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I'm not gay, you areExploring Identity Through Science: Featuring TomMessage Joey!Ever found yourself questioning the roots of your identity? In our latest episode, we dive deep into the thought-provoking intersection of genetics and sexual orientation with Tom, a molecular genetics expert. From childhood crushes to the science of ‘gay genes’, Tom shares his personal narrative, offering a unique lens through which to examine the nature vs. nurture debate. We unravel how individual experiences shape our identities against the backdrop of evolving scientific understanding. Throughout our conversation, we tackle profound questions about the genetics of queerness, touching on studies involving twins and the implications of designer babi...
2025-03-0547 minI'm not gay, you areEmbracing Bisexual Identity: Featuring KaitlynMessage Joey!Imagine navigating the choppy waters of self-identity, where understanding your own sexuality feels like a puzzle with missing pieces. Kaitlyn, a treasured friend of mine and my partner's best friend, joins us to share her poignant journey of self-discovery as a bisexual woman. At just 18, she faced the daunting task of figuring out her attraction to both sexes and the societal norms that clouded her understanding of the future. Through Kaitlyn's heartfelt narrative, we unpack the challenges and triumphs of embracing one's true self, illustrating how curiosity and courage can transform confusion into clarity.
2025-02-0646 minI'm not gay, you areHumour and Healing on the Path to Self-Discovery: Featuring The Chill TherapistMessage Joey!What if the internal battles we fight daily are as insidious as external judgments? Join me, Joey, as I share my own unvarnished journey of coming out and the complex emotions that accompanied it on "I'm Not Gay, You Are." With Krisztina, the Chill Therapist, guiding our conversation, we address the fragmented path to self-acceptance, the spectrum of internalized homophobia, and the role humour plays as Joey's defense mechanism against fear and self-loathing. By giving a persona to his shame—"Helga"—we explore how labeling impacts identity and expression.Our conversation takes a deep...
2025-01-2254 minI'm not gay, you areQueer Connections and the Art of Open Relationships: Featuring CallumMessage Joey!Callum, affectionately known as "Tiny Daddy," joins us for an eye-opening conversation about identity, love, and the journey to personal authenticity. His unique nickname, birthed from a creative project during art school, intertwines his passions for writing and drag, becoming an integral part of his identity. Callum shares his early awareness of his sexuality and the supportive environment that nurtured his understanding of being gay, despite the challenges of relocating to a conservative town. His story is one of resilience, creativity, and the power of self-expression.Our conversation takes an engaging turn as...
2025-01-0952 minI'm not gay, you areRedefining Norms in a New World: Featuring PaulMessage Joey!What if a chance encounter at a bar could change your life forever? We welcome Paul Sansom, our delightful guest from the Shetland Islands, who shares their extraordinary love story with his partner, Eloi, spanning from Edinburgh to Vancouver. From unforgettable meetings at iconic bars to heartwarming tales of connection, Paul recounts the serendipitous moments that defined their relationship. As they adjusts to a new life in Canada, Paul provides us with a glimpse into his personal adventures and the charm of navigating love across continents.Paul’s journey of coming out and se...
2024-12-1846 minI'm not gay, you areI kissed a girl, and I liked it: Featuring BrileyMessage Joey!Ever wondered how a simple invitation for a beer could spark a lifelong friendship? Tune in as we chat with my best friend Briley about the unexpected ways our bond was forged amidst the hustle and bustle of the service industry. From late-night happy hours to heart-to-hearts over spin classes, our story is one of spontaneous connections and shared vulnerabilities. Whether it was trauma-dumping over drinks or cheering each other on during Spinco auditions, our friendship has been a journey of support and mutual growth.Join us on a path of self-discovery as...
2024-11-0639 minI'm not gay, you areUnraveling the Queer Dating Scene: Featuring JacksonMessage Joey!Growing up in a conservative city like Edmonton isn't easy when you're trying to find your true self, especially if you're part of the LGBTQ+ community. Jackson joins us to share his inspiring story of self-discovery and resilience. Listen as we travel back to Jackson's first childhood crush at a preschool birthday party and explore the pivotal moment in ninth grade when he decided to come out. Jackson's journey is filled with challenges, but it's also a testament to the power of embracing one's identity even when the surrounding environment isn't always accepting....
2024-10-1651 minI'm not gay, you areThe Power of Queer Representation in MediaMessage Joey!Can a TV show really shape your identity or change how you see the world? Join me, Joey, as I explore this provocative question through the lens of queer representation in media, focusing on the heartwarming and sometimes idealized world of Nick and Charlie from Netflix's Heartstopper. This episode is a heartfelt reflection on my own high school years, marked by a longing for the kind of acceptance and support that these fictional stories portray. As I navigate the emotional landscape of nostalgia and bittersweet realizations, we take a closer look at how these narratives...
2024-10-0926 minI'm not gay, you areFinding Community and Self-Acceptance: Featuring BrandonMessage Joey!Have you ever wondered how early childhood experiences shape our understanding of identity? Join me and my good friend Brandon as we reminisce about his journey of self-discovery, starting from grade two when he first began to realize his sexuality. Listen as Brandon recounts his poignant and often hilarious story of coming out to his family in grade 10, supported by his best friend. We dive deep into the complexities of growing up in environments that often don’t align with our true selves, from strained father-son dynamics to the role of traditionally masculine activities in sh...
2024-10-0236 minI'm not gay, you areMy Journey from Secrecy to Self-AcceptanceMessage Joey!What if the friends you made in childhood subtly influenced the person you would become? Join me, Joey, as I share my deeply personal journey to understanding and embracing my sexuality. From my early years surrounded by female friends to my conscious avoidance of traditionally masculine spaces, the path to self-discovery has been anything but straightforward. This episode digs into the age-old debate of nature versus nurture, offering my thoughts and inviting you to reflect on your own experiences. Through honest reflections, I hope to shed light on the unique struggles and triumphs faced in...
2024-09-2732 minI'm not gay, you areEmbracing Queer Identity: Overcoming Internalized HomophobiaMessage Joey!Have you ever been bullied for just being yourself? On the premiere episode of "I'm Not Gay, You Are," I open up about my personal battles with coming out and the internalized homophobia I faced during my school years. Through stories of my own struggles and triumphs, this episode is all about celebrating who we truly are and offering support to those in the LGBTQ+ community, alongside their allies. We’ll weave in humor and lightheartedness to tackle these heavy subjects, ensuring everyone feels seen and understood.We venture into the heart of re...
2024-09-1715 min