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Warrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWEmpowering Survivors with Gloria AllredGloria Allred is a founding partner of Allred, Maroko & Goldberg (AM&G) with offices in Los Angeles and New York. Her firm has been the leading women’s rights private law firm in the nation for 47 years, winning hundreds of millions of dollars for victims. Ms. Allred has won countless honors for her pioneering legal work on behalf of victims who have been discriminated against due to gender, race, age, physical handicap, sexual orientation, sexual harassment or because they have AIDS. AM&G is also well-known for its work on behalf of victims of rape, child sexual abuse and battered wo...2023-03-2734 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWRelationships and Dating ViolenceA List of Resources for You Resources for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: www.childhelp.org Suicide Prevention: www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org Find a Therapist: www.psychologytoday.com Find a Lawyer: www.americanbar.org or contact the State Bar Pro Bono Section of your state Eating Disorders Support: www.nationaleatingdisorders.org Online Alcohol and Drug Addiction Support: www.recovertogether.w...2023-02-2747 minThe Be Kind To Yourself PodcastThe Be Kind To Yourself PodcastEpisode #6: Thriving After Trauma: Stories of Living and HealingToday I am grateful and honored to welcome Shari Botwin to the podcast.  Shari Botwin, LCSW, has been counseling survivors in recovery from all types of trauma in her Cherry Hill, New Jersey private practice for over twenty-five years. Her second book, “Thriving After Trauma: Stories of Living and Healing" (Rowman & Littlefield, November 8, 2019) deals with overcoming trauma including physical and sexual abuse, war-related injury, loss due to tragedy or illness and natural disaster. An updated paperback of Thriving After Trauma released worldwide in October of 2021. In July 2022 Botwin presented a webinar for The Trauma and Recovery Institute in...2023-02-1520 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWDestigmatizing Asking For HelpEveryone needs help sometimes. Join Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSW as they discuss the importance of reaching out and how that translates into living better, happier lives.  A List of Resources for You! Resource for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: www.childhelp.org Suicide Prevention: www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org Find a Therapist: www.psychologytoday.com Find a Lawyer: www.americanbar.org or contact the State Bar Pro Bono Section of your state Ea...2023-02-1339 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWNichols, Floyd and Linked FateAnother senseless death captured the world's attention as the video of Tyre Nichols final moments of life were released. Elected officials and community members expressed shock and sadness after seeing the police body camera and neighborhood security camera footage​, which showed multiple Memphis Police Department (MPD) officers kicking, punching and striking Nichols with a baton as he screamed for help. Join Judge Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSW in an emotional conversation about Nichol's death, and how we can take action and demand change. Linked fate is when others can imagine that Floyd, Nichols and others could have been their son...2023-02-0638 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWOur Bodies Store TraumaA List of Resources for You! Resource for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: www.childhelp.org Suicide Prevention: www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org Find a Therapist: www.psychologytoday.com Find a Lawyer: www.americanbar.org or contact the State Bar Pro Bono Section of your state Eating Disorders Support: www.nationaleatingdisorders.org Online Alcohol and Drug Addiction Support: www.recovertogether.withgoogle.com For more on Judge Aquilina's book, Just Watch Me go to Just Watch Me: Aquilina, Rosemarie: 9798985513417: Amazon.c...2023-01-3044 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWTurning Trauma Into SuccessNo one is immune from trauma. Everyone has trauma that isn’t realized. The emotions and memories live within us and cannot be ignored. It can be turned into success, through better understanding of ourselves, the world, and all those around us. Turning trauma into positive personal change, and growth increases the ability to succeed. Join our discussion about flipping the script, by being optimistic and open to seeing the world in new ways and with positivity that embraces change snd releases the trauma we hold.  2023-01-2337 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWHope, Healing and SuicideJoin Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSW in an important episode on suicide awareness and prevention. No one chooses to feel hopeless or struggle with conditions, such as, PTSD and depression. If these thoughts are feelings are left unaddressed, that puts people in danger of considering suicide as a way to end their pain and suffering. There is help. There are ways people can manage with these types of thoughts.  Lifeline (988lifeline.org) The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (Call or Chat Online). This resource is available 24/7 at the following number: 2023-01-1648 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWEmotional EatingTrauma not only lives deep inside us, but without realizing it we often eat in response to emotions, it’s called emotional eating. Everyone does it because our bodies need food to survive. However food is a temporary emotional reward system in the brain that for a short time makes you feel better. Please join us! Eating Disorders Helpline | Chat, Call, or Text | NEDA (nationaleatingdisorders.org) Binge Eating Disorder Association (BEDA) | Facebook Nourish | Make Nutrition Changes that Last (usenourish.com) A List of Resources for You! Resource for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: ww...2023-01-0945 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWCosby Announces His Comedy Tour for 2023 and New Allegations of Sexual Assault Filed Against HimJoin Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSW for an episode from Season Two, days after Cosby was released early from prison. Last week Cosby's PR team announced that he is planning a comedy tour in 2023. Simultaneously, more than five women have filed allegations of sexual assault against him.  But for an oral plea agreement that violated Cosby's 5th amendment right against self-incrimination, he would still be in prison. Join us for an open conversation about the reaction of sexual assault survivors and their supporters about Cosby's early release from prison. It is possible to continue moving f...2023-01-0245 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWConnections Heal Trauma: Johnny Mathis and Bernadette PetersIs there someone in this world that has inspired you or brought you comfort during difficult times? Have you been able to let that person know what they mean to you? Join Judge Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSW in a powerful discussion about the people they did not know who helped in their healing: Johnny Mathis and Bernadette Peters. 2022-12-1243 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWPet LossGrieving the loss of a pet is real. Disenfranchised grief equals undervalued and unacknowledged grief where feelings are not acknowledged or publicly mourned. Join Judge Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSW in a heartfelt conversation to gain awareness and understanding of coping with pet loss.  For more support on coping with pet loss contact: 1. ASPCA 877-grief10  2. Lap of Love 855-955-56832022-12-0540 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWThe Impact of RK Kelly, Cosby and MaxwellJury finds Bill Cosby sexually abused Judy Huth in the 1970's and is ordered to pay Ms. Huth $500,000 in civil suit. Ghislaine Maxwell was sentenced to 20 years in prison for conspiring with Jeffrey Epstein to sexually abuse minors. Join Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSW as they discuss the latest cases against high profile men and women who have allegedly committed sexually violent crimes against innocent children. The system is broken, but there are cases where survivors are getting justice, even decades after the abuse occurred! A List of Resources for You! Resource for survivors...2022-11-2845 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWTransforming Loss into LifeJoin Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSW as they continue their conversation about coping with unimaginable loss as we head into the holidays. How can you take your grief and transform those feelings into action and change? Traumatic loss leaves many people paralyzed with pain and anguish. Listen to Judge Aquilina and Botwin as they share examples about people who have suffered devastating losses and have found ways to use their experiences to heal themselves while helping others.  www.ivaccinate.org Home - I Vaccinate: Franny Strong Foundation Mikey23 Foundation | Facebook: The M...2022-11-2135 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWTrailer for Transforming Loss Into LifeJoin Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSW tomorrow for their next episode as they discuss how to transform unimaginable loss into hope and life. 2022-11-2001 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWTraumatic Loss"A death is considered traumatic if it occurs without warning; if it is untimely; if it involves violence; if there is damage to the loved one’s body; if it was caused by a perpetrator with the intent to harm; if the survivor regards the death as preventable; if the survivor believes that the loved one suffered; or if the survivor regards the death, or manner of death, as unfair and unjust." (Grief After Traumatic Loss - Whats your Grief) Join Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSW in a powerful conversation about the impact of traumatic loss.  w...2022-11-1429 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWTrailer for episode on traumatic lossHere is a sneak peek of the next episode, dropping this Monday. Join Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSW for a powerful conversation about traumatic loss.2022-11-1301 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWOvercoming Self-SabotageJoin Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSW for an energized conversation about how to break patterns of self-sabotage. Feelings of inadequacy and worthlessness lead to choices that causes more stress and anxiety. Learn how to transform beliefs about yourself and move into a place of self-care and boundaries. 2022-11-0740 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWHate Speech is Trauma: Kanye West's Offensive Statements Trigger HateJoin Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, for the Season 3 opener of Warrior Women Speak. Join them for an honest, lively conversation on the impact of hate speech and how statements made by Kanye West affected so many. How can members of society take statements of hate and transform them into statements of love and unity? You won't want to miss this episode! A List of Resources for You! Resource for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Childhelp National...2022-10-3138 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWManaging TriggersJoin Judge Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSW, in this important conversation about managing triggers resulting from trauma. Being able to identify thoughts and feelings associated with difficult life events leads to a fuller, happier, more peaceful life. The journey is different for everyone. Judge Aquilina and Botwin, LCSW share stories about people they have met in their careers to help listeners gain insight and avoid staying stuck in the pain of their trauma. This meaningful conversation will help you be the hero in your own story!   A List of Resources for You!   Resource for survivors of chil...2022-07-1127 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWHow The Body Holds Onto Trauma: Finding Ways to Integrate Our Memories and FeelingsREPOST from Season One: Everyone has memories that are activated by our five senses. Join Judge Aquilina and Botwin, LCSW in this moving conversation about triggers and how to understand and work through those that are daunting and how to enjoy those that are pleasurable. A List of Resources for You! Resource for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: www.childhelp.org Suicide Prevention: www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org Find a Therapist: www.psychologytoday.com Find...2022-07-0444 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWDomino Effect of Reversing Roe v WadeJoin Judge Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSW in a heartfelt discussion about the SCOTUS reversal of Roe v Wade in the Dodds v Jackson decision. Seventy percent of the American public is pro-choice. Deaths of women are estimated to increase by 21% and 33% among black women. The government has made a choice that will lead to increased suicides, deaths and inequality. What can the public do with their outrage and horror? What are some steps people can take to make their voice be heard about a choice that should be up to a woman and her doctor?2022-06-2758 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWAccepting Our Flawed ParentsComing to terms with our flawed parents ultimately brings us to a place of peace and comfort. What does it mean to forgive our parents and how can we choose happiness versus hold onto the anger from the past?2022-06-1949 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWLet's Talk Honestly: IVF, Adoption, Surrogacy and RapeThere is only love, no shame, in having a child. Regardless of whether they became part of your family by IVF, adoption, surrogacy or rape, children deserve honest age-appropriate answers about how they were conceived. This is needed for their mental health, physical health and overall feeling of safety, security and love. Lies by omission can negatively affect the parent-child relationship. Lies hurt the child's ability to trut and can lead to depression, shame and anxiety. Join us as we discuss this very important issue.2022-06-1342 minThe Trauma TherapistThe Trauma TherapistEpisode 617: Let's Talk About Being Fearless with Shari BotwinShari Botwin, LCSW, has been counseling survivors in recovery from all types of trauma in her Cherry Hill, New Jersey private practice for over twenty-five years.Her second book, “Thriving After Trauma: Stories of Living and Healing, Rowman & Littlefield,” (Rowman & Littlefield, November 8, 2019) deals with overcoming trauma including physical and sexual abuse, war-related injury, loss due to tragedy or illness and natural disasters.Real stories and practical tools shed light on how to let go of the shame, guilt, anger, and despair after a traumatic experience.An updated paperback of Thriving After Trauma released worldwide in October of 2021.2022-06-0635 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWDepp v Heard: Anger, Empathy or Setback?The Depp v Heard trial begs many questions to include: Will there be a chilling effect on turning to the legal system for assistance? Will #MeToo be affected? Can we use this case as a teachable moment? Join us in our lively discussion on Warrior Women Speak. 2022-06-0646 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWGuilt, Grief and Regret: Managing these Emotions During Such Difficult Times“Guilt, Grief & Regret." Covid, school shootings, other crimes, wars, natural causes… Whatever the reason when someone we love passes away, grief, guilt and regret have a cyclical relationship that heightens at various times and although painful, these feelings are part of the normal healing process. Please join “Warrior Women Speak” in this lively and meaningful discussion. A List of Resources for You Resources for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Childhelp National Child Ab...2022-05-3039 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWFinding Peace In ChaosWhen fictional horror scenes become our reality and the unimaginable happens, how do we begin to regain control and manage our stress? How do we cope with feelings of uncertainty, unsafety and fear when trauma envelopes us?2022-05-2352 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWFight, Flight, Freeze, or FawnHave you seen or experienced a horrifying event, been a victim of a crime, or suffered a significant loss? Does your adrenaline kick in when you take a test, or sense danger, or maybe at times when you are uncertain? Trauma can affect you in the moment but it also has effects long after the triggering incident.  Our bodies react in different ways when we sense danger or have to work through our fears. During these uncertain moments our brain goes into ‘protective mode’ that can trigger "fight, flight, freeze, or fawn" or a hybrid of those responses which often...2022-05-1645 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWOur Mothers, Ourselves: Part TwoJoin us in part two of our conversation with Judith Ruskay Rabinor, PhD whose latest book: The Girl in the Red Boots is our special Mother's Day guest. Judith's continues telling her story and we discuss various ways to cope and connect with our mothers and a past we cannot change. Judith lives by example demonstrating that we can move forward positively by understanding, having faith, and believing in ourselves. Judith's story teaches us that we are stronger and better because of where we came from. It is important to understand that reconciling the relationships we have with our...2022-05-0939 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWOur Mothers, Ourselves: Part OneJudith Ruskay Rabinor, PhD whose latest book: The Girl in the Red Boots is our special Mother's Day guest. Join us in this two part series where we discuss and share our various journeys with our mothers. Judith's story with her own mother couldn't be told for years after her mother passed but through her writing she healed and was finally ready to share her story to help others. Reconciling the relationships we have with our mothers allows us to release anger and gain compassion and insight for ourselves and our mothers. The views we have as children morph...2022-05-0836 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWMental Health MattersRecognizing the signs of troubling mental health issues that often begin with depression can save a life—your own or someone you love. Please join Warrior Women Speak with myself & Shari Botwin, LCSW, in this important discussion A List of Resources for You Resources for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: www.childhelp.org Suicide Prevention: www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org Find a Therapist: www.ps...2022-05-0247 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWCombating Rape CultureA woman is raped every 68 seconds. We live in a society that often shames or blames the victim. What can we do to combat rape culture? Join Judge Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSW in an honest discussion about progress we have made and what still needs attention. National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline: 1-866-331-9474 or 1-866-331-8453 (TTY) Prefer to Text? Text "loveis" to 22522. Peer advocates are available to talk, text, or chat online 24/7 Resources for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN...2022-04-2547 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWBurnout is a Real Mental Health Issue: Recognizing Signs and Treating the ConditionBurnout is now classified as a mental health condition caused by unmanaged stress at home and at work. Left untreated, it can lead to chronic illness, depression and anxiety. Join Judge Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSW in an energetic conversation about how to recognize the signs of burnout and what to do if you have it! A List of Resources for You: Suicide Prevention: www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org Find a Therapist: www.psychologytoday.com Find a Lawyer: www.americanbar.org or contact the State Bar Pro Bono Section of your state Eating Disorders Support: www.nationaleatingdisorders.org Online Alcohol and Drug A...2022-04-1837 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWToxic Friendships: How to Know When You Are In OneHow do you know when you are in a relationship that is toxic? What are some of the red flags? In the episode Judge Aquilina and Botwin, LCSW had an unfiltered conversation about relationships and how to know when they are causing pain versus support and comfort.  A List of Resources for You! Resources for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: www.childhelp.org Suicide Prevention: www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org...2022-04-1152 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWDivorce: Love Your Kids More Than You Hate Your PartnerDivorce is the death of a marriage and everyone needs time to heal. Working together toward an amicable divorce couples can heal faster and protect their children from the trauma instead teaching them that despite living in two homes they are still one family and are loved. Please join us is in this candid and heartfelt discussion. A List of Resources for You! Resources for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: w...2022-04-0449 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWProtection from Self and OthersWe all have a right to feel safe, especially in our homes. Life brings with it many stressors  and it is important to be aware of your surroundings, analyze your safety, and prepare an escape plan if you are living in a dangerous situation. In times of war, fallout from Covid, and unsafe situations at home, we need to protect ourselves and loved ones. What are some steps you can take when you feel like your emotional or physical safety are at risk? Join us for some tips and resources.   A List of Resources for You  Re...2022-03-3048 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWBuilding ResilenceBuilding Resilience…We are born with it—You have what it takes to keep hope & overcome any obstacle with your resilience A List of Resources for You! Resources for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: www.childhelp.org Suicide Prevention: www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org Find a Therapist: www.psychologytoday.com Find a Lawyer: www.americanbar.org or contact the State Bar Pro Bono Section of your state2022-03-2150 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWSetting Boundaries and Shedding NarcissistsBeing your unique self means that it is important to be your own cheerleader and not letting any narcissist keep you from being you! No one has the right to steal your joy or make you feel like your needs and wants are not important. Set boundaries, even if it means walking away. Keep your power and enjoy your life!  A List of Resources for You! Resources for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org  The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org  Childhelp National Chil...2022-03-1444 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWUkraine: Hope Amid Hatred Helps HealingWatching the war against Ukraine triggers many into recalling the past and worrying about the future. We must remain hopeful, practice self-care, talk with children, and do small things for others as this war unfolds. Partnering together we can stand with Ukraine to give them hope and healing and let them know we stand with them.  To read Botwin's latest feature in Psychology Today Magazine on managing emotions as war breaks out in Ukraine go to How Images of War in Ukraine Can Trigger PTSD | Psychology Today A List of Resources for Y...2022-03-0749 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWManaging Our Emotions as War Breaks Out in the UkraineJoin Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSW in a powerful discussion about the latest outbreak of violence in the Ukraine. Topics included how to talk to our children about the war, how to manage PTSD for those that have served and how to support people abroad.  A List of Resources for You! Resource for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: www.childhelp.org Suicide Prevention: www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org Find a Therapist: www.psychologytoday.co...2022-02-2841 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWOur Thoughts About Kamau Bell’s Documentary on, “We Need to Talk Cosby”When guilty verdicts are overturned like in the Cosby case, what are the effects on the victims? Join this lively discussion about trauma, revictimization, healing and change. Let us know what you think. Your voice matters! You matter! We hear you! A List of Resources for You! Resource for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: www.childhelp.org Suicide Prevention: www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org Find a Therapist: www.psychologytoday.com Find a Lawyer: www.americanbar.o...2022-02-2142 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWBe Your Own Valentine!Flowers, cards, and candy do not define Valentines Day! It is a day to honor yourself, your loved ones who are with us and who have passed. Remember to be your own best friend and love yourself so that you can pass that love on to others and receive love when you are ready. A List of Resources for You! Resource for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: www.childhelp.org Suicide Prevention: www...2022-02-1434 minThe Trauma TherapistThe Trauma TherapistEpisode 584: Stories of Living & Healing. Shari BotwinShari Botwin, LCSW opened her Cherry Hill private practice in 1996. Prior to starting her own practice Shari worked at the Renfrew Center in Philadelphia. She provides individual, group and family therapy with a specialization in treating trauma, abuse, eating disorders, anxiety and depression. Shari also provides virtual individual and family teletherapy using a HIPPA approved telemedicine platform. Shari holds a Masters Degree in Social Work from Rutgers University. Her second book, Thriving After Trauma: Stories of Living and Healing, released worldwide November 4, 2019. The updated paperback edition released on October 11, 2021. (Rowman and Littlefield).A day before the COVID lockdown Botwin...2022-02-1031 minUnbroken: Healing Through StorytellingUnbroken: Healing Through Storytelling63: Thriving After Trauma with Shari BotwinI loved my interview with Shari as so much of what she said resonated with me!   We are both survivors and therapists and understand what it’s like to sit in both chairs in the counsellor’s room.  And we also understand that healing after trauma is not always easy but is so worth it. Shari Botwin, LCSW has been counselling survivors in recovery from trauma and abuse for over 24 years in her South Jersey practice.  Her second book, "Thriving After Trauma: Stories of Living and Healing," is a compilation of patient sto...2021-11-0339 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWCosby's Early Release Will Not Quiet Sexual Assault SurvivorsBut for an oral plea agreement that violated Cosby's 5th amendment right against self-incrimination, he would still be in prison. Join us for an open conversation about the reaction of sexual assault survivors and their supporters about Cosby's early release from prison. It is possible to continue moving forward after injustice especially since Cosby was found Guilty. Coping with the triggers associated with these kind of cases helps survivors find peace in the aftermath of the storm. A fire has been lit and survivors and advocates are more determined than ever to fight injustice, advance passage of meaningful legislation, and...2021-07-1245 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWStop ApologizingYou are not responsible for anyone but yourself so stop apologizing for being you. Flip the script and instead of feeling guilty and apologizing, acknowledge you are human and own it. And, stop apologizing to others for what they are going through, instead ask what you can do to help and thereby acknowledge what they are going through. A List of Resources for You! Resource for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Childhelp National Child Abuse...2021-07-0530 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWPTSD Awareness, Recognition, and HealingThe first step in dealing with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is to recognize it. PTSD can make your life incredibly difficult and unpredictable resulting in levels of stress and anxiety that become unbearable. Asking for help or helping another will change a negative trajectory into a positive trajectory that returns inner peace, joy and ensures a future filled with confidence and fulfilment. Veterans Crisis Line: 1-800-273-8255 and press 1 or text 838255 https://www.ptsd.va.gov/understand/awareness/index.asp Crisis Helpline for First Responders: 866-676-7500  24-Hour Crisis Li...2021-06-2857 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWTrust After TraumaThe difficult journey of learning to trust is mandatory after abandonment, loss, and trauma. Without reclaiming the ability to trust ourselves and others we only betray ourselves by not being able to enjoy a happy, healthy, well adjusted life.  A List of Resources for You! Resource for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: www.childhelp.org Suicide Prevention: www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org Find a Therapist: www.psychologytoday.com2021-06-2143 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWFathers Day: A celebration that began by a daughter who wanted to celebrate the man who raised her!Do you love your father, hate your father, miss your father, or wish you were a father? Maybe you never knew your father? The entanglement of emotion on a day that honors fathers can be untangled in the way you choose to celebrate Fathers Day. The script is yours to write: How will you choose to make Father's Day Happy & Memorable?  A List of Resources for You!  Resource for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org  The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Childhelp Nat...2021-06-2050 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWRealistic Expectations Keep Us HealthyWhen we have realistic expectations for ourselves we give our children permission to be happily imperfect without apology or devaluation of themselves when mistakes are made. A List of Resources for You! Resource for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: www.childhelp.org Suicide Prevention: www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org Find a Therapist: www.psychologytoday.com Find a Lawyer: www.americanbar.org or contact the State Bar Pro Bono Section of y...2021-06-1435 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWIt takes a village to raise a child...Raising children as a single parent whether by choice or circumstance means asking for help when needed and allowing the village around you to step in to ensure every child feels safe, heard, respected, and loved. Join us in this important discussion and hug your child! A List of Resources for You! Resource for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: www.childhelp.org Suicide Prevention: www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org Find a...2021-06-0738 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWDealing with the Narcissist You KnowWho are the narcissists in your life? A narcissist is self-centered, self-absorbed, and short on empathy. Know that you can't change them, but you can change how you react to them! World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day June 1, 2021 https://nationaldaycalendar.com/world-narcissitic-abuse-awareness-day-june-1/ A List of Resources for You! Resource for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: www.childhelp.org Suicide Prevention: www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org Find a Therapist...2021-05-3149 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWMental Health Awareness: Helping Yourselves and Loved OnesMental illness is not a dirty word, it is like any other illness. People with any mental illness deserve understanding, and support, a team approach, and a workable plan to ensure a full life. A List of Resources for You! Resource for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: www.childhelp.org Suicide Prevention: www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org Find a Therapist: www.psychologytoday.com Find a Lawyer: www.americanbar.org or c...2021-05-241h 02Warrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWManaging Pandemic PTSDAfter over a year of Covid-19 "Safety Bubbles" we will face many issues transitioning into the unmasked "New Normal" -- Will we fear or will we trust? 2021-05-1737 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWBreaking Free from GuiltThe perfect family is a myth. No one should carry guilt for imperfection but everyone should know they matter. Holding onto guilt causes turmoil that manifests in many ways. Letting go of the guilt carries us forward into living a richer, happier, and productive life filled with positivity. 2021-05-1029 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWMother's Day: Painful or Grateful?Throughout history Mother's Day has honored the best mother who ever lived. But, Mother's Day also fills many with conflict and causes both pain and joy. Join us in this important discussion and be grateful for those important people in your life who ever they are! A List of Resources for You! Resource for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: www.childhelp.org Suicide Prevention: www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org Find a...2021-05-0939 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWHow to Understand Memories and Feelings Stored in Our Bodies After TraumaJoin Judge Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSW for a powerful conversation about how to manage feelings that linger and surface after surviving traumatic events. The defendants and patients they discuss demonstrate how we can move out of the pain and despair and move into a life worth owning and living with joy.  A List of Resources for You! Resource for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: www.childhelp.org Suicide Prevention: w...2021-05-0349 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWHow the Body Holds onto Trauma: Finding Ways to Integrate our Feelings into our Minds, Bodies and HeartsEveryone has memories that are activated by our five senses. Join Judge Aquilina and Botwin, LCSW in this moving conversation about triggers and how to understand and work through those that are daunting and how to enjoy those that are pleasurable.   A List of Resources for You! Resource for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: RAINN: www.rainn.org The National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: www.childhelp.org Suicide Prevention: www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org Find a Therapist: www.psychologytoday.com F...2021-04-2644 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWHow Judge Aquilina Found Her VoiceJoin Judge Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSW to hear how Judge Aquilina found her voice at a very young age! Sentencing former Olympic Doctor, Larry Nassar, to life in prison is just one tiny piece of her backstory. This conversation pairs nicely with her memoir "Just Watch Me," available on Audible, and is filled with stories that will leave you feeling empowered and determined to go after your dreams and goals.  A List of Resources for You! Resource for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape and intimate partner sexual assault: R...2021-04-1944 minWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWWarrior Women Speak: With Judge Rosemarie Aquilina and Shari Botwin, LCSWBreaking the Silence After Surviving Abuse: Judge Aquilina Talks with Shari Botwin, LCSWJudge Aquilina sits down with co-host Shari Botwin, LCSW to discuss the pain she experienced after surviving incest. The journey of her own self-discovery led Botwin, LCSW to a lifetime commitment of empowerment not only for herself but for everyone she meets. From childhood trauma to adult triggers and healing Botwin, LCSW, serves as an example that after enduring years of silence, speaking out and using her voice not only gave her the strength to live a bountiful life, but now includes special people she chooses to claim as her family. Don't miss this important discussion about finding ways...2021-04-1238 minRecovery BitesRecovery BitesMessages of Hope with Shari Botwin, LCSWABOUT SHARI BOTWIN:Shari Botwin, LCSW opened her Cherry Hill private practice in 1996. Prior to starting her own practice, Shari worked at the Renfrew Center in Philadelphia. She provides individual, group, and family therapy with a specialization in treating trauma, abuse, eating disorders, anxiety, and depression. Shari holds a Masters Degree in Social Work from Rutgers University.​A variety of national media outlets; such as The New York Times, NBC News, Prevention Magazine, The Daily Beast, Huffington Post, The Associated Press, ABC News has quoted Shari breaking stories related to trauma and abuse.Sh...2020-06-0159 min