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Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 393: Parenting Tune-up: Navigating the Seasons of ParenthoodJoin host Jay Holland as he introduces a new parenting tune-up resource designed to help parents evaluate and adjust their parenting strategies. This episode dives into the complexities of parenting across different life stages and offers biblical encouragement and practical questions to guide parents in nurturing their children.Key Points:Introduction to the Parenting Tune-up resource. Importance of adapting parenting strategies as children grow. Biblical encouragement from Psalms, Proverbs, Ephesians, and Deuteronomy. The "Oxygen Mask Principle" for self-care in parenting. Reflecting on and celebrating positive traits in children. Course correction strat...2025-08-0333 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 391: Living as Light in the Youth Sports Industrial Complex with Brian Smith and Ed UszynskiIn this conversation, Jay Holland, Ed Uszynski, and Brian Smith discuss the complexities of youth sports culture, emphasizing the need for a shift in perspective among parents and coaches. They explore the concept of the 'youth sports industrial complex,' the impact of parental influence, and the importance of character development in sports. The discussion highlights the detrimental effects of snowplow parenting and the need for intentional discipleship opportunities within the youth sports experience. In this conversation, the speakers discuss the importance of instilling gratitude and character in youth sports, contrasting the focus on co...2025-07-0648 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 199: Looking Ahead: What’s Your Next Faith Step?In this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay discusses the theme of navigating seasons of change, particularly as many listeners transition out of the school year. He emphasizes the importance of reflecting on past experiences, identifying the next step of faith, and trusting in God's plan. Jay encourages listeners to take small, intentional steps towards their faith and highlights the significance of community in the Christian journey.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.net2025-06-0506 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 389: Why are More Young Women Leaving the Faith with Cicely CorryFor the first time in the history of the Barna Research, more young women are leaving the faith than young men. Jay Holland and Cicely Corry discuss the work of Barna, focusing on the intersection of church and culture. They explore the methodologies used in their research, the importance of data for parents and leaders, and the concerning trend of young women disengaging from faith. Cicely shares insights into the reasons behind this trend, including social dynamics and perceptions of safety within church communities. The discussion emphasizes the need for churches to create welcoming environments for young women and...2025-06-0149 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 195: Training for Godliness: Putting It All TogetherIn this episode, Jay discusses the importance of spiritual disciplines as tools for transformation in the Christian faith. He emphasizes that these practices are not about legalism or mastery, but about deepening one's relationship with Jesus. Jay encourages listeners to incorporate various disciplines into their lives, recognizing that growth takes intention and repetition. He also highlights the role of the Holy Spirit in guiding and empowering believers in their spiritual journey.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:...2025-05-3008 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 193: Evangelism: Sharing The Good NewsIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay discusses the spiritual discipline of evangelism, emphasizing its importance in the Christian faith. He explains that evangelism is not just a spontaneous act but a planned practice that involves sharing the good news of Jesus Christ. Jay addresses common myths that prevent individuals from sharing their faith and provides practical tools and encouragement for effective evangelism. He highlights the significance of living out one's faith and being a true representation of Jesus to others.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]2025-05-2809 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 189: Fasting: Feasting on God by Letting GoIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay explores the spiritual discipline of fasting, emphasizing its importance in the Christian life. He discusses the biblical basis for fasting, its purpose, and how it can deepen one's relationship with God. Jay provides practical tips for fasting, including starting small and using the time typically spent eating for prayer and reflection. He encourages listeners to view fasting as a joyful experience that can lead to spiritual growth and greater dependence on God.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]2025-05-2209 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 182: Forgiving the Unforgivable: Rwanda's Path from Genocide to GraceIn this episode, Jay explores the profound journey of Rwanda from a nation ravaged by genocide to one of healing and reconciliation. He emphasizes the power of forgiveness rooted in the Christian faith, illustrating how the gospel can transform hearts and communities. Through personal stories and biblical teachings, Jay challenges listeners to reflect on their own capacity for forgiveness and the importance of community in the healing process.Listen and Subscribe:Apple Podcasts | SpotifyConnect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith...2025-05-1306 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 175: How does the Gospel compare to Naturalism?In this episode, Jay explores the major world religions, focusing on Christianity and its comparison with naturalism. He discusses the fundamental beliefs of naturalism, including its views on the problem of evil, the nature of God, and the afterlife. Jay contrasts these beliefs with Christian teachings, emphasizing the importance of faith in Jesus as the path to salvation. He reflects on his personal journey of faith and encourages listeners to seek a relationship with God.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]...2025-05-0209 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 171: Aren't all world religions just different paths up the same mountain?In this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay explores the question of how Jesus compares to other world religions. He discusses the common belief that all religions are different paths to the same truth and presents a Christian perspective on the uniqueness of Jesus. Jay emphasizes the distinct problems, solutions, and concepts of God found in Christianity compared to other religions, ultimately affirming that Jesus is the only way to salvation.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.net2025-04-2808 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 165: You've Got Power: How the Spirit Fuels Your MissionIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay discusses the empowering role of the Holy Spirit in the lives of believers. He emphasizes that Christians are not meant to live out their faith alone but are equipped by the Holy Spirit for ministry and service. Jay explains the significance of spiritual gifts, the fruit of the Spirit, and the importance of community in living a faithful Christian life. He encourages listeners to rely on the Holy Spirit for strength and purpose in their daily lives.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple...2025-04-1809 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 161: Who is the Holy Spirit? Why He's Closer Than You ThinkIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay introduces a new series focused on the Holy Spirit, emphasizing His importance in the lives of believers. He clarifies misconceptions about the Holy Spirit, presenting Him as a person and fully God, equal to the Father and the Son. The discussion covers the roles of the Holy Spirit, including assurance of salvation, empowerment for service, comfort, and guidance in the Christian life. Jay encourages listeners to engage with the Holy Spirit for spiritual growth and transformation.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts...2025-04-1408 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 385: Have You Considered Fasting?In this episode, Jay Holland discusses the often-overlooked practice of fasting within the Christian faith. He shares personal reflections on his struggles with fasting, its biblical foundations, and the spiritual benefits it can bring to one's life, marriage, and parenting. Jay emphasizes the importance of humility and submission to God through fasting, encouraging listeners to consider making it a regular part of their spiritual journey.TakeawaysFasting is a practice that can lead to spiritual breakthroughs.Jesus expected his followers to fast, just as they pray and give.2025-04-0722 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 149: God Can Bring Good Out of EvilIn this episode, Jay explores the profound question of how God can be good in the face of evil and suffering. He discusses the problem of evil across various worldviews, emphasizing that even atheism struggles with this issue. Jay highlights the Christian perspective, which offers hope and comfort through the understanding of free will and God's love. He shares the biblical story of Joseph to illustrate how God can turn evil into good, encouraging listeners to maintain hope and faith amidst their struggles.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]2025-03-2709 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 146: How Can There Be A Good God With So Much Evil and Suffering in the WorldIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay addresses the challenging question of how a good God can coexist with the presence of evil and suffering in the world. He acknowledges the difficulty of this question and explores various worldviews, including Christianity, Islam, Buddhism, and atheism, in relation to the problem of evil. Jay emphasizes that the Christian perspective offers the most coherent explanation, highlighting the importance of human choice and the role of Jesus in addressing suffering. The episode encourages listeners to engage with these profound questions while remaining rooted in their faith....2025-03-2410 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 384: The 31 Day Marriage Prayer Challenge with Aaron SmithJay Holland and Aaron Smith explore the transformative power of the gospel and prayer in relationships, particularly in marriage. They discuss the importance of recognizing one's identity in Christ, the challenges of receiving correction, and the significance of prayer as a means to align hearts with God's will. The discussion also highlights the 31-Day Marriage Prayer Challenge, designed to encourage couples to pray for each other and deepen their spiritual connection. Through personal anecdotes and biblical insights, they emphasize that prayer not only changes circumstances but also transforms individuals, fostering a deeper understanding of love and grace in relationships.2025-03-1643 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 134: Is it OK for a Christian to Date a Nonbeliever?In this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay discusses the complexities of dating as a Christian, particularly the question of whether it is acceptable for a Christian to date a non-believer. He emphasizes the importance of biblical principles, shared values, and the concept of being 'unequally yoked' in relationships. Jay provides scriptural references to guide listeners in making wise choices in their dating lives, encouraging them to seek partners who align with their faith and values.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:Website...2025-03-0609 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 131: What does the Bible say about Dating?In this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay discusses the complexities of dating from a Christian perspective, particularly addressing the question of whether it is acceptable for Christians to date non-believers. He emphasizes the lack of direct biblical references to dating, instead focusing on the principles that can guide young people in their relationships. Jay advises against dating in early teenage years, highlighting the importance of understanding oneself and the purpose of dating. He encourages listeners to trust in God for guidance in their relationships.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]2025-03-0309 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 383: How to Lighten the Baggage Our Children Carry with Chris SasserJay Holland and Chris Sasser explore the concept of emotional baggage that children carry into adulthood, particularly focusing on the pressures of performance, the importance of healthy relationships, and the role of parental influence. Chris shares insights from his book 'Bags', discussing common emotional burdens children face and practical ways parents can help lighten their load. The discussion emphasizes the significance of understanding one's identity in Christ and fostering connections over mere content delivery in parenting.Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit ww...2025-03-0236 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 382: (Part 2) How to Walk with Loved Ones Through Trauma with Eliza HuieIn this conversation, Jay Holland and Eliza Huey continue to explore the complexities of trauma, its effects on individuals, and the importance of support systems. They discuss the evolution of understanding trauma, the role of God in times of suffering, and how Scripture can provide comfort. The conversation also delves into the concept of post-traumatic growth, emphasizing that trauma can lead to spiritual resilience and deeper faith. They highlight the need for proper trauma care, which includes establishing safety, processing experiences, and integrating them into one's life. Additionally, they address the challenges of information overload in today's world and...2025-02-1641 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 381: (Part) 1 How to Walk with Loved Ones Through Trauma with Eliza HuieIn this conversation, Jay Holland and Eliza Huey delve into the complexities of trauma, its definitions, and the importance of understanding its impact on individuals and relationships. They discuss the physiological responses to trauma, the significance of being present for those who have experienced trauma, and how caregivers can provide support. Eliza emphasizes the need for compassion and understanding in navigating trauma, highlighting the role of community and interpersonal relationships in the healing process. Jay and Eliza also discussed the importance of presence in healing, the role of the nervous system in trauma, and p...2025-02-0349 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 109: Know Your SLEDIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay discusses the importance of understanding human value from a Christian perspective, particularly in the context of the abortion debate. He emphasizes that every human being, regardless of size, level of development, environment, or degree of dependency, is made in the image of God and thus possesses inherent value. Jay introduces the SLED framework to help listeners articulate their beliefs about the sanctity of life and encourages them to contend for the value of all human beings.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]2025-01-3009 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 380: Changing the Story of Your Generations with John DongesIn this conversation, John Donges shares his journey from a challenging childhood marked by family dysfunction and abuse to finding faith and hope through a local church. He reflects on the impact of his upbringing in West Virginia, the struggles with his stepfather's abuse, and the transformative experience of discovering a relationship with God. John's story highlights the importance of community, resilience, and the ongoing challenges he faced even after embracing faith. In this conversation, Jay Holland and John Donges explore the profound themes of discipleship, the cost of following Jesus, and the transformative power of faith. They discuss...2025-01-1949 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 091: Toxic Relationships: Mad GasIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay discusses the importance of recognizing and navigating toxic relationships, particularly for teens and young adults. He introduces the acronym MAD GAS to identify six types of toxic individuals: Manipulator, Addict, Deceiver, Gossip, Arguer, and Slug. Jay emphasizes the need for self-reflection to ensure one is not contributing to toxicity in relationships and encourages listeners to seek healthy connections and community.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.netYouTube: https...2025-01-0608 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 379: Remedies for an Anxious GenerationIn this episode, Jay Holland reflects on the challenges of parenting in the digital age, particularly focusing on the alarming rise in mental health issues among children and teenagers. He discusses insights from Jonathan Haidt's book, 'The Anxious Generation,' which explores the impact of technology and social media on childhood development. Holland emphasizes the need for unstructured play and offers practical solutions for parents to mitigate the negative effects of digital exposure on their children.TakeawaysThe 21st century has faced significant challenges, including 9/11 and COVID-19.Mental health issues...2025-01-0529 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 087: Pre-decide to Trust GodIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay talks about pre-deciding to trust God amidst life's uncertainties. He emphasizes that individuals face numerous decisions daily and that pre-deciding on key aspects, such as trust in God, can lead to a more fulfilling life. Jay explores the nature of God, affirming His reality, goodness, and love, while acknowledging the complexity of His ways. The episode encourages listeners to integrate faith into their daily routines and to seek community through local churches..Listen and Subscribe:Apple Podcasts | SpotifyConnect with...2024-12-3108 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 084: We Are Welcome With GodIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay discusses the various causes for joy that stem from our relationship with Jesus Christ. He emphasizes the importance of feeling welcomed in the family of God and how this sense of belonging can provide joy regardless of our circumstances. Jay encourages his listeners to engage with their local church community, highlighting that true joy is found in connection with others and in faith. He reminds us that Jesus invites us to find rest in Him and that we are all seen and welcomed by God.Listen...2024-12-2607 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 083: We Are Secure By GodIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay shares a Christmas message focusing on the joy and security that comes from faith in Jesus Christ. He highlights the importance of understanding that our salvation is secure through the Holy Spirit and the sacrifice of Jesus. Jay encourages listeners to embrace their faith and find joy in the assurance of their salvation, reminding them that they are never alone in their journey with God.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.net2024-12-2505 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 081: We Are Seen By GodIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay explores the concept of joy, particularly in the context of the Christmas season. He distinguishes between joy and happiness, emphasizing that joy is a deeper, more enduring state that comes from our relationship with God. Jay shares theological insights on joy, including the significance of being seen and loved by God, and how this understanding can bring encouragement and hope to listeners during challenging times. He invites listeners to reflect on the joy that comes from knowing God and encourages them to seek community in their faith journey.2024-12-2307 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 075: Doing Ordinary Things For the Glory of GodIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay Holland discusses the concept of the good life, emphasizing the importance of finding joy and meaning in everyday choices. He warns against two major joy killers: comparison and addiction, particularly in the context of social media. Jay encourages listeners to focus on their relationship with God and to make choices that glorify Him, while also highlighting the detrimental effects of social media on mental health. Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.net2024-12-1311 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 073: Choosing to Have a Great DayIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay discusses the importance of finding meaning in life despite its fleeting nature. While many pursuits may seem meaningless, they can be transformed into gifts from God through our choices and attitudes. Jay encourages listeners to choose joy and gratitude in their daily lives, regardless of circumstances, and highlights the significance of community and faith in this journey.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.netYouTube: https://www.youtube.com...2024-12-1109 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 072: How to Have a Great LifeIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay talks about finding meaning and purpose in life through faith in Jesus Christ. He addresses the common feelings of despair and insignificance that many experience, emphasizing that life, while brief, is filled with meaning when viewed through the lens of faith. Jay encourages listeners to make daily choices that honor God, suggesting that even simple actions can be done for His glory. Listen and Subscribe:Apple Podcasts | SpotifyConnect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.netY...2024-12-1007 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 070: Is Jesus Your King?In this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay Holland shares the importance of understanding the critical topics of sexuality and gender identity in light of Jesus' teachings and the transformative power of the gospel. He encourages listeners to reflect on who is the king of their lives—whether it is their feelings, themselves, or Jesus—and to consider the sacrifices that may be required in following Christ. The conversation highlights the need for a solid foundation in faith and the importance of community in the Christian journey.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spot...2024-12-0608 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 069: What does Jesus Say About Gender Identity and SexualityIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay discusses the teachings of Jesus regarding sexuality and gender identity. He emphasizes that while Jesus may not have directly addressed homosexuality, the moral laws in the Old and New Testaments provide a clear framework. Jay highlights the importance of understanding gender as binary and the sanctity of sexual relationships within marriage. He encourages listeners to uphold these teachings and resist temptations, reminding them of the need for community in their faith journey.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect...2024-12-0508 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 067: Let No One Take You Captive Through Empty PhilosophyIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay emphasizes the importance of grounding one's beliefs in the unchanging truth of God's Word rather than the shifting philosophies of culture. Jay highlights alarming statistics regarding mental health among LGBTQ+ individuals and encourages listeners to seek stability in their faith amidst societal changes.Listen and Subscribe:Apple Podcasts | SpotifyConnect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.netYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GuidedbyFaithPodcastInstagram: @guidedbyfaith_podcastGuided By Faith is a...2024-12-0308 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 066: Sexuality and Gender Identity Through the Lens of the GospelIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay discusses the important topics of sexuality and gender identity through the lens of the gospel. He emphasizes the significance of understanding one's identity as being made in the image of God and the importance of love and approval in the context of Christian faith. The conversation encourages listeners to explore these themes thoughtfully and to seek a deeper understanding of their faith.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.net...2024-12-0209 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 065: More Stuff Won't Make You HappierIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay discusses generosity over consumerism, especially during the Christmas season. He reflects on the parable of the rich fool from the Gospel of Luke, emphasizing that true happiness does not come from material possessions. Instead, he encourages listeners to focus on experiences, relationships, and spiritual growth. Jay challenges the notion of Black Friday shopping, urging listeners to consider how they can give more and consume less, ultimately leading to greater joy and gratitude.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect...2024-11-2907 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 063: Be Vocal With Your ThanksIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay highlights the significance of gratitude, particularly during the Thanksgiving season. He encourages listeners to vocalize their gratitude to God and to others. By expressing thanks, individuals can deepen their relationships and enhance their spiritual lives. Jay shares biblical references that support the practice of vocal gratitude and highlights the positive impact it can have on both the giver and receiver of thanks. Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.netY...2024-11-2706 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 062: There Will Always Be That "One Thing"In this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay emphasizes that while we often focus on the 'one thing' that we believe will bring us happiness, true contentment comes from recognizing that Jesus is always with us. Jay encourages listeners to shift their focus from their circumstances to their faith in Jesus, especially during the Thanksgiving season.Listen and Subscribe:Apple Podcasts | SpotifyConnect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.netYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GuidedbyFaithPodcastInstagram: @guidedbyfaith_podcast2024-11-2606 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 061: Shaped by GratitudeIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay discusses the importance of gratitude and understanding God's will for our lives. He emphasizes that God's will is for us to give thanks in all circumstances, regardless of the challenges we face. Jay encourages listeners to focus on the positive aspects of their situations and to practice thankfulness as a means of healing and spiritual growth. Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.netYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GuidedbyFaithPodcast2024-11-2505 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 060: A Limited Time to Make an Eternal ImpactIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay discusses the importance of stewardship and making an eternal impact in the lives of others. He emphasizes that while salvation is a free gift, rewards are earned through faithfulness. Jay encourages young listeners to recognize the limited time they have to influence others for Christ and to be faithful in their daily lives. Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.netYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GuidedbyFaithPodcastInstagram: @gui...2024-11-2206 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 058: Salvation Comes by Faith, Reward Comes by FaithfulnessIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay talks about the concept of stewardship in the context of Christian faith. He emphasizes that while salvation is a free gift from God, the rewards we receive in eternity are based on our faithfulness with the resources and responsibilities entrusted to us. Through the parable of the minas, he illustrates the importance of being faithful with what God has given us, whether it be time, talents, or possessions. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their current responsibilities and to seek God's guidance in being faithful stewards.2024-11-2007 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 057: Heaven is Not Our Final HomeIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay discusses the concept that heaven is not the final destination for believers. He emphasizes that while believers go to heaven upon death, the ultimate home is a new heaven and new earth created by God. Jay references biblical passages from Revelation and Isaiah to support his claims, explaining that this new creation will be a physical realm where believers will have glorified bodies and reign with Jesus. He encourages listeners to be faithful in their earthly lives, as their rewards will be experienced in eternity.Listen...2024-11-1908 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 054: Train Your Thinking (Because Feelings Follow Focus)In this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay discusses the importance of focusing on positive thoughts as a means to combat anxiety and negativity. Drawing from Philippians 4:4-9, he emphasizes the need to train our thinking to align with God's goodness, suggesting that our feelings will follow our focus. Jay encourages listeners to actively choose what they dwell on, highlighting the transformative power of gratitude and positive thinking in their lives.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.netYouTube: https://www...2024-11-1408 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 053: Trade Worry for PrayerIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay dwells on the topic of anxiety from a Christian perspective, particularly focusing on Philippians chapter 4. While anxiety can be a symptom of sin, it is not always sinful. Jay encourages listeners to approach their anxieties through prayer and thanksgiving, highlighting that this practice can lead to experiencing the peace of God. He stresses the importance of not being anxious about being anxious and the transformative power of God's peace in our lives.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect...2024-11-1308 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 049: People Profit from Making You AngryIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay discusses the pervasive anger and anxiety in today's world, particularly in the context of the political climate and media influence. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing how various industries profit from stirring up emotions and encourages listeners to be mindful of their media consumption. Jay offers practical advice on how to navigate these challenges by turning off screens and avoiding negative influences, ultimately guiding listeners towards a more peaceful and fulfilling life rooted in faith.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]2024-11-0707 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 048: Praying for Your GovernmentIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay discusses how to navigate an anxious world, especially in light of political uncertainty. He emphasizes the importance of prayer for leaders and encourages listeners to focus on their faith rather than fear. Drawing from scripture, he highlights the Apostle Paul's teachings on praying for those in authority, regardless of their alignment with Christian values. The episode serves as a reminder that believers have the power of prayer to influence their leaders and should remain steadfast in their faith and community involvement.Listen and Subscribe:...2024-11-0608 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 046: It's an Angry WorldIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay discusses the current state of the world, particularly in light of the presidential election in the United States. He emphasizes the pervasive anger and turmoil present in society and the importance of grounding oneself in Scripture and faith to find peace amidst chaos. Jay reflects on Jesus' teachings about peace and encourages listeners to seek spiritual tranquility rather than circumstantial happiness. Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.netYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@G...2024-11-0407 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 045: Healing from HeartbreakIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay talks about the importance of dating within a Christian framework, emphasizing biblical principles and the need for self-awareness before entering relationships. He addresses the reality of heartbreak and offers practical advice on how to heal, including grieving realistically, telling oneself the truth, avoiding self-sabotage, drawing near to Jesus, and preaching the gospel to oneself. Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.netYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GuidedbyFaithPodcastInstagram: @guidedbyfaith_podcast2024-11-0108 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 044: Great questions to help you decide if you should date someoneIn this episode, Jay discusses the significance of guarding one's heart, the value of self-improvement during youth, and the necessity of observing potential partners in various social settings. Jay provides essential questions to consider before entering a relationship, aiming to help young adults make wise decisions and avoid heartbreak.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.netYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GuidedbyFaithPodcastInstagram: @guidedbyfaith_podcastGuided By Faith is a part of the Christian Parenting...2024-10-3109 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 043: Questions to answer about yourself before datingIn this episode, Jay talks about the importance of understanding dating through a Christian lens. He emphasizes the need for self-reflection and personal growth before entering into dating relationships. Jay provides key questions for listeners to consider regarding their security, goals, values, and the influence of their faith in their lives. He encourages young adults to seek healthy relationships and to be mindful of their spiritual journey.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.netYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GuidedbyFaithPodcastInstagram: @guidedbyfaith...2024-10-3009 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 039: Moving Beyond Betrayal in FriendshipsIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay discusses the profound impact of betrayal in human relationships, particularly through the lens of Christian faith. He emphasizes that while betrayal can be one of the most painful experiences, it should not define an individual. Drawing parallels with the betrayal of Jesus by Judas, Holland highlights the potential for redemption and healing through faith. He encourages listeners to trust in God's ability to turn evil into good and to remain anchored in their faith during difficult times.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]2024-10-2406 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 038: Growing Through Conflict in FriendshipsIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay talks about navigating conflict in friendships through a Christian lens. He emphasizes that conflict can either strengthen or weaken relationships, and shares practical tools for resolving conflicts effectively. The conversation highlights the significance of forgiveness and understanding in maintaining healthy friendships, encouraging listeners to approach conflicts with a mindset of grace and empathy.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.netYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GuidedbyFaithPodcastInstagram: @guidedbyfaith_podcast2024-10-2307 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 037: How to Build Deep FriendshipsIn this episode, Jay highlights building deep friendships through humility, active listening, and celebrating the successes of others. Avoid gossip and instead, engage in meaningful activities together to strengthen bonds. The conversation is rooted in Christian principles, encouraging listeners to reflect on their relationships and the role of community in their faith journey.Listen and Subscribe:Apple Podcasts | SpotifyConnect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.netYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GuidedbyFaithPodcastInstagram: @guidedbyfaith_podcastGuided By Faith is a part...2024-10-2208 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 036: Seasons of LonelinessIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay discusses the significance of friendships and the experience of loneliness from a Christian perspective. He emphasizes that loneliness is a common and temporary season in life, encouraging listeners to seek comfort in their faith and the presence of Jesus. The conversation also highlights the importance of surrounding oneself with wise friends and the impact of relationships on one's life direction.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.netYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GuidedbyFaithPodcastInstagram...2024-10-2108 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 374: The Royal in You: Imagining the New Heavens and Earth with Jordan RaynorIn this conversation, Jay Holland and Jordan Raynor discuss the themes of heaven, purpose, and stewardship as presented in Raynor's book, 'The Royal in You.' They explore the misconceptions surrounding heaven, emphasizing a biblical perspective that highlights the new earth and the role of work as worship. The discussion also touches on how understanding these concepts can inspire greater hope, motivation to share faith, and a purposeful life in the present.Resources mentioned:https://www.jordanraynor.com The Royal In You 2024-10-2035 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 031: Looking at Life Through the Lens of the GospelIn this episode, Jay introduces the topic of looking at life's events through the lens of the gospel. He emphasizes the importance of interpreting events in light of the fact that Jesus died and rose again. Jay reads from 1 Corinthians 15, highlighting the core elements of the gospel: Christ died for our sins, was buried, and was raised on the third day. He emphasizes the historical reality of Jesus' resurrection and the implications it has for our faith. Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:W...2024-10-1407 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 030: Reaching the Ends of the EarthIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay discusses the importance of being a witness for Jesus and sharing the gospel. He focuses on Acts 1:8, the last of the Great Commission passages, where Jesus tells his disciples that they will receive power from the Holy Spirit and be his witnesses in Jerusalem, Judea, Samaria, and to the ends of the earth. Jay emphasizes the role of personal testimony in being a witness and encourages listeners to share their own stories of how Jesus has transformed their lives. He also highlights the significance of supporting missions and missionaries around the...2024-10-1108 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 029: Modeling Jesus in Your MissionIn this episode, Jay discusses the passage from John 20:21 and how it relates to our mission as Christians. He highlights four ways in which we are sent like Jesus: in love, in the power of the Holy Spirit, in the midst of suffering, and in sharing both publicly and relationally. Jay encourages listeners to walk as Jesus walked and witness as Jesus witnessed, trusting in the Holy Spirit to work in their lives.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.netYouTube...2024-10-1007 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 027: Proclaiming the Good NewsIn this episode, Jay talks about going out of our comfort zones and sharing the good news with others. The good news starts with acknowledging our sinfulness and rebellion against God, which sets the stage for understanding the love and forgiveness offered through Jesus. Jay encourages listeners to practice sharing the gospel with those around them.Listen and Subscribe:Apple Podcasts | SpotifyConnect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.netYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GuidedbyFaithPodcastInstagram: @guidedbyfaith_podcastGuided By Faith is a part...2024-10-0808 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 026: You were made for a missionIn this episode, Jay highlights the importance of fulfilling the mission that God has for each individual. He mentions the Great Commission passages and emphasizes the need to make disciples, baptize them, and teach them to obey Jesus. Jay also encourages listeners to identify people in their lives who need to hear the gospel and have the boldness to share it with them. Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.netYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GuidedbyFaithPodcastInstagram: @guidedbyfaith_podcast2024-10-0707 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 024: You are Uniquely Wired to Serve JesusIn this episode, Jay discusses how individuals are uniquely wired by God to serve Jesus. Everyone has unique abilities, personalities, and experiences that can be used to serve God and minister to others. Jay shares personal examples of how his own experiences and abilities have allowed him to serve and encourage others. He encourages listeners to pray and ask God how they can use their unique wiring to serve Him and make a difference in the lives of others.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with...2024-10-0307 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 023: Serving through our Spiritual Gifts and PassionsIn this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay talks about the importance of serving in the body of Christ and how God has shaped individuals to serve. He emphasizes the use of spiritual gifts and passions to find one's niche for service. Jay encourages listeners to pray and start using their gifts to meet the needs of their church.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.netYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GuidedbyFaithPodcastInstagram: @guidedbyfaith_podcast...2024-10-0207 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 022: How to be GreatIn this episode, Jay dwells on the topic of greatness and how it relates to serving others. He shares a passage from Luke 22 where Jesus teaches his disciples about true greatness. Greatness is not about power or status, but about serving others. Jay encourages listeners to embrace a servant's heart and find fulfillment in serving. He highlights the importance of serving in the church and in everyday life, and challenges listeners to be contributors rather than consumers. Listen and Subscribe:Apple Podcasts | SpotifyConnect with Us:W...2024-10-0106 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 021: How to Not Miss God's Will For Your LifeIn this episode, Jay discusses the topic of God's will for our lives. He emphasizes that we are saved for service and that God has already prepared good works for us to walk in. Jay encourages listeners to seek God's will by reading and obeying His word, and to make decisions that honor and please Him. He reassures listeners that as long as they are following Jesus and seeking to do what is right, they will not miss God's will for their lives.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]2024-09-3007 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 020: Becoming Like Jesus Through Enduring TroubleIn this episode, Jay talks about the importance of enduring trouble and suffering in order to become more like Jesus. He shares personal experiences of suffering and how they have taught him to rely on Jesus and find hope in Him. Jay encourages listeners to look for Jesus in the midst of their suffering and draw near to God. He reminds them that their suffering is not meaningless and that God will use it to make them more like Jesus.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]2024-09-2708 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 372: A Journey of Faith and Family with Matt GilleIn this conversation, Jay Holland and Matthew Gille discuss Matthew's unique journey to becoming a missionary, the challenges he faced with his family, particularly with his daughter who has special needs, and how God has provided for them throughout their journey. They explore themes of faith, identity, and community, emphasizing the importance of trusting God in difficult circumstances and recognizing the blessings that come from challenges.Keywords: missionary, faith, family, special needs, church, community, identity, God's provision, China, parentingLet’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Ch...2024-09-2237 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 013: Your Church is Your FamilyThe church is not just a building or a place to go to, but a community of believers with God as their father. Jay shares his personal experiences and highlights the benefits of having different generations and role models in the Church. Jay encourages his listeners to view themselves as invested family members in their local church.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]Connect with Us:Website: www.guidedbyfaith.netYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GuidedbyFaithPodcastInstagram: @guidedbyfaith_podcastGuided By...2024-09-1706 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 009: The Pathway to Worship - SurrenderIn this episode, Jay discusses the concept of surrender as a pathway to worship. He explains that surrender is acknowledging that we are not in control and that we are not the boss. He shares the example of Jesus in the garden of Gethsemane, where Jesus surrendered to God's will. Jay emphasizes that surrendering to God is the safest and most fulfilling option, as surrendering to other things can lead to negative consequences. He encourages listeners to surrender their anxieties, worries, hurts, and questions to God and trust in His plan.Listen and Subscribe:2024-09-1206 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 005: You Were Made For Relationship With GodIn this episode, Jay explores the idea that humans were made for a relationship with God. Jesus emphasizes the importance of love in this relationship, stating that loving God and loving others are the greatest commandments. Jay also discusses the different ways love is expressed in relationships, such as spending time together, communicating, serving, and giving gifts. It highlights the importance of these aspects in our relationship with God. Jay ends by addressing the issue of sin and how repentance restores relationships with God and others.Listen and Subscribe:[Apple Podcasts] | [Spotify]2024-09-0506 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsEp. 001: You are Not an AccidentIn this inaugural episode of Guided by Faith, Jay dives into a profound and comforting truth: You are not an accident. Many teens and young adults struggle with feelings of purposelessness, but Jay reminds us that we are all created intentionally by God, with unique gifts and a specific purpose. God has a plan for each of us, and by trusting in Him, we can discover our true purpose and value.If you're feeling lost or questioning your purpose, take a moment today to pray and ask God to reveal His plan for your...2024-09-0105 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 371: Introducing Guided By Faith: Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsShow Notes: Take a sneak peek into Jay’s new daily devotional podcast designed to encourage teens and young adults. Don’t worry, mom and dad can listen too! Listen to Jay’s heart behind launching Guided by Faith, then enjoy three short episodes to get a flavor for the podcast. If you think it’s valuable, please subscribe, listen, review, and share Guided by Faith with your children, pastors, and friends!Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianPar...2024-08-3123 min
Guided by Faith: Daily Christian Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young AdultsTrailerGuided by Faith is your go-to daily devotional podcast for teens, students, and young adults looking to strengthen their faith and Biblical worldview.In just five minutes every weekday, dive into essential topics like identity, life purpose, friendships, dating, decision-making, handling temptation, coping with grief, and living out your mission for Jesus. Parents will also find valuable insights to support their teens on their faith journey.Join Jay Holland for inspiring and practical advice that equips you to navigate life’s challenges with a strong faith foundation. 2024-08-2602 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 369: Modeling a Calm Resilience in a Hostile Culture with Ken CastorHow can we hope to have children who are steady, kind, and resilient in an increasingly hostile culture? It starts with what mom and dad model at home. On this episode Jay is joined by Pastor Ken Castor for a discussion on modeling healthy identity, communication, and kindness in our homes to prepare our children for the challenges of a word that wants to label Christian morality as hate.As you listen you’ll be encouraged to notice the way you handle feedback and criticism in your home. You’ll learn the importance of miss...2024-07-1347 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 368: Inspiring Awe and Wonder of the Creator this Summer with Rita DiapoulesSummer break is a great time to catch our breath and decompress. If we are intentional, the break is also an amazing opportunity to inspire our children with awe and wonder at their Creator God. Jay is joined this episode by Rita Diapoules, the director of Children’s Ministry at Covenant Fellowship Baptist Church. Rita helps walk us though little intentional activities we can do throughout the summer to deepen our children’s appreciation for their Creator. In this episode Jay and Rita talk about intentional use of the mornings, reading and devotion times, and u...2024-06-0836 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 367: The Story You Choose**Be sure to check out our new discussion guide to help you make the most out of this episode. [Go to Discussion Guide]What do you think about when you think about God? Is He distant, uncaring, weak or unjust? Or is He good, near, powerful, just, and loving? Every person has a story they tell themselves about God, and we continually feed this story. Today Jay shares how we have a choice in what we choose to feed in our story about God. He then shares how those c...2024-05-1127 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 366: Grieving and Healing Through Intense Personal Loss with Eliza HuieWhat do you do when you and your children experience intense personal loss, like the unexpected death of a loved one? Eliza Huie helps us walk through a series of questions that parents wrestle with as they try to process shock and grief while also helping their children deal with tragedy.Listen as Eliza answers the following questions from Jay:How can parents shepherd their children through intense personal loss?How can they do this while also dealing with the loss themselves?What are normal feelings and emotions that go along with trauma...2024-04-0958 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 365: The Power of Pre-Deciding**Be sure to check out our new discussion guide to help you make the most out of this episode. Download it here.Research shows that the average adult makes over 35,000 decisions every day! We make a lot of choices, and many of our choices have a compounding effect as we repeat them day after day. Other choices are not as important but drain our energy. This week Jay shares insights on the power of pre-deciding in seven areas of your life that will have tremendous compound interest. Listen as Jay explains why you should:2024-03-2332 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 362: The Best Interviews from 2023Today Jay revisits his very favorite interviews from 2023. He also celebrates the fruitful year for The 127 Project, including production of Let’s Parent on Purpose and Stories of Hope with Dr. Samuel Thomas, the building and remodeling of three Hope Homes in India, and supporting a pioneering church planter in Nepal. Be sure to check out the full interviews from Jay’s favorite episodes: Episode 319 Family Identity Through Teams with Jeremy Pryor Episode 340 Parenting Through the Stupid Years with Jim Ramos Episode 345 Moving Beyond Anxiety in your Parenting with Sissy Goff Episode 341 Inner Healing Throu...2023-12-3126 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp 361: How I Set and Achieve GoalsThe beginning of a new year is a great time to think through resolutions, habits, and goals. Today Jay takes you far beyond setting resolutions that will likely fail by February. He walks through his process for starting with determining your specific goals for five aspects of your life: Spiritual, Family, Professional, Financial, and Physical. Once you have determined “who you want to be”, Jay walks you through how to set multi-year goals and then determine the steps for this coming year. Many of our plans will fall short. We will constantly encounter new opportunities, calamities, and circu...2023-12-2421 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 360: Your Family is Not the Enemy, They Are The Prize!Jay walks us through Ephesians 5 and 6 to point out a key truth: the greatest section of the Bible on family and interpersonal relationships is right next to the greatest section of the Bible on spiritual warfare. Today we look at the reality of spiritual warfare in our homes, and how we are called to remember that our family members are not the enemy, they are the prize. Jay discuses the armor of God in terms of being “in Christ”. Finally, he gives pointers for families who find themselves in a difficult time of anger or arguing with one another. Reme...2023-12-1714 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 355: Living in the Joy of the Season with Jeanette TapleyEvery season of our parenting journey is fleeting, and we often miss the joy that God presents us while wishing away our current challenges. Today Jay talks with Jeanette Tapley about the importance of living in the joy of every season of life. They discuss the guilt that many working moms feel over not being a stay at home mom, the need for flexibility in how you parent from one child to the next, and the importance of choosing joy rather than focusing on what’s not going well. Jeanette has a unique perspective on each of the...2023-11-1237 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp 350: Lessons Learned from 350 Episodes14, 8, 6, 5 years old when I started Thanks Christian Parenting, Covenant Fellowship, Listeners, My wife and kids In the past 7 years Jay has released 350 episodes and interviewed over 120 different people for Let’s Parent on Purpose. Today Jay shares his biggest personal insights from the years of being a learner behind the microphone. To commemorate the Episode 350 milestone, be sure to check out Jay’s 10 all time favorite Let’s Parent on Purpose podcasts! Listen today as Jay shares his biggest insights including: Parenting is a marathon, not a sp...2023-10-0824 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 341: Inner Healing Through Prayer with Don LoveWhat if the Holy Spirit truly served as the Comforter and Counselor? When we read our Bibles, that what we would expect. However, when we live our lives, the transforming power of the Holy Spirit is often diminished, and we carry wounds and hurts for decades. While serving as a biblical professor at a large Evangelical University, Dr. Don love began to ask the Lord to show him if there could be more to his walk and life. Why did he not see the fruit of the spirit in his character? These prayers began a transformation in Don’s li...2023-08-0639 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 340: Parenting Through the Stupid Years with Jim RamosMany moms and dads are shocked to find out how disorienting it is to parent their young adult children. Our 18-25 year old children still need parenting, but the relational dynamics are very different during these years. Pastor and author Jim Ramos has navigated these years with three of his own children, and shares insights he learned from parenting through this time frame. One of his mentors called the 18-25 year old period of life “the stupid years”, and it can be a terrifying time for a mom and dad as our children seek independence and often drift in thei...2023-07-3053 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 339: What if I Missed God’s Will By Blowing a Major Decision?There are times in our lives when we know we’ve made a terrible decision. Sometimes our choice was blatant sin and rebellion, and other times the choice might have just been totally foolish. We know it’s not God’s will for us to sin and it’s not God’s will for us to make foolish decisions. So how do we recover when we know we’ve blown a major decision? Do we miss God’s will for our life? In this final episode in Jay’s “Knowing and Doing God’s Will” series, Jay talks about...2023-07-2319 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 338: Tools To Help You Make Decisions When You Don’t Know God’s WillWhere the Bible is clear about God’s will, we must obey. But what about the thousands of choices we have in life where there doesn’t seem to be specific clarity in God’s Word? Do we pause and wait to hear the voice of the Lord? What about the people who seem to constantly say “God told me this?” Are we not walking with Jesus because we don’t have a steady stream of “God told me this?” As we continue our series Knowing and Doing God’s Will, Jay highlights the many tools God has given u...2023-07-1621 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 336: How do I Know God’s Will for My Life?One of the most common questions for a follower of Jesus is “How do I know God’s will for my life?” Often, these questions revolve around a few major decisions, such as where should I go to school, what should I do for a job, and who should I marry? As we continue our series “Knowing and Doing God’s Will”, Jay lays out the Path of Wisdom for how to determine God’s will for your life, including what one should do if God’s will is not clear. Relying heavily on guidance from the book “Deci...2023-07-0223 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 334: What Do I Do When My Children Have Doubts?Many moms and dads are shocked to find out how disorienting it is to parent their young adult children. Our 18-25 year old children still need parenting, but the relational dynamics are very different during these years. Pastor and author Jim Ramos has navigated these years with three of his own children, and shares insights he learned from parenting through this time frame. One of his mentors called the 18-25 year old period of life “the stupid years”, and it can be a terrifying time for a mom and dad as our children seek independence and often drift in thei...2023-06-1825 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 331: The Real Differences Between the Generations with Dr. Jean M. TwengeThere are currently six adult generations living and working together in the United States! Today Jay is joined by Dr. Jean M. Twenge, author of the brand new book Generations: The Real Differences between Gen Z, Millennials, Gen X, Boomers, and Silents – and What They Mean for America’s Future. Dr. Twenge brings insights from analyzing over 38 million people from 21 different datasets to share how technology is the driving factor for the great differences between generations. As we consider the radically different world our parents and grandparents grew up in, Dr. Twenge also gives advice to par...2023-05-2838 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 330: Creating a Fun Summer Theme For Your FamilyAt best you’ll get around 18 summers before your children are out of the house. Today Jay shares fun and creative ideas for how to make the most out of your summer by creating a summer theme. With a summer theme, you can focus on a particular area of discipleship in creative ways that will deepen your family’s faith while making sweet memories. With the help of his new A.I. Assistant Chat GPT, here are some fun summer themes Jay talks about: "Summer of Faith" – Focus on growing your family's s...2023-05-2124 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 328: Practical and Scriptural Tips for Discipling Your Kids with Rene ChristensenJesus calls us to make disciples, and the first disciples we should seek to make are the members of our own household. Rene Christensen has over 24 years of obeying Jesus’ command with her seven children. Through the years she has gained a wealth of knowledge and experience of how to simplify and normalize discipleship practices that will grow our children’s love of God, love of others, and heart to obey Jesus. Rene joins Jay to share scriptural and practical tips on discipling our children. As you listen, you will pick up on fun and easy prac...2023-05-0734 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 326: Increase Your Child's Security By Investing in Your MarriageOne of the greatest ways to increase the security and stability of our children is to invest in our marriage. If mom and dad love and enjoy one another, children feel safe. Today Jay shares a number or regular habits each couple can make to increase the quality and security of their marriage. By committing to these regular and public habits, you not only enhance your marriage, you will also create more stable, grounded children. Jay’s suggestions include: Tell your spouse you love them. Tell them often. In front of the ki...2023-04-2324 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 322: A Pep Talk When You Feel Like a Bad ParentWe all have those days when we feel like we are a terrible parent. Sometimes it’s because we blow a moment or decision. Other times it's because we compare ourselves to the best parts of other people’s lives. And sometimes it’s because we are fooled into thinking the false presentation of our friends on social media is true. Whatever your reason for being down about your parenting, listen to Jay’s pep talk as he encourages you to: Give yourself the benefit of the doubt Give your kids the benefi...2023-03-2616 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp 321: Getting the Most Out of Your Youth Pastor with Josh LeuchtNo relationship has more impact on the spiritual direction of a child or teen than mom and dad. But every parent needs a community to raise a disciple. Today Jay is joined once again by Pastor Josh Luecht. Between the two of them they have over 40 years of student ministry experience. Jay and Josh share the best ways parents can engage with their church youth pastors and youth volunteers to minister to their children. In this episode, Jay and Josh discus: The importance of knowing and communicating directly with youth workers How to give the i...2023-03-1943 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEp. 316: How Jesus’ Incarnation Speaks to Gender Identity and Sexual ConfusionSeries Overview: Jay will be discussing the unique challenges of parenting Gen Z and the struggles they face due to the world they live in. Today's Topic: Jay shares how the gospel speaks into the topic of gender identity and sexuality. This includes a Theology of the Body: Jay will be sharing a piece of a sermon he recently preached in the church on how the incarnation of Jesus helps bring clarity where there is confusion over gender, identity and sexuality. He encourages listeners to have their kids listen along and discuss the content with them. Re...2023-02-1217 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and DiscipleshipEpisode 300! Beating leukemia together with Elijah and Micah Holland.Today we are celebrating episode 300 of Let’s Parent on Purpose! I am joined today by both of my sons, Elijah and Micah Holland. The boys share what it was like to go through leukemia, relapse, and then bone marrow transplant together. We talk about worries, struggles, and the picture of Christ we find in bone marrow transplant. Additionally I share about the future of Let’s Parent on Purpose, including the beginning of the 127 Project to grow the outreach of Let’s Parent on Purpose and to take care of orphans. On this day of celebration, I want to say...2022-10-2334 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and Discipleship244. Crisis: My Son Has Relapsed with LeukemiaSeven years after his initial diagnosis for Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia,my son Elijah has relapsed. In this episode I share the details of how we found out, an explanation of leukemia and treatment, as well as the potential road ahead for our family. I also share the very real emotions we are struggling through, how God had spiritually prepared me through scripture, and how our family is seeking to help Elijah see this crisis as an open door for the work of Jesus. In hearing our story, by God’s grace you will see how God also wants you to...2021-09-1933 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and Discipleship235. Finding a Mission in the Midst of Chemotherapy with Elijah HollandIn 2014 my five year old son Elijah faced the fight of his life against Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia. Donate to support Christian Parenting CPgive.org: www.christianparenting.org www.hopegivers.org Stories of Hope with Dr. Samuel Thomas. Sponsor Affiliate: www.cpgive.org 2021-07-1824 min
Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and Discipleship234. Creating a Culture of Service and Hospitality with Brent GibsonSometimes we overcomplicate what it means to be on mission for Jesus. Brent Gibson and his wife Lisa have worked to create a family environment where service and hospitality aren’t some great feats, they are normal rhythms of life. As you listen to how they’ve engaged their family of five to clean the church and host senior church members for dinner, you’ll find ways that your family might engage in mission. Brent Gibson is the husband to Lisa, the father of three (Charissa, Lewis, and Bobby), and an elder at Covenant Fellowship Baptist Church. He run...2021-07-1121 min