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Faces of DivorceCalled to Be Whole: Walking in Truth, Not ShameHe asked four times before she said yes. The fourth “yes” wasn’t rooted in love or clarity—it was wrapped in exhaustion and a haunting phrase: “I couldn’t find a reason to say no.” But her spirit already knew something wasn’t right.In this unforgettable episode of Faces of Divorce, Attorney Jadinah Gustave sits down with a powerhouse woman of faith and leadership—a head of HR managing over 20 employees by day, and silently suffering in her marriage by night. What began as a hopeful union between two parents blending their daughters into one family quickly tur...2025-05-131h 56
Faces of DivorceAre You Ready or Just Rushing? Premarital Wisdom with Pastor and author John E. PierreWhat if love wasn’t the only requirement for marriage? What if timing, truth, and God’s will mattered more than your plans?In this episode of Faces of Divorce, host Jadinah Gustave sits down with Reverend John E. Pierre — a 37-year marriage veteran, author of Never Stop Exploring, and one of the most sought-after premarital counselors in the faith community.They dive deep into conversations rarely had from the pulpit:When to walk away before saying “I do”Why red flags are spiritual signals, not just personality quirksHow trauma bonding can masquerade as connection...2025-05-061h 41
Faces of DivorcePay Up & Pray Up: What You Really Need to Know About Child Support & AlimonyIn this solo episode of Faces of Divorce, Attorney J dives deep into two of the most misunderstood financial pillars of divorce: child support and alimony.With a heart rooted in faith and a voice seasoned by years in the courtroom, Attorney J breaks down:What the court actually looks at when deciding paymentsCommon myths that leave women stuck or silencedWhy asking for what’s fair is not a sin — it’s stewardshipHow to stay prayerful and strategic in financial negotiationsThis is more than a legal talk — it’s a healing conversation for every woman navi...2025-04-1548 min
Faces of DivorceA Love That Lasted, A Marriage That Didn’t: Reflections 20 Years LaterWhat do you do with a love that didn’t survive, but never left your soul?In this powerful and emotionally rich episode of Faces of Divorce, one woman — a faith-filled leader, mother, and truth-teller — shares the deeply personal story of a relationship that began in young love, unraveled too soon, and resurfaced in the most unexpected way… two decades later.They were in love, but life was moving too fast. The relationship ended, and they spent ten years apart. He was called to war — and in those moments of near-loss, something shifted. They reconnected after life...2025-03-261h 23
Faces of DivorceA Love That Lasted, A Marriage That Didn’t: Reflections 20 Years LaterWhat do you do with a love that didn’t survive, but never left your soul?In this powerful and emotionally rich episode of Faces of Divorce, one woman — a faith-filled leader, mother, and truth-teller — shares the deeply personal story of a relationship that began in young love, unraveled too soon, and resurfaced in the most unexpected way… two decades later.They were in love, but life was moving too fast. The relationship ended, and they spent ten years apart. He was called to war — and in those moments of near-loss, something shifted. They reconnected after life...2025-03-251h 24
Faces of DivorceUnshackled: Faith, Family & Finding Herself After 24 Years of MarriageBeatrice Smith, She was the reliable one. The woman in ministry, the devoted wife, the mother who held it all together—until she couldn’t anymore. Married at just 20 to a man 15 years her senior, she entered a marriage she wasn’t fully prepared for, one that slowly chipped away at her identity.For 24 years, she lived in a cycle of duty, deep depression, and anxiety—fearing what her family, church, and community would say if she walked away. Infidelity on his part, emotional detachment on hers, and years of pretending left her feeling like a shell of herse...2025-03-181h 47
Faces of DivorceExpert Insights on Breaking the Cycle – Divorce, Childhood Patterns, and Healing with JiniaDivorce doesn’t just end a marriage—it shapes future relationships, impacts children’s emotional development, and influences how we communicate and resolve conflict.In this insightful conversation on Divorce Like a Boss, Jinia, a licensed therapist with over 20 years of experience, joins us to discuss: ✅ How childhood divorce impacts adult relationships ✅ Breaking generational patterns through self-awareness & therapy ✅ Effective communication and conflict resolution post-divorce ✅ The role of spirituality in healing and moving forward💡 Whether you're navigating divorce, co-parenting, or seeking better relationship tools, this episode is filled with wisdom, practical steps, and encouragement to help you move forward...2025-03-111h 25
Faces of DivorceFaith, Facts & Freedom: Breaking Divorce Myths & Protecting Your FutureDivorce isn’t the end of your story—it’s the beginning of your next chapter. In this powerful episode, Jadinah N Gustave, "AttorneyJ", legal expert, author of Divorce Like a Boss, and founder of Divorce Lab Institute, breaks down exactly how to navigate divorce with wisdom, strategy, and faith.💡 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✅ The biggest legal mistakes to avoid in divorce (and how to protect your assets)✅ How to shift from emotional overwhelm to strategic empowerment✅ Biblical wisdom to guide you through the toughest momentsDiscussing the R...2025-03-0444 min
Faces of DivorceBreaking Cycles: A Personal Journey Through DivorceIn this episode of Faces of Divorce, Jadinah sits down with Phil to explore his personal journey of experiencing divorce as a child and how it shaped his emotional and psychological growth.Phil shares candid insights about his family dynamics, his struggles with abandonment, and the impact his parents' divorce had on his relationships and self-identity.Together, they discuss how these experiences influenced his approach to marriage, fatherhood, and breaking negative cycles for future generations.Through resilience, forgiveness, and open communication, Phil reflects on the lessons he’s learned and the path he’s fo...2025-02-2554 min
Faces of DivorceDivorce Differently – Purpose, Power & Letting God LeadIn this episode of Faces of Divorce, Attorney J dives deep into why we need to divorce differently. She challenges the traditional narratives around divorce and explores how showing up purposefully in the process can transform not just the outcome, but your entire perspective on life after divorce.Debunking the myth that divorce disqualifies you from being used by God, Attorney J shifts the focus to faith, purpose, and empowerment. She unpacks how changing your mindset is key to healing, rebuilding, and stepping into the next chapter with confidence. If you've ever felt like divorce is the...2025-02-1823 min
Faces of DivorceThrough a Child’s Eyes: Dana’s Journey of Resilience and ReflectionIn today's episode, we are joined by Dana Belfleur, a financial advisor and world traveler, who will share her powerful story of being reunited with her parents at the age of six, only to witness the constant fighting and abuse that marked her childhood.We will explore how Dana processed these traumatic experiences, what she hoped for her parents' marriage, and the long-term impact it has had on her life.Additionally, we'll discuss how you can learn from Dana's journey to navigate divorce with greater self-awareness and care for those around...2025-02-1239 min
Faces of DivorceThrough a Child’s Eyes: Dana’s Journey of Resilience and ReflectionIn today's episode, we are joined by Dana Belfleur, a financial advisor and world traveler, who will share her powerful story of being reunited with her parents at the age of six, only to witness the constant fighting and abuse that marked her childhood. We will explore how Dana processed these traumatic experiences, what she hoped for her parents' marriage, and the long-term impact it has had on her life. Additionally, we'll discuss how you can learn from Dana's journey to navigate divorce with greater self-awareness and care for those around you. 2025-02-1139 min
Faces of DivorceDivorce Like a Boss: Sherline L's Journey from Turmoil to TriumphSherline L –Meet Sherline L, a resilient business owner who transformed her life through one of the most challenging periods she ever faced. Four years removed from a tumultuous divorce, Sherline's journey was marked not only by the emotional and logistical challenges of separation but also by the added stress of managing a young child who was acting out amid the upheaval.Empowered by the insights and practical guidance of Divorce Like a Boss, Sherline embraced the book’s philosophy as a beacon of hope during her darkest moments. She trusted the author enough to secu...2025-02-031h 36
Faces of DivorceWelcome to 'Faces of DivorceWelcome to 'Faces of Divorce,' the podcast where we explore the profound impact of parental separation through the eyes of those who lived through it as children. I'm your host, Jadinah N. Gustave, Esq you can call me AttorneyJ, and each week we share compelling stories and expert insights that shed light on the challenges and triumphs of navigating divorce.In each episode, we sit down with individuals who have experienced divorce firsthand and hear how these experiences have shaped their lives. We delve into their personal journeys, discuss the emotional and practical effects, and explore...2025-02-0301 min
When Women Speak with Shirley K#27 If My Mind Is Growing My Voice Should Be Growing w/ Jadinah N. Gustave Esq.In this episode we address being the only voice with the permission to be voiceless and why women represent the radar in every room (without the radar a crash is probable). Connect with Jadinah! https://www.securedlegacylaw.com/2023-02-2233 min