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Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#64: Enneagram Type 9 Panel
Do you ever feel like you're trying to keep it cool, but you’re secretly raging under the surface?If you're a Type 9, or close to one, you’ve likely wrestled with feeling overlooked, overextended, and underboundaried. This rich panel conversation dives into the lived experience of core Type 9s, shedding light on how the desire for peace often masks struggles with anger, identity, and merging with others.Learn how the different wings (9w1 vs. 9w8) shape how Nines handle conflict, personal space, and boundaries.Hear real Enneagram 9s describe how “merging” actually feels in...
2025-11-25
1h 47
Locked On Fantasy Basketball – Daily NBA Fantasy Basketball Podcast
Sacramento Kings Fantasy Basketball Preview | Why Domantas Sabonis Might Be Overvalued
The Sacramento Kings enter the 2025–26 NBA season with a roster that’s confusing at best — and a potential fantasy basketball nightmare at worst. Josh Lloyd, host of the Locked On Fantasy Basketball Podcast, breaks down every angle of Sacramento’s fantasy outlook.Are Domantas Sabonis, Zach LaVine, and DeMar DeRozan overvalued in drafts? How will the arrival of Dennis Schröder and the emergence of Keegan Murray reshape usage, pace, and production? Josh dives into the Kings’ guard logjam, forward shortage, and the ripple effects across fantasy formats.🏀 Topics covered:• Projected starting five and rotation issues
2025-10-07
28 min
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#63: Omar (SO/SP 6w7 693) – Being the “Hell Side of Attachment”, Punk Scene Irony, Finding Truth in the Split, and Crawling Back to Life
Omar Sullivan (SO/SP 6w7 693) is an absolutely hilarious and insightful person, sharing how being a Type 6 and growing up with a loyalty to “doing the right thing” collided with an internal drive to poke holes in systems, ideologies, and even his own beliefs. We trace how a Type 6 mind pings between self-doubt and defiant clarity, often using humor as both camouflage and truth-teller—a sort of “jester’s privilege” that lets him say what others won’t. We talk about the contradictions within punk culture, the irony of the sustainability industry, and the emotional truths that surface when a 6 splits inw...
2025-08-26
1h 50
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#62: Celia Murnock (SP/SO 6w5 613) - Wearing a Seatbelt Through Life, Making Things More Good (Not Just Less Bad), and Certainty as a Moving Target
Celia Murnock (SP/SO 6w5 613) is a Type 6 whose intellectual clarity and emotional precision root our conversation in complexity: her passion for biomedical anthropology becomes a metaphor for her life’s work — finding and teasing out gray areas in a world that demands black-and-white answers. We trace the architecture of Six through her eyes: the struggle to trust her own mind, the looping vigilance against being naïve, and the quiet grief of feeling like the adult in the room since childhood. The conversation moves fluidly between micro and macro, from early recognitions of injustice to the moral orientation that...
2025-08-19
1h 39
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#61: Elisa (SP/SX 3w2 378) - Erotic Atmospheres, Mastering the Social Game, and Building a Business from the Bones of Hyper-Independence
Elisa (SP/SX 3w2 378) joins us for a rich and layered conversation that weaves together identity, performance, and the relentless pursuit of autonomy. A pole and circus studio founder with a deep instinct for self-reinvention, Elisa moves through life like a well-rehearsed act — equal parts precision and provocation. We talk about what it means to build a life around something still stigmatized by the mainstream, the tension between personal truth and social acceptability, and how visibility can be both a risk and a reclamation. Throughout, Elisa reflects on the roots of her drive — a childhood that demanded self-reliance, an earl...
2025-08-12
2h 02
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#60: Alex (SO/SP 6w7 693): Changing Inherited Reality Perspectives, Having “Mental Real Estate”, and the Exhaustion of Being One’s Own Vetting System
Alex (SO/SP 6w7 693) joins us for a deep dive into the often-misunderstood inner terrain of the Social Six — where loyalty is a vigilant scan for danger, and the mind’s ceaseless activity is less about worry than about building a livable world. From the outset, Alex speaks to the dissonance of being typed as a Six, resisting the caricatures and one-dimensional projections that cling to the type. We explore the deep patterns of fear and mental over-responsibility that began in childhood: a sense of being a small, visible target in a world ruled by unseen authority. Alex...
2025-08-05
1h 26
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#59: Aurel (SO/SP 6w7 693) – Understanding/Expressing Identity, Reliable Orientation with Memory Loss, and Sounding the Alarm
Aurel (SO/SP 6w7 693) experienced a major stroke in early adulthood—an event that unraveled his sense of self and fractured his memory. What happens when your personal history goes missing? In this conversation, Aurel reflects on the slow, painful reconstruction of identity and how trauma rewrites not just the past, but the present narrative. We talk about radical empathy, activism, and the emotional labor of confronting systemic injustice while piecing together who you are. This is a deep dive into Type 6 themes—humility, doubt, the search for expertise, and the existential anxiety that rides alongside all of it. Aure...
2025-07-29
1h 29
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#58: Mar (SP/SX 7w6 794) – Impulsive Vision, Finality in Fiction, and the Existential Weight of Losing Sea Monkeys
Mar (SP/SX 7w6 794) joins us for a luminous, chaotic dive into the inner world of an SP Seven — where optimism burns like a flare, vision outpaces feasibility, and connection is often a puzzle missing key pieces. Mar touches on her social blindness — the kind that makes small talk feel like calculus and leads to well-meaning intensity that others don't always know how to receive. We explore her writing, which orbits themes of fate, finality, and surrealism — what she calls “pocket knife stories” for their compact emotional heft. This conversation also opens space for harder truths: her relationship with alcohol as...
2025-07-22
1h 56
Better MENtal Health
The Enneagram & Mental Health: With Josh Lavine
In this episode of Better MENtal Health, we sit down with coach and Enneagram expert Josh Lavine to explore the Enneagram not just as a personality tool, but as a tool for mental health, growth, and authenticity.Josh breaks down the 9 Enneagram types through the lens of body, heart, and mind, and shares his own journey of discovering what authenticity meant to him.Whether you're brand new to the Enneagram or deep in the work, this conversation is full of insights into identity, therapy, and how we accidentally forget who we are, and how to...
2025-07-17
1h 04
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#57: Cassandra Carol (SP/SO 9w8 972): Navigating Trauma as a Triple-Positive Type, the High Energy of 9w8, and Putting the Pieces of Self Back Together
Cassandra Carol (SP/SO 9w8 972) joins us for a raw and resonant conversation about what it means to carry deep emotional weight while moving gently through the world. Cass, a high-energy and incredibly polite Nine, opens up about surviving childhood abuse, navigating a turbulent past marriage, and understanding the complex aspects of her unique Enneagram type with precision. We explore the paradox of a Nine who feels “too much” in a world that asks her to be less — the push-pull of wanting to merge without disappearing, of protecting others without burning out. Cass’s Enneagram journey (including strong 7 and 2 fixes) b...
2025-07-15
1h 45
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#56: Ruth (SX/SO 9w1 973): Seductive Merging with the Divine, the Rude Awakening of Self-Care, and Reclaiming Sensation Through the Body
Ruth (SX/SO 9w1 973) joins us for a luminous and radical exploration of the Sexual 9's longing for union — with God, with others, and, ultimately, with herself. From an early age, Ruth’s life was shaped by profound mystical experiences: claiming Jesus at three, and at nine, encountering a vision of him entering her body — not metaphorically, but viscerally, as a wave of physical love. These moments left an imprint, becoming the compass by which she navigated the world — always reaching for a love that could hold her entire being. We explore how this early spiritual intensity tethered her to exter...
2025-07-08
1h 41
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#55 Anna Palumbo (SO/SP 9w8 937) - Music as Mirror, Emotional Fragmentation, and the Integrative Pulse of the Body Center
Anna Palumbo (SO/SP 9w8 937) returns for a second conversation—this time reflecting on the shifts she's experienced since our last recording. We begin with a live performance of her original song Wings for the Heart, a piece that emerged in the wake of personal rupture and now stands as both witness and balm. What follows is a layered exploration of emotional fragmentation, the disorienting effects of internal and external turbulence, and the slow, deliberate work of reweaving oneself from the inside out. Anna speaks candidly about a transformative road trip with her family that cracked something open—making spac...
2025-07-01
1h 25
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#54 Bjarne (SO/SP 8w9 3w2 6w7): Will Over Emotion, the Fight Against Corruption, and the Longing to Galvanize Others
Bjarne is an SO/SP 8w9 with 3w2 and 6w7 fixes, though in this episode, he questions whether he might be a core Six. What emerges regardless is a portrait of a powerful, self-directed psyche shaped by an early awareness of exploitation, corruption, the failure of collective systems to protect the dignity of life. From political dreams as a child to his drive to awaken others to their own strength, Bjarne speaks about what it means to live with a sense of self-respect and moral propulsion. We talk about betrayal and its lasting scar: how one relational rupture cost...
2025-06-10
1h 20
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#53 Moses Williams (SO/SP 5w6 513) – Relationship Post-Mortem: A Young 5 Reflects, Grieves, and Chooses to Stay Open
Moses Williams (SO/SP 5w6 513) returns for a third and unexpected installment. After the emotional closing of our last conversation, the relationship he spoke about fell apart, and Moses recorded this solo reflection as a final statement. It’s part post-mortem, part self-reckoning, and it is beautifully 5: heady, searching, at times heartbreakingly tender. He names where things broke down, what it showed him about his patterns, and how he’s choosing to move forward. What begins as a Five’s attempt to diagnose and understand becomes something more vulnerable: a young person figuring out how to keep their heart open a...
2025-06-03
1h 28
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
Moses Williams (SO/SP 5w6 513) – Social 5-ness on the Spectrum, Sexual Blindness, and the Dangerous Hope for Mutual Desire
Moses Williams (SO/SP 5w6 513) is back for round two, and we dive straight into what he calls “the mortifying stuff.” We explore the dissonance of being autistic and socially wired — craving connection but feeling like a fish trying to fly. Moses speaks candidly about navigating sexual arousal alongside the fear of being seen as creepy or delusional, and what it’s like to experience intense desire as someone who’s sexual blind. He names his instinct to hide, control, and strategize, and what happens when that scaffolding starts to crack. We talk about being a triple competency type (513), the impuls...
2025-05-27
1h 34
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
Moses WIlliams (SO/SP 5w6 513) – The Horror of Naivety, Fascination with Taboo, and the Obsessive Drive to Self-Educate
Moses Williams is an 18-year-old Social/Self-Pres 5w6 who is also on the autism spectrum. Moses describes growing up feeling that adults were hiding the truth, that essential information was missing, and that everyone else somehow knew how to be human in a way he didn’t. We talk about his often obsessive fascination with taboo topics—pornography, sexual deviance, violence—not to provoke, but to answer the horrifying question: “Am I stupid for not knowing this already?” He recounts a personal collapse that left him with three options: become a sanitized version of himself, disappear entirely, or dismantle and reform...
2025-05-20
1h 32
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#50: Julie (SP/SO 1w2 126): The Double-Edge Sword of Competence, Overextending for a Cause, and Trusting the Felt-Sense Yes
Julie (SP/SO 1w2 126) says being an Enneagram One is like trying to control the lightning bolt you’re riding. We talk about how her pursuit of competence — in painting, music, and even dog training — brought early success but gradually drained the joy from each pursuit. She shares what it’s like to live in a body wired for precision and pressure, and how that rigidity eventually led to serious health issues after she threw herself into an activist cause. We explore how she navigates moral complexity not through rules, but through a somatic “yes,” and how her 2-fix allows her t...
2025-05-13
1h 19
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#49: Kim (SO/SP 8w7 863) – Gatekeeping my Reality, Blaming Myself for Naivety, and Protecting My Severed Soul
Kim (SO/SP 8w7 863) joins us for an intimate and unguarded exploration of the inner world of Eight — where sovereignty is survival, connection is a gamble, and straight talk is an act of love. From the first moments, Kim’s presence is unmistakable: a force of nature, all-in from the outset, inviting others to meet her at full throttle. We explore the emotional paradox at the heart of the Social Eight — the innocent hope that others will meet her with the same raw honesty she offers, the crushing self-blame that follows when that trust proves misplaced, and the instinct to amp...
2025-05-06
1h 27
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#48: Alice (SO/SP 9w1 973) – Opting In to Existence, Disturbing the World by Existing, and Aching to Crawl Back into a Dead Womb
Alice (SO/SP 9w1 973) joins us for a profound and poetic exploration of the inner world of Nine — where the background environment can overshadow the self, and the longing isn’t for pleasure, but for the peace of never having been born. We dive into the quiet ache for pre-conscious coziness, the hesitance to disturb reality with one’s presence, and the existential ambivalence at the heart of Nine structure: Do I really want to exist? Alice reflects on the invisible toll of absorbing the world’s energies, the disorienting effects of nightlife work, and the shattering aftermath of real con...
2025-04-29
1h 52
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#47: Sarah Fair (SP/SO 6w7 693) – Disarming Others, Reigning in Unchecked Reactivity, and Overcoming Victim Mentality
Sarah’s Type 6 mind moves fast—so fast it can create instant connection and obscure deeper intimacy. In this episode, she unpacks the whirlwind: the pull between independence and support, the trap of victimhood, and how unchecked reactivity nearly derailed a past relationship. With raw honesty, she explores self-sabotage, emotional spirals, and the slow work of learning self-trust. This is a conversation about growing beyond fear into real, grounded connection. LINKS Sarah's Music https://open.spotify.com/artist/6VAheMN9FSGheExTVAlBXD?si=rbz8XlbPQqaQx3mEr9De0A The Enneagram School https://theenneagramschool.com/ In...
2025-04-15
1h 20
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#46: Kalla Mort (SO/SP 6w7 639) – Escaping High Control Religion, Coming Out as Queer, and Learning to Orient Myself
Kalla Mort shares her jaw-dropping story of escaping the high control religion of her youth (read: cult) and coming out as queer. This is an incredibly rich exploration of Attachment in the Mental Center, and how Type 6 navigates revolutions of core beliefs. Enjoy. LINKS Learn at The Enneagram School https://theenneagramschool.com/ Intro Course https://www.theenneagramschool.com/intro-enneagram-course Get Typed https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Sinsomnia Podcast (Dreams) https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sinsomnia/id1684154994 TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Intro
2025-04-01
2h 27
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#45: Sara Pryde (SP/SX 6w7 614) - Curating Delicious Environments, Raging About Rotten Bananas, Being Accidentally Available,& Zig-Zagging as I Talk
Sara Pryde (SP/SX 6w7 614), trauma-informed massage therapist, joins us from Wyoming. We dive into the existential crisis sparked when her partner didn't finish his weekly banana quota—forcing her into making muffins against her will. Plus, we unpack how Sara, as SP/SX armed with all three frustration types (1, 4, 7), meticulously crafts her ideal cozy cocoon, yet accidentally projects being more socially "available" than she ever truly feels. Enjoy. LINKS Sara’s Website (Massage Therapy, Astrology, Blog)https://www.sarapryde.com/ Learn at The Enneagram Schoolhttps://theenneagramschool.com/ Intro...
2025-03-25
1h 32
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#44: Kate Ortega (SO/SX 7w8 793) - "Fun Negativity" vs Real Negativity, Entitled Spoiled Brattiness, the Dream of Being a Kept Woman
In this candid Enneagram interview, Kate (SO/SX 7w8 793) discusses her identity as an "entitled brat," her allergy to drudgery and limitation, and her dream (since she was young) of being a "kept woman." She also shares how therapy helped her distinguish between "fun negative" (entertainment) and "real negative" (trauma), allowing her to process difficult emotions rather than "bouncing" away from them. Enjoy. Learn at The Enneagram School https://theenneagramschool.com/ Intro Course https://www.theenneagramschool.com/intro-enneagram-course Browse More Interviews by Type https://www.theenneagramschool.com/enneagram-interviews-and-panels ...
2025-03-18
1h 11
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#43: Anna Palumbo (SO/SP 9w8 937) — The Type 9 Mother & Type 6 Daughter Dynamic, Positive Outlook vs. Reactivity, the Challenges of Un-Enmeshing
Anna Palumbo (SO/SP 9w8 937) is a Type 9 mother who has been undergoing a profound transformation—untangling herself from patterns of enmeshment and reconnecting with her own life-force. In this episode, we focus on Anna’s relationship with her Type 6 daughter and how her Type 9 tendency to merge initially obscured her ability to be present with her daughter's reactivity. We also explore the Positive Outlook reflex of Type 9 and its dynamic tension with the "point-out-the-problem" and "raise-the-alarm" tendency of Type 6. Anna brings remarkable clarity, grace, and self-awareness to this discussion, offering a rare, high-resolution look at the inner experience of a...
2025-03-11
1h 13
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#42: Janice (SP/SO 3w2 379) - Being an Amazon Woman at 84, Freedom from Expectation, & the Paradox of Self-Acceptance & Self-Development
Janice is a life-coach and an Enneagram 3, and at the time of this interview she is 84 years old. We explore her past relationships, the life-long inner tension between doing "what's expected of me" vs "what I want," and what parts of the Type 3 structure still drive her at her life stage. Enjoy. The Enneagram School https://theenneagramschool.com/ Our Intro Course https://www.theenneagramschool.com/intro-enneagram-course Timestamps 0:00 - Intro 2:40 - Janice's Enneagram history 6:40 - "I can do anything I want to do", the little engine...
2025-02-28
1h 00
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#41: Mariona (SX/SO 9w1 973) - Flirting with Life, Crying as SX/SO "Loss of Self," Settling Compulsive Introspection
Mariona M (SX/SO 9w1 973) is a language activist in Catalonia. In the first phase of this conversation, we explore her complex relationship with crying to process emotional backlog, and how her type's pattern of reaching for deeper self-understanding in order to soothe herself can, ironically, create more inner turbulence. In the second phase, we ground ourselves, and Mariona's essence as an SX 9 comes through. Enjoy. Mariona's Link Treehttps://linktr.ee/marionamiretlanguages Browse Interviews by Type & Instinct https://www.theenneagramschool.com/enneagram-interviews-and-panels The Enneagram Schoolhttps://www.theenneagramschool.com/
2025-02-18
1h 13
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#40: INTRO ENNEAGRAM COURSE RELEASE
John Luckovich and I (Josh Lavine) are RELEASING OUR INTRO ENNEAGRAM COURSE. In this conversation, we talk about what it was like working together as a Social 3 and a Sexual 4. We're very proud of the course. Official release is Jan 6, 2025, but you can buy it during our holiday presale at 50% OFF of the founding members price(through Dec 31). Link below. https://www.theenneagramschool.com/intro-enneagram-course Timestamps 00:00 Intro 01:57 Josh is burned out, editing is done, intro course is ready 04:17 Josh and John "access" the Enneagram differently 08:35...
2024-12-16
51 min
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#39: Nicholas (SP/SO 9w1 936): Inner Envelop Functions, Dispersing Attention, & Learning to Focus
In this episode, Nicholas (SP/SO 9w1 936) talks about 9's passivity in relation to their dominant instinct and how they can "hope things just work themselves out." He also talks about how he learned to focus, take himself seriously, and summon the discipline to manifest his life vision. He also works through an intense caffeine spike in self-pres 9 fashion, so you can see in realtime as Nicholas narrates his 9 way of containing the intensity of his experience within an acceptable window of tolerance, or "envelope function." Couldn't have written it better. Enjoy! Watch...
2024-12-08
1h 23
Chicago Bulls Central
Zach LaVine's Evolution & Growth | Billy Donovan Challenges Josh Giddey
Haize reacts to a revealing interview with Zach LaVine, highlighting his newfound maturity and resilience amidst trade rumors and scrutiny. Levine discusses his evolving role with the Bulls, his relationship with DeMar DeRozan, and his commitment to improving defensively. Haize also examines the challenges facing Josh Giddey, dubbed the "Josh Giddey gamble," as he navigates criticism and strives to enhance his game under Billy Donovan's guidance. The episode wraps up with a preview of the Bulls' upcoming clash against the Atlanta Hawks, emphasizing the need for strategic execution and contributions from key players. Join Haize for in-depth a...
2024-11-22
21 min
Chicago Bulls Central
Shoud Ayo Dosunmu or Josh Giddey be Finishing Games | Maximizing Player Potential
Haize delves into Zach LaVine's impressive performance in the early 2024-25 season. Highlighting LaVine's offensive prowess and emerging defensive skills, Haize discusses how LaVine is impacting the game positively despite ongoing injury concerns. The episode also explores the debate among Bulls fans regarding Josh Giddey and Ayo Dosunmu's roles in finishing games, emphasizing the importance of utilizing both players effectively. Additionally, Haize addresses the Bulls' current standing in the Cooper Flag sweepstakes and previews the upcoming game against the New York Knicks, outlining key strategies for success. Join the conversation and stay updated on all things Chicago B...
2024-11-13
26 min
CHGO Chicago Bulls Podcast
New Chicago Bulls offense has Zach LaVine thriving, raising trade value | CHGO Bulls Podcast
The CHGO Bulls crew discuss the impressive start of Zach LaVine in his first four games for the Chicago Bulls this season. LaVine is averaging 26 points per game on very efficient shooting. But he’s also getting good looks at three-pointers by playing and moving off the ball more. Plus, the presence of new teammate Josh Giddey and the return of Lonzo Ball have increased LaVine’s cuts to the basket for easy buckets. Peck, Big Dave and Gottlieb analyze the new-look LaVine and the possible impact of his trade market. The guys also review some of Arturas Karnisovas’ commen...
2024-10-30
1h 06
Locked On Bulls - Daily Podcast On The Chicago Bulls
Zach LaVine & Josh Giddey's Chemistry A Key To Tee Bulls Success THis Season | Josh Primo Waived
Haize welcomes Bobby and C-Dub to the show as the guys discuss training camp thus far and why the building chemistry between Josh Giddey & Zach Lavine will be a big key to the teams' success this season. The guys also discuss the signing and then quick waiving of Josh Primo Call or text the show: (331) 240-1180 Follow & Subscribe on all Podcast platforms… 🎧 https://link.chtbl.com/LOBulls?sid=YouTube Locked On NBA League-Wide: Every Team, Fantasy, Draft, WNBA & More🎧 https://linktr.ee/LockedOnNBA
2024-10-04
31 min
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#38: Somatic Experiencing® & Alexander Technique with Tracy Einstein — Opening the Brain-Body Superhighway
Tracy Einstein is a Somatic Experiencing® practitioner and Alexander Technique teacher. We talk all about the body, how it holds and releases trauma, and how she works with clients. Tracy's Enneagram type is SPSO (Self-preservation / Social) 9w1. Enjoy! LinksTracy's WebsiteThe Enneagram SchoolDeb Dana's website (Teacher of Polyvagal Theory) Book mentioned Nurturing Resilience: Helping Clients Move Forward from Developmental Trauma--An Integrative Somatic Approach by Kathy Kain & Stephen Terrell Resources to Go DeeperBody Learning -- a book about Alexander TechniqueIn...
2024-09-18
1h 15
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#37: Dreams & the Enneagram — Kristen Oberly & Kaisa Jauhiainen
Kristen Oberly & Kaisa Jauhiainen -- aka The Dream Girls (minus Sammy!) -- are brilliant pioneers who have discovered the connection between their unconscious dream worlds and their instinctual drives and Enneagram type, and they have convinced me of the power of working with Dreams for personal transformation. They are offering a class through the Enneagram School starting 9/15 to help you develop a creative relationship with your unconscious. Enjoy! LinksConnect with Kristen for Dream AnalysisSinsomnia Podcast on AppleDreams Class WebinarSign up for their classEnneagram ResourcesThe...
2024-08-20
1h 24
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#36: Kim (SP/SO 7w6 712) - Surviving Trauma, EMDR Therapy, Avoiding Entrapment, and Settling the Mental Froth
"I'm a manifester like nobody is.... No doesn't work for me. I don't even know what no means. No means I gotta think about it in a different way." ~ Kim Jozwiak --- WATCH THIS INTERVIEW ON YOUTUBE The Enneagram School Website --- Kim Jozwiak [SP/SO 7w6 712] is a therapist and trauma survivor whose life story blew me away. As a therapist, she works with EMDR therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and various forms of mindfulness. We discuss her life story, her trauma, and how she settled her mental c...
2024-07-19
2h 21
By The Horns: A Chicago Bulls Show
Major takeaways from Bulls management and the future of Zach LaVine
On the latest Bulls Talk Podcast, Kevin Anderson, K.C. Johnson, and Tony Gill dissect the latest comments from Artūras Karnišovas and Marc Eversley and the implications for the team's future. Bulls management hints at more roster changes (1:30) and reveals why they chose to stick with DeMar DeRozan last season (5:11). They discuss the value placed on young players over draft picks (7:35) and the likelihood of Zach LaVine staying with the team (9:30). The three dive into how LaVine might react to being publicly available for trade (15:33) and how the defensive trio of LaVine, Coby White, and Josh Giddey wi...
2024-07-15
50 min
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#35: How to Activate Your Sexual Instinct — John Luckovich & Alexandra Arroyo-Acevedo
Join John Luckovich and Alexandra Arroyo-Acevedo for a Summertime class on the Sexual Instinct at The Enneagram School. LinksThe Sexual Instinct Class at The Enneagram SchoolThe Enneagram School Home Page John Luckovich [SX/SP 4w5] is Co-Founder of The Enneagram School, author of The Instinctual Drives and the Enneagram, and co-host on the Big Hormone Enneagram podcast. Alexandra Arroyo-Acevedo [SO/SP 9w1] is a co-host on the Big Hormone Enneagram Podcast. She also does personal Astrology readings and Enneagram-based commentary on reality shows like the Bachelorette. Timestamps
2024-07-01
1h 19
By The Horns: A Chicago Bulls Show
How will Josh Giddey impact the Bulls and Zach LaVine’s future?
In this episode of the Bulls Talk Podcast, K.C. Johnson and Tony Gill dive deep into the latest buzz surrounding the Bulls. They explore Zach LaVine's trade options this offseason and discuss whether the Bulls might try to repair their relationship with LaVine to play alongside Josh Giddey (2:03). They provide more reaction and analysis of the Josh Giddey trade and how he can fit on the Bulls (8:01). The discussion heats up as they debate if Giddey will be the starting point guard (14:42) and whether drafting another guard could pose a problem (19:45). Finally, K.C. and Tony make their...
2024-06-24
34 min
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#34: Chanti (SX/SP 7w6 794) — Magically Enhancing My Environment, Having Fun, and Getting (Away With) What I Want
"I think it's my purpose in life to leave an imprint on people or places I go. Maybe it's like little seeds that I plant or pixie dust I spread around and it blooms a little bit. I just love that." Full Title: Chanti, Type 7 - Magically Enhancing My Environment, Having Fun, and Getting (Away With) What I Want Chanti [SX/SP 7w6 794] is a fascinating and magical human being living in Belgium. We explore how how assertive Chanti can be about her priorities, the difference between frustration and attachment perspectives, and the centrality of h...
2024-06-14
1h 32
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#33: Russ Hudson, Type 5: Isolation, Hyperfocus, & Escaping to Emptiness
"When we live inside a pattern, we don't know that we're living inside a pattern, which is why it's hard for people to type themselves. We just think that's reality. It's like the Johari box, there's what we don't know what we don't know. And I didn't know how desperately disconnected I was. I didn't feel as a child that was missing out on anything. I thought I was just fine. I thought watching the ants was more interesting." Russ Hudson co-authored The Wisdom of the Enneagram and other Enneagram classics with his longtime collaborator Don Riso...
2024-05-14
1h 27
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#32: Bob Fecas (SO/SP 2w1 279) — Personal Touch, Saintly Inspiration, & Having a Special Place in Others' Life
“I simply drove to this person’s house right away when I was feeling this rejection and said, listen I’m sitting outside in the car if you want to come out and talk. You know, but I didn’t go to the door and knock. I didn’t want to intrude. I want to respect his freedom. But at the same time I want to say “Hey let’s move on and see what’s happening, and if things need to shift and if I have missed some things, please.” Bob Fecas [SO/SP 2w1 279] is a spiritual adviso...
2024-04-30
1h 33
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#31 The Work of Byron Katie with Todd Smith — How to Question Stressful Thoughts
"I've often heard people talk about The Work of Byron Katie as the "how"... there's the "what" of spiritual development... you know freedom, what it looks like... it's described so well in terms of Essence in the Enneagram. There are many ways to talk about it in many traditions. And there are many ways in terms of the how. But Byron Katie's is such a simple and accessible how. Like, take this step, follow this step, go through these little points... and there's often some evolution happening in just 20-30 minutes." Todd Smith is a facilitator of...
2024-04-16
2h 16
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#30: Gendlin's Focusing with Sandy Jahmi Burg — How to Listen to Your Body
Sandy Jahmi Burg is a facilitator of Gendlin's Focusing -- the most powerful method of tapping into body intelligence that I've encountered. In this interview, we define it, demo it, and debrief. Enjoy. WATCH THIS INTERVIEW ON YOUTUBE Learn Focusing with SandyThe Enneagram School's Website Timestamps 0:00 Intro 3:46 What is Focusing? 6:30 The "felt-sense" implies "life-forward" movement 10:02 The importance of being "in relationship" with the felt sense 12:13 Making an invitation as you enter a Focusing session 13:35 Demo - Lead...
2024-04-02
1h 24
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#29 Yamira (SO/SX 5w4 531) — High Stakes Art, Grief & Creativity, & Crossing the Bridge to an "Other"
Yamira [SO/SX 5w4 531] is an artist in New York. Watch this interview on YouTube so you can see Yamira's art as she talks about it. WATCH THIS INTERVIEW ON YOUTUBE Yamira's Art Yamira's Social @mossyscabs @_brujaja The Enneagram School Get Officially Typed by Enneagrammer Timestamps 0:00 Intro 1:49 Why make art? 7:34 Grief losing whole portfolio of art (!) 10:49 What was the Grief like? 12:09 On delaying "dealing with the grief" 13:55 Facing fear and becoming a more "public" p...
2024-03-18
1h 17
The Triple Zeros Sports Podcast
Bears Bye Week Breakdown + Bulls About to Blow it Up?
Looking at the Chicago Bears offense and what needs to change for next season including what to do with quarterback Justin Fields, left tackle Braxton Jones, and more. Plus some injury updates and #NFL Week 13 picks. On the #NBA side, the Chicago Bulls look on the verge of a roster overhaul if not a complete rebuild. Zach LaVine is their top priority so which team should trade for him? What about DeMar DeRozan? Also, Memphis Grizzlies star Ja Morant heading to court, Phoenix Suns star Kevin Durant is perfect for this era, and more! Follow...
2023-12-02
43 min
The Triple Zeros Sports Podcast
Justin Fields Back Under Center + Zach LaVine On the Way Out of Chicago
Chicago Bears quarterback Justin Fields is slated to start in Week 11 versus the Detroit Lions so the comments of the day after practice are key. Elsewhere in the NFL, Cleveland Browns quarterback Deshaun Watson is out for the season with a shoulder injury. If only they still had Josh Dobbs. On the NBA side, Zach LaVine and the Chicago Bulls are both open to exploring a trade this season. And Philadelphia 76ers F Kelly Oubre's harrowing tale is under scrutiny. Plus more! Follow the show on Facebook, Instagram, and X/Twitter (@JoshGBuck, @3ZerosPod...
2023-11-16
37 min
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#28: Kelly (SO/SX 5w6 512) — Unnecessary Emotions, Rejection-Attachment Relationship Dynamics, Doing My Own Thing
Kelly Ayadi [SO/SX 5w6 512] is frequenter of online Enneagram forums and a somewhat more "relational" type 5 than might be typical, given her double-people instinctual stacking and 2 fix. In this conversation, we talk about her childhood "doing her own thing" and her relationship with her 9 partner, her kids, and her family. Kelly's framing of certain emotions as "unnecessary" is illuminating, as is her relationship with expressing love in a way that reaches the other person and appreciation for acts of kindness from her partner. I feel this conversation is very helpful in showing how 5s differ from 9s, and...
2023-10-26
1h 35
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#27 BONUS EP: Courtney Smith (SO/SP 6w5 631) — Engagement in the Mental Center, Finding Truth in the Body, & Cultivating Inner Authority
I present to you the audio of the infamous Mascara Incident (which we don't talk about). This was recorded in December 2022, about 9 months before Courtney's official video interview. In this conversation, we explore Courtney's experience as an Attachment type in the Mental center, her typing journey (starting at 1, landing on 6), and her 6-ish journey to uncovering original insights about Object Relations and sharing them on the Big Hormone Enneagram podcast. We also touch on Alexander Technique and other grounding practices that helped Courtney discover her Inner Authority and her body's ability to discern Truth. Courtney's Coaching & Enneagram Co...
2023-10-10
1h 46
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#26: Courtney Smith (SO/SP 6w5 631) — Outsourcing Agency, the Call to Self-Responsibility, Playfulness
Courtney Smith [SO/SP 6w5 631] is a brilliant & original Enneagram thinker who has contributed hugely to our understanding of Object Relations. In this conversation, we explore her life as a 6 navigating her desire to work within systems and to rebel against them, and ultimately cultivating a more grounded relationship to her inner authority. Courtney's insights are illuminating and penetrating as always. WATCH THIS INTERVIEW ON YOUTUBE Courtney's Coaching & Enneagram Consulting Website The Enneagram School's Website Courtney on the Big Hormone Enneagram Podcast -- their most popular episodes on Object Relations
2023-10-03
1h 30
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#25: Siena (SX/SO 8w7 827) — Immediacy in Movement Art, the Mystery of Fighting, & the Innocent Heart of the 8
Siena Hassett [SX/SO 8w7 827] is a Theatre Maker, Movement Artist, and someone who really embodies the virtue of the 8 -- Innocence: the joyful unselfconscious expression of one's life-force, and the willingness to be affected by one's environment. Siena is so alive and engaging, and I couldn't help but be moved by her wide open presence in this conversation. I really appreciate how we moved from "caricaturing" her 8ness in the first 15 minutes to unveiling her real sensitivity and heart, especially as we explore her relationship to her art -- and how we navigated that transition together. I'm very...
2023-08-30
1h 28
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#24: Alexandra (SO/SP 9w1 963) — Triple-Attachment Life, Choosing What's "Mine," & Discovering Friendship Intimacy
Alexandra Arroyo-Acevedo [SO/SP 9w1 963(154)] is a brilliant Enneagram thinker with a very evocative and inspiring triple attachment life story. There’s no one I trust more to explain Attachment from the inside. Alexandra’s insights have been transformative for me, and for many in our community. Find her on the Big Hormone Enneagram podcast, on YouTube doing Enneagram breakdowns of the Bachelorette, and on her website, where you can book a natal chart reading with her as well. WATCH THIS INTERVIEW ON YOUTUBE LinksAlexandra's Website for Astrology & Enneagram Alexandra's YouTube Channel for...
2023-08-16
1h 36
Big Hormone Enneagram
BHE 161 - THE ATTACHMENT SUPPORT GROUP - Josh Lavine
Introducing the attachment support group, brought to you by Alexandra and Josh. — (12:36) Why do attachment types need support? — (14:18) A brief overview on what attachment types are — (20:17) What accountability means for attachment types / waking up from self-abandonment — (29:00) Attaching vs preference / the gift of attachment is flexibility — (33:52) The value of a group that facilitates self-seeing and self-holding — (40:17) A space to witness and acknowledge grief — (42:30) BHE is a hexad support group — (48:58) The goal isn’t to become like hexad types — (55:05) The format and bullet point topics for the classes For more on the Attachmen...
2023-08-05
1h 08
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#23: Kristen Oberly (SO/SP 9w1 963) – Dreamwork, Depersonalization, and Coming (Back to) Life via the Unconscious [SO/SP 9w1 963]
Kristen Oberly [SO/SP 9w1 963(172)] is an exceptionally gifted dream analyst, artist, and guide for the unconscious realm. We explore her misdiagnosis with paranoid schizophrenia, her bouts with depersonalization, and the way she has come back home to herself by following her fascination with the unconscious. A very interesting and particular case of Social Bermuda 9, but the core 9 themes are certainly here: numbness, dissociation, and coming back to life by following the natural flow of my life force. WATCH THIS INTERVIEW ON YOUTUBE Kristen's Website for Art and Dream AnalysisSinsomnia Podcast ...
2023-07-22
1h 28
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#22: Sarah Round 2 MetaConvo (SO/SP 9w1 937) — Attachment Games, Rupture & Repair Cycles, and Realtime Conversation Dynamics [SO/SP 9w1 937]
Round 2 with Sarah [SO/SP 9w1 937]. A conversation ABOUT our last conversation, and a very personal look at both of our attachment games. I loved this. WATCH THIS INTERVIEW ON YOUTUBE Sarah's LinksSarah's Music 1Sarah's Music 2Sarah's PodcastSarah's Instagram Learn the Enneagram at The Enneagram School. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 3:29 Setting up the convo -- why we're here 7:56 First clip 9:53 Sarah pauses. "Floating on the river of meaning" swirling & managing the swirls 15:36 Second clip 16:45 Josh p...
2023-06-14
1h 18
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#21: Sarah (SO/SP 9w1 937) — Positive Outlook Spin, Blurring Fantasy & Reality (and Gaslighting), and Finding Your No [SO/SP 9w1 937]
Sarah [SO/SP 9w1 937] is getting her PhD in psychology en route to becoming a therapist. In this conversation, Sarah is quite open and courageous in sharing what it's like for her on the inside of her "swirly 9-7 stem" energy and speaking style and her positive outlook vibes. We also how she accidentally gaslights partners without knowing it, because of how she can blur inner fantasy with outer reality. (I love this part.) We also hit a really interesting conversational glitch that put both of our type patterns on display. We unpack this in a follow up conversation...
2023-06-07
1h 27
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#20: Emily (SO/SP 8w9 836) — Enneagram Skepticism, Social Power Dynamics, Untouchable Independence, Sensitivity
Emily [SO/SP 8w9 836] is a beautiful example of a heart-forward 8 who has done significant inner work and values her sensitivity. We get into what it means to be in a social "power position," why that's important for her, and what it means to value her vulnerability, among other things. Really good, high resolution introspection. Emily graduated from Yale undergrad and Oxford business school. She also rowed on the Irish national team. She currently works in a purpose-driven startup bringing smoother money transfer services to Africa and beyond. WATH THIS INTERVIEW ON YOUTUBE Links...
2023-05-12
56 min
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#19: Czan (SO/SP 9w1 953) – Twice an Immigrant, Toggling "Existing" On/Off, & Owl Medicine
Czan [SO/SP 9w1 953] is a software engineer for a gaming company and currently lives in the US. He's an original Enneagram thinker, and "Attachment to Disconnect" is his profound insight into how Attachment types create situations to continue reaching for connection, rather than stably connecting. Czan has experience with various inner work modalities and has excellent insights about being an Enneagram 9. I'll add that I experienced his 5 fix vividly in this conversation, which you'll see in the way Czan maintains intellectual separateness. WATCH THIS INTERVIEW ON YOUTUBE Learn the Enneagram at The Enneagram School
2023-04-28
1h 15
Said with Candor Podcast
Our Enneagram Typing Workshop, with Josh Lavine
In this week’s episode Josh Lavine, Executive Coach and Co-founder of the Enneagram School, joins the Candor team to chat about our latest workshop—learning our Enneagram typings together as a team, and its impact on our everyday interactions, decision making, and culture. Create your profile at joincandor.com 🐘🔔 Be a part of the conversation! Show your support by liking, subscribing, and leaving us a comment on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Google Podcasts.
2023-04-27
43 min
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#18: Nancy Walter (SP/SO 3w4 369) — Being Good at Things, Identity Experiments, and Choosing to Live
TRIGGER WARNING: sensitive content. Nancy Walter (SP/SO 3w4 369) is a co-host on the Big Hormone Enneagram podcast and is currently navigating graduate school in genetics. In this extremely candid interview, we talk about Nancy's childhood, wrestling with severe depression and mental health issues (possibly undiagnosed autism, according to her), her self-discovery through competence in knife salesmanship and sugaring, and the road trip that cemented her choice to live. Enjoy! WATCH THIS INTERVIEW ON YOUTUBE The Enneagram School's Website Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 3:51 Interview Start -- Childhood depression, mental hea...
2023-04-19
1h 16
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#17: Charles (SO/SP 9w8 963) — Resensitizing After 20 Numb Years, the Goldilocks Zone, Being “Cool” Not Meticulous
Charles is a 42 year old father of four that's been married for more than half his life. He’s started multiple businesses and currently runs a small internet marketing and web agency. He self-describes as a “body type that speaks from the gut while trying to make social connections.” In this interview, we explore what his 8 “rejection” wing does to his core 9 attachment, his meandering, relaxed conversational style, and what it was like to realize that he’s been operating on autopilot for over 20 years. (!!) We also explore his striking tattoos, the enlivening physicality of getting them, and the way...
2023-02-15
1h 05
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#16: Kier (SO/SP 3w2 358) — Hiddenness and Secrecy, Avoiding Introspection Through Constant Activity, and Not Giving Up on the Heart
Kier [SO/SP 3w2 358(267)] is a trial lawyer, dad, and frequent commenter on Enneagram discussion boards like the Enneagrammer Universe Facebook group. This is our second conversation — we didn’t publish the first one for reasons we explore in the interview. This is a really special conversation that captures a 3 (and 3w2, 358 trifix no less) freshly embarking on the journey of interior excavation, exploring his sensitivity, and asking questions like, “Why the secrecy?” “What am I really afraid of?” Really, really good stuff. WATCH THIS INTERVIEW ON YOUTUBEThe Enneagram School Website Timestamps0:00 Intro 0:30...
2023-01-24
1h 27
Big Hormone Enneagram
BHE 138 - A NEW VARIANT OBJECT RELATIONS THEORY OF THE CENTERS - Josh Lavine
Josh is back to unveil his profound new model of the centers and object relations from a point of view of development. This is major. — (13:30) Josh explains how his variant model of object relations and the centers came about / issues with the protecting and nurturing object relational framework — (20:03) Ken Wilber’s holonic theory of consciousness and the centers as a sequence of development through sensation, gaze, and symbol — (27:48) Object relational affects are oriented to the milieu of each center / frustrated, rejected, or attached to sensory impact, gaze & attention, or symbol & orientation — (28:48) How this framework makes the c...
2023-01-21
1h 34
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#15: Emma Scott (SO/SP 6w7 612) — Resentful Accommodation, Making Things a Bigger Problem Than They Need To Be, and Getting Present in the Mental Center
Emma is an Enneagram coach and mom, and she has her own podcast called There Are No Tangents. In this conversation, you get to see Emma model presence in the mental center as she incorporates a new insight about herself with rather amazing openness. Her self-owns about accommodating people resentfully and "throwing a stink" are charming and helpful distinctions regarding 6s duality of being both an Attachment and a Reactive Type. A pleasure of an interview. Enjoy. WATCH THIS INTERVIEW ON YOUTUBE LinksEmma's Coaching WebsiteEmma's podcast Emma's instagram: @theenneagramconnection
2023-01-11
1h 11
Big Hormone Enneagram
BHE 136 - THE DEVELOPMENTAL ENNEAGRAM [PART II] - Josh Lavine
Picking up where we left off with Josh and Spiral Dynamics. — (1:38) The conflict of what it means to help people with the enneagram from the worldviews of different stages of development — (7:33) Yellow distinguishes between and integrates interior subjectivity and external objectivity — (12:53) DG’s 7-fix ain’t got time for yellow — (16:31) Yellow makes finer distinctions beyond Green’s assumption that everyone’s whole — (20:43) The limitations of Yellow is the insistence that everyone can develop — (25:57) Teal has an awareness of construct as a vantage point for meaning making — (29:55) The way to develop is to reach the limits of y...
2023-01-03
53 min
Big Hormone Enneagram
BHE 135 - THE DEVELOPMENTAL ENNEAGRAM [PART I] - Josh Lavine
BHE 135 - THE DEVELOPMENTAL ENNEAGRAM [PART I] - Josh Lavine Josh of What It’s Like To Be You is hangin with us this week. He broke down how the enneagram is missing and needs a developmental* model (*Not Riso’s Levels of Development) — (14:44) Our understanding of the enneagram evolves with the development of an introspective eye — (16:51) The ability to see oneself is a developmental achievement / words have different interpretations and meanings for each stage of development — (19:50) Riso’s levels of development is a measure of identification and awakening. It’s not a vertical deve...
2022-12-22
50 min
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#14: Jamie Eichar (SP/SO 9w1 963) — Being a Comforting Presence, Making Space For Yourself in Conversations, Rebelling Against Pressure
Jamie (SP/SO 9w1 963) is an gifted cinematographer, an aspiring therapist, and a good friend that I met in my first Enneagram class. He has committed to his inner work in extremely courageous ways and has great language for the inner experience of 9-ness, especially what it's like to "numb out," to drift into invisibility, and to speak up for himself in relationships. This is a great, user friendly introduction to 9ness. Enjoy. WATCH THIS INTERVIEW ON YOUTUBEJamie's Website The Enneagram School Timestamps 0:00 Intro 2:52 Easing into the interview
2022-11-29
1h 10
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#13: Kaisa Jauhiainen (SX/SO 9w8 935) — Hooked or Catatonic, Erotic Releases of Anger, Seeking Essential Harmony through the SX Instinct
UPDATE: Kaisa's Heart Fix has been updated from 3w4 to 3w2. Kaisa is a psychology and neuroscience graduate student and Enneagram enthusiast with an exceptional ability to articulate her experience of being a Sexual 9w8. Enjoy. WATCH THIS INTERVIEW ON YOUTUBEThe Enneagram School Timestamps 0:00 Intro 2:56 Kaisa's typing 5:10 Flatline (935) vs triple reactive (846) overlay, 9 core withdrawn vs 8 wing assertive + sexual dom need to broadcast self 9:53 SX 9 being hooked by something or catatonic 13:31 "When there's no juice, I go catatonic;" Using sharp objects to k...
2022-11-08
1h 24
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#12: Gray Cietek (SO/SP 3w4 368) — Socially Tracking Others, Truly "Seeing" Others, and the Heart's Silent Communication Underneath Words
Gray and I have similar typing, and in this episode we explore what social 3 is "really wanting," underneath the stereotypical social 3's polish and comportment. This conversation gets to the heart of the Social 3 in a way that meant a lot to me personally. Enjoy. WATCH THIS INTERVIEW ON YOUTUBE Gray's YouTube Channel Learn the Enneagram at The Enneagram School Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 3:05 Dropping in as social 3s; "camera on!" "I want to be real, but that doesn't mean my brain agrees that that's safe"; comfort in the...
2022-11-01
1h 24
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#11: Sam Leuenberger (SP/SO 7w6 712) — The (Avoidant) "Fun" of Talk Therapy; Vulnerability as an Attraction Strategy; & Going Back to Feelings School
Sam is an essayist and poet who recently discovered he is a 7, having mistyped as a 4 for years. Before this interview, Sam sent me his beautifully articulated thoughts on being a 7 -- a link to which is below. This conversation explores the Gestalt Therapy session that "got underneath" Sam's mental buzzing and helped him encounter his lonely inner child. Sam is mid-process in a tectonic shift in his self-concept as he reconciles with his 7-ness and goes "back to feelings school." Sam lays our for us often hidden aspects of the 7 type structure -- especially the way talking about...
2022-10-25
1h 21
The Triple Zeros Sports Podcast
Rob Schaefer - NBC Sports Chicago
Happy to welcome Rob Schaefer (@rob_schaef) of NBC Sports Chicago and the "Bulls Talk Podcast" to the show! Rob shared his thoughts on the Bulls' surprising season-opening win on the road over the Miami Heat led by DeMar DeRozan's 37-point effort. He also shared his thoughts on the suddenly murky health status of Zach LaVine, the emergence of Ayo Dosunmu, and the quality additions of Goran Dragic and Andre Drummond. All of that and much more! Follow the show on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter (@JoshGBuck, @3ZerosPod, @ClockerSports), and check out ClockerSports.com today! Heavy...
2022-10-21
30 min
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#10: Joseph Stalteri (SO/SX 4w3 461) — Frustration in the Heart Center, the Resting Attitude of Disdain, & Seeking Refined Social Intimacy
Joseph Salteri is a Type 4 (SO/SX 4w3 461) and is part of the team that runs Enneagrammer.com. He wrote all of the (excellent) content on the Enneagrammer website, including the written typing test, and he is one of the trio of typing experts that runs Dark Arts Academy -- weekly classes where they take you under the hood of their experiential typing process by typing a celebrity in real-time. This conversation explores how Joseph experiences being a core frustration type in the heart center and why that results in a "resting attitude of disdain." The heart center is fu...
2022-10-18
1h 28
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#9: Ikraam Ali (SO/SX 7w6 793) — Procrastinating Darkness, Frustration with Negativity AS Negativity, and Giving an "Honest Try" at Positivity
Ikraam Ali is a Type 7 (SO/SX 7w6 793) who works in local politics. She also has her own YouTube channel focused on Objective Personality System (OPS). This conversation challenged the stereotype of 7s as “positive” types and reframed the 7 pattern “positive outlook” way of being from a frustration lens — in particular, frustration with negativity, which paradoxically creates its own kind of negativity. We get into deep territory here: Ikraam’s relationship with negativity itself and her bout with depression, and aspects of her telling of the story surfaced aspects of the 7 personality, which Ikraam explored gracefully in real time. WATCH...
2022-08-02
1h 08
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#8: Dr. Mary Bates (SP/SO 6w7 692) — Core Sense of Responsibility, the Practice of Making Deliberate Mistakes, and How to Know When to Stop Brushing the Dog
Dr. Mary Bates is a Type 6 (SP/SO 6w7 692) primary care doctor, writer, and mother of 2. Mary discovered she is a 6 with the help of the Enneagrammer typing team after having mistyped as a 2 and a 9, the other two types in her trifix. More than anything, this conversation awoke in me a new reverence the 6’s sense of sacred responsibility and “core of humanity,” which permeates Mary’s life and way of being — both as a doctor, and as an inner anchor for her in surviving major childhood trauma. Our conversation also opened up interesting questions about what anxiety “really” is...
2022-07-26
1h 10
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#7: Jess (SO/SP 5w6 538) — Risking Exposure, the Symbolic Objects I Put Between Us, and the Terror of Mindless, Soul-Dead Zombie-People
Jess is a Type 5 (SO/SP 5w6 538) writer and artist “based on the internet.” Like many 5s, she prefers her privacy and requested that I mention no signifiers of her identity beyond the above. She originally typed as a 7, which given the way she presents, is no surprise. Jess takes on a a whimsical romp through "pleasure gardens," symbolic objects, and the terror of soul-dead zombie-people. This conversation really challenged my understanding of 5-ness. It was fascinating to explore how her withdrawn, rejection core -- underpinned by two assertive fixes -- "deals with" the social drive for connection while main...
2022-07-19
1h 24
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#6: John Luckovich (SX/SP 4w5) — The Inner Middle Finger, the Crushing Gloss of Artifice, and the Sourcing of Identity in Depth Itself
John Luckovich is one of the most brilliant and authentic Enneagram teachers of my generation. His teaching is clear, challenging, thought-provoking, and comes from sincere desire to illuminate the psyche and immersion in his own inner work. His book, The Instinctual Drives and the Enneagram, presents the first ever coherent theory of instincts that incorporates evolutionary biology and developmental psychology, and it successfully argues for the instincts' centrality in spiritual transformation. I think very highly of John, and I'm excited for you to learn from him in this conversation. WATCH THIS INTERVIEW ON YOUTUBELearn the...
2022-07-12
1h 13
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#5: Kelsey Bishop (SP/SO 3w2 378) — Chasing "The Dream" vs "My Dream," Authenticity at Work, and Learning How to Rest
Kelsey Bishop is a Type 3 (SP/SO 3w2 378) whose shift from chasing "The Dream" to discovering her dream tangibly illustrates the 3's growth journey. She is the Founder of Candor, a new kind of professional network dedicated to increasing fulfillment at work by helping you discover and share "how you work." I find Kelsey inspiring and refreshingly self-revealing. We get into some good core 3 stuff like work/activity as self-regulation and what it means to rest and restore oneself. This convo is a really good, "straight down the middle" intro to the Type 3. WATCH THIS INTERVIEW ON...
2022-07-05
1h 11
Soul Kitchen with Jasper Mutsaerts
5 // Josh Lavine on Everything enneagram
Welcome to the Soul Kitchen!The place where Visions come alive. We offer podcast, events, retreats and co-living.Feel welcome to follow our Instagram page and to become a Member of the Soul Kitchen Familia :)Pura vida,JasperWhat you will learn:// Why does the Enneagram matter and where does it come from?// What Enneagram types are Donald Trump and Vladimir Putin?// How did a Lady Gaga concert inspire Josh to enter the Enneagram world?Key highlights:// 1:16 – 2:54 Wh...
2022-07-05
1h 40
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#4: Niklas Wilkens (SO/SP 2w3 269) — The Inner Hope Machine, Power Tripping as "Super Jesus," and Seeing Through Ego Pride
Niklas Wilkens is a humanistic depth psychologist practicing in Germany, and he’s been working with the Enneagram for 14 years, although only 2 years ago realized that he was an Enneagram 2. Niklas honestly blew me away with his very personal and high resolution description of his 2-ness (despite mistyping as a 5 for 11 years!). We get into why 2 is a rejection type, the "inner hope machine," why 2s can come across as creepy, and what it took for him to start really seeing himself. Really (really) good stuff. WATCH THIS INTERVIEW ON YOUTUBE Learn the Enneagram at The...
2022-06-28
1h 31
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#2: David Gray (SP/SX 9w1 974) — Gathering Himself, Online Combativeness, and the Diffusion of Identity
David Gray is the most original voice in the Enneagram world today. His impressionistic, symbolic, elemental thinking style has produced utterly fresh insights about the Instincts, trifixation, typing processes, and the Enneagram symbol itself. David kindly emerged from the cave of primordial darkness to subject himself to invasive questioning for about an hour. His purple shirt on purple background is a genius artistic statement that only certain types will be able to understand. You can buy David's "trifix" booklet on Enneagrammer.com, which he co-runs. David also co-hosts the Big Hormone Enneagram Podcast and the Dark Arts Ac...
2022-06-14
1h 08
The Triple Zeros Sports Podcast
Drew Stevens - Talking Chicago Bulls
Drew Stevens (@LookWhatDrewDid) of Bulls On Tap and WARR Media joined the show to talk about all of the rumors surrounding the team. We get into Zach LaVine's free agency, what to do with Coby White and Nikola Vucevic, and whether or not the Bulls should go after Utah Jazz center, Rudy Gobert. Plus, hear what Drew would do if he had full control of the team this offseason including who he would target in free agency to help round out this roster. Then, things zoom out to the playoffs as a whole. Drew talks about what...
2022-06-08
39 min
Enneagram Interviews: What It's Like To Be You
#1: Emeka Okorafor (SX/SP 8w7 854) — Typing Others, Not Knowing I'm Being Provocative, Advice for Relationships with 8s
Emeka Okorafor is a Sexual 8, and he is a world expert in Enneagram typing. He co-runs Enneagrammer.com, co-hosts the Big Hormone Enneagram Podcast and the Dark Arts Academy -- weekly classes where you can watch the Enneagrammer team type a celebrity live. WATCH THIS INTERVIEW ON YOUTUBE Learn the Enneagram at The Enneagram School Enneagrammer Website & Typing ServicesWatch Emeka & crew type celebrities in realtime in their member's area The Big Hormone Enneagram Podcast (BHE) Timestamps: 00:00 Intro to What It's Like To Be You 1:35 Intro to E...
2022-06-07
1h 23
The Triple Zeros Sports Podcast
SAS vs KD
The NBA Finals start on Thursday, who ya got? While Golden State has the experience, Boston matches up well. And you can never underestimate youthful exuberance. The Chicago Bulls will have some work to do if Zach LaVine leaves. They also have to get Lonzo Ball healthy. A similar story is brewing with the Atlanta Hawks who are ready for wholesale changes in search of a second star, possibly even LaVine. LeBron James became the first active player to reach billionaire (with a “b”) status. On the NFL side, the Chicago Bears have a couple of routes they...
2022-06-03
32 min
4-Quarter Talk
Embiid left off the All-NBA first team??! | 4-QUARTER TALK PODCAST
As we approach the finals, one eye turns to free agency as we discuss the Zach Lavine to LA rumours, if Kyrie Irving is a Brooklyn Net long term and the controversial All NBA teams!
2022-05-26
54 min
The Triple Zeros Sports Podcast
He Keeps Doing Them Dirty
Taking stock of the NBA Conference Finals, Jimmy Butler delivered on his promise. The Miami Heat took care of business in Game 3 versus Jayson Tatum and the Boston Celtics. Bam Adebayo and Jaylen Brown both had stellar performances on the evening. In the Western Conference Finals, the Steph Curry and the Golden State Warriors just keep coming at Luka Docic and the Dallas Mavericks. Zach LaVine's future is becoming more of a debate than is comfortable. But are we just overreacting to the typical process of a first-time free agent? On the NFL side, the Chicago Bears...
2022-05-23
26 min
The Triple Zeros Sports Podcast
‘Before Jerry West Was on My Socks’
This episode of Triple Zeros starts off picking winners for the two Game 7s taking place on Sunday. Will Giannis Antetokounmpo and the reigning champion Milwaukee Bucks advance on the road against Jayson Tatum and the Boston Celtics? Then, can the Dallas Mavericks pull off the upset against last year's NBA Finals runner-up in the Chris Paul-led Phoenix Suns? Secretly, there are a couple of Finals matchups that would be more intriguing than others both for basketball and marketing reasons. Chicago Bulls free agent Zach LaVine's name came up in discussion of yet another team ahead of free agency. D...
2022-05-15
22 min
The Triple Zeros Sports Podcast
Media Narratives and Outside Perceptions
This episode of Triple Zeros starts off marveling at the Milwaukee Bucks' comeback win over the Boston Celtics before checking in on the other four playoff series. Joel Embiid has a point about narratives affecting voting. Did he actually benefit from the media push more than Nikola Jokic? Free-agent guard Zach LaVine has gone from a lock to return to possible flight risk. But the grass is not necessarily greener elsewhere after the season the Chicago Bulls put together. The Atlanta Hawks are heavy in trade rumors with everyone but Trae Young on the table after a disappointing finish...
2022-05-12
24 min
The Triple Zeros Sports Podcast
From Seeing Ghosts to Proven QB?
This episode of Triple Zeros starts off talking about Zach LaVine's Chicago Bulls and how their season has been a success regardless of what happens in the playoffs. Then we move on to Trae Young's Atlanta Hawks who are still battling for positioning in the Play-In Tournament on the final day of the regular season. Joel Embiid has led the Philadelphia 76ers to the four-seed in the Eastern Conference, but that doesn't mean the voters "hate" him if he doesn't win MVP. That award should go to the guy who just recorded the first 2000-point, 1000-rebound, 500-assist season in...
2022-04-10
35 min
The Practical Enneagram
Listening as an elixir, with Josh Lavine
Integral coach, Enneagram teacher and amazing piano player to boot, Josh Lavine (social Three), makes a passionate plea for better listening. And because - note to self - this is an Enneagram podcast, we also discuss how listening intersects with the Enneagram model, specifically where it 'arises' in the instincts and centres. What Josh does in the world with the Enneagram [1.50]Josh's type and his early Enneagram encounters [2.42]Why Josh is passionate about listening [4.53]. Shout out to the semi-sung hero of this conversation, Brian, Josh's listening partner.Why specifically good listening is so important for healing [6.58]Difference between co...
2022-03-15
30 min
The Triple Zeros Sports Podcast
Talking Chicago Bears and Bulls with 'Barberchair Scott' Lewis
Scott Lewis (aka Barberchair Scott) is the founder of The Barber's Chair Network, co-host of the 79th and Halas and 3rd Pick podcasts, as well as the host of 'I'm Not Gon Hold You'. He's also one of the best follows on Twitter and he joined me to talk about the Chicago Bears after they've hired their new regime. We talk about expectations, roster moves, and the team's search process. Perception versus Reality also came up after the Bears received a lot of attention throughout the entire process. Our attention turns to the first-place Bulls who have...
2022-02-06
35 min
The Triple Zeros Sports Podcast
Super Wild Card Weekend
We kick things off by flipping the script and making picks first ahead of Super Wild Card Weekend on Saturday. The Joe Burrow-led Cincinnati Bengals might just be too much for the great story that has been the Derek Carr (and Rich Bisaccia) Las Vegas Raiders season. Home teams should rule the weekend but don't be surprised if the San Francisco 49ers and Arizona Cardinals make it interesting. The same could be said for Ben Roethlisberger and the Pittsburgh Steelers who certainly won't be intimidated by Arrowhead against the Kansas City Chiefs. Plus, we touch on the most intriguing...
2022-01-15
37 min
The Triple Zeros Sports Podcast
'The Game Put Me To Sleep'
Mac Jones and the New England Patriots shutout of Matt Ryan and the Atlanta Falcons to kick off Week 11 in the NFL was so lopsided it put me to sleep. Why did Ryan/Atlanta run it back again? Elsewhere in the NFC South, Cam Newton is back with the Carolina Panthers and Antonio Brown is denying claims that he had a fake vaccination card his former chef says he received from a Tampa Bay Buccaneers teammate. Derrick Henry could return this season. Plus, Matthew Stafford's wife is giving Patrick Mahomes' a run for her money in the bleacher food...
2021-11-20
43 min
Cash Considerations: A Chicago Bulls Pod
A Zach LaVine lovefest with Josh Eberley
Cash Considerations welcomes NBA Twitter star Josh Eberley to the pod to show all the love to Zach LaVine as he prepares to lead the Bulls back to relevance. We discuss how LaVine will mesh with all the new talent around him and just how good this roster can be after the aggressive moves over the last year, all while addressing the criticisms that Chicago went all in on a team without a championship ceiling. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pc...
2021-09-09
38 min
The Triple Zeros Sports Podcast
Trae Young is a Bona Fide Superstar
In this episode, Josh says it's time we acknowledge Trae Young as a superstar. He also thinks Young's Atlanta Hawks can beat Giannis Antetokounmpo and the Milwaukee Bucks. It's the same thing for Devin Booker's Phoenix Suns despite Chris Paul's return throwing off their mojo in Game 3. He doubts the ability of the Clippers to overcome yet another 0-2 deficit, but Game 3 was a good start. Then things switch to non-NBA Playoffs news as several head coaching vacancies were filled. On the NFL front, the league approved the return of alternate helmets for throwback uniforms, the Pittsburgh Steeler cut...
2021-06-26
42 min
The Triple Zeros Sports Podcast
Bill Zimmerman
Happy to be joined by Bill Zimmerman; the executive producer of Mad Dog Sports Radio show on Sirius XM, a contributor to Windy City Gridiron, and host of the Bears Banter podcast. We got into all things Chicago Bears, covering what Bill's assessment of their offseason up to this point, why the Bears are so bad at PR, and how they still have a path to Russell Wilson. All that and more on this episode of Triple Zeros! Be sure to follow Bill on Twitter (@ZimmermanSXM), tune into Mad Dog Sports Radio, and listen to the Bears Banter podcast!
2021-04-09
33 min
The Triple Zeros Sports Podcast
Selective Pocket Watchers
In this episode of Triple Zeros, Josh celebrates Zach LaVine finally getting the recognition he deserves, wonders about people who pocket watch quarterbacks like Patrick Mahomes, and so much more!
2021-03-12
37 min
The Triple Zeros Sports Podcast
Rick Camp Pt. 2
Rick Camp, host of the Chicago Bulls radio postgame show, was gracious enough to join me once again. We got into Zach LaVine's surprising development, projected Coby White's ceiling, and so much more. Follow Rick on Twitter (@RickCCamp) and be sure to listen to him after every Bulls game on 670 The Score. Also check out the 'I'm Fat' and 'Basketball Camp' podcasts, available everywhere!
2021-03-02
59 min
Ranting about anything in sports
J.J Watt free agency talk, should Zach Lavine an all star? How can the Celtics turn it around? Bear
My opinion on J.J Watt desination. My thoughts on Zach Lavine all star nod. My thoughts on the Celtics performance lately, bears situation Qb1
2021-02-22
18 min
Ranting about anything in sports
Super bowl predictions, Bulls talks, Bears QB1 rumors, can the Nets beat the Lakers in the playoffs?
My pick to win the super bowl and why? My thoughts on Bears qb1’s situation, my opinion on Zach lavine rumors. My on nets vs Lakers series
2021-02-08
18 min
Think Differently
Episode 15: Jesse Lavine Thinks Differently About Human Potential
Jesse Lavine is a Type 1 Diabetic Health Coach and Entrepreneur who in 2019 rode his bike from New York City to San Francisco to raise money and awareness for diabetes. We were connected a few months back through a common friend who suggested we talk because Jesse has an AMAZING idea he is trying to bring to life. In this episode we talk about the challenges he encountered managing is diabetes and his ride, his perspective on approaching challenges and his view on what we are all capable of. Jesse Lavine thinks differently about the human potential! Show Note...
2020-07-22
38 min
The Triple Zeros Sports Podcast
Luka Mea Culpa
NFL -Bears W changes nothing -LAMAR 4 MVP!!! NBA -Bulls: LaVine > Boylen -Luka Doncic mea culpa + More!
2019-11-26
31 min