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Let's Dig into ThatS3E15 | Vanity: Mirror, Mirror, WTF?Mirror, mirror, WHAT THE DEUCE?Vanity can be touchy: secret angles, shame zones, squishy bits. Jordan and J.T. explore how our self-worth can become entwined with our appearance. Can you carry both your "divine light" and your body dysmorphia? Listen to discover:- Pride in appearance vs reliance on external validation- Insecurities we work hardest to hide- Where and when did you first learn that looks were currency?- Who said what that made me hate myself for having cellulite?- Differences between maintenance...2025-07-1945 min
Let's Dig into ThatS3E14 | GAME DAY! Uncomfortable On Purpose: Questions You'd Rather Not Ask...But ShouldReady to get weird and wise? Jordan and J.T. play the first round of Uncomfortable On Purpose. Think Truth or Truth: the questions you’d rather not ask your partner but really should. This round cuts deep. A provocative and revealing Q&A-style game that digs beneath the surface. Topics we usually tiptoe around—shame, addiction, fear, failure—but with the goal of healing, not harm. A darkly playful excavation of your emotional scar tissue—because healing can be sexier with a bit of risk.The FIVE subversive and intentionally uncomfortable categories are tailored to spark...2025-07-0544 min
Let's Dig into ThatS3E13 | Comfort Is a Killer: How Convenience Is Robbing Us of Real Connection (and Sex)Ever paid for that $40 DoorDash burrito in a sweaty delivery exchange and thought: Who am I, and what is this life? Modern convenience just might be killing our joy. If comfort were a drug, we'd all be addicted. If you're curious about what convenience might be doing to your curiosity, not to mention your capacity for emotional resilience and connection, join Jordan and J.T. to discover:- How dopamine-on-demand is numbing our ability to feel real connection or desire- The 5 Conveniences that Quietly Corrupt- How does avoidance-based/one-click living impact...2025-06-2840 min
Let's Dig into ThatS3E12 | Can You Outgrow Your Personality? And Other Existential SpiralsOne would hope we evolve, learn, and change over time, but can we outgrow our personality? What if you're only pretending to like spicy margaritas and karaoke? Has the Party Guy era come to a close? If you're staring at an unrecognizable vision board from 2018 or seeking permission to change your mind, join Jordan and J.T. for a raw discussion of personality. From identity and reinvention to trauma disguised in "that's just me" habits, listen to discover:- What is personality? Your Enneagram? Your Spotify Wrapped? Your career title or coping style?- Does...2025-06-2143 min
Let's Dig into ThatS3E11 | The Long Game of Self-Love In a World of Instant Gratification with Alyssa Scarano, LPCWhether it's your mental heath, or simple wellness practices, living an intentional and purposeful life starts within - and no one knows that better than Alyssa Scarano, Licensed Professional Counselor and Founder/Owner of The Collective Therapy & Wellness. Looking to swap external approval for internal validation, join and Jordan and J.T. as they learn Alyssa's techniques to cultivate real, meaningful connection in a fast paced digital world. About ALYSSA:Alyssa Scarano, LPC, NCC, is a Licensed Professional Counselor and the Founder/Owner of The Collective Therapy & Wellness. Known for her empathetic and...2025-06-1439 min
Let's Dig into ThatS3E10 | Anxiety: The Party Crasher (That Lectures You in the Kitchen)Join Jordan and J.T. as they unzip their emotional fanny packs and lay bare their most anxious parts. J.T. shares details from his recent low-key little breakdown and his proactive approach to working with his overprotective anxiety.Fun fact: Anxiety isn't brokenness; it's biology. From fight, flight, or freeze to shame in the sheets, it seems no one is immune.Listen to discover:- Low-impact, high-reward anxiety coping tools that work (...if implemented)- Naming it, instead of shaming it: the power of saying "I'm anxious right now"2025-06-0749 min
Let's Dig into ThatS3E9 | Engage Your Heart, Improve Your Finances: Demystifying Money with Ed VargoIt's time to talk money. Who's sweaty? Jordan and J.T. welcome Ed Vargo, the Co-Founder and CEO of Burning River Advisory Group and EnlightenHer, to discuss and demystify our finances. Ed believes a financial education shouldn’t make you feel small; it should make you feel powerful.Ed’s passion for helping women with their finances stems from his childhood. His mother, an immigrant from South Korea, had four children with his father. After getting a divorce, she lost custody of her children due to her inability to support her family financially. Her unfortunate lack of fina...2025-06-0445 min
Let's Dig into ThatS3E8 | Round 3! Q&A: Where Curiosity Meets Blushing VulnerabilityThe Season 3 Questions are in - THANK YOU for your boundless curiosity! Jordan and J.T. are ready for the gauntlet of vulnerability, prepped to flex a little bravery and self-compassion. Join the conversation for a mix of sexy, spicy, and slightly uncomfortable questions intended to crack us open and connect us all. If you have an inquiry or topic you’d like Jordan and J.T. to dig into, please send an email or voice memo to letsdigintothat@gmail.comEnjoy the conversation? It would mean the world if you ha...2025-05-3145 min
Let's Dig into ThatS3E7 | A DIVORGASMIC Conversation with The Good Divorce Coach, Karen McNennyJordan and J.T. could not shake the idea that the alleged "end" of a relationship could be DIVORGASMIC, so they invited the Coach who coined the word to learn more. From the adjustment of being re-singled to giving yourself permission to seek joy, how can we better love and support each other in times of transition?Karen McNenny, The Good Divorce Coach™, is changing the way families navigate divorce. We can agree that divorcing families are starved for better outcomes with less debt, destruction, and despair. Karen's signature Good Divorce Experience™ guides couples through the legal proc...2025-05-2456 min
Let's Dig into ThatS3E6 | Why Grown-Ups Need Fun (More Than They Think)From fun-haters to play-daters, when did we stop prioritizing delight? Is it irresponsible for adults to play, or is fun essential for a fulfilling life? No idea what fun means to you anymore? You are not alone! Join the conversation to discover:- The elements of True Fun: playfulness, connection, & flow- When did fun start to feel more like a luxury than a birthright?- Know thyself: how can we treat fun like a spiritual practice rather than a break from work?- The evolution of fun: exposing false or...2025-05-1745 min
Let's Dig into ThatS3E5 | Dr. Adam Dorsay is Super Psyched to Unleash the Power of ConnectionWOW! Buckle up, Love Ninjas, because Dr. Adam Dorsay is in the house! Silicon Valley's licensed psychologist, executive coach, author, and podcast host delivers mic-drop insights from his book Super Psyched: Unleash the Power of the 4 Types of Connection & Live the Life You Love.This book changes the game. Join Jordan and J.T. as they dig into connection with the author himself. From his highly regarded TEDx Talks, lively keynotes, and award-winning podcast Super Psyched, Adam is the guru of gusto. Starting with a connection to self, determine what fills your cup. Adam shares his Connection...2025-05-1048 min
Let's Dig into ThatS3 E4 | Emotional Infidelity: When Flirt Turns To HurtWhat is emotional infidelity, and who defines the line? Is it cheating, or are you just insecure? From a work spouse's special privileges to reconnecting with an old flame, Jordan and J.T. explore deep emotional connections outside the primary relationship. Join the conversation to discover:- Micro-cheating: emotional affairs that begin as platonic friendships- No physical contact necessary; it's time to talk about boundaries- What is missing? What issues in the primary relationship cause us to seek emotional support and/or intimacy elsewhere?- Signs of emotional infidelity...2025-05-0341 min
Let's Dig into ThatS3E3 | Gratitude Adjustment: Why It Is a Gift to See the GoodFor anyone who has been told you should be grateful at exactly the wrong time, this episode is for you! For anyone tired of living a fear-driven life, this is the place! Could gratitude be the secret to lasting happiness, a gateway drug to growth? While Jordan and J.T. aren't making any promises, they are more than willing to flesh out the magnitude of gratitude. Join the conversation to discover:- Gratitude is not about ignoring challenges but reorganizing the good- Does gratitude come from the brain or the heart? Or both?2025-04-2645 min
Let's Dig into ThatS3E2 | Near Enemy: It's Not What You Think...It's ScarierWhoa! If you are unfamiliar with the concept of near enemies, you are not alone. Dr. Brené Brown strikes again! With a dose of Buddhist philosophy and Jordan and J.T.'s boundless curiosity, prepare to discover how these imposters can sabotage our goals.- Near enemies: subtle concepts that feel so close to our aim or goal that we may not recognize them as enemies. Near enemies make us think we are achieving what we hope to achieve, but in reality, they hinder our growth.- The importance of discernment: how we fool ourselves i...2025-04-1942 min
Let's Dig into ThatSEASON 3!! Spite: The Power to Motivate or Muck It All UpS3 Ep1: Spite: The Power to Motivate or Muck It All UpThe petty desire to hurt, annoy, or offend someone else - spite is uniquely human. While spite is often considered vengeful, malicious, and desperate, if harnessed correctly, spite can also be one hell of a motivator.Join Jordan & J.T. as they explore the power of spite from social justice and spite architecture to karma and the influence of the revenge body. In this episode, discover:- The distinction between healthy motivation and spiteful revenge- Motivating functions of...2025-04-1246 min
Let's Dig into ThatSEASON 2 FINALE: Travel! Let's Get SomewhereJordan and J.T. wrap up Season 2 talking TRAVEL! Forty episodes of Let's Dig into That...so it's about damn time!From a relaxing reset to extreme adventure, travel can heal and transform. Travel can also threaten your bank account, your relationship, and your intestines. Jordan and J.T. explore the unexpected benefits of stepping out of our routine and practicing flexibility on the go. Join the conversation to discover:- Why people don't travel and why it's worth reconsidering- What it means to prioritize intentional living- The power...2025-03-2248 min
Let's Dig into ThatS2E19 | Trust: Build, Break, RepeatFrom trust in relation to self-love to building trust within a group, Jordan and J.T. break down the T-word to better understand what happens when we risk sharing something important, making ourselves vulnerable to someone else's actions. In this episode, discover:- Are some people more naturally inclined to trust?- Human disposition toward trust: the duality of trust and fear- Dr. Brené Brown's Anatomy of Trust on BRAVING connection: Boundaries, Reliability, Accountability, Vault, Integrity, Non-judgment, Generosity- Competence and Integrity: breaches of trust and the inverse diagnostics2025-03-1945 min
Let's Dig into ThatS2E18 | Could Our Flaws Make Us Awesome?Sure, we've heard nobody’s perfect, but what if we stopped seeing our flaws as roadblocks and started seeing them as our edge? Jordan and J.T. explore the idea that perceived weaknesses often evolve into strengths. What if we all started feeling flawed and fabulous?Join Jordan and J.T. as they dig in to discover:- Why markers and metrics don't tell the whole story- How recognizing unconventional gifts in young people can have a long-term impact- When a perceived imperfection propels us forward- Wh...2025-03-1544 min
Let's Dig into ThatS2E17 | The Magnificent Power of Female Friendships with Rachel SteikerLove Ninjas, please welcome our SPECIAL GUEST, Jordan's adult bestie: Rachel Steiker, better known as STEIK!Rachel and Jordan have been through some stuff - some big stuff. From meeting in the dorms as college freshman - Jordan with her DIY perm and Steik sporting an eyebrow ring - to IVF injections in the California desert, twenty-three years is a long time to actively, intentionally, truthfully friend.J.T. is curious about what makes female friendships such a force: the effort, understanding, and compassion required to evolve alongside a real friend, the seasons of female...2025-03-1251 min
Let's Dig into ThatS2E16 | Coping with CHANGE: Mindset, Muscle Memory, & Micro-Adjustments Big topic. Tiny couch. Change is tricky. From a change in dinner plans to a systemic overhaul, we cannot escape the inevitability of change. Jordan and J.T. want to improve their adaptability skills and, if possible, their emotional reactions. Can we ever adjust to the tension between comfort and growth? Join the conversation to uncover how change might be opportunity playing hard to get.- Fear, anxiety, your stomach drop out? How a little puke could be a sign of potential- Create opportunities to tiptoe out of your comfort zone: how intentional discomfort...2025-03-0847 min
Let's Dig into ThatS2E15 | Redefining Success: Personalizing ProsperityThe Joneses you idolize, the envy-hungry pursuit you somehow initiated... NEWSFLASH: The Joneses are bunk...rubbish, bollocks. They will always be willing to spend more than you (or at least incur more debt). They'll lie to you on social media with their high-production snapshots, tempting you with admiration. You have turned their perfection into your life's mission. Pause. Take stock. If you measure success by what someone else has, you have an opportunity (nay, a responsibility) to dig into WHY you're chasing their want.Jordan and J.T. discuss the rewards of evaluating and updating our personal...2025-03-0543 min
Let's Dig into ThatS2E14 | Adult Chores: Managing Time Like a Grown-UpHow do we stay in the moment, remember to put our phones down, invest in family time while working our tushes off to prepare for the increasingly unpredictable and expensive future, and then pretend we give a flying Ferd about the laundry??J.T. claims he's the big picture guy, that the dishes can wait because the clock is ticking on the time to create. Jordan wants to live from the big picture perspective, and she will just as soon as the dishes and the laundry are done - dogs walked, thank you notes sent - then...2025-03-0143 min
Let's Dig into ThatS2E13 | Radical Honesty & The Dangers of PolitenessIt's truth-tellin' time!Jordan and J.T. have set up camp in the land of Exhaustive Honesty. While they sleep well at night, the dangers of telling the truth still lurk in the landscape. In a relationship that began as a makeshift confessional, when does the truth become an emotional liability? Listen to discover:- Benefits of owning what's real and right for you- Radical honesty in a relationship: full disclosure, no filter, vulnerability, active listening- Boundaries and flexible expectations to combat fear and shame- When...2025-02-2646 min
Let's Dig into ThatS2E12 | Manifestation: Dream BIG, Little DipperIf it were a contest, Jordan would win. She's the believer, the Manifestation Maker, a sign-reading aspiration junkie focused on the long game. J.T. sees Jordan's wall of vision boards and has witnessed her savvy work, but he's unsure about magic (...in general) and the freedom to dream without apology. With miracles on the line, listen to discover:- Hello Universe! Forget about me?- Negative self-talk as the #1 manifestation obstacle- Why the courage to dream big is essential- Comparisons, faith, social media: what it means to operate...2025-02-2241 min
Let's Dig into ThatS2E11 | Midlife-ish: The Joy & Angst of AgingJ.T. woke up feeling dangerous...using obscenities like midlife and aging, euphemisms for a body slowing down. He wants to dig into the thrill of getting older one month before Jordan's (41st) birthday...Brave soul.In this episode, Jordan and J.T. explore the connection between the mind and body during midlife-ish. Listen to discover:- Whether midlife brings more clarity or confusion- How aging shows up emotionally- Aging myths Jordan and J.T. are not buying into- Play, play, play- Wisdom...2025-02-1945 min
Let's Dig into ThatS2E10 | Round 2! Q&A: You Asked, We AnsweredTHANK YOU, Rage Pirates and Love Ninjas! You asked...now Jordan and J.T. are jonesing to answer. From relationship rules and vulnerable risks to unorthodox advice and travel tips...it's not exactly rapid fire. This episode promises to poke your comfort zone and get you thinking about connection.If you have an inquiry or topic you’d like Jordan and J.T. to dig into, please send an email or voice memo to letsdigintothat@gmail.comDid you enjoy the conversation? Please take a moment to SUBSCRIBE/FOLLOW us on the homepage, ww...2025-02-1546 min
Let's Dig into ThatS2E9 | Vulnerability Hangovers: Sounds Like a YOU ProblemYou went there; you said the True Thing about yourself - and the reaction is an "emotional cringe." Have you ever felt judged or criticized after a moment of vulnerability? If you've experienced "sharer's remorse" after opening up, rest assured you are not alone!A vulnerability hangover is characterized by feelings of shame, guilt, regret, and fear that usually occur in the aftermath of taking an emotional risk, a temporary state of emotional self-doubt after being vulnerable with another person or group. (THANK YOU (again!) to Dr. Brené Brown for gifting us with the language to describe t...2025-02-1245 min
Let's Dig into ThatS2E8 | The Concept of Forever: How? Why?Who doesn't want to hear forever insights from newly-ish weds...on their second time around? Is forever a fairy tale ending or a voluntary life sentence? Join Jordan and J.T. as they flesh out what it means today to entertain the idea of forever.In this episode, discover:- Curiosity: why the long haul requires an open mind- Forever, Never, Always...the danger of absolutes- Threats to the F word: broken trust, the nonlinear nature of life- Growth, healing, and change in the context of...2025-02-0837 min
Let's Dig into ThatS2E7 | Resistance Exhaustion with Renée J. Gentry, Esq: How To Give a Shit & Not Give Yourself Shingles When you’re born with a call to serve, an activist activated by the personal obligation of “WE the people,” what happens when the exhilaration of resistance takes its toll? The exhaustion of living the fight for what’s right. Who helps the helpers?Let's Dig into That is thrilled to welcome an arts-loving, wine-sipping vigilante of justice! Serving as an attorney, law professor, and dedicated philanthropist, this woman is a tireless advocate, a model of hard work and tenacious passion – and Jordan and J.T. are convinced she must be whipped. Renée J. Gentry, Esq, is here to...2025-02-0551 min
Let's Dig into ThatS2E6 } SERENITY NOW! Our Need to Control the ChaosJoin Jordan’s spiral as she explores her relationship with control, her compulsory need to provide (unwanted) help and (unsolicited) advice. The impulse to control seems rooted in Jordan’s self-proclaimed codependent tendencies, providing her with an illusion of safety and complicating the way she shows love. In a casual chat gone critical self-reflection mission, Jordan and J.T. discuss:- The increased desire for control in times of uncertainty, control as a coping mechanism for chaos- Costs of rigidity and loss of power- Disruptions, distractions, and trusting the process: the micr...2025-02-0141 min
Let's Dig into ThatS2E5 | The Realities of RomanceThanks to YOU, the Love Ninja Listeners, it was brought to Jordan and J.T.'s attention that in all their talk of sex and intimacy, they did not use the word romance - not even once.In our busy culture of swiping and with the surge of the single and powerful, is romance on anyone's mind? Join the conversation as Jordan and J.T. explore:- What is romance? Is it a need, a want, a dated pursuit?- The Rom-Com roadmap that leads straight to a restraining order....2025-01-2944 min
Let's Dig into ThatS2E4 | Sleeping Arrangements: More Sickly Than SexyA good night’s rest – a dream we all chase. The importance of sleep is in no realm revolutionary. From brain health and metabolism to regulating hormones, mood, and body temperature, the work we do in bed matters. While J.T. cherishes the intimacy of sharing one mattress, the onset of illness has Jordan camping out in the guest room. By night six, J.T. fears she’s getting too comfortable. Jordan assures him he isn’t far off. Join the conversation to discover:- Bedtime rituals and bad habits- How going to bed angry ca...2025-01-2538 min
Let's Dig into ThatS2E3 | Maintenance Sex/Scheduled Sex: Does Intentionality Threaten Intimacy?Does putting sex on the schedule reduce satisfaction? Jordan argues that intentionality and anticipation are reason enough to jump on the dirty date night wagon. J.T. shares his experience with a calendar that unfortunately led to...crickets.While the word schedule might not have the best connotation, the planning and prioritizing of intimacy might be transformative for a relationship. What are the odds that you both are in the mood at the same time? Free from distraction and regrettable bloating?? If you and your partner share a consistent connection, can you still expect the same pressure...2025-01-2240 min
Let's Dig into ThatS2E2 | Rebuilding Connection with Cassie FREAKIN' Fortman (Pt 2)CASSIE IS BACK, and it is time to talk about the WINS! Let's dig into the good good. If you missed Part 1, do yourself a favor; this heroic journey is not to be missed.Following up on Cassie's devastating exit from a high-control church community and experience in therapy while earning a degree in Design, in this episode, discover: - the self-love rituals and practices that helped Cassie to reconnect- how to shine a light on what makes you feel authentic- positive self-talk, a cozy environment, and the power...2025-01-1831 min
Let's Dig into ThatSEASON 2 KICK OFF! Rebuilding Connection: The Choice to Get Bitter or Better with Cassie Fortman (Pt 1)Cassie (FREAKING) Fortman is here! Buckle up, beautiful friends. Season 2 opens with a 2-Part conversation that takes CONNECTION to the next level.J.T. and Jordan are joined by Cassie, the Guiding Connector, a dynamic designer and Founder of the Grand Mesa Business Guild, to discuss her heroic rounds of reinvention. Cassie bravely shares her unthinkable journey from indoctrination to freedom and healing from religious trauma. At the age of 27, Cassie celebrated her first birthday in nearly a decade. Following a divorce that, within her church family and community, ended her very existence (aka she...2025-01-1540 min
Let's Dig into ThatSEASON 1 FINALE: What Are Your Intentions With A Spankin' New Year?SEASON 1 FINALE! Jordan and J.T. will return on January 15, 2025 with MORE saucy secrets, even BETTER production, and a lineup of AWESOME guests.At the close of 2024, we can recount our missteps and resolve to do better. OR we can reflect on the challenges we overcame, the moments of pride, and set our intention for opportunities in the new year. A new calendar is permission to start fresh. Whether you have a list of personal improvements laminated on the fridge or choose to focus on one big dream for the year, join the conversation to discover:...2025-01-0144 min
Let's Dig into ThatMission 2.0! Why We Do What We Do & What We Can Do BetterAt Let's Dig into That, the goal is to remain honest and curious - to promote intentional connection through meaningful conversation. Jordan and J.T. honor Season 1 by reflecting on their mission. On track to inspire difficult conversations, Jordan and J.T. pledge to dig even deeper, focusing on intentional vulnerability and mindful connection. In this episode's quest for accountability, discover:The biological benefits of being there for someone elseA space for healing to happenWhat it means to feel empowered Motivations and support systemsFriendly reminder: USE YOUR WORDSEnjoy the conversation? Please take a moment to SUBSCRIBE...2024-12-2829 min
Let's Dig into ThatHoliday Episode: Traditions!PARENTAL WARNING: Kris Kringle is outed on this episode. WE BELIEVE, but you don't have to! While J.T. and Jordan pride themselves on variety and spontaneity, there is something about this time of year, the customs and beliefs carried down by generations – ‘tis the season for traditions. From Jordan’s New Year’s Eve fire ceremony to J.T.’s committed relationship with Santa, join the conversation to discover:-the power of traditions (for better or worse)-the significance of symbolic behaviors-unique traditions from around the world (from cheese rolling to...2024-12-2540 min
Let's Dig into ThatMemory: The Pleasure of Forgetting Something New EverydayHow does memory factor into being present in the moment? To what degree can we trust our self-serving remembrances? How does memory factor into forward-thinking? While Jordan has a detailed recall of flavors and aromas, J.T. carries vivid snapshots of extreme highs and traumatic lows. The mind, the senses, the impact of photo albums, and stories told again and again, what should we be thinking when it comes to memory? Join the conversation to discover:-Fight, flight, and the triggering of unsavory memories-The proficiency of the olfactory-The power of prospective...2024-12-2135 min
Let's Dig into ThatCompromise: Why We're Fighting & What We're Fighting ForCompromise is not self-sacrifice, nor is it a healthy cover for manipulation. Unhappy compromise is likely to lead to heavy resentment. Jordan prepares her defense when faced with a negotiation, wary of giving too much away. J.T. offers insight from the other side, highlighting compromise as an opportunity to connect and reap Win-Win benefits. Curious about the prospect of reframing compromise? In this episode, discover:-How mutually beneficial solutions exist in the presence of concessions-Difference between good intent and control and the importance of peaceful surroundings-Benefits of presenting two (and...2024-12-1837 min
Let's Dig into ThatIntermittent Sobriety: From Stigma to Sexy?Jordan and J.T. met in the wine business. Fourteen years later, J.T. went to rehab, and Jordan cleared out her cellar. Sharing their individual motives, methods, and innovative approaches to healing, Jordan and J.T. explore the cycle of stigmas surrounding sobriety.Amidst holiday reverie, how do you avoid the celebratory cocktail? Who could even think of inviting Carol since we’ll be serving Sangria?! If you are “sober curious,” or perhaps your drinking buddy just put down the bottle, join the conversation to learn:· Is it possible to socialize sober in today’s culture...2024-12-1437 min
Let's Dig into ThatSelf-Discipline: Tedious Impulse Management or The Key to Growth & Freedom?“Through discipline comes freedom.” – Aristotle, Greek philosopherSelf-control and consistent routine – all aboard the fun bus! Jordan and J.T. find themselves in a momentary state of mediocre self-discipline. How is it possible when he spent more than a decade as a calorie-counting vegetarian athlete? Jordan, a non-drinking entrepreneur with a first-degree black belt, struggles with her dormant capacity to keep her eye on the prize. Join the conversation to discover:- Can you be disciplined if you don’t know what you want?- The power of writing down specific, actionable goals- Wha...2024-12-1132 min
Let's Dig into ThatFantasy: Curious Play or Threatening Taboo?Fantasies, daydreams, visions – the imagination is a powerful tool. Is sexual fantasy a form of intimacy? A way to sustain desire and feel more connected? Jordan and J.T. answer listener questions as they dig into the wonder of fantasy. Whether you want to keep your steamy scenes to yourself or incorporate your creativity into your real-world relationship, you are not alone. Tune in for insights and advice on:- Communicating with your partner: how a positive feedback loop can transform ick into a deeper bond- America’s seven most common sexual fantasies...2024-12-0737 min
Let's Dig into ThatThe Culture of Education with Dr. Patty Templeton Smith“Negative reinforcement stops behavior; positive reinforcement changes behavior.”– Rick Lavoie, M.A., M.Ed., author of The Motivation BreakthroughJordan and J.T. are thrilled to welcome Dr. Patty Templeton Smith as the first guest on Let’s Dig into That! Dr. Smith honors the pod with her wit and wisdom, inspiring an unmissable conversation on education…and aerospace...and passion.Join Jordan and J.T. to discover:- How a change in administration impacts education- The scope of parent choice- Current value of higher education2024-12-0436 min
Let's Dig into ThatThe Art of Listening “Listening is suspending disbelief.” Rick Rubin, The Creative Act: A Way of BeingWhile hearing is automatic, listening is intentional. What are we missing when the desire to be understood is lost in another’s need to respond? Jordan’s self-awareness about her status as a multitasking interrupter – the personal anecdote interjector – has led to a more proactive approach to listening. J.T. explores retention issues when we half-ass the words, tone, and even the body language being shared.In this episode, discover:- Active listening requires a combination of the right attitude and attentio...2024-11-3032 min
Let's Dig into ThatEpisode 10! Q&A: You Asked & We AnsweredTHANK YOU, Listeners! In an attempt at rapid-fire Q&A, Jordan and J.T. tackle the gamut, from their most embarrassing moments to advice on talking to your teenager about sex. Unwilling to shy away and anxious to dig in, your questions inspired quite the conversation.A special mini-shout out to @handsomepod (34:18) for Fortune's shared love of the sitcom Designing Women. (Mae, it has been confirmed by the high school best friend that Jordan also wrote a letter to Angelina Jolie - and proceeded to forget about it.)TEN EPISODES! Please keep your curious topics...2024-11-2845 min
Let's Dig into ThatMoney Talk: Love and FinancesWhy is it so hard to talk about money, the taboo topic that can often make or break a relationship? Combining finances…sign of "healthy love" or a suicide mission?No matter your financial personality (the frugal saver who fell for the generous shopaholic), it’s best to get the conversation started – sooner rather than later – because one thing is for sure: cash will come up. Join J.T. (the financial free spirit) and Jordan (the stat tutor) as they weigh in, discussing triumphs and tragedies in their own fiscal history. J.T. shares advice on why checking...2024-11-2335 min
Let's Dig into ThatJealousy: It's Complicated Jordan views jealousy in a partner as a threat to her independence, “possessive, controlling, and a total buzz kill.” J.T. sees his jealousy as “healthy,” a protective response to some combination of anger, anxiety, fear, and insecurity.In this episode, discover:- Distinction between jealousy and envy- How Jordan and J.T. used compassion to set boundaries, allowing for a shift in mindset- Signs of a jealous partner- Jealousy and Fear: fear of a relationship ending or of not being good enough- Get a ta...2024-11-2032 min
Let's Dig into ThatThe Choice Not to Have KidsGrowing up, it was never a question of if - but how many. Children were the guarantee that came with the partner and picket fence. It was the assumption – and so they tried.Why did J.T. and Jordan attempt to procreate with others and ultimately decide to live child-free together? In this episode:- J.T. discusses his journey from painting a nursery to a premature, medically advised vasectomy at age 34, how he reframed fatherhood, and his capacity to nurture. - After surgery on her “cuterus” and years without a single pregnancy, Jordan...2024-11-1629 min
Let's Dig into ThatKindness: Grand Gesture or Simple as a Smile?“Kindness is seeing the best in others when they cannot see it in themselves.”November is KINDNESS month. Jordan and J.T. explore what it means to be kind to yourself and its impact on the greater good.- Jordan describes her intentional efforts to be kind as a practice of anticipating needs.- J.T.’s habit of starting his workday with an awareness pause and his belief that small gestures can positively impact global goodwill.- The kindness inherent in “getting involved in the community” has positive biological effects on well-be...2024-11-1330 min
Let's Dig into ThatThe Bullshit of Lying to YourselfSelf-deception is how many of us get through the day: “I’ll start my diet tomorrow,” or the flattering angles reflected in a “skinny mirror.” What about the lies we tell to protect our image - the lies that could snowball into an identity we don’t recognize?Jordan (the compulsive exaggerator/plan canceller) and J.T. (the shapeshifter) share the biggest lie they told themselves. In this episode, discover:- Why we might not feel empowered to tell the truth. - When “fake it until you make it” became bad advice.- Can giving p...2024-11-1030 min
Let's Dig into ThatFriendship Matters: how do we emotionally invest in the right people?- J.T. shares his envy surrounding complex female friendships and his confusion about why he cannot participate using the same language. - Jordan discusses how she stays connected with her close circle and offers tools for J.T. to cultivate a stronger support system.- Do friendships with the opposite sex require different boundaries?2024-11-0526 min
Let's Dig into ThatBody Image Battles“My body is a reflection of my mindset. I sense collusion.” – Jordan, Cellulite OwnerPast, present, and…hopeful. Whether we see ourselves accurately or in the fun house mirror of self-shame, body image hits the Let’s Dig into That sweet spot – it’s a topic nobody really wants to discuss. Join us as J.T. divulges his calorie-restrictive career in athletics and how his self-image was not found in the mirror but in the eyes of any woman who glanced in his direction. Jordan offers a gentler path of living in your own skin after actively participating...2024-10-3028 min
Let's Dig into ThatFear: How Much is Healthy?“Hope and fear cannot occupy the same space. Invite one to stay.” – Maya Angelou, American Poet, Memoirist, and Civil Rights ActivistWhile fear is essential and universal, it can also be torture. Jordan and J.T. share personal milestone moments impacted by fear, discuss the relationship between fear and alcohol as two recovering people-pleasers, and share ideas on how to combat the fear-based standstill.2024-10-2622 min
Let's Dig into ThatSex After Divorce“…for women, 40 is the golden age – to get divorced.” - Ali Wong, American Comedian and ActorJordan and J.T. open up about Sex After Divorce. Her ten-year relationship led to a rebellious rebound, while J.T.’s intimacy trauma caused quasi-intentional celibacy. Get to know the curious couple as they explore coitus post-breakup:- Self-esteem: I've still got it! Or do I?- Authenticity on the rebound- Intimacy vs. sexuality- The sexy effect of your personal values 2024-10-2422 min
Inner Journey with Greg FriedmanInner Journey with Greg Friedman welcomes Asheville DJ Jordan CoppingerHurrican Helen, Asheville and the aftermathJoin us tonight as Inner Journey with Greg Friedman welcomes, Jordan Coppinger of the Asheville Media Group as she shares her stories of triumphs, tribulatations, celebrations and strife. The reincarnation of Asheville has just begun and there is much help needed. Below you will find a few different options as to how you may support different charities in Asheville: https://homewardboundwnc.orghttps://www.mannafoodbank.org/how-you-can-help/donate/donate-food/#:~:text=At%20MANNA%20FoodBank%2C%20people%20experiencing,both%20nourishing%20and%20culturally%20responsive.https://shopecreekwilderness.com2024-10-221h 45
Don Tony And Kevin Castle ShowQ&A With Don Tony 5/2/23: The Supersized Combo Edition!Q&A With Don Tony (EP81) 5/2/23, hosted by Don Tony An added treat for this week's stream. Since DT was recording the weekly Patreon episode live (Tue 5/2/23) the same night as Q&A w/DT, both the Q&A w/Don Tony and DT VIPatreon (EP 243) episodes have been bundled them together for a Supersized Combo Show for your listening enjoyment. Enjoy! Some Topics Discussed: DT's thoughts on AEW selling 35,000 tickets for All In Presale and Tony Khan's Twitter Spat with ESPN Mike Coppinger Choose Edge' final match opponent: Christian Cage, Randy Orton, Finn Balor, AJ Styles Top Five Raw a...2023-05-032h 20
DON TONY AND KEVIN CASTLE SHOWQ&A With Don Tony 5/2/23: The Supersized Combo Edition!Q&A With Don Tony (EP81) 5/2/23, hosted by Don Tony An added treat for this week's stream. Since DT was recording the weekly Patreon episode live (Tue 5/2/23) the same night as Q&A w/DT, both the Q&A w/Don Tony and DT VIPatreon (EP 243) episodes have been bundled them together for a Supersized Combo Show for your listening enjoyment. Enjoy! Some Topics Discussed: DT's thoughts on AEW selling 35,000 tickets for All In Presale and Tony Khan's Twitter Spat with ESPN Mike Coppinger Choose Edge' final match opponent: Christian Cage, Randy Orton, Finn B...2023-05-032h 20
We'd Like A Word56. Diversity & short story anthologies (part 1): Vaseem Khan & Ivy NgeowDiversity & short story anthologies (part 1): Authors Vaseem Khan & Ivy Ngeow tell We'd Like A Word hosts Paul Waters & Stevyn Colgan how they edited their recently published short story anthologies. Vaseem is co-editor (With Maxim Jakubowski) of The Perfect Crime: 22 Crime Stories from Diverse Cultures Around the World, published by Harper Collins. Ivy is editor of Asian Anthology: New Writing Volume 1, published by Leopard Print. We talk about getting diverse voices published, about cultural appropriation & avoiding "rule by the mob", how they choose who to include, what to do if you want to get your own story into an anthology...2022-07-1216 minWe'd Like A Word55. Diversity & short story anthologies (part 2): Vaseem Khan & Ivy NgeowDiversity & short story anthologies (part 2): Authors Vaseem Khan & Ivy Ngeow tell We'd Like A Word hosts Paul Waters & Stevyn Colgan how they edited their recently published short story anthologies. Vaseem is co-editor (With Maxim Jakubowski) of The Perfect Crime: 22 Crime Stories from Diverse Cultures Around the World, published by Harper Collins. Ivy is editor of Asian Anthology: New Writing Volume 1, published by Leopard Print. We talk about getting diverse voices published, about cultural appropriation & avoiding "rule by the mob", how they choose who to include, what to do if you want to get your own story into an anthology...2022-07-1221 minWe'd Like A Word54. Diversity & short story anthologies (part 3): Vaseem Khan & Ivy NgeowDiversity & short story anthologies (part 3): Authors Vaseem Khan & Ivy Ngeow tell We'd Like A Word hosts Paul Waters & Stevyn Colgan how they edited their recently published short story anthologies. Vaseem is co-editor (With Maxim Jakubowski) of The Perfect Crime: 22 Crime Stories from Diverse Cultures Around the World, published by Harper Collins. Ivy is editor of Asian Anthology: New Writing Volume 1, published by Leopard Print. We talk about getting diverse voices published, about cultural appropriation & avoiding "rule by the mob", how they choose who to include, what to do if you want to get your own story into an anthology...2022-07-1232 min
Boxing21/04/22 01TYSON WILL MAKE WILDER PAY!" John Fury Final Message Ahead of Fury-Wilder 3 & David Haye Fight.m4a • 🤣 BOB ARUM EXPLODES AT MIKE COPPINGER!!! CALLS SECURITY TO REMOVE HIM 🤣.m4a • ⚠ WBC GIVE FURY : WILDER WINNER 30 DAYS TO DO UNDISPUTED DEAL WITH USYK ⚠.m4a • FURY VS WILDER III SUPER PREVIEW🔥 Simon Jordan, AJ, Eddie Hearn, Chris Eubank Jr, Tyson Fury & MORE!.m4a • "IT'S INSULTING!" Frank Warren Slams Deontay Wilder Cheating Allegations, Talks Fury-Wilder 3 & More.m4a • DAVID HAYE BRUTALLY HONEST, NOT HOLDING BACK ON FURY v WILDER PREDICTION, RESPONDS TO BIG JOHN FURY.m4a • CAUTION! • STRONG LANGUAGE! • Fury vs. Wilder 3 • FINAL WORDS! b...2022-04-211h 29