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Big Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!TRICK OR TREAT! 👻 Here's A Spooky Surprise...Vintage BLE!🎃 Halloween BLE That was originally posted back in 2023! Why not give it a listen for scary fun and spooky proof of how far the show has come?! Original show description It's the time of year when even though the weather turns colder we dust off our sexiest lingerie and transform it into a "costume". Oh, and we get to spook the snot out of the kids in the neighbourhood. After 2 decades as a makeup artist, Jayna is using this season as the perfect excuse to tell some of her professional horror stories. If you a...
2025-10-3030 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!COUGAR?! Ma'am, Your Son Chased After ME! + Why Dating In Your 40s Is AMAZING!So you went out for margaritas and came home with a 25-year-old? Honey, it's happened to the best of us! (Jayna included!) In this extra spicy episode, we're talking about the real pros and cons of dating younger men—like stamina that won't quit, and the sudden need to Google slang mid-sex (Wtf is "Rizz?"). We'll explore what makes older women irresistible (hint: it's not just the matching bra and panties), why younger men are flocking to us like moths to a well-lit, emotionally stable flame, and whether or not it's worth pulling a hamstring for love—or at...
2025-07-2332 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!#164 They Told Arzo She'd Be A Crackhead...So She Got Her Diploma Instead!She was the girl who wasn't supposed to graduate. In fact, a teacher once described Arzo as "One kid I thought was too far gone to be saved." but she and our host teamed up to create a mother-daughter duo that was NOT to be fucked with! Jayna promised Arzo that the two of them would cross the finish line together, as a team, no matter WHAT it would take and you'll never BELIEVE some of the challenges they faced along the way. Enjoy a series of funny stories from behind the scenes that any mother will find relatable...
2025-06-2533 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Finally Divorced: I Was Married Up Until Last Week! 😬Was she petty? YES. Does she regret it? HELL NAH! Pop the champagne and cue the celebration playlist — Jayna is *FINALLY* officially DIVORCED! YESSS! If you've been paying close attention, then you know It's been over TEN YEARS since our host split from her husband...so what's the hold up? Well don't worry, because Jayna explains everything in an episode that's cheeky, empowering, revengeful and spiteful with a dash of cringe and a pinch of ZING!!! Just wait till you hear why the marriage dragged on this long, what had her giggling in the courthouse and what she...
2025-05-2822 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Pet Psychic Part 1: In A Toxic Relationship With...My Frenchie?Have you ever wondered what your dog was thinking? In this 2 part series, Jayna gets help from a real pet psychic in order to learn what's going on inside the minds of her two french bulldogs. In this first episode, our host is introducing you to Apollo and Diego: the pups who stole her heart. You'll learn all about their gotcha stories, quirks, their sass and all the chaotic charm that makes them impossible not to love. Are you as curious as we are about what the boys might say? Maybe they're judging Jayna's dance moves, Plotting...
2025-04-3028 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!One Year Mamaversary: "She Calls You Mom" (Celebrating Our Adoption Story!)Arzo gives Jayna a "Mom Report Card" and the two recap their favorite moments from their first year as a Mama / daughter duo. What grades did the new mom get when it came to discipline, leading by example, housecleaning, cooking, laundry and helping with homework? Listen to find out! One thing's for sure, Arzo always says it like it is! (SPOILER ALERT: Jayna did *not* get straight A's!) IN THIS EPISODE -An Adoption Story -Parenting a Teenager -Mother daughter relationships -Funny parenting stories -National Adoption Mo...
2024-11-2738 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!My Teen's Giving Haters The Middle Finger (And I Approve!)Sometimes, all you need is for one person to believe in your potential in order to turn your whole world around. Before Arzo moved in with Jayna, the odds were stacked against her. A hard upbringing left her unable to see a future for herself. Her family thought she would end up on the streets and even she told her high school principal that in 5 years, she'd likely be selling drugs in a back alley. In this heartwarming story, Jayna outlines what she did to inspire the once troubled teenager to believe in herself and the steps they're taking t...
2024-11-0628 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!A Crazy Wedding Story: Who Invited The Gunman?!SPECIAL EDITION: Jayna tells her unbelievable wedding day story in an interview first aired on "What Was That Like", a podcast hosted by Scott Johnson As a professional makeup artist who'd worked in the wedding industry for over a decade, Jayna thought she was ready for ANYTHING on her big day. Unfortunately, no one could have predicted THIS....cue scary music Imagine finding out on the morning of your wedding that the hotel you're staying at is being held up by a man with a gun? (Forget the emergency kit, that Tide To Go pen and sewing k...
2024-09-2557 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Masturbation 101: Sex With The One I Love The MostWARNING: Adult Content We're talking about self love, ladies! Get ready for a juicy, unapologetic conversation all about you and your pleasure. Yup....this ones all about masturbation! In this episode, Jayna explains the health benefits of cumming, 4 tips on how to improve your solo sex, a history of sex toys and fun facts about your clitoris. (phew! is it getting hot in here?)Together, we're going to break the stigma, pop the myths, and dive into why owning your pleasure is so important. Self-exploration boosts confidence, enhances sexual wellness, and puts you in the driver's seat of...
2024-09-1824 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!If Wanting Good Sex Makes Me A Slut, Why Did God Give Me A G-Spot?Ever felt like everyone's enjoying sex but you? In her 20's, Jayna hated every minute of it. At the time, sex felt like an obligation, not something she was really into. Inexperience, selfish lovers and a guilty conscience meant orgasms were few and far between and as a Christian, she was afraid to admit she wanted more or better sex for fear that she'd come off looking like a slut. After 2 decades of loving and learning, she's finally given herself permission to enjoy and sharing her insights with you. Listen for the 4 things Jayna wishes she could te...
2024-09-1122 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!We Lied To You: The Story We Were Too Afraid To TellJayna and Arzo shared their story in the past, but in order to protect themselves, they kept out the ugly parts. Today, you're finally going to hear the real truth- no matter how uncomfortable it might be. If you've been following along with their story so far, you might find these details surprising and possibly even hard to hear. In this inspiring episode of Big Lash Energy, we spotlight the incredible journey of 16-year-old Arzo, who transformed her life in just one year. Arzo's story is a powerful testament to resilience and personal growth, proving that its ne...
2024-08-2855 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Crazy Date Story: My Uber Driver Shares Her Tinder FAIL!"Have you seen Rodney?" An unbelievable, unscripted true story of a Tinder date gone wrong as told by Jayna's Uber driver! Ever have a good heart to heart with a complete stranger? In this episode, you're riding "Passenger Princess" alongside Jayna on the way to Podcast Movement in Washington DC. The drive itself is smooth...it's the story that's got ALL the twists and turns. In Episode 118, Jayna talked about something called "Trust but Verify", and guys like Rodey are exactly the reason why. Buckle up because it's going to be a wild ride! If YOU...
2024-08-2143 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Bridezillas Around The WorldYou'll never believe what Jayna's done for these girls! Is she a stylist? Or a brides personal assistant? Sometimes, its hard to tell the difference. Everyone knows that brides are demanding, but Jayna never imagined she'd be flossing teeth, scrubbing feet or even wiping butts. If you think being a wedding makeup artist is all just lipstick and contour then honey, buckle up! In this episode, our host shares the stories of 2 bridal clients who really had her doing the most. IN THIS EPISODE -Bridezilla stories -Funny wedding stories
2024-08-1427 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Divorcing a FRIEND: Why Does It Hurt More Than Losing A Man?Have you ever had to divorce a FRIEND? ...it's the worst! In fact, in a recent poll, 90% of Jayna's instagram fam voted that losing a bestie hurt MORE than losing a romantic partner. (Hey, good friends are hard to find!) In this episode, Jayna shares 3 stories of times when her friendships turned from sweet to sour and what she learned from the pain. (Wait till you hear the embarrasing story about the wedgie, too! haha) Through it all, one painful truth remains: On the quest to build your perfect girl tribe, you're going to have to lose some duds...
2024-07-3133 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Jayna's Favourite Things: Summer Edition! Must-Haves In Beauty, Fashion And Gadgets!Jayna shares her faves when it comes to skincare, scents, accessories, swimwear and even some high tech gadgets! A carefully curated list of things that will make your summer even sweeter. Move over, Oprah, there's a new list in town! IN THIS EPISODE: -Josie Maran Body Butter in Topless Tangerine -DeLonghi Magnifica Evo -Birkenstocks (Arizona EVA) -TA3 Swimweaar -Ouai Hair + Body in the St.Barts Scent -Ray Ban Meta Sunglasses in Wayfarer -Yves Saint Laurent NU Bare Look Tint Hydrating Skin Ti...
2024-07-2427 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Big Sis Advice: You Asked About Sex, Dating Apps and Living Your BEST Life!A big sister tells it like it is based on her life experiences and doesn't sugar coat or shy away from the facts. In this episode, Jayna does just that. She's answering real questions from her BLE besties and she's not holding back! She may not know all the answers, but she'll happily share her opinion with your best interests at heart. Come join the conversation as we talk about everything from taking risks and dealing with toxic people to using condoms and posing for racey pics! Do you have a question you'd like answered? Don't be afr...
2024-07-1726 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!You'll Never BELIEVE What This Guy Did To Get Jayna's Attention!It's the story Jayna's parents LOVE to tell when someone new comes over for dinner. An unbelievable tale of the time an online mystery man went to extremes to win their daughters affection. A story so wild, it's left the family shaking their heads for the past 23 years. No re-telling would be complete without hearing somebody say "I thought Jayna was smarter than that!" Listen in to hear how 16 year old Jayna learned her first lesson in deception, what her parents thought of the whole situation and what our host would have done differently....if anything. ...
2024-07-1034 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Are You A Girls Girl?? ...Listen NOW To Find Out!What 4 things do "Girls Girls" do differently? If you're curious, then listen up! This isn't just a hot new catch phrase on tiktok - its a way of living and it's so *VERY* B.L.E. Ever since Betty & Veronica, we've put the spotlight on cat fights. In this episode, Jayna shares some fun and relatable stories about what it looks like when female relationships go RIGHT. (WAIT...Women can buy bottles in the club for EACHOTHER!!??...NO WAY!) Join us for a fun and heartfelt conversation as we celebrate the bonds of sisterhood and discuss how...
2024-06-1926 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!The Girl Who Never Had A Bed Part 3: Now We're HERE!Get ready to feel all the warm and fuzzies! If you listened to episodes 103 + 104 then this one is a MUST! A heartwarming finale to the story that's had everyone talking (and bawling!). Press play to hear how Arzo likes her new bedroom, what awkward things happen when Jayna's parents come to visit (Did Jayna catch Arzo in the shower with a BOY?) and how the ladies celebrate their very first Mothers Day! This might be the end of the story of how Jayna and Arzo moved into the penthouse, but their adventure is j...
2024-05-1521 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Are You Turning Into Your Mother Too?! Special Guest: Jayna's Mom!This week, our host finally sits down to talk with the woman one of our BLE besties called a "National Treasure". Never one to shy away from a chance to speak her piece, Jayna's mom, Wendy, sits down to the mic with her notebook FULL of thoughts. (It's almost like she'd been waiting for her chance to vent for the past 41 years!) Together, the mother-daughter duo discuss hickies, a failed marriage and the highs and lows of motherhood. With warmth and honesty, Jayna and Wendy share personal anecdotes, reflecting on Jayna's "quintessential mom moments" as well as the tough...
2024-05-0836 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!The Girl Who Never Had A Bed Part 2: Started From the BottomWas Jayna able to give Arzo the surprise of a lifetime or did she have to come up with another plan? This is the second half of an inspiring, heart warming story that you DO NOT want to miss! It's all about dreaming big, trusting Gods plan and the beauty that can come from choosing your own family. Jayna and Arzo have a very unique story...At 41, Jayna had lost multiple pregnancies and missed her chance to have kids. Meanwhile, Arzo lost her mom when she was only 5 and knew she needed a positive female influence in h...
2024-05-0130 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!The Girl Who Never Had A Bed- Part 1It's not often you meet a 16 year old who's never slept in a bed. Arzo has lived a very difficult life. 8 months ago, she needed a place to stay, so Jayna invited her into her home. As a temporary option, she offered her pull out couch, then learned that that's how Arzo had been sleeping her whole life. On a couch, in the living room. Now, Jayna's trying to surprise her with her first bedroom ever. In true Jayna fashion, the surprise had to be larger than life. So after weeks of searching, she set her sights on the P...
2024-04-2433 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Are a Few Extra Pounds Stopping YOU? Come Along For A Boudoir Shoot!"I'd love to, but first I need to lose 10 pounds." We hear it all the time! If you've ever caught yourself putting your best life on hold for a mythical number on a scale then you'll find this episode super relatable. This week, you're coming along as Jayna does a super steamy boudoir photoshoot with the wonderful Jennifer Williams, despite feeling fluffy! She's 30 lbs. heavier than the last time they did a shoot together and considered dropping out, but in an effort to walk it like she talks it (and living with Big Lash Energy!), s...
2024-04-1738 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Was This Threesome Sexy or Messy? You Decide!WARNING: Adult Content! Has your partner ever told you they wanted a threesome? Maybe you want one but are afraid to ask? In this weeks episode, Jayna continues on her quest to find a #3 for the man who told her the secret to keeping him loyal was one menage a trois a year. Who would have thought finding someone to join in on their sexy time would be so difficult? Fortunately (or unfortunately), she finally finds someone and the night that follows is did NOT as she'd planned. After hearing this one, you'll understand why...
2024-04-1038 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!It's A Party! Celebrating 100 With BLE's Greatest Hits and Listener Picks!Pop the Champagne!! In this episode, we're celebrating 100 episodes of BLE and Jayna's invited some of her besties to share what their favorite moments have been so far. She's joined by Rikki, Tim and Arzo, as well as Sarah from the "For Better or For Worse Almost Killed Her" trilogy. It's a star studded 43 minutes! If you're an OG bestie, this will be a fun trip down memory lane. If you're new to the tribe, this is a fabulous place to start for recommendations as to the 'must hear' episodes!
2024-04-0346 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Is it Wrong to Admit you REALLY Want to Win? What Happened With Jayna's Ambie Award Nomination?!Come with Jayna to Los Angeles for her first ever "vlog style" episode…it's a rollercoaster of emotions! Woohoo!! Big Lash Energy was nominated for an Ambie for "Best Relationship or Wellness Podcast" ...its a major honour! In fact, it's such a big deal, Jayna just had to bring you with her! For the first time ever, our host steps away from her script and tells it exactly as it is...and in real time too! As a BLE bestie, you have a VIP ticket to walk the red carpet alongside her…and experience the highs...
2024-03-2743 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!The #1 Way To Tell He's ACTUALLY Into You…and WTF Is Breadcrumbing?Have you been a victim of breadcrumbing? If you're not sure what it is, listen up! This form of manipulation is a serious time suck and can make dating super confusing. In this episode, we talk about how to tell if the guys DMing you are in it for the long haul or just an ego boost. Jayna shares the story of her very first crush (hey, Mehalee!), and lays the smack down on a politician who thought he was dealing with a Golddigger. It's sure to have you contemplating what advice you w...
2024-03-2017 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Ever Felt So Ugly You Could Cry?...So Have I.Have you ever been disgusted by the reflection looking back at you? Are there days when you feel unworthy of love because you no longer feel cute? Are you giving yourself the "ick"? ...Us too! This week, Jayna gets real about what happened on a day when she couldn't stand to look herself in the mirror. The episode features a heartfelt conversation, genuine moments of vulnerability, and an empowering message of self-love. If you've been struggling to see your own beauty, then this one was written just for you. Grab your h...
2024-03-1318 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Client Nightmare Stories From Danessa Myricks + New Friends at The Makeup Show!You're invited to come join Jayna and her two best friends, Rikki and Elsa, on an exciting trip to Atlanta! The ladies are on their way to The Makeup Show, to spread that "bad ass, big lash energy everywhere they go" and boy do they ever! Tune in to hear the great lengths they go through to gain new listeners, and make new friends. Jayna finally gets her hug from Danessa Myricks, and you're going to love her talk with a 6 year old child makeup prodigy and her superstar Dad. This episode is all good vibes. Its a...
2024-03-061h 00Big Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Jayna's Craziest Bridezilla Story ...FINALLY!Jayna risked her LIFE for her client and this is how the bride repaid her! Have you ever seen a bridezilla out in the wild? Almost every day, someone asks our host "Tell me a crazy bride story!". After nearly 2 decades of working in weddings, it's safe to say she's got a good handful to choose from. Today, Jayna's FINALLY telling the one that takes the (wedding) cake….the bridezilla story that still has her shaking her head till this very day. For a little added spice, we invited Rikki, Jayna's bestie and associate stylist, to he...
2024-02-2827 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!The Ugly Side of Doing Hair + Makeup For Brides?…OH MY!If you've ever considered being a bridal makeup artist, you might change your mind after hearing this! Our host has done hair and makeup almost exclusively for weddings for the past 2 decades and it's safe to say, she's seen it all! In this episode, Jayna's bypassing the typical complaints about her chosen career….like the long hours, lack of sleep, picky clients…and instead, she's going STRAIGHT for the jugular! You'll have a laugh as she dishes on what REALLY goes on behind the scenes. (SPOILER ALERT: It's not all pretty!) This is an action pack...
2024-02-2136 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Recovering from Divorce + Self Confidence: A Talk With THE Jennifer Williams!Wouldn't it be tragic if you went your entire life finding beauty in everyone else but you? In this very special episode, Jayna's snuggled in bed with Jennifer Williams, one of North Americas top Boudoir Photographers. She's spent over a decade helping women of all sizes feel comfortable in their own skin. Both ladies bare it all as they discuss the pain of divorce and the surprising things they did on the journey to loving themselves again. Listen for a beautiful reminder of what makes you sexy, why you should spend valentines (and every day) loving you, and maybe...
2024-02-1439 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Family Can Break Your Heart Too?! ...Who knew!Ever had someone you really cared about not love you back the way you hoped they would? That kind of rejection can shake you to your core and leave you wondering "what's wrong with me?". This week is Jayna's birthday so she's reflecting on the past year, the love she gained and a very surprising heartbreak. Listen as she offers a new perspective on what it means to not be chosen. A must-listen if you've been disappointed by the love (or lack there of) from your parents, sibling, friend or romantic partner. ...
2024-02-0725 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Do NOT Travel to Mexico Without These 6 Tips on How to Have a Safe Trip!Unsure of if you should plan a vacation or destination wedding in Mexico? Why not get some advice from someone who's traveled extensively all over the country? Jayna has been going to Mexico since she was 13 and has visited dozens of times on her own as well. In this episode, our host spills the margarita from her hotel room in cabo san lucas…and it's spicy! IN THIS EPISODE: -How to travel safely to Mexico -The beauty of the Mexican people -The Dangers of traveling to Cancun
2024-01-3134 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!OMG It's Danessa Myricks! We Talk Success, Her Makeup Brand + Making The Bed!An inspiring conversation between Jayna and the celebrity makeup artist who's had the biggest impact on her career. Join in as the ladies discuss their shared passion for lifting women up, finding joy in the small things and the power that comes from embracing your uniqueness. Danessa went from being an unemployed single mama to the founder and CEO of a hugely successful makeup brand (Danessa Myricks Beauty) that's now available in Sephora and proved that it's never too late to try something new. Jayna has been a super fan of both Danessa's artistry and makeup brand since she...
2024-01-2442 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!How She Turned An Embarrassing Loss Into An Epic Win!In this episode, Jayna takes her team of MUA's to visit The Makeup Show in Los Angeles and it ends up being life changing! After taking classes from influential celebrity stylists, she has stars in her eyes...she imagined herself teaching on stage too. So, in the name of dreaming big, she takes a big leap aaaand... falls right on her face! Listen in as she shares the story of how she turned an embarrassing fail into one of her biggest wins. Just wait till you hear how the stars aligned at a time when she thought all she...
2024-01-1731 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Does Your Mother-In-Law Make You Twitch?Here's How to Deal With The...Nice Lady. We're discussing MIL's that have come completely unhinged…and there's lots of them! In this episode, Jayna shares nightmare stories from some of her brides and of course, it wouldnt be BLE if she didnt give a little advice. You'll gain a new perspective as to why your relationship might be strained, as well as suggestions as to what you can do about it. OH! And there's a special message for your partner too...(psst! You're going to want to make sure they hear it!) Let's laugh through the tea...
2024-01-1024 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!When Life Feels Like WOAH: Why Jayna Considered Quitting This ShowFeeling stressed? Imagine losing your sister/business partner and gaining a daughter all in the span of 6 months. Life can throw challenges our way that leave us feeling like we're drowning in a sea of responsibilities. From work pressures to personal challenges, it's easy to feel like we're being pulled in multiple directions. In this episode, Jayna shares a very personal story of the hardships that had her feeling overwhelmed this year (it was so bad, she almost quit the show!), how she made it through and what she learned from it all. It's a hard, yet heartwarming episode t...
2023-12-2726 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Besties Talk Business Part 2: Shannon Mann + Rikki (Jayna's Right Hand!)"Behind Every Successful woman is a tribe of other successful women who have her back". This isn't your typical business talk—it's a fun and heart warming journey through the highs and lows of building a business with your friends by your side. Whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur or just love a good laugh, these chats will leave you inspired, entertained, and ready to conquer your own business adventures. First, listen in as Rikki describes what it's been like working alongside Jayna for the past 15 years, her very unique definition of success and how she make...
2023-12-2051 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Besties Discuss the Secrets to Running A Business…Come Sit With Us!"Sit me at the table where they're talking about self-growth, money and goals…" This week, we saved you a seat! Listen in as Jayna discusses REAL business advice from the boss ladies who've lived it! In this very special episode, she introduces you to her closest friends. Why? They're all smart, sexy, successful entrepreneurs killing it in their given fields! In part 1 of 2, a fitness coach, talent agency owner and couture jewelry designer all spill their guts on how they define success, how they got to where they are and whether or not being so bad ass ha...
2023-12-1345 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Bad Dating Life? You MUST Hear This Advice!Have all the dates you've been on lately been duds? If so, you might be doing it all wrong! In this episode, Jayna shares the 5 things she wishes someone told her before entering the dating world…the last piece of advice is is solid gold! Share this episode with your single friends who don't have time for bad dates anymore. They'll thank you for sure! IN THIS EPISODE: -What not to say on a first date -How to tell if a man is really into you? -What to loo...
2023-12-0627 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!The Audies: Honoring Tinder Dates With The Most Audacity!Who's the best at being the worst? You decide! Audacity is at an all time high so we're telling stories of some of the most audacious guys! Listen as Jayna hosts an Oscar-like awards show full of jaw dropping "did he really just say that?" moments. It's the awards show you never knew you needed. Press play and you'll be transported to a hilariously believable star studded event…Don't be late, we're saving the best seat for you! IN THIS EPISODE: -The Struggles of Online Dating -Trying To Find Love...
2023-11-2919 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Bad Date Story: The Sketchy Millionaire"Date someone with money" they said...."Find someone who's on your level or better" they said...Jayna took their advice and just wait till you hear how THAT went! Recent studies found that 61% of people say they would lie on the first date - you know, about the usual things like height, finances, sexual history or whether or not the dog in their profile is actually theirs...but the lies that Bill told were NEXT. LEVEL. IN THIS EPISODE: -Funny date story -Tinder nightmare -Trying to find Love...
2023-11-2227 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Becoming A Makeup Artist Against Her Mothers WishesThe Rock, JLo and Jennifer Lawrence all disappointed their parents on the road to success and Jayna did too! After making the move from a promising psychologist to wannabe makeup artist, her mom cried for three days! In this episode, she shares how her mom went from her #1 sceptic to her #1 fan. Listen to her makeup artist origin story as well as the stories of famous celebrities who disappointed their parents and came out on top. If you need motivation or inspiration to chase after your dream…to fight for that thing that lights a fire in your belly…then...
2023-11-1525 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!A Surprising Life Hack: Be The Most Productive, Seductive, Successful + Well Balanced YOU!This is the crucial information every menstruating woman needs to know. A new way of living that has transformed Jayna's life so she's sharing the road map with you! We've been sold a lie- Our menstrual cycle is about so much more than bleeding- with the right knowledge, it can be a powerful compass that can guide your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Armed with the information from this episode, Jayna has planned her activities and self-care routines around her hormonal phases, optimizing her energy, productivity, and overall sense of balance. This new approach has absolutely changed her...
2023-11-0826 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Recent Brides Giving The BEST Wedding Advice!This week, Jayna shares a collection of conversations she's had with brides in her makeup chair. Listen in as she asks each one "What advice would YOU give someone getting married?" - the answers might surprise you! (Fun fact: One woman even asked to have her voice changed so her family wouldn't recognize her! ) As an added bonus, Jayna shares 3 very unique things she did at her own wedding that you've likely never heard of before! TOPICS COVERED IN THIS EPISODE: Advice on how to plan a wedding What not...
2023-08-2334 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!"But You're White!" How Jayna Got Her Start With South Asian BridesJayna shares the wild origin story of how she got her big break in the South Asian Wedding Industry, what she had to do to land it and what it's like being an outsider working in the Indian community. If you're a regular listener, you already expect the unexpected when it comes to Jayna's stories and this one does not disappoint! Be sure to check out Jayna's bridal transformations on IG! @jaynamariemakeup TOPICS COVERED IN THIS EPISODE: South Asian Weddings Indian Bridal Makeup Building a Bridal Makeup Business Traveling to Thail...
2023-07-2630 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Girl Talk With Starrly Gladue: From Cheated On to Moving On!"When you're living in your purpose, the Universe conspires to move every obstacle out of your way." Unfortunately, sometimes, that obstacle is a person. In this episode, Jayna sits down for some girl talk with one of her past makeup students turned instagram baddie, Miss Starrly Gladue. The two ladies met in the back of a boutique store on Melrose called Girl Crush to chat about trusting your gut and following your dreams. Just wait till you hear how she went from broken hearted to living her best life all in a couple of months. Listen in to...
2023-06-2140 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!If You're Looking for a Sign to Follow Your Dreams…This is It!There has to be more to life than work and paying bills! Today, we're discussing how to find your purpose, what it feels like once you do and why it's so important. Over the past year, Jayna's bared her soul, pushed herself beyond her limits, sacrificed her sleep and invested more than she imagined into Big Lash Energy. Still her passion burns brighter than ever before. When she asked herself "how am I still so passionate about the?" The answer was clear- she's living her purpose. On the one year anniversary of the show- did w...
2023-06-0730 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Do THIS to have the Best Wedding Ever! (And Bridezilla stories!)What's the *one thing* you can do to make sure your wedding is fun and memorable? In this episode, Jayna is pulling from her 18 years of working with brides to help make sure your celebration is the best it can be! Tune in to hear her uniquely sensible advice, and you'll be well on your way to having the wedding of your dreams. Even if you're not currently in the throes of wedding planning, Jayna has got some wild and outlandish Bridezilla stories that are sure to entertain. After having worked with anywhere from 3000 to 5000...
2023-05-3124 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!"Am I the A**hole?" with Snapchat Superstar Joe StoneJayna sits down with Snapchat social media guru Joe Stone who recently took over the congregation of Snapchat to bless the world with the preachings on "The Church of Joe Stone." where Joe weighs in on all the news and celebrity gossip. Today Joe is joining Jayna on the mic. They'll be discussing a few of Jayna's past bridal encounters with Joe to determine "Am I the Asshole." But wait, there's more! Keep your ears peeled for a special appearance from Karlee. You won't want to miss finding out who is the asshole, and who is the p...
2023-05-1023 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Should you Stay with a Cheater? When to Say Goodbye and When to TryIn this follow-up episode to last week's "Seven Warning Signs Your Man Might Be A Cheater," Jayna tackles a big question: Should you give a cheater another chance or move the heck on? The answer seems simple - if you asked a friend, for example, most would scream "NO! Dump his ass!" but it's easier said than done…Oftentimes, it's not that cut and dry. There are so many things to take into consideration- maybe you have a long history, a family together or a deep love you don't want to lose. Considering 68% of men and 32% of women who ch...
2023-04-0526 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Seven Warning Signs Your Man Might Be A CheaterIs he a cheater or are you just being paranoid? Do you have an instinct that your man is cheating? A feeling in your gut? Without any hard evidence, how would you know?! We've got you covered! In preparation for this episode, Jayna's connected with women who have been cheated on, men who are cheaters, and women whose career is to service men sexually. This, in combination with her own personal experience, is how we are going in on infidelity. This is an episode you are not going to miss because Jayna is going to give you...
2023-03-2927 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!"What Happens in Vegas…. We Share On The Podcast!"Why does "the prettiest girl in Vegas" have vomit dripping from her eyelashes? In this Las Vegas Edition of Big Lash Energy, tune in to hear the story that's so embarrassing, Jaynas sister had to have a sit down conversation with her family to soften the blow before the release of this episode! The stars aligned and Jayna + Karlee were able to attend the Podcast Movement Evolutions in Las Vegas. With one chance to leave an impression, they knew they had to be bold. Their motto: "Walk into the room like God sent us!" - and that's e...
2023-03-2230 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!#AskAuntieJayna: Sexy Dreams, Finding D + Making out with DrakeWelcome to Ask Auntie Jayna, the episode where Jayna answers your sex and relationship questions. Listen in as she gives her signature unconventional, unprofessional (and possibly terrible!) advice. She asked and you delivered. Jayna has always been told she gives great advice and went to her IG to see if there is anything SHE could help YOU with. She cares about your well-being and she knows your going to do it anyway, so you might as well do it right. Tune in for her judgment-free advice to your burning questions. Questions asked in this episode:...
2023-03-1526 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!"Incredible, Inspiring Women Poop Too!" Celebrating International Women's DayIt's International Women's day, and Jayna is shaking her pom poms paying tribute to the incredible women around her and shining a light on one particularly influential woman. Jayna shares an inspiring story of an unexpected friendship and how she found strength and support in an unlikely place with a woman whose perspective and attitude changed the course of her life. Tune in to hear her story and discover the transformative power of female friendship and how one woman made a profound impact on her to this day. We'll explore the impossible task of being a woman...
2023-03-0828 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Tales from Tulum & How You Can Have An Epic Girls Trip Too!This week Jayna reveals the highlights of her unforgettable 40th birthday celebration in the tropical paradise of Tulum. Her birthday request: To dance in the sun, surrounded by the women who've supported her for the past decade and hopefully make lifelong memories along the way! Jayna knows that "It's not that diamonds are a girl's best friend, but it's your best friends who are your diamonds." and that's exactly why she's spoiling her friends on *her* birthday- they're the gift! In this episode, Jayna and some of her closest ladies embark on a once in a lifetime M...
2023-03-0133 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!We Ask Men: Signs It's Time To End a RelationshipIn this unscripted collaboration episode, Jayna is the guest judge on the My Five Cents Podcast panel. Our host joins the discussion with SoSo Juv, HLS (Habitual Line Stepper), and The Logical Genius as they each present her with their own list of 5 reasons to know when it's time to end a dating relationship. If you've been with your partner for a while now and things are fine, they aren't great, but they aren't horrible. How do you know when the person you're with isn't your person anymore? A dating relationship is a time to be picky, be...
2023-02-2253 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!"I Broke My Neck, Not My Vagina" A Beautiful Love StoryA super gushy, warm and fuzzy celebration of love just in time for Valentine's Day! Jayna gets to hear love stories for a living. After 18 years of asking every bride that sits in her chair how they met their person, thousands of responses later, she has heard them all. Today, she's going to share her favourite. This isn't your typical meet cute in a grocery store. Just because Jayna has had bad luck in love, doesn't mean she can't celebrate Cupid. Today, no matter what your relationship status is or how you feel about the...
2023-02-1431 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Getting Old is the GOATWhy does Jayna think getting old is the greatest of all time? The stars have aligned and in true serendipitous fashion: This 40th Episode of Big Lash Energy is also the 40-year anniversary of Jayna's womb evacuation. On this monumental birthday, Jayna is looking back on the past 10 years, and exactly how different her present reality is from the future she had envisioned for herself reminding herself that progress does not always look the way we expect it to. The obstacles she has overcome and the wins that she has achieved since her 30th birthday a...
2023-02-0828 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Woman Seeking Woman: Exploring The Other Side of TinderTwo date stories from people that surprised Jayna with their crazy, and one thing that may surprise you is that one of them was a lady! First, Jayna needs a night out to unwind and dance after a busy bridal season, enter Simeon, confident, sexy and smells delicious. After a night of dancing and some serious chemistry he invites Jayna for a romantic overnight date out of town at a ski resort. Does Jayna accept his advances and let him plan and pay for an overnight vacation together? Or use her better judgement and turn down his o...
2023-02-0127 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Dating Broke Guys: Splitting Meals and Catching FeelsWhat is the opposite of a Gold Digger? Is there a name for that, oh, yeah…Jayna. This week against the advice of her sister, Jayna is dishing on what she learned and loved while dating Broke Guys, almost exclusively. After a childhood embodying strong female artists chanting "No Scrubs" and "Bills Bills Bills" how did Jayna end up with her own string of Kevin Federline's (minus the babies)? If you enjoyed the 50 Shades of Red Trilogy (episode 9), you'd understand why Jaynas bank account would signal for distress when she meets a new man (if it c...
2023-01-2529 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!"Murder Proof" Your Marriage: Listen to this before you say "I Do!"Listen up for a big Sister pep talk on why Jayna thinks marriage is completely overrated. Tune in for everything you need to hear before you slip on that ring. This week, Jayna is weighing in on weddings. After 18 years in the bridal industry, (and two divorces of her own episode 1) she's seen it all! Spending the most intimate hours before the ceremony with brides-to-be and their families Jayna is now a self-proclaimed wedding expert. Today, she lifts the veil, revealing why some of her couples are happily together 18 years later and some, never even made it...
2023-01-1823 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!The Time This "Little Piggy" Lost Weight on Reality TVHave you ever considered going on reality TV to lose weight? That's what Jayna did and this week, she's dishing on every cringey minute of it! After losing 25 lbs and gaining a less-than-flattering nickname, Jayna was looking for that extra boost to help her reach her weight loss goals. Inspired by Mariah Carey, she hit the internet trying to find a personal trainer for free. In episode 35, our host shared a few of the most embarrassing things she did to lose weight. This week, she shares one of her most innovative weight loss ideas to d...
2023-01-1130 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Wacky Weight Loss Hacks: Cling Wrap, Caffeine and… Windex?!Are you jumping into the New Year with a list full of resolutions? Can we guess that one of them is to lose weight? Statistics show that most people are resolving to get fit for 2023, but at what cost? Today, Jayna is sharing what she calls her List of Weight Loss Ridiculousness. A compilation of the outrageous lengths and gimmicks she's undertaken over the years to shed a few pounds. (This list is purely for entertainment! These are by no means recommended, however, you may cringe and reluctantly admit that you may have had a run-in with a...
2023-01-0421 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!A New Year Doesn't Mean Sh*t!A new year means a new beginning, right? Not if nothing changes! After having to restart many times, Jayna has a lot to say about learning from the past and moving forward with a positive outlook - some of her advice might surprise you! In this episode, she recommends 4 strategies to ensure a better year ahead. Sure, it's going to require a little work on your part, but we're confident it will be worth it. "What the New Year will bring to you will depend greatly on what you bring into the New Year.". After listening to t...
2022-12-2824 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Hype for Your Holidays Whether They're Salty or Sweet!Does it seem like everyone else is having more fun during the holidays than you? Are you feeling lonely (either alone or in a relationship)? Are you in need of a little hype to get you through the season?? Take a minute to breathe and listen in as Jayna shares what she learned from her loneliest Christmas. If you'd like to connect with us about a memorable holiday you've experienced (good or bad!) please email us at Jayna@biglashpodcast.com. Don't be shy! Be sure to follow us on INSTAGRAM! https://www.i...
2022-12-2108 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!6 Simple Things You Can Do To Take Your Sex From "Meh" to WooHoo!Are you enjoying sex? We've talked about faking orgasms (episode 3!), and things men need to do differently in the bedroom (episode 8!), but what about the part we play in the horizontal tango?! Sex can be a little slice of heaven, with countless proven benefits for our relationships, physical and mental health. So, why the hesitation when it comes to turning off Netflix and turning ON your clit? If we aren't enjoying ourselves entirely in the bedroom, our partner may not be solely to blame. We may have a few hangups and hesitations of our own...
2022-12-1426 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Making a Psychic Bleed is the Price She Paid For Saying Yes To Everything In LA."If your friends on instagram told you to jump off a bridge, would you do it?" If her mom were to ask, Jayna's reply would most certainly be "That depends…would it make a good story?" In her world, regardless of if it's hard, expensive, awkward, or scary, it's WORTH it if she can live to tell you about it! In this episode, come along with Jayna as she spends a day in Los Angeles, doing everything her friends, sister and IG family tells her to do. She really does squeeze every last minute out of...
2022-12-0737 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!The Past Few Years Have Been Whack… Let's Get our Sexy Back!Have you ever started a sentence with "I used to…before Covid"? Have you traded your stilettos for sweatpants? Are you feeling depleted, overwhelmed, or frumpy? If so, You may have lost your mojo! The time is up! We've gone long enough without our sexy spark. Whatever the reason for the blow to your mojo slipping away since 2019 lets slam on the brakes and turn it around for a super sexy 2023. Leave the crocs and sweats behind and tune in as Jayna jumps into the 4 relationships we have with our own sexual energy, as well as...
2022-11-3030 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Strip Clubs, Porn Stars and Long Neck DinosaursIf you've been following our series up to this point, it may seem as though Jayna has lived a million lives, (and had more than her share of adventures) Well, the same is true for her employment history! Doing it for the story and being notorious for spoiling everyone she loves (including her dogs) adds up. Wait until you hear the lengths has she gone to pay the bills! Jayna takes us on a journey through a few of the most unconventional, hilarious and cringy business endeavours she endured while she was getting her footing in life...
2022-11-2327 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Who Said We All Needed to be Boss Babes?When was the last time you were instructed to manifest your greatness? Did you remember to harness your power and claim the life that you deserve? In this week's episode, Jayna has a different perspective on the Boss Babe Mentality. She lives the hustle maybe more than the next girl, but is this life for everyone? …and what about the paradox of being a boss and a babe simultaneously? Join the honest conversation as we explore the downside to being unapologetically ambitious and why we don't always need to glamourize the hustle. (...or be glamorous, per...
2022-11-1628 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!4 Things Men Need to Stop Right. Freaking. NOW!Do you appreciate a surprise unsolicited Dick Pic at work? How about comments about your time of the month every time you are upset? Is there that one, or maybe 4 things your man does that just need to stop. Maybe you casually happen to be listening to this episode while he's in earshot, he may get the hint. At BLE, we love our male listeners. Today, we are here to offer an education to them so we can appreciate them even further. This episode is our public service announcement to men. Speaking for wom...
2022-11-0925 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Who needs Girlfriends Anyways?Is there value in having friendships with women? Teenage girls can be the worst, are grown women any better? …do you have a girl tribe? Jayna has had a less than supportive history of female friends growing up, so what changed? How have women taken a center stage in her heart? How did Jayna create meaningful female relationships as a busy businesswoman after plenty of heartbreak and a history of swearing off female friendships? Listen in to hear the point of realization that the true loves of her life have been women, standing by her sid...
2022-11-0227 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Spooky Stories from the Makeup ChairIt's the time of year when even though the weather turns colder we dust off our sexiest lingerie and transform it into a "costume". Oh, and we get to spook the snot out of the kids in the neighbourhood. After 18 years as a makeup artist, Jayna is using this season as a perfect excuse to tell some of her personal makeup artist horror stories. If you are a past bridal client with skeletons in her closet *Muah ha ha ha*…don't worry they are safe in the vault. Find out what gives Jayna the heebie-jeebies, and...
2022-10-2629 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Letter to A HaterJaynas response to a *very* harsh review. Trigger Warning: Sexual Assault They say your vibe attracts your tribe. Each week, Jayna has bared it all, tackling some incredibly personal issues. Because of her real, big sister-like chats, this tribe has garnished a loyal following of BLE besties. Your encouragement, DM's and thoughtful reviews have made this feel like a safe space to share and heal. This week, however, Jayna received some unsavoury feedback that almost took the wind right out of her sails. Of course, bad reviews are to be e...
2022-10-1931 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!The One Where She Hired an Escort in Las VegasWhat would you say if your partner wanted a threesome? In this episode, we have the full escort report! Listen in as Jayna tells the story that still has her shaking her head at herself. Try your best not to cringe as she remembers the regretful time she hired a Lady of the Night in Las Vegas for a man she loved. If you listened to the 50 shades of Red Trilogy (and if you haven't, what are you waiting for?!) you may think there is no more Dee drama to be had, but Jayna is...
2022-10-1230 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!CAN'T is a Four-Letter WordIf you want her to do something, tell her she can't. Jayna will say just about anything, except "can't". No matter the situation, one thing has always stayed consistent: She has always had the strength to believe in herself enough to overcome situations especially when others thought she couldn't. If something matters enough to her, she will find a way to make it happen. What is her secret?! Learn about the day the switch was flipped- you might be surprised she learned such a profound lesson at such a young age! Jayna might have 99 problems, but self d...
2022-10-0531 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Five Reasons to Love Yourself Right. Freaking. NOW!If we asked you to name all of the things you love most in this world, how long would it take to name yourself? This week Jayna is coming through your speakers to pump you up. As a makeup artist, sister and best friend Jayna has always considered herself a professional hype woman. She does not take this title lightly. Now, she's here, to give *you* the same treatment she gives her tribe. Consider this episode a love letter to yourself. You are going to want to save this recording or put it on repeat because this p...
2022-09-2828 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!From the DM's: Advice on Butt Stuff, Tough Love and Boys with Bad Breath.You asked, and Jayna answered! If Jaynas outrageous shenanigans have you intrigued about how she would handle some of your lifes relationship issues, tune in! If you've been paying attention in the last 19 episodes, you'll know that Jaynas life motto is to "Do it for the story" and she has unconventional advice that may lead to a few stories of your own. Does she throw petty like confetti? Sometimes! But does she want what's best for you? Absolutely 100% Yes, every time! Jayna may not be qualified to offer advice, but she does creative solutions to some of your pressing i...
2022-09-2127 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Pablo EscoBarbie - Part ThreeThe Mexico shenanigans continue! Just as Jayna's faced with a decision that would put her safety on the line, a blast from her past shocks her back into reality. Tune in this week to see if she jumps on board with her ex-fiance and says "Adios Mexico!" or if she honours her commitment to work abroad. Will she risk the repercussions that come along with the company she's keeping? Or will she swallow her pride and hitch a ride 6,246 km back home to Canada? The finale of the Pablo EscoBarbie series concludes with a splash of unforeseen o...
2022-09-1424 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Pablo EscoBarbie - Part Two"Bienvenidos a México!" After calling off her wedding, 19-Year-old Jayna arrives in Cancun, ready to start the next chapter of her life. She would be working as entertainment staff at an all-inclusive resort. Leaving her church duties and fiance back in Canada, she never imagined the adventure that awaited her. With no cell phone or accessible internet, she is disconnected from her family and any support she had known. Finding herself without a map or family for guidance, something as simple as finding her new home is an adventure in itself. In part two of this se...
2022-09-0728 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Pablo EscoBarbie - Part 1How did she go from church drama team leader to dating a Mexican drug dealer? Jayna was a teacher's pet. She was incredibly involved in her Christian High School and was a self-proclaimed drama geek. She was best friends with teachers, attended dinners at their homes and was involved in two churches. She attended missionary trips to Mexico to build houses for the less fortunate. What could possibly possess this girl, fresh out of braces and pageants, to pack her bags, and hop on an airplane with a one way ticket to live in Mexico at only 19 years old? ...
2022-08-3125 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Jayna Shares her Experience with Sexual AbuseThe message that needs to go viral. After mentioning being a victim of childhood sexual abuse in Episode one, Jayna received far too many messages from women who shared similar experiences. Today, Jayna finally takes the microphone to share the full story. This story is her own but isn't just about her, it's so much bigger. it's time to open the doors and let some light shine on the girls who have been hidden alone in the darkness. With 80% of women experiencing sexual assault before the age of 25, this issue is far too common. It's h...
2022-08-2442 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Adventures of TinderellaHer Top Three Cringiest Dates of All Time. Have a laugh at a few of the most uncomfortable dates that Jayna went on while in LA. Get ready…These stories are awkward AF! While in a relationship, Jayna suffered from a mild case of Tinder envy. When her opportunity arose to start swiping for herself, she jumped in with both feet. She created a system to "win at tinder" but it took a few practice rounds to get the rhythm down just right. She's batting zero for three as she risks it for the biscuit and dates out...
2022-08-1033 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Look What the Podcast Dragged InA bombshell is dropped, revealing the truth about Jaynas marriage, 8 years after it ended. Now, she's channelling her inner Lizzo, telling you all about the drama that's hot off the press! This week, she learned that the craziness doesn't stop just because she has a podcast,the difference is now she just has more people to tell! Don't miss a second while Jayna experiences the byproduct of airing her life with the world. She spills all the tea and shares the evidence that she's bolder and braver than she has ever been. This episode is r...
2022-08-0331 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Does this Bullet Proof Vest match my Wedding Dress?These days, it seems like everybody is getting married! Fresh off the heels of officiating her best friend's wedding, Jayna's talking all about that walk down the aisle! For better or for worse, she's sharing the "shit show" of her own wedding day- Wow, what a nail biter! She wanted a unique, exciting celebration, but maybe the universe took her wish a little *too* literally. We can guarantee you've never heard a wedding story like THIS before! You'll also hear all about how Jaynas Ride or Die, Rikki, took the plunge and guess who stood at the al...
2022-07-2728 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Fifty Shades of Red Part 3: Becky with the Good HairThe finale of the ultimate heartbreak trilogy, with layers of scandal and betrayal across the continent Listen in as Jayna unravels the truth about what was happening behind her back during her relationship with Dee. With so many layers of deception, this story needed three parts. If you haven't heard episodes 9 and 10 make sure you tune in there first! Buckle up- These aren't for the faint of heart! After 8 months of trying to get back on her feet following a lost pregnancy and unexpected breakup, Jayna faced yet another surprise. Episode 10 concluded with her reading a...
2022-07-2031 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Fifty Shades of Red Part 2: Relationshit GoalsContinuing the Ultimate heartbreak story, with layers of scandal and betrayal across the continent. Are you still shaking your head at Jayna from last week's episode? If you're like me, you may be screaming to get that boy some fibre- cause he's *clearly* full of shit. As dramatic as it was, Jayna was just setting the scene for today's episode and things are about to get even wilder. If you thought last week's episode was scandalous, stay tuned, she was just getting warmed up! If you like to binge on murder documentaries, this episode has all the...
2022-07-1328 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Fifty Shades of Red Part 1: Peeing and PrayingWhy is Jayna two glasses deep in a bottle of chardonnay this evening? She's building up the courage to relive her ultimate heartbreak. After alluding to this story in episode one, her inbox was flooded asking for more details- how?!? why and WTF?! Wasn't she too smart to get screwed over so badly? If Netflix had you gasping at the Tinder Swindler or Dirty John, then get cozy and listen up- this love story has all the scandal you're looking for! The stage is set in Mexico, where Jayna is dressed to impress and out for a m...
2022-07-0625 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Sex Advice to Listen to with your Man (We Dare You!)Everything You Want Him to Know, but Are Too Shy to Say Yourself Shy people are said to have the loudest minds, so what are you screaming from the inside? In this episode, Jayna Marie goes full savage -not average- and throws modesty out the window to open the dialogue on all of the things that we women may be too embarrassed to mention in the bedroom. If you haven't shared your pleasure playbook with your lover maybe today's the day to tune in and turn it up together. As a follow up to...
2022-06-2923 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Drunk and Purseless in Los AngelesA series of unbelievable events that led to the creation of Big Lash Energy Albert Einstein once said, "Coincidence is God's way of staying anonymous." If he knew Jayna, he might have been talking about her and her Podcast. In this Episode, Jayna recounts her nail-biting journey and the pieces that have fallen into place to bring this podcast to life. In true Jayna fashion, nothing reduces the odds against her like ignoring them. Practically born wanting to hype women up, giving teenage speeches about overcoming abuse and adversity. (There's a reason why sh...
2022-06-2234 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!BONUS: Tipsy Girl Talk with Coach PWhat do you get when you mix Jayna, the Coaches and a bottle of champagne in a recording studio?… tune in to find out! After hearing Coach P and Gurveen discuss their upbringing and how things are handled in their homes on the much-loved Coaches Don't Play Podcast, Jayna couldn't help but draw comparisons to her own family. She invited the coaches to join her for an episode of BLE to enjoy some champagne, kick back, and discuss the hilarious cultural differences between being raised in a Desi vs White household. Coach P spills the tea...
2022-06-1743 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Dating Pro Athletes on Tinder…what happened to Tony?Have you ever eaten an oatmeal raisin cookie, but then realized it was chocolate chip, and then two hours later realized it was an edible? This dating story may remind you of that feeling. Jayna shares the conclusion to the coincidental dating escapade in this follow-up episode of Dating Pro Athletes on Tinder: The episode where Jayna reveals she accidentally found herself in California hosting back-to-back dates with blue check mark verified next-door neighbours, on the same day. After the second episode aired, our BLE besties needed to know "What happened to Tony"? Whether you ar...
2022-06-1515 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Sex Advice Your Mama Won't Give YouAs a bridal Makeup artist for the past 18 years, Jayna Marie has had the unique privilege of being the first to step into the newlyweds hotel room after their wedding night. After hearing countless brides explain why they went to sleep without sexy snuggles, Jayna is taking a stand. You might be surprised to learn why she is so passionate about the importance of wedding night sex. Is sex on your wedding night that important? According to a recent survey, 52% of newlyweds reported not having sex on their wedding night, despite the fact that over 90% of women a...
2022-06-0822 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Date Night With Dave Chappelle, Expensive Scotch and…TMZ?You never know what could happen when you swipe right on Tinder! Jayna Marie is back in LA looking for love and having a fun time searching. Tune in for another crazy dating story from her favourite city to a Tinder match that ends with one of the most awkward celebrity meetings of all time. After Jayna gets sweaty with a romantic, well-put-together, successful man (at the gym!) she's thrilled to hit the town for their next date when invited to a swanky invite-only club in West Hollywood. While she considers herself a "ride or d...
2022-06-0820 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Faking the "OH!" FaceTo some men, the clitoris is simply a doorbell. They touch it once and hope someone comes. In case you haven't guessed, today, Jayna Marie is getting deep into Faking Orgasms! Are you coming? According to The American Psychological Association says a whopping 67% of women are faking orgasms on a regular basis. So why are we doing this? Why are we pretending that our bodies are responding in a way they aren't? What is going on? In this episode, Jayna Marie shines a light on this topic that most women are too shy to talk a...
2022-05-3021 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Dating Pro Athletes on TinderHow do I win at Tinder? (4:03) Have you ever heard the quote "Dating is like pushing your tray along in a cafeteria. Nothing looks good, but you have to pick something by the time you reach the cashier"? This is exactly the situation Jayna was trying to avoid! Jayna spends her time surrounded by women- which is fabulous, unless you're trying to find love. The only drawback to her success in the beauty industry is the lack of eligible men she encounters in her daily life. Always the self-starter, she decided to take her romantic fu...
2022-05-3026 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Under the Makeup: A very Messy LifeDo you think you know Jayna? Prepare to be surprised! She's lived a wild and crazy life- in fact, you might say she's lived 7 lives. In her world, not only have things not gone as planned, more often than not, they've gone horribly wrong. Listen in as she gives you access to the messiest parts of her life- her fuck ups, falls and failures in what she calls her lowlight reel. Jayna's journey to become a successful makeup artist and hype woman hasn't been easy. With those struggles finally in her rear view mirror, it's cl...
2022-05-3033 minBig Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!Big Lash Energy Podcast TrailerBig lash energy isn't just a podcast- it's a mindset, a lifestyle, a vibe! Your host, Jayna Marie has been a makeup artist, glamming brides and celebrities all over the world for the past 18 years. Now, her real expertise is girl talk! She's lived by the motto "do it for the story" and boy does she have stories! She's lived through the highest highs and the lowest lows and has learned how to laugh at and learn from it all. Join her as she spills the tea on sex, dating, healing and heartbreak. You'll learn tips on how to fi...
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