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We Ain't Dead YetValentine’s Day, Rewritten: Pleasure, Passion & Play After 60Just in time for VALENTINE'S DAY, Constance and Lori speak to Kandee Love, a licensed therapist specializing in couple’s and sex therapy. We explore topics ranging from sexual expression across the life stages to sex toys and tips for older adults. Kandee emphasizes the importance of prioritizing pleasure, passion, and play in a world filled with stress. Kandee has labeled February as “Spunky Old Broads Month,” and encourages women to re-write their old narratives and embrace boldness in the bed room. We discuss the idea of redefining sexuality beyond traditional penetrative sex, and the great importance of communication in a r...
2026-02-1345 min
We Ain't Dead YetDon't Burn Your Journals Yet: Finding Yourself on the Written PageConstance and Lori speak to Ellen Blum Barish, a writing coach and memoir author. Even if writing is not your thing, listen in to our lively conversation about leaning in to this form of creativity as a tool for growth and reflection as we age.For starters, we discuss the hidden value of writing for people who don’t like to write. Ellen suggests looking through the old stuff we tuck in drawers and stash away in closets and think about the stories they have to tell. Also, think about using photos we have stored in our ph...
2026-01-2035 min
We Ain't Dead YetWhen Roles Reverse: Caring for Parents in Our 60sConstance and Lori speak to Ramsay Ringo, a career coach and expert on caring for elderly parents. We discuss the unique challenges of supporting aging parents when you are in your 60s yourself. Ramsay emphasizes the importance of a simplified approach to avoid overwhelming caregivers, and provides many practical tips. We explore the tension between ensuring the safety of elderly parents and respecting their desire for independence and autonomy. We also cover the complexities of coordinating care across different family members and locations, and ways to talk to our adult children about caring for elderly parents. Finally, Ramsay coaches u...
2025-12-2848 min
We Ain't Dead YetShocking Herself Awake: Gail Rice on Reinvention, Risk and Radical Acceptance at 70Constance and Lori speak to Gail Rice, psychologist and writer, based in Sydney Australia, about her recent life-imitating-art birthday celebration. For her 70th birthday, inspired by Emma Thompson in the film "Good Luck to You Leo Grande," Gail hired not one, but two male escorts. She clearly touched a nerve, as her story went viral. She's been interviewed all over the world and recently had her television debut. Gail explains that these encounters were less about the sex and more about "shocking herself awake," and finding her voice. We also explore themes of reinvention, risk-taking, late-bloomers, body acceptance and th...
2025-11-2145 min
We Ain't Dead YetI Am Only One, But I Am One!Constance and Lori check in with Bonnie Lee Black, writer and popular blogger, about her mission to amplify the voices and activism of older women. Join us as we explore themes of aging, death, sex, and civic engagement. Bonnie shares her journey from blogging about aging to advocating for activism in her hometown of San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. We discuss the imperative of making some noise, and knowing that we count. We also touch on themes of mortality, discussing Jane Goodall’s view that death might just be the “next great adventure.” Bonnie leaves us with some tips for gett...
2025-10-2541 min
We Ain't Dead YetIs Age Only a Number?Is age only a number? Are the 60s the adolescence of aging? Does a lengthy life equal a live well-lived? All of these questions and more will be discussed, if not answered in this episode. Every decade of life holds its own, unique gifts and challenges. Constance and Lori will unpack the differences of being in your 60s and being in your 70s with Claudia Perez, a psychologist who specializes in working with clients navigating their 70s, 80s and even 90s. The conversation also dives into the concept of “joyspan,” a term coined by Kerry Burnight, a former professor of g...
2025-09-1929 min
We Ain't Dead YetSex in the SaharaSex! Sex! Sex! It never gets old, even as we get older, but there’s no denying that things change. In this episode, Constance and Lori hear from sex therapist Jen Rafacz, who specializes in working with “medicare-aged” clients. Jennifer busts some myths about sex no longer mattering to people as they age, and offers some hacks to getting and keeping the sexual motor running, regardless of the physical changes or limitations of the aging body or the libido. Normalizing, informative, and sex-positive, this episode opens the door to a vital conversation we should all be having about sex with o...
2025-09-1741 min
We Ain't Dead YetI DON’T WANT TO DIE HATING MY BODY"Dynamic and delicious" are two words that have been used to describe Nina Manolson, and we wholeheartedly agree! In this episode, you will be treated to a private reading of 2 of Nina's favorite poems. Together, we explore themes of aging, body image, and self-compassion. Nina shares her personal journey from being an "expert dieter" at age 10 to becoming an anti-diet therapist. Listen in, and you'll learn how to use one of Nina's favorite body peace exercises, hear her opinion on the use of Ozempic, and much much more. You will also have a chance to weigh in o...
2025-09-1652 min
We Ain't Dead YetPriscilla Dann-Courtney Is Taking Up Space!Whoever said you can’t teach an old dog new tricks, had not met Priscilla Dann-Courtney! Priscilla embodies the empowered woman learning and trying new things in her third chapter of life. In this episode, you will hear the hilarious story of how Priscilla ventured out of her comfort zone, to journey from her psychologist chair to the improv stage. This episode has many surprises, laughs, and a whole lot of inspiration for anyone looking for a larger life. Listen in and learn how Priscilla has leaned into taking up more space!Show Notes: Find out more ab...
2025-09-0235 min
History From The Back PagesOur Brand New Theme SongExciting news highlighting the release of our new theme song, written by musician Julia Fortman !!!
2020-05-1801 min
The Bull & Hawk Sports ShowBrand New Theme SongBreaking news announcing the release of our brand new theme song, written by musician Julia Fortman!!
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2020-05-1801 minThe Bull & Hawk Sports Show17 : NFL Draft Recap & Bulls TalkCJ Hawk opened the show by discussing The 2020 NFL Draft. Hawk discussed The Chicago Bears & Atlanta Falcons, his favorite teams' picks. NBA H-O-R-S-E Tournament Recap is finally here !!! We then discussed the hiring of Marc Eversley, the first African American General Manager in Chicago Bulls history. Hawk then happily covered the firing of Blackhawks President John McDonough. DJ Benny The Bull then went over current NWSL news, and the conference call tomorrow he will be a part of with current Red Stars players. Hawk also spread the super exciting news that professional musician Julia Fortman will be writing our theme...
2020-04-301h 29