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IVF DADDIES74) THE MOMENT EVERYTHING CHANGED: THE CRAZY EMOTIONAL JOURNEY NO ONE TALKS ABOUT OF SURROGACYThis episode captures what it really feels like to build a family through surrogacy — the anticipation, the uncertainty, and the life-altering joy of becoming parents. In this intimate conversation between IVF DADDIES and DADS.KIDS.MIRACLES, we explore the decisions that shape a family, the emotions that define it, and the support systems that make it all possible.Every surrogacy journey begins with a decision — a private moment when future parents choose to believe that family can take many forms. But what happens after that choice? What follows is an emotional landscape few people talk about publicly: the...
2025-11-1111 minIVF DADDIES84) ATTENTION IS CURRENCY: HOW TO STOP COMPLAINING, RECLAIM YOUR ENERGY, AND REWRITE YOUR LIFE WITH JORGE PEREZWhen you change what you feed your attention, you change your life. Julio Gaggia sits down with author and creator Jorge Perez to unpack how focus, language, and perspective shape our reality—plus the origin story behind his book “The Shut the F* Up Method.”** We cover the art of non-complaint, why negativity spreads in groups, and how to redirect energy toward growth, relationships, and purpose (including hard chapters like grief, identity shifts, and IVF journeys).Author Jorge Perez joins Julio Gaggia to break down The Shut the F** Up Method*: how silence, focus, and attention can reshap...
2025-11-0751 minIVF DADDIES81) BUILDING A NEW PARENTING PLAYBOOK: GAY DADS, COMMUNITY, AND POSITIVE DISRUPTION IN FAMILY LIFEIn this episode of IVF Daddies, hosts Richard and David open up about the beautiful chaos of parenting as gay dads — from sleepless nights to building an inclusive community where LGBTQ+ families can thrive.Discover the story behind Hey Gaddies, a brand redefining fatherhood through representation, love, and visibility. We talk about step-parenting, transgender parents, and the power of unlearning old norms to create a new kind of family narrative — one built on authenticity and pride. 🌈Chapters00:00 Navigating Parenting Challenges02:50 Creating Inclusive Spaces for Gay Dads05:41 Building Community and Identity08:31 The Evolution of Quee...
2025-11-0645 minIVF DADDIES73) IVF & SURROGACY TRUTH FOR LGBTQIA+ FAMILIES — THE DOCTOR WHO ACTUALLY GETS ITLet’s be real — most fertility conversations still center straight couples.Dr. Said Daneshmand is here to change that. In this unfiltered, deeply human episode of IVF Daddies, he opens up about what it actually takes for LGBTQIA+ families to build their dreams through IVF, surrogacy, egg donation, and reciprocal IVF.From gay male couples navigating surrogacy to lesbian couples sharing pregnancy through reciprocal IVF — this episode exposes the truth, the costs, the options, and the emotional rollercoaster behind modern family creation.💬 WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:• The real steps of IVF + surrogacy for LGBTQIA+ coup...
2025-10-3112 minIVF DADDIES80) LOVE, ADOPTION & DRAG — WHEN FAMILY BREAKS THE RULESWhat happens when chosen family meets real-world adoption?In this powerful episode, Richard from IVF Daddies sits down with Mocca Bonè, the electrifying bearded queen from Drag Race Belgique, to talk about love, identity, and what it really means to build a family when society still hasn’t caught up.From navigating international adoption to confronting stereotypes, this is a story about courage, visibility, and the power of showing up as your full self — no filters, no shame, just heart.Follow:http://instagram.com/ivfdaddies/https://www.instagram.com/mocca_bone/https://www.instagram.com/dragracebelgique/What you’ll hear:•...
2025-10-3116 minIVF DADDIES71) THE DOCTOR WHO MADE EGG FREEZING MAKE SENSE — FINALLYForget polished fertility ads and sugar-coated promises. In this episode, Dr. Sarah Mikowski sits down with IVF Daddies and lays out the raw facts about egg freezing: the decline of egg quality, what your “optimal age” really looks like, the emotional and physical dose of hormonal treatment, and the stats that nobody wants you to know.follow more on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ivfdaddiesWe’re calling out the industry, answering your “what if’s” and “should I’s,” and giving you the freedom to plan YOUR body, not someone else’s timeline.You’ll walk away k...
2025-10-2714 minIVF DADDIES72) THE STORY EVERY SURVIVOR NEEDS TO HEAR ABOUT SECOND CHANCES AND FAMILYSurviving cancer should mean a new beginning — not the end of your dream to become a parent.In this powerful IVF Daddies episode, Dr. Paul Brezina reveals how fertility preservation is giving cancer survivors a second chance at family, hope, and life beyond treatment.You’ll learn:• The critical window for preserving fertility before cancer treatment begins• How new programs are protecting survivors’ future families• Why awareness and early planning save more than just health — they save hope• The breakthroughs changing how oncology and fertility care work togetherThis isn’t about politics. It’s about people — the survivors, doctors, and families who refus...
2025-10-2518 minIVF DADDIES70) EU's SURROGACY CHAOS 🇪🇺 — LOVE, LAW & NEW BEGINNINGSWhen love crosses borders, laws get messy.In this episode, Richard Westoby and Julio Gaggia unpack the beautiful, chaotic, and often unfair reality of IVF and surrogacy in Europe — and why they built a new platform to fix it.From Argentina to Amsterdam, they talk about new beginnings, legal limbo, empowering women in sports, and why community matters when the system doesn’t.✈️ What you’ll hear:• The wild truth about Europe’s patchwork surrogacy laws• Why some same-sex couples still have to leave the EU to build families• How women athletes are...
2025-10-1722 minIVF DADDIES69) AMH, FSH & WTF? — THE FERTILITY TEST NO ONE EXPLAINS AFTER 35Your doctor throws acronyms at you like you’re in a spelling bee — AMH, FSH, HSG — and somehow you’re supposed to know if you’re still fertile?In this brutally honest episode, Dr. Linnea Goodman joins IVF Daddies to decode the fertility alphabet soup: what those numbers actually mean, how to read your labs without crying, and why male fertility tests deserve equal airtime.Chapters00:00 Understanding Fertility Testing Acronyms10:21 The Menstrual Cycle and Hormonal Interactions15:18 Male Fertility Testing: Semen Analysis20:09 Evaluating...
2025-10-1321 minIVF DADDIES68) How Two Dads Rewrote Belgium’s Surrogacy StoryLove brought them to Ibiza. Parenthood took them on a journey through egg donation, surrogacy, and the fight for LGBTQ+ family rights in Belgium.In this deeply personal episode, Richard Westoby sits down with Guy, co-author of a new book about love, resilience, and the modern family. Together with his husband Milan, Guy opens up about their Ibiza wedding, the emotional challenge of choosing the right egg donor, and their dream to inspire better surrogacy legislation in Belgium.Their story isn’t just about having kids — it’s about visibility, courage, and changing how Europe unders...
2025-10-0809 minIVF DADDIES67) THE DECISION THAT ALMOST ENDED OUR SURRUGACY JOURNEYOne decision nearly ended our surrogacy journey before it began.In this IVF Daddies episode, Julio & Richard share the little-known red flags that can derail IVF and surrogacy — from medical surprises to emotional landmines. Joined by Dr. Lauren Garrett, we dive deep into genetic testing and why understanding results early is critical for building a healthy family.What you’ll learn:• Why preconception genetic testing matters• What expanded carrier screening actually looks for• How pre-implantation genetic testing (PGT) works• The truth about mosaic embryos and healthy pregnancies• What’s coming next in non-invasive genetic testingComment below: Do you think every IVF patien...
2025-10-0415 min
Ibiza - The Reset RebelThe Reset rebel meets IVF DaddiesThis week we head to Patisserie Margot to meet IVF Daddies host and Surrogacy expert Richard Westoby and his fabulous partner co-host, Julio Gaggia over a bottle of Rose at the Bakery to talk kids, relationships, Ibiza, Cake, island life, parenting, IVF and have a giggle while we get a little bit tipsy!
The pair are not just gorgeous, but funny and we had lots of fun meeting them at the Parisian style venue in the heart of Marina Botafoch.
2025-09-0153 minIVF DADDIES66) FERTILITY MARKETING ≠ MEDICAL TRUTHIn collaboration with https://www.ivyfertility.com/ and https://www.reproductivepartners.com/In this conversation, Dr. Nurit WinklerDouble Board-Certified Fertility Specialist & International Reproductive Expert, discusses the complexities of navigating fertility treatment options. Emphasizing the importance of understanding patient needs and preferences, she highlights the balance between medical advice and patient autonomy. The discussion also covers the role of holistic approaches in managing stress during treatment, the significance of early diagnostics, and the various treatment options available based on individual diagnoses. Dr. Winkler advocates for a respectful and collaborative approach to fertility care, ensuring that patients feel empowered...
2025-07-0113 minIVF DADDIES65) CAN FOOD FIX FERTILITY? THE DOCTOR WHO SAYS YES.In this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, Dr. Connor Curley shares his journey from being diagnosed with multiple sclerosis to founding Phytofix, a nutrition product company focused on food supplements. He discusses the importance of nutrition in managing health conditions like MS and endometriosis, and how this led to the development of Fertility Fix, a product designed to support fertility in both men and women. The conversation highlights the often-overlooked connection between nutrition and reproductive health, emphasizing the need for holistic approaches in fertility treatments.TakeawaysDr. Curley was diagnosed with MS at 15, which...
2025-06-2412 minIVF DADDIES64) WHAT MAKES A FERTILITY TREATMENT SUCCESSFULIn this conversation, IVFDADDIES Richard Westoby , and Deirdre A. Conway, MD from the Utah Fertility Center discusses the complexities of choosing a fertility clinic, the importance of patient experience, and the various metrics that define success in fertility treatments. She emphasizes the role of embryology in IVF success and the need for patients to understand and interpret success rates accurately. The discussion highlights the emotional journey of patients and the critical support provided by the entire clinic staff throughout the process.TakeawaysChoosing a fertility clinic...
2025-06-1717 minIVF DADDIES63) EMBRYO TRANSFER EXPLAINED In this conversation, In colaboration with IVY Fertility, Richard Westoby from IVFDADDIES and Dr. Meredith Brower, MD discusses the process of frozen embryo transfer, including the preparation of the uterus, the administration of estrogen and progesterone, and what to expect on the day of the transfer. She explains the differences between medicated and natural cycles, the importance of monitoring the uterine lining, and the steps taken during the transfer procedure. The discussion also touches on patient experiences and the emotional aspects of the IVF journey.TakeawaysThe final step...
2025-06-1016 min
Building your familyIVF Daddies: Gay Dads on Surrogacy, Step-Parenting & Pride | LGBTQ+ Family BuildingAs part of our Pride Month celebration, we’re honored to welcome Richard Westoby and Julio Gaggia — better known as the IVF Daddies and hosts of the popular podcast by the same name.
In this episode, they share their personal family-building stories — from Richard's surrogacy journey over a decade ago with his then-partner, to Julio’s experience becoming a parent through step-parenting. Together, they model a beautiful and honest version of gay fatherhood that embraces advocacy, growth, and breaking traditional norms.
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What the IVF process looked like for gay dads a decade ago
2025-06-0843 minBuilding your familyIVF Daddies: Gay Dads on Surrogacy, Step-Parenting & Pride | LGBTQ+ Family BuildingAs part of our Pride Month celebration, we’re honored to welcome Richard Westoby and Julio Gaggia — better known as the IVF Daddies and hosts of the popular podcast by the same name.
In this episode, they share their personal family-building stories — from Richard's surrogacy journey over a decade ago with his then-partner, to Julio’s experience becoming a parent through step-parenting. Together, they model a beautiful and honest version of gay fatherhood that embraces advocacy, growth, and breaking traditional norms.
🎧 You'll hear:
What the IVF process looked like for gay dads a decade ago
2025-06-0843 minIVF DADDIES62) UNLOCKING THE SECRET FOR WOMEN'S HORMONAL BALANCEIn this conversation, Dr. Carrie Melissa Wambach , Leading MD from IVY Fertility discusses the multifaceted benefits of Ozempic, a medication primarily used for diabetes management, and its implications for weight loss, hormonal balance, and women's health, particularly in relation to fertility and pregnancy. The discussion highlights how Ozempic can help normalize hormonal levels, improve egg quality, and reduce pregnancy complications associated with higher BMI, while also addressing the complexities of its use in pre-pregnancy and surgical contexts.Instagram IVFDADDIESYoutube IVFDADDIESOzempic is primarily for diabetes management...
2025-05-2008 minIVF DADDIES61) THEY JOY OF PARENTHOOD INSPIRED MY CAREER AND COMMUNITY SUPPORTSummaryWe are Honored of partnering with Ivy Fertility who opened their doors to us to ask all the questions you have been asking us, we got the answers in a special collaboration with the best experts in the IVF Field. In this conversation, Dr. Said Daneshmand discusses his extensive experience in helping families navigate the complexities of IVF and surrogacy, particularly focusing on the LGBTQIA+ community. He emphasises the importance of support systems, breaking down barriers, and providing accessible and affordable fertility services. The discussion covers various options available for gay male and female...
2025-05-1612 minIVF DADDIES60) THE OZEMPIC EFFECT, OF BABIES IN THE RISING AND NUTRITIONIn this episode of the IVF Daddy's Podcast, the hosts delve into various topics surrounding fertility, nutrition, and lifestyle choices. They discuss the controversial effects of Ozempic on pregnancy, the importance of nutrition in fertility, and the strict requirements of IVF and surrogacy. The conversation also touches on the broader implications of diet as medicine and how to navigate nutrition with children, emphasizing moderation and education.TakeawaysCreating engaging podcast content can be challenging.Ozempic has been linked to a rise...
2025-04-3021 minIVF DADDIES59) BREAKING THE SILENCE ON WOMEN'S HEALTHIn this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, hosts Julio and Richard delve into the complexities of endometriosis, an often invisible disease that affects many women. They discuss the societal perceptions surrounding women's health, the disbelief women face regarding their pain, and the lack of standard medical practices for diagnosing and treating conditions like endometriosis. The conversation emphasizes the need for better awareness, education, and empowerment in women's health decisions, advocating for regular health checkups that include fertility assessments and medical imaging for conditions that are often overlooked.Endometriosis, women's health, invisible disease, medical practices, fertility...
2025-04-2321 minIVF DADDIES58) THE UNSEEN LOVE OF STEP-PARENTING IN THE LGBTQIA+In this episode of the RVF Daddy's Podcast, hosts Julio and Richard share their recent travels and delve into the complexities of surrogacy, parenthood, and stepparenting. They discuss the emotional journey of becoming parents through surrogacy, the challenges faced by stepparents, and the importance of therapy in maintaining healthy relationships. The conversation also touches on the legal aspects of surrogacy, misconceptions surrounding it, and the need for increased awareness about infertility and discrimination in surrogacy laws.takeawaysLife can change in an instant, especially with parenthood.Surrogacy offers a unique journey that involves many hurdles.Stepparenting...
2025-04-1522 minIVF DADDIES57) HOW HIV POSITIVE DADS NAVIGATE FAMILY BUILDINGIn this conversation, Brian Rosenberg from Gays with Kids shares his journey as an HIV positive dad and the founding of Gays with Kids, an organization dedicated to helping LGBTQ+ individuals navigate parenthood. He discusses the importance of education in family building, the various paths to parenthood available, and the launch of GWK Academy, which aims to empower individuals with knowledge and resources. Brian emphasizes the need for financial accessibility in family building and the significance of finding supportive community and partners in the journey to parenthood.Brian Rosenberg and his husband Ferd have 3 children through adoption...
2025-03-1825 minIVF DADDIES56) THE EMBRYO EDUCATION THEY DONT WANT YOU TO KNOWIn this episode of IVFDADDIES, Richard Westoby, speaks with Emma Whitney, an experienced embryologist, about the importance of reproductive health education, the complexities of infertility, and the role of embryologists in fertility treatments. They discuss the often-misleading success rates of fertility clinics, the need for informed decision-making, and the significance of clear communication between patients and healthcare providers. Emma emphasizes the importance of understanding what constitutes success in fertility treatments and encourages listeners to ask critical questions when seeking treatment.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Reproductive Health Education02:40 The...
2025-03-1130 minIVF DADDIES55) WELLNESS & FERTILITY THROUGH CROHN'S DESEASEIn this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, hosts and guests BOLKO ALEKSIEV and NAOMI TEAL from MABO WELLNESS delve into personal journeys of health and wellness, focusing on Crohn's disease, nutrition, and fertility challenges. They discuss the emotional toll of fertility testing, the importance of open conversations about reproductive health, and the various options available for those facing fertility issues. The conversation highlights the significance of understanding one's body, the impact of nutrition on health, and the need for supportive dialogue around fertility and personal choices.Takeaways
2025-02-2725 minIVF DADDIES54) FREEZING MY EGGS SAVED MY LIFE FROM CANCER
In this conversation, Richard Westoby and his friend Kat discuss the journey of fertility, cancer diagnosis, and the emotional and physical challenges that come with it. They explore the importance of family, the impact of cancer on personal aspirations, and the options available for building a family after such experiences. The discussion highlights the significance of early detection, the complexities of treatment, and the emotional rollercoaster that accompanies these life-altering events.
"United by Unique" is the powerful theme for World Cancer Day in 2025. Cancer is never just a diagnosis; it’s a deeply personal an...
2025-02-0423 minIVF DADDIES53) IS TRUMP CHANGING SURROGACY BIRTHRIGHTS AND CITIZENSHIP WITH NEW ELECTION?In this episode of IVF Daddies, Rich Vaughn from the International Fertility Law Group discusses the implications of recent executive orders regarding birthright citizenship and surrogacy. The conversation explores the constitutional basis of birthright citizenship, the nuances of the executive order, and the potential impact on intended parents using surrogacy services in the U.S. Amidst concerns and uncertainties, Rich emphasizes the importance of understanding legal rights and navigating the challenges that may arise for families in the surrogacy process.
Takeaways
Birthright citizenship is part of the 14th Amendment.
2025-01-2814 minIVF DADDIES52) NAVIGATING PCOS, UNLOCKING YOUR INNER POWER.Dicover more about Louisa's website
Takeaways
The power is already within us, and sometimes we just need a push.
Discipline is key to achieving results in life.
Health choices can significantly impact fertility and overall well-being.
PCOS can be managed and even reversed through lifestyle changes.
Self-care is crucial for parents to be effective caregivers.
Parenting comes with pressures that can lead to comparison and self-doubt.
Therapy can help couples navigate the challenges of parenthood and fertility.
Creating...
2025-01-2140 minIVF DADDIES51) IS IVF SAFE DURING THE CALIFORNIA WILDFIRES?Takeaways
The fertility community acts as first responders during crises.
Safety protocols for frozen tissue are robust and reliable.
Real-time monitoring of storage conditions is critical.
Collaboration among fertility centers enhances patient care.
Emergency communication systems are in place for patient updates.
Contingency plans exist for relocating frozen tissue if needed.
Air quality monitoring is essential for embryo safety.
The community's support is vital during challenging times.
Patients can be moved to partner facilities for ongoing treatment.
2025-01-1214 minIVF DADDIES50) A Gay Dad's Perspective From Surrogacy to Parenthood: Michael and George's StoryIn this episode of the IVF Daddy's podcast, hosts Michael Snaric and George share their journey of becoming parents through IVF and surrogacy. They discuss the challenges they faced, including finding the right surrogate, navigating the NICU experience, and the importance of building a supportive community for LGBTQIA+ families. They also highlight their upcoming event aimed at making the family-building process more approachable and fun, featuring drag queens and a focus on inclusivity.
Takeaways
They connected on wanting children from their first date.
The IVF journey was expedited due to...
2024-12-2030 minIVF DADDIES49) THE REAL HOUSEWIVES OF IVF AND SURROGACYIn this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, hosts Julio and Richard explore the intersection of reality TV and important topics surrounding women's health, fertility, and parenting. They discuss how reality shows have opened up conversations about painful periods, endometriosis, egg freezing, sperm donation, and the emotional aspects of parenthood. The hosts emphasize the importance of education and breaking taboos surrounding these issues, highlighting the role of public figures in normalizing discussions about fertility and women's rights.
Chapters
00:00 Reality TV as a Source of Information
02:52 Understanding Women's...
2024-12-0324 minIVF DADDIES48) OZEMPIC A GAME CHANGER FOR FERTILITYIn this conversation, Richard Westby from IVF Daddies interviews Dr. Carrie Wambach about Ozempic, a medication primarily used for diabetes management that has shown additional benefits, particularly in weight loss and fertility. Dr. Wambach explains how Ozempic works by decreasing insulin resistance and normalizing hormones like LH and testosterone, which can lead to improved ovulation and egg quality. The discussion also covers the implications of Ozempic on pregnancy, including the need to stop the medication before conception and its potential to lower pregnancy risks associated with higher BMI. Overall, the conversation highlights the multifaceted benefits of Ozempic and its...
2024-11-2508 minIVF DADDIES47) CELEBRITY DOCTOR TALKS ABOUT THE MYTHS OF MATERNAL CHOICESIn this conversation, Dr. Andy Huang discusses the realities of IVF and surrogacy, debunking myths surrounding women's choices in pregnancy and the confidentiality measures taken in fertility clinics. He emphasizes that most women desire to experience pregnancy but may face challenges that lead them to consider surrogacy. Additionally, he highlights the importance of privacy for patients, especially celebrities, and the lengths to which his clinic goes to ensure discretion.
Takeaways
The majority of women seeking IVF want to experience pregnancy.
Surrogacy is often a...
2024-11-0408 minIVF DADDIES46) STEPPARENTING IN THE GAY WORLDIt's hard to open up about personal life.
Social media can be a source of support.
Divorce can lead to new beginnings.
Children's feelings should guide parenting decisions.
Being a stepdad comes with unique challenges.
Communication is key in co-parenting.
Setting boundaries is essential for harmony.
Quality time strengthens family bonds.
Understanding roles in blended families is crucial.
Respecting the other parent's role fosters cooperation.
In this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast...
2024-10-3021 minIVF DADDIES45) CO-PARENTING A MODERN FAMILY & LEGAL HURDLES OF SURROGACY IN FRANCEIn this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, Romain shares his journey of becoming a father through surrogacy in the United States, the challenges he faced as a French citizen, and the dynamics of co-parenting after divorce. He discusses the cultural differences in parenting, the legal complexities of surrogacy in France, and the impact of celebrity status on family life. The conversation emphasizes the importance of putting children first and navigating the complexities of modern family structures.
Takeaways
Romain's journey to fatherhood through surrogacy in California.
The...
2024-10-2230 minIVF DADDIES44) IVFDADDIES GOES TO CALIFORNIA
We are happy People are listening, and it's great info.
Richard and Julio learned a lot at the IVF conference.
Confidentiality is crucial in celebrity IVF cases.
Celebrities often face the same struggles as others.
IVF can be a personal journey, not a public spectacle.
Psychological support is essential during the IVF process.
Cultural perspectives can influence IVF experiences.
Maintaining boundaries is important for emotional health.
The journey to parenthood can be filled with highs and lows.
Family...
2024-10-1618 minIVF DADDIES43) THE REALITY OF GAY PARENTING THEN AND NOWIn this episode of the IVF Daddy's podcast, hosts Julio and Richard discuss the evolving landscape of gay fatherhood, reflecting on their own experiences compared to newer generations. They explore the balance between personal life and parenting, societal perceptions of gay dads, and the reality of raising children in a modern context. The conversation highlights the progress made in acceptance and understanding, while also addressing the challenges that remain.
The experience of gay fatherhood has evolved significantly over the years.
Modern gay dads can plan their social lives around parenting more easily.
Societal...
2024-10-1012 minIVF DADDIES42) TRANSPARENCY BREAKING DOWN SURROGACY COSTSIn this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, Richard and Damien discuss their personal journeys through surrogacy, the challenges faced, and the importance of education and transparency in the surrogacy process. They explore the complexities of surrogacy laws in Australia, the financial aspects of surrogacy, and the altruistic motivations of surrogates. The conversation emphasizes the need for trust and understanding in the surrogacy journey, debunking myths and celebrating the incredible role of surrogates in helping families grow.
Keywords
IVF, surrogacy, family building, intended parents, surrogates, financial transparency, education, challenges...
2024-10-0135 minIVF DADDIES41) LOVING BEING A SURROGATEIn this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, the host engages in a heartfelt conversation with Carey, a surrogate, exploring her journey into surrogacy, the emotional and physical challenges she faced, and the importance of mental health support throughout the process. They discuss the dynamics of being a surrogate, the relationships formed with intended parents, and the unique experiences of postpartum as a surrogate. The conversation highlights the altruistic motivations behind surrogacy and the profound impact it has on families.
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2024-09-1928 minIVF DADDIES40) EMBRYO DONATION: A PATH TO EMPOWERMENTThe conversation revolves around the decision of what to do with frozen embryos. The speakers discuss the ethical and emotional considerations involved in embryo donation and adoption. They explore the concept of embryos as assets versus embryos as life, and the implications of these perspectives. The conversation also touches on the benefits of embryo donation for women and LGBTQIA individuals, as well as the societal and personal factors that influence decision-making.
Takeaways
Embryo donation and adoption are options for individuals with frozen embryos who do not want to use...
2024-09-0823 minIVF DADDIES39) EMBRYO DONATION, MANAGING REMAINING EMBRYOSMaya, a psychotherapist and filmmaker, shares her experience with embryo donation and discusses her work with Empower with Moxie, an embryo donation organization. She explains the difference between embryo adoption and embryo donation, emphasizing the importance of education and support for individuals considering embryo donation. Maya highlights the need for a more personal and connected approach to embryo donation, where donors and recipients have the opportunity to know each other and maintain a consensual connection. She also addresses the ethical and legal implications of embryo donation and the challenges of navigating the complex landscape of fertility treatment. Moxie matching...
2024-08-2341 minIVF DADDIES38) TWINS THROUGH IVF AND SURROGACY AND IMPACT OF USA ELECTIONSIn this episode, the Julio and Richard discuss the topic of twins, as they themselves are parents of twins. They explore the concept of twins in the context of IVF and surrogacy, discussing the reasons why some people choose to have twins and the risks associated with twin pregnancies. They also delve into the different types of twins, such as identical and fraternal twins, and the various ways in which twins can be conceived. The hosts also touch on the importance of reproductive rights and the impact of the upcoming US elections on these rights.
2024-08-0736 minIVF DADDIES37) UNDERSTANDING BABY FORMULA AS GAY PARENTS
In this episode, Julio and Richard discuss the topic of formula feeding for babies. They share their personal experiences and address common questions and misconceptions surrounding formula feeding. They also touch on the stigma associated with formula feeding and the availability of different types of formula. The conversation concludes with a discussion on diapers and the importance of having support and guidance during the early stages of parenthood.
Keywords
formula feeding, breast milk, breastfeeding, stigma, surrogate, nutrition, baby care, diapers
Takeaways
2024-07-3027 minIVF DADDIES36) SAFETY AND SCALE IN THE EMBRYOLOGY LABCynthia, an embryologist and now working with a technology company, TMRW Life Science discusses the need for tools and technology to improve safety and scale in the embryology lab. She emphasizes the importance of ensuring the chain of custody and specimen record for patients. Cynthia also highlights the role of technology in selecting the best sperm and eggs for successful IVF cycles. She explains the challenges faced by clinics in managing the influx of patients seeking egg freezing and the need for operational efficiency. Cynthia discusses the potential of AI algorithms and ultrasound technology to improve efficiency and reduce...
2024-07-1836 minIVF DADDIES35) SUPPORTING TRANSGENDER CHILDREN, A PARENT'S PERSPECTIVEIn this episode, Richard and Julio are joined by Cindy, a top surrogacy lawyer in Canada, to discuss her personal story of having a transgender child. They explore the challenges faced by both the child and the parents, the importance of support and understanding, and the need for education and acceptance. Cindy shares her experiences with her child's school and friends, as well as the emotional toll it can take on both the child and the parents. The conversation emphasizes the need for empathy, grace, and open communication within families.
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2024-07-1032 minIVF DADDIES34) STEPDAD'S LOVE LETTER, IS NOT ALL ABOUT IVF AND SURROGACYIn this episode, Richard and Julio discuss the topic of vulnerability and what it means to be a family. They touch on the anxiety and challenges they face as a blended family, including the reactions of others and the pressure to say and do the right things. They also explore the importance of celebrating love and kindness, and the rewards and sacrifices of parenting. The conversation delves into the complexities of being a stepparent and the impact on both the children and the parents involved. Overall, the episode highlights the personal struggles and growth that come with navigating relationships...
2024-07-0324 minIVF DADDIES33) SPERM DONATION STIGMA AND EXPLORING THE OPTIONSIn this episode of IVFDADDIES, Julio and Richard discuss the topic of sperm donation and the options available for individuals or couples who need a sperm donor to start a family. They highlight the importance of empowering people to make their own choices and challenge the stigma surrounding sperm donation. The hosts also mention the portrayal of sperm donation in reality TV shows and the need for more education and support for those considering this route. They touch on the process of sperm donation, the different options available, and the importance of reducing inflammation for successful pregnancies.
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2024-06-2623 minIVF DADDIES32) HYPERBARIC THERAPY IMPROVING EGG QUALITY AND IVF SUCCESS RATEIn this conversation, Julio from IVF Daddies interviews Luisana Burgos from HBOT4Life about hyperbaric oxygen therapy (HBOT). They discuss the benefits of HBOT for overall health and fertility, the different types of hyperbaric chambers, the impact of inflammation on the body, and the potential for improving egg quality and fertility through HBOT. Luisana shares success stories of patients who have experienced positive results from HBOT. They also touch on the societal pressure on women to have children and the importance of education and awareness about fertility.
Keywords
hyperbaric...
2024-06-1338 minIVF DADDIES31) THE HONOR OF BEING A GODPARENT AFTER A JOURNEY OF IVFThe conversation revolves around the experience of witnessing a friend's journey through fertility, from freezing eggs to having a baby, and the emotional impact of being asked to be a godfather. It also touches on the power of hope, support, and inspiration in the context of fertility struggles.
Takeaways
The journey of fertility and IVF can be emotionally impactful and filled with hope and inspiration.
Support and guidance are crucial for individuals going through fertility struggles.
The power of hope and perseverance in the face of fertility challenges...
2024-06-0410 minIVF DADDIES30) I FROZE MY EGGS AT 40 AND CARRIED MY BABY AT 47 THROUGH IVFAemilia shares her journey of freezing her eggs at the age of 40 and undergoing IVF to have a baby at age 47. She emphasizes the importance of taking control of one's fertility and making informed decisions. Aemilia's story highlights the success of her single embryo transfer and the support she received from her friends and medical professionals. She encourages others to consider egg freezing as a way to preserve their options and break the taboo surrounding fertility treatments.
Takeaways
Egg freezing can provide women with the flexibility to decide when to have a baby and alleviate...
2024-05-2232 minIVF DADDIES29) HOW ARE EMBRYOS SPLIT WHILE GOING THROUGH A DIVORCEIn this episode, Julio and Richard discuss their experiences at a Men Having Babies conference in Berlin and the importance of educating people about the basics of IVF and surrogacy. They highlight the mix of attendees at the conference, from newbies to those who have done extensive research. They emphasize the need for more education and understanding about fertility and the various paths to building a family. The conversation also touches on personal topics such as divorce and the emotional challenges of deciding what to do with frozen embryos.
Chapters
2024-05-1536 minIVF DADDIES28) THE STORY OF BEING A BLACK TRANSGENDER WOMAN THROUGH SURROGACY IN USAIn this episode, the guest shares her experience as a Black transgender woman going through the IVF and surrogacy process in New York City. She discusses the importance of understanding empathy and the challenges faced by minority groups in the United States. She also highlights the disparities in access to healthcare for Black women and the high maternal mortality rates. The guest emphasizes the significance of building relationships and finding a supportive community during the IVF journey. She talks about her criteria for choosing an agency and the obstacles she faced in finding information and support.
Takeaways
2024-05-0829 minIVF DADDIES27) THE IMPORTANCE OF EARLY FERTILITY CARESummary
Dr. Amy Kaing discusses the basics of IVF and the process of residency and fellowship in the medical field. She explains that IVF involves taking eggs and sperm and developing embryos in a laboratory before transferring them to the uterus. She also explains the concept of ectopic pregnancy and the importance of the uterus for a successful pregnancy. Dr. Kaing emphasizes the importance of early fertility planning and recommends getting an AMH test to assess ovarian reserve. She also discusses the challenges faced by individuals with low ovarian reserve and the options available...
2024-04-2525 minIVF DADDIES26)SURROGACY CONTRACTS A BETTER UNDERSTANDINGIn this episode, Richard Westoby interviews Molly O'Brien, a legal expert in surrogacy. They discuss the legal aspects of surrogacy contracts, including the importance of having a contract to establish parental rights, the timing of obtaining a court order, and the potential challenges that may arise. They also touch on the importance of trust and communication between intended parents and surrogates, as well as the financial and emotional aspects of the contract. The conversation concludes with a discussion on termination of pregnancy and the role of compensation in surrogacy.
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2024-04-1720 minIVF DADDIES25) THE ROLE OF MENTAL HEALTH PROVIDERS IN THE SURROGACY PROCESSSummary
Joey Guzman, a licensed therapist specializing in fertility, IVF, and surrogacy counseling, shares his personal journey of building a family through surrogacy and egg donation. He discusses the importance of open communication, setting expectations, and navigating the emotional complexities of the process. Joey emphasizes the need for informed decision-making, including considerations for donor selection, single vs. double embryo transfer, and the relational dynamics with surrogates. He also highlights the role of mental health providers in providing education, support, and empathy to intended parents and surrogates throughout their journey.
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2024-04-0937 minIVF DADDIES24) TRANSGENDER AND NON-BINARY FERTILITY CARE WITH DR. ROTHENBERGDr. Rothenberg discusses transgender and non-binary fertility, including the rise in patients identifying as trans or non-binary. She explains gender affirming treatment and how it can affect fertility. Dr. Rothenberg emphasizes the importance of creating a safe and inclusive space for patients and normalizing the fertility process for all individuals. She also discusses the hormone process for transgender individuals with ovaries and the options for fertility preservation. Additionally, she addresses the challenges and experimental options for fertility preservation in transgender children who have not yet gone through puberty. Dr. Stephanie Rothenberg discusses fertility options for transgender and non-binary individuals...
2024-04-0338 minIVF DADDIES23) WHY FREEZING MY EGGS AT 40 CHANGED EVERYTHINGYou're nearing 40 and thinking about your fertility future. Is it too late? In this powerful episode, we share a deeply personal journey into why egg freezing at 40 wasn't just a choice, but a pivotal, life-affirming decision.We dive into the real reasons, the emotional landscape, and the practical steps taken, offering insights that resonate far beyond the clinic walls. Discover how planning ahead can lead to profound peace of mind and open unexpected pathways to parenthood. This is more than a story; it's a guide to reclaiming your reproductive timeline.In this episode, you will...
2024-03-2622 minIVF DADDIES22) BECOME AN EGG DONOR, BECOME A PARENT, CONVERSATION WITH ROBYN PERCHIK FROM BHEDIn this episode, Richard interviews Robyn, the owner of Beverly Hills Egg Donation, They discuss Robyn's background and motivations for working in the egg donation industry. Robyn explains how Beverly Hills Egg Donation differentiates itself from other agencies by offering a refund policy and a guarantee for another cycle if the intended parents do not have a take-home baby. They also discuss the screening process for donors, including travel restrictions and medical tests. Robyn emphasizes the importance of matching donors with intended parents based on their preferences and provides support and guidance throughout the process.
Takeaways
2024-03-2027 minIVF DADDIES21) THE COMMITMENT OF SURROGACY AGENCY ACCEL CONCEPTION AND THE IMPORTANCE OF SUPPORT SYSTEM, PASSION AND CONNECTION IN THE SURROGACY JOURNEYIn this episode, Monica Buehler, the founder of Accel Surrogacy Agency, shares her personal journey as a surrogate and her extensive experience in the industry. She discusses the emotional impact of failed transfers and the challenges faced by both surrogates and intended parents. Monica emphasizes the importance of building strong relationships and providing support throughout the surrogacy process. She also explains the intake process and timeline for surrogates, as well as the criteria for selecting surrogates. Monica highlights the need for trust and open communication, and addresses the social and family challenges that surrogates may encounter. Overall, she emphasizes...
2024-03-1429 minIVF DADDIES20) IS TERMINATING EMBRYOS THE DEATH OF UNBORN CHILDREN ACCORDING TO ALABAMA?The conversation discusses the recent court ruling in Alabama that considers embryos as children under the wrongful death statute. The ruling has raised concerns about the potential impact on IVF clinics and intended parents. It is explained that family law in the US is state by state, and the ruling in Alabama is limited to that state. The connection between the ruling and the anti-abortion movement is explored, highlighting the concern that IVF could become the next battlefront. However, there are efforts to protect IVF through legislation in Alabama and other states.
Takeaways
Family law...
2024-03-0623 minIVF DADDIES19) DR. BROOKE FRIEDMAN HOW TO CHOOSE YOUR IVF CLINIC
In this episode, Dr. Brooke Friedman discusses various aspects of IVF and surrogacy. She emphasizes the importance of choosing a clinic that makes you feel comfortable and offers free consultations to educate and answer questions. Dr. Friedman highlights the need for knowledge and support throughout the IVF process and the importance of finding a clinic with experience and success rates. She also addresses the stigma and taboo surrounding infertility and encourages self-kindness and changing the narrative. The episode concludes with a call to action to reach out for a free consultation and guidance in the personal...
2024-02-2914 minIVF DADDIES18) ESCROW EXPLAINED BY ZACH FRENCH VP OF SEEDTRUSTIn this episode, we interview Zach French, Vice President of SEEDTrust, an independent escrow company in the surrogacy industry. Zach shares his personal surrogacy journey and the challenges he faced, which led him to co-found the Gift of Surrogacy Foundation.
He also discusses the need for more support and transparency in the surrogacy industry. Zach explains the role of SEED Trust as an independent escrow company, ensuring the safety and security of funds throughout the surrogacy process. He highlights the importance of bonds and insurance in protecting clients' funds. Zach emphasizes the personalized support and communication provided...
2024-02-2126 minIVF DADDIES17) HOW TO MAKE EGG DONOR CONTRACTS EXPLAINED BY USA ATTORNEY MOLLY O'BRIENIn this episode, we interviews Molly O'Brien, a renowned egg donor and surrogacy lawyer. Molly explains the importance of having a lawyer in the IVF process and how they provide independent guidance to intended parents. The conversation then delves into the importance of contracts through the egg donation process, including choosing a donor, setting up a trust account, and the medical and psychological screening of the donor. The legal aspects of egg donation contracts are discussed, highlighting the rights and ownership of eggs. The different types of contracts, such as anonymous, semi-open, and open, are explored, along with the...
2024-02-1413 minIVF DADDIES16) Why Black Maternal Health Awareness Matters? Shadina Blunt, a surrogacy expert and founder of The Miracle Family Foundation. Julio and Richard interview Shadina Blunt, a surrogacy expert and founder of Surrogacy Miracles and the Miracle Family Foundation. They discuss Shadina's journey into surrogacy and her passion for helping others build their families. They also touch on the importance of increasing visibility of surrogacy in minority communities and the need for financial assistance for those who cannot afford the high costs of surrogacy. Shadina shares her thoughts on confidentiality and boundaries in surrogacy, as well as addressing concerns about exploitation of women in the surrogacy process. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of education, support, and advocacy in...
2024-02-0731 minIVF DADDIES15) SPERM CONVERSATION WITH ANDROLOGY PROFESSOR SHERYL HOMASheryl Homa is an HCPC registered Clinical Scientist with a special interest in male fertility. She obtained her degrees in Biochemistry at Imperial College of Science and Technology and the Middlesex Hospital Medical School.
She spent a large part of her career as an academic research scientist in the field of oocyte maturation, funded by the National Institutes of Health in the USA. For many years she served as Scientific Director of several fertility clinics in the UK working in both the public and private sectors. During this time, she became aware that male fertility is considerably m...
2024-01-3030 minIVF DADDIES14) SURROGACY INDIA VS. CANADA VS. USA, ANNA BUXTON'S EXPERIENCEIn today's episode you will discover Anna and her husband Ed's experience through gestational surrogacy, what the process involved and what is her advice for those who are going through the surrogacy process.
Anna and Ed, went through the surrogacy journey twice, the first time for their daughter Isla, born in India, and the second time for their twins Olive and Art, born in USA.
"What kept me going was my relationship with Ed. Infertility of any kind changes you as a couple. That level of pain and anxiety can never be forgotten but the r...
2024-01-2327 minIVF DADDIES13) MATT BROWN'S STORY AS A SOLO PARENT THROUGH IVF AND SURROGACYIn today's episode you will discover the heartwarming story of the power of chosen family, and how our dear friend Matthew Brown @ukrules, shares his story on becoming a solo gay parent, and the wonderful story on how his friend Julien, decided to ask Matt to have the same egg donor, creating a wonderful extended family that no one could have ever imagine.
Matthew is a wonderful man whom has a passion for travel, and have a successful real-estate business, which allows him to be a stay at home dad, providing him time to...
2024-01-1731 minIVF DADDIES12) UNDERSTANDING YOUR FERTILITY OPTIONS WITH Dr. SANDY S. CHUANToday, we are super lucky to have a wonderful friend of mine, Dr. Sandy S. Chuan, to talk through all things egg donation, and egg freezing.
Sandy has been named an Exceptional Woman in Medicine 4 years in a row.
She's Board Certified as an OBGYN and a Board Certified Reproductive Endocrinologist and Infertility Specialist.
She has been named Castle Connelly's top doctor for 6 years in a row.
She's a partner of the San Diego Fertility Center and specialises in egg donation, surrogacy and complex IVF cases.
Dr. Sandy emigrated...
2024-01-1026 minIVF DADDIES5) EGG DONOR EMBRYO MAKING12 years ago, the ability to find quality information on egg donation was limited. And I had no idea what I was doing. I spent many hours going through endless profiles of egg donors from different agencies online. Each presented their donors in a different way. Making it very dehumanising and complicated to understand. Choosing my donor, were around costs, and type of relationship with the egg donor.
Key Points Discussed:
Anonymous Egg donor.
Semi-known Egg donor.
Known Egg Donor.
Costs.
Pros and Cons on working with an...
2024-01-0909 minIVF DADDIES11) DIVORCE AFTER IVF AND SURROGACY, EMBRYO BANKING, AND EGG FREEZING TREND1) I want to do a few things in my life. And one of them is empower people to make the right decision, especially around their IVF choices, because I felt that I didn't have that, and I think knowledge is power, and information just helps you get to where you need to be.
2) I find this incredibly fulfilling, helping people with a dream, I mean, not many people can say that their job is fulfilling dreams, I love what I do, and it's a phenomenal thing.
3) I want other people to experience what I've had...
2024-01-0434 minIVF DADDIES10) RICHARD'S STORY: COSTSHere's the thing about miracles: they're expensive.
Today, Richard talks about the financial side of his family-building journey, what costs you can expect, and how he found himself at an ex's ex's house in Arizona waiting for his babies to be born (it's complicated.)
2023-12-2106 minIVF DADDIES9) RICHARD'S SURROGACY STORY: THE PREGNANCYAll the tears, the flights, the meetings, and the contracts have been leading to this: the day when the surrogate learns that she is pregnant with not one, but TWO babies.
In today's episode, Richard tells the story of the incredible moment that he found out that he was going to be a father, the experience of hearing two heartbeats on the ultrasound, and the unforgettable day that his children entered the world.
2023-12-1306 minIVF DADDIES8) RICHARD'S STORY: THE SURROGATEAfter choosing a surrogacy agency, Richard was told it would take about eight months to be matched with a potential surrogate. Just six weeks later, a fateful message arrived in his inbox.
Was it too good to be true? In today's episode, you'll find out.
2023-12-0505 minIVF DADDIES7) RICHARD'S STORY: SURROGACY AGENCYOnce you have an embryo, you need somewhere to put it. Enter the surrogacy agency.
In today's episode, Richard discusses the pros and cons of working with an agency to find a gestational carrier. He shares his top five criteria for selecting an agency, questions to ask your agency (and yourself!), and what you can expect when working with a surrogacy agency.
2023-11-2804 min
IVF DADDIES EspañolIVF DADDIES TrailerHola, soy Julio Gaggia quien junto a Richard Westoby, hemos creado el podcast de IVF Daddies inspirado en su libro. "Nuestro camino guía de una pareja sobre la gestación subrogada en Estados Unidos" by Richard Westoby leído en español por julio Gaggia.
Bienvenidos al podcast de IVF Daddies, donde hablamos de todo lo relacionado con la fecundación in vitro y la gestación subrogada. Un aviso legal de responsabilidad. No soy médico ni abogado, sólo soy un padre que hace 12 años pasó por el proceso de subrogación para tener el mi...
2023-11-2600 minIVF DADDIES6) RICHARD'S STORY: THE LEGALITIES AND ESCROWWhen Richard first dreamed of becoming a father, he thought about the joys of parenthood, the miracle of life, and the responsibility of raising good humans. What he hadn't dreamt of were all the legal contracts.
Today, Richard walks through the legal processes involved in egg donation and surrogacy agreements. He shares what he learned about protecting himself, his family, and his surrogate with the help of legal contracts.
2023-11-2104 min
Modern GaysIVF Daddies: Starting Your Journey to ParenthoodIn this heartening episode of Modern Gays, we delve deep into the emotional and practical aspects of IVF and surrogacy for LGBTQ+ families. Joined by our insightful guests, Richard Westoby and Julio Gaggia of IVF Daddies, we explore the highs and lows of creating a family, discussing everything from choosing the right IVF clinic and surrogacy agency to the legal intricacies involved. This episode is not just a guide; it's a beacon of hope and understanding for anyone on or considering this path. Topics Discussed: Choosing the Right Clinic and Agency: The im...
2023-11-1427 minIVF DADDIES4) RICHARD'S SPERM COLLECTION STORYYou knew this was coming. (No pun intended.)
You can't make a baby without sperm—and providing it was the most uncomfortable moment of Richard's IVF journey. In today's episode he tells the entire sordid story, from pre-appointment manscaping to the waiting room walk of shame.
2023-11-0904 minIVF DADDIES3) RICHARD'S IVF STORY, THE SUCCESS RATEConfused by success rates? Richard was too.
In today's episode, we break down what fertility clinic success rates can—and can't—tell you about the fertility journey ahead. Join us as we dive into how success rates are calculated, how much they really matter, and what questions to ask your clinic.
2023-11-0105 minIVF DADDIES2) RICHARD'S SURROGACY STORY: THE IVF CLINICIn the first season of IVF Daddies, Richard walks through his own path to fatherhood step by step.
Every fertility journey is full of tough decisions, but it starts with the most important decision of all: am I ready to be a parent? In 2011, Richard Westoby decided that he was. This season is his firsthand account of how fatherhood went from a dream to a reality. We're here to tell you about it all, including all the bumps in the road, lessons learned, and what future parents should know before setting off on the same path.
2023-10-2506 min
IVF DADDIES1) RICHARD'S SURROGACY STORY: THE BEGINNINGIn the first season of IVF Daddies, Richard walks through his own path to fatherhood step by step.
Every fertility journey is full of tough decisions, but it starts with the most important decision of all: am I ready to be a parent? In 2011, Richard Westoby decided that he was. This season is his firsthand account of how fatherhood went from a dream to a reality. We're here to tell you about it all, including all the bumps in the road, lessons learned, and what future parents should know before setting off on the same path.
2023-10-1804 minIVF DADDIESIVF DADDIES TRAILERI am Richard Westerby, and welcome to the IVF Daddies podcast, where we discuss all things IVF and surrogacy. A disclaimer, I'm not a doctor, nor a lawyer. I'm just a dad who, 12 years ago, went through the surrogacy process to have my miracle twins. Since then, I have discovered my passion, which is helping others to create families.
And providing optimism during their road to Parenthood.
2023-10-1700 min