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Destined To BeA New Approach to Resolving Conflict in Your Relationship - EP237Conflict is just part of life. You can’t avoid it. But you can navigate conflict effectively to repair and even grow your relationship. On this episode of Destined to Be, we share our approach to resolving conflict in our relationship, describing how our internal battles impact the way we interact with others. We explain what happens when you allow conflict to fester in your body and why couples get nowhere when we try to resolve conflict in a heightened emotional state. Listen in for insight on recognizing the patterns of co...2023-07-2731 minDestined To BeUnveiling the Secrets to a Thriving and Lasting Relationship - EP236"Holding space and creating that is probably one of the most important things that your partner doesn't know that they need." - Jeremiah Campbell Have you ever wondered if you are cultivating a thriving and lasting relationship with your partner? You might think you are, but you might be overlooking some things that could help you more effectively support each other's growth—things your partner doesn't even know they need that could help you uncover unexplored depths of love and connection in your relationship. Today, on the "Destined To Be" podcast, we're sharing so...2023-07-2031 minDestined To BeHow to Unlock the Power of Boundaries - EP235What are boundaries? Boundaries help you define what you are comfortable with—they reflect your self-awareness and your understanding of what aligns with your values. Setting boundaries is an essential practice that empowers us to create a safe and healthy environment for ourselves, promoting greater personal well-being and more fulfilling relationships. But we must be specific and self-aware to establish boundaries that truly serve us. Today, on the "Destined To Be" podcast, we're diving deep into boundaries and shedding light on the importance of setting (and upholding) boundaries that align with ou...2023-07-0731 minDestined To BeHow Personal Growth Transforms You & Your Relationship - EP234When I discovered the book Be: A No-Bullsh*t Guide to Increasing Your Self Worth and Net Worth by Simply Being Yourself, I dreamed of one day going to the author’s agency for a deep dive into my brand. Two years later, we’re returning from a VIP branding session with Jessica Zweig and her team. And the experience was transformative for me as an individual as well as our relationship. But what do you do if you’re changing, and it brings up uncomfortable feelings for your partner? Or if your partner’s transfor...2023-06-2931 minDestined To BeNavigating Our Love-Hate Relationship with Emotions - EP233 Have you ever found yourself resisting the very essence of what makes us human? Today, on the "Destined To Be" podcast, we're having a candid conversation about the fascinating realm of feelings inside each of us and the love-hate relationship almost all of us have with our own emotions. We'll share the history of our personal deep-seated fears and the painful emotions we've encountered during the evolution of our emotional state. And we'll discuss the impact of doing this inner work, both separately and together, in helping us learn to regulate our emotions in healthier...2023-06-2230 minDestined To BeFrom Triggers to Transformation: Unlocking Emotional Trust in Your Relationship - EP232 "In order to build proper emotional intimacy, you need to start with emotional trust," - Jeremiah Campbell What does emotional trust mean to you? According to Google, "emotional trust refers to the confidence and reliance we have in someone to understand, validate, and respect our emotions. It involves feeling secure and comfortable in expressing our feelings, knowing that the other person will be supportive and empathetic without judgment or interruption." Emotional trust is essential for building emotional intimacy and involves creating a secure and non-judgmental space for sharing emotions. Today, on...2023-06-1531 minDestined To BeThe Journey Continues Part 5 - From Burnout to Breakthroughs - EP231 In the past four episodes, we've been taking listeners on a walk through our life journey. You can find the links in the resources section below to listen to Parts 1-4 of our story. In today's episode, we're candidly sharing the challenges we've faced in multiple mastermind group experiences —including burnout and a lack of substantial progress—and why taking time to reflect on what you learn from these high-level experiences is vital for implementation. Mallory opens up about her personal journey of discovering her coaching program and the courageous decision to leave pursuits that no l...2023-06-0831 minDestined To BePart 4 - From Resistance to Reinvention: The Power of Personal Development in Achieving Success - EP230In the past three episodes, we've been taking listeners on a walk through our journey, from how we met through how we built the soul-level trust we have today and reflecting on our choices and their impact on our lives. In today's episode, we want to take this journey a step further, recounting the pivotal moments, chance encounters, and conscious decisions that have shaped who we are today, and propelled us forward to finding our true passion in coaching, Listen in as we delve into the challenges we faced within our families, our foray into...2023-06-0130 minDestined To BePart 3 - We Didn't Know What We Didn't KnowThe past two episodes have been a rewind back in time, offering our listeners an opportunity to get to know us better. In Part One, we gave you a peek into how we met, and in the last episode, we shared how we started dating and shared some of the volatile moments early on in our relationship and how we worked through those things to build the soul-level trust we have today. Today, we’re delving deeper and sharing more of our story, reflecting on our personal journey, challenges, and growth. Jeremiah recounts hi...2023-05-2538 minDestined To BeHow to Build Soul-Level Trust in Your Relationship - EP228When we first started dating, Jeremiah was still struggling with addiction. But we both knew that we had found our person, so there was no other option than to support each other no matter what. And we gave each other the space to have our own lives while we dated, affording ourselves the autonomy we needed through our late teens and early 20s. Last week on the podcast, we began the story of us, explaining how we met and found a safe place in each other as friends despite very different upbringings. 2023-05-1831 minDestined To BeHow Taking Risks Led to a 17-Year Love Story - EP227How a flat tire in the driveway led to a 17-year relationship—and a happy marriage. In this FUN flashback episode of the "Destined To Be" podcast, we, Jeremiah and Mallory, share our coming-of-age and coming-together story with our listeners, giving you a BTS peek at our past and a chance to get to know us better. We'll take you through our different upbringings, struggles with addiction, steps toward sobriety, and how we found a safe place in each other despite our different backgrounds. From wild teenage parties to nights spent at the bo...2023-05-1130 minDestined To BeThe Connection Between Resilience & Alignment - EP226Early in our personal development journey, we were all about the grind. Pushing ourselves forward to achieve the goals we set for ourselves, personally and professionally. But we’ve realized that when we’re in extreme alignment, when our goals support our core values, resilience comes easy. So, what is the connection between RESILIENCE and ALIGNMENT? How does designing goals around your purpose and personal fulfillment help you navigate adversity? On this episode of Destined to Be, I explain how RESILIENCE and ALIGNMENT reinforce each other, helping you stay in momentum and take acti...2023-05-0429 minDestined To BeAchieving Abundance Through Calm: A Deep Dive into the Law of Attraction - EP222 "The first part of the law of attraction is to calm your ass down, take deep breaths, and slow your roll in order to attract things. When you can do that properly, things will start showing up in your life." We all want more success, happiness, and abundance, but our stress and an imbalanced nervous system often prevent us from achieving the calm state necessary to manifest our desires. On this episode of the "Destined To Be" podcast, Jeremiah shares powerful insights on how to attract positive outcomes into your life. Walking us t...2023-04-0629 minDestined To BeUnpacking Anger: Understanding the Emotion and Regulating Your Response - EP221 A lot of time, people will say that they are angry—but even when that is the emotion you think you are feeling, it’s often a cover-up for deeper feelings like hurt, sadness, or shame. By identifying and addressing these underlying emotions, you can make progress toward resolving your issues. So, how can you uncover and address the underlying emotions masked by anger to make progress toward resolving issues and avoid getting stuck in a negative emotional state? On this episode of the "Destined To Be" podcast, Jeremiah and Mallory dive deeper into the topic of ange...2023-03-3130 minDestined To BeThe Transformative Power of Play: How Incorporating Fun and Joy Can Enhance Your Relationship - EP219 "For a long time, we prioritized our individual pursuits and subscribed to the hustle culture, but we've learned that being present and having fun together can shift our energy and bring us to a whole new level of being. It's not just a nice-to-have; it's a necessity for a thriving relationship." Many couples fall into the trap of prioritizing individual responsibilities and neglecting the importance of having fun together. In the early years of our relationship, we led very separate lives, focused on our individual businesses and hobbies, and only realized later how much we were missing...2023-03-1630 minDestined To BeThe Secret to Growing Closer as a Couple - EP215What's the secret to growing closer as a couple? If you and your partner want to strengthen your bond and heighten the intimacy in your relationship, you have to create space for vulnerability. But what does that look like in practice? On this episode of Destined to Be, we explore the relationship between vulnerability and growth, explaining what to do if you don't feel safe being vulnerable with your partner. We share our experience of going dancing together at the Secrets Moxche Playa del Carmen, discussing the power in offering your pa...2023-02-1632 minDestined To BeThe REAL Key to Change - EP212"The real work gets done when you sit with yourself and connect the dots to integrate what you've learned in the past. You're the only one that can lead you to your actual healing." We live in a world set up to make you believe the person you are in this moment is not good enough. Add to that, no matter what you've tried, you can't seem to move past that one thing that is holding you back, whatever it is. Maybe your one thing is that you've fallen into the pit of...2023-02-0232 minDestined To BeWhy You Need to Stop Living for Someday - EP211"When I'm constantly in the gap, I can't be in the game." We have all these amazing ideas of where we want to go, what we want to do, and who we want to become. We say things like, "when work slows down, I'll finally start working out and get the body I’ve always dreamed of," or "when the kids are older, I'll start that million-dollar business."But when we assign all those things to some date in the future, we end up putting the best of our lives off until 'someday.’ So...2022-09-2721 minDestined To BeHow To Recognize and Deal with Your Anger - EP210Sometimes I'm irritated with myself. Do you ever have those times when you can't stand your own attitude Sure, we all do. And sometimes, slipping into your comfy clothes, grabbing the remote, shutting yourself off from the world, and diving into NETFLIX is precisely what's needed to see you through that blink in time. But, sometimes, we are running through a task-list life with a heightened state of anxiety or anger humming inside us each day. So, what can you do if your anger or anxiety has lasted longer than a...2022-09-0619 minDestined To BeHow to Make the Shift and be at Peace with Your Life - EP208"Every one of you has met somebody that has this aura about them that brings other people joy and excitement just because of their presence." I used to think that being at peace with your life, no matter the outside circumstances, was just for those afraid to challenge themselves to the next level. Now, I know that's not true. But when is it time to stop digging for more in your personal development and just allow yourself to be? And how can you create that space inside that allows you to...2022-08-0217 minDestined To BeFrom Addict to a Life of Abundance - EP207There was a time when I couldn’t keep a needle out of my arm, and Mallory had to stop and buy me a carton of cigarettes on the drive to rehab. I came from nothing. I've lost everything I've had, built it back up, lost it again, and then built it again. But it hasn't always been easy or conflict-free—Mallory and I constantly remind each other that the problems we worry about today are problems the old versions of ourselves would have died for. So, how can you build the life of a...2022-07-2629 minDestined To BeHow to Complete Household Projects Without Eroding Your Marriage - EP206Running a household includes childcare, cleaning, cooking, home maintenance, and more. But each of us brings different skill levels and our own frustrations to these projects when they don't proceed as we expect. So how can we set aside our reactive behaviors in order to see our household projects through to completion? On this episode of Destined to Be, we'll walk you through how our old stories come up when we work on projects, causing overwhelm that can be bigger than the task at hand. Plus, how your self-criticalness and perfectionism tendencies can...2022-07-1930 minDestined To BeThe Relationship Between Emotional Mastery and Your Ego - EP205Scientifically speaking, by the time you're 35 years old, 95% of your life has automatic habits or things you're just repeating over and over again. Traumas in childhood and beyond can lead to us being triggered throughout the rest of our lives, causing our body to react in a certain way because our body will always remember what our mind forgets. But you cannot achieve emotional mastery when you’re constantly being triggered by your thoughts, feelings, or emotions. So how can you learn to identify and manage your emotions, lower your ego, and break ou...2022-07-1225 minDestined To BeAre You Ready to Reframe Your Story? - EP204We ALL have stories around literally everything—money, relationships, our parenting. They can be as simple as we listen to this music, not that music, because it's what we listened to growing up. Or they can be deeply entrenched, activating anxiety or some other response when we are triggered. Those are the stories we need to shift to grow, and that's when things can become uncomfortable. So, how can we open ourselves up to seeing our stories for what they are so we can reframe them? Today, I'm digging de...2022-07-0530 minDestined To BeThe Key to Building REAL Trust in Your Relationship - EP203We all have stories that affect every decision we make and how we live out our lives on a day-to-day basis. From the track playing in our minds that tells us we don't deserve rest even when we’re not feeling our best, to tying our self-worth to the wrong career or relationship. But how can we tell the difference between the stories we tell ourselves and what's real? Today, we're digging deep into how open your awareness to the narratives that play inside so you can let go of the longtime labels an...2022-06-2830 minDestined To BeWhat is Secret Sauce for Personal Development? - EP201Is there a one-size-fits-all formula for personal development? We're all human beings living different lives, which likely means we want very different things depending upon the stage of our journey. Some people want to build a business, some want to develop their self-esteem, and others might be somewhere in between. When people first dip their toe into personal development, they often try everything, exploring practices they think will move the needle but only giving each thing a half-hearted attempt like they are just going down a checklist. Actual change requires more...2022-06-1436 minDestined To BeHow to Work Through Childhood Trauma TOGETHER - EP200Childhood trauma can impact a person's emotional and physical health and personal relationships even when they're an adult, causing issues like addiction and co-dependency. Recently we sat down for an interview with Andrea Ashley on the Adult Child podcast, and today for our very special 200th episode; we're sharing that interview with you right here! We're going deep and sharing the back story from our troubled teen years to what happened that flipped the switch to bring forth our childhood traumas and how that has impacted our marriage. On this episode of Destined...2022-06-071h 09Destined To BeHow to Show Up on Social Media Without Losing Your Mind - EP194Social media is one of the biggest pain points for people today. We hear things like, “I get so nervous when I show up online,” or “I have to retake the same video 25 times before I actually share it,” or “I stumble over my words.” Maybe you hear yourself in some of those statements? We’ve all been there. On this episode of Destined to Be, we share Jeremiah’s own story of why he didn’t enjoy showing up online, and how being vulnerable in his feed flipped the switch for him. Plus, Ma...2022-04-2630 minDestined To BeHow to Prioritize a Challenging Personal Growth Program - EP185In March, we’re starting an intensive, nine-month master coaching certification program. A program we know will challenge us mentally and emotionally. How are we setting ourselves up for success? What are we doing to prioritize the program around parenting and the multiple businesses we run? On this episode of Destined to Be, we explain how we each approach a program we know will test our time and attention, describing how to make decisions around what’s possible from a ‘window of tolerance’ or neutral place. We discuss what the DiSC assessment can tell you...2022-02-2335 min
Destined To BeThe Ugly Side of Personal Growth - EP183In every area of life, to move forward, we must look back and address certain parts of ourselves. This can be one of the hardest and scariest things to do, but we don’t have to go through it alone. On this episode of Destined to Be, we discuss the ugly side of growth and why it’s not always sunshine and rainbows like everyone online makes it seem. We explore how we have dealt with the many struggles that come with stepping outside our comfort zone and confront many truths that can be hard to swallow. 2022-02-0827 min
Destined To BeEmpathy & Compassion in Relationships - EP182Going into any situation, whether it’s with a loved one or a coworker, it can be so easy to put the blame on others for how we feel. “You should have helped me.” “You don’t care about me.” But what’s really going on inside for us to feel these things so deeply? Is it childhood trauma, built up resentment from lack of communication, or an insecurity that has been pushed down for years? How can we deal with these beliefs and make it easier to have empathy and compassion in our relationships? On this...2022-02-0138 minDestined To BeSimplifying Your Life to Do What Matters - EP181With the new year we tend to have unrealistic expectations for ourselves that cause us to hit a wall, throwing all our resolutions out the window. What if instead of adding, adding, adding to our lists, we simplified our lives to be able to fit in more of the things that really matter? On this episode of Destined to Be, I, Mallory, explores the idea that we need to shift from the new year, new me hustle mentality with a more simplistic and joyful mindset, describing ways we can create a space that feels good an...2022-01-2527 min
Destined To BeLiving in Alignment with Your Definition of Success - EP180Most people grow up with the end goal to become successful. Though what does success even mean? What if instead of striving to be successful based on what others are doing or to be looked at as successful by others, you got real with yourself with what success really means to you? How can you live in alignment with your idea of success and continue to redefine it as you continue to evolve? On this episode of Destined to Be, we discuss how the definition of success is subjective and why it’s so...2022-01-1839 min
Destined To BeWhat We Learned About Success & Slowing Down in 2021 - EP1792021 was a transformative year for us. Jeremiah’s spiritual awakening in June had a ripple effect, shifting the way we think about think success and forcing us to prioritize what matters most. We had the most rewarding year of our lives financially and deepened our relationship as a couple. And yes, we did fun things like buy Jeremiah’s dream car and install a pool in our backyard. But we also realized that having things doesn’t matter much if you’re carrying trauma in your body, trying to outrun your pain. If you’re measuring y...2022-01-1142 min
Destined To BeTo Drink, Or Not to Drink - EP177We’re on vacation at an all-inclusive resort right now, surrounded by overindulgence. And when other people find out that we don’t drink, they often justify the fact that they’re making a different choice. But here’s the thing: You’re an adult, and you don’t need our permission. If you’re happy with your decision to have an adult beverage or two, more power to you. If, on the other hand, you’re unhappy with the way you feel when you drink or you’re curious what life would be like without alcohol, y...2021-10-0726 min
Destined To BeUnlearning the Behaviors That Don’t Serve You - EP171“Maybe the journey isn’t so much about becoming anything. Maybe it’s about un-becoming everything that isn’t really you, so you can be who you were meant to be in the first place.” --Paulo Coelho Personal development is often about adding things to your life. Another program. A new routine. A next-level experience. But the most impactful work we’ve done so far has been about taking things away. Exploring why we react the way we do and un-learning the behaviors that don’t serve us. On this epis...2021-08-2424 min
Destined To BeHow to Go All-In on Personal Growth - EP169So, you’ve listened to a few podcasts and read a book or two on personal development. And now, you’re ready to take that commitment to the next level. What can you do to show you’re ALL-IN on personal growth? On this episode of Destined to Be, we describe the power of traveling solo to be in the same room with other elite individuals committed to next-level growth. We share the details of the Vibe Higher Retreat coming to Austin, Texas, this November, discussing who is eligible to attend and pre...2021-08-1232 minDestined To BeChoose Compassion Over the Stigma of Addiction - EP167Many families try to hide the fact that they are struggling with addiction. But the only way to overcome drug abuse and alcoholism is to bring it into the light. As of July 26, 2021, Jeremiah has 14 years of continuous sobriety. So, what did that journey look like? And how do you navigate being in a relationship with an addict? On this episode of Destined to Be, we share our journey through addiction, explaining why Jeremiah’s first four trips to rehab were unsuccessful and how connecting with others in AA helped him quit for good. We o...2021-08-0541 minDestined To BeThe Reality Of Having Balance - EP165With many people, there is a hype around finding a sense of balance between all areas of life. Though, true balance isn’t super attainable. Tim Grover talks about how when there is perfect balance, the scale says 0.0 which is basically nothing, so the reality of true balance is just an illusion. What does working for a balanced life look like in an attainable aspect? What actually makes sense for your specific life and your lifestyle? On this episode of Destined to Be, we explore the idea of “balance” and what it looks...2021-07-2929 min
Destined To BeThe Shift from External Goals to Turning Inward - EP163Goal-setting seems pretty straight forward. You build a vision around what you want and then you take action. But what if you’re achieving goal after goal after goal so you don’t have to feel? And what happens when you finally wake up to the trauma you’ve been repressing for years? How do you approach goal-setting in a new way? How do you set intentions and stay fully present? On this episode of Destined to Be, we discuss why it’s easy to set external goals but challenging to turn inward, describi...2021-07-2238 min
Destined To BeHow to Navigate Pain and Still Show Up for Your Partner - EP162So, you’re working through trauma. But you still want to be there for your significant other. How do you initiate important conversations around the pain you’re experiencing? And what do you do if your partner’s evolution means they don’t show up the way you expected? On this episode of Destined to Be, we explain how a shift in beliefs changes the way you show up in the world, discussing the challenge we’re facing in predicting each other’s reactions through this season of awakening. We share the inner work we’re do...2021-07-2034 min
Destined To BeProcess Your Emotions, Deepen Your Relationships - EP161Is your ego keeping you from truly feeling your emotions? Processing your trauma is a MUST if you want to grow to the next level. And if you have the tools to work through an awakening of this kind, it can serve to deepen your long-term relationships and cultivate a new kind of presence in your life. On this episode of Destined to Be, we get real about how Jeremiah’s awakening has shifted the way he expresses compassion, describing how listening to fix someone differs from truly honoring where a person’s at. We...2021-07-1342 min
Destined To BeOvercoming Hardship to Become Your Best Self - EP160What if having difficult conversations with yourself and your loved ones is the only way to work towards becoming the best version of yourself? How can childhood trauma shape the way that we live our lives, and addressing it be the only way that we can wake up and truly understand how to grow towards our best selves? On this episode of Destined to Be, we discuss how anyone can start the path to evolve into the best versions of themselves. We explore Jeremiah's experience as he learns to face the difficulties of truly being...2021-07-0640 min
Destined To BeJoin Us on a Journey of Self-Discovery - EP159It’s easy to see weakness in people who sit in their emotions. But what if cracking at the soul level is what it takes to process the trauma you’ve been carrying? What if it’s not just okay but necessary to sit in your feelings? What if allowing yourself to be vulnerable is the only way to grow and achieve new levels of intimacy, love and respect with your partner? On this episode of Destined to Be, we describe what it looks and feels like to experience a panic attack, exploring how fee...2021-07-0120 min
Destined To BeElevate Your Energy & Grow Together in Community- EP140Know you want MORE for your life—but the people around you just don’t get it? Then it’s time to find a community that supports you in growing to the next level. A group of people who elevate your energy and want to stay connected for the long term. So, how do you attract the kind of people you need to get the results you want? On this episode of Destined to Be, we explain why it’s crucial to be part of a group that raises your vibration in the physical sense, discussi...2021-04-2731 min
Destined To BeHow Do You Use the Word TRY? - EP138There are two ways to look at the word ‘try.’ Most of us use it when something’s not really a priority. We’ll ‘try’ to get to the gym today… But if we don’t make it, no big deal. But what if you ONLY used the word ‘try’ in the context of trying again and again—until you reach your goal? On this episode of Destined to Be, we explore how we use the word ‘try’ as an excuse to show up less-than what we’re really capable of. We explain why you shouldn’t...2021-04-2016 min
Destined To BeWhy Compassion Is Crucial to Your Success - EP128Without passion, nothing happens. Without compassion, the wrong things happen. In the memoir Into the Magic Shop, neurosurgeon and Stanford professor Dr. James Doty shares his story of learning to harness the power of both the brain and heart. And he contends that we cannot enjoy true wealth or live our best lives in the absence of compassion. But what does it look like to practice compassion in our daily lives? On this episode of Destined to Be, we explore the idea that the only thing we really need to be successful is...2021-03-1626 min
Destined To BeGet Uncomfortable & Work Through Overwhelm - EP127When you’re overwhelmed, do you work through it? Or do you push it down and tell your partner you’re fine? It’s scary to be vulnerable and communicate what you’re really feeling. But it’s absolutely necessary if you want to find solutions. And if your partner has your back, it’s much easier to navigate overwhelm (or any other negative emotion) and come out better on the other side. On this episode of Destined to Be, we discuss the challenge of articulating why you’re overwhelmed, encouraging you to get present an...2021-03-1130 min
Destined To BeRaise Your Standards, Change Your Life - EP126Tony Robbins reminds us that if you want to change your life, you have to raise your standards. But how, exactly, do you set the bar higher? And how do you follow through and live up to these new standards you set for yourself? On this episode of Destined to Be, we discuss the value in surrounding yourself with people who will push you to the next level, explaining how couples can serve as extreme accountability partners and hold each other to a higher standard. We explore how creating a vision for the...2021-03-0929 min
Destined To BeWhat I Wanted to Be ‘When I Grow Up’ - EP125We hope you never figure out what you want to be when you grow up. That’s not to say you shouldn’t get clear on what you want to be NEXT. Vision is key in manifesting the life you want. But we hope you never stop growing up. That you keep striving for the next thing and evolving into a better person than you are now. On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re explaining why it’s crucial to set an intention for what you want to do next, challenging you to S...2021-03-0418 min
Destined To BeThe 3 C’s of Relationships, Part 3: Commitment - EP123To have a healthy relationship, you need to communicate your wants and needs and then make compromises to support each other’s growth. But most importantly, a fulfilling partnership requires dedication. It’s about working through challenges and making time to work on your relationship. It’s about growing together. On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re exploring the third and final C of a strong relationship, commitment. We explain how a commitment to your own personal growth serves as the foundation for a commitment to your relationship, challenging you to put thos...2021-02-2526 min
Destined To BeThe 3 C’s of Relationships, Part 2: Compromise - EP122We tend to see compromise in a relationship as a bad thing. It makes us think of giving something up and feeling resentful toward our partner as a result. But what if compromise in a relationship isn’t about winning or losing? What if you can BOTH benefit from supporting each other through individual seasons of growth? On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re exploring the second C of a strong relationship, compromise. We discuss the victim mentality at the source of most conflict in a relationship, challenging you to shift away...2021-02-2332 min
Destined To BeTop Insights from a Year of Recording Destined to Be - EP109It’s been a full year since we started recording Destined to Be, and we have learned a lot along the way. We’ve discovered new things about ourselves and grown both as individuals and as a couple. So, what are our top takeaways from 12 months of podcasting together? What have we learned from the process of showing up every week? And what are our greatest challenges moving forward? On this episode, we look back on our journey in podcasting so far, explaining what inspired us to build our relationship and a business together through Dest...2021-01-0736 min
Destined To Be6 Ways to Be Better in 2021, Part 1 - EP102We all want to live our best life. The real question is, are you willing to do what it takes to make that happen? Yes, you want to grow. You also want to be comfortable. But you can’t have it both ways! So, what steps can you take stretch beyond what’s easy and be a better YOU in 2021? On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re sharing our first three strategies for living your best life, describing our BE until you BECOME approach to changing for the better. We chal...2020-12-1543 min
Destined To BeLiving Your Wildest “Would It Be Cool Ifs”—with Jeremiah & Mallory Campbell - EP100What do we admire most about each other? What’s behind our drive to help other people? What are our BIG dreams for the future? In celebration of the 100th episode of Destined to Be, our dear friend Allison is turning the tables and asking US the questions. She asks who we would want to interview if we could pick anyone in the world (alive or dead) and what we’d like to go back and tell the younger version of ourselves. We explain why mindset matters more than the circumstances we’re dealt, describing what situ...2020-12-081h 00
Destined To BeHow to Boost Your Mood in 5 Minutes or Less - EP082Do you need a mood booster? If you’re feeling low on energy or down in the dumps, you aren’t showing up as the best version of yourself. But there are easy ways to turn it around and elevate your emotions RIGHT NOW, taking you from *blah* to upbeat in five minutes or less. On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re sharing six strategies for boosting your mood, explaining how taking a break from your phone and decluttering your space can make you feel better instantly. We describe how moving your b...2020-10-0635 min
Destined To BeWant to Stand Out Online? Share Your Story!—with Kellsie Moore - EP063What’s stopping YOU from sharing your story? Yes, it takes courage to own what you’ve been through and share it with the world. But think about it this way: How many people are waiting to hear your story so that they can be set free? Kellsie Moore is the professional actor, business strategist and video presence coach behind Be Marvelous You, a platform designed to help entrepreneurs and business professionals connect through video and build an audience online. She empowers clients to craft their story and share it on video, teaching them to step...2020-07-3046 min
Destined To BeLiving the Path That Was Chosen for YOU—with Matt Tamas - EP059Are you stuck in wanting a different life but afraid to take action? If you’re ready to listen to your inner voice and start taking steps toward a new vision, it begins with the decision to rewrite the story you’re telling yourself. So, how do you shift to an abundance mindset and start living the path that was chosen for YOU? Matt Tamas is the Founder and CEO of Alpha Vezeto, an elite brotherhood of men who are evolving, inspiring and impacting the world. Matt began his career as a Strength and...2020-07-1652 min
Destined To BeHow to Transform Your Money Mindset—with Kara Ayala - EP057What is your money story? Many of us were raised to believe that there are only to ways to achieve financial freedom: You’re either born with money or you have a crazy idea that changes the world. But what if we are ALL capable of building wealth as long as we know how money works? Kara Ayala and her husband, Mike, are real estate investors who own multiple construction and property management companies. She is also a money mindset coach with a passion for empowering women to create multiple streams of income, gi...2020-07-0946 min
Destined To BeImposter Syndrome: Overcoming What Holds You Back - EP056Do you downplay your achievements? Have you ever felt unworthy of a promotion or new position? It’s easy to get caught up in feelings of self-doubt. So how can we stop these feelings from getting in the way of our personal and professional development? How can we take ownership of our success and feel confident in any room? On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re exploring imposter syndrome, the feeling that you are not worthy of a title, position, or praise. We explain what it really means to be an ‘imposter’ and why most...2020-07-0726 min
Destined To BeThey're Not for You, and That's Okay - EP055Here’s the truth: you’re not going to be able to please everyone. That’s OKAY. There are people in our lives and on our social media accounts who are not FOR us and will never be. So why do we spend so much time obsessing over the way other people view us? Why do we second-guess sharing an opinion because someone else might not like it? It’s so easy to get caught up in the opinions of people who don’t matter. So, what steps can you take to cut out the people who aren’t goi...2020-07-0227 min
Destined To BeAddiction: Obsessions of the Mind That Overpower the Body - EP054What comes to mind when you hear the world ADDICTION? Drug and alcohol abuse? Food? Gambling? Sex? We believe that there are many more very common obsessions that stop us from reaching our goals, but most of those behaviors aren’t seen as addictions because they’re socially accepted. So, what addictions are limiting YOU from living the life you really want? And is there such a thing as a healthy addiction? On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re exploring addiction, any obsession of the mind that overpowers the body. We explain the differ...2020-06-3024 min
Destined To BeGet Turned On to a Fulfilling Life—with David Norrie - EP053Is your life on cruise control? If you feel like you’re just going through the motions every day and leaning on technology to zone out, it’s time to get ‘turned on.’ To wake up and start living the life God has planned for you. David Norrie is the bestselling author of Turned On: Tuning In, In a Tuned Out World and the cofounder of Turned On, a platform committed to preserving the lost art of face-to-face connection at home, at work and in our faith communities. David and his wife, Angelike, also cohost the Turn...2020-06-2552 min
Destined To BeInvest in Yourself - EP044Success looks effortless from the outside. But what you don’t see is the time and money top performers invested in honing their skills. The hours and hours of daily practice they dedicated to becoming the best possible version of themselves. So, what can steps can you take NOW to be greater LATER? What can you do TODAY to invest in your personal growth—that will pay off in the long term? On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re exploring what it means to invest in yourself. We explain what it means...2020-05-2621 min
Destined To BeWant to Change Your Life? Raise Your Standards! - EP043If you want to level up your life, you have to set the bar high. But when you raise your standards, you run the risk of being disappointed when others don’t live up to those expectations. So, how do you challenge yourself and the people you’re leading to aim high—without letting it steal your joy if they fall short? On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re exploring Tony Robbins’ idea that if you want to change your life, you have to raise your standards. We explain how you teach peop...2020-05-2123 min
Destined To BeWhat to Do When You’re Feeling Down - EP042Is the garbage weather and ongoing quarantine making you feel down? Are you waking up with ANTs (automatic negative thoughts) and blaming your circumstances for the way you feel? What if you could simply CHOOSE to feel good right now? On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re offering advice on what to do when you’re feeling down. We explain why a vision for the future is crucial in keeping a positive attitude and describe how mantras and an intentional morning routine can help you shift out of a bad mood. 2020-05-1926 min
Destined To BeDo Nothing & Be a Better Human—with Rob Dubé - EP041Think you’re too high-strung to meditate? The truth is, meditation is not about calming the mind or finding your Zen. But it can help you make better, more conscious decisions in your day-to-day. And be a kinder, more present human in general. Rob Dubé is the Cofounder and President of imageOne, one of the Forbes Best Small Companies in America in 2017. He has also been an avid meditator for the last 13 years and founded Do Nothing to teach other leaders the business benefits of practicing mindfulness. Rob’s writing has been featured in Forbes, Thriv...2020-05-1443 min
Destined To BeHow to Level Up Your Crew- EP040As Jim Rohn famously said, “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” So, is the crew you hang out with now helping you get to the next level? If you want to improve your life, you have to start building relationships with people who are where you want to be. But how do you make those connections? On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re introducing the idea that you are a product of your environment and explaining how to build a next-level community online by mak...2020-05-1227 min
Destined To BeShowing Up in the Shutdown #WorthyAF—with Christina Lecuyer - EP039Have you put your life on pause during the COVID-19 shutdown? Are you waiting until the pandemic is over to become the best version of yourself? The problem is, you are not getting this time back. So, what if you started living fully TODAY? What if you stopped playing the victim and started living your purpose, showing up to serve at your highest potential? What if you came out of this BETTER than you were going in? What if it’s okay to be okay right now? Christina Lecuyer is a former professional go...2020-05-0841 min
Destined To BeFrom Mindless to Mindful: Living with Intention - EP038Do you want to come out of the COVID-19 pandemic better than you were going in? Then you need to be awake to your actions, thoughts and feelings. You need to stop moving through your days mindlessly and start living with intention. On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re challenging you to examine what’s on autopilot in your life and start making mindful choices. We discuss how to build an awareness of why you’re doing what you’re doing and explain why creating new habits requires a shift in your attention. We...2020-05-0622 min
Destined To BeDesigning a New Normal Around Who You Want to Be - EP037“In the rush to return to normal, use this time to consider which parts of normal are worth rushing back to.” —Dave Hollis Have you been living on autopilot? Doing things because you feel like you have to? Or because that’s what you’ve always done? As many states begin Phase 1 of the plan to reopen after the Coronavirus quarantine, we have a unique opportunity to make decisions about the way we want to show up moving forward and who we want to surround ourselves with. On this episode of Destined t...2020-04-3025 min
Destined To BeHow to Grow Your Mental Fitness (Every Day of the Week!) - EP036As we move into the month of May, several states are beginning the process of reopening businesses. But there is still a lot of concern around the ongoing spread of COVID-19, and we don’t know what the new normal will look like. In the face of all this uncertainty, there has never been a better time to grow our mental fitness. And that’s why we are declaring May as Mental Fitness Month for our community! On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re walking you through the daily mental fitness themes for our REVOLUTION WELLNE...2020-04-2828 min
Destined To BeReplace Your Fear with Peace & Abundance—with Megan Everett - EP035The current health crisis has many of us operating from a place of fear. We’re worried about losing money and some of us are losing our confidence, too. But what if we could shift from a mindset of scarcity to one of abundance? What if we could replace our anxiety with a sense peace and move forward in faith, knowing that whatever happens, we are going to be okay? Megan Everett is the Founder and CEO of Perfrm, a software platform that helps sales professionals and teams meet their goals through data analysis and sales education. Me...2020-04-2335 min
Destined To BeRevolution Wellness Q&A Part II - EP034Like it or not, life is going to look different on the other side of COVID-19. So, what can we do to take care of our mental wellness now and show up as a better version of ourselves once the stay-at-home orders are lifted? How can we combat our negative thoughts and channel our energy into the things that lift us up? On this episode of the podcast, we’re answering a few more questions from our Revolution Wellness Facebook Group around their greatest challenges through the current health crisis. We discuss negative self-talk, explaining how to ma...2020-04-2130 min
Destined To BePut Work Last & Grow Your Business—with James Patrick - EP033Are you building your business backwards? Are you putting your work first, at the expense of your physical and mental health? Spending little time with your family because you’re ‘too busy’? And hoping that the money you make will somehow fix it all? What if you could put your health and relationships first—and STILL grow a successful business? What if a strong body and mind is actually the FOUNDATION for a high-performing entrepreneur? James Patrick is an award-winning photographer (with 500+ covers on his resumé!), keynote speaker and business coach out of Phoenix...2020-04-1643 min
Destined To BeRevolution Wellness Q&A Part I - EP032Being quarantined is a big adjustment. Our days look very different now that we’re doing just about everything from home. So, what are you struggling with the most right now? Are you having a hard time avoiding cookies and ice cream? Is it tough to stay focused on work with kids in the house? Or maybe you’re not inspired to work out by yourself? On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re sharing questions from our Revolution Wellness Facebook Group around their biggest challenges during the Coronavirus quarantine. We address stress eating, discus...2020-04-1434 min
Destined To BeA Value-First Approach to Building Community—with Tony Whatley - EP031Are you living up to your full potential? Serving the number of people you could—if you were willing to put yourself out there? Tony Whatley believes that you can make a big difference and make money, if you focus FIRST on providing value for the community you’re building. Tony is the Business Mentor and Keynote Speaker behind 365 Driven, a community that provides entrepreneurs with education, support, mentoring and accountability. He spent 15-plus years simultaneously working full-time in the oil and gas industry and building multimillion-dollar businesses on the side. Today, Tony is on a mission to h...2020-04-0933 min
Destined To BeSTOP Playing the Victim - EP030Are you sitting around in your pajamas, watching Netflix and waiting for the world to get back to normal? Breaking news: Things are never going to be normal again. But YOU get to choose whether that’s good or bad. Will you choose to blame others for the pandemic and play the victim? Or will you choose to see the disruption as an opportunity? Will you give your power away? Or take it back and move forward in love and gratitude? On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re discussing the negative ener...2020-04-0727 min
Destined To BeIntegrating Spirit in Our Human Experience—with Jordan Sanchez - EP029If the uncertainty of this moment in time has you fearful, now is the perfect to time to connect with Source energy. To remember the pure essence of who you are. To integrate your spirituality into this messy, beautiful human experience. Jordan Sanchez is a Spiritual Teacher and Divine Channel, supporting people in recognizing their highest self and starting to live from that space. Miss Jordan is committed to helping humanity awaken to an elevated way of being through connection, understanding and inner truth. Her superpower is awakening the dormant DNA in our body, which allows us...2020-04-0247 min
Destined To BeThis is Temporary - EP028Have you been going through life on autopilot, spending each day DOING what you think is necessary to HAVE the life you want? If you’re anything like us, the order to stop DOING and stay home flipped your world upside down. But what if we reframe this experience as an opportunity to reset? To have a go at BEING instead of all the nonstop DOING? To take an inventory of how we’re spending our time and make new choices about how we show up in the world? On this episode of Destined to Be...2020-03-3137 min
Destined To BeHow to Find Certainty in Uncertain Times—with Kareen Walsh - EP027The ongoing global health crisis means that many of us are working from home. Our personal and professional roles (that used to be so separate and clearly defined) have begun to blend in this time of what Kareen Walsh calls work-life integration. What practical things can we do set up processes for working remotely? How can we stay connected and keep our vibe high during this period of isolation? And what can we do to find a little certainty, even in such an uncertain time? Kareen is the Growth Strategist and Business Coach behind Revampologist, a consulting...2020-03-2644 min
Destined To BeThrow Pillows - EP026A good friend of ours got a divorce over throw pillows. Of course, the real reasons likely ran much deeper, but throw pillows started the argument that set the breakup in motion. And while it’s easy to judge and say, “Why would you argue about throw pillows?” the fact is that most of you are going to be spending a lot more time with your partner than usual over the next few weeks, and it may be challenging to keep perspective on what really matters. On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re...2020-03-2421 min
Destined To BeThe Power That Made the Body Heals the Body—with Dr. Josh Henk - EP025Most of us were raised to trust doctors unconditionally and subscribe to the replacements for healing Western medicine has to offer. But Dr. Josh Henk believes that the power that made the body heals the body. And if we remove the physical and mental barriers that are getting in our way, the body will restore itself. Dr. Josh is the founder of Transcendence Family Wellness Center, a practice designed to help families transcend the modern healthcare paradigm by demonstrating that health comes from within. Dr. Josh holds a Doctoral Degree in Chiropractic and a Master’s in Hu...2020-03-1948 min
Destined To BeGet Your Side-Hustle On - EP024How much are you worth? If you trade your time for money at a traditional 9-to-5, your income is capped by the number of hours you’re willing to sell. But what if you opened up a second income stream? A side hustle where the money isn’t limited by how much time you put into it? On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re discussing the importance of establishing multiple streams of income. We call BS on the popular excuse that you ‘don’t have time’ and share Mallory’s first experience with building a net...2020-03-1728 min
Destined To BeInvest in Yourself & Manifest the Life You Want—with Samantha Kozuch - EP023Are you hesitant to spend money on a coach or mastermind program? What if you thought of it not as an expense, but as an investment in yourself? And what if writing that check could accelerate your success and help you manifest the life you really want? Samantha Kozuch is a social media expert and business coach for entrepreneurs. She is also the Cofounder of the Transformational Leadership Program (TLP) Mastermind, a unique platform that combines deep self-development with sales, strategies and systems for the ultimate personal and professional transformation. Samantha’s work has appeared on Oxygen, In...2020-03-1239 min
Destined To BeHow We Built Our Business & Balance It All - EP022How do you grow a thriving business AND make time for your family? What does it take to be a successful entrepreneur, living life on your own terms? And be the kind of partner and parent you can be proud of? Is work-life balance a real thing? On this episode, we’re discussing how we built our original masonry restoration business, walking you through what our lives looked like in the early days of our entrepreneurial journey. (Spoiler alert: We didn’t see each other much!) We explain the difference between a sustainable busi...2020-03-1032 min
Destined To BeThe Mindset Shift to Make Lasting Change—with Elizabeth Benton - EP021Have you been struggling with the same issue for years? Have you tried every available solution, but nothing seems to stick? If so, the problem is less about skill set and more about mindset. What if you let go of those past failures and started fresh in this moment? Do you have ONE good choice in you right now? Elizabeth Benton is the author of Chasing Cupcakes: How One Broke, Fat Girl Transformed Her Life (And How You Can, Too) and the creator of Primal Potential, a platform designed to help people make lasting change and live m...2020-03-0535 min
Destined To BeEnd the ISH - EP020We’re three months into the new year. How are you doing on your goals? If you aren’t making the progress you’d hoped, there are steps you can take to get back on the right path. But you’ve got to stop playing the victim and settling for the status quo. You’ve got to cut the ISH and start making changes NOW. On this episode, we’re sharing the three choices we have when we fall off track on our goals. We explain why it’s easy to fall into victim mentalit...2020-03-0335 min
Destined To BeMastering the Art of Masculinity—with Johnny Elsasser - EP019There is no one right way to be a man. And yet, too many of us walk through life with a fake façade, thinking we have to conform to society’s prescription of masculinity. We take on the role of the alpha male and lose our authenticity. But what if masculinity is much more fluid than that? What if being a man is really about showing up as a positive light and growing into the best version of ourselves? Johnny Elsasser is a veteran of the US Army with four years of ser...2020-02-2754 min
Destined To BeFrom Mental Illness to Mental Wellness - EP018Do you suffer from long-lasting sadness or irritability? Extremely high or low moods? Excessive fear, worry or anxiety? Have you experienced dramatic changes in your eating or sleeping habits? Or periods of social withdrawal? Have you always assumed that what you’re feeling is normal? The truth is, if you answered YES to any of those questions, you’re exhibiting signs of mental illness. So, what can we do TODAY to take inventory of our mental health, become aware of what triggers us, and move the needle toward mental wellness? On this episode, we’r...2020-02-2531 min
Destined To BeThe Choice to Be a Cancer Survivor—with Jillian Murphy - EP017Jillian Murphy was diagnosed with cancer at the age of five. During treatment, she overheard a doctor say that children who have positive attitudes do much better through the chemotherapy process. And she made the choice to be a survivor. Jillian is a proud mother, three-time cancer survivor, weight loss transformation coach and professional fitness model. She also serves as the Director of Sales in the Health & Wellness Division at Lipari Foods. Jillian is passionate about sharing her understanding of the gut microbiome and its impact on mental wellness. On this episode of Destined to...2020-02-2029 min
Destined To BeWhy You Should Want MORE Haters - EP016How many haters do you have? If you only have ten, you should be striving for ten more. Why? Well, haters don’t hate on AVERAGE people. The haters come out when you start voicing your big dreams. When you’re making an impact. When you’re living a life of abundance. But how do you learn to live with people sippin’ on the Haterade WITHOUT taking it personally? On this episode, we’re discussing why it makes people uncomfortable when we break out of mediocrity and become person we’re destined to be. We weigh...2020-02-1831 min
Destined To BeTransform Your Gut Health for Optimal Performance—with Julia Crozier - EP015We’re conditioned to respect the medical community and follow our doctor’s advice. But when Julia Crozier was prescribed a drug that didn’t address the cause of her inflammation (and only offered a 0.1% improvement in masking her symptoms), she knew there had to be a better way. Julia did her own research and healed from the inside out, leveraging an understanding of nutrition to transform her gut health. Julia has a master’s degree in molecular biology with a concentration in stem cell research from Oakland University, and she is working toward a Holistic Nutrition Consulta...2020-02-1336 min
Destined To BeGet Uncomfortable & Make Progress Toward Your Dreams - EP014If you’re not taking steps to make your dreams a reality, what are you waiting for? If you’re not living up to your full potential and you feel stuck, it’s way past time to get uncomfortable and start doing the little things that will move you toward your goals. Because, seriously, if not NOW, when? On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re discussing the relationship between success and a willingness to get uncomfortable. We explain why setting up good habits is crucial in achieving our goals, describing how the little things w...2020-02-1130 min
Destined To BeServing Others Through Sales—with Jason Howland - EP013“You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help enough other people get what they want.” --Zig Ziglar Are you curious about network marketing but don’t see yourself as a salesperson? What if I told you that sales isn’t about pressuring people into buying something, but serving others by providing them with what they need? What if, by learning to sell (and helping others do the same), you could offer big-time value, make the world a better place AND get everything you want out of life in the process? Jason Ho...2020-02-0649 min
Destined To BeHow to Take Inventory and Set Intentions with an Evening Routine - EP012Morning routines get a lot of love for helping successful people start the day in their power. But the truth is, your morning routine is only as good as the preparation you do the night before. To wake up in a proactive state, you have to set intentions the evening prior. So, what does a purposeful nighttime routine look like? On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re sharing our evening routine, discussing the technology we use to track the duration and quality of our sleep and the breathing exercises we use to reset the autonomic ne...2020-02-0430 min
Destined To BeAre You Chasing Money or Fulfillment?—with Michael Dash - EP011Michael Dash was successful in the conventional sense of the word. He was making a lot of money running a staffing business, but he was a miserable human. He started every day by popping an Adderall, and he felt like his company was running him—instead of the other way around. And though he was cynical about self-development, he couldn’t help but ask, ‘Would it be so bad to life a different way?’ Michael is the seasoned entrepreneur behind MD Coaching and Mentoring, a practice dedicated to helping business owners take their revenue to the next level. H...2020-01-3040 min
Destined To BeLeveraging Challenges to Create a New Vision for Your Life - EP010When you’re in the middle of a challenging situation, it can feel like your life is over. But in retrospect, those difficulties—and how we respond to them—can help us get closer to who we’re destined to be. And if you’re doing it right, the tough times will deepen your bonds with the people who really matter and give rise to a new vision for your life. On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re sharing Mallory’s journey as an entrepreneur, wife and mother, describing how each of her businesses have focused on hel...2020-01-2842 min
Destined To BeMove Past Addiction, Change Your Thoughts & Transform Your Life - EP008We ALL struggle with addiction. For some of us, it’s substance abuse. Others have a weakness for food or shopping or scrolling Instagram. Most of us are addicted to negative thoughts. The voice in our head that tells us the world is against us. That life isn’t fair. That we’re not good enough. So, how can we learn to move past our addictions, change our thoughts, and attract the life we want? On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re sharing the story behind our mission to inspire people when they feel stuck. You’ll f...2020-01-2142 min
Destined To BeCreating (and Manifesting) a No-Limits Vision for 2020 - EP002Wouldn’t it be cool if…? We’ve all dreamed about winning the lottery. It’s fun to think about what we might do with all that money—and the time it would free up. But what if you didn’t have to play Powerball to live that life? What if you stopped setting boundaries for what is possible and started working toward a LIMITLESS vision of the future? On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re taking you through the first steps of creating a no-limits vision for 2020. We discuss the crucial questions to ask yoursel...2019-12-3122 min