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Brotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode. 24 – Launching Young Men Into the WorldEp. 24 – Launching Young Men Into the World
In this heartfelt episode, Paul and Joey unpack the tension every dad feels when it’s time to release his kids into adulthood. What does it mean to stop controlling and start connecting?
From messy weeks to meaningful weekends, this conversation brings perspective and practical encouragement for fathers navigating the shift from protector to guide.
🔹 Presence over performance
🔹 Progress over perfection
🔹 Questions to ask your wife and kids this weekend
📖 Scripture references:
Proverbs 22:6...2025-07-2510 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode. 23 — Labels, Lies & Legacy: Rewriting Your IdentityIn this heart-filled episode, Paul, Amber, and Joey open a letter to their children—and to anyone carrying false labels or wounds from their past. Through stories, scripture, and soul-deep reflections, they walk through how identity is not something you perform for… it’s something you receive from Christ.
🔑 Key Verse: Galatians 2:20
“My old self has been crucified with Christ… now Christ lives in me.”
✨ Highlights:
Why labels from your past don’t get the final word
How to break agreements with lies you believed
Writing a ne...2025-07-2329 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode 22 – The New You + Max Effort MindsetAre you still listening to the old voices of shame, fear, and comparison? Or are you stepping into the new identity Christ has given you?
In this episode, Paul and Joey open up about their personal journeys from old labels to God-given purpose. Inspired by 2 Corinthians 5:17, they challenge listeners to stop digging up what God already buried—and start leading from the truth of who He says they are.
They also introduce the "Max Effort Mindset," a call to action for men ready to stop coasting and start committing in key areas like faith, family, fi...2025-07-2107 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode 21 – Core Values: The Code That Forged Men Live ByFrom defining your personal code to modeling values for your family — this one is full of challenges and clarity.
👨👧👦 Topics covered:
• What core values are (and aren’t)
• How to define and live your code
• Aligning with your spouse in marriage
• Raising kids who see your values, not just hear them
• Modeling faith, gratitude, and integrity
• A powerful Max Effort Mindset segment
• Chapters 3–10 of Chop Wood Carry Water
• Plus: A heartfelt anniversary message from Paul to Amber ❤️
📖 Verse of the Week:
“Abov...2025-07-1635 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode 20 – Guard Your Heart: Becoming Your 2.0 SelfWhat flows from your life begins in your heart.
This week, Joey and Paul unpack Proverbs 4:23 – “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” From fatherhood to discipline, leadership to mindset, they walk through how your core values determine your direction, legacy, and inner peace.
🔑 Topics Covered:
Why your heart is the foundation of every choice
How to build a code you actually live by
Guarding your time, inputs, and energy
How Paul and Joey are living this out (Cory G...2025-07-1413 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode 19 – The 2.0 Man: Stop Drifting, Start DefiningWelcome to Brotherhood Forged! In this powerful episode, Paul and Joey kick off a new monthly series focused on Identity & Vision—helping men stop drifting and start defining who they are becoming.
This conversation unpacks:
Why most men don’t fail from lack of effort—but from lack of clarity
Six common traps men fall into (like isolation, perfectionism, and autopilot)
Tactical fixes to become a more intentional husband, father, and leader
How to write your own 2.0 Profile with vision and purpose
Lessons from Chapters 1 & 2 of Chop...2025-07-0931 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode 18 – You Don’t Know If You’ll Get Tomorrow, So Lead Like It’s TodayIn this reflective episode, Paul and Joey explore what it means to lead with urgency. Using recent tragedies—the Disney Cruise incident and Texas flood stories—they call us to wake up and live like today matters.
You’ll hear thoughts on:
The danger of drifting through life
Being spiritually ready at any moment
The importance of saying what needs to be said—before it’s too late
Psalm 90:12 and the wisdom of embracing the shortness of life
Today’s Call to Action:
Say “...2025-07-0709 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode 17 – Top 5 Lessons Every Man Should HearPaul and Joey are back — this time with Baby Theodore in tow — to share 5 powerful truths every man needs to live by.
From presence over performance to stepping boldly into your God-given purpose, this episode is packed with honest stories, tactical steps, and biblical insight.
Featured Verse: 2 Timothy 1:9
Topics Covered:
Fatherhood
Faith
Marriage
Legacy
Personal Discipline
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...2025-07-0242 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode 16 – A Father’s Heart: Loss, Hope, and the Light That FollowedIn this short but powerful Brotherhood Brief, Paul shares his story of walking through miscarriage, grief, and emotional withdrawal—and the hope and faith that followed. With his son set to arrive any moment, he reflects on the quiet work God was doing all along.
This episode includes:
A prayer for Paul and Amber
Reflections on Psalm 34:18
Candid insights about grief, numbness, and brotherhood
Letters to his daughters, encouraging them as they become big sisters
Real talk about how men cope with loss and how God...2025-06-3022 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode 15: Legacy, Loss & the Man I Choose to Become (Paul’s Story)This episode dives deep into Paul’s personal journey through childhood adversity, the loss of mentors and loved ones, and the strength he discovered through fatherhood, football, and faith.
Joey and Paul explore how pain shaped purpose—and how legacy is built one decision at a time.
📖 Featured Bible Verse: Isaiah 43:2
🧠 Themes: Identity, resilience, fatherhood, community, servant leadership
Challenge: Who are you becoming? Write it out. Speak your truth. Don’t let shame or fear stop you from leading.
🔁 Share this episode with a brother who need2025-06-2555 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode 14: Brotherhood Brief: Legacy, Loss, and the Man I Choose to BecomeIn this teaser episode, Paul shares what legacy means to him—from a foundation built by strong parents to his own moment of becoming a father. He and Joey talk about how legacy isn’t just about what you leave behind—it’s about how you live today. You’ll hear stories of family, failure, and the daily decision to become the man your children will remember.
➡️ Full conversation drops Wednesday.
➡️ If this resonates, follow, rate, and share the show.
Topics:
Faith, mindset, fatherhood, legacy, personal growth, men’s community, lea...2025-06-2315 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode 13: All About Joey’s Story – Cancer, Faith, Marriage & Transformation🎙️ Audio Podcast Description
In Episode 13, Joey reveals his true story, from early family struggles and emotional wounds to a life-changing battle with cancer and then into servant leadership. He dives into faith, scripture (2 Cor 5:17), and the anchor that held him steady through dark days. Learn how he overcame porn, shame, and pride. Hear his insights on marriage, fatherhood, mentorship, and the power of vulnerability.
Mentioned Resources:
•Jelly Roll (song)
•Outwitting the Devil by Napoleon Hill
•The Dad Edge Alliance
•Ed Mylett & Damon West, Dr. Nick Sotelo, Pa...2025-06-1853 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode 12 – Brotherhood Brief: Joey’s Story Sneak PeekIn this Brotherhood Brief, Joey shares his story of walking through cancer and how it shaped him into a servant leader. He opens up about letting go of control, finding faith in prayer, and discovering purpose in hardship.
Includes Matthew 20:26 (“Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant”).
Tune in to hear a preview of Episode 13 where Joey goes deeper into his cancer journey, including the moment he feared he might lose his arm.
🔗 Links from this episode:
Episode 13 next week – deeper dive into Joey’s journey
...2025-06-1610 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode 11: Part 2 – Cultivating Gratitude in Every SeasonIn this continuation of our gratitude series, we delve deeper into the transformative power of thankfulness in our daily lives. From personal anecdotes to practical exercises, discover how intentional gratitude can reshape your relationships, mindset, and spiritual journey.
Key Highlights:
The importance of expressing appreciation in relationships
Implementing gratitude anchors and visual reminders
Embracing gratitude during challenging times
Engaging in family practices like the photo-a-day challenge
Addressing common misconceptions about gratitude
Reflecting on personal growth and past experiences
Practical exercises to c...2025-06-1130 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode 10 – Are Your People Sharpening You or Softening You?In this special milestone episode, Joey and Paul reflect on their podcast journey so far and dive deep into what it means to choose the right people in your life. They discuss the power of real brotherhood, honest feedback, and how to evaluate your circle using Proverbs 27:17—“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”
This episode will challenge you to think about the people closest to you. Are they helping you grow or keeping you comfortable? Are they lifting you up or holding you back?
🎧 Listen, reflect, and share with someon...2025-06-0916 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode 9 – 1 of 2 Gratitude That Transforms: Mindset Shifts for Men of FaithIn Episode 9 of the Brotherhood Forged Podcast, Joey and Paul delve into the transformative power of gratitude. They share personal stories, practical exercises, and discuss how daily gratitude can shift your mindset, strengthen relationships, and deepen your faith. Reflecting on 1 Thessalonians 5:18, they explore how giving thanks in all circumstances is not just a command but a pathway to a more fulfilled life. Tune in to discover how embracing gratitude can forge a stronger brotherhood and a more resilient spirit.
📖 Bible Verse Mentioned:
“Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will f...2025-06-0430 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode 8: Authentic Brotherhood: Why Core Values Matter More Than Perfection (a Brotherhood Brief)Perfection is overrated.
In this short episode, Joey and Paul talk about the pressure to perform and look the part—and how it often distracts us from what really matters.
They break down why connection, integrity, and shared values beat age, background, or status.
You’ll hear:
• Why “just showing up” is better than doing it all perfectly
• How to stay authentic in every circle you’re in
• The real reason your values build stronger brotherhood
• A quick word on Urban Meyer and wh...2025-06-0209 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode 7 | Mindset Mistakes That Sabotage Your HomeYour mindset doesn’t just impact your work or workouts—it shapes your marriage, your parenting, and your home atmosphere.
In this episode, Joey and Paul uncover the silent mistakes men bring home without even realizing it. From short fuses and silent resentment to passivity and emotional absence, we share real stories, simple tools, and biblical truth to help you lead with strength, presence, and grace.
🧠 Learn how to respond instead of react
💬 Build communication through connection
📖 Lean into spiritual anchors like Proverbs 27:17 and Philippians 4:13
🙏 Become the grounde...2025-05-2839 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode 6: Brotherhood Brief. Iron Sharpens Iron: Who’s Making You Better? | Proverbs 27:17“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” — Proverbs 27:17
This short Brotherhood Brief dives deep into the heart of real brotherhood and accountability. Joey and Paul share personal stories of friendship, faith, and challenge—reminding men everywhere that real growth doesn’t happen alone.
In this episode:
• Why Proverbs 27:17 is the foundation of Brotherhood Forged
• Stories of sharpening through faith, marriage, and real friendship
• Why showing up matters more than being perfect
• A call to be the man who sharpens others, not dulls them
•...2025-05-2614 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode 5: Who You Marry Means Everything | Faith-Based Marriage Talk with Joey, Paul & AmberJoey, Paul, and Amber get real about marriage — the challenges, the beauty, and the impact it has on generations. They share lessons from nearly 33 years of marriage, parenting through faith, and why God must be at the center of it all.
This episode is part encouragement, part letter to their children, and 100% grounded in truth, love, and real-life experiences. If you’re married, preparing to be, or need hope for your relationship, listen in.
📖 Bible Focus: 1 Corinthians 13:4–7
🎙️ Hosts: Joey Koontz, Paul Bengel
👩 Guest: Amber Bengel
Send in your questions: brotherhoodforged...2025-05-2137 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode 4 – Mindset Shift Part 1: What’s Holding You Back?We’re kicking off a raw 3-part series on mindset. In this episode, Joey and Paul talk about how mindset affects every part of your life—your faith, relationships, leadership, and future.
We unpack:
What shaped our mindset growing up
When fear held us back
The difference between growth and fixed mindset (Carol Dweck)
Why encouragement from a parent can shape a lifetime
Why faith, identity, and daily renewal matter
Mindset by Carol S. Dweck: https://amzn.to/3VvC5hB
Can...2025-05-1436 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode 3: Building Stronger Marriages: Lessons Learned and Mistakes MadeIn Episode 3 of Brotherhood Forged, Joey and Paul get real about the ups and downs of marriage — what they’ve learned, what they’ve done wrong, and how God’s design continues to shape their relationships.
From overcoming bad habits to learning how to lead with love, they unpack key misconceptions and offer Biblical encouragement rooted in Ephesians 5:25 — “Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church.”
If you’re a husband striving to be better, this one’s for you.
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Key Topics Covered:
Common marriage misconceptions that hold men back
Why...2025-05-0730 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode 2: From Pain to Purpose: Stories of Growth and BrotherhoodBehind every man are battles nobody sees.
In this episode, Paul and Joey open up about painful experiences that shaped them into the men they are today. From family struggles to tragic loss, they talk about real growth, real lessons, and the power of brotherhood, faith, and perseverance.
You’ll hear about:
How silent battles can define your leadership and character
Why relationships are too precious to take for granted
How faith and brotherhood helped them rise above adversity
Core lessons that helped shap...2025-04-3033 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JEpisode 1. Why We Started: From Bus Conversations to Brotherhood ForgedIn our very first episode, we go back to where it all began—two strangers on a bus in St. Louis who became brothers through faith, fatherhood, and a shared mission to serve.
We talk about:
Why this podcast exists
What brotherhood means to us
The power of stepping out of your comfort zone
Our backgrounds, our families, and our faith
How mentorship and community changed our lives
This episode is raw, unscripted, and honest—just two guys chasing growth, learning out loud, and s...2025-04-2124 minBrotherhood Forged with PB & JBrotherhood Forged! The Trailer.Welcome to Brotherhood Forged
A faith-driven podcast hosted by Joey Koontz and Paul Bengel.
We talk real life—marriage, faith, leadership, addiction, purpose—and what it takes to lead as men of God in today’s world.
Expect raw conversations, biblical truth, and a brotherhood that sharpens and strengthens.
We’re not perfect. But we’re committed.
🎙️ New episodes weekly
🛠️ Subscribe, like, and join the tribe
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