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Probably TrueMonster (with Jordan Gonsalves)Jordan Gonsalves loved Lady Gaga long before he loved guys, but through her music, very slow internet connections, and some free tickets to the Monsters Ball, he also learned to love himself.Jordan's queer history podcast, But We Loved, is available on all good podcatchers and here: https://www.butweloved.com/ Jordan's Socials:instagram.com/jor_gonsalves twitter.com/jor_gonsalves All material in this podcast is used under the Fair Use copyright policy, and no ownership of others' content is implied or assumed.YouTube version: https://yout...
2024-10-1431 min
How’s Your Sex Life?More than friends with Jordan GonsalvesShould I tell my friend I have feelings for them? Do I tell the guy I’m seeing that I had an OnlyFans? Is it time to leave my relationship?
Jordan Gonsalves hosts But We Loved, a podcast that dives into queer history through conversations with LGBTQ+ elders. Jordan joins Myisha to talk about crushes on friends and toxic relationships. Plus, Jordan shares his dating horror story.
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2024-09-2539 min
The Manwhore Podcast: Sex-Positive ConversationsQueer Elders, AIDS Panic Sex Ed, and Gay Shame with Jordan GonsalvesDo you know your Queer History? Jordan Gonsalves — from But We Loved podcast — shares what he’s learned from queer elders and discusses the divide between LGBTQ generations. The PrEP Generation of gays vs. the AIDS Panic Generation. And who is missing? The generation of LGBTQ people who did not make it. Plus, Billy talks about gender discrimination in the intro.Mentioned:June 14 - The Naked Comedy Show @ Hacienda https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-naked-comedy-show-tickets-913649910477ACT UPGayety: Was Abraham Lincoln Bi?Sporcle: Name all the presiden...
2024-06-121h 12
Program Life | Productivity & Mental HealthJor Gonsalves | The Art Of UnshamingOur guest on this episode today is Jor Gonsalves who is a storyteller and host of the Unshaming podcast. In this episode, I and Jor discuss how to unshame, what triggers shame, important lessons that he has learned over his experience in interviewing guests and ways that shame can help us grow.If you want my key takeaways on this episode and the show notes just head over to my website as well which is programlife.org. Head over and click that subscribe or follow button as well right now on whichever platform you are using to...
2022-06-2842 min
UnshamingThe Unshaming Journey: Forgiveness, Anger, and SafenessSend us a textWtf does unshaming even mean?! We dive into it all in this episode. Nikila Cranage, host of Bad Behavior Podcast, joins the show.In this episode, we reference Jor's unshaming journey. You can listen to his episode on the shame of being gay here. We also reference an episode of the Oprah Winfrey Show about forgiveness — watch that here.TW: this episode briefly touches on sexual abuse.#StayUnshaming with us at instagram.com/unshaming and unshamingpodcast.com.
2022-05-2547 min
T is for Transformation325 The Art of Unshaming with Jor GonsalvesWhat is Unshaming? Jor Gonsalves, As an Indian-American raised Catholic, spent most of hi life ashamed of being gay. And after a life changing trip to India, realized his shame was never actually his; it was society's shame projected on to him. Today Jor shares his own unshaming story with us and how he now highlights the silenced voices of society through storytelling. Become an ad-free member at https://plus.acast.com/s/trust-and-believe-with-shaun-t.
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2021-06-0744 min
Trust and Believe with Shaun T325 The Art of Unshaming with Jor GonsalvesWhat is Unshaming? Jor Gonsalves, As an Indian-American raised Catholic, spent most of hi life ashamed of being gay. And after a life changing trip to India, realized his shame was never actually his; it was society's shame projected on to him. Today Jor shares his own unshaming story with us and how he now highlights the silenced voices of society through storytelling. Become an ad-free member at https://plus.acast.com/s/trust-and-believe-with-shaun-t.
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2021-06-0741 min![How to Talk to [Mamí & Papí] about Anything](https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/7650bc75-29ee-4229-aa15-8b7d25418e67/2f94082f-5494-42ee-8563-4c2a719cf0df/3000x3000/mp2-lwc.jpg?aid=rss_feed)
How to Talk to [Mamí & Papí] about AnythingOvercoming Shame to Love Who You AreJor grew up in a very religious Indian family. Coming out to himself and to his parents took years. And, Aruna Rao, who guides South Asian LGBTQ+ individuals and their families, helps us accept and affirm our loved ones' identities.Jor Gonsalves is the host of Unshaming, a podcast about representation and storytelling. You can listen wherever you get your podcast. Featured Expert: Aruna Rao is the proud mother of a transgender child. She serves on the steering committee of API Rainbow Parents of PFLAG NYC and is the founder of Desi Rainbow Pare...
2021-04-2620 minUnshamingShame of DietingSend us a textMentalhealth.org reports that 1 in 5 adults feels "disgusting" about their bodies. How do we break free from the toxic cycle of body shaming ourselves? How do we create peace with our body image? Allison Ross, eating and body image therapist and author of "Non-Dieting: How to Love your Body and Be Healthy in Diet Culture" discusses:the origins of body image issuesbody neutralityunderstanding the role of social media in our body image issuesYou can support the show at patreon.com/unshaming. #StayUnshaming with us at instagram.com/unshaming and unshamingpodcast.c...
2021-04-1242 minUnshamingShame of Anti-Asian ViolenceSend us a textThis episode contains explicit language around experiences with racial slurs. Tony Lee is a 27-year-old Asian-American journalist for NBC News. He has reported on COVID-19 and the rise in Anti-Asian hate attacks in depth. In this episode, he discusses his experiences growing up Asian-American in the United States, being fetishized as a gay Asian man, and the complexities of being an Asian-American journalist in 2021.You can support the show at patron.com/unshaming. #StayUnshaming with us at instagram.com/unshaming and unshamingpodcast.com. Episode Producers/Editors: Jor Gonsalves & Sam S...
2021-03-2929 minUnshamingShame of Leaving ReligionSend us a textWhat is it like dismantling everything you believe in for your authentic self? In this episode, we explore the freedom and devastation that comes with relinquishing your former life. A letter from an Unshaming listener, this touching story about choosing yourself surrounds Anna Mouchref's decision to leave Islam. #StayUnshaming with us at instagram.com/unshaming and unshamingpodcast.com.Letter Author: Anna MouchrefEpisode Producers/Editors: Jor Gonsalves & Sam Stone
2021-03-1522 minUnshamingShame of Sex Work (The Life of a Dominatrix)Send us a textThis episode contains explicit language about sex and sex work. Host Jor Gonsalves interviews New York City Dominatrix Godess Talia. In what she describes as a career, she defines what a dominatrix is and discusses her business model, her clientele, and of course — her wildest stories. The mission of #Unshaming is to shine a light on communities that are otherwise silenced. The sex work community is no exception. #StayUnshaming with us at instagram.com/unshaming and unshamingpodcast.com.
2020-11-2635 minUnshamingStarter Episode: Shame of Being GaySend us a textHost Jor Gonsalves takes us on his unshaming journey of being gay. Jor discusses the pain, the shame, the freedom, and the joy of his coming out story. #StayUnshaming with us at instagram.com/unshaming and unshamingpodcast.com.
2020-02-0130 min