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Cupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 230 - Spotting the NarcissistIs the label, "Narcissist" misused and overused? Yes. Let's clear things up. Julie shares colleague Marina Edelman's short list on what narcissism REALLY is, how to spot it, and why you should run the other way.
2025-12-2323 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEP. 226 - Heidi FriedmanWhat 104 Dates Taught Her About Love | Heidi Friedman on The Cupid’s Coach PodcastWhat does it really take to find lasting love in today’s world?In this inspiring episode, Julie Ferman talks with Heidi Friedman, an attorney turned author, who documented her journey through 104 first dates on the road to true love.Heidi shares how heartbreak, patience, and a commitment to personal growth helped her discover what really matters in relationships — from emotional safety and mutual support to finding someone who helps you become your best self.You’ll Learn:• How to stay ho...
2025-11-2549 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEP. 225 - "Authenticity, Belonging, and Redefining Love — with Misty O’Hara | The Hundred Man Plan | Ep 224 "In this episode, Julie Ferman sits down with author and trailblazer Misty O’Hara to explore what it really means to live — and love — authentically. From overcoming judgment to embracing polyamory and writing The Hundred Man Plan, Misty shares her personal evolution and the courage it takes to live outside the box.Together, they unpack ideas from Brené Brown’s “Atlas of the Heart,” touching on comparison, resentment, and the power of belonging. This conversation is an invitation to honor who you truly are — in love, in life, and in every connection you make.Watch to learn:* How...
2025-11-1837 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEP. 224 - Strong Women & Love: What’s Really Holding You Back | Julie Ferman with Natalia HartWhy are so many successful, capable women still struggling in love? Julie Ferman sits down with Natalia Hart, transformational coach for strong women, to unpack the hidden patterns that keep high-achieving women from finding lasting connection.Together they explore: * The deeper reasons accomplished women get “stuck” in dating * Healing from role models and cultural messages that distort femininity * Balancing power with openness — and learning to receive love * How to embody confidence and softness without losing yourselfThis episode is a beautiful reminder that strength and vulnerability can coexist — and that love often begins...
2025-11-1550 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEP. 223 - Digging for Gold in Dating: Finding Real Connection Beyond the ChecklistIn this episode, Julie Ferman invites you to look deeper — beyond surface attraction, resumes, or “types.” It’s about digging for gold in dating: noticing the qualities that truly matter, the subtle green flags, and the small acts of integrity that reveal real potential.Julie shares practical ways to shift from judging to discovering — so you can spot the keepers and stop overlooking great partners.Whether you’re dating online, in real life, or somewhere in between, this episode will remind you what genuine connection really looks like.Listen in and start finding the gold that...
2025-10-1426 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEP. 222 - Navigating ChangeThe Bright Spot in the Waiting Room: Host Julie Ferman shares a powerful story of a client who decided to be the "bright spot" in a difficult setting, choosing to connect with people instead of staring ahead or reading a book. By simply starting a conversation with a stranger, they arranged to keep going at the same time, ensuring neither of them would be so alone. It's a powerful reminder that connection is possible, even in the hardest places.
2025-10-0737 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEP. 220 - Sara HoltzThe Art of Conversation in Dating | Julie Ferman with Sarah HoltzConversation is one of the most powerful tools we have in dating and relationships — yet most of us aren’t very good at it.In this episode, Julie Ferman sits down with Sarah Holtz, author, mentor, and host of Advice to My Younger Me, to explore how asking the right questions can transform connection.They discuss:- How to avoid "ping pong" conversations- Transactional vs. connection-building questions- How men and women approach questions differently in dating- 7 tips for...
2025-09-241h 17
Journey Beyond Divorce PodcastDating After Divorce: Expert Tips on Confidence, Curiosity & Connection with Legendary Matchmaker & Dating Coach, Julie FermanStepping back into the dating world after a long marriage and painful divorce can feel overwhelming. The landscape has changed, your confidence may feel shaky, and it's easy to carry old fears and insecurities with you. But what if dating after divorce wasn't about pressure or "finding the one"? What if it was an invitation to rediscover yourself? In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, I'm joined by the incredible Julie Ferman, a professional matchmaker and dating coach with over 30 years of experience, who has helped create more than 1,400 success story couples. Together, we explore...
2025-09-1856 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEP. 218 - Sara HoltzThe Art of Conversation in Dating | Julie Ferman with Sarah HoltzConversation is one of the most powerful tools we have in dating and relationships — yet most of us aren’t very good at it.In this episode, Julie Ferman sits down with Sarah Holtz, author, mentor, and host of Advice to My Younger Me, to explore how asking the right questions can transform connection.They discuss:- How to avoid "ping pong" conversations- Transactional vs. connection-building questions- How men and women approach questions differently in dating- 7 tips for...
2025-09-121h 17Cupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 200 - Alison Armstrong, Julie’s favorite relationship guru, addresses the question, “Is love scarce?”Can we cause loving feelings? How? The opportunity in conflict, and the source of chemistry and connection.
2025-04-2959 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 199 - Carla Swiryn, Founder of DateSpot, shares Julie's passion for delivering affordable matchmaking to the masses.Her company's pay-per-match model and Julie Ferman's Mitzvah Matches are shaking up the dating industry; no longer is personal matchmaking reserved only for the uber wealthy. It's about time.
2025-04-221h 20Cupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 196 - The Art of Social MagnetismImagine - you, playing Social Director and Personal Matchmaker for yourSELF. Developing your Posse of single pals, engaging "strangers" and causing connections to happen. Julie shares social superpower strategies to build your Little Black Book.
2025-04-0137 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 185 - Orna & Matthew WaltersOrna & Matthew Walters, author of Julie's favorite new dating book, "Getting It Right This Time". Are you suspicious of people who like you? Accidental Love, meeting the "right" person - Is that the answer? Fantasies, myths, and why team sports help to prepare us for relationship. And the trouble with the meaning we assign to emotions.
2025-01-1455 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 170 - Dare You Date the Dating Coach?Jonathon Aslay, Relationship Coach in the Hot Seat, digging in with Julie on exclusivity, monogamy, and standards in modern era dating. Who drives, who pays, who drinks and who doesn't and do these issues really matter? The importance of addressing key issues in the vetting process, before the first date - Dating for Grown-Ups.
2024-10-0149 min
The Crazy Ex-Wives Divorce ClubBuilding a Healthy Relationship Mindset with Professional Matchmaker, Julie FermanWelcome back to "The Crazy Ex-Wives Club"! In today's episode, Erica Bennett sits down with Julie Ferrman, a renowned personal matchmaker and dating coach based in LA and Santa Fe. Together, they delve into the intricacies of modern relationships, emphasizing the importance of personal growth, self-awareness, and flexibility in finding a meaningful connection.
Julie shares her unique approach to matchmaking, which includes her mitzvah matches and a methodology centered around deep understanding and genuine connection. She provides invaluable advice on embracing feminine qualities, understanding men's relationships with commitment and money, and navigating the online dating landscape.
2024-06-2640 min
Love, Laughs, and LessonsJulie Ferman on Love, Legacy, and the Long GameToday, we are thrilled to share a special episode featuring the legendary Julie Ferman, a trailblazer in the matchmaking and dating industry since 1990. With over 1,300 success stories and a rich history of transforming dating experiences, Julie brings her extensive expertise and a treasure trove of heartfelt stories. As the host of The Cupid's Coach Podcast and a dynamic speaker at international conferences, Julie's engaging approach offers real-life examples and actionable advice for singles navigating the complex world of dating. In this episode, Julie shares her personal journey and professional insights, offering courage and compassion to those looking for love...
2024-05-0247 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 149 - The Great Love Debate's Brian Howie...plus Mr. Ferman!Great Love Debate host (and Cupid's Coach podcast producer!) Brian Howie is in the Hot Seat, with Mr. Feman - Julie's hubby since 1990, former franchisee with Great Expectations Video Dating Service - where Gil sold Julie a membership to his agency. 34 years later, what does Gil have to say about Dating and the Dating Industry today? What's happening with The Great Love Debate in 2024?
2024-02-061h 02
Love on the GoHow to Find Love with Legendary Matchmaker Julie FermanToday, Laurie chats with legendary matchmaker, Julie Ferman! A professional matchmaker & dating coach since 1990 with over 1,300 success story couples, Julie Ferman is truly legendary in the dating industry. She is an edu-taining guest expert, easy to schedule with, lively and engaging, and she brings to your audience decades of media and public speaking experience. Using real live examples and stories galore, Julie’s spot on, courageous, compassionate advice for men and women who are out there in the dating trenches is always well received.Julie is the host of the...
2024-01-0338 min
Freedom Nation PodcastThe Matchmaker's Code: Decoding Love with Julie FermanToday, we're unraveling the enchanting world of love, dating, and serendipity with the incredible Julie Ferman, a maestro in the art of matchmaking and the curator of countless love stories. Her expertise isn't just about finding someone to share your life with; it's about finding that missing piece that makes life extraordinary.Julie takes us through her own journey from dating misadventures to becoming the cupid behind countless successful relationships. Get ready to explore the dynamics of attraction, the secrets of personalized matchmaking, and the delightful anecdotes that make love a timeless adventure. Julie's matchmaking philosophy goes...
2023-12-1426 min
Destined For SuccessJulie Ferman: The Cupid’s CoachGet all the inside secrets and tools you need to help you develop your intuitive and leadership skills so you are on the path to the highest level of success with ease. Julie Ferman has been in the matchmaking arena for over 33 years! She has fantastic stories and guidance, including building relationships after the match!.In this episode you will learn:Guidance to navigate the dating marketYou must show 3 things - respect, appreciation and receptivity Men and women are different and engage and show up differently Learn more and k...
2023-09-2523 min
Whiskey Sex TalkMatchmaking with Julie FermanOn this episode, matchmaker, & dating coach Julie Ferman talks about the biggest mistakes women and men make in dating, how to discover one's own blindspot, and key online dating MUSTS in today's day and age. ---Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whiskeysextalk/Like us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/WhiskeySexTalk/Follow Romeo on Social Media: https://www.instagram.com/romeoperlman/Follow Maria on Social Media: https://www.instagram.com/marshchen/---Julie Ferman: https://www.julieferman.com
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2023-09-2433 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 136 - The Cupid's Coach Boot Camp - Taste it hereCan true transformation happen in 60 days? Yes, indeed! Listen in to the Group Zoom Webinar, to find out how we are indeed transforming how dating is done in today's wild world. What's Julie's Boot Camp actually like? Find out here to see if it's for you. The real question - Are you a "grower" ?? Let's find out.
2023-08-311h 21Cupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 130 - Get ready for Boot Camp!What's Julie's new 60-Day Boot Camp all about? Is this virtual learning / growth opportunity your next important step in your dating / relationship journey? We'll find out together. Wherever you live on the planet, this is the course to take BEFORE you hire a matchmaker and BEFORE you throw yourself into an online dating process to dramatically increase your chances of success. Your invitation is in this podcast episode.
2023-05-2819 min
The Lana Flotteron ShowEpisode 10 - Expertise in - Being a Matchmaker and Finding Love - Julie FermanToday I am interviewing Julie Ferman, Legendary Matchmaker and Dating Coach and Owner of Julie Ferman Associates to talk about Matchmaking and Finding Love. I hope you listen and Enjoy it!
2021-11-191h 02Cupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 87 - Dating Just Got KinderAdam Gilad shares his invitation, to join us for the upcoming Kyyndr Summit. I want ALL of my peeps with me at this miraculous, thoroughly innovative online event -- an opportunity to engage with, learn from and learn with thousands of other single men and women who are enthused about the notion of doing dating well, with love, care, compassion, openness and courage. www.kyyndr.com/ferman
2021-09-1927 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 78 - How Couples REALLY MeetJoin me for laugh-out-loud funny stories about how real live married couples met - not online, not through a matchmaker or dating agency, but simply by playing with people, by consciously developing the art of social engagement and magnetism!
2021-06-2030 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 77 - Love PersonifiedWhen love lasts, why is that? How does that happen? Listen in on my interview with family law experts, Ron and Terrie Supancic, whose 59 year marriage exemplifies partnership done well. Witness love personified, with raw emotion and discover how to develop resiliency and how to manage annoyances, conflict and crisis. How to develop emotional governance and how to respect over contempt and the evolution of a marriage over time.
2021-06-1348 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 76 - The Great Friendship Reset of 2021The better we are at friendship, the more capable we are of loving and being loved in a romantic partnership. In what ways have you been a good friend? In what ways might you have been ... a lousy friend? Let's re-examine together what friendship is, what it can be, what it could be, what it should be. Let's strengthen our friendship muscles, to bring about a better, more loving experience of being human.
2021-06-0628 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 75 - Relationship FitnessHow prepared are you for the relationship you aspire to have in your life? What's your relationship fitness level? Join in on my conversation with Coach Roy Biancalana to identify which relationship muscles might have become atrophied and what to do about that.
2021-05-3045 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 74 - What Really Matters?When love works, why is that? How did it happen? What lessons and growth opportunities lie in the chaos of life's disappointments? Listen in on my interview with the woman who is the best wife, mom, and friend I have ever known!
2021-05-2350 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 73 - The Fear of SettlingWhat's worse, "settling" or fearing it so much that no one makes the cut? What's the Litmus Test for determining whether someone measures up or not, in your esteem?
2021-05-1736 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 72 - How Grandma Barbara Aces DatingJoin in on my interview with coaching client, Barbara, who at the age of 69, is breezing through the dating process. What is it about her that draws in really good, solid men? Discover why she consistently receives invitations for second dates and beyond. She'll inspire you to rethink yesterday's rules for how modern day women might navigate the rapid waters of dating!
2021-05-0943 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 71 - Pivot Points and Bliss BumpsDr. Marcy Cole, Holistic Psychotherapist, is in the hot seat today, inspiring us through insights gained through her own personal journey through dating into surprising new love. Spinning mishaps and disappointments into pivotal opportunities for positive change.
2021-04-2542 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 70 - Survival Instincts and DatingWho you are, how you portray yourself in your communications and in the way you present on a date -- are you appealing to / magnetizing the "right" people, or ... not? Engage with me in a discussion about the survival instincts that are driving forces in the decision making process for both men and women in dating.
2021-04-1841 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 69 - The Hour That Changed EverythingWhy had Mark been striking out with his online dating efforts? Listen in to his story and his simple, though remarkable transformation from Average Joe to Mr. Desirable in just one week, after just one coaching call. How to re-frame pain, loneliness, and frustration as a wake up call, an invitation to consider a larger question. Plus, how to turn a stagnant dating experience into an opportunity for a fresh perspective, growth and forward movement!
2021-04-1146 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 68 - Covid-Era Flirting Tips...and NarrativesThe stories we tell ourselves; do they serve us, or not? How much time does a widow or widower need before engaging in dating? Listen in on Peter's early dating adventures, how two women missed a golden opportunity, while Karen gets a fourth date with him. Plus, flirting tips for this Covid era!
2021-03-2839 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 67 - Sales Skills For DatingHow good are you at selling....yourself? Listen in on my lively, edu-taining interview with bestselling author, Chellie Campbell, on how to design an effective sales strategy for your dating life, incorporating The Law of Attraction and The Law of Action.
2021-03-1443 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 66 - Transformative First Date QuestionsDare you dive deeper on your early dates, to ask questions, to tackle topics that are scary and oh so important to know about? In this episode I share dozens of topics that you might consider broaching on your early dates, to spur growth, connection and open-hearted communication. It's your date, you get to design it!
2021-03-0243 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 65 - Dating Quiz ChallengeAre you making the right choices, regarding who to meet, who to see again, who to keep dating? Let's find out together to see how you score on this Dating Quiz. Ten real, live dating issues that you get to consider, and your score will reveal if the choices you typically make are spot on or .... lousy. Are you maximizing your opportunities, or not?
2021-02-1447 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 64 - Releasing and Healing from Toxic RelationshipsHave you been in a relationship with someone who was toxic, abusive, perhaps narcissistic? Join me in an uplifting and enlightening conversation with psychotherapist/bestselling author Heather Kent about the nature of toxic relationships. Heather shows us how to heal, release and recover, enabling new opportunities for love.
2021-01-3151 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 63 - All Too Common MistakesJoin in on my conversation with Matchmaker & Dating Coach Michelle Jacoby as we identify classic, common, tragic mistakes too often made in dating. And those who turned things around, finding their way into loving partnerships - how they did that and what we can learn from their courageous, innovative, outside the box choices!
2021-01-1942 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 62 - Developing Social CharismaListen in on my interview with dating expert Hunt Ethridge on developing social charisma. How women can learn to use playful, feminine energy to lure and magnetize a man. Why a woman who provides hints/direction as to what will make her happy will always have greater success with men. When a powerful, strong woman out-earns her guy and her being comfortable with it makes it perfectly fine. How to use theatrics and emoting tips for Zoom dates and the value of doing something brand new for first dates. Setting the stage for chemistry with innovative, adventurous, novel, experiential...
2021-01-1043 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 61 - Successes And FlopsListen in on the tales of dating done well and...dating done poorly. Where do you see yourself? Which traps have you fallen into? Which traps are you continually falling into? Are your expectations in line with today's potential realities? Or are you fooling yourself? What comes more naturally to you -- appreciation or flaw-finding? And what you can do to make this holiday season meaningful and lovely!
2020-12-2050 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 60 - The Dangers In LOOKING For LoveListen in on Allie's transformative story. How one introverted girl is discovering the true nature of love, by shifting her focus, by changing up her habit, and by learning how to cause connection and love; rather than waiting or hoping for something inspirational or magical to happen.
2020-12-0635 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 59 - The Devil InsideWhy are you single, really? Your single pals, why are they single? Is it because of challenging circumstances out there? Or is it more than that? Might it really be more about YOU and the "devil inside" that you know is lurking below the surface? Listen in with me as we dig into these questions: What makes you hard to match? Hard to be with? And why are you WORTH IT?
2020-11-2237 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 58 - Black Book NetworkingWho do you know? Listen in as I share examples of courageous personal networking strategies that transformed once-stagnant love lives. How to find and engage the angels and golden nuggets who are tucked away in your personal networks, on your phone's contacts list, in your social media communities. What would happen if you re-thought your own veto process, to relax those maybe not so important no-go zones?
2020-11-1529 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 57 - Are You Choosing To Stay Single?Headaches/stomach aches...which do you truly prefer? Which do you dislike more? Listen in as we take an honest look at the REAL reasons for why so many are choosing to stay uncoupled. And are you missing real connection because of the relationship you have with your PHONE? Are you out of practice in the fine art of being truly present? Let's take a look together!
2020-11-0159 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 56 - Brian Howie & The Great Love DebateJulie has Brian Howie in the Guest Chair today, Creator of the Great Love Debate. How has his love life evolved over 7 years and 400+ live shows about dating? Which are the best cities and the worst cities for dating? Brian addresses the evolution of our gender issues and the contribution that the pandemic has made to our dating culture. Plus, why is Brian hopeful, enthusiastic and encouraged about dating in 2021?
2020-10-2543 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 55 - Kids, Fertility, Age, & Bridge BuildingMight you be wise to rethink the kids issue? Is the type of person you're hoping to date likely to go for you...at this time in your life? Join me as we address the sensitive fertility/age issue. Hear how Holly handled things when her boyfriend's ex re-entered the picture. And how to gracefully spin a political mismatch.
2020-10-1132 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 54 - Should YOU Hire A Matchmaker?Why is it that I typically encourage men and women NOT to hire a matchmaker? How might you meet someone without even becoming the matchmaking client? What's a Mitzvah Match and how can you get in on that action? Listen in as I share inside scoop on how to get "in" with your local matchmaker, even if you're not the one in that high priced hot seat.
2020-10-0459 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 53 - Modern Siren SkillsCoach Rori Raye is in the hot seat today, teaching us about Modern Siren Skills, the subtle energy shifts that serve to draw a man in. She sheds light on the words and the body language that inspire romance and commitment. What can we learn from boredom and discomfort? And why chaos and messiness can sometimes be a good thing!
2020-09-1350 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 52 - Love AddictionWhat is love addiction? How can we know if our cravings and desires have crossed the line into obsession? Psychotherapist Sherry Gaba guides us through a thought-provoking, eye-opening discussion that reveals the nature of, and the impact, of love addiction. How it originates, how it takes hold and also how we can release it. She gives us tools for rewiring our brains for true love, first for ourselves. enabling us to then...have a fighting chance at loving and being loved by others!
2020-09-0649 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 51 - Dating & The Money TrapHave you missed opportunities for partnership and companionship based on something related to...money? Are your expectations around money realistic today? At this time in your life? In today's world? Dive in with me on the exploration of money and how it impacts our decisions regarding dating and relationships. Where are you on the Entitlement Scale? What resentments have built up over time for you in the arena of money / finances? What to do about it? Join me in this grown-up conversation as we call out fantasy and build new cultural ground together!
2020-08-221h 01Cupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 50 - Creating Connections Via Zoom DatesFirst dates by Zoom are increasingly commonplace. Don't avoid them; rather, join in on my discussion with Rachel Greenwald on how to prepare for your Zoom date. Rethink how you're entering and exiting your online dates. Discover the power in your voice as your connection tool and the gift that is your focused presence. Creating topics, questions and tactics to cause connection and intimacy, even through a computer screen. What's the difference between charisma and connection? How to groom your voice for this new medium, and why a cough drop can make all the difference!
2020-08-0243 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 49 - Alcohol-Free DatingHow might your alcohol habit or dependency be impacting your dating life? Join in on my conversation with James Swanwick, author of "The 30-Day No Alcohol Challenge" to take a peek at what may be a pesky little (or not so little) deterrent to your creating the relationship you truly desire. Could it be that choosing to release alcohol from your lifestyle will result in greater freedom, enhanced confidence and ... access to a higher quality individual?
2020-07-1948 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 48 - Fixing Your Broken PickerIs "your type" the right choice for you, in reality? Listen in on Robin's story, as she and I wrestle with that question, and as she develops the courage to consciously choose to engage with men who are off-type. And how one guy got the girl through patience, persistence, confidence, and a bit of yard work!
2020-07-0840 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 47 - Releasing AttachmentsJoin in on my conversation with Kathryn Alice, on recovering from loss and discovering the blocks that both protect us and limit us. How to release unhealthy attachments to a past love, former lifestyle or limiting belief, to clear space for fresh, new beginnings. What is Crazy Love? How to manage hot chemistry and how to recognize a true soulmate candidate. Plus, secrets to aligning on the pace of dating, and learning how to nurture a smarter, slower, more conscious courtship process!
2020-06-2834 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 46 - Your Sexiest Attribute? Your Spirit of Generosity!How large is your generosity of spirit? How courageous and compassionate have you been being with your communication? When we screw up, the value in a sincere apology and how to restore trust and engagement. Is why you're single related to your alcohol or pot smoking habits? Is it time to do a 30-day No Alcohol Challenge? What might happen to your dating life if you carved off that extra 10-20 pounds? How broken is your picker? How to negotiate politics and the pandemic paranoia quotient and how your most effective flirting tool today is....your facemask.
2020-06-1448 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 45 - Beware The Slippery SlopeListen in to discover how curiosity is more powerful than judgment in dating. How one new couple is negotiating finances, sex, political differences, who eats what, and who sleeps where. Surprisingly romantic dates over fast food and long, lazy road trips. The slippery slope that unhealthy habits are and how to get back on track. And how Jake transformed from awkward to awesome, simply by being willing to try, to learn, to venture out and to use dating as a vehicle for growth and his own evolution.
2020-06-0737 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 44 - Conscious UncouplingHave you uncoupled consciously from your past relationships? Join me as Katherine Woodward Thomas shares why looking back into our history, with a guide, is essential in getting prepared for a healthy, mature future relationship. What is it to settle - with others and with ourselves? What do our patterns, triggers and choices say about us, and what does it take to move beyond what has been and what is now to what might be in the future?
2020-05-2436 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 43 - The Most Powerful MotivatorLove as a powerful motivator, now more than ever! Listen in as I share real life stories of courageous men and women who are finding creative ways to date, even today. Picnic dates with fresh lilacs, patio, portal and poolside dates, and spontaneous magic under a Cottonwood tree. A socially distant speed-dating event at a shelter in a park in Washington State. What great sports people are being! How one self described Plain Jane built her own social community and how a once separated couple are learning to live together and parent together, turning a crisis into a second c...
2020-05-1729 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 42 - Your Relatablity FactorListen in as I interview Match.com's Chief Dating Expert Rachel DeAlto on the art of being relatable. The nature of expectations and why "your type" might not be working for you. Why calling cards are back in fashion and how women can be more assertive in early courtship. Remote video date flops and tips. Connecting through smiles, playfulness, sincerity, and contribution. Taking more chances, and learning to lean into each other!
2020-05-0437 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 41 - Finding BlessingsCreating dating magic...even now! Stark contrasts, and how do you receive opportunities? Are you a Human No Machine, or do you welcome and embrace opportunities and invitations? How to tell before meeting who's solid - and who's a hot mess? How to have magical first dates by Zoom and how to have a romantic park bench date. Fun questions and topics for pandemic era first dates. Using this down time to build your black book and to fall more deeply in love with yourself, and how to save a date from going south!
2020-04-2629 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 40 - Bonding Through VulnerabilityTune in on my conversation with Christina Weber, founder of Deepen, as we explore bonding through vulnerability. Does loneliness reflect selfishness? Are we truly more isolated when alone or when we're super busy? How does a guy go in for a kiss in today's germ-phobic culture? Transforming fear and skepticism into universal trust by embracing our soul's life journey. Activities that foster and enable relational skills and connection, and how magic is is available just outside our comfort zones!
2020-04-1941 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 39 - Dating & Sex In IsolationListen in as I tap into the wisdom of Dr. Ava Cadell, renowned sexologist regarding managing loneliness and depression. Nurturing loving kindness, water therapy, self-care; healing from fear, pain, loss, toxic relationships, releasing shame and guilt. Creating space, holding space, especially in tight quarters.How to come out of this better than before. Can courtship happen via video chat, without pheromones? How to connect and develop intimacy first, saving the bedroom for later. Deepening self love and intimacy with a new love interest through White Tantra. Sex toys, fantasies, erotic talk, roleplaying, developing a healthy body image, good porn vs...
2020-04-1242 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 37 - Making Magic Amid UncertaintyJoin in on a lively, edu-taining discussion with Jim Cathcart about developing confidence amid uncertainty. How to discover the opportunities in unintended consequences. The power in the word "yet" to shift from stuck to forward movement. The secret to developing discipline and healthy habits. Managing mindset, yours and your date's, and how to get out of a funk. Managing relationships while under pressure, in tight quarters. Creating and respecting boundaries, knowing what to ask for, what to let go of, and when to compromise!
2020-04-0540 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 36 - Soulmate Secrets with Arielle FordListen in as Arielle Ford shares how soulmates get magnetized. The healing nature of partnership; how to date, relate, and engage in relationship - even as an imperfect, flawed person. When to and how to reveal our weaknesses, flaws and critical deal-breakers. The secret to getting into alignment on finances and sex. What women can do to nurture masculinity in men and when to let go of being "right" in favor of and in honor of love. How to have more loving moments, how to choose love, appreciation and gratitude, even when things get ugly. What's your part in...
2020-03-2939 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 35 - Dating Evolves During PandemicWhat does dating look like during a global pandemic? Listen in as I share examples of men and women whose love lives are blossoming, even in these bizarre times. Now is a great time to take new dating photos, with a professional, or at home with your iphone. What about Skype dates, Zoom dates, Facetime dates? Hear about a guy who packed up his RV to explore every park en route to Wyoming to rekindle a lost relationship. How to use this quiet, down time to strengthen your relationship with yourself and to practice healthy, life changing habits. Love ... what...
2020-03-2531 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 34 - The Bigger Better Deal TrapJoin me in my office, to observe dating done well, and .... dating done badly. Are you falling into the Bigger Better Deal Trap? Or are you someone who makes your own gravy? Discover why the Hunky GQ guy didn't get the third date, and why the other "less HOT" guy DID. How Skype dates are solving problems, and what to do when you suspect that you might be shooting out of your league!
2020-03-0833 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 33 - The Secret To IntimacyListen in as Julie interviews Interview Expert Allana Pratt about the nature of intimacy and the key to that kingdom. What there is to do when romance sparks aren't flying - or when things start to get stale. And finally, why erections are overrated, what rigidity in love truly is!
2020-02-2328 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 32 - Two Matchmakers, Telling StoriesListen in on a conversation between two matchmakers. Julie interviews colleague May Hui to glean insights from a decade of speed dating events and thousands of first dates. Discover why 60% of available candidates are overlooked, and why there's gold there to mine. Distance, height, ethnicity -- might you rethink these criteria? Hear about people who did...and what happened!
2020-02-1238 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 31 - Who's Getting It...And Who's Not!Why does dating go well for some people and...not for others? Join me as I shine a light on the WHY of both, through real life dating scenarios from this last week. What should she do when the date he doesn't grab the check, or when his idea of a fun second date turns you off. What about the Average Joe who's going for women who consistently turn him down? And what one woman did to unfreeze a man's heart!
2020-02-0236 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 30 - Taking Back ControlManaging the constant stream of communications that hit our desks and devices every day? It's maddening, and it's affected dating big time. Listen in as we address this pesky issue head on. Discover if your expectations regarding communicating are absurd and unreasonable, or ... manageable for the people in your life. Challenge yourself to take back control of your communications - so those who matter can find you and connect with you. And turn down the noise everywhere else - it may be the one thing that will change everything for you in your dating adventure!
2020-01-2733 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 29 - New Year, New Love LifeJoin me as I share some of last year's Success Stories, the couples who did manage to transform me to we! Discover how couples overcame obstacles like religion and distance, and how some seeds take years to sprout. Learn how to work an event and the magic in a second chance. Throw some parties of your own this year, get really good at engaging and initiating. And, this year, let's get you coupled up!
2020-01-0622 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 28 - Making Magical MomentsLaugh with me over 1958 advice on where and how to snag a man. Which tactics are outdated, and which are timeless and spot on today? I'll give you the courage to ditch that five year old photo and maybe change up your hair or drop those pesky ten pounds. Find out how Mr. GQ blew it at my party - and how to make your holiday events magical. And rethinking those deal-breakers; the long distance relationship that did work out and why it's totally fine that her income doubles his!
2019-12-2333 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 27 - Dangerous TriggersJoin me and Toronto matchmaker Carmelia Ray as we discuss the dangers of triggers over money, sex, and communication styles. How fear, anger and assumptions can derail your early dates. How to graciously handle difficult situations and develop a healthy first date mindset. The art and the discipline of staying in the present and the value in slowing down the pace of dating. How our social culture is strengthened by authenticity and compassionate communication, and the power of a sincere apology.
2019-12-0842 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 26 - How Good Guys Get GameJoin me as dating coach and matchmaker, Dan Silverman, reveals how the Good Guy can get the girl! Developing "Game" -- the casual, just-edgy-enough exterior that serves to attract women. Nurturing your inner game, mindset, playful behavior, and humor to draw a woman in. Managing rejection and learning how to be playful. What is cold approach pick-up, and why it's good to practice it. Plus, how women can avoid the narcissist and design a true modern day partnership! What is female game and how she can build it to inspire a man to step into relationship. Attraction vs au...
2019-12-0247 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 25 - Ageless DatingWe're in the midst of a demographic revolution. Nearly half of our population is over fifty. Listen in as I interview Senena Capanelli, co-founder of Age Nation, on how to grow and thrive separate from time. How to reframe and rename your story, maintaining and developing confidence through self-talk and how we speak with others. How the richness and depth of maturity is overpowering the myth of youth, enabling new, undiscovered capacity for love in dating and relationship today.
2019-11-1151 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 24 - The Sugar Daddy TrapIn this episode I call out the Sugar Daddy trap; why it's a tease and a dead end for her - and for him. Why being too picky will leave you child-less, and why your stated age preferences are turning off your real prospects!
2019-11-0332 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 23 - How To Discover Self-LoveHow disasters and disappointments can spur breakthroughs through inner work, studying and experiential learning. How heartbreak can throw us into accelerated growth and access to higher consciousness, propelling us to hew levels of compassion. How to move from suffering to healing, transforming that energy into a greater capacity for love, creativity and contribution.
2019-10-2751 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 22 - Sexy Boundaries...And Breezing Through Online DatingListen in as I interview Mike Goldstein, EZ Dating Coach, who has the answers to how to tweak your online dating methodology so that it becomes fun and fruitful for you. Sexy Boundaries; what are they and how do we set them in a way that brings a man closer? How much does a young guy truly want his date to reveal on that first date and how to co-created the pace of relationship and intimacy? Discover how every connection and every date is a bridge to build, not burn. Plus - the real reason your online dating photos...
2019-10-201h 01Cupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 21 - Finding Great Men Through The SisterhoodJoin me as I share with you how to find really good men right in your community. Why the vast majority of matchmakers have abandoned women - and what we can do about this tragedy. Why most dating agencies and matchmaking companies are too limited to serve you well. And you'll discover how to develop your own social network through hosting your own Plus One parties. It's your love life -- you get to design it!
2019-10-0634 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 20 - Dating In The #MeToo EraListen in as speaker and consultant Matthew Mitchell and I address this sticky issue. The challenges and the blessings that are presented to us as we re-examine sexuality, intimacy and communication in this modern era. It's a bold, honest conversation about how very real vulnerability is for women. Also we call out the responsibility women have for the message our attire and physical presentation conveys to men. How to nip harassment or unwanted advances in the bud, on the spot, whether on a date or in the office.
2019-09-0949 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 19 - The Power Of PlayfullnessListen in as I interview Tripp Kramer, renowned dating coach for men (TrippAdvice.com) on the guy's perspective in dating. How smart women are finding feminine ways to invite him to initiate. First date conversation flow, how to develop the courage to be persistent. and how to exit with honesty and integrity!
2019-08-2544 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 18 - When Julie Coaches Her Coach30 years after Manuel Manga coached me on how to find my partner, the tables have turned and now I have my former dating coach in the hot seat, addressing what romantic love is today. The dangers in The List, why wealth and beauty aren't the answer, what women can do to become easier to find, to date, and to love!
2019-08-1249 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 17 - Pickiness, Loneliness, and HappinessJoin me as I interview relationship expert Wendy Newman, author of 121 First Dates, revealing the truth about pickiness and how to evolve beyond it. Why dating the short guy might change everything for you. What to do if you're stuck in "One Date Wonderland" - and Happiness Habits that will transform loneliness into healthy self-love!
2019-08-0551 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 16 - Romance & IntimacyWhen romantic chemistry doesn't happen, why is that? "The Relationship Coach" Devon Loomis joins be to discuss how to develop the ability to connect with others, through falling in love with ourselves first. The real purpose of dating. The gifts in breakdown, conflict and triggers. When to go inward and when to engage? The dangers in pornography, as the ultimate disconnect and the exact opposite of intimacy, love, and healthy relationship.
2019-07-2143 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 15 - How To Be CourageousHow did Debbie find her guy? Why does a prince look like in today's modern world? Why your expectations could be your biggest barrier to finding relationship. Should you lose weight first, or date while you're on a fitness kick? And what to do with that phone of yours while you're on a date. This episode is all about courage, developing the courage to step outside your existing comfort zone, and the rewards that this extra courage will bring you!
2019-07-1437 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 14 - Small Town LoveWe take aim at dating in Santa Fe, New Mexico! The best venues for dining solo, how to make magic of Trader Joe's, The Coop, Whole Foods, and how Ecstatic Dance is for anyone and everyone. Hiking, cooking classes, art gallery socials, connection opportunities over music festivals, festivals and food trucks. Why we should never burn a bridge, chatting, flirting, initiating, getting good at capturing that phone number, and what about sober dating? How women can and should let him know she's open to his initiation, and how to let someone down easy, making a friend in the process...
2019-06-2041 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 13 - What Men Truly NeedJoin me as I tap into the wisdom of renowned dating coach for strong, successful women, Evan Marc Katz. What is compatibility, really? How to adjust our dating behavior and expectations in this world of rapidly evolving gender roles. Discover what men truly need from women, and how to be that woman who gets the best out of the men in your life. Why so many married couples are unhappy and how to manage your love life so that won't be you in the future.
2019-06-1057 min
The Relationship Coach PodcastConfessions of a Matchmaker | Julie Ferman The Relationship Coach Podcast Episode #2 with legendary matchmaker Julie Ferman and your host Devon Loomis.
How to understand men. How to understand women. Dating advice for men. Dating advice for women. Online dating advice. Dating advice. Looking for a dating coach? Here you go!
Julie has personally (one-on-one) worked with literally thousands of people in the world of dating and has insights that most of dream of. Wouldn't it be nice to sit down and pick the brain of a matchmaker? You'd probably get a ton of insight on how to, and not to, navigate the world of dating. On...
2019-06-031h 03Cupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 12 - Adventure DatingListen in as Mark Owen, Founder of Events and Adventures shares the value of social and athletic events as a vehicle for developing interpersonal skills and as a chance to explore common passions with like minded people. Why sleeping around and drinking too much will kill your options, how to dress up a coffee date, what "marrying up" really is, and how a guy who isn't looking for marriage ends up there...happily!
2019-06-0248 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 11 - Discover Your Love Lineage To Free Your SoulWhat is your love lineage? The Love Designer Renee Piane joines me to show how what we learned about love from our family of origin often blocks us from the relationship we're hoping to find; healing our own hearts through understanding and releasing historical pain. We explore the power of intuition and how sparks can ignite after decades of dormancy.
2019-05-2644 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 10 - Dating Disasters...And Miracles Too!Listen in as I share real life stories of dating mishaps and success from the archives of a real life matchmaker. People who got it right, who did dating well, and ... those who are messing things up royally. What can we learn from these wins and the tragic losses? How expectations and assumptions are your enemy, how texting or the absence of a text can ruin everything. How a dog can be your best flirting prop, when to let the guy pay, the valet parking dilemma, and the real truth about money in dating!
2019-05-1241 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 7 - Online Dating In A 2019 World Online Dating Guru Julie Spira jumps into the hot seat to talk getting off the hamster wheel, the paradox of online snooping, the reality of rebounds, and finding a true connection! We reveal how to manage age issues, height issues, food issues, finances, transients, and non-committals - plus photo tips, safety tips, creating a welcoming space, and much, much, more! Everything you need to succeed online - and get offline fast!
2019-04-2141 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanEp. 2 - The Female Side Of CourtshipWhat's a woman's role in dating today? Listen in as Julie interviews fellow matchmaker Marla Martenson about how smart women are putting the spin on courtship in the post #MeToo era. How can she get HIM to initiate? Should she text him a Thank You after the date? Attraction: WHY a man is stuck on his preferred body type, and what to do about it. Entitlement, expectations, and the too-quick-to-veto trap. Manifesting through affirmations, intuition and kindness, and how to NOT burn your bridges.
2019-03-1742 minCupid's Coach with Julie FermanWelcome To The Cupid's Coach Podast!I'm Julie Ferman, take a sneak peek at the road ahead as we laugh, learn, share, grow, and love!
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Dates and Mates with Damona HoffmanMatchmaking with Julie FermanFour-time award-winning Best Matchmaker Julie Ferman discusses why the best time to be single is now.
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