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IDK My BFF Jil with Jiliane PatriarcaReal Estate, Resilience, and the Power of Influence with ChastinThe gem drop from Chastin: “I kept placing myself in very uncomfortable situations because I noticed that it got that hard and that rough in order for me to snap, you know, snap into action…That's the only way that I can grow personally.”
Chastin J Miles is a dynamic individual with a remarkable journey of personal and professional growth. He is a serial entrepreneur, podcast host, TEDx speaker, author, realtor, and external advisor to the Dallas Mavericks. Chastin's accomplishments have been recognized by esteemed publications like Forbes, Essence, Black Enterprise, and NBC News Now.
His dr...
2023-10-241h 24IDK My BFF Jil with Jiliane PatriarcaEmpathy, Human Existence, and High Sensitivity with KatieThe gem drop from Katie: “I'm learning to ask, ‘What does that feel like for you?’”
In this podcast episode, Jiliane and Katie engage in a deep and introspective conversation about writing, self-discovery, and the challenges for Highly Sensitive People (HSPs). They explore personal growth, self-awareness, and the challenges and benefits of being a highly sensitive person in the context of writing, relationships, and the pandemic.
Katie Morris is a content manager and writer who is passionate about exploring the depths of the human experience. Currently working at a startup with a mission to make mental h...
2023-10-101h 01IDK My BFF Jil with Jiliane PatriarcaMessy Action, Borrowed Belief, and Introverted Entrepreneurship with SadiqThe gem drop from Sadiq: “You have to borrow belief from action-takers. Sometimes, especially introverts… we don't have belief in ourselves. I think when you don't have belief, borrow it until you find your belief, then give their belief back and you carry on.”
In this episode, Sadiq Hussain shares his journey from being a self-proclaimed shy boy to becoming a successful business and mindset coach for spiritual introverts. He emphasizes his belief in taking messy action, being unafraid to put oneself out there, and learning from mistakes. He shares how he discovered his calling in coaching and pe...
2023-09-261h 23IDK My BFF Jil with Jiliane PatriarcaAddiction, Forgiveness, and FatherhoodThe gem drop from Jimmy: “I think the greatest way to get forgiveness is to change. Really show them that you're sorry… and never do it again.”
In this episode, we talk about Jimmy DeFalco's journey from addict to grateful father and coach. While he now focuses on fatherhood, fitness, and mindset - that was not always at the center of his life. Jimmy shares personal experiences and struggles that led him to his lowest point and highlights the power of claiming personal responsibility and its role in transforming yourself.
Jimmy DeFalco is a coach and moti...
2023-09-1258 minIDK My BFF Jil with Jiliane PatriarcaSelf-Discovery, Mentorship, and Personal Growth with GraceThe gem drop from Grace: “Regardless if there's pain involved, or challenges involved, at the end of it, you're going to grow somehow.”
In this episode, Jiliane and Grace delve into the evolution of Jiliane's life and mindset over time. Jiliane reflects on her role as the eldest in an immigrant family, highlighting the weight of unconscious expectations placed on her. She notes the pressure to conform to certain career paths and life choices, such as becoming a doctor, lawyer, or accountant, while also shouldering the responsibility of setting an example for her younger siblings.
As t...
2023-08-301h 11IDK My BFF Jil with Jiliane PatriarcaFriendships, Fallouts, and Communication Styles with TamekiaThe gem drop from Tamekia: "When you're making friends, be open to letting people occupy the space where they can fit at that time."
In this podcast episode, Jiliane and Tamekia engage in an open conversation about friendships, reflecting on their experiences and challenges. They delve into the complexities of adult friendships, highlighting the difficulty of forming connections in a post-pandemic world.
Tamekia is a spirited individual originally from West Virginia, currently residing in Austin. Her friendly nature shines through her interactions, which is evident in her approach to meeting new people and her openness...
2023-08-151h 08IDK My BFF Jil with Jiliane PatriarcaMindfulness, Meditation, and Life Transitions with GrierThe gem drop from Grier: “The one thing that we can always count on is change. And that is life because life is ever-expanding and changing. And we can either ride that wave or be dragged along kicking and screaming.”
In this episode, Jiliane and Grier discuss the profound impact mindfulness can have on personal growth and inner peace. They also reminisce about their past in the wedding and events industry, where they both worked before making a transition into coaching and consulting. Grier shares how she got into wedding photography, which she enjoyed for a long time...
2023-08-0157 minIDK My BFF Jil with Jiliane PatriarcaClassroom Diversity, Culinary Cultures, and Kids in the Kitchen with RachelThe gem drop from Rachel: “Have a plan B and C pack light. You don't need as much crap as you think you need.”
In this episode, Jiliane and Rachel reminisce about their high school memories. Rachel shares her journey to culinary school, driven by her love for food despite family pressure. Her transformative experience studying abroad in Italy opened her eyes to the value of quality, seasonal, and slow food movements. She also shares tips for moving and teaching kids how to cook.
Resilient and adaptable, Rachel's life has been marked by mobility and chan...
2023-07-181h 15IDK My BFF Jil with Jiliane PatriarcaFinancial Literacy, Nurturing Relationships, and Motivation for EntrepreneurshipThe gem drop from Tristan: "Everything you've been through, starting from where you began, has ultimately led you to where you are today. Everything falls into place in a perfect alignment."
Join Jiliane and Tristan on this podcast episode as they explore personal growth, relationships, financial habits, the transformative impact of therapy, and their own motivation to pursue entrepreneurship.
Tristan Akong, born and raised in Queens, New York, is a man with a curious and growth-oriented mindset. As the youngest of three boys in an immigrant family from Trinidad and Tobago, he learned the value...
2023-07-041h 00IDK My BFF Jil with Jiliane PatriarcaStudying Abroad, Family Dynamics, and Breaking Cultural Expectations with KristinaThe gem drop from Kristina: “You grow up thinking that what is expected of you is what you should expect of yourself…but the best thing we can do for ourselves is to break free from the expectations of others and discover our true passions and desires.”
In this episode, Jiliane and Kristina discuss their love for New York City, their experiences living abroad, and their deep connection to multiculturalism. Learn about the similarities in their immigrant family dynamics, cultural traits, and the challenges of meeting societal expectations while navigating their own aspirations.
Kristina Jaku is a B...
2023-06-201h 16IDK My BFF Jil with Jiliane PatriarcaImmigration, Identity, and Philosophical Musings with AigorThe gem drop from Aigor: "When you're a kid, you don't really understand the impact of your actions. It's not until you grow older that you realize the weight of your words and how they can affect someone's life.”
In this episode, Jiliane sits down with her long-time friend Aigor to explore his inspiring journey from Spain to the United States. Join the conversation as they discuss the challenges of cultural adaptation and the value of having diverse perspectives.
Born and raised in Spain, Aigor encountered challenges early on, facing bullying as a child. However, he...
2023-06-061h 16IDK My BFF Jil with Jiliane PatriarcaNurturing Your Creativity, Unlocking Self-Care, and Inspiring Balance with RobynThe gem drop from Robyn: "The act of creating, collaborating, and connecting is my self-care, and it defines a good life for me—a love and appreciation that fuels my being."
Discover how self-care practices can enhance your creativity, restore balance, and ignite a renewed passion for your artistic pursuits.
This episode challenges conventional beliefs and reveals the symbiotic relationship between self-care and artistic expression. With personal insights and practical advice, we empower aspiring artists and creatives to prioritize their well-being while fueling their creative fire.
Robyn Tuazon is a talented individual whose pas...
2023-05-2356 minIDK My BFF Jil with Jiliane PatriarcaEntrepreneurship, Tools for Balance, and Pursuit of Failure with MilesThe gem drop from Miles: “How much more greatness, accuracy, confidence, and certainty do you gain being within a thing forever versus leaving a thing?”
In this episode, Miles is helping us learn about:
What it really means to be an entrepreneur
Psychological and tactical tools to help balance projects (and life!)
Learning to process and love failure
Miles is focused on people and potential. He’s an entrepreneur who is passionate about serving the community, especially in the Oakland-Bay Area.
He is the co-founder of DEVLAND, a platfo...
2023-05-0358 minIDK My BFF Jil with Jiliane PatriarcaManaging Anxiety, Personality Types, and Life Lessons with LydiaThe gem drop from Lydia: “Let down your defenses. Listen. Take the criticism. Try to understand what they are saying and don’t get caught up in how they are saying it. ”
In this episode, Lydia is helping us learn about:
Recognizing and managing anxiety
How ego affects our professional and personal partnerships
Lessons we can bring from dance life to real life
Lydia is a free-spirited Pisces, born and raised in the Bay Area. We’re different (ENTJ and ENFP) but it’s worked since 2008! She’s a marketing profe...
2023-04-2458 minIDK My BFF Jil with Jiliane PatriarcaMotherhood, Schooling, and Natural Living with PamelaThe gem drop from Pamela: “Home schooling is more attainable than you think. You don’t have to be a teacher. You, as their parent, are 100% capable.”
In this episode, Pamela helps us learn about:
The real deal about motherhood
The US education system and the difference between traditional and home school
Where to start with home schooling and natural living
Pamela is an Aries like me and we both want you to know that we dgaf! She’s a Speech Language Pathologist with speciality in Autism who went from a traditional classroom to the homeroom...
2023-04-101h 11
IDK My BFF Jil with Jiliane PatriarcaMoving your Mind, Body, and Soul into Alignment with AndrewThe gem drop from Andrew: "Once you align the mental and physical, then it becomes spiritual."
In this episode, Andrew is helping us learn how to:
Work on our mental health through tuning into our body
Leave the only home we've ever known in order to heal
Enhance our vibration through music
Andrew is dancer and entrepreneur who is passionate about learning about himself and his mind through understanding his body. He's working on living as presently and authentically as possible after starting fresh in a new city. He wants to mental health more approachable...
2023-04-1055 min
The New Leader Podcast40: Upgrade your INTUITION, FRIENDS & LIFE “from Type A to Type Artist” w/ Jiliane PatriarcaIn this episode we discuss:
Growing up as a filipina-american
The power of habits, structure and organization
Fielding clairevoyance and intuitive hits Somatic
Feeling to intuitively guide yourself on the path that’s right for you
Business Decision-Making and self-trust Finding friends that ACTUALLY understand and accept you for who you are
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