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RelationshiptopiaSeries 2 | Episode 74 "he Husband Wound: Breaking the Cycle – Leaving a Legacy of Wholeness, Part IV"In this episode, we explored how men can sustain their healing journey long-term and actively break generational cycles. This powerful discussion delves into the profound impact a healed man has on his fatherhood and the legacy he leaves for future generations, fostering secure and God-honoring relationships. Discover what true wholeness looks like and how to live a transformed life that resonates through your family's history.2025-07-2727 minRelationshiptopiaSeries 2 | Episode: 73 "The Husband Wound" The Pathway to Healing, Part IIIIn this episode, we delve deep into the transformative pathway to healing for men impacted by early maternal relationships, exploring crucial internal work from acknowledging the wound to developing self-compassion. This episode illuminates how these personal breakthroughs foster healthier communication, stronger boundaries, and deeper intimacy in all relationships, grounded in a renewed spiritual foundation with God. To further fuel your marriage, join our "Marriage Maintenance: Fuel Your Relationships" workshop in person (Charleston, SC) on Saturday, August 23rd from 11 AM - 2 PM; register at https://bit.ly/fuelyourrelationshipchs. For marriages in a state of emergency, find out more about our "12...2025-07-2027 minRelationshiptopiaSeries 2 | Episode 72: "The Husband Wound" The Pathway to Healing, Part IIIn this pivotal episode, Part II of "The Husband Wound," we delve into the essential pathway for men to heal from early maternal relationship dynamics. We explore the crucial internal work involved, from acknowledging the wound to developing emotional literacy and self-compassion, and how this directly impacts healthier communication, boundaries, and trust in romantic relationships. As we bridge the gap from personal healing to shared transformation, next week in Part III, we'll shift our focus to the couple's journey—how wives can support this healing, and how partners can collectively forge a new, thriving relational blueprint together.2025-07-1332 minRelationshiptopiaSeries 2 | Episode: 71 "The Husband Wound: How Early Relationships Shape a Man's Romantic Life, Part I"In this foundational episode, we introduce the profound impact of the "mother wound"—the unresolved dynamics from a man's relationship with his primary female caregiver—on his capacity for healthy romantic partnerships. We explore how these early experiences shape attachment styles, emotional regulation, and his view of women, often leading to challenges like commitment avoidance or difficulty expressing feelings. Understanding these psychological roots is the vital first step in recognizing how past blueprints influence current relationships, paving the way for future healing.2025-07-0625 minRelationshiptopiaSeries 2 | Episode 70: "The Worst Marriage Advice Ever"In this episode of Relationshiptopia, we expose five pieces of commonly shared but highly damaging marriage advice, including "Happy wife, happy life," "Keep your own money," "Just pray about it," "Keep people out of your business," and "Do what makes you happy." We dissect how these seemingly innocuous tips subtly promote imbalance, secrecy, spiritual bypass, isolation, and rebellion, undermining the very foundation of a healthy union. By challenging these problematic premises, we offer biblical truths and practical wisdom to help couples build resilient, authentic, and God-honoring marriages. Don’t forget to check out Dr. Treal’s latest devotional plan “Cultiv...2025-06-2938 minRelationshiptopiaSeries 2 | Episode 69 “Top Three Roadblocks to Lasting Love: How to Prevent Divorce and Thrive in Your Marriage”In this episode of RelationshipTopia, we tackle four majorroadblocks that can lead to marital dissolution: neglecting emotional and physical intimacy, not feeling seen, heard, understood, or valued, feeling you've outgrown your partner, and unmanaged conflict paired with unrealistic expectations. We explore how these common pitfalls can erode connection, leading to emotional distance and ultimately threatening a marriage's foundation. Tune in for practical, God-centered wisdom and actionable steps toprevent these issues and build a thriving, lasting love. If you are interested in the Emergency Marriage Recovery 12 Week Program, please email to info@wiveswhowin.com.2025-06-2241 minRelationshiptopiaSeries 2 | Episode 68: "We Need You, We Appreciate You, We Honor You: A Father's Day Tribute"Happy Father's Day! In this special episode of RelationshipTopia, we celebrate and honor the indispensable role fathers play in shaping lives and families. We explore how a father's unique strength, guidance, and presence build vital foundations in relationships with God, self, and others. Discover why your efforts matter immensely, as we express our profound appreciation for the legacies fathers create.2025-06-1630 minRelationshiptopiaSeries 2 | Episode 67: "The Power of the Pause: What Tia & Cory's Reconciliation Rumors Teach Us About Separation"In this episode of RelationshipTopia, inspired by the hopeful reconciliation rumors of Tia Mowry and Cory Hardrict, we explore the transformative 'power of separation.' We challenge the idea that separation is a defeat, arguing instead that it can be a crucial period for deep inward work, focusing on our relationships with God and self. Discover how this intentional pause can lead to profound personal growth, paving the way for potential reconciliation or a healthier path forward in any relationship.2025-06-0832 minRelationshiptopiaSeries 2 | Episode 66: "Power, Trust, and Public Scrutiny: Relationship Lessons from P. Diddy and the Bad Boys", Part IIIn this episode, we tackled the heavy but vital lessons from the P. Diddy and Bad Boy Records case, exploring the severe consequences of sin and the intense pressure of public scrutiny when God's design for relationships is abandoned. We saw how unchecked power can erode trust and dignity, leading to devastating outcomes. Ultimately, this challenging discussion underscored the critical importance of setting firm boundaries, cultivating mutual respect, and pursuing integrity in all our relationships, rooted in God's unchanging truth.2025-06-0132 minRelationshiptopiaSeries 2 | Episode 65: "Power, Trust, and Public Scrutiny: Relationship Lessons from P. Diddy and the Bad Boys", Part IInthis episode of Relationshiptopia, we delve into the serious allegationssurrounding Sean 'Diddy' Combs and the culture of Bad Boy Records. We exploredhow immense power, when unchecked by God's design, can corrupt trust andexploit others, highlighting the devastating impact on relationships with selfand others. Join us as we discern the spiritual lessons from this publicscrutiny, reaffirming God's call for dignity, justice, and accountability inall our connections.2025-05-2542 minRelationshiptopiaSeries 2 |Episode 64: "The Power of Vulnerability", Part IIIn the latest episode, "The Power of Vulnerability, Part II," we unpacked three key aspects of embracing our authentic selves. We debunked the myth that vulnerability is weakness, revealing it as an act of courage that fosters genuine connection. We also explored the crucial give-and-take of vulnerability, emphasizing the need for trust and a supportive environment for it to flourish. Finally, we discussed how vulnerability, in its truest form, lays the groundwork for strong and meaningful relationships built on empathy and deeper understanding. Don't miss this insightful discussion!2025-05-1948 minRelationshiptopiaSeries 2 | Episode 63: "The Power of Vulnerability", Part IIn part one of "The Power of Vulnerability," we laid the groundwork by understanding that being vulnerable isn't about weakness, but rather a brave step towards deeper connection and stronger trust in our relationships. We discussed how sharing our authentic selves, imperfections and all, allows our partners to truly see and understand us, fostering greater empathy. Finally, we examined why vulnerability can feel so challenging, often tracing back to past experiences and societal messages that equate openness with being fragile.2025-05-1143 minRelationshiptopiaSeries 2 | Episode 62 “How to Put Your Food Down”, Part 3 | 6 Behaviors A Man Should Never Tolerate from a WomanIn this episode of Relationshiptopia, we explore five behaviors that men should never tolerate in a relationship—disrespect, dishonesty, emotional abuse, controlling behavior, and infidelity. Setting firm boundaries against these toxic patterns is essential for maintaining self-respect and building a healthy partnership. Join us as we discuss practical ways to recognize these red flags and stand your ground. Empower yourself to create relationships rooted in respect, honesty, and mutual care.2025-05-0450 minRelationshiptopiaSeries 2 | Episode 61:" How to Put Your Foot Down" Part 2 | 7 Behaviors A Woman Should Never Tolerate from a Man!This episode explores the biblical and practical principles of healthy boundaries in relationships, emphasizing what women and men should never accept from each other. It highlights the importance of mutual respect, love, and dignity, and discusses behaviors such as disrespect, dishonesty, manipulation, and abuse that are unacceptable in any healthy relationship. By grounding the conversation in Scripture, it encourages listeners to uphold their worth and seek relationships rooted in biblical love and integrity. Ultimately, it empowers individuals to recognize unhealthy behaviors and establish boundaries that honor God and promote mutual respect.2025-04-2740 minRelationshiptopiaSeason 2 | Episode 60: "How to Put Your Foot Down and Stand Your Ground in Relationships", Part 2In this episode, we dug a little dipper discussing the role of boundaries in nurturing healthy relationships. By understanding, communicating, and enforcing boundaries, we can protect our emotional well-being and foster respect in our interactions. Remember, standing your ground is not just about asserting yourself—it's an essential practice for building relationships that honor God and promote mutual growth. Join us as we learn to put our foot down with confidence and grace!2025-04-2047 minRelationshiptopiaSeries 2 | Episode 59: "Mastering the Art of Setting Healthy Boundaries in Relationships!", Part 1In today’s episode of Relationshiptopia, we had a candid discussion on setting healthy boundaries in relationships. We define boundaries and discuss the importance of seeking the right support when confiding about relationship challenges. We also cover effective communication techniques and the art of active listening. Join us as we delve deeper next week into enforcing boundaries and the consequences of ignoring them, equipping you with tools for healthier relationships.2025-04-1838 minRelationshiptopiaSeries 2 | Episode 58: "You're Fired! Navigating Job Loss"Join us in this episode of “You’re Fired! Navigating Job Loss,” where I, Dr. Treal Ravenel, share my personal experiences with layoffs and how they transformed my perspective on career challenges. In conversation with my co-host Jill Bulluck, we explore the emotional and practical aspects of job loss, the importance of resilience, and the role of faith in navigating uncertainty. Tune in for insights on turning setbacks into opportunities and preparing for whatever comes next!2025-04-0644 minRelationshiptopiaSeries 2 | Episode 57: "Nourishing Your Microbiome: The Key to Health and Resilience"In Episode 57 of our "Your Relationship with Food" series, we delve into the vital role of the microbiome in our overall health and resilience against disease. We explore how a balanced diet rich in probiotics, antioxidants, and essential nutrients can enhance gut health, support immune function, and promote cellular regeneration. By understanding the connection between our food choices and the microbiome, listeners will learn practical strategies to nourish their bodies and improve their ability to combat environmental toxins and chronic illnesses. Join us as we uncover the profound impact of gut health on our well-being and longevity.2025-03-3044 minRelationshiptopiaSeason 2 | Episode 56: The Role of Diet in Preventing Sickness and DiseaseIn Episode 56 of our series “Your Relationship with Food,” we explore the critical role of diet in preventing sickness and disease, supported by compelling statistics and biblical wisdom. We discuss how thoughtful food choices can significantly reduce the risk of conditions like cancer and autoimmune disorders, emphasizing the importance of a mindset shift towards viewing food as a source of nourishment and health. Practical tips for healthier eating, mindful practices, and the exploration of nutritious alternatives empower listeners to take charge of their dietary habits. Ultimately, this episode encourages a transformative approach to food, illustrating that every meal is an o...2025-03-2337 minRelationshiptopiaSeason 2 | Episode 55: Your Relationship with Food "The Impact of Diet on Physical" HealthIn this episode we examine how our dietary choices significantly influence our overall health and well-being. We discuss alarming statistics from the CDC that link poor diets to over 678,000 deaths annually and highlight research showing that a healthy diet can reduce chronic disease risk by up to 50%. Through the lens of scripture, we reflect on the spiritual dimension of our food choices, encouraging mindful eating as a means to honor God. Join us as we inspire listeners to adopt healthier eating habits for improved physical health.2025-03-1623 minRelationshiptopiaSeason 2 | Episode 54: Your Relationship with Food "The Connection Between Food and Mood"We are in Season 2, Episode 1 and kicking off with a new series on Your Relationship with Food. In Episode 1, "The Connection Between Food and Mood," we delve into how our dietary choices significantly impact our emotional well-being. Highlighting the connection between what we eat and how we feel, we discuss statistics revealing that 67% of adults experience anxiety after consuming sugary foods and how a nutritious diet can reduce depression symptoms by up to 30%. Drawing on the scripture from 1 Corinthians 6:19, we emphasize the importance of viewing our bodies as temples and making conscious food choices that promote mental health. Tune...2025-03-0928 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 53: 3 Undeniable Areas of Compatibility that Make or Break RelationshipsIn Episode 53 of the podcast, we focused on three critical areas of compatibility that are essential for thriving relationships. The discussion highlights the importance of a "like mindset," where partners share similar values and beliefs, as well as "similar habits and lifestyle," which fosters quality time and mutual support. Additionally, the episode emphasizes the significance of having "similar life vision and goals" to align efforts and aspirations. By focusing on these areas, couples can build a strong foundation for a lasting and fulfilling partnership.2025-03-0228 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 52: Navigating Uncertain Times in Life and MarriageIn this episode, we explore the challenges of uncertainty in life and marriage and how couples can navigate these turbulent times with faith and resilience. We discuss the importance of acknowledging and accepting uncertainty, fostering effective communication, and seeking God's guidance. Listeners will learn practical strategies for cultivating gratitude, prioritizing self-care, and focusing on what they can control. By embracing uncertainty, couples can strengthen their bond and foster deeper connection amidst life's unpredictable moments.2025-02-2340 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 51: How You are Sabotaging Your Relationships, Part IIIIn this three-part series on "How You Are Sabotaging Your Relationships," we've explored the critical factors that can undermine love and connection. We began with the importance of effective communication in fostering understanding and intimacy, followed by the consequences of a lack of effort, which can lead to feelings of neglect and disconnection. In our final episode, we examined how outside entertainment—through infidelity, neglecting intimacy, and unrealistic expectations—can create barriers to a thriving relationship. Together, these insights highlight the need for awareness, commitment, and proactive engagement to build and maintain healthy, fulfilling partnerships.2025-02-1638 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 50: How You are Sabotaging Your Relationships, Part IIIn this episode of "How to Sabotage Your Relationships, PART II," we explore the detrimental effects of a lack of effort in partnerships. Key issues discussed include neglecting quality time, failing to provide emotional support, resisting personal growth, and dealing with control issues, insecurity, and identity crises. By highlighting these challenges, we highlight the importance of self-awareness, mutual respect, and consistent investment in relationships to foster deeper connections and resilience. Tune in to learn how to avoid these pitfalls and strengthen your partnerships.2025-02-0940 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 49: How You are Sabotaging Your Relationships, Part IIn this first episode of our three-part series on how individuals unknowingly sabotage their relationships, we focus on the critical role of communication. We dive deep into the avoidance of emotional conversations, the fear of vulnerability, the tendency to withdraw or remain silent during conflicts, and poor listening skills.
We are hopeful, you will learn about the significant consequences these behaviors can have on their relationships, including feelings of isolation and resentment. Statistically, poor communication is a key factor in 65% of relationship breakdowns.
We provided practical improvement tips on identifying these sabotaging behaviors and working to...2025-02-0238 minRelationshiptopiaEpsiode 48: Just a Little R.E.S.P.E.C.T
In today's episode of *Relationshiptopia*, we delve into the vital connection between respect and submission, exploring how their harmonious alignment can significantly strengthen relationships. We discussed the importance of mutual respect as a foundation that allows both partners to thrive, emphasizing that when respect is present, submission becomes a natural expression of love rather than a burdensome obligation. Throughout our conversation, we highlighted specific characteristics that women
can recognize in men—traits that inspire genuine respect and admiration. These qualities foster an atmosphere where respect is not just given but celebrated, allowing both partners to feel valued and supported.
2025-02-0150 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 47: When a Man Loves a Woman, Part II
In today’s episode, we wrapped up our series by exploring three additional actionable steps that demonstrate how a man truly loves a woman.
1. Prioritizing Quality Time: We discussed the importance of spending meaningful time together, emphasizing that intentional moments strengthen the bond between partners. Quality time fosters connection and intimacy, allowing couples to truly understand and appreciate each other.
2. Welcoming Conflict Resolution: We highlighted how healthy relationships embrace conflict as an opportunity for growth. A loving partner approaches disagreements with openness and a willingness to communicate, paving the way for deeper understanding and...2025-01-1940 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 46: When a Man Loves a Woman, Part IIn this episode, we focused on the meaning of love from both practical and biblical perspectives, focusing on how it manifests in a marriage. We discussed the essential elements of love—communication, acts of service, quality time, conflict resolution, and affirmation. Each talking point highlighted how these aspects contribute to a healthy relationship and what happens when they are neglected. The episode underscored that when a man feels disrespected, it can lead to emotional disconnection and marital strife. By prioritizing love and respect, couples can nurture a fulfilling and lasting marriage. Tune in for next week for Part II.
2025-01-1228 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 45: When a Woman Loves a Man, Part IIIn this episode, we shared three additional ways a woman demonstrates love toward a man. These included the complexities of a woman's love, emphasizing the importance of trust, acceptance, and unconditional love not based on performance or conditions. We highlighted how a woman creates a safe emotional space for her partner, allowing him to be vulnerable and open without fear of judgment. The episode also addressed the significance of accepting imperfections, fostering authenticity and resilience in the relationship, and underscored that a woman's love is often unconditional, not based on her partner's performance or achievements. Overall, the episode provided...2025-01-0537 min
RelationshiptopiaEpisode 44: When a Woman Loves a Man, Part IIn this episode, we had a candid and authentic conversation about the dynamics of love from a woman's perspective. We focused on two key areas: Respect and Prioritizing a Man's Needs.
We explored what respect looks like in a relationship, discussing ways to demonstrate it through active listening, support, and valuing his opinions and feelings. We also delved into the importance of prioritizing a man's emotional, physical, and sexual needs, emphasizing that true love involves understanding and nurturing each other's desires and well-being.
Listeners gained insights into building stronger, more fulfilling relationships by fostering respect an...2024-12-2925 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 43: "Making the Right Choice, Part II “Environmental Factors Influences Value"In this episode of "Making the Right Choice," we explored the significant role environmental factors play in shaping low-value, high-functioning individuals. We discussed how elements such as family dynamics, cultural background, peer influences, and socioeconomic status can impact personal development and relationship dynamics. Through real-life examples, we highlighted the complexities individuals face as they navigate their relationships in varying contexts.
Listeners will be encouraged to reflect on their own environments and recognize patterns that may hinder their growth. We emphasized the importance of self-awareness and the power of positive influences in fostering emotional intelligence and healthier relationship...2024-12-2233 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 42: “Making the Right Choice, Part I “High Value, Low Functioning Individuals"
In this episode we delved into the truths and myths surrounding high-functioning, high-value men and women. We explored Dr. Cheyenne Bryant's concepts, highlighting the characteristics that define these individuals and the complexities that often accompany them.
Our discussion centered on what individuals genuinely seek in their Mr. or Mrs. Right. We challenged common stereotypes and misconceptions, revealing that high value doesn't always equate to emotional maturity or relationship readiness. While high-value individuals often possess traits like ambition, confidence, and self-awareness, they can also exhibit low-functioning behaviors that hinder their ability to form deep, meaningful connections.2024-12-1521 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 41: Don't Get Married If, Part VI "Secure Attachment is Not Present"In this episode, we focus on the secure attachment style, highlighting its foundations and how it positively influences relationships. We discuss the characteristics of secure attachment, including trust, effective communication, and emotional availability, and explain how these traits contribute to healthy, fulfilling partnerships.
Our conversation emphasizes the importance of nurturing secure attachment in both ourselves and our relationships, providing practical tips for fostering this style. We invite listeners to reflect on their own attachment styles and consider how they can promote security in their connections with others.
Tune in next week as we start a n...2024-12-0937 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 40: Don't Get Married If, Part V, "You have Unaddressed Insecure - Disorganized Attachment"In this episode, we delve into the disorganized attachment style, exploring its origins and the complex behaviors associated with it. We discuss how early childhood experiences can lead to confusion and fear in relationships, resulting in a mix of attachment behaviors in adulthood. Our conversation covers the impact of disorganized attachment on romantic partnerships and offers strategies for recognizing and managing these patterns. We emphasize the importance of understanding this attachment style to foster healthier connections and create a more secure relational environment. Join us next week as we wrap up our series by sharing the key characteristics of...2024-12-0141 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 39: Don't Get Married If, Part IV "You have an Avoidant Attachment in Marriage"In this episode, we explore the avoidant attachment style, discussing its roots in childhood relationships and experiences, as well as its characteristics and effects in adulthood, particularly in romantic partnerships. We provide insights on how to recognize and manage this style to foster a healthy, loving, and mutually beneficial marriage. We encourage our listeners to consider how this information can not only enhance their own relationships but also empower them to support friends and family facing similar challenges. Our goal is to educate and inspire transformative change in the lives of our audience and their loved ones. Join us...2024-11-2428 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 38: Don't Get Married If, Part III "You are Struggling with Anxious Attachment in Marriage"In this episode, we dive deeper into anxious attachment style, a topic we introduced last week. We discuss effective strategies for managing this attachment style with your partner, emphasizing that communication is essential for a healthy relationship. Addressing these issues early on can help mitigate the negative impacts of anxious attachment. Join us as we outline practical steps for fostering open dialogue and improving your connection. Don’t miss next week’s episode, where we’ll explore another type of insecure attachment style!
2024-11-1830 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 37: Don’t Get Married If, Part II “Anxious”In this episode, we dive into the topic of attachment styles based on Bowlby's theory, focusing specifically on anxious attachment, one of the insecure attachment styles. We define what anxious attachment looks like in childhood and how it manifests in adulthood, particularly in romantic relationships. Join us as we explore the fears and behaviors associated with this attachment style. Don’t miss our next episode, where we’ll discuss practical strategies to manage and overcome anxious attachment for healthier relationships. Stay tuned!2024-11-1030 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 36: Don't Get Married If.....Part 1Join us for insightful relationship tips aimed at those desiring marriage, focusing on essential precautions to take when searching for a mate. While no relationship or marriage is perfect, there are proactive steps you can take to nurture and cultivate a healthy marriage. The journey begins with the internal work necessary for personal growth and readiness. Tune in as we discuss key considerations and reflections to help guide your path to a fulfilling marriage.
2024-11-0528 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 35: Grow UP in Love, Part IIIIn this episode of Relationshiptopia, we discussed the significance of Growing UP in Love and the need to live empathetically and maturely as followers of Christ. We emphasized the crucial roles of self-love and self-forgiveness, explaining how these concepts are essential for expressing healthy love in relationships with others. The conversation blended biblical principles with practical advice, drawing on our expertise and experiences to provide valuable insights into nurturing strong, loving connections.
2024-10-2730 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 34: Grow UP in Faith, Part IIIn this episode of Relationshiptopia, we continue the discussion on Growing up in Faith by focusing on Spiritual maturity as an adult and then transitioning into Spiritual Mentors / Coaches or Leaders. In essence, we share the concept of Discipleship and what that should look like as we grow and mature as Christ followers. We shared some common practices on how to grow up in faith and how to implement these practices in everyday life. Chime in and let us know what you think and any questions you may have regarding spiritual maturity. Lastly, Jill shared about her upcoming 40 Day Lif...2024-10-2136 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 33: Grow UP in Faith, Part IIn this episode, we explore the journey of growing up in faith. We discuss what it means to develop spiritually from childhood to adulthood, highlighting the significance of nurturing faith throughout life. Our conversation covers key stages of this journey, from early emphasis on foundational beliefs to the responsibilities of spiritual parenthood. Tune in to discover how each stage shapes our relationship with faith and community.
2024-10-2018 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 32: You're Not Immune - Defeating the Enemy in Your Ministry, Business, or Workplace!In this episode. Jill and Treal discuss the pervasive challenges and spiritual battles that individuals face in various aspects of their lives, including ministry, business, and the workplace. They emphasize that no one is exempt from these struggles, regardless of their faith or position. The episode provides practical insights on recognizing the enemy's tactics and equipping oneself with biblical strategies to overcome obstacles. Listeners are encouraged to foster a strong spiritual foundation, seek community support, and maintain a prayerful mindset to effectively navigate challenges and thrive in their endeavors.
2024-10-0825 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 31: You're Not Immune: How to Equip Your Children for Spiritual Battle!
In this episode, we share the harsh reality that our children are not immune from trials and tribulations and the importance of us as parents, aunts, uncles, mentors, teachers and leaders to equip our children for battle in their youth, adolescence years, as a young adult and beyond. Spoiler alert, parenting doesn't end at 18, 21 nor 25. Sometimes you may face even greater obstacles as you are fighting the will of man and decisions our children make at that point have real consequences from incarceration, wrong life-threatening relationships, financial ruin, serious injury and death
2024-10-0825 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 30: You are not Immune, Navigating Life's Challenges with Faith, Part IIIn today’s episode, Jill and Treal dive deep into an important and often misunderstood aspect of faith: the reality that following Jesus does not make us immune to suffering. Life can throw unexpected challenges our way, and it’s crucial to understand how our faith can guide us through these trials.
Key Components Discussed:
1. Faith: Jill and Treal explore what it means to have faith in difficult times. They share personal stories about moments when their faith was tested and how it ultimately became a source of strength.
2. Trust: Trusting God when circums...2024-09-2233 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 29: Your Marriage is not Immune, Part IIn this episode, Jill and Treal delve into the reality that no couple is immune to marital challenges. They discuss the importance of addressing crises early, highlighting how waiting can complicate issues further. The duo shares practical strategies for moving through the complexities of marriage, emphasizing open communication and connection. Additionally, they introduce the resource "Dr. Treal’s book “In It to Win It," a 31-day guide designed to enhance communication and maximize intimacy in relationships. Tune in for valuable insights that can strengthen your marriage!
Grab the book here: https://bit.ly/inittowinitbook
2024-09-1532 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 28: Your Gift, Part IIIn part II of Your Gift, Jill and Treal shared the remaining 5 ways on how to use the gifts that God has given us. As disciples of Christ, it is our responsibility to develop and practice our gifts using them as discipling tools to draw others to Christ. With that comes perservence, patience, and understanding of our gifts. When we actively use our gifts, we have the potential to make a significant difference in the lives of others. Whether through teaching, encouragement, hospitality, or any other gift, our contributions can inspire, heal, and empower those we serve. This episode...2024-09-0831 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 27: Your Gift, Part I
In this episode, Jill and Treal shares the importance of
identifying, accepting, and sharing your God given gifts with the world at
large. Ultimately, it is our responsibility to develop and practice our gifts
using them as discipling tools to draw others to Christ. This episode focuses on all three aspects of
our relationship pyramid - with God, self, and others.
Take your Spiritual gift here: https://gifts.churchgrowth.org/spiritual-gifts-survey/ - send results to jillandtreal@detourmovement.com
Register for the Creatives Expo event here: https://brushfire.co...2024-09-0126 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 26: Cultivating Spiritual Disciplines, Part IIn this episode, Jill and Treal share the importance of cultivating spiritual for preparation, strength, and encouragement when faced with the trials of life. John 16:33 says "I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” We know that life's obstacles are inevitable however, the word also reminds us that God has already overcome every obstacle. We can be encouraged knowing this truth alone. Jill and Treal also shared a prayer model using ACTS.
ACTS stand for:
A: doration: Pra...2024-08-2534 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 25: Trusting God in Difficult Situations, Part IIIn this episode, Jill and Treal share the remaining 6 steps in trusting God in difficult situations. Trusting God can seem challenging and the harder the situation sometimes, the harder it is to trust God to help you through it or to overcome it. There are sometimes that will not change but through it, God is working through you. We hope that this two part series helped to secure your faith in the all trusting God that regardless of your current affliction or how difficult it is, you can put your trust in God. 2024-08-1819 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 24: Trusting God in Difficult Situations, Part IIn this episode, Jill and Treal emphasize the importance of relying on one's faith and trusting in God when facing adversity. Trusting God in difficult situations can offer a sense of peace and assurance that things will eventually work out according to a higher plan or purpose (Romans 8:28). This is a two-part series on enduring hardships and emerging from them with increased resilience, wisdom, and faith. This is a powerful reminder that we are not alone in our struggles and that there is a source of strength and support available to us, even in our darkest and hardest moments.
2024-08-1140 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 23: 6 Steps to Building a Strong and Healthy RelationshipWelcome to our podcast where Jill and Treal delve into the essential elements that form the bedrock of a healthy and strong relationship. Together, they explore and discuss the 6 crucial steps that pave the way for a successful partnership. In each episode, they break down the key components that contribute to building a solid foundation for a lasting connection.
From effective communication and trust to mutual respect, support, and quality time spent together, Jill and Treal emphasize the importance of these pillars in nurturing a thriving relationships. Listeners are encouraged to embrace the art of compromise, understanding...2024-08-0442 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 22: Spiritual Resilience: 7 Common Mistakes in MarriageIn today's episode, Jill and Treal unpack the 7 Common Mistakes in Marriage and what to do when these are present. It is important that couples understand the threats to martial satisfaction and unity and work together to mitigate the threats!
Continuing their discussion on spiritual resilience, Jill and Treal explore how couples can collaborate to navigate through the challenges and differences that arise in marriage. By emphasizing the importance of unity and support, they offer practical tips and strategies for couples to overcome obstacles and strengthen their bond. To further enhance your journey towards a thriving marriage...2024-07-2827 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 21: Spiritual Resilience in Marriage: Enduring Through Hard Times, Part IEpisode 21: Spiritual Resilience in Marriage: Enduring Through Hard Times, Part I
On this episode, Jill and Treal delve into the topic of spiritual resilience in marriage and how to endure through the challenging seasons that every marriage relationship faces.
Check out Dr. Treal's latest YouVersion Bible devotional plan, Spiritual Resilience "Finding Hope and Strength in the Midst of Marital Crisis" go to https://bit.ly/drravenelyouversion
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https://youtu.be/55riMzrwWWM?si=bQYY4Smb1s1fgOl82024-07-2137 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 20: The Psychology of a Man, Part IV | Toxic Masculinity & Mental HealthIn the final episode of the series: The Psychology of a Man, Jill and Treal discussed Toxic Masculinity & Mental Health. Toxic Masculinity refers to a set of attitudes, behaviors, and societal expectations that promote and enforce harmful traits traditionally associated with masculinity. These traits often include the suppression of emotions, aggression, dominance, and the devaluation of traits considered "feminine." Toxic masculinity can lead to behaviors that are harmful to both men and those around them, perpetuating stereotypes and limiting individuals' ability to express themselves authentically.
The purpose of this conversation was to foster a meaningful and engaging...2024-07-1746 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 19: The Psychology of a Man, Part IIIIn this episode, Jill and Treal cover 5 additional elements of a man's Psychology and why these areas are critical for the women in their life to identify, acknowledge, and manage.
I. Men take different things from conversations than women.
II. With men, actions speak louder than words.
III. How to understand men when you are in a relationship with them.
IV. Men are problem solvers.
V. Men's honesty is well-intentional.
The tools and resources mentioned during this episode:
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Men Are Like Waffles Women Are Like Spaghetti: Understanding and Delighting in Your Differences.
Summary from the author: Women are like spaghetti, because their thought process runs on and on in an interconnecting web, and me...2024-06-2434 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 16: Fatherhood Reflections Navigating Life's CrossroadsWelcome to Crossroads | Culture vs. Christ! On this special Father's Day episode, we're diving deep into the topic of fatherhood and its impact on individuals' lives. We'll explore the importance of a father's presence, the
effects of their absence, and how individuals can navigate these dynamics to shape their own paths. Our two oldest sister's, Sharron Griffin-Williams, and Kay Elizabeth Griffin joined us for this episode. The mentions in this episode was John Bickley and Cabot Phillips from the Daily Wire who shared stats on the effects of fatherlessness. The book: WinSome by Brian Slipka "5 proven strategies to win...2024-06-1755 minRelationshiptopiaEpisode 15: Media Manipulation: Navigating Authenticity in a Digital WorldIn this episode, Jill and Treal delve into the impact of media manipulation on individuals and the body of Christ. In this episode, we explore how media influences people to make decisions contrary to their authentic selves and examine how Christians can resist these pressures by renewing their minds according to God's truth. Join us as we discuss the importance of maintaining authenticity in a world dominated by media narratives.
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In particular, we discuss the pressure to conform to a fake standard of beauty resulting in self-rejection, attempts to gender transformation, and an obsession with cosmetic surgery, BBL, fashion and fabricated beauty.
Te'Aire Griffin, the Healher Coach, and Myeisha Green, Ministry Youth Leader joined us for this conversation.
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3:00...2024-03-141h 11RelationshiptopiaEpisode 4: Is the Church Wack?In this episode Jill and Treal talked about the state of the church. This conversation was influenced by the the interview that Tye Tribbett had on the Breakfast where he made a statement that the church is wack? In addition, we touched on Bishop William Murphy's unorthodox New Year service this past year where the song "walk it out" was played with the explicit lyrics and the church swag surfed. Other mentions were Pastor Jamal Bryant as he held an exclusive interview with Bishop William Murphy regarding the media and church outlook on his the New Year service.
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In today's episode we will discuss "How Does the Modern Day Black Woman Compete with IG Models in Today’s Society?". There is so much pressure for women to conform to what appears to be sexy and popular. Throughout our life's journey and candid conversations with other women, we have identified that this is a real issue influencing our image as women - how black and brown women choose to show up publicly. We all have a need to...2024-03-141h 00