she and her team are leading the way for mental health & wellness in the Middle East. A specialist team of psychologists & psychiatrists with the community at our core.
2021-03-1935 minSaid in TherapyNegative Self-Talk and Missing PeopleDiscussing my life updates and how I deal with negative self-talk and how to deal with missing someone who is no longer part of your life.
2021-03-1211 minSaid in TherapyEating Disorder Series: How to Eat HealthyWith the start of the eating disorder series we discuss a healthy lifestyle and better food choices with Dana Habayeb. She explains that healthy eating is all about balance and understanding what our bodies need.
2021-01-2939 minSaid in TherapyBirthday Special!After my last episode, many asked me to record an episode about me.
So I asked my close friend Salma to interview me which questions she always wanted to ask me.
I hope you enjoy the conversation. Happy New Year!
And yes, new year's day is my actual birthday.
2021-01-0147 minSaid in TherapyOn LonelinessThe last days of the year are traditionally the days we reflect on and review the last months before we step into the new year. It is December the posts in which many will celebrate their milestones will be published. And that's okay! If you have achieved a lot, be proud of yourself, especially in 2020.
However, many of us have experienced the year differently and it felt like a standstill. And it is indeed true, we hardly got anywhere physically. That affects the psyche and soul.
Let's accept this year as a year of strength...
2020-12-1810 minSaid in TherapyFinding A Positive Outlook in HardshipA positive attitude helps you cope more easily with the daily affairs of life. It brings optimism into your life, and makes it easier to avoid worries and negative thinking. If you adopt it as a way of life, it would bring constructive changes into your life, and makes them happier, brighter and more successful. Join me and Muna Harib in this episode talking about she overcame hardship in her life and how she copes with difficult situations.
Muna Harib is the founder of breathing numbers. Breathing Numbers is a project first initiated by Muna, in order t...
2020-12-1846 minSaid in TherapyQ&A - What is Journaling and How to Use It (Re-run)Journaling is a written record of our thoughts & feelings. There are really not any rules although most journaling is a daily exercise. Journaling is a way to track everyday life. Figuring out what makes us tick and happy or upset. Creating a meaningful connection with ourselves is as important as creating meaningful connections with family or friends. In this episode, we are answering a question of a listener who wants some insight on how to use journaling best.
2020-12-1109 minSaid in TherapyThe Art of EmotionsRukmini Poddar is an artist, designer, and illustrator living in the United States. Her creative passion lies at the intersection of emotional wellness and creative storytelling. Today's episode is about her journey discovering ways to improve her well-being using her art as a tool to reflect and learn. Check out her Instagram handle here. Or by looking for @rockinruksi.
2020-07-3123 minSaid in TherapyNarcissism vs. Narcissistic Personality DisorderA person who is excessively high in narcissism is said to have a narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), which is a diagnosable mental illness. A person with narcissistic traits may be mildly self-centered at times, but NPD, on the other hand, is a deeply ingrained, pervasive pattern. In this episode, I will attempt to explain the difference as the term narcissism is constantly (over-)used to describe people's behavior.
2020-07-2413 minSaid in TherapyMotherhoodBüsra shares her experience with labor and postpartum that didn't come without complications, she also explains her transition and adjustment to the new life after things settled. This episode is slightly medical, so it is not important to understand all the details but to get a feeling about one of many unique stories about motherhood.
2020-07-1029 minSaid in TherapyNarcissismNarcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. My patient, who wants to stay anonymous for safety reasons shares her experience with being in an abusive relationship with a narcissistic person.
If you need resources to help you get out of an abusi...
2020-07-0322 minSaid in TherapyPalestinian TraumaAll Palestinians experience trauma whether they are exiled in refugees camps outside of colonized Palestine or live in other countries. They all carry this package of pain and trauma. On Tuesday 23rd June 2020 the 27-year-old Ahmed Erekat was left to die, bleeding on the ground at an Israeli military checkpoint on his sister's wedding day. Today I have a conversation with his cousin Noaf.
2020-06-2730 min
Said in TherapyBorderline Personality DisorderBorderline personality disorder is a mental health disorder that impacts the way you think and feel about yourself and others, causing problems functioning in everyday life. It includes self-image issues, difficulty managing emotions and behavior, and a pattern of unstable relationships.
I am in conversation with my former patient Nora who describes her healing process, her road with therapy and living with the disorder.
2020-06-1933 minSaid in TherapyRacismMy former client Lina and I discuss her experience with racism at the workplace. Racism takes many forms and can happen in many places. It includes prejudice, discrimination or hatred directed at someone because of their colour, ethnicity or national origin.
People often associate racism with acts of abuse or harassment. However, it doesn’t need to involve violent or intimidating behaviour. Take racial name-calling and jokes. Or consider situations when people may be excluded from groups or activities because of where they come from.
2020-04-2421 minSaid in TherapyTake ResponsibilityStay at home. Stay safe. Be responsible not only for yourself but for everyone.
2020-04-2206 minSaid in TherapyHow a Daily Routine HelpsA daily routine can be a very powerful tool to find comfort in uncertain times. Today we discuss what we can do to establish a daily routine but also how adjusting to new little habits can give your life structure that also helps after the pandemic.
2020-04-1606 minSaid in TherapyCoronavirus AnxietyWe all need to keep a clear head at times of crisis - but that's not easy. So when strong emotions of fear and anxiety start to cloud your judgment, turn to an effective and reassuring voice of reason. Today we discuss a strategy that can help you with navigating through your emotions.
2020-04-1506 minSaid in TherapyRelationships During The PandemicThe health of our relationships is at risk thanks to the many stresses and strains of the pandemic lockdown. Couples might be facing huge emotional and financial challenges at the same time as being tightly confined to their homes. In this episode, I am discussing tips and strategies on how to overcome conflict and potentially grow out of this situation stronger than before.
If you have a question you want to have answered in a future coronavirus bonus episode, tweet at @saidintherapy or contact @saidintherapy on instagram or facebook.
2020-04-1407 minSaid in TherapyHow to Deal With Loneliness in IsolationMany of us are being advised to stay at home and avoid social contact to help slow the spread of the coronavirus. Human interaction is a vital component of happiness, so I try to explain how we can maintain meaningful links to our loved ones, friends and colleagues even if we can't be in the same room with them.
If you have a question you want to have answered in a future coronavirus bonus episode, tweet at @saidintherapy or contact @saidintherapy on instagram or facebook.
2020-04-1309 minSaid in TherapyBurnoutFatma (@diplomess_) and I are having a conversation about her burnout diagnosis and how she dealt with it throughout the years. Burnout is a state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion caused by excessive and prolonged stress. It occurs when you feel overwhelmed, emotionally drained, and unable to meet constant demands.
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BASMAunplugged#5 Umgang mit der Corona AngstIn unserer heutigen Folge sprechen Psychologin Iman Tohami und Kinderärztin Nora Matar aus aktuellem Anlass über den Umgang mit der Angst vor dem Corona Virus.
Verlässliche Quellen über den Stand der Pandemie findet ihr unter
https://www.rki.de/
http://www.euro.who.int/de/home
oder im täglichen Podcast der ARD mit dem Virologen Prof. Christian Drosten https://www.ardaudiothek.de/coronavirus-update-mit-christian-drosten/72451786.
Nora könnt ihr über ihr Instagram Profil erreichen: https://www.instagram.com/nomatano/ .
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2020-03-1314 minSaid in TherapyDealing with COVID19 AnxietyAs the corona virus is spreading many are insecure and anxious about everything that is going on. In this episode I sat down with my friend and pediatrician Nora Matar who gives a little bit of insight of what is happening and why the WHO declared a pandemic, but more importantly, how to deal with the anxiety created by current events.
2020-03-1317 minSaid in TherapyToxic PositivityDiscussing the consequences of toxic positivity in today's society and why it's so dangerous to simplify advice. Nancy's story is shared about how toxic positivity impacted her life and led to fatal moments that changed everything.
2020-02-2811 minSaid in TherapyImposter Syndrome Part 2Explaining the Imposter Syndrome further and an interview with Adrian explaining his experience with therapy fighting imposter syndrome.
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2020-02-1417 minSaid in TherapyImposter Syndrome Part 1What is the imposter? What does it do? And how to combat it? And sharing own experience.
2020-02-0710 minBASMAunplugged#2 Was ist Selbstwertgefühl?Selbstwertgefühl, was ist das eigentlich und wovon hängt es ab? Psychologin Iman Tohami spricht in dieser BASMA unplugged Folge darüber, was Einfluss auf das eigene Selbstwertgefühl hat und warum die Grundlagen dafür oft schon in der Kindheit gelegt werden.Sie gibt außerdem Tipps, wie Du erkennen kannst, ob dein Selbstwertgefühl positiv oder negativ ist und wie Du es in positiver Weise beeinflussen kannst.
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2020-02-0722 minSaid in TherapyDepression Part 2Explaining the definition of Major Depressive Disorder in the DSM 5 and Q&A.
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