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In The Trenches with the ToulonsSEX THERAPY with The Dope Sex Therapist StephanieWe are back for another episode with The Dope Sex Therapist. In this episode you will hear us discuss: Open Relationship Threesomes Polyamory Kink/Fetish Arousal Gels Tantra *NOTES* If you would like to know more about the Wives/Girlfriend Retreat in Jamaica 2020 with The Dope Sex Therapist & The Wife coach, head over to @TheDopeSexTherapist on Instagram. Want some of that AROUSAL GEL mentioned in this episode. Hit up @TheDopeSexTherapist on IG to get that 20% discount with her Passion Party Rep. THE DOPE SEX THERAPIST INFO: Instagram - @thedopesextherapist Wesbite...2019-11-1545 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP81 - "Divorced & Blended"A blend is a mixture of two or more different things or substances; e.g., a product of a mixer or blender. But what about when you blend families, what does that look like? Blending families is quite the task and many struggle with finding that happy medium. In this episode, Ralph and Touly jump into the Trenches with Joel Hawbaker. Joel has quite the story as he has mastered blended families. He discusses things, such as having grace towards your ex and its okay to disagree as whole as long as you all are respectful. 2019-11-111h 09
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP80 - "The Epitome of "A 2016 study published in the Journal of Research in Personality found that people who felt a sense of purpose accumulated more wealth than those who feel as though their lives lack meaning. The researchers discovered that individuals with a sense of purpose have a higher income and a bigger net worth than those who feel as though their lives lack meaning. Even when they controlled for known factors that predict financial success--like demographics and personality--they found a sense of purpose made a big difference in a person's financial life. The researchers suspect people who feel their lives have meaning are goal...2019-11-041h 04
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP79 - "Building Wealth with Freeman Capital"Wealth is the abundance of valuable financial assets or physical possessions which can be converted into a form that can be used for transactions. In today's society, if you possess a substantial net worth you are considered wealthy. Net worth is defined as the current value of one's assets. So what does it take to be wealthy or have a substantial net worth? Why does the African American community struggle more than other communities? According to The Road to Zero Wealth report published by Prosperity Now and the Institute for Policy Studies, the median wealth of black Americans will fall to...2019-10-281h 03
In The Trenches with the ToulonsSEX THERAPY with The Dope Sex Therapist Stephanie The Toulons pulling back the veil on another top reason for why people are getting divorce or breaking up, and that reason is sex. Yes SEX! Jumping into the Trenches with the Toulons is friend to the podcast, Dope Sex Therapist Stephanie Walthour. She discuss Low Sexual Desires, Frequency, Erectile dysfunction, and Sex “ Addiction”. Sex Therapy allows couples to communicate about sex with each other without being judged or fear that things will not be handle fairly. Key Takeaways From Episode: Communication is still the best policy when it comes to relationship, especially talking about our wants and needs in the bedroom...2019-10-2437 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP78 - "Through Sickness" Guest Starring Artisha "Tee" BoldingA near-death experience (NDE) is a personal experience associated with death or impending death. These experiences are associated with changes in personality and outlook on life. Dr. Kenneth Ring (Professor of Psychology), during his studies, identified a consistent set of value and belief changes associated with people who have had a near-death experience. Among these changes, he found that individuals have a greater appreciation for life, higher self-esteem, greater compassion for others, a heightened sense of purpose and self-understanding, elevated spirituality, and a feeling of being more intuitive. In this episode, Ralph and Touly jump into the Trenches with Art...2019-10-2159 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP77 - "Alice in Fairytale" TRENCH LETTERWe were brought up believing in fairy tales where Prince Charming comes in to sweep the heroine off her feet, whisking her away to be married. Growing up we would imitate playing husband & wife, with children, a dog, and a white picket fence. For women, some were probably told that they needed a man to complete them. Unfortunately, real life isn't a fairy tale, but many women don't know that until they begin dating. This week in the Trenches, Ralph and Touly welcome a guest who doesn't want to be identified, but you can refer to her as Alice. Alic...2019-10-141h 02
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP76 - "Pieces of Me" ft Author Davisha Fredericks**AUDIO DISCLAIMER** although this isn't our normal audio quality, we still believe this is a story that the world should hear. Our apologies in advance. As this is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we wanted to provide the Trench Mob with a story based around that very topic. This week in The Trenches, Ralph and Touly welcome guest, Davisha Fredericks. Through her personal story of growth and triumph, listeners will gain an inside glance at not only how Davisha endured the abuse, but also how, over the course of 15 years, she gained the strength and faith to turn t...2019-10-0753 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP75 - "One More Sign, God"his week in the Trenches we have Mrs. Kenyana Yates, the Deaconess herself. Kenyana discusses how not listening to God will force you to learn the hard way. She talks about how some of her judgement in her first marriage was clouded by her tenacious mentality & fear of failure. She then takes us on the journey from being a divorced, single mother to becoming a wife for a second time. Key points from this episode: - Pay attention to the red flags - Be true to who you are as a person ...2019-10-011h 12
In The Trenches with the Toulons**Bonus Ep** Humphreys at PM19What's up Trench Mob! This Monday we bring to you a Trenches BONUS episode that was recorded during Podcast Movement Orlando back in August. We had the pleasure of meeting this amazing couple from Houston, Sharita & Quincy Humphrey. Within 5 minutes of conversing with Sharita and Quincy, we instantly knew we wanted them in the Trenches with us. We were able to record, and although it was shorter than our normal episodes, it provided the same impact. Key points from Episode Twitter is a #1 source to get a companies attention...PERIOD! Quincy stated that the head requires a nec...2019-09-3026 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP74 - "Dolo Dates For Starters"Jumping into the Trenches this week is expert Dolo Dater and Creator of the "For Starters" App, Jennifer Smith. Network Jenn, as she is known on Instagram, discusses the reason behind why she created the app in the first place. Jennifer also talks about why people struggle to date these days and what does it mean to dolo date. Jennifer brought up the fact that individuals need take the time to enjoy being single. She also mentioned being intentional about improving herself and what her expectations are within a relationship. ForStarters App: 2019-09-2353 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP73 - "Are you whole?" ft. Cherie DeniseJumping into the Trenches with The Toulons this week is a special guest by the name of Cherie Denise. Cherie is an author, life coach, and motivational speaker, currently residing in Atlanta,GA. Cherie discusses being whole, common issues within relationships, and how communication is still the #1 way to create a connection when it comes to relationships. Cherie's also discusses her first book, titled, "Treasures Revealed: Insight on Communication & Relationships." She carefully illustrates personal heartfelt insight on bridging the gap between communication and relationships. Treasures Revealed is built on faith and how it correlates to the power o...2019-09-1654 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP72 - "Doc n da Trenches" ft Dr. Kendell JasperOn this week's episode, The Toulons welcome Dr. Kendell Jasper from Doc n da Dude into the Trenches. Dr. Jasper has been a featured guest on The Breakfast Club radio show and Sway's Universe Youtube Channel. Dr. Jasper was not able to join us with his lovely wife, but he still took us through some of their love journey. Dr. jasper discusses infidelity, growing in communication, being 90% transparent, and being your unapologetic self. Finally, Dr. Jasper wrapped it up with some really good, sound advice to ponder on when it comes to marriage/relationships. Please check out D...2019-09-091h 09
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP71 - "Sucka for Love" ft Fred WhitOn this episode of In the Trenches with the Toulons, the Toulons welcome a very special guest. This gentlemen is King Sucka of SFL Club (Suckas for Love). On this episode you will hear him discuss his journey of heart break, breaking hearts, growing from mistakes, and his expectations now that he knows what he needs.2019-09-0253 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP70 - "Our 2nd Yr Wedding Anniversary"Happy Anniversary to US!! The Toulons made it to their 2 Year Anniversary and discuss the journey of getting here. The Good,Bad, ugly cry, progress and growth all revealed in this episode. DISCLAIMER: I hereby declare that I do not own the rights to this music/song "Is this love". All rights belong to the owner. No Copyright Infringement Intended.2019-08-2648 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP69- "Change Came" Update EpisodeThe Toulons have a returning guess back in the Trenches. Trench Mob Member, "Dee" from episode 51 "Change Gone Come". Dee returns to give us an update on what happened and how things are going now. Don't forget to tell a friend, Subscribe, rate and comment!!!!2019-08-1947 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP68 - "Traffic Jam"Trench Topic this week was relationship traffic jams. That recurring issue that keeps coming up in your relationship can cause the end to your relationship if not corrected. The Toulons talk about a traffic jam they have had for a while in their marriage.2019-08-1242 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP67 - "Back seat"Trench Topic this week, the Toulons discuss the impact of losing your children at the hands of your spouse. Topic was taken from the New York father, who forgot about his 1 year old twins in the back seat of the car for 8 hours.2019-08-0549 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP66 - "The Kiss heard around the world" The Toulons discuss this weeks Trench Topic of the recent scandal of Lela Rochon, Antoine Fuqua, and Nicole Murphy. People via the internet are stating that Antoine is justified in cheating because Lela has gained a lot of weight. Should this be a reason to cheat? Also we Celebrate Ralph's Birthday!!!! 2019-07-2950 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP65 - "On one accord"Being one with your spouse doesn't mean you will always be on one accord. The Toulons express the wonderful feeling of being on one accord has been now for their marriage and some of the tougher situations when they weren't. 2019-07-2246 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP64 - "Marriage is meant for growth, not happiness"Trench Topic came from the article, "Marriage Is Not Meant to Make You Happy, Its Meant To Make You Conscious" by Brianna Wiest. Hopefully this gave you a different view on marriage and what it could really do for an individual, not just the couple. Paternity Ward will drop 7/17 (Touly's BIRTHDAY) after approval from the proper authorities, lol 2019-07-1551 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP63 - "Family Matters"Hello Trench Family!!! This week we are trying out a new format for the show. TRENCH TOPICs...and this week is our relationships with in-laws. How would you handle not having the good relationship with your spouse family or a member of their family? Great podcast to add: "Where Did I Park?" by CP. CP is unloading some things off his brain that can be sad, funny, and interesting. Check him out! We have been enjoying every episode and had to share. Also look out for "Paternity Ward" Podcast from the Toulon Network, dropping their...2019-07-081h 06
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP62 - "Fighting Temptations"This weeks episode, we discuss temptation and how we have dealt with it currently and in the past. The lessons we have learned and why fallen to temptation isn't even an options in our marriage.2019-07-0144 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP61 - "Expectation vs Reality"Welcome back to the Trenches, this week the Toulons cup is runth over. They look at what their expectations were previous in dating/relationship & marriage to what they really got in reality. Also they check in to what some of their challenges, breakthroughs and in-progress situations they had this week. Lastly, update the Trench Mob on how becoming DEBT Free is coming. www.daveramsy.com for any of the information on the baby steps/debt free path spoke about in this episode.2019-06-241h 15
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP60 - "Happy Father's Day!!"Happy Father's Day to all the Fathers out there from the Trenches. This episode, Touly takes us on the journey on how it has been for him as a father. The transformations he made and had to make. Look out for Touly's new podcast with a couple of his, DAD FRIENDS....Paternity Ward, parenting view point from the black dad.2019-06-1747 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP59- "The Step Family"This episode the Toulons address the "Step-parent" relationship that are currently trying to develop and they have experienced. JT & Ralph also reveal more of the Challenges, Break-throughs and In-progress this week.2019-06-1055 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP58 - "Walking in your spouse shoes"In the Trenches this week, JT expresses how he is doing in his new role in the family. How the impact of changing roles has been on him, the children and Ralph.Continue the journey with the Toulons each week just to see the growth in them and in the marriage. 2019-06-0353 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP57 - "Challenges, Break thrus and in Progress"The Toulons are spilling it all talking about some of the hurdles they have been going through. This week there were no setbacks but they wanted to talk about some of the Challenges they faces, break throughs and things they still need to work on. 2019-05-2851 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP56 - "Everyone is Insecure"Finally we are back!!! Hope you missed us as much as we missed you :). This episode from the trenches was brought to you by social media. Social media went crazy after Ayesha Curry confessed to being insecure about no one in the DMs and we wanted to touch on that. Revealing insecure to each other and our TrenchMob through laughter. 2019-05-2844 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP55 - "Mothers do it ALL!"This short little visit to the Trenches this week, we celebrate Mothers Day by going through a list of things that Mothers may deal with. Please remember to tell a friend and Subscribe, Rate and Comment. Always, thank you for your support..and Until next time2019-05-1336 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP54 - "Grace..enough or not enough"Jump into the Trenches with us this week as we discuss Grace in the car through the rain going back to Atlanta. Having too much of it, not having enough and the impact of either on a relationship/marriage. Congrats to Mr. & Mrs. Skinner who jumped the broom on 5/4...We welcome you to the Trenches!!! Don't forget to spread the word and tell your friend, family and enemies :) Subscribe, Rate and Comment.2019-05-0652 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEp53 - "Im Okay"In the Trenches we welcome the Total Package Alpha Female, Author Chanel Tucker. Chanel jumps into the trenches to talk about her new book, "I'm Okay" a millennial journey of frustrations, generational blessings and the reality of understanding fate. As well, Chanel discuss her personal dating journey as an alpha female. Chanel personal ig - @chaneltu book info - "Im Okay" www.yeahimokaybook.com Book ig - @imokay_chanel Join us every Monday for the newest episode. Subscribe, Rate and Comment. Don't forget to tell a friend.2019-04-291h 04
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP52 - "Happy Birthday Trench Podcast"Our baby is turning 1 this week!!!!!! The Toulons talk about the journey of starting a podcast and what they have learned from the guest on the show. Hit us up with what you have taken away from the podcast and maybe what you would like to see in going into the next year of our journey. Dont forget to tell a friend to join the Trench Mob, Subscribe, Rate and Comment.2019-04-221h 00
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP51 - "A Change gon come"This week have another first, Dee is a married but telling his journey solo because he is currently go through a divorce. Dee is hurting and hoping that his current situation will help someone before its too late. Taking us through two marriages, the hurdles of the current marriage, stress of the load of life taking him to a low place, turning it all to God, and how going to counseling may help him save his marriage.....to be continued. Please check out Dee professionally on instagram at @tripleakustom Don't forget to tell a...2019-04-151h 26
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP50 - "Boys in the same circle"For our 50th episode, we celebrate with my messy web of mess..lol In the Trenches this week, Ralph takes us on a very messy journey of what she went through before meeting Touly and a little after meeting Touly. From the drama of long distance lovers, cheating, small franks, and more. How this tiring journey brought her to the alter of asking God to not send anyone else her way unless they were for her...Enters Touly..lol If you like what you heard today, tell a friend. Subscribe, Rate and Comments...2019-04-081h 29
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP49 - "Be true to yourself"Already in the Trenches, Touly gives his testimony of his life before Ralph. Touly take us on the journey of how trying to do the right thing can go so wrong. How not staying true to yourself, listening to loved one, and taking time for yourself can end very badly for all parties involved. Touly tells of the lessons he has learned and in hopes that hearings his story, you too will not go down the same path he did. if you aren't already, follow us on @inthetrenchespodcast on IG2019-04-011h 07
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP48 - "The party over?" Part 2The episodes comes to an end with Ralph telling us how at the end of it all, he wouldn't change anything if he had to do it over again. That anyone in his position, wanting to get married but its been a long road, get to really know self. You may feel like damaged good, but the dented cans get bought too. Don't focus on being damaged, but being better. Hope you enjoyed this episode, please share, rate, subscribe and comment. We love hearing from you all, so connect via all our platforms. Until next t...2019-03-2538 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP47 - "The party over?" Part 1Jumping into the Trenches with the Toulons is special guest and father, Ralph. Yes big Ralph, lol. Part 1 of this episode, Big Ralph talks about what it was like dating while being a basketball player, musician, and dj, outlook on dating then and the start of having children. Stay tuned to see if the party is really over in part 22019-03-181h 10
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP46 - "Its okay to be manfident & have the wifementor"Jumping into the Trenches with the Toulons this week is married therapists, Dr. Jameson Mercier and Herdyne Mercier. Together 15years and married 12, these two are making it a point to help you grow. You will hear their journey to the jumping the broom, starting Mercier Wellness and Consulting, and their branding. You can find them at: Podcast - The Couples Counsel on all podcast platforms website -http://mercierwellness.com facebook - https://www.facebook.com/DrJamesonMercier Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCMwNs4gy3jW-t6hCX58De_w...2019-03-111h 05
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP45 - "Beautiful & Broken....until"This episode, we have another author joining us in the trenches by the name of Sean L Brereton. Sean is a christian author that writes about relationships, dating, and preparing yourself for marriage. His background makes him an ideal person to have in the trenches. Sean talks to us about how one really bad break up lead him to write one of his books. He discusses how he began backsliding when it came to courting. He also explains how he recovered from that situation in order to prepare for his engagement & soon to be marriage. Y...2019-03-0552 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP44 - "3 Grown women & a story to tell"The Toulons welcome Jamie, Ashley and Olivia into the Trenches with them this week. The three women kept it real and didn't hold anything back. The ladies gave their perspective on growth from past relationships, views on marriage and of course sex. If you like this episode, please share and subscribe to the show on all podcast platforms.2019-02-251h 11
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP43- "Her pleasure..with or without you"Jumping into the trenches with the Toulons this week with the owner of "HerPleasure" Shop, an online sex toy line, Mrs. Iyana M. Mrs. Iyana is letting the men and especially the women know that its okay to brings toys into the bedroom. She enlightens us on some of the sex toys in her line, good ways to approach bringing toys into the bedroom and also shares her personal experiences with sex toys. Married or single, at the end of the day, you need to be satisfied! If you aren't comfortable telling your partner or spouse what you want...2019-02-1841 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP42 - "Hold the shackles..more poly please!"In this episode, the Toulons have Kenya and Carl Stevens of JuJu Mama, LLC joining them. The Stevens shared their journey going from monogamy, to poly, to open-relating. They discuss how they have built an empire on helping other couples get what they really want out of their relationships. This power couple may have you second guessing if the shackles of monogamy is really for you. Please check them and their love academy out: jla.jujumama.com facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kenya.stevens/ https://www.facebook.com/rakhem/ ht...2019-02-1148 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP41 - "Music Love Jones" with Suzann ChristineJumping into the Trenches with the Toulons this week is recording artist, Suzann Christine. Suzann takes us on a journey to what dating has been like in the industry for her, love lessons, breaking ties to heal and leaves us with a little advice for our single friends who feel it should be them NOW!! Please check out and support Suzann Christine newest single, "Fallen Tears". Snippets of the song were played in this episode but you can listen to the full length on Apple Music, Spotify, Stitcher, Tidal, SoundCloud, GooglePlay, Amazon Music, Apple Itunes and Youtube.2019-02-0452 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP40 - "Radical Honesty" with Jerry_The3rdThis episode we have fellow podcaster, Jerry Thompson jumping into the Trenches with us. Jerry shares communication, ambition, and a little dominance can take you a long way in his book. We even get a little dirty and find out the best place he has ever had sex. Check Jerry and his podcast out: IG @Jerry_the3rd Podcast IG @pointnoirshow ---->Every Tuesday and podcast platforms iTunes, Stitcher, GooglePlay, & Spotify.2019-01-2855 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP39 - "Petty @ 1:37am might work"We continue with "Men speak out Mondays" with Stan and Tee. We get down and dirty in the Trenches about what men think and want from females. You can check these guys out here! Tee - @TechnicallyTee on YouTube, IG and Twitter Stan - www.gobloom.com and @Stangotdamn on IG2019-01-211h 11
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP38 - "She cant handle the TRUTH" with Ariston TeleoThe Toulons sit down with Author, Ariston Teleo to discuss his book "SHE CANT HANDLE THE TRUTH....But its all I can give. The questions women wanted answered and Im not holding back". The Toulons went into deep discuss on some chapters in the book to pick Ariston's brain to get more explanation on why the chapter and reasoning for what he said. You can connect with Ariston here: @KC_Aaron32 on instagram www.artisonteleo.com Book:https://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss_1?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=ariston+teleo 2019-01-141h 20
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP37 - "New year, new relationship??"Happy New Year to everyone!!! Starting off 2019, The Toulons took a topic from an article, where Nikki Marinis talked about "healthy relationships" for the new year. In this conversation, the Toulons realize that still focusing on what you can change is#1 and communication. Enjoy and don't forget to subscribe if haven't already. Check us out @socialbutterflyphotobooth on ig2019-01-071h 03
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP36 - "The boy, the man and the family man" Pt3In the final episode with Evan, he rehashed how the divorce with his 2nd wife got ugly, petty, and how going back to jail was starting to look good again. Evan admits that in all his truths he isn't pointing the finger at any one person, because he too has played much of a part in the downfall of his marriages. Evan hopes that people will learn how to ask the right questions before getting married, in hopes to have the potential person reveal them true selves. Everyone be safe during this holiday season, please no drinking...2018-12-2434 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP35 - "The boy, the man, and the family man" Pt. 2Evan continues his journey in the trenches, as he tells us how the first marriage comes to an end. Evan is no longer the boy trying to figure it all out, become a man and be the family man. Evan is now the man and the family man but no longer in a marriage where he felt he had to be. Please remember to subscribe, rate, and comment. Follow us on instagram @inthetrenchespodcast2018-12-171h 06
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP34 - "The boy, the man and the family man" Part 1Join us on this three episode journey as we sit down with Evan, Touly's father. Evan gives his side of what it was like transitioning roles quickly in his personal life and career. The impact of the first and second marriage on him and what it is to date now. Hope you enjoy this episode, please tell a friend and subscribe - to never miss an opportunity to jump into the trenches with the Toulo2018-12-1154 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP33 - "Man Feelings"This episode, Touly talks about how NOT talking about personal issues causes MORE problems than none. Why he didn't want to share his personal feelings with Ralph, things taught growing up as to how men operate, and incorporating what he knows now into his marriage. Please share if you like what you hear, subscribe, rate and comments. We welcome all feedback, so hit us up at trenchespodcast@gmail.com2018-12-0354 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP32 - "Naked Bedtime & Sex for money"The Toulons discuss the results of sleeping naked and thoughts on men being the sole spender. What is too much, going to far and being ungrateful when it comes to the man paying for everything in "dating". Thank you for @i_am_jperry on instagram for the video, it really did work!! Subscribe, Rate and Comment!!2018-11-2650 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP31 - "Giving Thanks"This turkey inspired episode, the Toulons give thanks for each other and play 21 Questions. Please Trench Family be safe this holiday with traveling and fellowshiping. Have a Happy Thanksgiving and let us all pray that this year, for me, the xmas music will not start on November 23rd. Subscribe if you haven't, unless you want your 2019 to be terrible. Like any of the episodes? Or if you just love us, please comment and rate. 2018-11-191h 00
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP30 - "A Self Aware Marriage"Jumping into the Trenches this episode is married couple, Marissa and Gerard. Married for 14 years, these two show that being more self aware and in tuned to your partner can make for a happily ever after. We discuss making yourself happy, putting yourself before the kids, as well as knowing what battles to fight. Please check out Gerard's podcast - "The Board Meeting" http://www.themakingsofaman.com/category/podcast/ Books Mentioned this episode: 1.The Making of a Man by Jabari Price, Michael Holoman & Gerard Droze https://www.amazon.com/M...2018-11-131h 03
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP29 - "Be your Color & have fun"The Toulons welcome Marcel to the trenches this week and Marcel takes them on the journey of being a young, single black Queer man in DC. In this episode you will hear us talk about not catching feelings for the unstable, new generation mental disorders, racism in the community, and some advice for other singles. Look out for Marcel's podcast coming this February, "Colored Pages Book Club" 2018-11-051h 07
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP28 - "Just try it out...9 to 930" (Therapist Stephanie)This week, the Toulons sit down with Therapist Stephanie D Walthour. Stephanie is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, as well as a certified Sex Therapist. In this episode we discuss what therapy is and why its beneficial to go. In addition, reasons why a person would need a sex therapist and being a partner & not a parent to your spouse. You can contact Stephanie at www.intimacycenterga.com, @imtimacytherapyga on instagram and facebook. Mentioned in this episode: Love on Top - Married couples trip to Jamaica http://loveontop.nxleveltravel.com "His needs, her ne...2018-10-291h 10
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP27 - "Don't hold that sh*t in!!"In this episode, the Toulons discuss expressing themselves within their marriage, showing where improvements can & have been made. They encourage everyone to express themselves, regardless of what the outcome may be. -Feedback is welcomed -Don't forget to submit for single of the week -Subscribe if you haven't already, rate comment and tell a friend. 2018-10-221h 03
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP26 - "Two mommies and a homemade baby"Are we just having sex or are we going to be in a relationship?? Jumping into the Trenches this week, Nyesha and Samantha took us on the journey of how this conversation went, and what happened afterwards. From moving in after 5months, seizures, family rejection, conceiving a baby, seeing the light and starting their own podcast. Hey Trench Nation!! If you enjoyed this episode, please tell a friend. Also don't forget to subscribe, rate and comment. 2018-10-151h 08
In The Trenches with the Toulons*Bonus* In the Trenches at the Nicholas HouseBonus episode just to give an update how our experience went with the "Sleep out 4 a night in support of homeless families" event went. The Nicholas House in Atlanta, Ga every years does a fundraiser and Sleep out for one night to raise funds. All of it is in support of getting and keeping families from being homeless. This started out, just a volunteer event, but it turned out to be so much more to us. Thank you again to everyone who Donated and help us exceed our goal. Love you all Trench Family!2018-10-0834 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP25 - "I aint..He, She, Them!"THE BIG 2...5!!! We getting grown, lol. In this episode the Toulons touch on a subject that will kill any relationship because no good can come from it, COMPARING. We all have done it, and if you haven't, DONT! The Toulons discussed comparing sexually, emotionally, and environmentally. At the end of the day, be happy with who and what you have, and if you aren't, work on it until you are. Don't think the grass is greener because of what you see, because you don't know what happens behind closed doors.2018-10-081h 06
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP24 - "Just F*&#ing Chill"In this very fun episode, The Toulons sit with Justin & Gin and listen to how its been smooth sailing since day 1. From Justin being the hilarious asshole to Gina being sweet as pie, you can see how the two balance each other and make it all work. "You just gotta f*&#ing chill man", as Justin stated. Some advise the couple gave, was to be friends, don't take everything so serious and just take it one day at a time. Hope you enjoyed this episode. Don't forget to tell a friend, subscribe, rate and comment. A...2018-10-011h 06
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP23 - "Blame the parents"In this episode, Touly & Ralph discuss what their parents may have inadvertently taught them about stress, spending and communicating. The couple talk about how these factors has manifest themself in their lives and the impact. Enjoyed the episode??? Please tell a friend, and don’t forget to subscribe, rate and comment. You can listen every Monday and any of the podcast platforms.2018-09-241h 03
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP22 - "Look in the Mirror & Prepare"Jaired & Britney jumped into the trenches with the Toulons all the way from the D, Detroit that is. This young couple celebrated the eve of their 3 year anniversary telling us why self reflection, individual therapy and putting in the work has them coasting through marriage right now. The couple provided two books that they read in preparation for a successful relationship/marriage, "Things I'd Wish I'd known Before We Got Married" and "The 5 Love Languages" by Gary Chapman. If you enjoyed this episode please tell a friend. If this is your first time jumping into the Trenches...2018-09-1743 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP21 - "Change of Plans"In this episode, Jean & Fatimah take us on their journey from playing hard to get to, married with children and having a better relationship with God. Jean & Fatimah are another example of, it not starting perfect, but how it works out perfectly. If you are new to the Trenches, please Subscribe, Rate and Comment. If you are coming back to jump into the Trenches with us each week, if you liked this episode please tell a friend. :)2018-09-101h 07
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP20- "Save the Date or Nah" Part 1In Part 1 of this Episode, "Save the Date or Nah" the Toulons discuss with two singles why neither of them see the need for Marriage to be the "Happily Ever After." Hazel & E Rob believe they have it all and don't see how a piece of paper is going change that with the right person. Books Mentioned in this episode: "Getting the love you want" by Harville Hendrix "Crucial Conversations" by Joseph Grenny, Al Switzler, Ron McMillan2018-09-0445 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP19 -"We still together"Anniversary Episode, the day we've all been waiting for! In this episode, Touly and Ralph will discuss the highlights of their first year of marriage. Although marriage and relationships are work, there is a lot of good that comes from that work.2018-08-2755 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP18 - "Social Media & Rambling Kills"In this session of In the Trenches with the Toulons, we chat about how Social Media is Killing Relationships. The Toulons Topic this episode come by an article from Elite Daily, "How Social Media is Killing Relationships and Making Our Breakups Even Worse" By Jen Soule. In this article Jen mentions eight reasons, you should lay off the social media if you don't want to ruin your relationship and suffer a breakup that's even worse than it should be. 1.ITS DISTRACTING US FROM ACTUALLY SPENDING TIME 2. WE'RE STALKING EACH OTHER 3. WE'RE...2018-08-2059 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP17 - "10 Lessons in the 1st year"They are back!!!! Ralph and Touly in this episode relate their first year of marriage to the article, "10 Lessons from the first year of marriage, by Matt Paolelli". You will hear Touly attempting to throw his lovely wife under the bus but that same bus ends up being for him. The couple talk about how laughter has been the best medicine for them and the growth in themselves individually to be the best spouse to their partner. Its still not perfect, there is even more work that needs to be done, but they are working at it together and...2018-08-131h 04
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP16 - "Its HIM, not her!"Jumping into the Trenches this week with the Toulons, is Curtis and Danielle. This married couple of 9 years takes us on their journey in truly showing the growth of a relationship and the marriage. Curtis and Danielle admit to both being dangerously childish from throwing knives, moving furniture, damaging each other belongings and having your children put the mirror up to show you who you really are. The couple touch on why they don't suggest people getting married before 30, getting to know who YOU really are before walking down the aisle, and using all your resources to come together t...2018-08-061h 13
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP14 - "When it rains, put on your cap"-Part 2Chris and Steph journey continues with the hurdles that they over come in their 8 year marriage. Chris and Steph express team work it takes to work through the tough times and shine like nothing ever happened. Chris said it best, "If you see us doing something good, then there were hurdles that were overcome". Hope their story helps someone wanting to be married, engaged or already married going through the storm. Thank you jumping into the trenches with us each week!! Remember to Subscribe, Rate, Comment and tell a friend.2018-07-2355 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP13 - "When it rains, put on your cape"-Part 1Chris and Steph in part 1 jump into the trenches with us, sharing their rocky journey in the first year of marriage. Expressing how everything that may look perfect, may at one time geared the heavy storms before the rainbow. Chris and Steph take us through the engagement, wedding day DIY lip fillers, honeymoon insurance, house but not our home and miscarriages. Please remember to Subscribe, Rate and Comment. Tell a friend, family member, or co-worker to jump into the trenches with us each week as we pull the curtain back on what marriage really looks like.2018-07-1647 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP12 - "27 YRS OF SLAVE"Donna and Rolando jump into the Trenches with JT & Ralph this week. The couple go through the journey of being together for 27 years from high school, college, fraternity, jobs and children. This couple, again shows you that marriage isn't all ice cream and cake but it can be. Again, The Toulons do not condone domestic violence.2018-07-091h 10
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP11 - "In the Key of D"On this episode David and Charisse jump into the trenches with the toulons reliving how they met, hitting rock bottom and coming back even stronger. Sometimes its not about the soundtrack to your life but about who is playing the piano. They really showed that having a grounded foundation can bring you back from the darkest places standing like nothing ever happened.2018-07-021h 04
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP10 - "Waterboard by Spit"Sean and Tonya joined JT and Ralph in the trenches this episode. Sean and Tonya rehash their journey from beginning until now for the Toulons. From talking about blending families, what almost got Sean choked out and what is the glue that keeps them together. These are real accounts of our guest lives and we respect and appreciate the transparency. Outside of the laughter and comedy, respecting each other space and body. The Toulons do not condone domestic violence and if you feel that you may be in an abusive situation please call National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1−800−799−7233 or TTY 1−800−787−3224.2018-06-2550 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEP09 - "Sex on Tuesday"JT and Ralph take on questions about sex & intimacy. Keeping your spouse interested along with balancing the children and/or work. Scheduling sex..genuine or repetition? More rambling and Ralph mic issue, sorry guys :) Subscribe, Rate, Comment and check us out at www.inthetrenchespodcast.com2018-06-1848 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEp08 - "The Single & The Taken"In this short but sweet episode 2 guest, Vee & Quita jump into the trenches with the Toulons. Discussions about being okay with the single life while waiting for the right one and being in a relationship waiting on the ring. Subscribe, Rate, Comment! Check us out on facebook, instagram, twitter2018-06-1140 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEp07 - "Been there done that"The couple discussed what it was like for JT to get married again and for Ralph to embark on this new journey with someone who has made the leap before. Subscribe, Rate, Comment and download to stay in the trenches each with new episodes. Follow us on Twitter, Instagram, Facebook and website at www.inthetrenchespodcast.com2018-06-0454 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEp06 - "Pinesol Petty"Touly makes a decision that he regrets, Ralph has to defend her petty once again, Letter from the Trenches and seeing the growth. Subscribe, Rate, Comment! Check us out on facebook, instagram, twitter and at www.inthetrenchespodcast.com2018-05-2853 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEp05 - "Question, Answers & Letters"JT and Ralph answer what supposed to be "difficult" questions and their answers may not be the "norm". The couple also answer their first letter from the Trenches. Please subscribe, rate and comment. Tell a friend and stay connect via, www.inthetrenchespodcast.com, Facebook, Instagram and twitter.2018-05-2153 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEp04 - "Its Real Lite"Touly and Ralph sit down with another guest going through the journey of having too much quantity to just wanting some quality. Exploring what is on the checklist of "future wife" wants, & how to check yaself to receive positive vibes on what you put out.2018-05-131h 19
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEp03 - "Meeting at Target"In this episode, JT and Ralph do more rambling about the first stages of dating for them. The introduction to family and friends, and how that steps could mean different things. Also opposite sex friends and how the two handled this difficult conversation for most. Thank you for all the support, please continue to listen, subscribe and rate. www.inthetrenchespodcast.com2018-05-0745 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEp02 - "Gods Plan"Episode2 - The Toulons welcome their first guest, Harmon. They discuss the option of being "exclusive" or "official" and talk about Harmon being EMOTIONAL UNAVAILBLE. Please subscribe, rate, and comment. Thank you to everyone for all your support. Please go to our website, www.inthetrenchespodcast.com on our contact/submission page to be a guest or a suggest topics.2018-04-2849 min
In The Trenches with the ToulonsEp01 - "The Hazing"In this episode JT and Ralph rehash their relationship from beginning to now, to show that all relationships dont start off like the fairytale you may expect. Every Monday to Jump into the Trenches. Please Subscribe, Comment and Rate2018-04-271h 13