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Ending The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age100 Friends Swing By For The Centennial EpisodeTo celebrate our 100th episode, our sexy friends from Life on the Swingset come by to talk shop and swap stories. Show Links: Come play with us at Swingset Desire 2019 Life on the Swingset   Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook- Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com  2019-08-1800 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark AgeDungeon Night Debrief 2018This show is our annual Dungeon Night Debrief episode, recorded with a live audience at Desire Resort in Riviera Maya (Cancun) This is also the last of the old recordings, so we're caught up! Tune in next time for our centennial episode, when we'll be joined by our best friends in podcasting from Life on the Swingset.   Show Links: Come play with us at SS Desire 2019 Life on the Swingset   Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook- Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com  2019-07-2100 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark AgeTotal Desire Recall 2018 (Part 2)In the name of catching up, the next few episodes were previously recorded at and after Desire 2018 last November. This episode features JV, Shara,and the Swingset Crew recapping SS Desire 2018. Part 2 of 2   Show Links: Come play with us at SS Desire 2019 Life on the Swingset   Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook- Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com  2019-06-2300 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark AgeTotal Desire Recall 2018In the name of catching up, the next few episodes were previously recorded at and after Desire 2018 last November. This episode features JV, Shara, Tristan Taormino and the Swingset Crew recapping SS Desire 2018. Part 1 of 2   Show Links: Come play with us at SS Desire 2019 Life on the Swingset Pucker Up - Tristan's Sex-Positive home on the web. Sex Out Loud Podcast with Tristan Taormino Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com  2019-06-1500 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark AgeSo JV Almost Died Last Year...After a long hiatus induced by JV almost dying last year and taking months to recover, we're podcasting again! We've missed you, sexy friends!   Show Links:   Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com  2019-06-0400 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age095 Dungeon Night Debrief (Part 2) - Desire 2017 TakeoverPart 2 This year's Desire Resort takeover brought a new and improved Dungeon Night, and a couple dozen perverts decided to join our live audience recording the next day...where we were able to do an absinthe tasting thanks to the generosity of Swingerdoc & Sexxypixie. Many thanks to the Dungeon Crew, including Swingerdoc & Sexxypixie, Knotty Irish & Pet, and Maximus & Gabriella, and Duncan & Mrs. Duncan, Ophilia Tesla, and of course the illustrious Tristan Taormino, who was an absolute joy to work with but, alas, was hard at play while we were recording this episode. Listen t...2018-02-1100 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age094 Dungeon Night Debrief (Part 1) - Desire 2017 TakeoverThis year's Desire Resort takeover brought a new and improved Dungeon Night, and a couple dozen perverts decided to join our live audience recording the next day...where we were able to do an absinthe tasting thanks to the generosity of Swingerdoc & Sexxypixie. Many thanks to the Dungeon Crew, including Swingerdoc & Sexxypixie, Knotty Irish & Pet, and Maximus & Gabriella, and Duncan & Mrs. Duncan, Ophilia Tesla, and of course the illustrious Tristan Taormino, who was an absolute joy to work with but, alas, was hard at play while we were recording this episode. Listen to this episode f...2017-12-3000 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age093 Folsom Street Fair Edition (Part 2)Part 2 of our post-fair discussion. In the conclusion we talk more about our Saturday night play party (including Sexxypixie signing Shara's ass), vibrators with rolling unlock codes, and everyone gets together to give Gabriella her birthday spankings.   Thanks to our friends and fellow freaks, Swingerdoc & Sexxypixie, Knotty Irish & Pet, and Maximus & Gabriella for joining in on this episode!  Our Desire takeover now has only a handful of rooms left. Last chance to come play with us in paradise! SSDesire.com Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score yo...2017-10-0200 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age092 Folsom Street Fair Edition (Part 1)After Folsom Street Fair, we sat down with our friends to talk about the sights and scenes of the weekend. We talk more about Twisted Windows, especially Saki & Mayu's intense shibari performance, though the word "shibari" alone fails entirely to do it justice.  We also talk about our Saturday Night Play party, including Knotty with his florentine Hitachi act and someone fucking the bedpost after opening up for the Talking Stick. Thanks to our friends and fellow freaks, Swingerdoc & Sexxypixie, Knotty Irish & Pet, and Maximus & Gabriella for joining in on this episode!  Pi...2017-10-0100 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age091 Hotties Under The Collar: The Submissives Record Their Own EpisodeWhile we were in San Francisco for Folsom Street Fair, Shara and the other submissives recorded their own episode on Saturday evening while the doms were cooking dinner and otherwise entertaining themselves.  They spend a good bit of time unpacking the amazing kinky performances we'd seen at Twisted Windows the previous night, as well as getting up to their usual shenanigans. Many thanks to Sexypixie, Knotty's Pet and Gabriella for joining in on this episode! Our Desire takeover now has only a handful of rooms left. Last chance to come play with us i...2017-09-3000 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age090 Talking Kinky Sex With Tristan TaorminoPodcaster, Sex educator and prolific pornographer Tristan Taormino, who also happens to be our guest co-host for our upcoming Desire Resort takeover in November, joins us to talk about kinky sex and how she likes it. This episode was originally intended mostly be about ethical pornography, on which Tristan is also an expert, but we had a little too much fun talking kink so we're going to save that topic for a later episode, maybe even for some spontaneous podcasting on resort. Less than 15 rooms left for the takeover everyone. Come play with us! 2017-09-0400 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age089 Sexy Times In San Francisco and An Erotic Dinner With Our Gourmet LifeWe talk about some of the highlights of our sexy times in San Francisco, including an excellent evening spent at an erotic dinner hosted by Our Gourmet Life Chef Chris Hubbard   Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!     Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Our Gourmet Life by Chef Chris Hubbard Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com  2017-07-1000 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age088 Midori On Using Communication To Make Hot Play HappenWhile in San Francisco, we sit down with Midori to talk about using better communication to make hot play happen and get more out of it. Topics include turning "no" into something positive and learning to share your desires in a way that empowers you. Make Hot Play Happen with Marcia B. & Midori: Coming up in San Francisco August 5-6, 2017 and New York City October 28-29, 2017 ForteFemme: Women's Dominance Weekend Intensive coming up in San Franciso August 11-13, 2017 and New York City October 6-8, 2017 Listen to this episode for a discount co...2017-06-0900 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age087 Interview With Cooper S Beckett On His New Book "Approaching The Swingularity"  Our sexy friend Cooper S Beckett from Life on the Swingset joins us to talk about (and read from) his swinging new novel, "Approaching The Swingularity." Click below to buy directly from his website, or wherever books are sold.     Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints CooperSBeckett.com Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show...2017-04-2000 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age086 Fetish Club Reviews: Choice Social and Galleria Domain 2We've been doing some traveling this year, and part of that has been visiting new and interesting fetish clubs. In this episode we talk about our time at: Galleria Domain 2 in Chicago Choice Social Club in Rhode Island We were also honored to be present for the closing night of Alter Ego in Rhode Island, and we're pleased to report that a filthy, kinky time was had by all. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!2017-04-0400 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age085 LotSS 279 Desire Takeover 2016 Recap & LIfe On The Swingset 7th AnniversaryIn this supersize episode, Shara and I join our friends from Life on the Swingset to reminisce about our Desire Resort takeover back in November. This is also a special Swingset episode, as it marks the show's seventh anniversary! The content of this episode was originally released as Life On The Swingset Episode 279. Lastly and on a sad note, we've had to cancel our April trip to Desire due to work conflicts. We'll make up for it in November.   Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% o...2017-03-1800 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age084 Interview With Midori (Part 2) On Her Female Dominance Intensive: ForteFemme, Our New Toys From Fetish Fair FleaDuring our trip to Fetish Fair Fleamarket, we had the opportunity to sit down with legendary kink educator Midori for one of our favorite interviews ever. This episode includes the conclusion of that interview, in which we talk about ForteFemme, Midori's weekend intensive on female dominance. But, we start by discussing Shara's newfound desire to be gang-topped (which JV learned about while recording), and our new toys from Fetish Fair Flea. If you'd like to learn more about Midori and her course offerings (and you should): Rope Dojo: 2 day rope bondage intensive in Sa...2017-03-0900 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age083 Interview with Midori (Part 1) On Kinky Archetypes And The True Meaning of BDSMDuring our trip to Fetish Fair Fleamarket, we had the opportunity to sit down with legendary kink educator Midori for one of our favorite interviews ever. This episode includes most of that interview (more to come next week). We talk about lead/follow archetypes that can assist us deconstructing our kinky tendencies and desires in a way that allows for superior communication, followed up by a great conversation on her definition of BDSM, which is far more insightful than mere discussion of the words behind the acronym. If you'd like to learn more about Midori and...2017-03-0300 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age082 PTSD & BDSMOur long-time medical advisor finally joins us on the show to continue a discussion about PTSD & BDSM play that began a few episodes ago with a listener question. Sadly, due to some technical issues, we had to use the Skype recording of our interview and thus do not have the benefit of the new studio's awesomeness. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual D...2017-03-0100 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age081 New Year, New StudioAfter a crazy holiday season, we ring in the new year with a new studio setup, and we hope you love the new sound as much as we do. Please let us know what you think! This is a laid back episode full of sexy stories about sexy friends, as well as the announcement of our April group vacation, the Dark Side of Desire, from 4/15 to 4/20. Contact Jim@chartravel.com for pricing and more info! Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you...2017-01-0500 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age080 Dungeon Desire DM RoundupOn November 9th, the disco at Desire Resort became a dungeon for the first time and it was an amazing night. Shara and I could never have pulled it off without the support and assistance of several other kinky couples who acted as both dungeon masters and service tops all evening, and this episode was about bringing them on the show and capturing some of the incredible energy. Want to see what our humble dungeon looked like before the action started? Visit our Facebook album Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10...2016-11-2100 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age079 PTSD Triggers, BDSM Play, and The Perils of Looking For Dominants OnlineA submissive from Down Under asks questions about navigating the realm of BDSM when you have PTSD from sexual and physical abuse, including looking for a dominant online. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com2016-10-2300 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age078 Orgasms On CommandA listener question about orgasms on command inspired an impromptu recording in paradise, which later inspired (and is included in) this episode. Honestly, it was a blast to both record and edit this one. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com  2016-10-0700 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age077 Desire Takeover Special with Jim from Char TravelJim from Char Travel joins us for this special episode about the upcoming (nearly 100% booked!) Desire Resort takeover in November Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com2016-10-0600 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age076 Swing Club Strikeouts and Erotic AsphyxiationFor our first episode in a while we talk a bit about Shara's fondness for erotic asphyxiation, as well as a listener question about striking out at swing clubs that Ginger and Prof were kind enough to answer with us. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com2016-08-0800 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age075 Thirty Naked People And A Microphone 2015This year for Swingset Takes Desire we hosted a bunch of kinky events, and a great time was had by all. This discussion-group style episode was recorded live on our last full day at the resort, full of reminiscence of good times had and great ideas for next year's full-resort takeover. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" A...2015-11-2400 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age074 Kinky Listener Mail - Munches, Kinky Monotony, Threesomes, Performance AnxietyGinger & The Prof join us again to pitch in discussing some kinky listener mail topics, including getting the confidence up to attend your first munch, dealing with sexual monotony when your kinky play becomes so predictable it feels like vanilla sex all over again, kinky threesome concerns, and performance anxiety after prostate removal surgery. We'd like to welcome Audible as a new sponsor! CLICK HERE to get a free audio book and a 30 day free trial! Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order...2015-09-0200 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age073 Getting Kinky In Paradise with Ginger & The ProfGinger & The Prof from Life on the Swingset (and their own upcoming podcast Intellectual Foreplay--we can't wait!) join us to reminisce about our trip to Desire in April...and plot what sorts of trouble we can cause on our upcoming trips in November 2015 and April 2016.  Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make! Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have adv...2015-06-0700 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age072 Recovering From Sexual Assault: Interviews With Victims Who've Become Educators & AdvocatesA listener asks for advice on recovering from a rape she suffered three years ago. We interview two other sexual abuse/assault survivors who share their experiences with recovery. Interview Guests: Dawn Serra is a sex an intimacy coach who has personal experience with rape and sexual assault. She is also co-host of the Sex Gets Real Podcast Megan Allen is a sex educator friendly to all types of adult sexuality and owner of the Facebook sex education page The Downstairs. She also works at Forbidden Fruit Toys in Austin, TX and is a...2015-05-1600 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age071 Interview: Private Gym Creator David Mandell On Better, Stronger Cocks Through Kegel Exercises for MenThis episode was recorded at CatalystCon in front of a live studio audience. We have a great conversation with David Mandell, creator of the Private Gym Pelvic Muscle Exercise System For Men, on this revolutionary (and FDA registered) system for improving sexual performance and overall male sexual health through simple exercises that any guy can learn. Follow @TrainPrivateGym on twitter or check them out on Facebook  Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make! Please take a few moments to fill out a...2015-04-0200 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age070 Budget Bondage For Beginners And Other Cost Conscious KinkA listener request for advice on bondage gear that doesn't cost a fortune led us on a winding road that ended with a new sponsor! This episode begins with a discussion of "pervertables" that can be found in various vanilla venues, then transitions into a discussion of the awesome gear we got from Extreme Restraints for not a lot of cash. Be sure to listen to the episode for a coupon code worth 20% off your entire order for a limited time! They also have a first time buyer bonus that lets you choose from a few really...2015-02-1200 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age069 Interview: Dee Dennis, Founder/Organizer of CatalystConDee Dennis joins us to talk about CatalystCon, a conference created to inspire exceptional conversations about sexuality. Follow @DeeDennis and @CatalystCon on Twitter Enter code "DARKAGE" at registration for 10 bucks off! Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT provide your email if you prefer. Also, please remember that this is a demo...2015-01-1500 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age068 Interview: Cooper Beckett On His New Book, "My Life On The Swingset"Cooper Beckett joins us to talk about his new book, My Life On The Swingset, which chronicles the ups, downs and sideways shimmies of his first six years practicing ethical non-monogamy, in a way that really brings the reader along for the ride. Ebook now available, hard copies to be released by March. Click Below To Buy On Amazon  Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to...2015-01-0600 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age067 Sex News 12/21/14 | Condoms In Porn, Semen Fights Depression, The Pill Affects Attraction, Orgasms & Brain Science, FL Same-Sex Marriage, Naked RevengeThis is our first experimental run at a "Sex News" format. If we work out the kinks (giggity), it may become either something we do every couple episodes or even a spin-off show. See the bottom of the post for links to all the news articles discussed in this episode. Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY...2014-12-2100 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age066 Same-Sexploration, Munch Shyness and a Stinky CowboyTopics include a younger guy with concerns about being attracted to other guys, a woman wondering how to work up the courage to go to a kinky munch, and a cowboy getting kicked out of bed for an odor problem he's not sure exists Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT provide your...2014-12-0900 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age065 Live From Desire - Ending The Sexual Dark Age on The SwingsetThis episode is one of our favorites to date, mostly because it was SO much fun to record. JV and Shara are joined by Cooper, Miko and Prof from Life on the Swingset, as well as a couple dozen other sexy naked people, for an open-mic discussion group towards the end of our amazing week at Desire. Other than inserting a couple commercial breaks, this is completely unedited. We hope to have an announcement very soon regarding an expanded trip next year, with Shara and JV heading up the expansion (giggity). Please take a few...2014-11-2600 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age064 Dealing With An Asexual RelationshipA listener asks for advice on dealing with a relationship that's great in almost every respect, except that it's never taken off sexually. This was originally recorded to be episode 63, but never got published due to technical issues which have now been corrected. Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT provide...2014-11-2300 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age063 Back From DesireShara and I just spent a week in paradise at Swingset Takes Desire 2014, and this episode is our stream-of-consciousness wrap up of the trip and return to regular podcasting...for realsies this time.  Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT provide your email if you prefer. Also, please remember that this is a d...2014-11-2100 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age062 Cum and Chemo, Swallowing Advice, Toning Down Your Dominant Side, Swinging In CancunA guy with stage 4 cancer needs to know if his submissive will be swallowing his chemotherapy drugs along with his jizz (see link below), advice on toning down your dominant side when it's too much for your partner, and tips on how to swallow a big load at the end of a blowjob without gagging. JV was recently a guest on the Men's Family Law Podcast with awesome host attorney David Pisarra to talk about the impact of sex on a healthy relationship and a bunch of other fun topics. JV and Shara are confirmed fo...2014-06-2900 minMen\'s Family Law PodcastMen's Family Law PodcastMen's Family Law #020 SEX | JV AltharasMen's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra talks about how important sex is to a marriage and if you're not getting it, it may be time to get out and get a divorce.   Irreconcilable differences is a catch all phrase for why to get a divorce and it's explained in this episode.   THIS IS AN EXPLICIT CONVERSATION FOR ADULTS. IT'S RAUNCHY IN PLACES AND NOT FOR THE FAINT OF HEART.   Today's guest is JV Altharas from Ending the Sexual Dark Age Podcast. We cha...2014-06-2536 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age061 Ending The Sexual Dark Age On The Swingset - Polyamory, Pegging, Eating Creampies and Much More!We join our friends from the Swingset for the first time in far too long! Topics of conversation include advice on polyamory, eating creampies, pegging, and whatever else wandered through our minds. This episode is available as both episode 61 of our show and episode 161 of Life On The Swingset. Show Links: Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Life On The Swingset Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a...2014-06-1100 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age060 The Hiatus EndethWe finally talk about our Vegas wrap up, as well as talking about some fun ways to break sexual monotony. New interviews are coming soon on our show, and we'll be recording with our friends on the swingset very soon. Overall this episode was just a light, fun way to get back to recording. It's great to be back! Show Links: Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs...2014-05-2900 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age059 Talking Dirty, Overbearing Parents, Bringing the Kink BackA concerned boyfriend is looking for tips to help his girl stand up to her controlling parents, a submissive needs help getting comfortable with talking dirty, and another submissive wants to bring sexy back to her marriage by bringing the kink back. Show Links: Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com2014-01-1300 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age058 Cannibalism Fetish, Kegel Exercises For The Blind, Muscle Relaxers Suppressing OrgasmsTopics include a listener's struggle with his gynophagia (aka Cannibalism Fetish), a blind couple asking for detailed verbal instructions for doing Kegel exercises, and a woman on muscle relaxers who might be incapable of feeling pleasure from her orgasms because of them. Show Links: Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com2013-12-2300 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age057 BDSM and Virginity, Taking Constructive Criticism As A Submissive, Books for New Dominants, Hot For TeacherListener mail topics include a woman with questions about both losing her virginity and learning to enjoy masturbation, finding the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, major fetish publications that may be looking for models, JV's new project to test his female orgasm intensification training, and Shara's support group for local submissives. If you know a good place to hook up with the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, please comment below to help a listener out. If you know of major fetish publications that are looking for models, please comment below to assist another listener. 2013-11-2400 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age056 Masturbation, Virginity, Orgasm Training, Submissive Support Group, Fetish ModelingListener mail topics include a woman with questions about both losing her virginity and learning to enjoy masturbation, finding the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, major fetish publications that may be looking for models, JV's new project to test his female orgasm intensification training, and Shara's support group for local submissives. If you know a good place to hook up with the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, please comment below to help a listener out. If you know of major fetish publications that are looking for models, please comment below to assist another listener. 2013-11-1000 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age055 We're Not Dead, Deep Throating Tips, Breath Play/Erotic Asphyxiation, Party in Vegas for the AVN ExpoIndeed, we're not dead and it's great to be back to podcasting. Many thanks to those who emailed and kept in touch while we were more or less MIA, we're looking forward to seeing how much of the audience is still tuned in. In this episode, we address some listener requests for more detailed tips on deep throating a cock, talk about Shara's new love for being choked while she's getting fucked, and discuss our upcoming trip to Las Vegas in January for the AVN Adult Entertainment Expo (stay tuned for more info on that). ...2013-11-0200 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age054 Adultery Isn't CoolWe discuss a listener question from a lesbian who's been pretty thoroughly cheated on by her long-time partner, which leads into a broader discussion of adultery and why cheating sucks on so many levels. Show Links: New Facebook Page for Ending The Sexual Dark Age Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com2012-12-0400 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age053 Getting Girls, Breaking The Swing Ice, The Gift of Panties, Kegel Exercise OrgasmsTopics include advice for a younger guy on how to replace masturbation with real women, advice for a couple who's almost certain their friends want to swing with them but aren't sure how to break the ice without being embarassed, thoughts for a girl whose younger brother asked for a pair of her panties to keep, and the possibliity of having vaginal orgasms for the first time by doing your kegel exercises so you can clamp down on your playmate. Show Links: New Facebook Page for Ending The Sexual Dark Age Sponsored By: AdamAndEve...2012-09-2500 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age052 FFM Threesomes: Seducing Women As A Couple, First Vibrator AdviceTwo listener questions from women about getting another girl in bed for a threesome, including topics such as making an approach or opening the door, how to tell if another woman is into you, and the option of using swinger events to scope out potential playmates. We also talk about choosing your first vibrator, and Shara makes some specific recommendations from her EXTENSIVE personal experience :) All the sex-positive awesomeness now appearing on the website will also appears on our new Facebook page (along with a lot more), so please stop by and "Like" it next time you...2012-09-1400 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age051 Vaginoplasty, Loss of Focus During SexWe begin with a discussion about the various types of vaginoplasty being peddled to women as elective surgeries (as if pussy suddenly became unattractive or something), then move into ways a 25 year old newlywed can battle her loss of focus during sex. No, it isn't an urban legend that some women thing about doing the laundry during sex. Yes, there are things that can be done about it, and most of them are a lot of fun. All the sex-positive awesomeness now appearing on the website will also appears on our new Facebook page (along with a...2012-09-0500 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age050 Relationships: Re-Lighting The Fire When The Sex Has Dried UpWe talk about ways you can try re-lighting the fire when your sex life with your playmate has gone frigid. This is a response to a question from a male listener, and the answer involves getting into good habits with non-sexual intimacy as well as the possiblity of therapy, but (as always) we recommend trying to sort things our yourselves before calling in backup. Check out the episode's post on sexualdarkage.com to see our brand new bell (courtesy of LK from facebook), as well as the lame-ass tickler Shara picked to be spanked with (well played...2012-08-2600 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age049 Weight Loss & Sex Drive, Review Of KY Yours & Mine, Squirting and How She Can Say "Thank You," On Air Spankings For SharaWe review KY Yours & Mine (TM) Edible sex enhancer, Shara gets birthday spankings on the air...one smack for every person who wished her "happy birthday" on Facebook, a listener question about how to cope with increased sex drive after weight loss when it's combined with a desire to see how many people you can keep interested at once, and another listener question about the best way a wife can show her appreciation for a husband who just figured out how to make her squirt. All the sex-positive awesomeness now appearing on the website will also be...2012-08-1800 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age048 Bad Blowjobs, What A Female Orgasm Feels LikeTopics for this show are bad blowjobs (and how a diligent cocksucker can avoid giving one), as well as the plight of a woman who's not quite sure she's ever had an orgasm. Shara has a great time describing what an orgasm feels like for her, and we'd like to ask all the ladies in the audience to help out as well by doing their best to describe the physical sensations that make up an orgasm for you. This episode marks the second anniversary of Ending The Sexual Dark Age, and we're thrilled to be starting a...2012-08-0800 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age047 Birthday Spankings for Shara, Toxic Sex Toys, Dating Confidence IssuesShara gets a full round of birthday spankings to start the show, then we talk a little more about painful boners (continued from episode 46), a listener's favorite dildo that also causes burning pain, and addressing self-confidence issues to improve dating success. Show Links: Peyronie's Disease Info from NIHSponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise. Show website: SexualDarkAge.com2012-08-0200 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age046 Cheating Swingers, Painful Boners, Working in the Adult Industry, Becoming A Phone Sex OperatorListener questions about working in the adult industry, how to deal when one half of your favorite couple to swing with turns out to be a cheater, what to do about a painful boner and how to become a phone sex operator. In an effort to cut down on production time, we're releasing a virtually un-edited episode this time. Let us know what you think :) Show Links: How to Become A Phone Sex OperatorSponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE...2012-07-2400 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age045 BDSM Advice: Collars, BDSM Checklists, Assertive Submission, Rape FantasiesKink-oriented listener questions on topics including collars in BDSM play and relationships, where to find BDSM checklists and how to get the most out of them, how a submissive can be assertive about getting kinky play without acting dominant, the purported correlation between childhood sexual abuse and sexual submission, and rape fantasies. Show Links: Printable BDSM Checklist Links to Lots of Sexy Surveys (including the one above) Kink-Aware Professionals in therapy, law and other fields Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any...2012-04-0100 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age044 Advice Line: Swinging Etiquette, Squirting, Kinky Punishment PlayListener questions from a swing-curious couple who had a chat with prospective playmates go sideways when boundaries were ignored, a woman with an issue that pops up at the brink of orgasm, a woman who wants to know what guys think of squirting, and a woman wondering how to react when her dom-curious boyfriend says he wants to punish her but she hasn't done anything wrong. Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise. ...2012-03-2100 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age043 The Clitoris: Things You Probably Don't KnowWe talk in-depth about the clitoris, including some great info revealed by recent research. Show Links: After Dinner Party: A Two-Pronged, Art Centered Clitoris Education Project Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise. Show website: SexualDarkAge.com All images re-posted with permission from After Dinner Party. For the original post plus lots of educational material on the clitoris, you can go straight to the Clitoris page, but I recommend starting with the Intro.               2012-02-2300 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age042 BDSM Guide: Feminism and Sexual SubmissionAs we return from hiatus we reply to a listener's questions about her mental conflict between her feminist ideals and the concept of sexual submission. We also announce the digital re-release of the collected works of Tree of Shadows, J.V.'s band from back in the day. Show Links: Feminist Sex Submissive? How I Reconcile My Politics With My Sex Life Tree of Shadows online Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn...2012-01-1800 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age041 Advice Line: Too Many Orgasms, Getting Back On Track After Poor Performance, Men Intimidated By Confident Women, Post-Wedding Lack Of SexListener questions including a wife who feels guilty about how easily and often she can come with a new toy, getting back on track after a really bad sexual performance, men being intimidated by sexually confident, indpendent women and a young lady who's not getting nearly enough cock after her wedding. Lady of the Drake, an erotic fantasy novel from the same filthy mind that brings you this podcast, is now available wherever e-books are sold for $6.99 retail. Don't forget to step up for a 1 in 10 chance to win a limited edition signed/numbered print copy by...2011-11-1600 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age040 BDSM Guide: Sexual Dominance Part 2, Communication, Reading Your Sub, Bondage, Hair Pulling, Giving Orders, Throat Fucking and Pain Play for New DomsPart 2 of our guide to sexual dominance focuses on tips and tricks for introducing BDSM to your play time without doing anything intimidating or obnoxious. This episode covers how a dominant can establish and enhance their power through communication, using observation to make it seem like you can read your sub's mind, getting started with bondage, sensual hair pulling, finding out if throat fucking is on the menu, giving orders and getting your submissive to thank you for it, using pussy spanking and nipple pinching as an introduction to pain play, and the basics of aftercare for dominants and...2011-10-2500 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age039 Advice Line: Vaginism, Struggling With Monogamy, Bisexuality and BicuriosityTopics include Vaginism / Vaginismus and how to discuss the issue at the beginning of a relationship, a woman who loves her husband and family but is struggling with non-monogamous desires and questions from two listeners on bi-curiosity and bisexuality. One is a girl attracted to other girls but unable to get off on lesbian porn, and the other is a guy who likes certain specific play with other guys but isn't sure if the label "bisexual" fits.  We also come up with a fun t-shirt contest for our homework assignment on bitching about the opposite sex. 2011-10-0100 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age038 BDSM Guide: Sexual Dominance Part 1, Getting Your Head In The Right SpaceThe first installment of our guide on how to be a sexual dominant, the philosophy of dominance, dom space and why it's awesome, understanding what power the dominant does and doesn't have, discipline vs. punishment, and a bunch of other fundamentals to help fledgling dominants on their way to learning the proper care and feeding of a sexual submissive. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise.2011-09-1300 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age037 Advice Line: Sex-Positive Christians, Condom Problems, Praying Away The GayListener questions and comments on erectile dysfunction directly related to condoms, Christians doing their best to be sex-positive, and the "ex-gay" movement (which produces Shara's first rant on the show). Shara and I also talk about some upcoming audio erotica that we're doing for Ravenous Romance, the re-release of Episode 36 with Shara doing the female dialogue, and the show's first birthday. Also, Shara gets her birthday spankings on the air :) Show Links: Show website: SexualDarkAge.com The post that inspired Questioner's comment: Christian Blogger Claims 70% of Women Don't Deserve Orgasms. 2011-08-2200 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age036.1 Audio Erotica: "A Shalar Is Born"NEW CUT with Shara sounding hot as hell playing the part of Celeste. A quick, kinky tale of a farmgirl who gets more than she bargained for when she throws herself at the local blacksmith. This story is a prequel to "Lady of the Drake," coming fall 2011 from Ravenous Romance. Read this story at TwistedErotica.com Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise.2011-08-0300 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age035 Advice Line: Painful Anal, Menstrual Sex, BDSM Mentoring, Female Masturbation for BeginnersListener questions and comments on topics including terrible sex advice, accidental anal, the challenges of a small woman taking a big cock in the ass, easy ways to deal with the mess that comes with menstrual sex, BDSM mentoring and helping a submissive you're not sexually involved with find a dom, and some advice for a young woman who can't figure out how to enjoy masturbation. Show Links: Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide for Men, Women and Couples by Jack Morin (At Amazon) Tristan Taormino's Expert Guide to Anal Sex (At Amazon)2011-07-1700 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age034 Anal Sex Guide: Why Guys Want It, Anal Porn, Anal Health and Safety, Ass Play With ToysUnderstanding the ass as a sex object, how to play without causing damage or injury, why guys want to fuck women in the ass in the first place, ass-to-pussy and ass-to-mouth as they relate to disease, use of condoms and finger cots for anal sex and ass play, the importance of relaxation to good ass fucking experiences, the morning after, and a bunch of other fun stuff related to butt fucking in general...including a list of surprising items removed from people's asses in hospitals. Show Links: Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide for Men...2011-06-3000 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age033 Advice Quickie: Coming Out As A Bisexual Guy When You're A SwingerThis quickie bonus episode represents a great collaboration between Ending the Sexual Dark Age and Life on the Swingset.  The Swingset pitches in to answer a question from an experienced swinging guy who's concerned about coming out to the swing community as a bisexual.  Many thanks to Cooper, Ginger, Dylan and Shira for lending a hand on this one. Show Website:  SexualDarkAge.com Our Friends:  LifeOnTheSwingset.com2011-06-2400 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age032 Advice Line: How To Ride A Cock, Making Your Own Bondage Gear, Dealing With Male Sexual Stamina IssuesThis listener mail episode includes questions on how to get good at riding a cock like a cowgirl, tips on making your own bondage gear and fetish wear on the cheap, and dealing with the psychological fallout of male stamina issues. Show Website:  SexualDarkAge.com Sponsored By:  AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get half off just about any item, free shipping, free porn and a free sexy surprise.2011-06-1500 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age031 Swinging Part 2: BDSM, Single Swingers, Bisexuality, Open RelationshipsWe're once again joined by Cooper and Ginger from Life on the Swingset for a lively discussion on ethical non-monogamy that covers topics including BDSM in the swing community, single swingers and the different challenges faced by men and women as singles, bisexual curiosity, swinging vs. open relationships, sex related injuries, couples playing together or apart, keeping the mood intact when something goes haywire, and double vaginal penetration. Yeah, it's a super-sized episode. We also do a fun little experiment in interactive podcasting, with Cooper and Ginger deciding what Shara gets spanked with on the...2011-06-0100 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age030 Advice Line: Anal & Hemorrhoids, Handling Girth With Your Mouth, Sex & New Parents, The Down Side of Safe Words In Kinky PlayTopics include getting laid as a new mom when dad isn't being terribly helpful, how to comfortably deal with a big dick in the mouth (and in the back door with hemorrhoids as a complication), a discussion on the good and bad aspects of safewords in BDSM play, and some general questions regarding dominant/submissive relationships. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com2011-05-1800 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age029 Swinging Part 1: Tips For Newbie Swingers, Jealousy, Swinger Parties, Finding Swingers OnlineThis time we're joined by Cooper and Ginger from Life on the Swingset to have a fun conversation about the joys ethical nonmonogamy.  In fact, we were having so much fun that we didn't get to half the topics we wanted to discuss, so we'll be reconvening our foursome to finish the interview in a couple weeks for Swinging Part 2.Some of the issues we cover in this episode include: How to safely and comfortably dip a toe into swinging when you've got no idea if it's right for you, jealousy and how to make it a n...2011-05-0300 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age028 Advice Line: Bi-Bashing Gays, Soft-Selling Your Kinky Side, A Sexual Fresh Start, Teaching A Guy To Be A DominantTopics include bisexuality, online dating, introducing a vanilla husband to sexual dominance, re-stoking the sexual fires of a relationship and dealing with new potential playmates who expect a full blown Dominatrix as soon as a woman mentions kink. Show Links: Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com Kink-positive books for newbies (at Amazon): Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism The Loving Dominant2011-04-2100 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age027 Group Sex Basics: Threesomes, Swinging, Polyamory, Orgies, Bi-Curiosity, Limits And Safe WordsSome of the basic concepts and philosophies of group sex as well as some of the pitfalls of threesomes and couples playing together, including how bi-curiosity can come into play and how you can encourage a curious playmate without pushing too hard.  This episode begins an arc of topics on group play, swinging, polyamory and other flavors of non-monogamy. Show website: SexualDarkAge.com2011-04-0600 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age026 Gays In The U.S. MilitaryAn in-depth interview with a career military man, who gives us a behind-the-scenes look at the modern soldier's real attitudes towards serving with gays and lesbians; as well as sharing the straight story on the Pentagon's new policy and what it means to the people who will actually be dealing with it.   Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com2011-03-2200 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age025 Advice Line: A Granny Beats A Public Masturbator With A Dildo, Moving Past Sexual Trauma, Numbness From Vibrators, Double Penetration HesitationA story about a little old lady chasing a public masturbator with a giant dildo, a woman contemplating celibacy due to sexual disappointments, clitoral numbness from frequent use of vibrators, and a guy looking for a middle ground on his fiance's desire to get double teamed. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com2011-03-1500 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age024 Homophobia, Bisexuality, How Society Teaches Gay Hate, Homosexuality In The Ancient WorldA discussion of homophobia, social issues and myths surrounding homosexuality and bisexuality, in preparation for some fun topics like swinging, group sex and poly.    Show Website: http://www.sexualdarkage.com2011-03-0800 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age023 Advice Line: Getting Hubby On Board For Kinky Sex, Helping Guys With Size Paranoia, Helping A Nice Girl Find Her Slutty SideA horny mom seeks help sorting through her recently discovered sex overdrive, advice for women looking to help keep their guys from needlessly obsessing about the size of their tools and a Dom looking for help unlocking the kinky side of a "nice girl." Show Website: http://www.sexualdarkage.com2011-02-2100 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age022 Sex On Location: Having Sex In Cars, On The Beach, Around The House, Outdoors, In The Shower And MoreTips on sex in public and in private that does NOT involve a bed or a bedroom, including sex in and on cars, in the water and whatever horizontal surfaces you might have in your home. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com2011-02-1400 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age021 Advice Line: Cock Rings, Sex Journals, Masturbation Stigmas, Polyamorous ComplicationsCelebrating the first six months of the show, J.V. and Shara look back on some highlights, talk about topics including sex journals, women who frown on masturbation and polyamorous complications.  A new section of the website and the show's Android App are also announced. Show Links: Show Website:  Sexualdarkage.com New section of the website: Confessions of a Dirty Mind2011-02-0700 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age020 Audio Erotica "The Taking of Ariel"A sensual tale of erotic fantasy introducing the Realm of Aeodar, a publication announcement for one of J.V.'s short stories, and a bit of inspirational heavy metal from the archives.   Show Links: Read "The Taking of Ariel" on TwistedErotica.com Ravenous Romance  2011-01-3100 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age019 BDSM Basics Part 2: Negotiating Scenes, Fetish Parties & Clubs, Defining "Fetish," Introducing BDSM To Your Relationship, Listener Questions On KinkA wrap up on the most basic concepts of BDSM including group play, fetish clubs, negotiating scenes, bringing kink into your relationship and the meaning of the word "fetish," as well as a couple kink related listener mail items. Show Links: Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com Fetlife.com J.V. on Fetlife Shara on Fetlife2011-01-2400 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age018 Advice Line: Why Guys Like Facial Cumshots, Laser Pube Removal, Unsafe Sex Toys, False Accusations of CheatingTopics include why guys like blowing loads all over women, laser hair removal for balls and pussies, how to spot and avoid using unsafe sex toys that can leech chemicals and cause problems, being constantly accused of cheating when you're not (and how it can make you want to cheat just to balance the scales) and how to deal with a guy who doesn't care if he can give his woman an orgasm.  Suprisingly, my suggestion is not to beat him unconscious with a fifteen inch dildo. Show Links: Coalition Against Toxic Toys: Smart Shopper's G...2011-01-1700 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age017 BDSM Basics Part 1: What 'BDSM' Means, Marquis DuSade, Sadism vs. Sadomasochism, Safe Words, Munches, BDSM PornA beginner's guide to understanding BDSM.  This jumbo sized episode covers the definitions of: the acronym "BDSM", Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism & Masochism as well as Sadomasochism.  We also talk about soft limits, hard limits, the Marquis DuSade, Safe Words, SSC (Safe, Sane & Consentual) Play vs. RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink), Polyamory in the BDSM Lifestyle, finding a local or online BDSM community and what you should keep in mind when watching BDSM porn (and how it can help you find your own inner freak). Show Website:  SexualDarkAge.com2011-01-1000 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age016 Advice Line: Health Issues With Ass-To-Pussy, Pussy Shaving Woes, Music And Sex, Hospital-Grade Ball ShavingTopics include health concerns regarding ass-to-mouth and ass-to-pussy musical holes, the difficulties some women have shaving their pussies, a method to shave balls used in hospitals for surgery-prep, and making music part of your sex play. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com2010-12-2700 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age015 Audio Erotica "Timing Is Everything"Something a little different this time, with J.V. reading an original erotic short story.2010-12-2000 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age014 Laryngitis SucksIt seems my vocal cords have decided to stage an insurrection, so I apologize for not being able to put out a full episode this weekend.  I hope to get back to regularly scheduled programming in a few days once I slap my vocal cords back in line.2010-12-1300 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age013 Advice Line: Taking Virginity, Managing Two Subs In A Threesome, Sexual PiercingsTopics include taking virginity, managing two submissives in a threesome, Prince Alberts and whether piercings in general improve sexual stimulation. Show Website:  SexualDarkAge.com2010-12-0600 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age012 Cunni Linguistics: How To Be Good At Licking Pussy And Why Shaving Improves Oral SexThe art of eating at the Y is examined from several angles with a bunch of, tricks and ideas for newbies and connoisseurs.  Included are the anatomy of a pussy (where you find the clit and how to make it happy), rythm and style, why a shaved pussy will probably get licked a lot more often and a sniff test that can save you from an awkward moment. Show Website: Sexualdarkage.com2010-11-2900 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age011 Advice Line: Threesome Insecurity, An Awesome Oral Sex Game, Age-Inappropriate Relationships, Fixing A Lame Sex LifeSpecific tips on making your own Dupli-Dong, a great website for learning more about the practices of BDSM, a bi female submissive asks for advice on head space in threesomes with another girl, a sex game you might never have thought of, thoughts on age inappropriate/lolita relationships and some tips for a guy trying to get his sex life out of high school now that he's almost done with college.2010-11-2200 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age010 The Art of Smoking Pole: Why Blowjobs Are Important, How To Suck A Dick and How Shaving Can Get You Blown More OftenA thorough explanation of why guys love getting head so much, why no one has an excuse not to go down, and lots of tips on how to be a better cocksucker.  Includes The myth that it's demeaning to women; the options to spit, swallow or wear it, how to make jizz taste better, how shaving your balls can get you blown better and more often, general blowjob tips. Show Website: Sexualdarkage.com2010-11-1500 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age009 Advice Line: Curing Prostatitis, A Woman Who Can't Masturbate to Climax, Introducing Kink To Your BedroomYet another benefit to spanking the monkey for guys, advice to a woman who can climax with a guy but not alone, a listener coping with a dead relationship, and some tips on introducing BDSM to a historically vanilla sex life.2010-11-0700 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age008 Sex Toys Rock: Why Every Woman Should Own Dildos and Vibrators, How Guys Can Take Advantage Of ThemThe history and variety of sex toys for both men and women is examined, along with methods for bringing toys into your playtime if you haven't in the past.2010-11-0100 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age007 Masturbation is Good For YouThe ins, outs, ups and downs of literally taking things into your own hands.2010-10-1800 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age006 Advice Line: Getting Over Shyness To Talk About Sex With Your LoverA quickie bonus episode covering listener mail and comments, upcoming topics on the show, and a bit of advice for a particularly shy listener who wants to learn how to get up the guts to have honest conversations about sex with a playmate.  I also introduce my submissive Shara for the first time on the show.2010-10-0800 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age005 Religion And Sexual ShameAn extremely critical look at the history of religion and shame.  As a note of warning, some listeners have described this episode as a rant. 2010-10-0400 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age004 Male Sexual Stamina: How To Love Her Long TimeEpisode 4 covers the various ins and outs of male stamina, starting with dispelling myths and understanding realistic expectations; then moving on to methods that can be used by both men and women to improve performance and longevity.2010-09-1900 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age003 Meet The Female Orgasm: Fake Orgasms, Women Who Can't Climax, Orgasm DenialA variety of topics relating to the female orgasm are covered, from why fake orgasms are the worst thing that's ever happened to female sexuality, to how to use orgasm denial to push climaxes to new heights. Show website:  Sexuadarkage.com2010-09-0600 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age002 Size Matters...Kinda: The Truth About Cock Size and Tit SizeA lot of men and women spend a lot of time obsessing about the size of certain key parts of their anatomies.  This episode debunks a lot of common misconceptions about how much size matters in sex and sexual attraction, as well as the brutal truth about the various ways you can make your cock or tits bigger if you really can't get past your obsession.  The reality is, even if you stress about the size of your dick or rack, there's a 70% chance your playmate is totally fine with it. Podcast Website:  Sexualdarkage.com2010-08-2200 min