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Listen To Your Single Friend36. 2023 Goals and 2022 GoofiesHappy Holidays - I missed you guys! This episode I am ending the year with a recap of all the dating scandals and viral stories in the last few months.
I am coming to bat for Caresha who I support dating Diddy, dragging TJ Holmes by his colored eyeballs, and probably being an asshole about couples who act entitled in public.
I did not edit this episode, just 2 hours of my authentic and unfiltered thoughts - catching yall up on my hottakes and my goals for next year.
Enjoy and catch you in 2023 with...
2022-12-311h 54
Listen To Your Single Friend35. Flirting Tips w/ Lady BI suck at flirting! So I brought in the big guns! My good friend Bianca, who I call Lady B, is a professional when it comes to flirting. We broke down the definition for flirting, how to practice, and even ran through a few scenarios. I am huge on getting out of your own way and making the moves to be a better dater! Pull out your notepads, Flirting Class is in session lol.
Produced by: Jazmine Karess, Mr. Lil
Intro: @Stanleyspringer3
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2022-07-071h 55
Listen To Your Single Friend34. Single at WeddingsWedding season is upon us! As a wedding planner and a singles guru, I have so many thoughts on being single at weddings. Weddings can be hard when you've been doing the solo thing for a while and want a partner too. This episode I discuss how to celebrate your people and honor how you feel as well. I definitely go on some rants about my pet peeves, including smug brides, plus ones, and bad food lol. Check this episode out now!
Produced by: Jazmine Karess, Mr. Lil
Intro: @Stanleyspringer3
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2022-04-071h 45
Listen To Your Single Friend33. What Your Taken Friends Want You To Know ft. Unprofessional Opinion PodcastWe have our FIRST married couple on the show - Unprofessional Opinion Podcast came over here and cut up! I had the them weigh in on prior discussions from the married perspective. We talked about what’s really considered cheating, dating men with vision vs potential, and single women who say they are “waiting for their husband.” Melody and Rashad also dropped all sorts of gems about sustaining a healthy relationships and pushing 20 years of marriage. You do NOT want to miss this episode!
Hosted + Edited by: Jazmine Karess
Guest Host: Unprofessional Opinion Podcast
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2022-03-162h 08
Listen To Your Single Friend32. Valentine's Day for Singles ft. Author Nikki M.The day of love is right around the corner! This week I am joined by author Nikki McKenzie where we discuss tips and tricks for Valentine's Day. Just because we are single doesn't mean we can't feel the love this Feb 14th! We also discuss Cigar Bae during Goals and Goofies and my stance may surprise you! Don't forget to join me on Friday for the Valentine's Day movie night!
Hosted + Edited by: Jazmine Karess
Guest Host: Nikki M.
Book Link: https://www.amazon.com/RelationshipStatus-Nikki-Akinyi-McKenzie/dp/1636768393/ref=tmm_pap_sw...
2022-02-101h 30
UNestablished PodcastNew Year, New Bae (featuring Jazmine Karess)Hey Friends! This week we are joined by Jazmine Karess of the award winning podcast, Listentoyoursinglefriend (Embracing all things singe: The Good, The Bad, and the Lonely. Join us as we discuss dating during the pandemic, expectations, and a few words of wisdom when searching for a partner. Follow Jazmine on Jazmine's Instagram & Jazmine's YouTube Follow UNestablished on Instagram or Facebook Email us: unestablishedpodcast@gmail.com Don't forget to leave a five star review on Apple Podcast and Spotify! Cheers
2022-02-021h 14
Culture 101The Millennial Masterclass Podcast Ep 16 : Standards vs. Expectations Dating with Intention Pt. 2Hey, Y'all! 👋🏽 We're back with our 16th episode, and we have my spec joining us, Jazmine Karess. She hosts the award-winning podcast, Listen To Your Single Friend, making her the perfect person to discuss the difference between standards and expectations when dating.
The conversation was so funny and insightful that we had to break it into two parts.
In part two, Jazmine discussed her turn-on and offs, her dating plans going forward, and we even had a few hot-button questions for her. Happy 100th Birthday to the late and great Betty White! 🎂
What was your initial...
2022-01-201h 36
Listen To Your Single Friend31. Should You Even Be Dating? ft. Meagan C of Single Girl ClubMeagan with Single Girl Club joins me for the first episode of the new year! We talked about her awesome platform SGC along with reasons why people SHOULD NOT be dating! Meagan shared the inspiration behind her platform and I shared my mistakes from 2021 and why I needed to take a break from the streets! We also discussed the signs that you're ready to get back out there and find love.
First episode of 2022 - you do not want to miss this!
Hosted + Edited by: Jazmine Karess
Guest Host: Meagan C of Single G...
2022-01-191h 46Culture 101The Millennial Masterclass Ep. 15: Standards vs. Expectations Dating with Intention Pt. 1Hey, Y'all!
Happy New Year! We're back with our 15th episode, and we have my spec joining us, Jazmine Karess. She's the host of the award-winning podcast, Listen To Your Single Friend, making her the perfect person to discuss the difference between standards and expectations when dating. The conversation was so funny and insightful that we had to break it into two parts.
In part one, Jazmine shared some dating anecdotes, informed us how she differentiates between standards and expectations in new relationships, and broke down her communication requirements when dating.
RIP Sidney...
2022-01-131h 21
Listen To Your Single Friend30. Shooting Your ShotLadies - It's almost 2022! He who findeth a wife can't find her if she never leaves the house or puts herself out there! In this episode I explore ways for women to shoot their shot and take control of your love lives whether its in person or online. Shooting your shot is not aggressive, it doesn't make you less feminine, and it doesn't have to be scary. Time for yall to learn some moves and get in the game! A few subtle moves and you can have the man of dreams fawning all over you - check out this...
2021-12-221h 09
Listen To Your Single Friend29. Purity Culture is Ruining Your Love Life ft. Danyelle Thomas of Unfit ChristianThis week we talked about what it meant to want to praise the Lord and still want to have an orgasm - yes, we are GOING THERE! Danyelle T. of Unfit Christian joined me to unpack the concept of purity culture and how growing up in church caused conflict with our sexual expression. This is a singles platform so of course we discussed sex out of wedlock, trying to maintain a relationship while being abstinent, submitting to a partner, the concept of modesty, and more! And of course we had a little fun and dragged how dating men in c...
2021-11-042h 05
Not The Wifey Type: The PodcastS3E4 | The Nigcel Agenda: Why So Many Men Are Showing Their A** All Over the Internet w/ Jazmine KaressJazmine Karess of the Listen to Your Single Friend podcast joins me to talk about nigcels, why they want to scare you out of being single and what insights help us to remember that "single" is not the threat they think it is.
2021-10-2555 min
Listen To Your Single Friend28. Navigating Common Dating Questions - Part 2Part two! There were soooo many questions, I had to come back from more! Check out the 2nd half of this in-depth look at common dating questions. I get into some of the big questions, and also tell the epic "Red Lobster" story! lol. Also you are now listening to an award-winning podcast - WHOO HOO!! Thank you to the Black Podcasting Awards for selecting Listen to Your Single Friend as the BEST NEW BLACK PODCAST 2021! Congrats to all the other winners and nominees!
Hosted + Edited by: Jazmine Karess
Produced by: Jazmine Karess, Mr. Lil...
2021-10-021h 03
Listen To Your Single Friend27. "Wyd?" - Navigating Common Dating Questions"Wyd? What are you looking for? Why are you single?" These are just a few of the common questions you get asked while dating. Love or hate these questions, chances are you will keep getting asked! This episode I run through common dating questions and how to respond to them! Also I've made a great discovery about a new dating app, that may be a GAME CHANGER! You don't want to miss this episode!
Hosted + Edited by: Jazmine Karess
Produced by: Jazmine Karess, Mr. Lil
Intro: @Stanleyspringer3
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2021-09-231h 10
Listen To Your Single Friend26. Aging OutAs a woman, getting older comes with so much pressure and we aren't easy on ourselves or the men we are dating. In this Season 2 premiere, I talk about how aging out isn't even a thing and how to live your best life, biological clock or not. I just had a birthday so I also give my reflections on my last year and my learning lessons as a single woman! Season Two baby - Listen To Your Single Friend is back!
Hosted + Edited by: Jazmine Karess
Produced by: Jazmine Karess, Mr. Lil
Intro: @Sta...
2021-09-151h 06
Listen To Your Single Friend25. Season Finale: You Are Not A City GirlWe did it Joe! 1 full season, 25 episodes - The Season 1 finale of Listen To Your Single Friend is absolutely insane! I am joined by Kayla of Killa Konvos Podcast and we talked about EVERYTHING: Dating men with kids, the female version of "BDE", a step-by-step guide on pulling men, and how I recently catfished a guy! I also talk about the inspiration for this show and the plans for Season 2. This episode was funny, silly, vulnerable, vulgar, and everything in between. Had to go out with a bang! Check it out now.
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2021-06-092h 20
Listen To Your Single Friend24. Dating & Mental Health ft AshleighTRIGGER WARNING: Mental Health, Suicide
Is it okay to run when you find out a new boo has been diagnosed with a mental illness? What if you’re dating someone who hasn’t been diagnosed but is showing signs? Has rejection in dating or being single long term impacted your mental health?
This episode Ashleigh from My Happy Journeigh and I had a uniquely light hearted conversation while we tackled some pretty serious subject matter. We also discussed platonic friendships with the opposite sex, the comment I’ve been asked to STOP making on the show, an...
2021-05-272h 05
Listen To Your Single Friend23. Self-Image Sabotage ft Dr. ErikaThis week we had a doctor in the house! Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Dr. Erika Dawkins joined us to talk about self-image! When dating, it's so important to have a positive image of yourself, your body, and how you present to people. We talk about challenges to loving ourselves and our bodies and Dr. Erika shares tips for the "love your body" ritual that EVERY one should be doing. I got super vulnerable about my concerns dating during Covid while struggling with self-image and we talked all about showing up in spaces bold and unapologetic! This episode is the affirmation y...
2021-05-132h 00
Listen To Your Single Friend22. Think Like A Man...That’s
Not That Into YouLet’s talk about what these two popular movies on singleness, dating, and love got RIGHT and WRONG! Think Like A Man and He’s Just Not That Into You were best-selling books turned into even bigger movies! This is a fun episode, where I sound off and give my commentary on the plot points and themes of these films. FYI: Both these movies are about 10+ years old, so this is spoiler-heavy! I am back dating, and I also tell an insane story about my April Date Challenge failure (THANKS YALL)! Check it out and see if you agree with...
2021-05-101h 46
Listen To Your Single Friend21. Emotionally Unavailable Men ft. MicahThis episode we were joined by one of my homies to talk about men who are not emotionally available and how to spot them! Micah is a preachers kid so the analogies and Bible references were hitting this episode. But he also gave some illegal advice for the ladies to do when these men are tripping LOL. Somebody pass the collection plate because we were going in - you do NOT want to miss this episode!
Hosted + Edited by: Jazmine Karess
Produced by: Jazmine Karess, Mr. Big, & Mr. Lil
Intro: @Stanleyspringer3
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2021-04-272h 02
Listen To Your Single Friend20. How to Build A RosterIt's time for the draft!! Dating multiple men at one time is really not as complicated as it may seem. On this episode I make my case for roster dating, man funnels, or whatever the girls are calling it these days. With a little bit of strategy and clear boundaries, you too can build your team of future baes. Learn how to build a roster, what you MUST know beforehand, and how to make cuts!
Hosted + Edited by: Jazmine Karess
Produced by: Jazmine Karess, Mr. Big, & Mr. Lil
Intro: @Stanleyspringer3
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2021-04-2155 min
Listen To Your Single Friend19. Navigating Date Night ft MickeyThe Date Night “Female Hitch” joined us this week! A part of being single and dating is ACTUALLY going on dates. We talked about shaking first date jitters, why it’s important to remember that dates are just vibe checks, and why we should be less concerned about a mans career and more concerned about his character. We broke date night all the way down and Mickey told us all about her date planning services. We also shared some crazy date night stories that is going to have your mouth on the floor! Consider this episode your new date night...
2021-03-312h 05
Listen To Your Single Friend18. What Your Single Friends Want You to KnowTwo-timing men deserve to be dragged! It's no secret that Derrick Jaxn is getting Goofies this week! Find out which other cheater got Goofies, and why I think Derrick's wife deserves a little bit of grace. I also gave some insight to the single life for our taken friends. I talked about Single Amnesia, how to navigate inviting us out and on trips, and other things we just want our taken friends to know! Check it out!
Hosted + Edited by: Jazmine Karess
Produced by: Jazmine Karess, Mr. Big, & Mr. Lil
Intro: @Stanleyspringer3
2021-03-251h 07
Listen To Your Single Friend17. Closure Is A MythBreaking up is hard, but is closure really necessary? This episode I am talking about the most evil thing men do, why closure can sometimes make your healing harder, and how taking the time to heal without your ex can actually get the results you want! Check out this episode before you hit up your old bae!
Hosted + Edited by: Jazmine Karess
Produced by: Jazmine Karess, Mr. Big, & Mr. Lil
Intro: @Stanleyspringer3
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Email: listentoyoursinglefriend@gmail.com for advice and questions.
2021-03-181h 05
Weed & WhiskeyYou BETTER Listen To Your Single Friend!Ladies don't just date one man at a time. We are excited to be joined by Jazmine Karess, host, curator of Listen To Your Friend podcast. She brought her full personality and it was electrifying and contagious and her laughter was absolutely comforting. We had the opportunity to discuss things such as why it is important to your single friends and why the title of being single shouldn't dictate how the perceive their advice, of course. Listen to find out the one and only time she ever condone cheating and for a one night stand. She tells us her s...
2021-03-141h 19
Listen To Your Single Friend16. Why So Serious?Dating is NOT that serious! No really, some women claim dating burnout as a reason they haven't been on dates and it's not true. The simple act of going on a date and engaging in good conversation with a cool person is just that. It does not need to feel serious or complicated. This episode I am running down a list of excuses women make to tapout of dating! This is the tough love episode: It's just a date!
Hosted + Edited by: Jazmine Karess
Produced by: Jazmine Karess, Mr. Big, & Mr. Lil
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2021-03-1152 min
Listen To Your Single Friend15. I Stay Out of Married People's Business But...Typically I mind my single ass business but I can't keep quiet this week! I am doing a case study on a married couple because honestly they are a hot mess. I am taking you guys through their relationship and giving eight takeaways that single people can learn from this couple and apply to your dating lives right now!
Hosted + Edited by: Jazmine Karess
Produced by: Jazmine Karess, Mr. Big, & Mr. Lil
Intro: @Stanleyspringer3
IG: @ListenToYourSingleFriend
Twitter: @YourSingleFrnd
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Website: ListenToYourSingleFriend.com
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2021-03-0455 min
Listen To Your Single Friend14. Dating For Introverts ft. DalenciaI am joined this week by Dalencia Ross, a Confidence and Mindset Coach, who specializes in training for introverted women. We talked about how I think introverts have it is easier being single, and she explained some challenges that introverts have in dating and relationships. Also what IS an introvert? We break it down for you guys. Major gems dropped for those who are introverts and extroverts on this episode!
Follow our guest on Instagram: @DalenciaRoss. To learn more about her coaching program and the Shyne Society go to DalenciaRoss.com
Hosted + Edited by: Jazmine Ka...
2021-02-241h 30
Listen To Your Single Friend13. Who Gone Check Me?I am tired of people disguising their disdain for women with standards as “dating advice.” There’s this pervasive narrative in the advice arena that women, Black Women in particular, are asking for too much or not valuable until we prove ourselves worthy. I’m calling folks out and deading all that noise. Also I cried during goals this week so there’s that lol.
Hosted + Edited by: Jazmine Karess
Produced by: Jazmine Karess, Mr. Big, & Mr. Lil
Intro: @Stanleyspringer3
IG: @ListenToYourSingleFriend
Twitter: @YourSingleFrnd
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2021-02-181h 15
Listen To Your Single Friend12. What Men Want ft. DerrickThis week I took the backseat and let the men have the floor. (Okay I was definitely a backseat driver lol). Derrick joins us to discuss What Men Want in Dating, Relationships, & Sex. We also had a mean rant about double standards for men vs women during Goals & Goofies! Check this episode out!
Follow Derrick: @Allens_Way
Hosted + Edited by: Jazmine Karess
Produced by: Jazmine Karess, Mr. Big, & Mr. Lil
Intro: @Stanleyspringer3
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2021-02-101h 51
Listen To Your Single Friend11. What Are We?"Where is this going?" The dreaded words that can make or break your dating life! Valentine's Day is around the corner and way too many women are still uncertain about where they stand. This episode, I am breaking down why women would rather die than ask a man where things are going. I am also giving some options on how to address this topic with your boo and how to handle his response! It's time to take some action yall, you don't want to miss this episode!
Hosted + Edited by: Jazmine Karess
Produced by: Jazmine...
2021-01-2752 min
Listen To Your Single Friend10. What About Your Friends? ft. Melanin MicheleFriends are not stand-ins until you get a man! Isn't it so annoying getting ghosted by your friends when they get into a relationship? This week I am joined by Melanin Michele, who's giving us some insight on this from the perspective of a woman in a relationship. She gave us the honest truth about why friends ditch you when they have a new boo. This episode was hilarious, check it out!
Follow her/ IG: @_Melanin_Michele x Twitter: @Michele_Melanin
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Produced by: Jazmine Karess, Mr. Big, & Mr. L...
2021-01-201h 29
Listen To Your Single Friend9. My Man is Her ManSide chicks, main chicks, and the men playing the middle: gather round! This week I am talking about sharing men and other shit we do not need to be doing in 2021. I also gave you what you came for: my thoughts on Lori Harvey who has been the talk of the town all week! I dragged everybody this episode lol. Check it out!
Hosted + Edited by: Jazmine Karess
Produced by: Jazmine Karess, Mr. Big, & Mr. Lil
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2021-01-131h 02
Listen To Your Single Friend8. History of Hookup CultureTalking is NOT a relationship status, especially when you've been hooking up and attached for months. What happened to this generation? Why is no one getting married or wanting serious commitments anymore? In the first episode of the new year, I discuss this new millennium phenom that we all hate but participate in: Hookup Culture.
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2021-01-071h 06
Listen To Your Single Friend7. New Year, New BaeWe made it! This ghetto year is almost over. Seven (7) is my favorite number and in this episode I am give you all the positive vibes for yourself and your dating life in the new year. You won't want to miss all my tips and the ways that I am personally preparing for new connections and love in 2021.
Happy new year!
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2020-12-301h 07
Listen To Your Single Friend6. Leave That Man AloneIt’s my favorite week ever - Merry Christmas friends! This episode we discuss your fall back guy, how to spot him, and why you need to leave him in 2020. I’m speaking from experience about being on the rebound and learning when to let it go. Get into this episode, it's going to be a good one! Shoutout to @Stanleyspringer3 for my new intro!
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2020-12-2358 min
Listen To Your Single Friend5. The Worst Men to Date ft. JTWe have our first guest! The homie Jeremy (JT) decided to grace us with his wisdom this week. It's definitely okay to send some of these men back to the streets! I am talking about some of the WORST types of guys to date. JT holds it down for the fellas, weighing in on the worst ladies to date and why. We had so much fun - You are not going to want to miss this episode!
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2020-12-161h 54
Listen To Your Single Friend4. Dating Apps Are GhettoChances are if you are single you have a love/hate relationship with dating apps. On Episode 4, I am breaking down how to have a great dating experience using the apps. Find out what you MUST include on your profile and also how to be a pro at messaging new matches. You might just meet the one.... or get some good Screenshot Friday material! I also give my much awaited reaction to THAT viral video, yes you know the one. Don't miss this episode!
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2020-12-091h 14
Listen To Your Single Friend3. Surviving the Holidays While SingleIt's the most SINGLE time of the year! We've failed Cuffing Season so now what?! I’m sharing 8 tips so you don’t drive yourself crazy this holiday season. IG: @ListenToYourSingleFriend Twitter: @YourSingleFrnd FB: /ListenToYourSingleFriend Website: ListenToYourSingleFriend.com
2020-12-0255 min
Listen To Your Single Friend2. Ghosting is Upsetting to Me and My HomegirlsCasper ain’t got nothing on some of these men! We’re talking about ghosting and I’m spilling all my embarrassing stories and learning lessons. Yikes! Also find out the ONLY thing that I know about men. You won’t want to miss this episode! IG: @ListenToYourSingleFriend Twitter: @YourSingleFrnd FB: /ListenToYourSingleFriend Website: ListenToYourSingleFriend.com
2020-11-191h 20
Listen To Your Single Friend1. Joan Clayton Was Right: Settling is Self-CareFriends, our first episode is lit! Watching Girlfriends as an adult just hits different! We’re discussing self-care when you’ve been single for a while, and why sometimes settling isn’t the absolute worst idea. If you need advice or have questions, email ListenToYourSingleFriend@gmail.com. Follow us @ListentoYourSingleFriend on IG and visit our website ListentoYourSingleFriend.com. Shoutout to @MannyFantom for this fire intro and outro track!
2020-11-1353 min
Listen To Your Single FriendListen To Your Single Friend: The Podcast TrailerWe’re going to talk about it all: The Good, The Bad, And The Lonely! Subscribe and stay tuned for more. Follow us on IG: @ListenToYourSingleFriend and visit our website: ListenToYourSingleFriend.com.
2020-10-2308 min