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The DATEABILITY Smart Lovers PodcastEp 10. A Too-Fast Courtship Horror StoryYou’ve been following the Lord for over a decade.
You’re mature in your faith, and when you meet someone new, you’re excited. Maybe even thinking, Why wait? I’ve already been waiting 10+ years!
But here’s the thing—jumping in too fast can lead to heartbreak or missed red flags.
In this episode, I’m sharing excerpts from my e-book, The Vulnerability Modulation Handbook.
This is your guide to navigating the early stages of courtship with wisdom and grace, ensuring you’re protecting your heart and honouring God along the way.
2025-01-1727 minThe DATEABILITY Smart Lovers PodcastEp 9. Why Aren't Men Approaching Women IRL? (feat. Single Man Panel)MATCHMAKING INTEREST FORMS:
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What are men thinking as they look for their dream woman in the modern dating market?
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2024-12-121h 38The DATEABILITY Smart Lovers PodcastEp 8. How HEALED do we have to be before meeting our Forever Person? (feat. Licensed Counsellor Sarah Sibi Thomas)If you are in your late 20s to early 30s, and wanting a come-to-Jesus moment about your dating journey, this episode is for you.
My guest for this podcast episode is Sarah Sibi Thomas, a Christian Counsellor from QLD, Australia who met her husband at age 31.
She is the founder of Pure Heart Therapies counselling and family therapy practice and has 2 beautiful little toddlers.
We discuss the following in length:
Qualities of a Healthy, Healed Man
The Importance of Vulnerability, Emotional Maturity and Kin...
2024-09-051h 23The DATEABILITY Smart Lovers PodcastEp 7. Is Our Childhood Attachment Style a Life Sentence? (feat. Clinical Psychotherapist Jennifer Nurick)Is the attachment style we inherit from childhood a life sentence?
Can we go from an Anxious or Avoidant attachment style to earning the holy grail of close connection in human relationships as an adult – earned (and learned) SECURE attachment?
Here to explore the answer to this massive question is Clinical Psychotherapist and Attachment Expert - Jennifer Nurick.
She is the founder of the Psychotherapy Central Instagram page, a community of 180K like-minded seekers, a Director of the International Energetic Healing Association (IEHA),
She is...
2024-07-3157 minThe DATEABILITY Smart Lovers PodcastEp 6. Are we lying about our Core Values? (feat. Kevin Paulraj)When it comes to first dates... are we unintentionally being dishonest about what our CORE VALUES are?
Most people say they value the usual things – honesty, integrity, family.... but my guest today would argue that a person's TRUE values are exposed in the seemingly mundane content of their lives.
Now, how do we quantify said mundane content?
Here to show us and tell us is KEVIN PAULRAJ, Mindset Coach.
Marked by profound challenges—an abusive childhood, being kicked out of home, battling addiction, and enduring cripplin...
2024-07-111h 19The DATEABILITY Smart Lovers PodcastEp 5. How does a woman TRULY embody her Feminine Energy? (feat. Nathalie Biviano of Spine Tingling Marriage)Nathalie Biviano is the founder of Spine Tingling Marriage.
She is a trauma-informed life coach, specialising in navigating marriage after babies. She’s also a Mama Rising Facilitator, a Certified NLP Practitioner, Matrescence activist, and a published author.
She holds a bachelor’s degree in communication.
She helps married mothers feel held, seen and supported by their husbands by releasing resentment.
I invited her on the podcast to have a delicious conversation about:
the long, practical game of feminine energy and why this is so CRUCIAL in both the sin...
2024-06-2756 minThe DATEABILITY Smart Lovers PodcastEp 4. Why Sex Is Better If You Wait Until MarriageIf you've had sex in the past but are re-evaluating this decision, this episode is for you.
Or if you're wondering....
How do I manage my high sex drive while I'm single and wanting to save myself for marriage?
How do I set boundaries with a new boyfriend and communicate respectfully that I want to wait?
I go into loads of detail about this in my group coaching program ROMANTIC INTELLIGENCE 101 (see below for how to get in!)
Now, we live in a culture that assumes virginity is:
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2024-04-1835 minThe DATEABILITY Smart Lovers PodcastEp 3. Why Aren't Women Nice To Men? (feat. Coach Joshua Badu)Why do some women treat men like the enemy?
Why has it become ubiquitous and almost fashionable for millennial and Gen Z women to say,
"I didn't even want to get married," a quote I have personally heard from various women, especially those who have already secured committed men in their lives...
Additionally, saying: "I want to be a wife and mother to at least 3 children" publicly as a single girl, is seen as a less-than, almost embarrassing personal goal, a betrayal to the feminist sisterhood and all the equality they apparen...
2024-03-281h 30The DATEABILITY Smart Lovers PodcastEp 2. The Cost Of Big Ambition on Your Personal LifeUnpopular Opinion: If you're a marriage minded single woman listening to this podcast, do NOT go for that promotion at work.
At least, not just yet.
"Whom you marry, and how that marriage fares, will have the single greatest effect on your happiness and well-being than anything else you do. It will be the axis upon which all other decisions are made." - Suzanne Venker.
If you need the money, put a deadline on your career ambitions - but ask yourself if you still want to be single and stressed out from your al...
2024-03-1518 min
The DATEABILITY Smart Lovers PodcastEp 1. Why Christian Dating Culture is BrokenPerhaps you are here because you believe that great love exists. Not just for other people, but for you.
Why else would you be listening to this podcast? In the sacred space between you and your audio device; this here, is many years of real-life, on the ground tested research about how to date successfully, and to really enjoy it - as a real-deal Christian single who wants to hold on to your integrity, grow in character and stay committed to Jesus Christ.
I believe the Lord wants His sons and daug...
2024-02-2916 min