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A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionStress-Free Seasons: Co-Parenting Holiday SchedulesWelcome to A Year in a Day. I'm Jaime Davis, Board Certified Family Law Attorney at Gailor Hunt. On this show, I talk with lawyers, psychologists, and other experts with the goal of helping you navigate divorce without destruction.In this episode, I'm joined by my law partner and fellow family law attorney, Melissa Essick, to discuss practical tips and suggestions for creating a holiday custody schedule that works best for your family during separation and divorce.Melissa and I explore the holidays most often included in agreements—from Christmas and Thanksgiving to birthdays and sp...
2025-10-2131 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionUnpacking Narcissism: Healing What Divorce RevealsWelcome to A Year and a Day. In this episode, board-certified family law attorney Jaime Davis sits down with relationship coach Johanna Lynn, founder of the Family Imprint Institute, to explore the deep, often invisible emotional patterns we inherit from our families—and how they fuel conflict, especially when divorcing a spouse with narcissistic tendencies.Johanna explains the concept of the family blueprint and how our biography becomes our biology, leading us to fall in love with the familiar, even if it’s destructive. She discusses how narcissism develops, why it often appears on a spectrum, and how...
2025-10-0730 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionMeet Jaime Davis: The Attorney Who Wrote the Book on DivorceWelcome to A Year and a Day, with host Jaime Davis, a board-certified family law attorney at Gaylor Hunt. In this episode, Jaime is in the hot seat as she's interviewed by special guest host Erica Rooney. Jaime shares her unique perspective on divorce, offering insights she's gained from over 24 years of experience.Jaime discusses the most common misconceptions about divorce, including the idea that a cheating spouse means you "get everything." She also explains the one question she wishes more people would ask her and why consulting with an attorney early in the process is so...
2025-09-2329 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionFrom "My Relationship Fail" to Learning: Rebuilding After a Breakdown with Bryan PowerWelcome to A Year and a Day. In this episode, Jaime Davis, a board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt, sits down with Bryan Power, creator of MyRelationshipFail.com, to discuss how a relationship crisis can be a powerful catalyst for personal and relational healing.Bryan shares his personal story of a near-divorce experience that began with a restraining order, explaining how this "final nail in the coffin" moment became a turning point. Together, Jaime and Bryan explore Integrated Attachment Theory and its six core elements: core wounds, emotional control, needs, boundaries, communication, and behavior. Bryan explains...
2025-09-0930 min
The AutSide PodcastEpisode 337: Autism as Scapegoat—A UC Davis Case StudyToday’s episode critiques a UC Davis study that claims parental workplace chemical exposure worsens autism, arguing the study’s methodology is flawed and its conclusions are biased. The author of the source article, Dr. Jaime Hoerricks, contends that the study misrepresents autism as a condition to be “worsened,” rather than a form of neurodiversity, and that its metrics measure deviation from neurotypical norms instead of actual harm. Dr. Hoerricks highlights the overrepresentation of white boys in the study’s sample, suggesting this narrows the definition of autism and erases other autistic populations. Furthermore, she points out contradictions within the study’...
2025-08-2716 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionRebuilding After Divorce for Men: Mental Health, Masculinity, and Moving Forward with Marc AzoulayWhen the dust settles after divorce, what comes next for men who are left feeling lost, ashamed, or angry? In this episode, Jaime Davis sits down with Marc Azoulay, a licensed psychotherapist and founder of Men’s Therapy Online, to explore the often-overlooked emotional fallout of divorce for men. Marc shares the two most common archetypes he sees in his work—“the villain” and “the victim”—and explains how early childhood conditioning, societal expectations, and emotional isolation shape men’s post-divorce struggles.Together, Jaime and Marc discuss why some men default to “nice guy” behavior, why communication breakdowns are so co...
2025-05-1334 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionDivorced, Not Done: Caroline Stanbury on Co-Parenting, Reinvention, and Owning Your PowerWhat does it look like to rebuild—and thrive—after a high-profile divorce? In this episode, host Jaime is joined by Caroline Stanbury, star of The Real Housewives of Dubai, entrepreneur, and mom of three. Caroline shares the raw truth behind her 18-year marriage, navigating divorce in the public eye, and what it’s really like co-parenting teenagers with her ex.From the importance of financial independence to managing blended family dynamics, Caroline opens up about the lessons she’s learned about love, parenting, and personal growth. She also offers candid advice for anyone facing divorce later in life—...
2025-04-2932 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionWhen High Achievers Hit Their Breaking Point: Reclaiming Yourself in Marriage and DivorceIn this episode, Jaime is joined by licensed marriage and family therapist Veronica Cisneros to explore the unique challenges that high-achieving women often face in marriage—and what they can do about it. Veronica shares her own wake-up call moment at the bank, how she reclaimed her identity, and why success can sometimes create rifts in a relationship. Together, they unpack the emotional toll of running away from unhealed pain, how vulnerability can be a superpower, and what steps to take when you feel like you’ve lost yourself in your relationship.Need help from Veronica? Contact her...
2025-04-1534 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionGray Divorce, Silver Linings: Financial Confidence After 50 with Haleh ModdasserWhat if the end of a long marriage could be the beginning of financial freedom? In this episode, Jaime sits down with Haleh Moddasser, Managing Partner and Senior Wealth Advisor at Stearns Financial Group, to explore the financial realities of Gray divorce—when couples split later in life. Haleh shares why women over 50 are initiating divorce more often, the costly mistakes they need to avoid, and how to negotiate from a position of strength. From understanding the true value of assets to rethinking alimony and navigating Social Security benefits, this episode is packed with essential advice for building financial in...
2025-04-0138 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionFinding Financial Confidence After Divorce with Jennifer LeeDivorce can bring a whirlwind of emotions and financial uncertainty, but understanding your financial situation is key to making empowered decisions. In this episode, Jaime sits down with financial expert Jennifer Lee, founder of Modern Wealth and author of Squeeze the Juice: Live with Purpose, Then Leave a Legacy. If you weren’t the one managing the finances in your marriage—or earned significantly less than your spouse—you may be considered the non-moneyed spouse, and navigating divorce can feel especially daunting. Jennifer lays out the key steps to take control of your finances, uncover hidden assets, and decide whethe...
2025-03-1828 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionThe 5-Step Framework for Divorce Without DestructionDivorce doesn’t have to be a battle. In the first episode of season nine, Jaime takes the guest seat as producer Cee Cee Huffman interviews her about her book, A Year and a Day: Divorce Without Destruction. Jaime shares key strategies for approaching divorce with preparation and intention, covering how to initiate separation, build a strong support team, focus on what truly matters, prioritize children's well-being, and maintain emotional health. Whether you're contemplating divorce or already in the process, this episode offers expert guidance on navigating this major life decision with clarity and confidence. Tune in to learn ho...
2025-03-0423 min
The Intuitive Divorce: A Better Divorce for MomsDivorce Without Destruction: A Conversation with Family Law Expert Jaime DavisIn this episode, I sit down with Jaime Davis, a board-certified family law attorney, to discuss holistic and non-destructive approaches to divorce. We cover essential advice for mothers facing divorce, from planning and preparation to handling high-conflict situations and parental alienation. Jamie emphasizes the importance of having a supportive team, including legal and emotional support, and introduces her book 'A Year and a Day.' This conversation offers practical tips and strategic insights to navigate divorce with minimal disruption to your life and children's well-being.00:00 Introduction to Intuitive Divorce01:55 Meet Jaime Davis: Divorce...
2024-12-2337 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionDivorce Financial Planning: Essential Tax Tips You Need to Know, with Hubert JohnsonIn this episode, Jaime talks to seasoned tax attorney Hubert Johnson about the financial complexities of divorce. Hubert dives into the tax implications of divorce, from filing status changes to the proper handling of alimony, child support, and asset divisions. He emphasizes the importance of getting informed early to avoid costly mistakes and protect your financial future. Whether your concern is navigating tax debt, understanding retirement account splits, or dealing with business liabilities, Hubert shares his insights on making smart financial decisions during divorce.Need help from Hubert? Contact him by visiting www.guardiantaxlaw...
2024-12-1032 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionReclaiming Power After Betrayal: Finding Healing, Freedom, and Self-Worth with Lora CheadleBetrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker Lora Cheadle is joining Jaime to explore how to transform feelings of betrayal into empowerment. Lora shares her story of healing after discovering her husband’s long-term infidelity and reveals the practices and mindset shifts that helped her rebuild her life. They discuss the importance of grieving authentically, learning to reclaim self-trust, and finding joy and freedom on the other side. Lora introduces her signature “FLAUNT” method, a five-step process designed to guide anyone moving through betrayal or heartbreak toward rediscovering their inner strength and self-worth. Need help from Lora? Contac...
2024-11-1234 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionOvercoming Divorce Trauma with Dawn WigginsDawn Wiggins is a divorce recovery coach and therapist and, in this episode, she shares her personal journey of healing from trauma and divorce and the transformative techniques she uses to help others, including EMDR, EFT tapping, and homeopathy. Jaime and Dawn explore how childhood attachment issues and unresolved trauma can impact relationships, and how holistic healing methods can empower individuals to break free from destructive patterns. Dawn also addresses the loneliness of divorce and offers insight into moving forward with confidence and clarity.Need help from Dawn? Contact her by visiting www.mycoachdawn.com....
2024-10-2940 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionThe Financial Playbook for Divorce with Victoria KirilloffIn this episode, Jaime's joined by Victoria Kirilloff, a certified divorce financial analyst and mediator with a passion for empowering individuals during the divorce process. Drawing from her own challenging divorce experience, Victoria created the Divorce Impact Analysis Report, a comprehensive tool designed to provide financial clarity for those navigating this complex journey. Victoria discusses the intricacies of spousal support, tax implications, and a post-divorce cost-of-living analysis. With her unique upbringing and personal insights, she emphasizes the need for transparency and proactive planning to transform what is often a destructive experience into a constructive one.Need help...
2024-10-1535 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionHow financial preparedness empowers your divorce, with My Divorce SolutionJaime's joined by Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew, co-founders of My Divorce Solution, a divorce financial preparation service. They share how financial preparedness can make or break a divorce settlement, highlighting the importance of financial clarity and separating emotions from financial decisions. Learn how their innovative approach empowers individuals to make informed decisions and negotiate confidently for a smoother, more strategic divorce process.Need help from Catherine and Karen? Contact them by visiting www.mydivorcesolution.com.If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting www...
2024-10-0134 min
Podcast AllyDivorce Attorney Jaime Davis on the Close the Chapter PodcastOn this season, we’re sharing some recent episodes that our clients have guested on. Today it's divorce attorney Jaime Davis on the Close the Chapter Podcast!If you’re interested in guesting on impactful podcasts like this one, visit PodcastAlly.com and schedule a time to connect.---In this episode, Kristen delves into the journey of separation and divorce with Jamie Davis, a certified family law specialist. They explore the five-step framework for navigating this challenging journey with care and support.---Podcast Ally is produced by E...
2024-09-1943 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionNavigating Custody and Relocation: What Parents Need to Know with Theresa VieraJaime and fellow family law attorney Theresa Viera, founder of Modern Legal, are tackling relocation in custody cases. As separated parents contemplate moving to a new city, state, or country, what happens to the children? Jaime and Theresa explore the factors judges consider, the impact of relocation on a child's well-being, and potential changes to custody schedules. Whether considering a move or trying to keep your child nearby, this episode offers insights into navigating the legal system and keeping your child's best interest at the forefront. Need help from Theresa? Contact her by visiting www.modernlegalnc.com.
2024-09-1734 min
100% Guilt-Free Self-CareEpisode 242: A Year And A Day: Divorce Without Destruction with author by Jaime Davis, JDShow notes: https://www.tamihackbarth.com/blog/episode-242 This week’s guest is Jaime Davis. She is a Board Certified Specialist in Family Law, as well as a Certified Family Financial Mediator and Certified Parenting Coordinator. Her practice incorporates all areas of family law, including complex equitable distribution and child custody cases, child support, post-separation support, alimony, alienation of affection, and criminal conversation. She also handles family law contracts such as Premarital, Postnuptial, and Separation and Property Settlement Agreements. Jaime is also an author and podcast host who aims to help people through div...
2024-09-1245 min
Legal Lounge18. How Attorneys Work Together (or not!) When They’re On Opposing Sides of a Case with Jaime DavisA lot of people’s impression of divorce is that it’s an all-out war: you and your ex mud slinging in court, your attorneys personally attacking each other, and constant tension and turmoil. Don’t get me wrong, this can be the case… unless your attorneys work together to get the best result for both you and your ex-spouse. In this episode, Jaime Davis, a Raleigh-based family law attorney, joins Theresa to discuss why it’s a good thing when opposing attorneys know each other and can work together… and what it looks like when they don’t.
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2024-09-1026 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionPersonal Transformation Through Divorce with Karen McMahonIn this episode, Jaime sits down with Karen McMahon, founder of Journey Beyond Divorce, to explore how divorce can compel a profound personal transformation. Karen, a seasoned divorce coach, shares her personal journey from a tumultuous divorce to finding serenity and purpose. Discover how embracing personal growth, setting boundaries, and emotional regulation can lead to a more fulfilling life post-divorce. Plus, Karen discusses the unique challenges faced by C-suite women, the importance of building healthy friendships, and the transformative power of taking responsibility for one's own healing. Whether you're navigating a high-conflict divorce or struggling to let go of...
2024-09-0342 min
Help For MenLet's Talk Divorce - With Jaime DavisIn this episode of the Help for Men podcast, Ralph sits down with Jaime Davis, a prominent family law attorney from Raleigh, North Carolina. With over two decades of experience in practicing family law, Jaime provides an in-depth look into the evolving trends in divorce and custody battles, particularly focusing on the challenges faced by men.Jaime discusses the nuanced aspects of family law, emphasizing the importance of proper documentation and transparency, especially for business owners going through a divorce. She touches on the misconceptions surrounding child custody and alimony, revealing how the courts have become more...
2024-08-2636 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionFair Play in Marriage & Divorce: Creating Harmony and Accountability with Tami HackbarthJaime's talking with Tami Hackbarth, a certified life and work coach, author, and host of the 100% Guilt-Free Self-Care podcast. Together, they explore the Fair Play system, a revolutionary approach to dividing household tasks that promotes equity and clear communication between partners. Tami explains how Fair Play can help both married couples and divorced co-parents by fostering cooperation, reducing conflict, and encouraging accountability. Tune in to learn how this system can help manage the invisible tasks involved in parenting and support a more seamless transition during the process of divorce.Need help from Tami? Contact her by...
2024-08-2045 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionDo I need a private investigator for my divorce case?Cat Flowers, the founder of Cat's Eye Private Investigations, discusses how and when private investigations can help in family law cases. With a background in law enforcement and a dedication to meticulous investigation, Flowers emphasizes the crucial importance of uncovering hidden facts that can significantly impact legal proceedings. As the landscape of private investigations in family law continues to evolve, Flowers remains a steadfast advocate for ethical conduct and comprehensive investigative reports that empower attorneys to navigate complex family law matters with precision and integrity.Need help from Cat? Contact her by visiting www.catseyepi.net.
2024-08-0632 min
Wise & Worthy, Thriving After DivorceNavigating Divorce Amicably with Jaime DavisDivorce can be a tumultuous journey, often fraught with emotional and financial challenges that many underestimate. Today we’re going to explore practical steps to achieve a fair and balanced separation. From understanding the importance of open communication and mutual respect to strategically planning financial decisions, Jamie provides invaluable insights that can help you transition smoothly into the next chapter of your life. We touch on approaching your spouse in a way that avoids destroying family finances and staying solution-oriented when addressing living situations, all while embarrassing the crucial role of compromise.
2024-07-0936 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionTips for Appearing in Family Court with Judge Brian RatledgeJoin Jaime and the Honorable Judge Brian Ratledge, a seasoned North Carolina District Court Judge overseeing trials and motions in domestic, criminal, civil, and domestic violence courts. As the lead domestic court judge for Wake County, N.C., Judge Ratledge shares how individuals can best prepare themselves when appearing in front of a judge for family law cases. From addressing common litigant mistakes to offering tips for alleviating anxiety before court appearances, Judge Ratledge sheds light on the reality of family court proceedings, courtroom etiquette, and factors that judges consider when determining outcomes in family court cases....
2024-05-0748 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionNavigating Dating After Divorce, with Relationship Coach Laurie GerberJaime's joined by life and relationship coach Laurie Gerber to explore the exciting, yet scary topic of dating post-divorce. From breaking free from past relationship patterns to rebuilding confidence and self-esteem, Laurie offers practical strategies to overcome common fears and challenges individuals face when re-entering the dating scene. Find out how to figure out whether you’re emotionally ready to date, effectively communicate past experiences and boundaries to new partners, and determine when it’s the right time to introduce a new dating partner to your child(ren).Need help from Laurie? Contact her by visiting www.laur...
2024-04-2334 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionHow to have a good divorce, with Sarah ArmstrongJaime is joined by Sarah Armstrong, VP of Global Marketing Operations at Google and author of "The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce." In this episode, Sarah shares her personal journey of navigating divorce while prioritizing her daughter's well-being and focusing on the mindset of divorce being a positive life change. From managing day-to-day logistics of co-parenting a child living under two households to pausing when emotions run high, she shares her strategies for minimizing disruptions to children's lives, living through the year of firsts, and building your support network. Tune in to learn how to approach the process...
2024-04-0947 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionDemystifying Equitable DistributionIn this episode, Jaime Davis and her colleague Melissa Essick delve into the intricacies of asset division during divorce proceedings, dispelling common misconceptions and offering expert guidance for navigating the process effectively. They discuss defining marital assets and debts, exploring crucial factors considered by the courts, and provide invaluable insights into what to anticipate during asset division. Gain a deeper understanding of asset valuation, including insights into passive growth, particularly relevant in today's volatile market conditions. Explore how separate estates and financial misconduct can influence distribution outcomes, covering scenarios involving inheritance, trusts, and marital waste. Tune in to equip...
2024-03-2633 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionNavigating Substance Abuse, Addiction, and DivorceIn this episode, Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, known as The Divorce Doctor, shares her expertise on navigating divorce when substance abuse is a factor. Uncover the unique challenges and crucial insights when divorcing someone with substance use issues. Dr. Cohen combines clinical psychology knowledge with personal experience, offering a compelling guide for those facing a divorce involving a spouse struggling with addiction. Dr. Cohen shares stories from her own divorce, cognitive behavioral techniques that can help cope with the emotional toll of divorce, and navigating the complexities of co-parenting when substance abuse is a factor. If you're dealing with a...
2024-02-2740 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionHow to Know When to Leave Your Marriage, with Kate AnthonyIn this episode, Jaime's talking with Kate Anthony, author of "The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage." Together, they explore the often terrifying topic of deciding whether to stay or go when facing challenges in a marriage. Kate, a certified high-conflict divorce coach with over 12 years of experience, sheds light on common dilemmas individuals face while making this life-altering decision. Discover why women often agonize over this question and the importance of prioritizing personal happiness. Kate discusses what makes a healthy relationship and how deciding whether to divorce begins with self-work. D...
2024-02-1337 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionHow to Build a Strong Co-Parenting Alliance, with Co-Parenting Coach Al HuntoonIn this episode, Jamie's talking with Al Huntoon, an experienced social worker, former custody mediator, co-parenting coach and founder of Coparenting Connection. Discover the distinctive approach Al takes to foster harmonious co-parenting relationships, focusing on communication, conflict management, child-centered principles, and the importance of self-care. He empowers parents following separation and divorce with a skills-building approach to co-parenting with the child’s best interest at heart. Don't miss this engaging conversation that sheds light on common challenges of co-parenting and provides actionable tips for a more successful co-parenting journey.Need help from Al? Contact him by visiting ww...
2024-01-1630 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionCo-Parenting with a Narcissist: Strategies for Protecting Your Children and Your SanityIn this episode, join Jaime as she delves into the complexities of co-parenting with a narcissist with the renowned social psychologist, Dr. W. Keith Campbell. As a distinguished expert in personality and narcissism, Dr. Campbell provides valuable insights into navigating the challenges of co-parenting, whether dealing with narcissistic traits or Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Together, they explore common behaviors of narcissistic individuals that impact co-parenting dynamics and discuss effective communication strategies for non-narcissistic parents. Dr. Campbell also shares crucial advice on establishing healthy boundaries, protecting parental rights, and ensuring the best interests of the children. If you're facing the...
2023-12-1931 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionWhy Every Couple Should Have a PrenupIn this episode, Jaime sits down with Lisa Zeiderman, managing partner at Miller Zeiderman LLP and renowned divorce financial analyst. Together, they delve into the intricacies of prenuptial agreements, shedding light on why every couple, not just the wealthy, should consider this crucial legal document.Lisa breaks down the myths surrounding prenups, reveals the common misconceptions, and shares insights on when and how to approach this important financial discussion in your relationship. Learn how prenuptial agreements go beyond asset division and can serve as a tool for protecting the interests of both partners, especially in situations involving...
2023-12-0533 min
Her Empowered DivorceWhat is a Parenting Coordinator? with Jaime Davis Esq.PARENTING COORDINATOR'S ROLE IN RESOLVING CUSTODY CONFLICTSHOST: Beverly Price, Divorce & Empowerment CoachGUEST: Jaime Davis, Co-Managing Partner at Gailor Hunt and Host of A Year and a Day: Divorce without Destruction SUMMARY:A parenting coordinator plays a crucial role in helping divorcing parents navigate the often tumultuous terrain of co-parenting after a divorce. Their primary objective is to assist in making decisions related to child custody, visitation, and other parenting matters in an amicable and child-focused manner. They act as neutral third-party facilitators, using their expertise in family la...
2023-11-2918 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionIs there a relationship between menopause and divorce?In this episode, we delve into a profound conversation with Claire Gill, the founder of the National Menopause Foundation (NMF), as we explore the often-overlooked connection between menopause and divorce. Over and over again, in conversations, webinars, and group meetings with the NMF, women often reference feeling convinced that they were going to get a divorce during the journey to menopause.Join us as we shed light on the complexities, challenges, and emotions that can intertwine these life events. Our culture’s lack of awareness and understanding of the physical and emotional symptoms of pe...
2023-11-0738 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionDesigning a Holiday Child Custody Schedule for Divorcing CouplesIn this episode, Jaime and family law attorney Melissa Essick delve into the complexities of crafting a holiday schedule that takes into account the unique needs of your family. With the holiday season fast approaching, Jaime and Melissa provide expert insights and practical tips to help you navigate the challenges, emotions, and unique complexities that can arise during this festive time. Discover the different approaches to splitting the holidays, whether it's rotating, fixed, or shared schedules, and find out which one may suit your family best. Jaime and Melissa share their insights into considering your children's holiday wishes, maintaining...
2023-10-2431 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionEmpowering Domestic Violence Survivors and Navigating DivorceTo honor Domestic Violence Awareness Month, Jaime and fellow family law attorney Meredith Cross are delving into the sensitive yet critical issue of domestic violence within the context of divorce. Domestic violence can complicate divorce proceedings, exacerbating an already complex situation. Hear more about the legal aspects, challenges, and potential solutions when domestic violence intersects with divorce. Learn about warning signs, protective orders, child custody considerations, and how to support survivors. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, this episode offers valuable insights and resources to empower survivors.If you or someone you know...
2023-10-1031 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionThe Hidden Financial Benefits of Divorce You Need to KnowIn this episode, Jaime's joined by Rick Salmeron, a Certified Financial Planner and Founder of Salmeron Financial. Rick specializes in guiding individuals through the often-overlooked financial advantages of divorce, and he's seen the hidden silver lining within this life event and the powerful opportunities it can bring. From taking control of your financial ship to exploring investment strategies and unexpected retirement benefits, Rick sheds light on how divorce can serve as a catalyst for building wealth and securing a brighter financial future.Need help from Rick? Contact him by visiting www.salmeronfinancial.com.If...
2023-09-0528 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSupporting Friends and Family Through Divorce with Family Law Attorney Lynn McNallyIn this episode, Jaime sits down with board-certified family law specialist Lynn McNally, a partner at the Smith Debnam Law Firm in Raleigh to discuss practical ways to support your loved ones navigating divorce. Lynn and Jaime discuss the vital role that support persons can play during the process of divorce, including considerations for legal consultations, attorney-client privilege, and the delicate balance of emotional assistance. For friends and family, find out how to offer meaningful help, encourage mental health resources, and provide the right kind of support without overstepping boundaries. Jaime and Lynn also call out what not to...
2023-08-2232 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionOpen Marriage & How it Can Impact DivorceJoin us as we tackle the intriguing and often taboo topic of open marriages and their potential effects on divorce cases. In this episode, Jaime is joined by fellow Gailor Hunt attorneys Melissa Essick and Grace Massarelli to discuss the legal implications that arise when couples have consensual non-monogamous relationships. Interestingly, they have recently seen an increase in divorce cases involving open marriages.Discover what defines an open marriage, why couples consider an open marriage, the importance of communication and boundaries, and how it can influence custody, alimony, and equitable distribution claims. Jaime and...
2023-08-0833 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionInfidelity: Why People Cheat and Its Impact on DivorceIn this episode, Jaime delves into the topic of infidelity and its implications in divorce cases with Michelle Chiaramonte, a clinical social worker and therapist specializing in marriage and couples counseling. They explore why people cheat, the changing dynamics of infidelity across genders, and how individuals can navigate the aftermath of an affair. Discover valuable insights into the emotional complexities of infidelity and how to move forward, whether together or apart. Michelle also shares thoughts on how to help prevent infidelity in your relationship. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of infidelity and its impact on divorce.
2023-07-2524 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionNavigating High Conflict Divorce: Expert Strategies with Bill EddyIn this episode, Jaime's talking with Bill Eddy, therapist, lawyer, mediator, and co-founder of the High Conflict Institute. Discover the key differences between high-conflict divorces and typical divorces, common behaviors exhibited by high-conflict individuals, and effective strategies to protect yourself and your children during the divorce process. Gain valuable insights from Bill Eddy's expertise in dealing with high-conflict personalities and learn how to navigate divorce without destruction. Tune in now and take the first step toward a peaceful resolution.Need help from Bill? Contact him by visiting www.highconflictinstitute.com.If you are in need...
2023-07-1125 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionUnique Legal Issues Faced by LGBTQIA+ Couples During DivorceIn this episode, Jaime's joined by Jonathan Melton, Board Certified Specialist in Family Law, certified mediator for family financial cases and fellow attorney at Gailor Hunt, to discuss same-sex marriage and the challenges LGBTQIA+ couples may encounter during separation and divorce. Discover the legal implications that same-sex couples faced prior to marriage equality, including the absence of property rights, tax benefits, and legal remedies, and learn about the complexities of custody issues for same-sex couples and how marriage equality has helped mitigate some of these challenges. Jonathan provides valuable insights into the importance of premarital agreements, highlighting their role...
2023-06-2727 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionTools for Men Going Through Divorce: Rebuilding Prosperity and Well-BeingIn this episode, Jaime talks with Steve Schleupner, Certified Divorce Coach and Financial Planner, about his personal experience with divorce and how it inspired him to become a divorce coach. Steve shares his journey of navigating divorce as a single father and the challenges he faced in balancing his career and responsibilities. He introduces Stoic philosophy and its application in coaching men through divorce, emphasizing the importance of perception, actions, and focusing on what is within their control. Tune in to this enlightening conversation to gain valuable tools and strategies for men to achieve a positive outcome in divorce...
2023-06-1330 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionEmpowering Women Through Divorce: Overcoming emotional challenges with Divorce Coach Beverly PriceIn this episode, Jaime talks with divorce and empowerment coach Beverly Price about the emotional challenges that women often face during the divorce process. In her work as a coach, Beverly helps women feel empowered to have a better life. Whether contemplating divorce, going through the legal and financial process to divorce, or struggling with negative emotions post-divorce, a coach can help navigate this daunting journey and avoid making life-altering decisions based on emotions.Beverly helps her female clients process their emotions effectively, particularly when the divorce process strips away a person's identity as a spouse and...
2023-05-3038 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionWhat's the difference between physical and legal custody?In this episode, Jaime's talking with Melissa Essick, a fellow family law attorney and mediator, about legal custody in divorce with children. The discussion includes the differences between sole legal custody and joint legal custody, what information parents are entitled to about their children and what decisions typically need joint agreement between parents, such as medical appointments, mental health decisions, competitive sports, and school choice. They also warn against playing games and not involving the other parent in decision-making. Tune in to find out how to navigate custody concerns and differences in opinion.While the information presented...
2023-05-1634 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionHealthy co-parenting strategies for divorced parentsJohanna Lynn, a relationship specialist and founder of The Family Imprint Institute, has over 20 years of expertise in resolving inherited family patterns and helps her clients dismantle unhealthy patterns, restore relationships, and create resilient boundaries. In this episode, they discuss common relationship issues couples face during and after divorce, including money matters, different views on parenting, infidelity, and the role of in-laws. They also delve into co-parenting and how to get both parents on the same page to ensure children don't feel the stress or tension from their separation. Johanna explains that separating the pain of the...
2023-05-0225 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionHow to get your financial information in order without a forensic accountantMarriage is about love, but divorce is about money. In this episode, Jaime talks with Gabrielle Clemens, a certified divorce financial analyst. Gabrielle talks about how she helps men and women navigate the divorce process by ensuring that their divorce agreement is sustainable and viable for their lifestyle, and she emphasizes the importance of approaching divorce with a business mindset and understanding the long-term impact of financial decisions. Learn how to start with your financial affidavit or statement, which quantifies your lifestyle and expenses, to get control of your cash flow to avoid financial destruction in your divorce.
2023-04-1823 min
The Women's Social ClubDivorce Without Destruction, with Attorney Jaime DavisToday we’re talking to divorce attorney Jaime Davis, partner at Gailor Hunt Davis Taylor & Gibbs, PLLC. She’s the author of A Year and a Day: Divorce without Destruction, and she hosts a podcast with the same name. She fights for women who are going through the toughest times in their lives, and she’s going to tell us how we can set ourselves up for success.Today’s Topic: how to legally protect ourselves within relationships, and protecting your assets within relationships.In this episode, you'll hear about:
Premarital Agreements
Advice before separati...
2023-04-0533 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionDo you need a forensic accountant for your divorce?Do you think your spouse is hiding money from you during your divorce proceeding? You might need a forensic accountant like Robert Nordlander! Forensic accountants are experts in financial records and statements, and an attorney can hire them to testify about things like your former spouse's all-cash lifestyle, unusual spending, and unexplained purchases in court. In this episode, find out how to achieve the best possible financial outcome for yourself during your divorce.Need help from Robert? Contact him by visiting www.nordlandercpa.com.While the information presented is intended to provide you with general...
2023-04-0431 min
10 Minute Teacher Podcast with Cool Cat Teacher12 AR Apps and Tips for Awesome Classrooms with Jaime DonallyUsing your smartphone, you can now scan a human. In this episode of the 10 Minute Teacher podcast, I speak with AR expert Jaime Donally about practical ways to use augmented reality in the classroom. Jaime shares 12 top tips and resources for engaging learning with immersive tech, including 3D scanning, 3D printing, and more. She discusses the importance of spatial learning and how AR and VR can help students prepare for future careers. Teachers looking to make their lessons more engaging and interactive won't want to miss this conversation! Show Notes, Transcript, and Bio on https://www.coolcatteacher...
2023-03-2812 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSeason 5 Episode 4: Valuing the Family Business for Divorce During an Uncertain EconomyDetermining how much the family business is worth during a divorce is a fairly common issue. If separating spouses cannot agree on the value of their business, an expert is normally brought in to perform a formal business valuation. In this episode, CPA and Certified Valuation Analyst David Amiss shares his expertise about valuing a family business for divorce in an uncertain economy.
2022-12-2831 min
Hijos de su Cerveza MadreHOPCAST 7: HERNAN CASTELLANI DE SIR HOPPER | Estudiar en UC Davis, consultorías cerveceras en Argentina, Webinars LupuladosEn el Hopcast de hoy nos acompaña Hernan Castellani cervecero gitano y consultor argentino certificado maestro cervecero por Uc Davis, creador del podcast Birra, escritor del libro ''La IPA no pasa de moda'' y creador de la marca Sir Hopper nos platica todo su proceso para llegar a ser el cervecero que es, su experiencia de estudiar en Estados Unidos y como las cervecerías Argentinas se mantienen en un país donde la economía ha estado en constante cambio durante los últimos años.
2022-12-041h 09
The Power ConnectEp. 49 - Jaime Diez - Texas RRC CandidateJaime Andres Diez is fighting an uphill battle but it wouldn’t be the first time he’s come from nowhere to posing a legitimate political challenge, albeit this time on a much larger stage. The 26-year-old Libertarian candidate for the Texas Railroad Commission seat is battling against Republican incumbent Wayne Christian and upstart Democratic candidate Luke Warford. Diez is not necessarily a political neophyte, having taken second in a school board race in his native Brownsville. However the stakes are much different at the state level, he’s running as a third party candidate and he’s lacking in one m...
2022-11-0600 min
Confessions of a Creative DirectorAshley Davis Marshall - A queso loving ECD from Texas performs creative triage and ponders the future of AI advertising.Ashley Davis Marshall...the name alone should tell you she means business. An ECD at The Martin Agency, Ashley shares valuable lessons and thoughts she's gathered along a journey that is the envy of any creative professional. Plus, three-quarters of her recipe for queso dip (hmmm, she left out her secret ingredient!) and a somewhat surprising realization about the possible cause of her imposter syndrome.
2022-09-071h 08
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSeason 5 Episode 3: Divorce and Children with Special NeedsSeparation and divorce can be difficult enough, but when a couple has a child with special needs, separating can be even more complicated. In this episode, attorney Linda Malone shares some of the things a couple should consider if they are planing to separate and they have a child with special needs. Topics include, establishment of special needs trusts, government benefits, guardianship, and supplemental insurance among other things.
2022-07-2029 min
Women on Top with Haleh Moddasser"Teaming Up for a Winning Divorce" with Jaime DavisJaime Davis is a Board-Certified Family Law Specialist, Certified Family Financial Mediator and Certified Parenting Coordinator. The co-managing partner at Gailor Hunt Davis Taylor & Gibbs, PLLC in Raleigh, NC was selected to Super Lawyers in 2019 and named to Business North Carolina’s Legal Elite in Family Law in 2018 and 2019. Jaime is the podcast host of A Year and a Day: Divorce Without Destruction and author of a book by the same name.Jaime sits down with Women on Top with Haleh Moddasser to discuss the current state of divorce, why what looks fair on paper is not necessarily wh...
2022-07-1322 min
Women On Top with Haleh Moddasser"Teaming Up for a Winning Divorce" with Jaime DavisJaime Davis is a Board-Certified Family Law Specialist, Certified Family Financial Mediator and Certified Parenting Coordinator. The co-managing partner at Gailor Hunt Davis Taylor & Gibbs, PLLC in Raleigh, NC was selected to Super Lawyers in 2019 and named to Business North Carolina’s Legal Elite in Family Law in 2018 and 2019. Jaime is the podcast host of A Year and a Day: Divorce Without Destruction and author of a book by the same name. Jaime sits down with Women on Top with Haleh Moddasser to discuss the current state of divorce, why what looks fair on paper is not necessar...
2022-07-0522 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSeason 5 Episode 2: Divorcing a NarcissistAn inflated sense of self-importance, a need for attention from others, and a lack of empathy are some of the hallmark behaviors of narcissism and sound like what not to look for in a spouse or dating partner. In this episode, Michelle Chiaramonte, LCSW and owner of Lumina Counseling Associates shares her expertise about navigating the divorce process when a narcissist is involved.
2022-04-2626 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSeason 5 Episode 1: A Child's Perspective on DivorceIn this epsiode, host Jaime Davis interviews author Kimberly Ewertz about her first book Family Redefined: Childhood Reflections on the Impact of Divorce which is a collection of testimonies by adult children of divorce. In 1990, after twelve years of marriage, Kimberly filed for divorce propelling her and her then ten year old son into a journey of irrevocable change. That journey was the impetus for Family Redefined.
2022-03-3126 min
Love Talk Live with Jaime BronsteinBrian DavisIn this week's episode of "Love Talk Live," I Interview Brian Davis, a financial planner who works with couples to help them keep the integrity of their relationship. As we all know, finances can cause a lot of stress on a relationship, so Brian is there to help couples navigate through any difficulties that finances may bring up in a relationship and help them make important financial decisions together. Brian is not your typical financial advisor as he works hard at forming personal relationships with his clients so they trust him and enjoy working with him. Topics discussed in...
2021-07-2741 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSeason 4 Episode 5: Reunification TherapyThriving during separation can be difficult when you have a child who refuses to spend time with either you or your co-parent. In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the process of reunification therapy with Dr. Tina Lepage, a forensic and clinical pyschologist and founder of Lepage Associates Psychological and Psychiatric Services. https://lepageassociates.com/.
2021-05-2521 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSeason 4 Episode 4: Why You Should Consider Individual Therapy During DivorceDuring separation and divorce, you can become your own worst enemy if you allow the stress of the situation to change who you are and how you present. It can be difficult to make important legal decisions that may impact the rest of your life if you are not managing your stress. In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the benefits of seeking individual therapy while going through the divorce process with Michelle Chiaramonte, LCSW and owner of Lumina Counseling Associates. https://www.luminacounseling.com/
2021-04-2122 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSeason 4 Episode 3: Helping Your Children Thrive During SeparationIn this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses how to help your children thrive during separation with child psychologist Dr. Lori Thomas. Dr. Thomas provides guidance and insight into issues such as how and when to tell the children about the separation, what not to tell the children, and what to expect once the children know about the separation. http://wynnsfamilypsychology.com/OurDoctors/tabid/366/Default.aspx.
2021-03-1531 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSeason 4 Episode 2: Is it Time for Divorce or is it Just COVID?Most people think it’s conflict and argument that lead to divorce. In fact, it’s the decreasing affection and the lack of emotional responsiveness that lead to separation and divorce. In this episode host Jaime Davis discusses the impact of COVID on marriages with licensed marriage and family therapist Caroline Landen. https://awakeningscenter.org/therapists/caroline-byrd-landen/.
2021-03-1533 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSeason 4 Episode 1: When is Family Therapy a Good Idea for a Family going through Divorce?This season the podcast will highlight themes with the purpose of not only helping you survive your divorce but to also thrive while you are making your way through the process. Most of the episodes this season will concentrate on self-care and therapy related subjects. In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses when family therapy might be a good idea for a family experiencing divorce with licensed marriage and family therapist Erin Ballard. https://raleighfamilysolutions.com/erin-ballard/.
2021-03-1529 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSeason 3 Episode 8: Buying and Selling a Home During SeparationBuying and selling a home during separation can present a unique set of challenges. In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the process with listing agent Julie Bell, buyer's agent Christina Cataldo and mortgage loan officer Deon Bradford- the team at Julie Bell Real Estate Divorce Specialists. For more information, you can visit their website at https://redivorcespecialists.com/.
2021-01-271h 08
The United PodcastJaime DavisChapters:0:00 – Intro1:24 – It’s a New Car!!2:54 – Jaime’s Journey to Photography6:06 – Jaime’s Path to a Photography Business8:44 - Jaime and Her Husband’s Real-Life Challenges10:58 - Balancing Trauma and Responsibility18:39 - Establishing Systems of Support23:19 - Inspiration to Prepare24:39 - Building Real Relationships With Clients28:53 - Open and Vulnerable on Socials31:11 - Having Your Why35:45 - Where to Find Jaime Online37:40 - OutroShow Notes:Showit UnitedJamie Davis...
2021-01-1538 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSeason 3 Episode 7: Protecting your Electronic Devices and Data During DivorcePeople often have questions about how to best protect their children and their assets during a divorce, but one area that they often overlook is protecting their data and making sure that their spouse can’t access their devices accidentally or otherwise. In this episode host Jaime Davis explores this topic with Rusty Gilmore, a Security Consultant and Computer Forensic Expert with Protus3.
2020-12-0834 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSeason 3 Episode 6: Evaluations in Child Custody CasesWhen you are involved in a child custody case, there are several types of evaluations you may encounter including custody evaluations, psychological evaluations, and substance abuse assessments. In this episode host Jaime Davis and fellow family law attorney Melissa Essick discuss what these evaluations entail and offer practical tips for parents who may be facing an evaluation in connection with their child custody case.
2020-11-1733 min
The Podcast for Dog People by Pawsome UniversityIncreasing Your Dog's Health Span with Dr. Susan Davis, PTDr. Susan Davis, PT, answers all our Companion Animal Physical Therapy questions and offers tips to extend your dog's health span, and help them live a long and active life!-------------------------------------------------------- DM Therapy Studyhttps://www.liebertpub.com/doi/full/10.1089/photob.2019.4723?fbclid=IwAR2H6nqmQAa5MRxSyGm_B-sshom1S77WfLlEuA77GdV1F5kfcEVtu98zak4&------------------------------------Housing & Exercise Risk Factors Studyhttps://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22620698/------------------------------------Breed Specific Spay/Neuter Studyhttps://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fvets.2020.00388/full------------------------------------Dr. Davis's book; Physical Therapy and Rehabilitation for...
2020-11-0448 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSeason 3 Episode 5: Tips for Working Effectively with Your Family Law AttorneyFor many people, divorce may be the first and sometimes only time they will work with a lawyer during their lifetime. Not knowing how to work effectively with your lawyer can lead to unnecessary frustration and dissatisfaction. In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her law partner Carrie Tortora discuss tips related to five different areas of working with a divorce attorney: the initial consultation, including how to prepare and what to expect; communicating with your lawyer; what to do when you are asked to collect documents and information for your attorney; managing your legal bill; and most importantly, ma...
2020-10-1337 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSeason 3 Episode 4: Separation and Divorce During COVIDIf you are contemplating separation or divorce, you may be worried about how the COVID-19 pandemic will affect your ability to physically separate from your spouse, as well as your ability to negotiate and finalize agreements about child custody, child support, the division of your assets and alimony and what will happen if you find yourself needing the court's assistance. In this episode, host Jaime Davis and fellow family law attorney Lynn McNally discuss how COVID might impact your divorce and whether now is a good time to separate or not.
2020-09-1729 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSeason 3 Episode 3: Navigating Child Custody and COVID-19Being separated or divorced and dealing with child custody is hard enough on a good day. Divorced parents often wish to avoid interacting with one another if possible, but the coronavirus pandemic is presenting new challenges and is requiring more communication. In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her law partner Carrie Tortora discuss tips for navigating child custody and child support during the COVID-19 outbreak.
2020-03-2630 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSeason 3 Episode 2: Introducing A Year and a Day the BookIn this episode, host Jaime Davis and colleague Lynn McNally discuss Jaime's newly released book entitled A Year and a Day which is based largely on this podcast. In 2017, Jaime decided to create the podcast to provide tips and information for getting through a separation and divorce without destroying family relationships or the family finances. The book is geared toward divorce related professionals and individuals who are contemplating separation, have been told by their spouse that they want to separate, or who may be dealing with child custody issues.
2020-02-2727 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSeason 3 Episode 1: Can I Represent Myself in my Divorce Case?People going through a separation often want to know whether they can represent themselves in connection with their divorce case. While the short answer to this question is yes, in this episode host Jaime Davis and fellow family law attorney Lynn McNally delve deeper into the issue and discuss times when it may be ok for you to represent yourself and other times when you should consider hiring a lawyer to help you.
2020-01-2232 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSeason 2 Episode 6: The Divorce ProcessVarious claims arise from the dissolution of a marriage. One of those claims is equitable distribution. Postseparation support and alimony are two additional claims that arise. Child custody and child support may also be at issue. In Episode 6, host Jaime Davis and her law partner Meredith Cross discuss two ways to resolve these claims and what to do if you have just been served with a lawsuit.
2019-11-0732 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSeason 2 Episode 5: Alimony and CohabitationAlimony and cohabitation can be some of the more frustrating issues for family law clients. There are many misconceptions about who is entitled to alimony, how it is calculated, and what constitutes cohabitation. In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her colleague Melissa Essick discuss when a spouse might be entitled to receive alimony, whether there is a formula for calculating the amount and duration, and how cohabitation might impact a person's right to continue receiving spousal support.
2019-10-1631 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSeason 2 Episode 4: Criminal law issues that can arise following a separationIn most cases, when we talk about the issues arising from a couple’s separation, we discuss civil claims such as child custody, child support, alimony and property distribution. But there are some actions a spouse might take following a separation that can lead to criminal liability. In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses two of those issues- domestic criminal trespass and revenge porn- with attorney Maria Hawkins of the Miller Law Group.
2019-06-2824 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSeason 2 Episode 3: How will being separated affect my inheritance rights?If a person is married, can he completely disinherit the other spouse in his will? If spouses separate, is there anything they should consider changing about their estate plans? In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses inheritance rights and how your marital status might affect those rights with attorney Brooke Dalrymple. In her estate planning work, Brooke counsels clients and prepares the documents necessary to ensure their wishes are honored with regard to their assets, their health care, and the handling of their financial affairs.
2019-03-1925 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSeason 2 Episode 2: High Conflict Divorce Cases and How to Handle ThemThere seems to be a misconception that all couples going through a divorce are involved in high conflict cases. In reality, however, the majority of separating couples are able to resolve their issues with little or no court intervention. With that said, there are some cases that despite the lawyers using their best efforts will not settle. The parties are unable to agree upon even the smallest of issues and court battles ensue. These cases are often referred to as high conflict cases. In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the topic of high conflict cases with Donna Moore, a Lice...
2019-02-1134 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionSeason 2 Episode 1: What Happens to the Family Business in a Divorce?Who gets the family business in a divorce? Will I continue to co-own it with my spouse? Will I have to buy out his or her interest? How will my business be valued? Will I need to hire an expert? In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her law partner Nicole Taylor discuss the answers to these questions and more concerning what happens to the family business in a divorce.
2019-01-2247 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionEpisode 16: Domestic ViolenceDomestic violence is a problem that does not discriminate. Anyone can be a victim or a perpetrator of domestic violence. Domestic violence transcends all socioeconomic boundaries and education levels and can affect people of any race, age, sexual orientation, religion or gender. In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the issue of domestic violence and how to obtain a domestic violence protective order in NC with her colleague Jonathan Melton.
2018-12-1029 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionEpisode 15: How to Handle Your First Holidays Following SeparationThe first holiday season after a separation can evoke a variety of emotions for both you and your children. Steeped as they are in memories and traditions, the holidays are likely to stir up feelings of fear, stress, and potentially even sadness. In episode 15, host Jaime Davis and fellow family law attorney Melissa Essick discuss tips for preparing and coping with the first holiday season as a separated/divorced family.
2018-11-0625 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionEpisode 14: Substance Abuse and Child CustodyCustody cases in and of themselves are hard enough, but one issue that can further complicate an already highly emotional situation is substance abuse. In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her law partner Carrie Tortora offer tips and discuss actions you can take if you find yourself involved in a custody case where substance abuse is an issue.
2018-10-2226 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionEpisode 13: Taking Care of Yourself During a DivorceIn Episode 13, host Jaime Davis discusses the importance of self-care during the divorce process with fellow family law attorney Lynn McNally. This episode addresses such issues as: What is self-care? Why is self-care important during a divorce? What can you do to ensure you are taking care of yourself during a divorce?
2018-10-0434 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionEpisode 12: Evidence in Child Custody CasesCan your cell phone be imaged? Can your spouse obtain a copy of your Facebook archive? What about text messages and emails? These questions and more are answered in Episode 12 when the tables are turned and host Jaime Davis is interviewed by her interns Grace Massarelli and Olivia Daniels about evidence in child custody cases.
2018-08-1428 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionEpisode 11: The Do's and Don'ts of Surviving a Child Custody CaseLearning how to navigate the do's and don'ts of being involved in a child custody dispute can be unnerving. In Episode 11, host Jaime Davis discusses helpful tips for surviving child custody litigation with her colleague and fellow family law attorney Melissa J. Essick. Jaime and Melissa address issues such as how to appropriately communicate with the other parent, what not to post on social media, and how to avoid alienating your child.
2018-07-1329 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionEpisode 10: The Child's AdvocateThanks to a very important project of Legal Aid of North Carolina, in some custody cases, an attorney can be appointed to represent the child to advocate for what the child wants to have happen. In Episode 10, host Jaime Davis discusses The Child's Advocate with its program director attorney Suzanne Chester.
2018-07-0226 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionEpisode 9: Family Law AppealsWhen the trial is over and the Judge has entered the Order, your case is finished, right? The answer is not necessarily. In some cases if you disagree with the Judge's ruling, you may have another avenue available to you. In Episode 9, host Jaime Davis discusses the appellate process in family law cases with her colleague and fellow family law attorney Jonathan Melton.
2018-06-1926 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionEpisode 8: Grandparent VisitationWhen parents separate, we often hear about a custody schedule being put in place that addresses when the children will spend time with each of their parents, but in some cases, grandparents may have rights too. In Episode 8, host Jaime Davis discusses the topic of grandparent visitation with her law partner Stephanie Gibbs, who often represents grandparents involved in custody disputes.
2018-05-1128 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionEpisode 7: The Intersection of Couples Therapy and the Divorce ProcessEpisode 7 features special guest Caroline Landen, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in Couples and Sex therapy with the Awakenings Center for Intimacy and Sexuality. In Episode 7, Caroline and host Jaime Davis discuss the benefits of marriage counseling both before and after a decision to end the marriage has been made.
2018-04-1640 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionEpisode 6: The Potential Price of CheatingCheating, or adultery as it is referred to in the legal context, is one of the more challenging problems that can arise in a marriage, and often it is one of the factors associated with the decision to separate or divorce. In Episode 6, host Jaime Davis discusses the potential impact adultery can have on a family law case, as well as potential claims a spouse may have against the third party for alienation of affection and criminal conversation.
2018-03-2916 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionEpisode 5: Parenting Coordinators in Child Custody CasesIn Episode 5, host and Certified Parenting Coordinator Jaime Davis discusses the topic of Parenting Coordinators in child custody cases with fellow family law attorney and Parenting Coordinator Katie King. If you are involved in a high conflict custody dispute and you and your co-parent have a difficult time making decisions that affect your children, a Parenting Coordinator may be the answer. This episode will explain what a Parenting Coordinator is and how to get one, as well as offer tips for working with your Parenting Coordinator once one has been appointed.
2018-02-1944 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionEpisode 4: Gray DivorceEpisode 4 features special guest Haleh Moddasser, CPA. Haleh is the Senior Vice President and Managing Partner of Stearns Financial Group's Triangle Office, and she has recently published a book entitled Gray Divorce: Silver Linings. In Episode 4, Haleh and host Jaime Davis discuss the concept of Gray Divorce and the different impact divorce after age 50 can have on women versus men. For more information about Haleh, go to http://www.stearnsfinancial.com/team_member/haleh-moddasser/
2018-02-0333 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionEpisode 3: Common Myths Surrounding Separation & DivorceIn Episode 3, host Jaime Davis explores common myths surrounding separation and divorce with her law partner Carrie Tortora. Carrie and Jaime discuss such topics as whether "papers" are required to be legally separated; whether committing adultery means a spouse loses everything; and whether the children get to decide where they live.
2018-01-0433 minA Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionEpisode 2: MediationIn Episode 2, host Jaime Davis discusses the topic of mediation with fellow family law attorney and mediator Lynn McNally. This episode addresses questions such as: How does mediation work? How much does it cost? Why is mediation beneficial? Are there any downsides to mediation?
2017-12-1338 min
A Year and a Day: Divorce Without DestructionEpisode 1: Co-parentingIn Episode 1, host Jaime Davis discusses issues related to co-parenting with Dr. Lori Thomas, a licensed psychologist with Wynns Family Psychology. Dr. Thomas offers tips and suggestions for how parents can continue to successfully co-parent their children despite a separation or divorce.
2017-11-2832 min