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Ending The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark AgeTotal Desire Recall 2018 (Part 2)In the name of catching up, the next few episodes were previously recorded at and after Desire 2018 last November. This episode features JV, Shara,and the Swingset Crew recapping SS Desire 2018. Part 2 of 2   Show Links: Come play with us at SS Desire 2019 Life on the Swingset   Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook- Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com  2019-06-2300 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age098 Total Desire Recall 2018 (Part 2)In the name of catching up, the next few episodes were previously recorded at and after Desire 2018 last November. This episode features JV, Shara,and the Swingset Crew recapping SS Desire 2018. Part 2 of 2   Show Links:   - Show Website: ...2019-06-2300 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age098 Total Desire Recall 2018 (Part 2)In the name of catching up, the next few episodes were previously recorded at and after Desire 2018 last November. This episode features JV, Shara,and the Swingset Crew recapping SS Desire 2018. Part 2 of 22019-06-231h 00Ending The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark AgeTotal Desire Recall 2018In the name of catching up, the next few episodes were previously recorded at and after Desire 2018 last November. This episode features JV, Shara, Tristan Taormino and the Swingset Crew recapping SS Desire 2018. Part 1 of 2   Show Links: Come play with us at SS Desire 2019 Life on the Swingset Pucker Up - Tristan's Sex-Positive home on the web. Sex Out Loud Podcast with Tristan Taormino Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com  2019-06-1500 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age097 Total Desire Recall 2018 (Part 1)In the name of catching up, the next few episodes were previously recorded at and after Desire 2018 last November. This episode features JV, Shara, Tristan Taormino and the Swingset Crew recapping SS Desire 2018. Part 1 of 2   Show Links: -...2019-06-1500 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age097 Total Desire Recall 2018 (Part 1)In the name of catching up, the next few episodes were previously recorded at and after Desire 2018 last November. This episode features JV, Shara, Tristan Taormino and the Swingset Crew recapping SS Desire 2018. Part 1 of 22019-06-1552 minLife on the SwingsetLife on the SwingsetSS 343: Total Desire Recall 2, Part 2! JV Altharas, and Shara Bono once again join Cooper S. Beckett, Ginger Bentham, and Dylan Thomas to continue discussing the debauchery and delight that was… Life on the Swingset takes Desire 2018. 2019-01-2359 minGuests – Life on the SwingsetGuests – Life on the SwingsetSS 343: Total Desire Recall 2, Part 2! JV Altharas, and Shara Bono once again join Cooper S. Beckett, Ginger Bentham, and Dylan Thomas to continue discussing the debauchery and delight that was… Life on the Swingset takes Desire 2018. 2019-01-2300 minLife on the SwingsetLife on the SwingsetSS 343: Total Desire Recall 2, Part 2! JV Altharas, and Shara Bono once again join Cooper S. Beckett, Ginger Bentham, and Dylan Thomas to continue discussing the debauchery and delight that was… Life on the Swingset takes Desire 2018. 2019-01-2359 minLife on the Swingset - The Swinging & Polyamory PodcastLife on the Swingset - The Swinging & Polyamory PodcastSS 343: Total Desire Recall 2, Part 2! JV Altharas, and Shara Bono once again join Cooper S. Beckett, Ginger Bentham, and Dylan Thomas to continue discussing the debauchery and delight that was… Life on the Swingset takes Desire 2018. Join us in Paradise from November 2-9, 2019 for Swingset Takes Desire 2019! We are already 30% booked so get those early bird reservations in now! If you’ve previously attended with us you’re eligible for a special offer! Visit swingsetdesire.com!   Help support Life on the Swingset continue to make podcasts, and put on live panels and shows into the fut...2019-01-2359 minGuests – Life on the SwingsetGuests – Life on the SwingsetSS 341: Total Desire Recall 2 Tristan Taormino, JV Altharas, and Shara Bono join Cooper S. Beckett, Ginger Bentham, and Dylan Thomas in reveling in the debauchery and delight that was… Life on the Swingset takes Desire 2018. 2019-01-0900 minLife on the SwingsetLife on the SwingsetSS 341: Total Desire Recall 2 Tristan Taormino, JV Altharas, and Shara Bono join Cooper S. Beckett, Ginger Bentham, and Dylan Thomas in reveling in the debauchery and delight that was… Life on the Swingset takes Desire 2018. 2019-01-0957 minLife on the SwingsetLife on the SwingsetSS 341: Total Desire Recall 2 Tristan Taormino, JV Altharas, and Shara Bono join Cooper S. Beckett, Ginger Bentham, and Dylan Thomas in reveling in the debauchery and delight that was… Life on the Swingset takes Desire 2018. 2019-01-0957 minLife on the Swingset - The Swinging & Polyamory PodcastLife on the Swingset - The Swinging & Polyamory PodcastSS 341: Total Desire Recall 2 Tristan Taormino, JV Altharas, and Shara Bono join Cooper S. Beckett, Ginger Bentham, and Dylan Thomas in reveling in the debauchery and delight that was… Life on the Swingset takes Desire 2018. Join us in Paradise from November 2-9, 2019 for Swingset Takes Desire 2019! We are already 30% booked so get those early bird reservations in now! If you’ve previously attended with us you’re eligible for a special offer! Visit swingsetdesire.com!   Help support Life on the Swingset continue to make podcasts, and put on live panels and shows into the future! Throw u...2019-01-0957 minLife on the Swingset - The Swinging & Polyamory PodcastLife on the Swingset - The Swinging & Polyamory PodcastSS 319: Total Desire Recall with Tristan Taormino, JV Altharas, and Shara Bono!Every November for the last six year, the Life on the Swingset has led a motley crew of wayward hedonists to Desire Resort on the Riviera Maya in Cancun. Tonight the hosts of our 2017 takeover, Cooper S. Beckett, Dylan Thomas, Ginger Bentham, JV Altharas, Shara Bono, and Tristan Taormino, talk about that trip; what they learned, what they enjoyed, their sexiest of sexy times, and what they'd like to bring forward to the November 2018 trip.   You can support us while you buy great sex toys and products from our favorite online retailer SheVibe a...2018-04-052h 22Desire – Life on the SwingsetDesire – Life on the SwingsetSS 319: Total Desire Recall with Tristan Taormino, JV Altharas, and Shara Bono Every November for the last six year, the Life on the Swingset has led a motley crew of wayward hedonists to Desire Resort on the Riviera Maya in Cancun. Tonight the hosts of our 2017 takeover, Cooper S. Beckett, Dylan Thomas, Ginger Bentham, JV Altharas, Shara Bono, and Tristan Taormino, talk about that trip; what they learned, what they enjoyed, their sexiest of sexy times, and what they'd like to bring forward to the November 2018 trip. 2018-04-0400 minGuests – Life on the SwingsetGuests – Life on the SwingsetSS 319: Total Desire Recall with Tristan Taormino, JV Altharas, and Shara Bono Every November for the last six year, the Life on the Swingset has led a motley crew of wayward hedonists to Desire Resort on the Riviera Maya in Cancun. Tonight the hosts of our 2017 takeover, Cooper S. Beckett, Dylan Thomas, Ginger Bentham, JV Altharas, Shara Bono, and Tristan Taormino, talk about that trip; what they learned, what they enjoyed, their sexiest of sexy times, and what they'd like to bring forward to the November 2018 trip. 2018-04-0400 minLife on the SwingsetLife on the SwingsetSS 319: Total Desire Recall with Tristan Taormino, JV Altharas, and Shara Bono Every November for the last six year, the Life on the Swingset has led a motley crew of wayward hedonists to Desire Resort on the Riviera Maya in Cancun. Tonight the hosts of our 2017 takeover, Cooper S. Beckett, Dylan Thomas, Ginger Bentham, JV Altharas, Shara Bono, and Tristan Taormino, talk about that trip; what they learned, what they enjoyed, their sexiest of sexy times, and what they'd like to bring forward to the November 2018 trip. 2018-04-042h 22Life on the SwingsetLife on the SwingsetSS 319: Total Desire Recall with Tristan Taormino, JV Altharas, and Shara Bono Every November for the last six year, the Life on the Swingset has led a motley crew of wayward hedonists to Desire Resort on the Riviera Maya in Cancun. Tonight the hosts of our 2017 takeover, Cooper S. Beckett, Dylan Thomas, Ginger Bentham, JV Altharas, Shara Bono, and Tristan Taormino, talk about that trip; what they learned, what they enjoyed, their sexiest of sexy times, and what they'd like to bring forward to the November 2018 trip. 2018-04-042h 22Life on the SwingsetLife on the SwingsetSS 319: Total Desire Recall with Tristan Taormino, JV Altharas, and Shara Bono Every November for the last six year, the Life on the Swingset has led a motley crew of wayward hedonists to Desire Resort on the Riviera Maya in Cancun. Tonight the hosts of our 2017 takeover, Cooper S. Beckett, Dylan Thomas, Ginger Bentham, JV Altharas, Shara Bono, and Tristan Taormino, talk about that trip; what they learned, what they enjoyed, their sexiest of sexy times, and what they'd like to bring forward to the November 2018 trip. 2018-04-042h 22Life on the SwingsetLife on the SwingsetSS 319: Total Desire Recall with Tristan Taormino, JV Altharas, and Shara Bono Every November for the last six year, the Life on the Swingset has led a motley crew of wayward hedonists to Desire Resort on the Riviera Maya in Cancun. Tonight the hosts of our 2017 takeover, Cooper S. Beckett, Dylan Thomas, Ginger Bentham, JV Altharas, Shara Bono, and Tristan Taormino, talk about that trip; what they learned, what they enjoyed, their sexiest of sexy times, and what they'd like to bring forward to the November 2018 trip. 2018-04-042h 22Ending The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age093 Folsom Street Fair Edition (Part 2)Part 2 of our post-fair discussion. In the conclusion we talk more about our Saturday night play party (including Sexxypixie signing Shara's ass), vibrators with rolling unlock codes, and everyone gets together to give Gabriella her birthday spankings.   Thanks to our friends and fellow freaks, Swingerdoc & Sexxypixie, Knotty Irish & Pet, and Maximus & Gabriella for joining in on this episode!  Our Desire takeover now has only a handful of rooms left. Last chance to come play with us in paradise! SSDesire.com Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score yo...2017-10-021h 05Ending The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age093 Folsom Street Fair Edition (Part 2)Part 2 of our post-fair discussion. In the conclusion we talk more about our Saturday night play party (including Sexxypixie signing Shara's ass), vibrators with rolling unlock codes, and everyone gets together to give Gabriella her birthday...2017-10-0200 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age093 Folsom Street Fair Edition (Part 2)Part 2 of our post-fair discussion. In the conclusion we talk more about our Saturday night play party (including Sexxypixie signing Shara's ass), vibrators with rolling unlock codes, and everyone gets together to give Gabriella her birthday spankings.   Thanks to our friends and fellow freaks, Swingerdoc & Sexxypixie, Knotty Irish & Pet, and Maximus & Gabriella for joining in on this episode!  Our Desire takeover now has only a handful of rooms left. Last chance to come play with us in paradise! SSDesire.com Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score yo...2017-10-0200 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age091 Hotties Under The Collar: The Submissives Record Their Own EpisodeWhile we were in San Francisco for Folsom Street Fair, Shara and the other submissives recorded their own episode on Saturday evening while the doms were cooking dinner and otherwise entertaining themselves.  They spend a good bit of time unpacking the amazing kinky performances we'd seen at Twisted Windows the previous night, as well as getting up to their usual shenanigans. Many thanks to Sexypixie, Knotty's Pet and Gabriella for joining in on this episode! Our Desire takeover now has only a handful of rooms left. Last chance to come play with us i...2017-09-3000 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age091 Hotties Under The Collar: The Submissives Record Their Own EpisodeWhile we were in San Francisco for Folsom Street Fair, Shara and the other submissives recorded their own episode on Saturday evening while the doms were cooking dinner and otherwise entertaining themselves.  They spend a good bit of time unpacking the amazing kinky performances we'd seen at Twisted Windows the previous night, as well as getting up to their usual shenanigans. Many thanks to Sexypixie, Knotty's Pet and Gabriella for joining in on this episode! Our Desire takeover now has only a handful of rooms left. Last chance to come play with us i...2017-09-301h 00Desire – Life on the SwingsetDesire – Life on the SwingsetSS 292: Building Our Sexy Community in the Most Pleasurable Place on Earth Over the last five years, the Swingset has seen first hand the glorious moments and difficulties of building our own community on our trips to the most pleasurable place on earth at Desire Resort in Cancun. This year represents our second takeover, and our sixth trip, and tonight we're joined by all the hosts of this year's trip (JV Altharas, Shara Bono, Tristan Taormino, Ginger Bentham, Dylan Thomas, Cooper S. Beckett) to talk about the unique challenges of creating 2017-06-2200 minLife on the Swingset - The Swinging & Polyamory PodcastLife on the Swingset - The Swinging & Polyamory PodcastSS 292: Building Our Sexy Community in the Most Pleasurable Place on EarthOver the last five years, the Swingset has seen first hand the glorious moments and difficulties of building our own community on our trips to the most pleasurable place on earth at Desire Resort in Cancun. This year represents our second takeover, and our sixth trip, and tonight we're joined by all the hosts of this year's trip (JV Altharas, Shara Bono, Tristan Taormino, Ginger Bentham, Dylan Thomas, Cooper S. Beckett) to talk about the unique challenges of creating safe spaces alongside sexy spaces, and the triumphs and difficulties of enjoying the hell out of our sexy selves. 2017-06-221h 14Ending The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age085 LotSS 279 Desire Takeover 2016 Recap & LIfe On The Swingset 7th AnniversaryIn this supersize episode, Shara and I join our friends from Life on the Swingset to reminisce about our Desire Resort takeover back in November. This is also a special Swingset episode, as it marks the show's seventh anniversary! The content of this episode was originally released as Life On The Swingset Episode 279. Lastly and on a sad note, we've had to cancel our April trip to Desire due to work conflicts. We'll make up for it in November.   Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% o...2017-03-1800 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age085 LotSS 279 Desire Takeover 2016 Recap & LIfe On The Swingset 7th AnniversaryIn this supersize episode, Shara and I join our friends from Life on the Swingset to reminisce about our Desire Resort takeover back in November. This is also a special Swingset episode, as it marks the show's seventh anniversary! The content of this episode was originally released as Life On The Swingset Episode 279. Lastly and on a sad note, we've had to cancel our April trip to Desire due to work conflicts. We'll make up for it in November.   Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% o...2017-03-181h 43Ending The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age084 Interview With Midori (Part 2) On Her Female Dominance Intensive: ForteFemme, Our New Toys From Fetish Fair FleaDuring our trip to Fetish Fair Fleamarket, we had the opportunity to sit down with legendary kink educator Midori for one of our favorite interviews ever. This episode includes the conclusion of that interview, in which we talk about ForteFemme, Midori's weekend intensive on female dominance. But, we start by discussing Shara's newfound desire to be gang-topped (which JV learned about while recording), and our new toys from Fetish Fair Flea. If you'd like to learn more about Midori and her course offerings (and you should): Rope Dojo: 2 day rope bondage intensive in Sa...2017-03-0900 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age084 Interview With Midori (Part 2) On Her Female Dominance Intensive: ForteFemme, Our New Toys From Fetish Fair FleaDuring our trip to Fetish Fair Fleamarket, we had the opportunity to sit down with legendary kink educator Midori for one of our favorite interviews ever. This episode includes the conclusion of that interview, in which we talk about ForteFemme, Midori's weekend intensive on female dominance. But, we start by discussing Shara's newfound desire to be gang-topped (which JV learned about while recording), and our new toys from Fetish Fair Flea. If you'd like to learn more about Midori and her course offerings (and you should): Rope Dojo: 2 day rope bondage intensive in Sa...2017-03-0959 minDesire – Life on the SwingsetDesire – Life on the SwingsetSS 279: The Allure of Paradise – The Swingset at Desire ResortTonight we celebrate two things, first, our 7th anniversary as a podcast, and second our first takeover of Desire Resort last November. It's no secret that there's been some…stuff…happening in the world. As that stuff started on our trip, we've been a little…loath to revisit. But now, to celebrate our anniversary, we have assembled an epic podcast panel including Cooper, Dylan, Mister Pent, Lyndzi, Dr. Liz Powell, J.V. Altharas, and Shara Bono to all talk about this thing, this special resort, this place unequaled in time and space, Desire Resort and Spa. You can su...2017-03-0300 minLife on the Swingset - The Swinging & Polyamory PodcastLife on the Swingset - The Swinging & Polyamory PodcastSS 279: The Allure of Paradise - The Swingset at Desire ResortTonight we celebrate two things, first, our 7th anniversary as a podcast, and second our first takeover of Desire Resort last November. It's no secret that there's been some...stuff...happening in the world. As that stuff started on our trip, we've been a little...loath to revisit. But now, to celebrate our anniversary, we have assembled an epic podcast panel including Cooper, Dylan, Mister Pent, Lyndzi, Dr. Liz Powell, J.V. Altharas, and Shara Bono to all talk about this thing, this special resort, this place unequaled in time and space, Desire Resort and Spa. You...2017-03-031h 44Ending The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age080 Dungeon Desire DM RoundupOn November 9th, the disco at Desire Resort became a dungeon for the first time and it was an amazing night. Shara and I could never have pulled it off without the support and assistance of several other kinky couples who acted as both dungeon masters and service tops all evening, and this episode was about bringing them on the show and capturing some of the incredible energy. Want to see what our humble dungeon looked like before the action started? Visit our Facebook album Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10...2016-11-2100 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age080 Dungeon Desire DM RoundupOn November 9th, the disco at Desire Resort became a dungeon for the first time and it was an amazing night. Shara and I could never have pulled it off without the support and assistance of several other kinky couples who acted as both dungeon masters and service tops all evening, and this episode was about bringing them on the show and capturing some of the incredible energy. Want to see what our humble dungeon looked like before the action started? Visit our Facebook album Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10...2016-11-211h 07Ending The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age076 Swing Club Strikeouts and Erotic AsphyxiationFor our first episode in a while we talk a bit about Shara's fondness for erotic asphyxiation, as well as a listener question about striking out at swing clubs that Ginger and Prof were kind enough to answer with us. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com2016-08-0800 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age076 Swing Club Strikeouts and Erotic AsphyxiationFor our first episode in a while we talk a bit about Shara's fondness for erotic asphyxiation, as well as a listener question about striking out at swing clubs that Ginger and Prof were kind enough to answer with us. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com2016-08-0834 minLife on the Swingset - The Swinging & Polyamory PodcastLife on the Swingset - The Swinging & Polyamory PodcastDesire Week - SS 230: The Swingset Takes Desire IV - Where We're Going... We Don't Need ClothesIt's Desire Week at Life on the Swingset, with 150 days and less than 25 rooms remaining for our 2016 Desire Takeover (November 5-12) we're running Desire episodes of the podcast as well as blogs and articles. If you'd like to join us in Desire this November, head over to SSDesire.com! It's booking fast!   Desire. It's an emotion, raw and real. It's a place, warm and inviting, November 7th through the 14th of 2015, we made it our space. We brought 79 (and a half, thanks to the amazing Kendra Holliday) couples to Cancun, to the Riviera Maya, to M...2016-06-061h 46Desire – Life on the SwingsetDesire – Life on the SwingsetSS 230: The Swingset Takes Desire IV – Where We’re Going… We Don’t Need ClothesDesire. It's an emotion, raw and real. It's a place, warm and inviting, November 7th through the 14th of 2015, we made it our space. We brought 79 (and a half, thanks to the amazing Kendra Holliday) couples to Cancun, to the Riviera Maya, to Mexico, to the Desire Resort & Spa, and we collectively made the resort our own. J.V. Altharas and Shara Bono joined us once again to co-host the trip, run kink demonstration and education events, and all in all… to enjoy and consume everything available in paradise, in the sexiest place on earth. Su...2015-11-1900 minLife on the Swingset - The Swinging & Polyamory PodcastLife on the Swingset - The Swinging & Polyamory PodcastSS 230: The Swingset Takes Desire IV - Where We're Going... We Don't Need ClothesDesire. It's an emotion, raw and real. It's a place, warm and inviting, November 7th through the 14th of 2015, we made it our space. We brought 79 (and a half, thanks to the amazing Kendra Holliday) couples to Cancun, to the Riviera Maya, to Mexico, to the Desire Resort & Spa, and we collectively made the resort our own. J.V. Altharas and Shara Bono joined us once again to co-host the trip, run kink demonstration and education events, and all in all... to enjoy and consume everything available in paradise, in the sexiest place on earth.  2015-11-191h 45Desire – Life on the SwingsetDesire – Life on the SwingsetSS 184: Ending the Sexual Dark Age with the Swingset at Desire Resort & SpaWe took time out of our very hard and busy work schedules in Desire to record a discussion with JV and Shara of Ending the Sexual Dark Age as well as a couple dozen other sexy naked people, We discuss what Desire means to us, what having places where we can be our authentic selves means and about creating those spaces wherever, whenever, and with whoever we can. We hear from people about getting comfortably naked for the first time in front of other people and we hear about why we will always come back to Desire. ...2014-11-2700 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age065 Live From Desire - Ending The Sexual Dark Age on The SwingsetThis episode is one of our favorites to date, mostly because it was SO much fun to record. JV and Shara are joined by Cooper, Miko and Prof from Life on the Swingset, as well as a couple dozen other sexy naked people, for an open-mic discussion group towards the end of our amazing week at Desire. Other than inserting a couple commercial breaks, this is completely unedited. We hope to have an announcement very soon regarding an expanded trip next year, with Shara and JV heading up the expansion (giggity). Please take a few...2014-11-261h 08Ending The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age065 Live From Desire - Ending The Sexual Dark Age on The SwingsetThis episode is one of our favorites to date, mostly because it was SO much fun to record. JV and Shara are joined by Cooper, Miko and Prof from Life on the Swingset, as well as a couple dozen other sexy naked people, for an open-mic discussion group towards the end of our amazing week at Desire. Other than inserting a couple commercial breaks, this is completely unedited. We hope to have an announcement very soon regarding an expanded trip next year, with Shara and JV heading up the expansion (giggity). Please take a few...2014-11-2600 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age063 Back From DesireShara and I just spent a week in paradise at Swingset Takes Desire 2014, and this episode is our stream-of-consciousness wrap up of the trip and return to regular podcasting...for realsies this time.  Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT provide your email if you prefer. Also, please remember that this is a d...2014-11-2147 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age063 Back From DesireShara and I just spent a week in paradise at Swingset Takes Desire 2014, and this episode is our stream-of-consciousness wrap up of the trip and return to regular podcasting...for realsies this time.  Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT provide your email if you prefer. Also, please remember that this is a d...2014-11-2100 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age062 Cum and Chemo, Swallowing Advice, Toning Down Your Dominant Side, Swinging In CancunA guy with stage 4 cancer needs to know if his submissive will be swallowing his chemotherapy drugs along with his jizz (see link below), advice on toning down your dominant side when it's too much for your partner, and tips on how to swallow a big load at the end of a blowjob without gagging. JV was recently a guest on the Men's Family Law Podcast with awesome host attorney David Pisarra to talk about the impact of sex on a healthy relationship and a bunch of other fun topics. JV and Shara are confirmed fo...2014-06-2937 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age062 Cum and Chemo, Swallowing Advice, Toning Down Your Dominant Side, Swinging In CancunA guy with stage 4 cancer needs to know if his submissive will be swallowing his chemotherapy drugs along with his jizz (see link below), advice on toning down your dominant side when it's too much for your partner, and tips on how to swallow a big load at the end of a blowjob without gagging. JV was recently a guest on the Men's Family Law Podcast with awesome host attorney David Pisarra to talk about the impact of sex on a healthy relationship and a bunch of other fun topics. JV and Shara are confirmed fo...2014-06-2900 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age057 BDSM and Virginity, Taking Constructive Criticism As A Submissive, Books for New Dominants, Hot For TeacherListener mail topics include a woman with questions about both losing her virginity and learning to enjoy masturbation, finding the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, major fetish publications that may be looking for models, JV's new project to test his female orgasm intensification training, and Shara's support group for local submissives. If you know a good place to hook up with the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, please comment below to help a listener out. If you know of major fetish publications that are looking for models, please comment below to assist another listener. 2013-11-2450 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age057 BDSM and Virginity, Taking Constructive Criticism As A Submissive, Books for New Dominants, Hot For TeacherListener mail topics include a woman with questions about both losing her virginity and learning to enjoy masturbation, finding the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, major fetish publications that may be looking for models, JV's new project to test his female orgasm intensification training, and Shara's support group for local submissives. If you know a good place to hook up with the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, please comment below to help a listener out. If you know of major fetish publications that are looking for models, please comment below to assist another listener. 2013-11-2400 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age056 Masturbation, Virginity, Orgasm Training, Submissive Support Group, Fetish ModelingListener mail topics include a woman with questions about both losing her virginity and learning to enjoy masturbation, finding the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, major fetish publications that may be looking for models, JV's new project to test his female orgasm intensification training, and Shara's support group for local submissives. If you know a good place to hook up with the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, please comment below to help a listener out. If you know of major fetish publications that are looking for models, please comment below to assist another listener. 2013-11-1054 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age056 Masturbation, Virginity, Orgasm Training, Submissive Support Group, Fetish ModelingListener mail topics include a woman with questions about both losing her virginity and learning to enjoy masturbation, finding the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, major fetish publications that may be looking for models, JV's new project to test his female orgasm intensification training, and Shara's support group for local submissives. If you know a good place to hook up with the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, please comment below to help a listener out. If you know of major fetish publications that are looking for models, please comment below to assist another listener. 2013-11-1000 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age055 We're Not Dead, Deep Throating Tips, Breath Play/Erotic Asphyxiation, Party in Vegas for the AVN ExpoIndeed, we're not dead and it's great to be back to podcasting. Many thanks to those who emailed and kept in touch while we were more or less MIA, we're looking forward to seeing how much of the audience is still tuned in. In this episode, we address some listener requests for more detailed tips on deep throating a cock, talk about Shara's new love for being choked while she's getting fucked, and discuss our upcoming trip to Las Vegas in January for the AVN Adult Entertainment Expo (stay tuned for more info on that). ...2013-11-0240 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age055 We're Not Dead, Deep Throating Tips, Breath Play/Erotic Asphyxiation, Party in Vegas for the AVN ExpoIndeed, we're not dead and it's great to be back to podcasting. Many thanks to those who emailed and kept in touch while we were more or less MIA, we're looking forward to seeing how much of the audience is still tuned in. In this episode, we address some listener requests for more detailed tips on deep throating a cock, talk about Shara's new love for being choked while she's getting fucked, and discuss our upcoming trip to Las Vegas in January for the AVN Adult Entertainment Expo (stay tuned for more info on that). ...2013-11-0200 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age052 FFM Threesomes: Seducing Women As A Couple, First Vibrator AdviceTwo listener questions from women about getting another girl in bed for a threesome, including topics such as making an approach or opening the door, how to tell if another woman is into you, and the option of using swinger events to scope out potential playmates. We also talk about choosing your first vibrator, and Shara makes some specific recommendations from her EXTENSIVE personal experience :) All the sex-positive awesomeness now appearing on the website will also appears on our new Facebook page (along with a lot more), so please stop by and "Like" it next time you...2012-09-1452 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age052 FFM Threesomes: Seducing Women As A Couple, First Vibrator AdviceTwo listener questions from women about getting another girl in bed for a threesome, including topics such as making an approach or opening the door, how to tell if another woman is into you, and the option of using swinger events to scope out potential playmates. We also talk about choosing your first vibrator, and Shara makes some specific recommendations from her EXTENSIVE personal experience :) All the sex-positive awesomeness now appearing on the website will also appears on our new Facebook page (along with a lot more), so please stop by and "Like" it next time you...2012-09-1400 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age050 Relationships: Re-Lighting The Fire When The Sex Has Dried UpWe talk about ways you can try re-lighting the fire when your sex life with your playmate has gone frigid. This is a response to a question from a male listener, and the answer involves getting into good habits with non-sexual intimacy as well as the possiblity of therapy, but (as always) we recommend trying to sort things our yourselves before calling in backup. Check out the episode's post on sexualdarkage.com to see our brand new bell (courtesy of LK from facebook), as well as the lame-ass tickler Shara picked to be spanked with (well played...2012-08-2643 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age050 Relationships: Re-Lighting The Fire When The Sex Has Dried UpWe talk about ways you can try re-lighting the fire when your sex life with your playmate has gone frigid. This is a response to a question from a male listener, and the answer involves getting into good habits with non-sexual intimacy as well as the possiblity of therapy, but (as always) we recommend trying to sort things our yourselves before calling in backup. Check out the episode's post on sexualdarkage.com to see our brand new bell (courtesy of LK from facebook), as well as the lame-ass tickler Shara picked to be spanked with (well played...2012-08-2600 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age049 Weight Loss & Sex Drive, Review Of KY Yours & Mine, Squirting and How She Can Say "Thank You," On Air Spankings For SharaWe review KY Yours & Mine (TM) Edible sex enhancer, Shara gets birthday spankings on the air...one smack for every person who wished her "happy birthday" on Facebook, a listener question about how to cope with increased sex drive after weight loss when it's combined with a desire to see how many people you can keep interested at once, and another listener question about the best way a wife can show her appreciation for a husband who just figured out how to make her squirt. All the sex-positive awesomeness now appearing on the website will also be...2012-08-181h 00Ending The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age049 Weight Loss & Sex Drive, Review Of KY Yours & Mine, Squirting and How She Can Say "Thank You," On Air Spankings For SharaWe review KY Yours & Mine (TM) Edible sex enhancer, Shara gets birthday spankings on the air...one smack for every person who wished her "happy birthday" on Facebook, a listener question about how to cope with increased sex drive after weight loss when it's combined with a desire to see how many people you can keep interested at once, and another listener question about the best way a wife can show her appreciation for a husband who just figured out how to make her squirt. All the sex-positive awesomeness now appearing on the website will also be...2012-08-1800 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age048 Bad Blowjobs, What A Female Orgasm Feels LikeTopics for this show are bad blowjobs (and how a diligent cocksucker can avoid giving one), as well as the plight of a woman who's not quite sure she's ever had an orgasm. Shara has a great time describing what an orgasm feels like for her, and we'd like to ask all the ladies in the audience to help out as well by doing their best to describe the physical sensations that make up an orgasm for you. This episode marks the second anniversary of Ending The Sexual Dark Age, and we're thrilled to be starting a...2012-08-0832 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age048 Bad Blowjobs, What A Female Orgasm Feels LikeTopics for this show are bad blowjobs (and how a diligent cocksucker can avoid giving one), as well as the plight of a woman who's not quite sure she's ever had an orgasm. Shara has a great time describing what an orgasm feels like for her, and we'd like to ask all the ladies in the audience to help out as well by doing their best to describe the physical sensations that make up an orgasm for you. This episode marks the second anniversary of Ending The Sexual Dark Age, and we're thrilled to be starting a...2012-08-0800 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age047 Birthday Spankings for Shara, Toxic Sex Toys, Dating Confidence IssuesShara gets a full round of birthday spankings to start the show, then we talk a little more about painful boners (continued from episode 46), a listener's favorite dildo that also causes burning pain, and addressing self-confidence issues to improve dating success. Show Links: Peyronie's Disease Info from NIHSponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise. Show website: SexualDarkAge.com2012-08-0239 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age047 Birthday Spankings for Shara, Toxic Sex Toys, Dating Confidence IssuesShara gets a full round of birthday spankings to start the show, then we talk a little more about painful boners (continued from episode 46), a listener's favorite dildo that also causes burning pain, and addressing self-confidence issues to improve dating success. Show Links: Peyronie's Disease Info from NIHSponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise. Show website: SexualDarkAge.com2012-08-0200 minLife on the Swingset - The Swinging & Polyamory PodcastLife on the Swingset - The Swinging & Polyamory PodcastSS 065: Friends & Lovers - Do We Want To Be Friends With These People We Fuck?JV Altharas and Shara from Ending The Sexual Dark Age join us to discuss the dichotomy of being friends with your swinging playmates, and how we feel that enhances the value of the sex, but also how that can drift into other ares. We get sidetracked by the idea of writing directions on thighs, Cooper updates his Poly experiment, and Dylan rants about politics. 2012-02-271h 14Ending The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age040 BDSM Guide: Sexual Dominance Part 2, Communication, Reading Your Sub, Bondage, Hair Pulling, Giving Orders, Throat Fucking and Pain Play for New DomsPart 2 of our guide to sexual dominance focuses on tips and tricks for introducing BDSM to your play time without doing anything intimidating or obnoxious. This episode covers how a dominant can establish and enhance their power through communication, using observation to make it seem like you can read your sub's mind, getting started with bondage, sensual hair pulling, finding out if throat fucking is on the menu, giving orders and getting your submissive to thank you for it, using pussy spanking and nipple pinching as an introduction to pain play, and the basics of aftercare for dominants and...2011-10-2557 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age040 BDSM Guide: Sexual Dominance Part 2, Communication, Reading Your Sub, Bondage, Hair Pulling, Giving Orders, Throat Fucking and Pain Play for New DomsPart 2 of our guide to sexual dominance focuses on tips and tricks for introducing BDSM to your play time without doing anything intimidating or obnoxious. This episode covers how a dominant can establish and enhance their power through communication, using observation to make it seem like you can read your sub's mind, getting started with bondage, sensual hair pulling, finding out if throat fucking is on the menu, giving orders and getting your submissive to thank you for it, using pussy spanking and nipple pinching as an introduction to pain play, and the basics of aftercare for dominants and...2011-10-2500 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age037 Advice Line: Sex-Positive Christians, Condom Problems, Praying Away The GayListener questions and comments on erectile dysfunction directly related to condoms, Christians doing their best to be sex-positive, and the "ex-gay" movement (which produces Shara's first rant on the show). Shara and I also talk about some upcoming audio erotica that we're doing for Ravenous Romance, the re-release of Episode 36 with Shara doing the female dialogue, and the show's first birthday. Also, Shara gets her birthday spankings on the air :) Show Links: Show website: SexualDarkAge.com The post that inspired Questioner's comment: Christian Blogger Claims 70% of Women Don't Deserve Orgasms. 2011-08-2235 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age037 Advice Line: Sex-Positive Christians, Condom Problems, Praying Away The GayListener questions and comments on erectile dysfunction directly related to condoms, Christians doing their best to be sex-positive, and the "ex-gay" movement (which produces Shara's first rant on the show). Shara and I also talk about some upcoming audio erotica that we're doing for Ravenous Romance, the re-release of Episode 36 with Shara doing the female dialogue, and the show's first birthday. Also, Shara gets her birthday spankings on the air :) Show Links: Show website: SexualDarkAge.com The post that inspired Questioner's comment: Christian Blogger Claims 70% of Women Don't Deserve Orgasms. 2011-08-2200 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age036.1 Audio Erotica: "A Shalar Is Born"NEW CUT with Shara sounding hot as hell playing the part of Celeste. A quick, kinky tale of a farmgirl who gets more than she bargained for when she throws herself at the local blacksmith. This story is a prequel to "Lady of the Drake," coming fall 2011 from Ravenous Romance. Read this story at TwistedErotica.com Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise.2011-08-0321 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age036.1 Audio Erotica: "A Shalar Is Born"NEW CUT with Shara sounding hot as hell playing the part of Celeste. A quick, kinky tale of a farmgirl who gets more than she bargained for when she throws herself at the local blacksmith. This story is a prequel to "Lady of the Drake," coming fall 2011 from Ravenous Romance. Read this story at TwistedErotica.com Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise.2011-08-0300 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age031 Swinging Part 2: BDSM, Single Swingers, Bisexuality, Open RelationshipsWe're once again joined by Cooper and Ginger from Life on the Swingset for a lively discussion on ethical non-monogamy that covers topics including BDSM in the swing community, single swingers and the different challenges faced by men and women as singles, bisexual curiosity, swinging vs. open relationships, sex related injuries, couples playing together or apart, keeping the mood intact when something goes haywire, and double vaginal penetration. Yeah, it's a super-sized episode. We also do a fun little experiment in interactive podcasting, with Cooper and Ginger deciding what Shara gets spanked with on the...2011-06-0100 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age031 Swinging Part 2: BDSM, Single Swingers, Bisexuality, Open RelationshipsWe're once again joined by Cooper and Ginger from Life on the Swingset for a lively discussion on ethical non-monogamy that covers topics including BDSM in the swing community, single swingers and the different challenges faced by men and women as singles, bisexual curiosity, swinging vs. open relationships, sex related injuries, couples playing together or apart, keeping the mood intact when something goes haywire, and double vaginal penetration. Yeah, it's a super-sized episode. We also do a fun little experiment in interactive podcasting, with Cooper and Ginger deciding what Shara gets spanked with on the...2011-06-011h 37Ending The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age021 Advice Line: Cock Rings, Sex Journals, Masturbation Stigmas, Polyamorous ComplicationsCelebrating the first six months of the show, J.V. and Shara look back on some highlights, talk about topics including sex journals, women who frown on masturbation and polyamorous complications.  A new section of the website and the show's Android App are also announced. Show Links: Show Website:  Sexualdarkage.com New section of the website: Confessions of a Dirty Mind2011-02-0748 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age021 Advice Line: Cock Rings, Sex Journals, Masturbation Stigmas, Polyamorous ComplicationsCelebrating the first six months of the show, J.V. and Shara look back on some highlights, talk about topics including sex journals, women who frown on masturbation and polyamorous complications.  A new section of the website and the show's Android App are also announced. Show Links: Show Website:  Sexualdarkage.com New section of the website: Confessions of a Dirty Mind2011-02-0700 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age019 BDSM Basics Part 2: Negotiating Scenes, Fetish Parties & Clubs, Defining "Fetish," Introducing BDSM To Your Relationship, Listener Questions On KinkA wrap up on the most basic concepts of BDSM including group play, fetish clubs, negotiating scenes, bringing kink into your relationship and the meaning of the word "fetish," as well as a couple kink related listener mail items. Show Links: Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com Fetlife.com J.V. on Fetlife Shara on Fetlife2011-01-2400 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age019 BDSM Basics Part 2: Negotiating Scenes, Fetish Parties & Clubs, Defining "Fetish," Introducing BDSM To Your Relationship, Listener Questions On KinkA wrap up on the most basic concepts of BDSM including group play, fetish clubs, negotiating scenes, bringing kink into your relationship and the meaning of the word "fetish," as well as a couple kink related listener mail items. Show Links: Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com Fetlife.com J.V. on Fetlife Shara on Fetlife2011-01-2456 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age006 Advice Line: Getting Over Shyness To Talk About Sex With Your LoverA quickie bonus episode covering listener mail and comments, upcoming topics on the show, and a bit of advice for a particularly shy listener who wants to learn how to get up the guts to have honest conversations about sex with a playmate.  I also introduce my submissive Shara for the first time on the show.2010-10-0800 minEnding The Sexual Dark AgeEnding The Sexual Dark Age006 Advice Line: Getting Over Shyness To Talk About Sex With Your LoverA quickie bonus episode covering listener mail and comments, upcoming topics on the show, and a bit of advice for a particularly shy listener who wants to learn how to get up the guts to have honest conversations about sex with a playmate.  I also introduce my submissive Shara for the first time on the show.2010-10-0812 min