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On A Date, Kinda Nervous PodcastS2, Ep. 9: Let's Catch UpJ'Lamar & Nathan recap some of the fun topics from the season and discuss where they are in their love/dating journey.2025-06-061h 05On A Date, Kinda Nervous PodcastS2: E8 - Hookup Culture (Lets Talk About Sex) FT. MisterRay & Jacob WillisJ'Lamar & Nathan discuss hookup culture and sex practices in the gay community with special guests Mister Ray & Jacob Willis.2025-05-2351 minOn A Date, Kinda Nervous PodcastS2, Ep. 7: Mic Check, Heart Check Feat. J Gordon & Michael D BowersJ'Lamar & Nathan match dating topics with some of their favorite old and new R&B love songs with special musical guests J Gordon & Michael D Bowers.2025-05-0958 minOn A Date, Kinda Nervous PodcastS2, Ep.6: Dating in the Trans Experience Ft: SharJossell & NeverEndingNinaNathan & J'Lamar discuss dating within the Trans Experience with our special and fabulously talented guest Shar Jossell.2025-02-281h 07On A Date, Kinda Nervous PodcastS2, E5: Gay Dating vs. Straight Dating Feat. Tiaramy & Jay WellNathan & J'Lamar discuss the similarities and differences in gay dating and straight dating with a special guests Tiaramy and Jay Well.2025-02-141h 03On A Date, Kinda Nervous PodcastS2, Ep.4: Navigating Situationships Feat. Patrick Brown & Savoy Jefferson
Co-Hosts J'Lamar/Nathan with featured guests Patrick Brown & Savoy Jefferson discuss navigating situationships in the dating space.
2025-01-311h 01On A Date, Kinda Nervous PodcastS2, Ep.3: "NO FAT/NO FEMS" Feat. Vance Gamble & Ryan "The SlayGawd"Co-Hosts J'Lamar/Nathan with featured guests Vance Gamble & Ryan "The SlayGawd" discuss femmephobia/fatphobia in the gay community - along with the fun dating practices of plus size queer men!2025-01-1749 minOn A Date, Kinda Nervous PodcastS2, Ep.2: "Compatibility vs Chemistry" Feat. Brandon AnthonyCo-Hosts J'Lamar/Nathan and this week's guests Brandon Anthony discuss the differences between compatibility and chemistry. This episode is sponsored by In The Meantime Mens Group .In The Meantime Men’s Group, Inc. is proposed to enrich, empower, and extend the lives of intergenerational black men, respectful of sexual orientation, through social, educational, health and wellness programs and services.”2024-12-201h 03On A Date, Kinda Nervous PodcastS2, Ep.1: "The DL Debate" Feat. Armon Wiggins (SEASON PREMIERE)Co-Hosts J'Lamar/Nathan and guest Armon Wiggins have a fascinating discussion on the differences between DL & Discreet Men and their dating practices. This episode is sponsored by In The Meantime Mens Group .In The Meantime Men’s Group, Inc. is proposed to enrich, empower, and extend the lives of intergenerational black men, respectful of sexual orientation, through social, educational, health and wellness programs and services.”2024-12-0645 minOn A Date, Kinda Nervous PodcastEpisode 10: Talks With Him: The Freaky Boiz (SEASON FINALE)Nathan and J'Lamar host the season finale of "On a Date, Kinda Nervous" with special guest "The Freaky Boiz". Pierre and TT discuss all the fun topics of the season.2024-08-0553 minOn A Date, Kinda Nervous PodcastEpisode 9: Positions, Roles, Preferences, & Everything In-BetweenJ'Lamar & Nathan debate various topics between preferences vs discrimination, sexual positions vs. gender roles, and topics in between. 2024-07-2234 minOn A Date, Kinda Nervous PodcastEpisode 8: Dating DifferencesJ'Lamar and Nathan discuss how to maneuver through differences with your partner when dating.2024-07-0835 minOn A Date, Kinda Nervous PodcastEpisode 7: Have You Ever Been Rejected
J'Lamar and Nathan discuss navigating rejection in dating.
2024-06-2442 minOn A Date, Kinda Nervous PodcastEpisode 6: PRIDE & PROUD Feat. Gerald Garth
Special Pride Episode Featuring Our Good Friend and President of LA Pride Gerald Garth.
2024-06-1034 minOn A Date, Kinda Nervous PodcastEpisode 5: Cheating
J'Lamar and Nathan discuss infidelity in relationships.
2024-05-2736 minOn A Date, Kinda Nervous PodcastEpisode 4: Talks With Him Feat. Lavelle
Our friend and Tik Tok Guru Lavelle chats with us about circle dating, sex preferences, and navigating dating as a social media influencer.2024-05-1338 minOn A Date, Kinda Nervous PodcastEpisode 3: Blurred Lines (Friendships & Sex)Lets discuss the dynamics between friendships and sex. 2024-04-2934 minOn A Date, Kinda Nervous PodcastEpisode 2: Talks With Him Feat. Archie JayFun and Intimate Conversation With Special Guest Archie Jay. 2024-04-1533 minOn A Date, Kinda Nervous PodcastEpisode 1: Why Are You Single?Let's chat about why you think you are single!2024-04-0134 min