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Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsI Validated EVERY complaint from my partner....here's what happened.Rikki ran an experiment with her husband where she validated every concern he had. Here's how it went.
2025-12-021h 132025-10-151h 13Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsShared Bank Accounts, Prenups, and separate bedroomsRikki and Jimmy try to find something they disagree about with the most controversial questions
2025-09-151h 16Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsWhat happens when the pursuer stops pursuing?What is a burnt out pursuer in a relationship?
2025-09-011h 28Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsHealing our Inner Child with Trevor HansonLet's talk about how important it is to heal our inner child.https://theartofhealingbytrevor.com/
2025-07-091h 06Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsWhy the Anxious and Avoidant Get Stuck! (And How to Fix it)This episode is all about the anxious avoidant dynamic. How we get stuck and how to get unstuck.
2025-06-201h 03Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsWhat you NEED to actually Forgive someoneIn this episode we talk about when and how we should forgive other people.
2025-04-1058 minRikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsAre you in a Co-Dependent Relationship? Here's what to do.Here are the signs of a co-dependent relationship and what to do.
2025-03-141h 01Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsMy partner doesn't care about Valentines DayWhat if your partner doesn't care about Valentines day?
2025-02-1159 minRikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsHow to Heal after BetrayalHow to heal after large or small betrayals
2025-01-291h 20Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsCan I meet my OWN Needs in a Relationship?In this episode we tackle the question of "Can I meet my own needs in a relationship?"
2024-11-071h 03Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsMasters vs Disasters of Relationships. This is the difference!In this episode we talk about everything we love about Dr. John and Julie Gottman's research and relationship advice.
2024-09-191h 25Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsHelp! I Lose Myself In Relationships!In this episode we want to talk about why we lose ourselves in relationships and how to reconnect with ourselves again.
2024-09-1044 minRikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsHow to Actually Validate FeelingsIn this episode we talk about how and when we should validate someone's feelings.
2024-08-161h 13Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsWhat are Healthy vs Unhealthy NeedsIn this episode we talk about what we believe are healthy vs unhealthy needs to have in a relationship.
2024-07-281h 15Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsBreak-Ups: Should I give them another chance?In this episode we talk about how to navigate break-ups, specifically when you should give the relationship another chance or move on.
2024-07-061h 01Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsHow to STOP Fighting for GOOD!How to Stop Fighting in your Relationship using these principles.
2024-05-301h 51Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsWhat if I'm Dating or Married to a Narcissist?How can we navigate a relationship with a narcissist?
2024-04-2349 minRikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsControversial Questions about RelationshipsSleeping on the first date, infidelity, sharing vs separate bank accounts, sleeping in the same bed vs separate rooms, we talk about all things controversial in this episode.
2024-04-121h 02Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsI'm Not Allowed to Feel Disrespected??Apparently, according to some experts, disrespect isn't even a feeling we are allowed to have! Rikki and Jimmy debate this theory in this episode.
2024-03-2550 minRikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsAvoid the Roommate Phase and Reignite the Spark!How to avoid the dreaded roommate phase and reignite the spark in your relationship.
2024-03-2454 minRikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsMy Partner isn't meeting MY NEEDSHow long should we wait for our partner to meet our needs?
2024-03-0359 min
Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsRelationship Expert Dr. Sue Johnson reveals Secret to ConnectionIn this episode I got the honor to speak to one of my relational and attachment heroes Dr. Sue Johnson about everything we all want to know about how to stay connected to our partners.
2024-02-171h 03Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsHow to Create Safe Secure Love with Julie MenannoIn this episode we talk to one of our favorite counselors Julie Menanno about how to navigate conflict and create closeness and connection in our relationships.
Grab her new book titled Secure Love, available wherever you buy books! =)
https://www.amazon.com/Secure-Love-Create-Relationship-Lifetime/dp/B0C94WMTPS/ref=sr_1_1?crid=7J51LQDFCMJB&keywords=secure+love+julie+menanno&qid=1706671966&sprefix=secure+love%2Caps%2C374&sr=8-1
https://www.instagram.com/thesecurerelationship/?hl=en
https://www.thesecurerelationship.com/
2024-01-311h 06Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsOur Most Embarrassing Dating Stories!Just in case you wanted to know how our dating life went haha!
2024-01-021h 01Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsInterview with Relationship Expert Jillian TureckiIn this episode we have the privilege of speaking with relationship coach Jillian Turecki. She's been teaching people for 20 years how to cultivate a healthy relationship with ourselves and others. Her podcast Jillian on Love is filled with SO MANY amazing tips and tools for navigating everything that our relationships throw at us.
Check out her Instagram page, her courses, and her podcast.
https://www.jillianturecki.com/
2023-12-0643 minRikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsThe secret to a Great Sex Life, an interview with Dr. Lauren Fogel MersyIn this episode, we get the pleasure to talk to sex therapist Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy about all the aspects that make a mutually fulfilling sex life. Schedule a session or pick up her book Desire here https://drlaurenfogel.com/
2023-10-251h 03
Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsThis is How your Marriage Ends, an interview with author Matthew FrayIn this episode we get to interview the talented author Matthew Fray. We talk about mini breaks of trust, mental load, divorce, validation, consideration, etc and how it all plays a role in whether our Relationships succeed or not.
Pick up his book at https://matthewfray.com/
2023-09-291h 25Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsDon't Fall for THIS Bad Relationship AdviceIn this episode we tackle all the bad relationship myths we've heard like "love hurts" or "Don't go to bed angry"...
2023-08-311h 12Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsDo we need to Validate WRONG Feelings?How important is validating our partners feelings? And do I still need to validate their feelings if the reason they're having them is wrong?
2023-08-1355 minRikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsMy Partner Turned into a Narcissist!Do you ever feel like after you moved in or after you got married your partner slowly but surely stopped doing all the nice things they used to do for you and has turned into a Narcissist?
2023-07-271h 15Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsRelationships only WORK when BOTH are doing the WORKIn this episode we talk about what it means to do the work to make a relationship work. =)
2023-07-1359 minRikki and Jimmy on Relationships"Relationships are elegantly SIMPLE". Our interview with expert Dr. Stan TatkinWe got the pleasure to interview Rikki's favorite author and relationship expert Dr. Stan Tatkin. We loved talking with him about how to function as a team and why it's so important to have a unified mindset if we ultimately want a safe secure partnership with someone.
If you would like to connect with Dr. Tatkin or buy his new book this is the website! https://www.thepactinstitute.com/books
2023-06-291h 22Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsTHIS is why Anxious/Avoidant partners STRUGGLE together...This is how to navigate Anxious Attachment and Avoidant attachment in our Relationships. How to navigate conflict through the anxious avoidant dance!
2023-05-181h 25Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsHow to Intentionally Love our Partners!Rikki and Jimmy go over what it would look like to Intentionally love your partner over a 48 hour period.
2023-04-291h 12Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsWhat are Healthy Needs vs Unhealthy Needs in a RelationshipIn this episode Rikki and Jimmy break down what they believe to be essential Healthy needs in a Relationship as well as what examples of some unhealthy needs would be.
2023-04-111h 27Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsHELP! My partner has a LOW/HIGH S*X DriveIf you and your partner have different "bedroom drives", this episode is for you! We go into our tips and tricks on how to navigate this very common dynamic in our Relationships. Hope it's as good for you as it was for us.
2023-03-261h 07Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsNarcissistic Red Flags in your RelationshipIn this episode we talk about Narcissistic Red Flags and what to watch out for early in our Relationships so it doesn't cause so much distance and disconnection later on.
2023-03-091h 10Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsAm I Allowed to Look at my Partners Phone? || How to Build Trust in your Relationship (Episode 6)In this episode we cover a variety of topics including whether our partners should have full access to our phones, how to build trust, and how mental illness plays a role in our Relationships
2023-02-211h 04Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsHow to anticipate HER NEEDS? || How to keep your Relationship from BOREDOMIn this episode we cover all the questions you have submitted including How to anticipate each others needs, how to keep your relationship from getting boring, how to forgive yourself, and how to listen to your partner during conflict. Thanks so much for listening!
2023-02-091h 00Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsHow to Prevent FIGHTS in the first place! / Answering your TOP QuestionsIn this episode we cover LOTS of different questions from YOU about how to heal or grow your Relationship through tools such as conflict resolution (repair, apologizing, empathy, understanding, curiosity) or building intimacy and connection to prevent conflicts in the first place. Thank you so much for watching!
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Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsHow to FIX your Relationships!In this episode we answer your most frequent questions on how to fix your relationships. We are passionate about giving you any and all tools and skills to build connection and intimacy and healthy communication together.
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Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsHow to Turn Conflict into Closeness"WHY DO WE FIGHT SO MUCH!?" Or maybe on the opposite side, we don't fight at all, but yet there is still a disconnection and distance felt in this relationship. In this episode Rikki and Jimmy talk about how we don't need to fear conflict, we just need to learn how we handle it. Because in the end, conflict usually makes or breaks our relationships and if we both want to, we can ABSOLUTELY turn conflict into closeness.
2022-12-1557 min
Rikki and Jimmy on RelationshipsOur Relationships were DOOMED until we realized THISHow’s your relationship? That’s what we thought. You’re going to love Rikki and Jimmy on Relationships, the show where we uncover the thoughts and behaviors that are sabotaging your relationship… and what you can do about it. Jimmy and Rikki are passionate about sharing the ways that imperfect partners like you can shift unhealthy relational dynamics and create closeness. Drop your defenses and open your heart, eyes, and ears… we’re going to learn how to be the best partner we can be, together.
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2022-11-2551 min