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Leaders & LegaciesLeaders & Legacies129 - Navigating Cybersecurity with Joel Hawbaker - A Crucial Conversation for LeadersCybersecurity expert Joel Hawbaker discusses the essential intersection of leadership and cybersecurity. Hawbaker, who operates his IT consulting business from a farm in Eastern Tennessee, underscores the misconception that only large businesses are cyber targets. He passionately clarifies that all businesses are vulnerable, emphasizing the critical need for proactive cybersecurity measures.Hawbaker shares personal anecdotes and professional insights, illuminating the broader implications of cybersecurity on leadership and legacy. He stresses the importance of comprehensive security systems that go beyond mere technology, incorporating human elements and constant vigilance. His approach not only safeguards businesses but also cultivates a...2024-08-1534 minA Beautiful Adventure MarriageA Beautiful Adventure MarriageEpisode 33- 10 Commandments for Blended Families with Joel HawbakerThe 10 Commandments for Blended Families In the same way Jesus summarized the law and the prophets in two great commandments, so the 10CBF can be summarized in what I call the 2 Pillars: 1. Be the adult you want your child(ren) to become. 2. Remember the Golden Rule and treat others the way you want to be treated. I. Communicate Well - Over communicate with all adults involved: choose a format/technology that works, and use it. When in doubt, communicate about it. II. Always Show Respect - Be respectful, calm, and pat...2024-06-111h 19The State of Education with Melvin AdamsThe State of Education with Melvin AdamsEp. 28 "Finding Freedom Inside the Rules" - Guest Joel Hawbaker (Part 2 of 2)Are you worried that your kids aren’t receiving the discipline they need when they go to their dad’s house? Or maybe you don’t agree with the way their mom is choosing to schedule their free time? Split families are hard to navigate, but it’s not impossible. In today’s episode, Melvin Adams concludes his interview with Joel Hawbaker—a teacher, coach, and dad of a blended family. Joel has practical, encouraging advice for divorced or separated parents on how to begin communicating about what’s best for their kids. He uses principles as a teacher and a sports c...2022-08-1021 minThe State of Education with Melvin AdamsThe State of Education with Melvin AdamsEp. 26 "Blended Doesn’t Equal Broken: Advice for Blended Families" - Guest Joel Hawbaker (Part 1 of 2)Are you part of a blended family? Whether you’re a parent, grandparent, step-relative, or a teacher who interacts with these demographics, Joel Hawbacker has encouraging news for you! As a blended family dad and a teacher, he understands the nuanced and complex situations of blended family life. Joel shares data, stories, and practical tips with Melvin on The State of Education that will help you and your family navigate and thrive in everyday life! RESOURCES MENTIONED ON TODAY'S EPISODE: Joel has spoken at the National Head Start Association multiple times. They...2022-07-2730 minDads With DaughtersDads With DaughtersHelping all blended families with Joel HawbakerToday on the Dads with Daughters podcast I talk with Joel Hawbaker. Joel is the father of two girls and a blended family coach, an award-winning teacher, author, speaker, and host of ’10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families.’ He loves helping blended/stepfamilies overcome obstacles and grow by teaching them the 10 Commandments for Blended Families. Joel is a divorced and remarried father of two. He currently lives in Alabama with his wife, his two daughters, and their two rescue dogs Bruiser and Butterscotch. His first book, Inverted Leadership: Lead Others Better By Forgetting About Yours...2022-06-0629 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS3 E15 - "Stepparenting with Purpose: 3 Key Tips" with Karalee KatsambanisKaralee Katsambanis is an accomplished Australian TV commentator, author, journalist, columnist and media trainer. She has worked across Australia’s mainstream TV, radio, newspapers, magazines and online for the past 25 years.She is a mother of 3 children and stepmother of 2 young adults.Her book “Step Parenting with Purpose – everything you wanted to know but were too afraid to ask” provides invaluable insights and advice to those beginning or already on their stepparenting journey.Quotes:"There's a right way to behave, and a wrong way to behave.""You can only control...2022-05-2542 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS3-E14: "Journey Beyond Divorce: Controlling What You Can" with Karen McMahonKaren McMahon is a Certified Relationship and Divorce Coach and Founder of Journey Beyond Divorce. Karen leads a team of divorce coaches in supporting men and women around the world to become calm, clear and confident as they navigate divorce. Karen began divorce coaching in 2010 after recognizing that the pain of her divorce led her on a transformational journey into an incredible new life. During her three and a half year tumultuous divorce, Karen had a laser focus on healing and refining herself, she found her true voice, learned to set suitable boundaries, and surrendered what she could not...2022-05-1748 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS3-E13: "Family Life Blended and Stepparenting Ambiguity" with Gayla GraceOur guest today is the amazing Gayla Grace, of Family Life Blended!Gayla Grace serves on staff with FamilyLife Blended® as a writer and a speaker and desires to equip blended families for life together. She is the author of Stepparenting with Grace: A Devotional for Blended Families and co-author of Quiet Moments for the Stepmom Soul. She has a master’s degree in Psychology and Counseling and is a mom to three and stepmom to two adult children. She and her husband Randy have been married 26 years and are recent empty nesters residing in Conway, AR.2022-05-1048 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS3-E12: "Financial Infidelity and Blended Family Finances" with Heather Hetchler and Ed VargoThis week's guests are the amazing Heather Hetchler and Ed Vargo!Heather Hetchler is an writer, speaker and certified life coach for stepfamilies since 2009. She is monthly contributor to StepMom Magazine and a co-author of Quiet Moments for the Stepmom Soul. Her upcoming book Stepmothering: A Cautionary Tale releases 2023. She is also a money mentor with enlightenHer where she helps women develop a healthy money mindset. She began partnering with enlightenHer in 2017 where she presented on Second Saturdays helping women navigating divorce. Given Heather’s focus is caring for a woman’s emotional well-being, adding the financial piec...2022-05-0357 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS3-E11: "'The Daily Stepmom' and the Power of Positive Focus" with Joslynn FlowersToday's guest is the excellent and energetic Joslynn Flowers, better known as the host of 'The Daily Stepmom'!Joslynn is a mom of four, (three being her stepchildren) and a certified stepmom coach! Manager turned stay-at-home mom once Covid hit. In her time as a stepmom she has experienced the many struggles that come along with being a stepmom and the blending of a family. Feeling overwhelmed, misunderstood, and lonely in her role she began seeking a way to turn her stepmom experience from negative to a positive co-parenting experience, which hasn’t been easy! Dealing with ma...2022-04-2647 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS3-E10: "Blended Families and 'The Go-Giver Marriage' with Ana and John David Mann"Today's guests are the amazing Ana and John David Mann, co-authors of the best-selling book 'The Go-Giver Marriage,' and two of the most fun guests we've had on the show!John David Mann is coauthor of more than thirty books, including four New York Times bestsellers and five national bestsellers, including “The Go-Giver” (coauthored with Bob Burg), which has sold over 1 million copies and won the 2017 Living Now Book Awards Evergreen Medal for its “contributions to positive global change.” He is married to Ana Gabriel Mann and considers himself the luckiest mann in the world. Ana Gab...2022-04-1955 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS3-E9 "Years of Experience in Blended Family Law" with Sabrina Shaheen CroninToday's guest is the excellent Sabrina Shaheen Cronin!Since 1993, Sabrina Shaheen Cronin has been practicing law and has been running her own full-service law firm for the better part of the last decade. A Family Law specialist, she’s also expanded her work into the realm of family coaching, offering workshops and personal counseling to families undergoing stressful changes. In particular, her work aims to provide families navigating the waters of separation, divorce, and co-parenting with a road map that they likely would not otherwise have access to.Sabrina is licensed to practice law in Mi...2022-04-1245 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS3 E8 - "Dare to Heal: Helping Heal Fatherless Daughters" with Earnest JamesToday's guest is the excellent Earnest James!Earnest James is the host of the Deal to Heal with E James Podcast. He is a man with a heart for people. As a minister, mentor, and speaker, Earnest has dedicated his life to inspiring and uplifting others. His mission is to help others heal from the wounds of their past and current situations. Earnest is an entrepreneur, business owner, an author, social media influencer, online course creator, and workshop instructor.  Earnest believes “If you must fail, fail fast and fail first. That way you can rebound and rebuild you...2022-04-0546 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS3 E7 - "Five Challenges and the Danger of 'Easy Wrong Turns' for Stepfamilies" with Patricia PapernowToday's guest is the amazing Dr. Patricia Papernow!Dr. Patricia Papernow has taught about “blended families” all over the U.S. and the world, sharing best practices for meeting the often-intense challenges that stepfamilies face.  Dr. Papernow has authored dozens of articles and book chapters on stepfamilies as well as two of the leading books in the field: Surviving and Thriving in Stepfamily Relationships: What Works and What Doesn’t, and, with Karen Bonnell, The Stepfamily Handbook: From Dating, to Getting Serious to Forming a “Blended Family.”Quotes:"In a first-time family, kids enter hard...2022-03-2953 minDeal To Heal With E. JamesDeal To Heal With E. JamesS2E22 Super Step Dad with Joel W. HawbakerIn this episode our host, Earnest James, talks with, Joel W. Hawbaker. Joel is a blended family coach, an award-winning teacher; author, speaker, and frequent a podcast guest who loves helping blended/stepfamilies overcome obstacles and grow by teaching them the 10 Commandments of Blended Family Life. These are universal principles that families can apply immediately to begin seeing positive changes. Joel is a divorced and remarried father of two. He currently lives in Alabama with his wife, his two daughters, and their two rescue dogs Bruiser and Butterscotch. His first book, Inverted Leadership: Lead Others Better by...2022-03-2346 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS3-E6 "Stepfamily Architecture and Two-House Families" with Karen BonnellToday's guest is Karen Bonnell!From her website: Karen has over 30 years of experience working with couples and families facing transition, loss, growth and change. A graduate of the University of Michigan, she served on the faculty of University of Michigan, Eastern Michigan University & Seattle Pacific University before beginning full-time private practice in 1984. In 2021, she brought her psychiatric nursing career to a close, and now focuses strictly on coaching and mediation. She regularly writes for, speaks to and trains health care and legal professionals.Karen’s work as a Collaborative Divorce Coach spurred her determination to...2022-03-2244 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS3-E5: 'Struggling with Self-Identity and Special Needs in Stepfamilies' with Dr. Sonia Cann-MillandToday's guest is Dr. Sonia Cann-Milland!In her own words: "I have my own private practice that offers education and counselling to all those who are a part of a stepfamily. Before the establishment of Renewed Beliefs, I completed my Ph.D. titled; Establishing Stable Stepfamilies: The Perspectives of Recoupled Parents, Educators and Family Services Professionals.I have three articles published in academic journals related to three different issues impacting stepfamilies. I love research and writing on this topic. More importantly I am passionate about utilizing research in a practical way. My ongoing goal is...2022-03-1547 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS3-E4: "Fathers' Rights and Responsibilities" with Mark Reel, Jr.Today's guest is Mark Reel, Jr.!Mark Reel Jr. is an entrepreneur, lawyer, and media personality.He is Founder of Reel Fathers Rights PLC, a Southern California Family Law Firm dedicated to representing fathers throughout California. He is licensed to practice law in the state of California. His practice focuses on representing fathers in Child Custody, Divorce, Domestic Violence & other family court matters.On top of his legal practice, Mark also runs a strategic consulting company named Law Firm Launch, focused on developing & optimizing sales processes both in & out of the legal industry.2022-03-0846 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS3E3: "Helping Stepmoms Heal" with Meg Burton TudmanOur guest today is Meg Burton Tudman!Meg Burton Tudman is on a mission to support stepmoms in honoring their highest selves through coaching, writing and speaking. Her specialty is holistic coaching for superwomen empowering them to align their mind, body and soul, so they can live a life they love. Meg weaves mindset, meditation, yoga, and Reiki into her online coaching programs, wellness articles, workshops, and corporate events. She has been featured by StepMom Magazine, Xerox Women’s Alliance, Finger Lakes Yogascapes, and Go Love Yourself. Quotes:"Stepfamilies are complex and need sup...2022-03-0142 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS3-E2: 'Let Love Win: the Power of Forgiveness' with Kelli CalabreseToday's guest is Kelli Calabrese!Kelli Calabrese has been a fitness, nutrition, wellness and lifestyle professional and entrepreneur for 35 years. She has spoken on stages internationally, has 3 best selling books and has appeared on all of the major networks.Today, Kelli empowers women to overcome the fear, grief and rejection of divorce so they can heal, become resilient and build a fabulous bonus life.Links:http://www.kellicalabrese.com/https://www.facebook.com/groups/intentionallyfabuloushttps://www.intentionallyfabulous.com/now?r_done=1Quotes:"...2022-02-2243 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS3E1 - "The Father Effect with John Finch"Today's guest is John Finch!John Finch grew up the youngest of 3 boys in a suburb of Dallas where he lost his father to suicide at age 11. As a young man, John did anything he could to avoid confronting the wounds he suffered as a result of being fatherless. His craving for affirmation from a father who was not there to provide it, led him to  seek that affirmation from the world in many unhealthy ways. In an attempt to find value as a man, he created a false persona that left him completely unfulfilled. His life w...2022-02-1540 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS2-E15: "Me, Us, Them, and A Calamity of Confusion" with Franco Zavala, The Professional StepdadFranco is an actor, host of The Professional Stepdad podcast, 60-second storyteller, and stepfather of five, who loves sharing wisdom, insight, and anecdotes about fatherhood. Driven by his passion to affect real change, Franco is on a mission to challenge the current narrative around the meaning and purpose of being a Step-Dad in today’s world. Franco and I had a thoroughly entertaining and enjoyable conversation, and I hope you learn from it and have as much fun as we did! Below are some of the key quotes and highlights from the episode. Also, be sure to che...2021-06-081h 0810CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS2-E14: "Stepfamilies and the Importance of Support Systems" with Laura Petherbridge, The Smart StepmomLaura Petherbridge serves couples and single adults with topics on women’s issues, relationships, stepfamilies, co-parenting, single parenting, divorce prevention, and divorce recovery. She is an international speaker and author of, When “I Do” Becomes “I Don’t”—Practical Steps for Healing During Separation and Divorce, The Smart Stepmom, co-authored with stepfamily expert Ron Deal, 101 Tips for The Smart Stepmom , Quiet Moments for the Stepmom Soul, a devotional and Seeking a Silent Night: Unwrapping a Stepfamily Christmas. Her most recent project is Stepfamilies of the Bible: Timeless Teachings for Today’s Family. Laura has spoken at numerous events including: The Billy Graham...2021-06-011h 0610CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS2-E13: "Self-forgiveness and Vacation with the Was-band" with Bobbi Brooks WilcoxBobbi Brooks Wilcox is the founder of Blended Families United, a published author, spiritual counselor, ordained minister, and a blended family coach. She assists blended family clients virtually online to improve their communication with one another, build trust, and strengthening their relationships so they can thrive and not just survive.Bobbi's book, RECONCILED, is about her search for peace after a painful divorce where she came across a university that taught Spiritual Psychology that brought her healing, transformation, and a Spiritual Awakening. As Bobbi applied the spiritual practices, skills, and principles she'd learned at the university in...2021-05-2551 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS2-E12: "Understanding the Complexity of Blended Family Finances" with Adam KolAdam Kol, known as The Couples Financial Coach, helps couples go from financial overwhelm or avoidance to clarity, teamwork, and peace of mind. He also hosts the Couples Financial Coach Podcast.Adam is a Certified Mediator with experience as both a Tax Attorney and Financial Advisor. He received his law degree from Duke and a Master's in Tax Law from NYU.Adam is also an experienced social justice advocate and lifelong musician - you can find his Personal Finance Parodies on YouTube, LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram!  In this episode, Adam tells us about h...2021-05-1848 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS2-E11: "Family Meetings and Why You Should Care What Your Kids Think" with Anna SeewaldAnna Seewald, M.Ed is a Parent Educator, Keynote Speaker, Author and Host of The Authentic Parenting Podcast. With a background in psychology and education, and having worked with children for 18 years, today Anna helps conscious moms and dads to become calm and connected to themselves and their children through trauma-informed education. She believes in helping children by helping parents. She has a private practice that specializes in parent education, where she provides one-on-one parent coaching, parenting, court-ordered, and co-parenting classes. Anna shared some extremely important information from her experience of helping parents who are divorcing or are divorced...2021-05-1142 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS2-E10: "Unintentional Messages and Learning to Build Slowly" with Heidi FarrellHeidi Farrell is a stepmom and mom of five, whose ages range from 22 down to 4 years old.  She and her husband have seen the full range of child development in their house...often all at once!  Heidi loves connecting with moms and stepmoms by coaching and encouraging them on their journey.  She writes about her experiences and provides practical strategies for stepmoms, and you can find her eBook about the joys and complications of adding an 'ours' baby on her website notjustastepmom.com. Heidi and her husband have a full house and a full range of stepfamily expe...2021-05-0455 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS2-E9: "Accepting Your Baggage and Knowing Your Triggers to Build A Better Blended Family" with Terrie VanoverTerrie is a Divorce and Relationship Strategist. Her dynamic, vibrant, inspirational talks for both men and women motivate and educate audiences. Terrie-who is divorced- has overcome abandonment, poverty, and childhood sexual abuse. She uses the trials and her triumphs in her coaching practice, Choosing to Rise. Terrie coaches men and women to overcome their setbacks, create healthy relationships, and find happiness and peace of mind. She is the co-author of two women's empowerment books.Terrie and I had an amazing conversation about the importance of both personal responsibility and grace in overcoming challenges and setbacks in the...2021-04-271h 0010CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS2-E8: "Caregivers, Surge Protectors, and Different Types of Blended Families" with Brock SellersBrock Sellers, LICSW, PIP, is an Alabama native with strong roots in the social work field. He obtained both his BSW and MSW from the University of Alabama and is now beginning his 19th year of working in the field of child welfare. Brock serves as APAC’s Training Coordinator where he implements statewide training, webinars, online training, and live conferences with leading experts in the field of foster care and adoption for the benefit of Alabama’s clinical professionals. Brock is also the co-founder of Innate Health Solutions, where he works in the private sector as an consultant and...2021-04-2042 minSimplify Podcasting | Grow Brand Authority, Build Partnerships, Turn Listeners Into Loyal ClientsSimplify Podcasting | Grow Brand Authority, Build Partnerships, Turn Listeners Into Loyal ClientsWhat's Your Blended Superpower? | Featuring Joel Hawbaker #27You know when you're really good at something that...well...isn't exactly brag-worthy?  Join me on the Bluff as Joel Hawbaker entertains us with his Superpower stories.  He's been honing this Superpower for some time! Ready to INVEST in your RELATIONSHIP?  Sign up for Blended Bootcamp! May 14-May 15.  Get on the list at stepfamilypodcast.com! Or, email me at hello@stepfamilypodcast.comMen! If you do nothing else, listen to the last 5 minutes of this podcast! Be sure to listen to last week's episode, Shell Shocked!, for the...2021-04-1536 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS2-E7: "Forced Family Fun and G.A.S. in a Blended Family" with Scott and Mindee HardinScott & Mindee have been together for ten years this month, married for six and a half. Scott is a Software Engineer at Intel for twenty-five years and Mindee is a twenty-year entrepreneur (Inventor of the popular children's product Boogie Wipes). Scott brought two girls and a boy to the marriage, while Mindee brought two boys and a girl - very Brady. The kids are currently 18, 17, 15, 15, 13, 12. They rely on Jesus, Coffee, Exercise and the Sunday afternoon NapFold...which you will have to ask them about!Our Blended Family Ministry is called Merge, we run it through @B4 Church in...2021-04-1352 minSimplify Podcasting | Grow Brand Authority, Build Partnerships, Turn Listeners Into Loyal ClientsSimplify Podcasting | Grow Brand Authority, Build Partnerships, Turn Listeners Into Loyal ClientsShell Shocked! | Featuring Joel Hawbaker #26When's the last time you thanked God for being in a blended family?  When Joel prayed over the men at the end of our conversation, I was convicted to spend time on being thankful for being blended.  Honestly, I'm still working on that! (You'll hear the prayer next week, in part 2!)Ready to INVEST in your RELATIONSHIP?  Sign up for Blended Bootcamp! May 14-May 15.  Get on the list at stepfamilypodcast.com! Or, email me at hello@stepfamilypodcast.comThis week, listen in as Joel Hawbaker shares his...2021-04-0841 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS2-E6: "What I Learned from Three Decades of Stepparenting" with Claudette Chenevert, "The Stepmom Coach"Claudette Chenevert, AKA “The Stepmom Coach” works with stepmoms who are striving to create a cohesive family life. She holds a BIS in Psychology of Communication from George Mason University, focusing on stepfamily dynamics and is Certified Coach with Results Coaching System, a neuroscience based program. Claudette helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent. She has over 30 years of experience as a stepmom and 37 years as a mother. She understands what it’s like to be in your shoes and teaches the be...2021-04-0656 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS2-E5: "A Different Kind of Blend...and what NOT to do" with Bob BrummBob Brumm is a professional award-winning Speaker, Author & Encouragement Engineer serving corporate, collegiate, sales, youth organizations and individuals with encouraging keynotes or workshop presentations. Bob guides audiences to achieve personal and professional growth with positive encouragement and action plans that combat the negativity that inundates our daily lives. Bob is a top selling author of eight books and has been a guest on internationally recognized media outlets regarding his encouraging positive perspective, action-oriented strategies. Bob also created his own podcast, “Encouragement Engineering” to reach out to listeners to combat the negativity that inundates our daily lives with a positive pers...2021-03-3044 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS2-E4: "Baggage, Brokenness, and the Process of Becoming a Family" with Kristie CarpenterWomen’s author, speaker and mentor Kristie Carpenter, aka The Blended Family Mom, has been a blended family/step mom since 2004. Her blended family currently includes four children and four grandchildren. Her books The Blended Family Mom and Blended Mom Moments are both available on her website at theblendedfamilymom.com. In this episode, Kristie and I discussed her journey from wife to widow to stepmother/stepgrandmother in under a decade and the many lessons she has learned along the way. "Your mindset going into marriage will make or break it.""Be consistent every day...2021-03-2353 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS2-E3: "Stressful Conversations Don't Have To Suck" with Ali WilksStepfamilies have to contend with extra stressors, deeper and more complex layers that just do not apply to first-time families. Ali is well versed in the challenges that stepmoms and stepcouples face in 'blending' together. Ali Wilks MSc is a certified successful stepfamily strategist and couples coach. Driven by her own feelings of doubt and insecurity, she turned her passion to help into her purpose and created the Successful Stepmom Retreats and Successful Stepcouple Retreats. She is also the owner and developer of The Soulful Stepmom where she shares her soulful insights, embraces her otherworldly gifts, and teaches about her...2021-03-161h 00Surviving Life with HollySurviving Life with HollySurvivor Spotlight:Joel Hawbaker- Surviving the Blended FamilySend us a textJoel Hawbaker is a Blended Family Coach, High School Teacher, and host of a podcast called 10CBF. He uses his story with his own blended family to help others navigate the challenges of blending two families together. He shares today some ways that families can have hope even in the midst of their struggles.You can connect with Joel at...www.joelwhawbaker.comwww.facebook.com/joelwhawbakeror check out his Podcast: https://anchor.fm/10cbfFor more info on Hollywww.hollyboyce...2021-03-1554 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS2-E2: "Consistency In Co-Parenting IS Possible? Really?" with Melissa BrownMelissa Brown, is an entrepreneur who runs several businesses. For over 14 years she has run a successful cleaning company along with her husband. They also have a business in the finance industry, where they train and develop financial advisors, as well as educate people about how money works, so that they can achieve true financial freedom. Additionally, she hosts the Blended Family Podcast, a weekly show about the many challenges and struggles today's blended families face. Having a blended family of her own for well over 10 years, she is now using her experiences to help others.  She lives with h...2021-03-0944 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS2-E1: "What On Earth Are NACHO Kids?!" with Lori and David SimsBlended family coaching team, Lori and David Sims are the creators of the Nacho Kids® method and the Nacho Kids Academy. After Lori and David found a way to come back from the brink of divorce and better their blend, they had to share it with the world! As a team, they bring both the male and female perspective to blended family issues. Their mission is to reduce the percentage of failed blended families by empowering stepparents with tools to save their relationship and their sanity by effectively using the Nacho Kids method. Their Nacho Kids method has been a...2021-03-021h 1510CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS1-E16 (Bonus Episode) 'Eucatastrophe and the Gospel'This episode is different because it is actually a talk that I gave at my high school for our Midweek (chapel) program recently. In this episode you'll hear an explanation of what 'eucatastrophe' is as well as a few stories that illustrate the concept. Finally you'll hear how the Gospel is the great eucatastrophe of history as well as some encouragement from the book of Romans. I hope that you enjoy it and find it both challenging and encouraging! I also hope that you will reflect on your own life's journey and seek to recognize the eucatastrophic moments in...2021-02-0726 minThe Morning Upgrade Podcast with Ryan CoteThe Morning Upgrade Podcast with Ryan Cote#26 - Setting Limits on Social Media with Joel HawbakerIn this episode of the Morning Upgrade podcast I talk with Joel Hawbaker about his morning routine, setting limits on social media, mindset, relationships and more. 2021-01-3114 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family LifesaverThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver086: Interview With Joel Hawbaker ~ 10CBF Blended Family PodcastIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids, continue their “Month Of Men” with an interview with Joel Hawbaker of the 10 CBF Blended Families Podcast. Joel is the bio dad of two beautiful teenage girls who he adores. Joel isn’t a stepdad, but he is a stepkid and gives us a great view on being a stepkid of military parents. He lived with his mom full time and went to his dad’s every other weekend. Until Joel could drive, his dad still came by and took him and his siblings to schoo...2021-01-221h 1810CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS1-E15 "Doing the Hard Tasks and Parental Influence in Blended Families" with Judy GraybillJudy Graybill is a Relationship Healer, Certified Stepfamily Coach, and Executive Director of her company, Sensible Steps. Her formal degrees are in Psychology and Sociology, and she has earned her certification as a Stepfamily Coach from The Stepfamily Foundation. For nearly 12 years, Judy has been a guest speaker on tele-summits, radio shows, and podcasts like 'Reclaim Your Life After Divorce', 'Constructive Uncoupling', and 'The Father Show' With Mike Thompson; as well as having been quoted in periodicals, including alongside Drs. Patricia Papernow and Richard A. Warshak at Care.com. In this interview, Judy discussed a number of d...2021-01-1944 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS1-E14 "Knowing Our Roles and Growing Through Conflict" with Dr. Brittne MurrayDr. Brittne Murray is a  licensed Professional Counselor trained in clinical psychology with over 20 years experience in the field. She received her PhD in Transpersonal Psychology at Sofia University (formerly The Institute of Transpersonal Psychology) in Palo Alto, California, and her postdoctoral education at Liberty University in Lynchburg, Virginia. She was also trained and received a fellowship degree at Tulane University in Early Infant Mental Heath. She began her therapeutic journey in Denver, Colorado, working in a residential facility and as a therapeutic case manager. She later moved to Lake Charles, Louisiana, where she held several roles such as Clin...2021-01-1242 minSmall Business Marketing - Then and NowSmall Business Marketing - Then and NowEpisode Ten, Joel Hawbaker, Blended Family CoachIn this episode I speak with Joel Hawbaker, a blended family coach who  assists blended families to work together more constructively in order to more positively address issues such as frustration, hurt, and resentment that comes from the past; parenting disagreements; scheduling problems for kids; sibling rivalries; other issues related to blended family life.As always, this podcast is brought to you by Profit Master Business Solutions, implementing measured marketing for small businesses while calming the chaos and creating the confidence and competence to exceed expectations.Click www.profitmasterbusinesssolutions.com.You c...2021-01-1128 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS1-E13 "Trust Issues and the Danger of 'Marrying the Outcome 'in Blended Families" with Jay and Esther HutchinsonJay and Esther Hutchinson are an amazing multicultural blended family that resides in Florida, and they have been married for eight years. Together, they are the parents of six boys and one girl ranging in age from 5 to 20. In addition to being part of a blended family, Jay and Esther also enjoy the challenges and rewards of being part of a multi-cultural family. Esther is originally from Haiti, and Jay hails from the state of Ohio. Esther and Jay have a heart for marriage and family. One of the missions of their website and YouTube channel, This Big House...2021-01-0550 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS1-E12: "Acknowledging and Overcoming the Struggle" with Laura Gertz HernandezLaura Gertz Hernandez and her husband have ten (yes, TEN) children, a combination of biological and foster children. Laura is a homeschool mom to her biological children, and all four of their foster children have special needs. Laura is also the creator of MamaSystems.net, a website designed to help busy moms bring peace to their homes through putting systems into place that create calm out of chaos. Her website offers online courses, coaching, and a lot of free resources including articles, blog posts, and more.In this episode, Laura is extremely vulnerable and shares some of...2020-12-2934 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS1-E11 "Drama and Tragedy of Parental Alienation" with Tracy PoiznerTracy Poizner is a certified life coach who leveraged 20 years of professional training and expertise in alternative healthcare to help herself and her family find their way through the wilderness of stepfamily life. She says her dream job is helping other stepmoms find their way to the light at the end of the tunnel so they can feel useful and appreciated in family life, grounded and confident in their personal life. She’s living the dream from her home in small-town Canada where she produces The Essential Stepmom Podcast, heard in 64 countries around the world. In her spare time, she...2020-12-2246 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS1- E10 "New Traditions and Reverse Engineering in A Blended Family" with Monica Tanner"I'm Monica Tanner, married to my best friend, boss mom to 4 small humans, weekly podcaster at On the Brighter Side of Marriage and relationship and intimacy expert. I get it, entrepreneurship and marriage are HARD...they both take work. There are lots of ups and downs and sometimes it all just feels like TOO MUCH. But can I let you in on a little secret? It's easier than you might think...you may just need some simple, time-saving, life-saving skills and strategies. That's where I come in...I firmly believe that there are no two people on...2020-12-1536 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS1-E9 "Secrets and Boundaries in Blended Families" with Michelle PerryAs a bi-racial woman growing up without a father, Michelle Perry struggled with identity and self-worth issues. Poor choices led her down a path leading to academic failure and a lack of purpose. Until January 2, 1992, when one experience changed her life forever, propelling her into purpose and service to others.Michelle established herself as a subject matter expert over the course of her career as a clinical social worker that spanned over 20 years. She then transitioned into the corporate world where her leadership and coaching skills were refined, producing results in all that she works with. As...2020-12-0841 minEbb and GlowEbb and GlowNavigating Blended Families with Joel Hawbaker#11: Divorce is one thing. But navigating a blended family dynamic with step siblings and new step parents can be extremely challenging. Joel Hawbaker is no stranger to this. As a child of divorce himself, and then finding himself divorced with two kids in his twenties, Joel had many struggles and ups and downs. He learned the hard way that your ex spouse doesn’t naturally do everything you want them to do. So he had to find ways to create a successful environment of co parenting for his two ...2020-12-071h 0410CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS1-E8: "Stranded Strangers and Trapped Teammates" with Mike and Kim AndersonMike & Kim Anderson have been coaching and supporting step-couples for almost two decades and they host a weekly podcast called The Blended Family Coaching Show.  Mike grew up in challenging stepfamily dynamics and when Mike & Kim were married in 2001 — they formed their own stepfamily.  Mike and Kim have experienced the joys of 'blending' as well as deep valleys of pain and struggle.  They are passionate about helping step-couples to experience breakthroughs, overcome challenges and thrive in their unique blended family dynamics.  They reside in the Pacific Northwest and are grateful for their three beautiful children, Annika (25), Phoebe (17) and Jacob (16).I...2020-12-0145 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS1-E7 "Complexity and Resiliency" with Dr. Lisa Pion-BerlinDr. Pion-Berlin is a passionate and compassionate leader and expert in resiliency, shared leadership®, family strengthening and prevention with more 38 years of research, advocacy and program implementation focusing on Evidence-Based Services and Initiatives. Fondly called Dr. Lisa, she is also an experienced clinician and Clinical Hypnotherapist working with Parents, Adults and Children of all ages to address their underlying emotional issues, change behaviors and reduce anxiety, fear and loss just to name a few. She has a Ph.D. in Social Work from Ohio State University, Masters in Social Work & Masters in Public Administration from University of Denver, and Bac...2020-11-2441 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS1-E6: "Healing from Pain and Helping Dads in Blended Families" with Dr. Michelle Watson CanfieldMichelle Watson Canfield, PhD, LPC, is a national speaker, author, professional counselor of 24 years, and founder of The Abba Project, a nine-month group forum for dads whose daughters are in their teens and twenties...and she's straight-up awesome!!! She writes guest articles for various online and print journals and magazines, hosts her own radio show/podcast called The Dad Whisperer, and she and her husband Dr. Ken Canfield are soon going to re-launch the Father-Daughter Summit and a Let's Talk curriculum for dads of daughters.We had such a great time chatting today about blended families and...2020-11-1759 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS1-E1 "The 10 Commandments for Blended Families" with Joel W. HawbakerMae l'ovannen! Welcome to the 10CBF Community, and thanks for joining me for this inaugural episode of 10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families! In this episode you'll learn about:1) the 2 Pillars for Blended Families2) the 5 Discussions Every Blended Family Needs to Have3) the 10 Commandments of Blended Family LifeBe sure to check out the blended family resources listed below and also come and connect with me on social media.http://familylifeblended.com/https://www.familylife.com/familylifeblended/blended-families/https://www.christianbook.com...2020-11-1427 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS1-E5 "Parental Alienation and Keeping a Longterm Perspective" with Sarah PendletonSarah Pendleton was kind enough to be a speaker at my 10CBF Online Conference in the summer of 2020, and here she again shares the wisdom that she has learned in over 20 years of working in the field of mental health along with her experience as a stepmom for a decade. In this episode she discusses many of the difficulties of and consequences associated with parental alienation. She also discusses, from personal experience, just why it is so vital that blended families keep a long term perspective in their families. Bio: Sarah R. Pendleton is a licensed independent...2020-11-1034 minThe Make Meaning PodcastThe Make Meaning PodcastJoel Hawbaker - How to blend families so that everyone gets along after divorceWhen asked which role he prefers – teaching high school, coaching soccer, serving as a blended family expert, or being a husband and father – Joel Hawbaker has a hard time choosing. All of these roles combine to form his personal purpose, says the Alabama native. In the latest episode of the Make Meaning Podcast, Joel speaks with host Lynne Golodner on having a growth mindset, the purpose of education (hint: it’s to become a better human being and better understand the world), taking time to blend families, banishing the divorce stigma, his love of soccer and so much m...2020-11-0945 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS1-E4: "Forgiveness and Minding Your Own Business" with Tuniscia O.Tuniscia Okeke is a mom and stepmom, an international speaker, the author of 'The Empowered Stepmom', and just an all-around amazing human being. She shares today about her experiences with blended families, both personally and professionally. She tells us about the importance of forgiveness as well as the necessity of sometimes just minding our own business. She tells an amazing story about her family and its journey, and she shares some powerful nuggets of blended family wisdom. You can find her at https://www.forgivenesslifestyle.com/, and you can find her book at https://www.amazon.com/EMPOWERED-STEPMOTHER-Thrive-Harmoniously-Blended/dp/0578425009...2020-11-0343 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS1-E3 "Two Interviews for the Price of One" with Joel and Maryellyn HawbakerMae lo'vannen! Welcome and well-met! In this episode, you're in for a treat because my wife joined me behind the microphone! She was kind enough to interview me (so we avoided a Gollum-like situation, with me conversing with myself), and then she really was gracious because she allowed me to interview her (she's a super-introvert, so I'm thrilled she agreed to do this; plus, she NAILED it)! We share some of our experiences as bio-parent (me) and stepparent (her) and talked about some of our favorite memories as well as things we've struggled with, looking at differences e...2020-11-0124 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended FamiliesS1-E2 "My Blended Family Story" with host Joel W. HawbakerMae lo'vannen! Welcome and well-met! In this second episode of 10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families, I take some time to share my blended family story, beginning with my parents' divorce when I was in middle school, through my first marriage, my divorce, and then my remarriage back in 2014. I share some insights and stories about what caused my mindset to shift, and I also share some of what I've learned about blended families. Thanks for joining me on this journey, and I hope that you are encouraged, challenged, and inspired by what you hear!If you'd...2020-11-0123 minHeart of Dad PodcastHeart of Dad PodcastHeart of Dad - Season 4 Episode 1 Joel HawbakerJoel is an award-winning teacher, author, speaker, and frequent podcast guest who loves helping young leaders overcome obstacles and grow through courage, confidence, and humility.By sharing personal stories of failure and success, using humor and engagement, Joel teaches leadership principles that audiences can apply as soon as they leave the event. His book, Inverted Leadership: Lead Others Better By Forgetting About Yourself was a #1 best-seller on Amazon.Having studied and played soccer at both Covenant College (Georgia) and Oxford University (England, UK), Joel has a B.A. in History and a passion for literature...2020-10-3155 min10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families10CBF Preview EpisodeWelcome to 10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families! In this special preview episode, you'll learn a bit about your host Joel, as well as what the podcast structure will be like. You'll hear key words and phrases that will be used repeatedly throughout the show, and you'll also learn what you can expect from future episodes once they go live beginning on 11/1/2020. Thanks for joining the 10CBF community, and we hope you're ready to learn, laugh, and be encouraged about your blended family!2020-10-2008 minUN-CAPED HEROES - The PodcastUN-CAPED HEROES - The PodcastEpisode 64 - Joel HawbakerOur special guest today is Joel Hawbaker. A Blended Family Coach (Joel W. Hawbaker Coaching), Author (Inverted Leadership: Lead Others Better By Forgetting About Yourself), Teacher and Soccer Coach. We each have 24 hours in a day and what we do with our time is of great importance. joelwhawbaker.com 2020-10-1215 minGo After Your Passion!Go After Your Passion!Blended Family Coach: Interview with Joel HawbakerJoel is a blended family coach, an award-winning teacher, author, speaker, and frequent podcast guest who loves helping blended/stepfamilies overcome obstacles and grow by teaching them the 10 Commandments of Blended Family Life. These are universal principles that families can apply immediately to begin seeing positive changes.2020-09-3030 minWealthy Author PodcastWealthy Author PodcastWealthy Author Podcast ep 041: Courageous Humility - A Revolutionary Approach to Leadership for Blended Families & Business Teams with Joel HawbakerBARS from this episode: I HAVE A DUTY TO TEACH MY KIDS TO THINK AND AN OBLIGATION TO NOT PROPAGANDIZE MYSELF Why many teachers believe it's dangerous to teach kids to think How students who challenge perspectives in history books become original thinkers The importance of planting seeds as a teacher Leveraging testimonials to shift student's opinions of their work Using story in all of your meaningful conversations Dondi Scumaci quote "Take your emotions along for the ride, but make sure you are driving the...2020-09-121h 39The Faith Breathed Hope podcastThe Faith Breathed Hope podcastAE 10 Interview with Joel Hawbaker: Blended Family LifeIn this episode, I speak with former high school teacher and Blended Family Coach, Joel Hawbaker on Blended Family Life. Navigating a new normal is difficult in any situation. Blended families are not exempt. Listen as Joel shares his story and encourages those who travel this path.  Hear more from Joel in the 2020 Virtual Grief Symposium Find Joel Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn and on his website2020-08-2539 minBeyond the Rut: Create a Life Worth Living in Your Faith, Family, CareerBeyond the Rut: Create a Life Worth Living in Your Faith, Family, CareerJoel W Hawbaker Bringing Help for Blended FamiliesJoel is a blended family coach, author, and speaker who loves helping blended families overcome obstacles and grow by teaching them the 10 Commandments of Blended Family Life. See the full show notes at BeyondTheRut.com/226 Go to BeyondTheRut.com/capsho for your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Support the showMusic Hopeful Camping...2020-08-0541 minThe Encouragement Engineering PodcastThe Encouragement Engineering PodcastEncouragement Engineering with Joel Hawbaker - Blended Family CoachThe Encouragement Engineering podcast offers listeners the ability to combat the negativity that inundates our daily lives with a positive perspective and positive actions. Our guest today is Joel Hawbaker a blended family coach and we discuss: Blended family life Working together Focus on best outcome Life lessons https://www.joelwhawbaker.com  https://www.reallifeleading.com https://www.stepdadding.com  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joel-w-hawbaker-9421a077/  https://www.facebook.com/joel.w.hawbaker2020-07-2935 minScar BearersScar Bearers#12: Joel W. HawbakerFellow teacher, soccer player and coach, professional speaker, author, and life coach Joel W. Hawbaker discusses his struggles as a "Raphael" and his various experiences with blended families.2020-07-2332 minThe Successful Diligence™ PodcastThe Successful Diligence™ PodcastThe Successful Diligence™ Podcast Episode 230: Universal Truths in relationships with Joel HawbakerIn this episode Joel Hawbaker is back with more Wisdom and Practical strategies and tips, as well as FREE GIFTS for YOU! Joel Hawbaker is a blended family coach, an award-winning teacher, author, speaker, and frequent podcast guest who loves helping blended/step-families overcome obstacles and grow by teaching them the 10 Commandments of Blended Family Life: universal principles that families can apply immediately to begin seeing positive changes.  Joel is a divorced and remarried father of two. He currently lives in Alabama with his wife, his two daughters, and their two rescue dogs Bruiser and Butterscotch. For M...2020-07-141h 02Gift In A Gift (GNG) PodcastGift In A Gift (GNG) PodcastBlended Hope with Joel A. Hawbaker Joel is a blended family coach, an award-winning high school teacher, Amazon #1 best-selling author, professional speaker, and frequent podcast guest who loves helping blended/stepfamilies overcome obstacles and grow by teaching them the 10 Commandments of Blended Family Life. These are universal principles that families can apply immediately to begin seeing positive changes.   Joel is also a divorced and remarried father of two. He currently lives in Alabama with his wife, his two daughters, and their two rescue dogs Bruiser and Butterscotch.   His first book, 'Inverted Leadership: Lead Others Better By Forgetting About Yourself' was a #1 best-seller on Amazon. He is cu...2020-07-0847 minThe Successful Diligence™ PodcastThe Successful Diligence™ PodcastThe Successful Diligence™ Podcast Episode 224: Life Lessons From The Grief Process with Joel HawbakerThis interview is the first of 2 with Joel Hawbaker who is a blended family coach, an award-winning teacher, author, speaker, and frequent podcast guest who loves helping blended/step-families overcome obstacles and grow by teaching them the 10 Commandments of Blended Family Life. These are universal principles that families can apply immediately to begin seeing positive changes.  Joel is a divorced and remarried father of two. He currently lives in Alabama with his wife, his two daughters, and their two rescue dogs Bruiser and Butterscotch. His first book, Inverted Leadership: Lead Others Better By Forgetting About Yourself was a #1 best-seller o...2020-07-0855 minThe Kris and Kristine ShowThe Kris and Kristine ShowEpisode 45: Coaching the blended family with Joel W. HawbakerJoin us this 4th of July weekend as we sit down with Joel Hawbaker. A blended family coach. https://joelwhawbaker.com/ www.krisandkristineshow.com Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE, rate and review, we love those five star reviews! Thanks for tuning in and until next time…keep moving forward! Follow us on Twitter: @k2showsandiego Follow us on Instagram: @thek2showsandiego Email us at: krisandkristinepodcast@gmail.com Support us on Patreon at: www.patreon.com/thekrisandkristineshow The Kris and Kristine Show Podcast is recorded in Audacity https://www.audacityteam.org/ using the following equipment: BEHRINGER Audio Interface, 4-Channel (UMC404HD) https://ww...2020-07-0654 minVitamin LeadVitamin LeadEpisode 134: Inverted Leadership w/Joel HawbakerVitamin Lead:  Your healthy dose of leadership.  Joel Hawbaker shares about the work he does as a history teacher, coach, and leadership speaker.  He is passionate about helping young adults overcome obstacles and develop in 3 key areas:  Courage, Confidence, and Humility.  Buy Joel's book, Inverted Leadership and connect with him at http://joelwhawbaker.com/2020-06-1923 minProfitable Public SpeakingProfitable Public SpeakingPPS49: How To Be A Role Model For Your Tribe With Joel HawbakerJoel Hawbaker a Real Life Leader, professional speaker, author, award-winning teacher, coach, husband and father. His book Inverted Leadership teaches readers how to lead others better by forgetting about themselves.   Here are the key links from the episode Joel's website Real Life Leading Stepdadding Get your copy of Inverted Leadership The Go-Giver   Marc's Links 5 Day Podcast Launch Mini Course Content Marketing Plaza -- SAVE $100 with the coupon code GROW Schedule a free strategy call ...2020-06-0900 minThe Family Culture Movement (Archive)The Family Culture Movement (Archive)Blended Family Culture with Joel HawbakerJoel W. Hawbaker is an award-winning teacher, Amazon #1 best-selling author, professional speaker, and blended/stepfamily coach who loves helping families live more positively and cooperatively together. Having been a part of a blended family for most of his life, Joel now seeks to help others in similar situations. He has recently written a 31-day devotional for blended families, and he is currently working on both a book and an online course based on his '10 Commandments of Blended Family Life.' Joel and I talked about how to be intentional about your family relationships even while going t...2020-05-1945 minTips with TeTips with TeEp. 23: Using leadership to build relationship with Joel Hawbaker.Joel discuss leadership and why it is important to build good relationships.2020-05-0623 minCreator to CEOs #CREATEIT Like a Boss with Katrina JuliaCreator to CEOs #CREATEIT Like a Boss with Katrina JuliaLeadership, Courageous Humility, and Blended Families with Joel Hawbaker InterviewLeadership is ultimately rooted in the service of others. Courageous Humility will teach you how to put others’ needs before your own, resulting in more positive, impactful leadership. Joel W. Hawbaker, a Real-Life Leader, professional speaker, author, award-winning teacher, coach, husband, and father. Our live interview on the show continuing the conversation from our Creator Series feature with Joel Hawbaker.   You will love this conversation full of faith, humility, laughter, leadership, family & entrepreneurship & pivots in 2020.   Series & Resources Wellness Wonder: 14 Day Challenge: Jump Start Transformation: Day 1 Wellness Wonder: 14 Day Challenge: Unleashing Inspiration: Day 2 Wellness Wonder: 14 Day Challenge: Clutter to Clarity: Day 3 Welln...2020-05-011h 26Creator to CEOs #CREATEIT Like a Boss with Katrina JuliaCreator to CEOs #CREATEIT Like a Boss with Katrina JuliaCourageous Humility with Joel Hawbaker: Creator Series Feature on Inspire InfluenceWelcome to our new series Creator’s Creations! We are sharing highlights from transformation stories and how we are creating FIT Life Creation and the community. In this Creator series feature, we are featuring From Top to Bottom and Back, with Courageous Humility with Joel Hawbaker. Highlights of Story and Creations: “What you see and what you hear depends a great deal on where you are standing. It also depends on what sort of person you are.” - C.S. Lewis in The Magician’s Nephew  Married, divorced, remarried. Success, utter failure, and loss, then greater success. From the fear of others...2020-05-0116 min40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.Successfully Living In A Blended Family – Joel W. HawbakerWhen it comes to divorce, it's never easy, and it's often chaotic. Yet, when you realize that it is not your job to get your ex-spouse to do what you want, and it is your job to find ways to make it work, then success happens...even if it is a challenge.Learning from his own experience of living in an unconventional blended family where his divorced parents actually got along, Joel Hawbaker knew when he realized he was headed for divorce, he was going to have to invoke to rules to live by to make his...2020-04-1029 minImpact SportsImpact SportsImpact Sports 1.05: Joel HawbakerThis week Chase sits down with Joel Hawbaker to talk about leadership in sports from his book Inverted Leadership2020-03-2530 minAnother Way to PlayAnother Way to PlayHow to Maximize Your Time with Joel HawbakerJoel W. Hawbaker is a Real Life Leader, professional speaker, author, award-winning teacher, coach, husband and father. He lives in Alabama with his wife Maryellyn, his two daughters, and their two rescue dogs Butterscotch and Bruiser. On this episode:Joel shares about being teacher in addition to being an entrepreneur.Learn how to be extremely productive with your time.Joel shares lessons from being a part of a blended family.Tweetable Quotes:If you really want to get something done, you’ll find a way to get it done.Wh...2020-03-0500 minGood People, Cool ThingsGood People, Cool Things2: Leadership Principles and Historical Adventures with Author and Speaker Joel HawbakerThe phrase “when life gives you lemons, make lemonade” may be a cliche, but it applies in so many situations. Specifically, there’s a key word in there: make. You have to make the conscious decision to improve your situation. This episode’s guest, Joel Hawbaker, is no stranger to tough times – in the span of three years, he learned his dad had terminal cancer, got divorced, and lost his home. After hitting rock bottom while wandering aimlessly around a Walmart, Joel realized he could turn things around. He just had to commit to his self-improvement and consistently keep working at it. The...2020-02-1336 minGood People, Cool ThingsGood People, Cool Things2: Leadership Principles and Historical Adventures with Author and Speaker Joel HawbakerThe phrase “when life gives you lemons, make lemonade” may be a cliche, but it applies in so many situations. Specifically, there’s a key word in there: make. You have to make the conscious decision to improve your situation. This episode’s guest, Joel Hawbaker, is no stranger to tough times – in the span of three years, he learned his dad had terminal cancer, got divorced, and lost his home. After hitting rock bottom while wandering aimlessly around a Walmart, Joel realized he could turn things around. He just had to commit to his self-improvement and consistently keep working at...2020-02-1336 minA Little Bit Of Everything With Me!A Little Bit Of Everything With Me!Joel - Speaker, Best- Selling Author and CoachEp. 191 - Joel - Speaker, Best- Selling Author and Coach  - Joel Hawbaker is a professional speaker, best-selling author, and blended-family coach, and he seeks to help leaders show confidence and courage in their homes and at work. Joels Links: www.joelwhawbaker.com www.reallifeleading.com Facebook: @alittlebitofeverythingwithme Instagram: @alittlebitofeverythingwithme Tumblr: everythingwithange Reddit: u/everythingwithange Website: www.everythingwithange.com Podcast: anchor.fm/everythingwithange Youtube: A Little Bit Of Everything With Me! Podcast Leave a voice Message: https://anchor.fm/everythingwithange/message Song: MBB - Feel Good (Vlog No Copyright Music) Music provided by Vlog No Copyright Music. Video Link: https://y...2020-01-301h 11The Ethical Evolution PodcastThe Ethical Evolution PodcastChange Making Families with Joel HawbakerMy next guest approached me online to be a part of the podcast and I can truly see why he did. When you come across people like this guy, you wish there were more of them in the world.Joel Hawbaker is a real life leader, professional speaker, author, award winning teacher, coach, husband and father. He lives in Alabama USA with his wife Maryellyn, two daughters and two rescue dogs. Joel has spent his life navigating blended family life as someone who is used to 4 parents and 2 homes and now helps others to find their way...2020-01-1553 minLee After DarkLee After DarkLee After Dark Ep29: Joel HawbakerJoel is a 9th grade teacher, Oxford grad., plays soccer, studies history and loves to read (especially CS Lewis and JR Tolken). Discovered Tolken while at Oxford (the movie “Lord of the Rings” released). Since he reads the book before seeing the movie, he read Lord of the Rings and The Hobbit, then watched the movie. Now he reads both books once every year. So here’s the question Joel asks (among others): How does an Oxford grad., someone who is a vociferous reader, a teacher, author, and coach… someone who is considered an intelligent human… screw up so ofte...2019-12-1322 minFaithfully LedFaithfully LedThriving Blended families with Joel HawbakerJoel is a Christian professional speaker, coach, and author, and I help young blended families build bridges from frustration to cooperation by focusing on the Gospel.  Joel is also a #1 bestselling author, he wrote a book on Christian leadership called 'Inverted Leadership: Lead Others Better By Forgetting About Yourself', and you can get your copy by clicking on the link here in the description https://www.amazon.com/Inverted-Leadership-Others-Forgetting-Yourself-ebook/dp/B07DLJVVZY   Joel and I speak about what it's like to truly do some serious personal reflection when relationships go bad, and having to deal...2019-12-0455 minLife as Leadership: Where Leaders Gather to Grow TogetherLife as Leadership: Where Leaders Gather to Grow TogetherInverted Leadership with Joel HawbakerJoel Hawbaker is a professional speaker, coach, teacher, and Amazon best-selling author with years of experience in a wide variety of leadership roles. He is blessed to be able to share much of what he has learned with audiences and clients, and he loves to engage them through storytelling and humor. He currently lives in his hometown of Anniston, Alabama, with his wife, his two daughters, and his two dogs Butterscotch and Bruiser.Mentioned in this episode: Business Bitcoinization Trailer https://www.lifeasleadership.com/bizbit-trailer (Listen to the trailer) Subscribe to Business Bitcoinization https://www.lifeasleadership.com/bizbit-subscribe (Subscribe on...2019-11-2944 minLife as Leadership: Where Leaders Gather to Grow TogetherLife as Leadership: Where Leaders Gather to Grow TogetherInverted Leadership with Joel HawbakerJoel Hawbaker is a professional speaker, coach, teacher, and Amazon best-selling author with years of experience in a wide variety of leadership roles. He is blessed to be able to share much of what he has learned with audiences and clients, and he loves to engage them through storytelling and humor. He currently lives in his hometown of Anniston, Alabama, with his wife, his two daughters, and his two dogs Butterscotch and Bruiser.Mentioned in this episode:Business Bitcoinization TrailerListen to the trailerSubscribe to Business BitcoinizationSubscribe on your...2019-11-2944 minIn The Trenches with the ToulonsIn The Trenches with the ToulonsEP81 - "Divorced & Blended"A blend is a mixture of two or more different things or substances; e.g., a product of a mixer or blender. But what about when you blend families, what does that look like? Blending families is quite the task and many struggle with finding that happy medium. In this episode, Ralph and Touly jump into the Trenches with Joel Hawbaker. Joel has quite the story as he has mastered blended families. He discusses things, such as having grace towards your ex and its okay to disagree as whole as long as you all are respectful.   2019-11-111h 09The Tending Lambs PodcastThe Tending Lambs PodcastEpisode 18: Blended Families with Joel HawbakerThis week Katie and Abby are joined by Joel Hawbaker, a blended family coach, to help parents navigate some of the specific parenting challenges unique to blended family life. SHOW NOTES Follow Joel on Facebook or through his website.The Smart Step Family by Ron DealOurFamilyWizard app2019-08-1355 minGreat Escape PodcastGreat Escape PodcastJoel Hawbaker - blended parenting and fixing my own attitude firstJoel talks candidly about being a parent, managing a blended family and how his major breakthrough was changing his own attitude. He realised he was the biggest obstacle to his own happiness.2019-07-2000 minBlended Family PodcastBlended Family PodcastFather's Day Special, with Joel Hawbakermelissa@blendedfamilypodcast.com www.blendedfamilypodcast.com   Joel W. Hawbaker is a high school teacher and a soccer coach in Alabama where he lives with his wife, his two daughters, and their two rescue dogs Butterscotch and Bruiser. He is also a professional speaker and author, focusing on leadership, education, and especially blended family life. He has been remarried for five years, and he seeks to inspire other blended families to live a more harmonious life through grace, patience, and mutual respect. When he grows up, Joel wants to be a fighter pilot and a...2019-06-171h 10Hustle & MotivateHustle & MotivateInverted Leadership & The Art of Confident Humility with Joel HawbakerJoel Hawbaker is a professional speaker, award-winning teacher, and 3x Amazon best-selling author. Standing at just 5'3", he's fought an uphill battle to prove himself his whole life.  From youth sports all the way to college athletics, he's shown that size isn't everything. These days, Joel is living his passion, teaching students of all ages about leadership and what he calls "confident humility". SHOW NOTES [4:25] From studying to become a lawyer to becoming a teacher and coach [10:27] How to become a professional speaker [15:20] The challenges of...2019-06-1328 minGilandBrendaGilandBrendaS1 Episode 49 STEPFAMILY Joel Hawbaker Interview  Ready to gather some gold nuggets to help your parenting in a stepfamily? Gil and Brenda interview Joel Hawbaker, a High School teacher, someone who lived in a stepfamily and is now in one. Joel offers some fresh perspective that can bring lively conversations to your marriage. After listening to this podcast, here are a few questions to discuss: 1. Are you acting like the adult you want your kids to become? 2. Are you in a harmonious relationship with your child’s other bio-parent? Are you working together? How can this improve? ...2019-04-1600 minGilandBrendaGilandBrendaS1 Episode 49 STEPFAMILY Joel Hawbaker Interview<p> </p> <p align="left" class="MsoNoSpacing">Ready to gather some gold nuggets to help your parenting in a stepfamily? Gil and Brenda interview Joel Hawbaker, a High School teacher, someone who lived in a stepfamily and is now in one. Joel offers some fresh perspective that can bring lively conversations to your marriage. After listening to this podcast, here are a few questions to discuss: </p> <p align="left" class="MsoNoSpacing">1. Are you acting like the adult you want your kids t...2019-04-1600 minGilandBrendaGilandBrendaS1 Episode 49 STEPFAMILY Joel Hawbaker Interview  Ready to gather some gold nuggets to help your parenting in a stepfamily? Gil and Brenda interview Joel Hawbaker, a High School teacher, someone who lived in a stepfamily and is now in one. Joel offers some fresh perspective that can bring lively conversations to your marriage. After listening to this podcast, here are a few questions to discuss: 1. Are you acting like the adult you want your kids to become? 2. Are you in a harmonious relationship with your child’s other bio-parent? Are you working together? How can this improve? ...2019-04-1600 minThe Sue Atkins Parenting ShowThe Sue Atkins Parenting ShowCelebrating the impact of global educationalists at ‘The Nexus Education Blog Awards.’ What to say when Grandma dies. Plus, Joel Hawbaker dSue speaks to Joel Hawbaker, an expert in blended families from his own experience and helping others. Also, there are Don't Stew Ask Sue questions about bereavement and tooth brushing!2019-02-2231 minThe Teacher Recharge PodcastThe Teacher Recharge PodcastFist Bumps W/ Joel Hawbaker Today's Guest: Joel W. Hawbaker Joel W. Hawbaker is a high school history and Bible teacher as well as a soccer coach in Alabama, where he lives with his Maryellyn, his two daughters, and their two energetic rescue dogs Bruiser and Butterscotch. Joel has a B.A. in history from Covenant College, and he also spent time studying Medieval Civilizations at New College, Oxford, in the UK. When he's not teaching or coaching, Joel is a professional speaker who shares on the topics of leadership, education, and blended family life. He...2019-01-1430 min