Shows
Jess AskWhy I Stopped Having Sex (And What God Showed Me) | EP142Description:This episode is about intimacy — the real kind. Jessica and Desiree discuss abstinence, shame, dating God, and learning self-intimacy in singleness. If you’ve struggled silently in this area, this conversation is for you.🎙️ Need a place to be reminded you're not alone? The Safe Space is for creators who feel unseen, misunderstood, or ready to give up. Inside this Patreon-only community, you’ll find accountability, biblical wisdom, and encouragement to keep going when it gets hard. This isn’t just content—it’s connection. A reminder that your voice matters, your gifts have p...
2026-02-1244 min
Jess AskBuilding with a Partner Without Getting Offended | with Desiree Danielle | EP139Description:Building with a partner is beautiful… and frustrating. Jessica and Desiree talk about real partnership: different personalities, different communication styles, and how offense can derail the assignment if you don’t know the heart of who you’re building with. They break down “iron sharpens iron,” healing through the process, and how to stay focused on the purpose instead of the irritation.🎙️ Need a place to be reminded you're not alone?The Safe Space is for creators who feel unseen, misunderstood, or ready to give up. Inside this Patreon-only co...
2026-01-2247 min
Jess AskWho Are You When the Mic Is Off? | Real Talk with Dr. Dee Fomby | EP138Dr. Dee Fomby joins Jess Ask the Podcast for an impromptu conversation, interviewing Jessica S. Smith and Desiree Danielle about identity, pressure, and what it really looks like when the mic is off. They discuss being “the strong friend,” learning to receive, singleness, finances, and the way God proves Himself as Jehovah Jireh in real time.🎙️ Need a place to be reminded you're not alone? The Safe Space is for creators who feel unseen, misunderstood, or ready to give up. Inside this Patreon-only community, you’ll find accountability, biblical wisdom, and encoura...
2026-01-1558 min
Jess AskBirmingham Built Me: LaDarrius Hutcherson on Therapy, Identity, and Purpose | EP137Description:Jessica S. Smith and Desiree welcome LaDarrius Hutcherson to the Safe Space for a thoughtful conversation on therapy, identity, and purpose. LaDarrius shares how Birmingham helped shape who he is today, how therapy challenged old patterns, and what it’s like balancing personal growth while building a public platform. He also introduces his book, Bloom Where You’re Planted, unpacking the deeper meaning behind honoring your roots and recognizing that your environment may be more valuable than you once believed. If you’ve ever felt torn between leaving and staying, evolving and resting, or becoming and rememb...
2026-01-081h 04
Jess AskSisterhood, Seasons & Starting Over | FT Kendal Smith | EP134Description:Jessica and her sister Kendal (Kendal Tried It) open up about divorce, co-parenting, and what it means to choose yourself without abandoning the people you love. They talk about growing up with divorced parents, breaking generational patterns, single motherhood, and how Kendal went from loctician to content creator while raising three kids.This one is for the woman who feels unseen, overworked, and still trying to figure out who she is beyond her roles.Connect With Our Guest:🎙️ Need a place to be re...
2025-12-181h 01
Jess AskThe Race to Freedom: Our Woman Evolve Experience | FT Pat & Stacy Doss | EP119Description:Jess and Desiree are back with a special recap from Woman Evolve 2025, themed “The Race to Freedom.” Joined by mother-daughter duo Pat and Stacy Doss, this episode unpacks the beauty of spiritual evolution, generational healing, and what freedom really means. With this being their third year attending Woman Evolve, Pat and Stacy offer a powerful perspective on how the experience continues to grow and challenge them. From legacy to liberation, this conversation is a continuation of the freedom theme from EP118 and a reminder that freedom is not just a feeling—it’s a pursuit.Yes365 Collecti...
2025-08-0729 min
Jess AskFinding Your Identity Through God | FT Aisha Sanders | EP116Jessica sits down with Aisha Sanders, founder of Krowned Academy, to talk about the journey of becoming the woman God called her to be. Aisha opens up about how abandonment, rejection, and rebellion shaped her path—and how a single question, “God, who am I?” changed everything. This episode unpacks identity, faith, and freedom while also highlighting how Aisha empowers young girls by teaching them braiding skills and entrepreneurship. If you’ve ever questioned your worth or struggled to understand your purpose, this conversation is for you.Connect With Our Guest:...
2025-07-171h 14
Jess AskWhy the Church Needs PR | FT Sarah Busby | EP113Description:Jess sits down with PR professional Sarah Busby, owner of B The Buzz Agency, to unpack the power of public relations and its overlooked role in the church. Sarah opens up about her own faith-led transition from Atlanta to Dallas and how obedience positioned her for greater impact. Together, they explore why storytelling, strategy, and media management are just as critical in ministry as they are in business. This episode challenges leaders to see PR as a kingdom tool—not a worldly tactic.Connect With Our Guest:...
2025-06-261h 10
Jess AskFrom Laughter to Legacy | FT Floss the Mack | EP112Description:In this special fan-powered episode, comedian and actor Floss the Mack returns to Jess Ask the Podcast for a raw, real, and unforgettable conversation. While laughter brought him to the spotlight, Floss opens up about what’s behind the jokes—his journey into comedy, navigating a strained relationship with his father, and being present for his kids. He shares how humor became his healing, and why legacy matters more than likes. This episode is a reminder that behind every joke is a deeper story—and sometimes, healing starts when the laughter fades.
2025-06-191h 07
Jess AskYes, No, Maybe: Finding Clarity in Boundaries | with Desiree Danielle | EP110Description:Jess and Desiree sit down for an honest conversation about the power behind the word “no.” They explore what it means to give a firm no without guilt, why sometimes a no is actually protection, and how to handle situations where your boundaries need clarity. Using the “yes, no, maybe” formula, this episode breaks down how to navigate tough decisions and improve communication. For anyone learning to honor their capacity and stand in confidence, this one’s for you.Support the Podcast:If you love w...
2025-06-0539 min
Jess AskTransitions & Friendships: Inspired by Insecure |with Desiree Danielle | EP107In this episode of Jess Ask the Podcast, Jess and Desiree get real about how friendships evolve during life’s transitions. From grief to personal growth, they reflect on how the show Insecure mirrors their own experiences and the layers of change that impact relationships. This one’s honest, a little raw, and definitely relatable if you’ve ever asked, “Why doesn’t this friendship feel the same anymore?” Let’s talk about what happens when seasons shift—and how to navigate it with grace.Support the Podcast:If you love wha...
2025-05-1549 min
Jess AskHealing the Mother-Daughter Bond: Navigating Love, Fear, and Legacy | FT Wynika Williams | EP99Description:In this heartfelt episode, Jess and Desiree sit down with Wynika Williams to discuss the power of the mother-daughter relationship and how it shapes our identities. They explore the beauty of Wynika's strong bond with her daughter and reflect on the fears and struggles that Jess and Desiree face as they navigate their own potential for motherhood. The conversation also addresses how some mother-daughter relationships can be strained, and the importance of faith, healing, and building a legacy of love. Tune in for an insightful conversation on embracing the role of mother, overcoming fears...
2025-03-201h 05
Jess AskHealing Through Trust & Surrender | FT Candice Turner | EP97Description:In this week’s episode of Jess Ask the Podcast, Jess sits down with Candice Turner to discuss the transformative journey of faith, healing, and the work that goes into surrendering to God’s plan. Candice shares her personal story of overcoming challenges and discovering a deeper relationship with God.They talk about how healing isn’t always easy—it takes work, vulnerability, and trust in God’s process. Candice dives into the concept of purity, not just as a physical state, but as a reflection of one's heart and alignment with God’s will.This...
2025-03-061h 10
Jess AskSeeking Validation: Overcoming Grief and Forgiveness | FT Brittany Latrice Parks | EP96Description:In this episode of Jess Ask the Podcast, Jess is joined by Brittany Latrice Parks, who opens up about her journey through grief, seeking validation, and learning to forgive herself. Brittany shares how growing up in a single-parent home, losing her mother at an early age, and struggling with feelings of abandonment shaped her identity.Her powerful testimony dives into how her interactions became driven by the question, "What do you want in exchange for 'I love you'?" Brittany’s story highlights the transformative power of forgiveness, how seeking validation outside of God’s plan...
2025-02-271h 07
Jess AskEmbracing Baptism: A Journey of Transformation | with Desiree Danielle | EP95Description:In this episode of Jess Ask the Podcast, Jess and Desiree dive into the personal and spiritual significance of baptism. They share their own transformative experiences with this sacred act and reflect on how it has shaped their faith journey. The conversation explores the power of baptism in fostering personal growth, renewal, and connection to the faith community.As the hosts discuss their testimonies, they encourage listeners to embrace their spiritual journey, seek understanding, and actively engage with their faith and community. This episode is a reminder of how struggles can lead to growth...
2025-02-2057 min
Jess AskLearning to Embrace God's Grace | FT Jayla Groom | EP94Description:In this heartfelt episode of Jess Ask the Podcast, Jess and Jayla Groom dive deep into Jayla's journey of leaving ministry and discovering the boundless grace of God. They discuss the powerful realization that no matter how far we feel we've fallen, God's grace is always sufficient and available. If you've ever felt like you've disappointed God, this episode is a reminder of His unwavering love and grace. Tune in to be encouraged and uplifted!Connect with Our Guest:Support the Podcast:If you...
2025-02-131h 11
Jess AskSeeking God In Transition: Spiritual Growth & Purpose | FT Dr. Dee Fomby | EP93Description:In this episode of Jess Ask the Podcast, Jess and Dr. Dee Fomby talk about seeking God during seasons of transition. They discuss the importance of staying aligned with God’s plan, especially when life feels uncertain or things seem to be changing rapidly.Dr. Dee shares wisdom on trusting God's timing, understanding the power of spiritual guidance, and how to handle transitions in faith. The episode also touches on how community support and spiritual parents can help us grow through transitions and keep us grounded.If you're navigating a season of change, this episode will en...
2025-02-061h 11
Jess AskEmpowering Men in Faith: Creating Safe Spaces for Growth | FT Tyler Anderson | EP92Description:In this episode, Jessica S. Smith and Tyler Anderson dive deep into the importance of empowering men in faith and the role of creating safe spaces for growth. They discuss the challenges men face in church and society, and the need for encouragement and support to help them thrive in their spiritual journeys. Tyler shares insights on building relationships with men, offering guidance, and fostering a community of faith that allows men to step into their full potential. Tune in for practical advice on how we can better support and empower men in their...
2025-01-301h 01
Jess AskTrusting God’s Plan and Overcoming Life’s Challenges | FT Dr. ShantaQuilette Develle | EP91Description:In this episode, Dr. ShantaQuilette Develle shares her journey of overcoming health challenges with faith. She discusses the power of positive affirmations, trusting God's plan, and living authentically. Tune in for encouragement on overcoming adversity!Meet Our Guest:ShantaQuilette Develle, affectionately known as “Hey Shanta Q,” is a celebrated comedian, heart health advocate, and social media personality. A former forensic accountant with the IRS, ShantaQuilette’s life took a transformative turn after surviving two strokes and a heart attack. Fueled by resilience and humor, she reinvented herself as a conten...
2025-01-231h 08
Jess AskSeeking God’s Breath: Spiritual Renewal and Revival | with Desiree Danielle | EP90Description:In this episode, Jess and Desiree talk about the power of revival—how God breathes life into us in the subtle moments. Jessica shares her excitement about turning 33, her “Jesus year,” and the spiritual growth she’s embracing. Tune in for encouragement on trusting God’s timing and seeking revival in your life!Support the Podcast:If you love what you hear on Jess Ask The Podcast and want to help us continue bringing you inspiring and insightful content, consider supporting us! Your contributions help us cover production costs, bring in amazing guests, and keep t...
2025-01-1643 min
Jess AskUnderstanding Your Worth & Winning Salary Negotiations | FT John Gates | EP89Description:In this episode of Jess Ask the Podcast, John Gates, a salary coach and author, shares his expertise in salary negotiations and how to understand your true worth in the job market. John talks about the common mistakes people make, like undervaluing themselves or accepting job offers too quickly without negotiating, and provides practical strategies to help listeners improve their negotiation skills.Meet Our Guest:John Gates is the founder of Salary Coach and author of Act Your Wage, dedicated to helping salaried job seekers negotiate higher compensation packages with minimal risk. With 30 years of...
2025-01-091h 04
Jess AskThe Vow: Understanding the Bride of Christ | FT Brad Graydon | EP88Description:Brad talks about the importance of fostering a close, ongoing relationship with God, much like a marriage, and how overcoming shame and guilt can draw us closer to His love. The episode also explores the role of repentance as an ongoing process to deepen our connection with God and grow in spiritual maturity.Meet Our Guest:Brad Graydon is the founder of BGTV Studios. It is a podcast network where voices unite together to spread the message of Jesus.Website:
2025-01-021h 04
Jess AskThe Power of 'Yes': 2024 Year In Review | with Desiree Danielle | EP87Description:In this episode, Jess and Desiree reflect on the transformative moments and lessons learned throughout 2024. They dive into the significance of saying “yes” to life’s challenges and opportunities, exploring how embracing change leads to growth and deeper understanding. Jess and Desiree share highlights from the year, discussing faith, humility, and the vital role community plays in building resilience. This episode offers practical takeaways on navigating your own journey with trust and openness, leaning into God’s plan for your life. Tune in for inspiration, encouragement, and a celebration of the journey as they look for...
2024-12-2655 minJess AskHow to Stop People-Pleasing & Walk in Purpose | FT Tameria Weaver | EP86Description:In this episode, Tameria Weaver, a mental health professional and founder of the Leap Conference, shares powerful insights on overcoming the people-pleasing mentality that keeps us from walking in our true purpose. Tameria talks about the importance of setting healthy boundaries, prioritizing self-care, and being authentic in our relationship with God.We also discuss how merging faith and therapy can bring healing to the mind, body, and spirit, and the value of celebrating small wins along the way. Tameria encourages listeners to embrace their unique identity and purpose, without comparing themselves to others, and...
2024-12-191h 09Jess AskHow to Discern the Spirit: Overcoming Pride, Comparison, & Spiritual Attacks | FT Brianca E Hardy | EP85Description:In this episode, Brianca E. Hardy, a minister, content creator, and author, shares her powerful insights on how to discern the spirit, overcome pride, and deal with spiritual attacks. Brianca discusses the importance of transparency and vulnerability in relationships and ministry, as well as how different attachment styles can impact how we connect with others.She also explains the gift of discernment—how to make righteous judgments, recognize spirits, and stay grounded in God’s Word to guard against the enemy’s tactics. Brianca talks about her personal journey of encountering spiritual attacks and the ne...
2024-12-121h 11Jess AskLearning to Love Yourself | FT Tameka Ann Newton | EP84Description:In this episode, Tameka shares her powerful journey of trusting God’s plan, even when it doesn’t make sense or feels uncomfortable. She opens up about the process of forgiving and loving herself, which allowed her to move forward in fulfilling her purpose. Tameka also shares how the SOAP devotional method has deepened her relationship with God, helping her navigate life’s challenges with clarity and grace.Tameka emphasizes the importance of transparency, especially when it comes to our struggles and mistakes, as they hold the power to help others and break generational cycles...
2024-12-051h 13Jess AskPractical Ways to Engage with the Bible | with Desiree Danielle | EP83Description:In this episode, Jess shares practical ways to engage with the Bible, from exploring different translations to relying on the Holy Spirit for guidance. Tune in for tips on guarding your heart, building faith-centered community, and making scripture practical in everyday life.Support the Podcast:If you love what you hear on Jess Ask The Podcast and want to help us continue bringing you inspiring and insightful content, consider supporting us! Your contributions help us cover production costs, bring in amazing guests, and keep the podcast running smoothly.
2024-11-2852 minJess AskHow to Trust God's Timing & Provision | With Desiree Danielle | EP82Description:Jessica and Desiree celebrate 2 years of Jess Ask the Podcast by reflecting on their journey of faith, growth, and Kingdom impact. They share how obedience to God’s timing and provision opened doors to join the BGTV network and expand their mission.This episode highlights the importance of surrendering to God’s will, celebrating the community that has supported them, and trusting in His plan—even when it doesn’t align with their own understanding.Tune in for an inspiring conversation about faith, perseverance, and the power of walking in obedience to God’s calling.Su...
2024-11-2148 minJess AskRedefining Strength for Black Women of Faith | With Desiree Danielle | EP81Description:This episode of the Jess Ask discusses the importance of receiving help and support, especially for strong Black women of faith. Jess and Desiree, explore how pride and the societal pressure to be "strong" can sometimes prevent us from accepting the help we need. They share personal experiences and insights on redefining what it means to be strong, and how allowing others to help can actually enhance our lives and purpose. The overall message emphasizes the value of community, vulnerability, and finding a balance between giving and receiving help - a "win-win" situation. The discussion touches...
2024-11-1441 minJess AskOvercoming the Past | FT Tiffany Nicole White | EP80Description:In this episode, Tiffany shares her story of resilience and faith after a life-changing decision as a teenager. Facing an unplanned pregnancy, she had a vision from God that led her to choose life and trust His plan. Now active in ministry, Tiffany speaks about overcoming her past, finding purpose, and letting faith define her path forward. Tune in for an inspiring conversation on healing, faith, and hope.Meet Our Guest:Despite many statistics, Tiffany Nicole White is a Minister in Training and a member of the intercessory team...
2024-11-0756 minJess AskFrom Activism to Podcasting | FT Cookie Brown | EP78Description:In this episode, Jessica S. Smith, Desiree, and Cookie Brown have a candid conversation about Cookie's journey from activism after the events in Ferguson, Missouri in 2014 to launching her own podcast. Cookie discusses the mental toll activism took on her relationships and parenting, and how she found creative freedom in podcasting.They dive deep into the importance of mental health and self-care, the challenges of building a podcast community, and the power of intentionality in every creative decision. Cookie also shares valuable advice for aspiring podcasters, emphasizing the importance of consistently showing up for your current...
2024-10-241h 10Jess AskOvercoming Divorce & Embracing Unconditional Love | FT Anquinetta McNeil | EP 77Description:In this episode, Netta opens up about her journey as a young mother navigating divorce, self-love, and finding purpose through raising her special needs daughter, Regine. She shares the powerful lessons she’s learned about unconditional love and how caring for her daughter has deepened her relationship with God. Netta also discusses her passion for fashion and how her business, Epiphany Hair Fashion Boutique, empowers women to embrace their inner beauty. Join us for an inspiring conversation about faith, family, and finding joy in life's challenges.Meet Our Guest:...
2024-10-1758 minJess AskThe Benefits of Podcasting | with Desiree Danielle | EP76Description:In this episode, Jessica and her co-host Desiree share their personal journey of starting the "Jess Ask". Jessica opens up about her struggles with body image and self-confidence, revealing how the podcast has become a safe space for her to grow and be herself. They discuss how Jessica's spiritual father, Apostle Howell, encouraged her to start the podcast, and how Desiree got involved from the beginning. Jessica and Desiree also dive into the benefits of podcasting, from building confidence and consistency to creating a supportive community. Whether you're thinking of starting a podcast or pursuing your...
2024-10-101h 00Jess AskBe Kind to Yourself: A Journey from Gaming to Coaching | FT Benedikt Oehmen | EP74Description:In this episode of Jess Ask, career transition coach Benedikt Oehmen shares his story of leaving the gaming industry, where he worked at Blizzard Entertainment, to pursue coaching. Benedikt opens up about the evolution of the gaming industry and how he found his true calling in helping others through coaching. He emphasizes the importance of being kind to yourself during times of change, making incremental progress, and building positive habits. Tune in for practical tips on personal growth, change management, and how to stay present and kind to yourself during career transitions....
2024-09-2657 min